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Jenni Tooley PresentsJenni Tooley Presents: in the heartlight w/Mr JamesWelcome, once again, to our multi-faceted series: “in the heartlight”. Today we are finishing up (for now) our series of interviews with Mr. James of MrJames Workshop (aka Dalton) with a discussion about his video creation: “Creation”. I’m going to keep this one simple. Let’s let the work and the spoken words speak for themselves🥰 I suggest you watch the video before listening to our conversation and then revisit it as we talk our way through it. (There is also a transcript- it’s a mess but you can check it out if needed!)I hope you’v...2025-06-2957 min
The Spiritual GrindWho Am I? The Mirror Question That Changes EverythingSend us a textHave you ever caught yourself staring into the mirror, asking the profound question, "Who am I?" That moment of existential curiosity serves as the foundation for this illuminating episode of The Spiritual Grind, where we celebrate our milestone of 500 podcast downloads while diving deep into the nature of identity and purpose.The conversation begins with exciting news about the release of "Sales Energy Method" on Amazon—a book that transcends traditional sales techniques to offer profound insights on building authentic relationships in all aspects of life. But quickly, we pivot to th...2025-06-1947 minThe Spiritual GrindWhen we follow our joy step by step, amazing things happen.Send us a textHave you ever watched a child chase their dreams with complete abandon, never questioning if they could fail? There's a simple magic in that approach – one we often lose as adults. In this candid and surprisingly emotional episode, we unpack how rediscovering your childlike perspective could be the secret to breaking through creative barriers.Starting with a nostalgic tale of a roadside lemonade stand made from a minnow bucket and stolen styrofoam cups, we journey through the entrepreneurial adventures of childhood that taught more about authentic business than any formal education co...2025-06-1252 minThe Spiritual GrindWhat's Blocking Your Path to True Abundance?Send us a textWhat if everything you've been taught about abundance is keeping you broke? That's the profound question we tackle in this eye-opening conversation about redefining our relationship with money and abundance.Most of us have been conditioned to separate "wants" from "needs," reserving the "need" category strictly for bare survival essentials. We work ourselves to exhaustion, often juggling multiple jobs or sacrificing sleep, yet remain stuck in a paycheck-to-paycheck cycle. This isn't accidental—it's the direct result of inherited beliefs about money, worth, and what we deserve.We share a re...2025-06-0550 minThe Spiritual GrindSelf-Sacrifice vs. Soul Contracts: Finding Your Voice in a Spiritual JourneySend us a textThe spiritual path often leads us to struggle with a critical question: When is it appropriate to stop self-sacrificing and stand up for ourselves? In this enlightening conversation, we explore the emotional journey that comes with giving yourself permission to fight for what's right while maintaining spiritual integrity.Many spiritual seekers find themselves caught in patterns of excessive self-sacrifice, allowing difficulties to accumulate until their cup "runneth over." We discuss how standing up for yourself can initially feel uncomfortable—like you're "humanly interjecting" into a situation that should be handled with sp...2025-05-2242 min
Soul Level HumanAlign with Your Soul to Unlock Your Highest Timeline: Jenni Finley on Soul Contracts, Trusting the Signs, and Turning Your Calling into a Soul Level BusinessSend us a textIn this episode, I sit down with Jenni Finley, the energetic force behind Business by Design. You may know her fiancé and my business coach, James Wedmore, from last season’s episode. But today, Jenni shares the magic behind the scenes of the seven figure business they run together, the life they now share, and how courageous alignment unlocks your highest timeline.If you’ve ever wondered how to bridge spiritual tools with real-world results—this one’s for you.No gatekeeping: You’ll find all the ways to connect wit...2025-05-181h 04The Spiritual GrindYour Untapped Potential Is Waiting To Be DiscoveredSend us a textHave you ever wondered what talents remain undiscovered within you? What natural abilities you might have suppressed over the years because someone told you they weren't real or weren't acceptable?The journey of self-discovery is often blocked by limiting beliefs we've picked up throughout our lives. We've been conditioned to doubt our intuitive abilities and natural talents, especially those that don't fit neatly into society's box of "normal." Remember when you somehow knew the phone would ring before it did, or had a feeling about something before it happened? Those weren't...2025-05-1554 minThe Spiritual GrindFollowing BreadcrumbsSend us a textHave you ever followed a random inspiration that made absolutely no sense at the time? That's exactly what happened when we felt an inexplicable urge to visit the casino on what was supposed to be an ordinary day of appointments and errands.What followed was a fascinating journey of synchronicity, intuitive nudges, and ultimately, profound self-discovery. Parking in space "2C" (literally "to see" why we were there), we wandered the casino floor following subtle guidance. The experience wasn't about winning or losing money—though we did walk away with some extra ca...2025-05-1350 minThe Spiritual GrindEnergy Shifts: Finding Your Way BackSend us a textEver feel stuck in a low-energy rut and wonder how to climb back out? That's exactly what sparked this illuminating conversation about the deeply personal nature of energy management and spiritual alignment.When asked how to shift negative energy during a "human day," we dive into the fascinating reality that there's no universal formula that works for everyone. Some people find solace in creative activities, others in holding crystals, enjoying a specific beverage, or taking mindful walks. The commonality isn't in what you do, but in how it makes you feel...2025-05-0850 minThe Spiritual GrindYour Spiritual Spam Folder Might Be Full of Opportunities You're MissingSend us a textHave you ever had that nagging feeling you should turn left instead of right, or check out something that seemed beyond your reach, only to discover it was exactly what you needed? Those nudges and coincidences aren't random—they're breadcrumbs guiding you toward your highest path.In this episode of Spiritual Grind, we dive deep into the concept of recognizing and following signs from the universe. We share our personal experience of almost missing an incredible opportunity because our initial reaction was "we can't afford that" or "it's not possible." While sh...2025-05-0546 minThe Spiritual GrindTinkerbell Dropped Worry Dust on Your Head (Now What?)Send us a textWorry—that nagging voice that keeps us up at night yet accomplishes absolutely nothing. What if this seemingly universal human experience is actually just a belief system with its own consciousness, designed to keep itself alive at your expense?In this deeply illuminating conversation, we unpack why worry feels so necessary yet delivers zero value to our lives. Drawing from both spiritual understanding and practical psychology, we reveal how the brain's preference for the path of least resistance keeps us locked in worry cycles that feel impossible to break. Your beliefs cr...2025-05-0151 minThe Spiritual GrindAuthentic Living: Breaking Through Mental BarriersSend us a textWhat invisible forces are causing you to present a version of yourself that isn't authentic? In this deeply reflective conversation, we examine the powerful influence of perceived judgment on our behavior, revealing how the stories we create about others' thoughts dramatically shift our own actions.Most of us have changed our behavior because we believed others would judge us negatively, only to discover those perceptions were entirely fictional. This fear-based approach to relationships causes us to carry emotional baggage that isn't even ours, resulting in a heaviness that drags down our...2025-04-2450 minThe Spiritual GrindBreaking the Codependency CycleSend us a textHave you ever wondered why chaos seems to erupt the moment you step away from your responsibilities? The answer might lie deeper than you think. During this revealing conversation, I explore with Dr. Jenni how we unknowingly create codependent environments in our work and personal lives. After returning from a relaxing cruise to find disorder waiting for us, we recognized a pattern worth examining: the belief that "if we're not overseeing the ship, everything goes awry."This episode takes you on a journey through the psychology of needing to b...2025-04-1755 min
Jenni Tooley PresentsIn the heartlight w/Dalton James, Part 2Thanks to our supporters, we’re back with more from MrJames Workshop! In our last encounter, we introduced Dalton (Mr. James to you) and took a trip down memory lane. Today, we will pick up where we left off with the introduction of MrJames newest endeavor, Queer Cosmic Folk Art, more specifically, The Billies! (Now on tour in Eureka Springs).You’ll get the most out of the experience by listening to the podcast audio while following along with the text and images. If you can’t listen to the episode, check out the audio transcript- it’s messy but full...2025-04-111h 08The Spiritual GrindSpiritual Beings with Cruise Ship ProblemsSend us a textA Caribbean cruise sparked a profound realization: in our quest for spiritual growth, we often forget to be human. After seven days at sea, free from the constraints of daily life and constant connectivity, we discovered how easily we neglect the joy, spontaneity, and adventure that make life worth living.Many of us become so hyper-focused on our spiritual journey – clearing beliefs, raising consciousness, achieving goals – that we create an imbalance. We excel at structuring our work lives but fail to apply the same intentional approach to our enjoyment and pleasure. We'v...2025-04-1050 minThe Spiritual GrindNavigating Relationship Contrast: Part 2Send us a textEver wonder why the same conflicts keep showing up in your relationships? The answer lies in understanding contrast—that natural friction between two different people—and how it serves your growth rather than hinders it.Contrast isn't something to avoid but rather a powerful tool for evolution. When you understand what you don't want, you gain clarity about what you do want. This podcast explores how defensiveness in relationships often stems not from ego but from harsh self-judgment. When your partner points out something that triggers you, they're simply holding up a mi...2025-04-0320 min
Jenni Tooley PresentsIn the heartlight w/Dalton James of Mr James Workshop Part 1Hi Darlin! Welcome to our first episode of “in the heartlight”- an in-depth multimedia interview series! You’ll get the most out of the experience by listening to the podcast audio while following along with the text and images. If you can’t listen to the episode, check out the audio transcript- it’s messy but full of amazing insights and stories!We begin the series with my longtime friend and collaborator, Mr James-known to me as…Dalton.Mr. James (known by me as Dalton) is a Los Angeles-based artist and cosmic raconteur, s...2025-04-031h 08The Spiritual GrindHidden Triggers: Navigating Relationship ContrastSend us a textThe dance of intimacy often reveals our deepest triggers, and in this illuminating episode of The Spiritual Grind, we tackle the essential skill of preparing for contrast in relationships. Those moments when your partner says something that "rings your bell" aren't random accidents—they're profound opportunities for growth and deeper connection.We explore the challenging terrain of defensive reactions, uncovering why we sometimes respond with immediate resistance when our buttons get pushed. This resistance isn't about the other person—it's about the expectations we've placed on ourselves and the self-judgment that foll...2025-04-0136 minThe Spiritual GrindYour Partner Changed Again? That's Actually Great News!Send us a textWhat happens after you've found someone who checks all your boxes? In this illuminating continuation of our relationship series, we explore how to create a solid foundation that sets you up for long-term relationship success.Breaking through society's flawed messaging about relationships, we examine the critical understanding that even in the closest partnerships, you remain separate individuals with unique histories, beliefs, and desires. This recognition forms the bedrock of healthy relationship dynamics and creates space for genuine connection.We dive deep into the importance of clear communication about boundaries...2025-03-2753 minThe Spiritual GrindLove Catalog: Shopping for a Soulmate Without the DesperationSend us a textRelationships don't come with instruction manuals, but what if they did? In this enlightening continuation of our relationship series, we dive deep into the often-misunderstood process of manifesting your perfect partner after you've identified your patterns.The journey begins with a powerful reframing: your past relationships weren't failures or mistakes—they were perfectly orchestrated experiences designed for your spiritual growth. Once you embrace this perspective, you can move from self-judgment to self-awareness, recognizing yourself as the creator of your relationship experiences rather than their victim.We introduce a practical ap...2025-03-2551 minThe Spiritual GrindFix Your PickerSend us a textFinding true love starts with fixing your picker. If you've ever wondered why you keep attracting the same relationship dynamics with different people, this episode reveals the transformation waiting on the other side of self-awareness.We dive into the psychology behind broken "pickers" – those internal guidance systems that repeatedly lead us into partnerships that don't serve our highest good. By examining our past relationships with radical honesty, we can identify patterns, triggers, and compromises that have kept us stuck in cycles of disappointment. The journey begins with raising your self-worth high en...2025-03-2057 minThe Spiritual GrindWhat Are Your Pop-Up Windows Trying to Tell You?Send us a textWhat happens when those metaphorical "pop-up windows" appear in your life—those moments that seem like unintended consequences but might actually be divinely orchestrated opportunities? We dive deep into how these unexpected situations serve as powerful catalysts for spiritual growth and self-awareness.Just like those deceptive computer alerts claiming your device has viruses, our daily experiences often present us with situations that require discernment. Do we click the button out of fear or pause to examine what's really happening? The fascinating truth is that as we evolve spiritually, we begin to re...2025-03-1346 minThe Spiritual GrindAre You Disrupting Your Own Divine Timeline?Send us a textWhat happens when our human impatience collides with divine timing? This episode dives deep into how we often sabotage our manifestations by interfering with the perfect timelines our higher selves have created.Through the story of their motorhome purchase—a mysteriously pristine 8-year-old vehicle with just 10,000 miles—the hosts illustrate how manifestation works effortlessly when we're in alignment. The purchase itself flowed with remarkable ease, yet attempts to force a premature camping trip were met with fascinating resistance at every turn.The conversation explores a profound spiritual truth: the mome...2025-03-1157 minThe Spiritual GrindHow to Cultivate Gratitude for a Better LifeSend us a textEmbrace the transformative power of gratitude in your life! In this enriching podcast episode, we explore how cultivating appreciation can lead to greater self-awareness and personal empowerment. We delve into the significance of balance, revealing how the choices we make can free us to pursue fulfilling experiences. Discover practical ways to incorporate gratitude into your daily routines and understand its profound connection to your energy, emotional health, and interactions with others.Join us as we discuss the pillars of servant leadership, emphasizing the need for self-care and clear communication to support...2025-03-0652 minThe Spiritual GrindSuperbolous Fun: Redefining Joy in Everyday LifeSend us a textDive into a fun-packed episode where we explore how to rediscover joy and laughter in our everyday lives! Finding fun in our common routines can transform our experiences and alleviate the monotony that often creeps in as life gets busy. We share personal anecdotes filled with light-hearted humor and moments that sparked joy, highlighting the importance of turning our attention to the small pleasures.Join us as we discuss how cultural expectations can influence how we determine what activities are seen as enjoyable. With compelling stories about crickets, nap time, and...2025-03-0444 minThe Spiritual GrindThe Power of Unseen Influence in Our LivesSend us a textIn this eye-opening episode, we delve into the subtle yet powerful forces that shape our everyday decisions and behaviors. Have you ever felt influenced by things outside your control? From social pressures to marketing nuances, understanding these hidden drivers can lead us to a more empowered existence. We share fascinating insights into social influence, herd behavior, and the psychological principles that underpin our actions without our awareness. Real-life examples serve to highlight how these unseen influences manifest in our daily lives, offering listeners a tangible connection to the topic. Furthermore, we d...2025-02-2755 minThe Spiritual GrindEmbracing Eccentricity: Living Large in a Small WorldSend us a textStep into a world of self-discovery and personal empowerment in this episode where we tackle the challenges of living authentically in a judgmental society. Join us as we delve into personal experiences — from the peaceful joy of our thrilling first night in a motorcoach to the emotional challenges of facing societal expectations. We confront the judgments that often accompany a grand lifestyle, emphasizing that living large doesn't mean seeking approval from others.Throughout the episode, we draw a powerful narrative about the importance of empowering thoughts, not just within ourselves but al...2025-02-2556 minThe Spiritual GrindNavigating Emotional Ownership in PartnershipsSend us a textWhat if the key to a thriving relationship lies in redefining ownership and setting personal boundaries? Join us as we embark on a journey through the intricate dynamics of emotional ownership in relationships. Discover how taking on a partner's struggles, like self-diagnosed PTSD, can blur personal boundaries and lead to an unhealthy sense of responsibility. We promise to unravel the path to self-awareness, offering you tools to recognize and maintain your own emotional territory while respecting your partner's journey.In our exploration, we challenge societal norms and delve into the transformative...2025-02-201h 01