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The Girl Defined ShowBreaking the Porn Cycle and Finding Authentic Intimacy Instead w/ Dr. Joy SkarkaSend us a textWomen struggle with porn too.Have you ever experienced the fear and shame that follows the vortex of graphic movies, erotica, promiscuity, or porn sites? You may think you’re alone and feel like hiding. But you’re not alone—and there is hope and healing.We are all sexually broken. And we are all invited to participate in the love, forgiveness, and healing of Jesus. The great joy and passion of Dr. Joy Skarka is calling women to God’s gracious...
2025-04-2227 min
Beauty in the Brokenness- Christian Women (Bible Study, Faith, Sexuality, Freedom from Shame)Breaking Free: A Woman's Journey Out Of Porn Addiction with Dr Juli Slattery - Part 1 (SEXUAL WHOLENESS SERIES)In this episode, I speak with Dr. Juli Slattery about the growing issue of pornography addiction among women. We discuss how the porn industry has intentionally targeted women, the shame that keeps many trapped in silence, and the neurological and emotional factors that make it difficult to break free. Dr. Slattery shares insights from her book Her Freedom Journey, co-authored with Dr. Joy Skarka, which provides practical and biblical guidance for women seeking freedom from pornography. The conversation highlights the importance of surrendering to God's grace rather than simply trying harder and encourages women to find hope, healing, and...
2025-04-0127 min
Made to Advance with Brian AulickRecovery from sexual sin with pastor and author Noah Filipiak
Noah Filipiak is a pastor and author of Beyond the Battle: A Man's Guide to His Identity in Christ in an Oversexualized World. He and Brian talk about the prevalence of sexual sin, namely pornography, in our society and even in the church. Noah shares how community is essential for recovery and how we can have hope through accountability and faith.
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Noah Filipiak
Mosaic Church
Beyond the Battle: A Man's Guide to His Identity in Christ in an Oversexualized World
Needed Navigation: A Teen’s Guide to His or Her Identity in Christ in a Se...
2025-02-051h 07
The Mom Next Door: Stories of Faith223 - Overcoming Shame and Addiction - Joy SkarkaJoy's exposure to p*rn in fifth grade and a traumatic college experience created a burden and contributed to trapping her in a cycle of shame. But through God's grace, Joy discovered a path to freedom and healing.
Today, Joy opens up about overcoming shame and destructive habits, addressing the lack of conversation around women's struggles with pornography within church communities. Her insights, drawn from surveying over 1,000 Christian women, reveal how understanding God's design for sexuality and fostering intimacy with Him and a supportive community can lead to profound transformation.
Find her...
2024-12-1434 min
Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have OneSingle With a Sex Drive, Part 2 (with Dr. Joy Skarka)#136: In this episode, Kim and Leah welcome Dr. Joy Skarka, author of Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy. They discuss the journey of freedom for those struggling with unwanted sexual behaviors.
They explore Dr. Joy's personal freedom journey, her new book, and the growing issue of pornography among women. The conversation emphasizes the damaging effects of pornography, the misconception that marriage will solve sexual struggles, and the spiritual aspects of sexuality.
Listeners are encouraged to steward their sexual desires and seek support...
2024-10-2242 min
Old School Food Freedom49: Finding Freedom from P*ornography & S3xual Shame, Part 2, with Dr. Joy SkarkaTell us your story! For many of us, the “sex talk” is a reminder that there’s shame around the topic of sex. And yet God has such a beautiful purpose for sex in a marriage! Men and women are living in such sexual shame—but that doesn’t have to be the case. You get to change the course of that story for your family! And there are plenty of resources available to you. Dr. Joy Skarka is back with me for Part 2 of this conversation (find Part 1 here) where we continue with the importance of talking ab...
2024-10-2231 min
Wonderfully MadeFinding Freedom from Pornography — with Dr. Joy Skarka and Allie Marie SmithDo you struggle with viewing pornography or sexual brokenness? In this episode, Allie Marie Smith and Dr. Joy Skarka discuss the sensitive and serious topic of pornography addiction. They highlight the prevalence of pornography among women and the various forms it takes, such as online videos, TV shows, movies, and erotica. Dr. Skarka shares her personal story of finding freedom from pornography addiction and emphasizes the importance of discovering one's identity in Christ and seeking support from a safe Christian woman. They also address the lies women can believe about sexuality and the need to break free from them...
2024-10-2227 min
Old School Food Freedom48: Finding Freedom from P*ornography & S3xual Shame, Part 1, with Dr. Joy SkarkaTell us your story! It is possible to find freedom in Christ from s3xual shame and struggles like p*rnography. (Ladies listen up, because this isn’t a topic that only applies to men.) Too many women are living with s3xual shame and guilt. And for many that spirals into eating issues and negative self-talk. Dr. Joy Skarka joins me for this 2-part conversation and we begin with her story. She also shares relevant eye-opening statistics, what parents need to know, and what we all need to hear about salvation in these struggles. Friends, I kn...
2024-10-0831 min
Anchored by the SwordJoy Skarka's Freedom Story!On today’s episode, I get to have a raw and powerful conversation with Joy Skarka, Director of Discipleship at Authentic Intimacy, about turning pain into passion and the journey to healing and freedom. Joy’s story is one that many women can relate to but few speak openly about. She shares how, after being sexually assaulted on her third day of college, she was plunged into a season of pain, isolation, and shame. Like so many, she turned to the internet for answers about sex and sexuality, which led to a secret addiction to pornography—a coping mechanism that l...
2024-10-0819 min
PSR PodcastHer Freedom Journey (with Dr. Joy Skarka)In this episode, I have back on the program our delightful friend and colleague Dr. Joy Skarka to talk about her new book, "Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy," co-authored with Dr. Juli Slattery. Joy shares her personal journey and the mission of Authentic Intimacy, a ministry dedicated to helping individuals reclaim God's design for sexuality. We discuss the unique challenges women face with pornography, the importance of understanding God's unconditional love, and the journey toward sexual integrity – which emphasizes the power of truth, engaging community, and sharing one's story to...
2024-09-2532 min
Abiding in Christ w/ Jim WoodInterview with Dr. Joy Skarka, Her Freedom JourneyProgram for 09/13/24 Jim Wood: Interview with Dr. Joy Skarka, Her Freedom Journey
2024-09-1325 minAbiding in Christ w/ Jim WoodInterview with Dr. Joy Skarka, Her Freedom JourneyProgram for 09/13/24 Jim Wood: Interview with Dr. Joy Skarka, Her Freedom Journey
2024-09-1325 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolAuthentic Intimacy, Sexual Wholeness, and Freedom from Shame for Christian WomenChristian women, young and old, often struggle with a disconnect between what their intellect may know is "right" about sexuality, God, and relationships, and what their own experience has been. Pornography or other ungodly sexual behaviors only add to their sexual shame and feeling of being stuck. On this episode Dr. Carol talks with Dr. Joy Skarka, director of discipleship for Authentic Intimacy, about the journey God invites every woman into of discovering the full love of God, how to grow into freedom from sexual shame regardless of your story, and the experience of true intimacy as G...
2024-08-2038 min
Sex Chat for Christian WivesMyth-busting What You've Heard about Sex, with Gaye Christmus!The gang's all together again! Gaye Christmus joins us to talk about myths about sex, where they come from, and what truths wives need to embrace instead. Sponsor Married Dance – a Christian sex toy store From the Bible I slept but my heart was awake. Listen! My beloved is knocking: "Open to me, my sister, my darling, my dove, my flawless one. My head is drenched with dew, my hair with the dampness of the night." I have taken off my robe— must I put it on again? I have...
2024-07-3131 min
The Greta Eskridge PodcastFinding Freedom—women and porn addiction with Dr. Joy SkarkaIn this episode I have the absolute pleasure of talking to Dr. Joy Skarka. Joy is a leader in helping women find freedom and healing from sexual shame with her doctoral work, leading seminars and workshops with Authentic Intimacy, and now is the author of a new book on the topic, Her Freedom Journey—a guide out of porn and shame to authentic intimacy. In her book, Joy bravely shares her own journey from addiction to freedom. She educates her readers on the way porn use fuels harm, addiction and shame. But she doesn’t leave us there...
2024-07-3051 min
Beyond Ordinary Women PodcastCaring for Women who Struggle with PornWhat does helping women who struggle with porn look like? What can Christians, especially Christian leaders, do? Dr. Joy Skarka joins Dr. Kay Daigle to share her personal experience and knowledge to help Christians understand how to care well for women caught up in porn. Joy provides a wealth of information and practical suggestions for both Christian women who influence or lead other women and also parents who desire to protect their children. Helping women who struggle with porn is essential to loving our neighbors.
You can connect to the video version if you prefer. Don't miss the helpful resources...
2024-07-1639 min
The Flip Side with Noah FilipiakEp. 98: Dr. Joy Skarka on Overcoming Porn & Finding Freedom from ShameNoah has a conversation with Dr. Joy Skarka about her journey of overcoming pornography, as well as the stigma and shame that it came with. Joy is on staff at Authentic Intimacy, which provides a multitude of resources to help men, women, and couples overcome unwanted sexual behavior and find healing. She and Dr. Juli Slattery's new book Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy is available on July 2nd, 2024. Be sure to pick up your copy today.
Dr. Joy Skarka is the Authentic Intimacy Program Manager and is on the front lines of serv...
2024-07-021h 01Sex Chat for Christian WivesWomen's Freedom from Porn, with Juli Slattery & Joy Skarka Juli Slattery & Joy Skarka join us today for a candid conversation about women and their struggle with porn. If you struggle, this episode will help. But if you don't, listen anyway so that you can be there to support fellow women trying to break free. And be sure to check out the new resource, Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out Of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy, cowritten by Dr. Juli Slattery and Dr. Joy Skarka Sponsor Thanks to Share the Soap, your go-to site for natural, quality bath and skin care products...
2024-07-0244 min
The Ardent WifeNavigating Sexual Sin In Marriage with Dr. Joy SkarkaDr. Joy and the Ardent Wives explored authentic intimacy, sexual sin, and shame today. They talk about overcoming shame, breaking down boundaries, and disclosing your past with your spouse.
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Institute for Sexual Wholeness
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Her Freedom Journey
2024-06-0248 minBeyond Ordinary Women PodcastRecognizing Rape Culture with Dr. Joy SkarkaWhat is rape culture? Dr. Joy Skarka joins Kay Daigle to discuss it and ways to better care for and support victims in the church. Often the church is guilty of supporting rape culture. Joy speaks from her personal experience as well as her study and ministry focus on sexuality with Authentic Intimacy. This is a must-see episode for every disciple of Jesus. You can choose to watch it on video if you prefer. Don't miss the helpful resources found below.
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2:26 - Joy's story
4:01 – Clarification of terminology
5:26 – What is rape culture?
6:40 – Why do women not report rape?
9:51 – Christians often encourag...
2024-05-2132 min
Female by Design173. Hope After Pornography with Kristin RichardsonWe all have a story. And, our story informs and shapes our present reality, especially the ways we show up in the most intimate and vulnerable spaces. In this episode, you'll hear a beautifully redemptive story. Kristin Richardson from the Fearless In Love podcast joins to share the journey she and her husband Todd made through the devastation of sexual brokenness. While pornography is part of Todd's story, there is greater depth behind that sin struggle. Kristin brings insight, understanding and so much wisdom as she shares how the Lord has brought restoration, healing and...
2023-10-0953 min
Pure Victory Podcast171. Breaking Shame Through Sexual Discipleship with Joy SkarkaWelcome to episode #171! This week, Matt and Braden talk with Joy Skarka of Authentic Intimacy about her story of rape and addiction, breaking shame, and embracing God's good design of sexual desire.Joy's rape led to coping in her porn addictionJoy got raped on her third day of university, which led to lots of confusion and pain. She tried to understand what had happened to her by learning about sex on Google. This led her to porn, which turned into her coping mechanism in her anger and confusion regarding her rape. Joy wondered if...
2023-08-0929 min
OCF Crosspoint Podcast"Struggling in silence": Talking through God's design for sexuality and the single womanStruggling in silenceGot an idea for a guest or topic? If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF's "Be a Guest" webpage. Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic I should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to podcast@ocfusa.org. Show Notes: On the heels of several episodes on the topics of pornography and sexuality with CAPT Brent & Nicole Breining, USN (Ret.), Dr. Joy Skarka joins me on the podcast for a similar conversation, except we'll approach this topic...
2023-07-1234 min
The Table PodcastGod's Design for Sexuality - ClassicIn this classic episode, Bill Hendricks, Juli Slattery, and Joy Skarka discuss authentic intimacy, focusing on God’s design for sexuality. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
2023-06-0649 minFemale by DesignBetrayal & Sexual Addiction with Bonny BurnsA tender, honest conversation as Bonny shares her vulnerable testimony and healing journey through deep betrayal caused by pornography and sex addiction in her marriage. There is tremendous trauma and hurt in a marriage experiencing a death of trust. Bonny speaks into betrayal from a personal and clinical perspective, providing you with understanding, empathy and thoughtful steps to take toward healing for both partners. If betrayal has touched your life, know you are not alone. There is great hope and healing possible, especially with the help of trained professionals and the power of the Holy...
2023-04-1749 minFemale by DesignPornography & Sexual Shame to Freedom with Joy Skarka"God takes our brokenness and turns it into our passion." Joy Skarka With vulnerability and authenticity, Joy shares her story which includes sexual trauma that led to a struggle with pornography. As a girl struggling with porn, she felt isolation and carried tremendous shame. Yet, there is help and healing. And, we are never alone in our struggle. This episode is a rich discussion across many topics including sexuality, discipleship, singleness and pornography, with encouraging theology and an unpacking of our need to be known, loved, and to give and receive lo...
2023-01-301h 01Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have OneSingle With a Sex Drive#77: This might be our spiciest episode yet, because we’re talking about being single... with a sex drive! Why did God give us sexual desires in singleness if he doesn’t want us to act on them? How are we supposed to view our sexuality as a good thing, but pursue purity at the same time? When does a sexual urge become sin? Joy Skarka is here to answer all of our spicy questions!
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2022-12-0641 min
Honestly, ThoughEpisode 59 | Women, Pornography, & Sexual Shame | Guest: Dr. Joy Pedrow SkarkaAuthor and speaker Dr. Joy Pedrow Skarka joins Rebecca Carrell and Liz Rodriguez to share her journey of sexual healing and how to minister to those who struggle.Find more about Dr. Joy Skarka on Facebook at @JoyPedrowSkarka; or at https://www.authenticintimacy.com/?referrer=self If you enjoy the show, would you please consider rating and reviewing Honestly, Though? Those reviews help others find us in the PodUniverse, and we deeply appreciate the love! Also, you can reach out to us personally to join the conversation on the following platforms:Rebecca Carrell: https...
2022-11-1425 min
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Porn is a woman's problem too... We have seen stats ranging between 30 and 40% of women watch porn regularly... If you're stuck in the cycle of watching porn as a...
2022-07-1236 min
The Daily Grace PodcastPornography: It’s a Women’s Issue, Too with Joy SkarkaThis is the second episode in this series on pornography, and Shelby is joined this week by Dr. Joy Skarka. Dr. Joy Skarka is passionate about creating spaces to free women from sexual shame. Dr. Joy shares her story of sexual shame and addiction and the path to freedon that she has found in Jesus. Joy is the Director of Discipleship for Authentic Intimacy, where she leads online small groups for women with unwanted sexual behavior. She coaches and teaches Christian leaders how to help women find freedom from sexual shame and pornography. Joy has written numerous online articles...
2022-05-1749 min
Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have OneWhat Porn Doesn't Tell You#48: Our culture encourages us to explore our sexuality through pornography and masturbation. We're told porn will "help" our future marriage as we discover what we enjoy sexually. But, what if that's not true? What if there are some important things that we aren't told about porn?
Our guest this week is Joy Skarka. As a young woman, she experienced sexual trauma and turned to porn to process what happened. What began out of curiosity quickly became an addiction.
Joy joins us to share her powerful story of healing and freedom, and she exposes the lies tha...
2022-02-2839 min
The Table PodcastGod’s Design for SexualityIn this episode, Bill Hendricks, Juli Slattery, and Joy Skarka discuss authentic intimacy, focusing on God’s design for sexuality. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
2022-01-2549 minThe Girl Defined ShowFreedom from Porn & Sexual Struggles for Women with Joy SkarkaSend us a textSexual struggles are often portrayed as a "guy only" issue. This is a major disservice to women. God created both men and women as sexual beings. One is not more sexual than the other. Both struggle with sexual temptation and addiction. Both need the help and hope of the gospel. In today's conversation, Joy Skarka shares her story of date rape in college and how the pain from that experience led her into sexual struggles of her own. Her story is one of healing, freedom and victory. If you desire hope f...
2021-10-1842 min
Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell46: Joy's Journey: Overcoming Shame, Porn, and Painful SexDan interviewed Joy Skarka from Authentic Intimacy. Joy's story can be described in one word: freedom. She is passionate about creating spaces to free women from shame. Tune in to hear how Joy found freedom from sexual abuse, sexual addiction, and how she navigates painful sex. Joy is the Authentic Intimacy's Director of Discipleship. To learn more about Joy and her work visit Authentic Intimacy.
2021-09-0834 min
Sanctuary Woman with Morgan StrehlowSummer of Sex Ed: Pornography with Joy SkarkaDespite us being made to believe that porn is mostly a man’s issue, many women struggle with porn addiction, which is why I have asked my friend Joy Skarka to chat with us about pornography. Joy serves as the Director of Discipleship for Authentic Intimacy, where Joy participates in their mission of providing sexual discipleship to Christian women and couples. Like me, Joy is passionate about creating spaces to free women from shame. TRIGGER WARNING: Please be made aware that there is one mention of sexual violence early in our conversation as Joy shares a personal st...
2021-06-3035 min
Kingdom Sexuality43: Pornography & Women: A Redemptive MessageLet's get this straight: Porn is not a men's only battle. In this episode, Authentic Intimacy's Joy Skarka shares her raw & redemptive story in her own battle with porn, masturbation, shame, and coping from sexual assault, turned to equipping and leading women towards freedom through Christ coming from similar back-stories. This is an episode you do NOT want to miss.
2021-05-1024 min
Kingdom Sexuality43: Pornography & Women: A Redemptive MessageLet's get this straight: Porn is not a men's only battle. In this episode, Authentic Intimacy's Joy Skarka shares her raw & redemptive story in her own battle with porn, masturbation, shame, and coping from sexual assault, turned to equipping and leading women towards freedom through Christ coming from similar back-stories. This is an episode you do NOT want to miss.
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2021-05-1025 min
Compared to Who? Body Image for Christian WomenPornography, Shame, and Finding FreedomPorn can have a huge impact on our body image and relationships. Now 32% of porn users are women and I receive messages every week from women who are struggling with the impact of porn on their marriage. Today It talk to Joy Skarka, an expert on this topic. She has a powerful testimony of finding freedom in this arena and helps women break free from the shame porn brings. This is an issue that's growing and impacting even the youngest eyes--so listen today and learn what you can do to fight this battle or help someone you love fight...
2021-03-2939 min
The Fierce Freedom PodcastLet's Talk About Sex! Part III, Feat. Joy SkarkaDid you know that studies show 1 in 3 women watch porn at least once a week? But so many women who want to come out of their addiction never get help because they feel so ashamed and outside the "cultural norms." As part III of our series to take the shame out of sex we invited Joy Skarka, Director of Discipleship for Authentic Intimacy and currently pursuing her Doctorate to study how women find freedom from sexual shame. Joy shares about her own journey through porn addiction and how others can find true freedom, explaining how...
2021-02-1631 min
Pursuits of PassionLife After Sexual Assault: Healing, Marriage and Sex On today's episode Joy Skarka joins us. She is the director of discipleship at Authentic Intimacy and is passionate about sharing her story of redemption. Joy was recently published in a book titled Sanctified Sexuality where she writes about Forced Sexuality. Today we get to hear her story and how her experience with sexual assault has affected her spiritual life as well as her married life. Joy gives us a glimpse into what intimacy looks like after healing from a difficult sexual past and she also is not shy when stating blessings she has seen along the way. R...
2020-12-2941 min
The Purpose in Purity Podcast with Titania PaigePinP 32: Authentic Intimacy: Accountability, Support & CommunityHey, guys! Thanks for joining me again in another episode of the Purpose in Purity Podcast. This week is a little different as I announce my intention to shift my focus in life. As my family and I are moving more intently toward becoming a missionary family in Japan, I can no longer devote what I feel is an adequate amount of attention to you all in our support group. But I'd never leave you hanging! Here in this episode I've asked Joy Skarka, a long-time friend and the Director of Discipleship for Authentic Intimacy, to come and tell...
2020-12-0825 min
Bad SeminariansThe Birds and The Bees: A Theology of SexJust a heads up: Today, we're talking about sex.Joy Skarka joins Janay and Christian to talk through a healthy theology of sex, what it means to pursue intimacy, and talks through some resources for the church.Follow us:IG: @badseminariansTwitter: @BSeminariansJanay's IG + Twitter: @janaywithawhyChristian's IG + Twitter: @thecw1990Follow Joy:IG: @joyskarkaTwitter: @JoyPedrowSkarkaResources mentioned:"Pure" by Linda Kay Kleinauthenticintimacy.comJava with Juli podcast found at authenticintimacy.com/podcastsexualdiscipleship.com
2020-12-0229 minThe Purpose in Purity Podcast with Titania PaigePinP 27: Healing from Sexual Shame & TraumaEver feel like your sexual desires are too much or you (or God) to handle as a Jesus-loving gal? Find encouragement as Joy Skarka and I discuss healing from sexual shame and healing from experiences of sexual trauma. By the end of our time together, you’ll have some practical guidance on seeking freedom and hope right where you presently are in your struggle.
2020-10-1333 min
Honest Conversations | HeartStrong FaithEp. 64 | A Sacrifice Of Praise In Suffering | Guest: Joy Pedrow SkarkaAchalasia is an extremely rare disorder that causes the esophagus - the muscle that helps you swallow - to stop working. Joy Pedrow Skarka recently received this frightening diagnosis and spent over 30 days alone in the hospital in the midst of a global pandemic. Even in great pain, she has managed to praise her Savior. In episode 64 of the Honest Conversations Podcast, Joy shares her story of God's Presence in the midst of deep physical and emotional pain. Like what you hear? Please rate, review, subscribe, and recommend the Honest Conversations Podcast. Plus, we want to hear from...
2020-08-1735 min
PSR PodcastFreedom & Healing from Shame, Addiction, and AbuseMany women have faced the terrible trauma of sexual abuse and rape. How can a woman heal and recover from such deep pain? In this episode, Joy Skarka shares her personal story of sexual brokenness and how the grace of God intersected with her pain to bring lasting healing and freedom. Wherever you are in your journey, may Joy's story bring you hope and courage.For helpful resources for women, visit AuthenticIntimacy.com or Women.Bebroken.com.
2020-06-3028 min