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The A to Z of SexEncore: C is for Conscious sexEncore: C is for Conscious sex with Dr Lori Beth BisbeyWe apologise for doing an encore, Dr Bisbey has been Ill and unable to record an episode for this week.2022-10-2456 minThe A to Z of SexEncore: C is for Conscious sexEncore: C is for Conscious sex with Dr Lori Beth BisbeyWe apologise for doing an encore, Dr Bisbey has been Ill and unable to record an episode for this week.2022-10-2456 minThe A to Z of SexR is for Recharging with Jasmin St ClairR is for Recharging with Jasmin St Clair and Dr Lori Beth Bisbey2022-08-081h 05The A to Z of SexR is for Recharging with Jasmin St ClairR is for Recharging with Jasmin St Clair and Dr Lori Beth Bisbey2022-08-081h 05The A to Z of SexEncore: Q is for Quarantine SexEncore: Q is for Quarantine Sex with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey2022-08-0155 minThe A to Z of SexEncore: Q is for Quarantine SexEncore: Q is for Quarantine Sex with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey2022-08-0155 minThe A to Z of SexP is for Pox, Player, Polyamory, and PolygamyP is for Pox, Player, Polyamory, and Polygamy with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey2022-07-2558 minThe A to Z of SexP is for Pox, Player, Polyamory, and PolygamyP is for Pox, Player, Polyamory, and Polygamy with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey2022-07-2558 minThe A to Z of SexO is for Oxygen DeprivationO is for Oxygen Deprivation with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey2022-07-1834 minThe A to Z of SexO is for Oxygen DeprivationO is for Oxygen Deprivation with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey2022-07-1834 minThe A to Z of SexEncore: N is for No ShameEncore: N is for No Shame with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey2022-07-1151 minThe A to Z of SexEncore: N is for No ShameEncore: N is for No Shame with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey2022-07-1151 minThe A to Z of SexM is for Mismatched Desire/Libido with Cyndi DarnellM is for Mismatched Desire/Libido with Cyndi Darnell and Dr Lori Beth Bisbey2022-07-0449 minThe A to Z of SexM is for Mismatched Desire/Libido with Cyndi DarnellM is for Mismatched Desire/Libido with Cyndi Darnell and Dr Lori Beth Bisbey2022-07-0449 minThe A to Z of SexEncore: L is for LGBTQ+Encore: L is for LGBTQ+ with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey2022-06-2755 minThe A to Z of SexEncore: L is for LGBTQ+Encore: L is for LGBTQ+ with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey2022-06-2755 minThe A to Z of SexEncore: K is for KinkEncore: K is for Kink with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey2022-06-1956 minThe A to Z of SexEncore: K is for KinkEncore: K is for Kink with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey2022-06-1956 min
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Sex Spoken HerePart 2 on IntimacyPart 1 can be found on The A to Z of Sex. Welcome to Sex Spoken Here. I’m Dr Lori Beth and I am your host. Just a reminder this podcast deals with adult content, so if you don’t have total privacy, you might want to put on your headphones. Intimacy is defined as a close familiarity, deeply knowing another person. Emotional intimacy is built by getting to know someone deeply – sharing confidences. Physical intimacy includes many forms of sexual contact. Joining me today is Georgia Rose, found...2018-12-2025 minSex Spoken HereReboot: Sex Love stories: RPlease enjoy again: Sex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories: R Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today we will be talking about bisexuality and BDSM. Joining me is Rudo Mashongomende. She is 33 years old, bisexual and she works in fashion. She has always been drawn to the world of BDSM but always felt, or...2018-12-1449 minSex Spoken HereReboot: BDSM and Power Exchange Part 4Please enjoy again: BDSM and Power Exchange Part 4 Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Thanks for joining me for part 4 of this series on BDSM and Power Exchange. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. In parts 1-3 of this series we examined BDSM and power exchange from a number of angles. This week, I look at the practicalities for getting started if BDSM an...2018-12-0627 minSex Spoken Herereboot: Sex Spoken Here: BDSM and Power Exchange Part 5Please enjoy again: Sex Spoken Here: BDSM and Power Exchange Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Last week I explored the practicalities for beginning to explore BDSM and Power Exchange. This week I explore basic rules for events and resources for BDSM online and in the community. If you haven’t heard the first four of the BDSM and...2018-11-2927 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here: Mason deRou Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. This week I am interviewing Mason deRou. Master Mason deRou is a primal Master who began his walk into the public kink scene in 2009. He has dominion over Miss Kimi deRou and together they form La Maison deRou. Mason is also the commander of La Meute de Rougaroux (the Rougarou Pack). He...2018-11-1527 minSex Spoken HereMama Vi part 1I'm sorry for the mix up, here is Mama Vi part 1: Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. I had the privilege of interviewing Mama Vi Johnson when I was at Master slave Conference in August 2018. Viola Johnson is a leather woman, vampire and author who has been active in the leather BDSM scene for...2018-11-1325 minSex Spoken HereMama Vi 3Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Politics trigger warning: In this episode, we talk about politics – a lot. I had the privilege of interviewing Mama Vi Johnson when I was at Master slave Conference in August 2018. Viola Johnson is a leather woman, vampire and author who has been active in the leather BDSM scene for over three decades. A mentor and confid...2018-11-0820 minSex Spoken HereMaster Black ZeusMaster Black Zeus Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this Vlog deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. This is part 2 of my interview with Master Black Zeus. Part one can be found on the A to Z of Sex podcast, Z is for Black Zeus. I had the opportunity interview Master Black Zeus during Master Slave Conference 2018. He is a community elder who entered the leather commu...2018-10-1330 minSex Spoken HerePam Costa 3Sex Spoken Here Pam Costa Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this Vlog deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am on location, in NJ, in my childhood bedroom, and we are talking about what happens when you discover that you and your partner have mismatched levels of desire. It is often not easy to spot this at the beginning of a relationship becaus...2018-09-2623 minSex Spoken HerePam Costa 2Sex Spoken Here Pam Costa Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this Vlog deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am on location, in NJ, in my childhood bedroom, and we are talking about what happens when you discover that you and your partner have mismatched levels of desire. It is often not easy to spot this at the beginning of a relationship becaus...2018-09-2021 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here Pam Costa 1Sex Spoken Here Pam Costa Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this Vlog deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am on location, in NJ, in my childhood bedroom, and we are talking about what happens when you discover that you and your partner have mismatched levels of desire. It is often not easy to spot this at the beginning of a relationship becaus...2018-09-1212 minSex Spoken HereIs Poly for YouSex Spoken Here Is Polyamory for You Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this Vlog deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. polyamory and non-monogamy have become incredibly trendy in the last few years. One of the main reasons people give for non-monogamy is how hard it is for one person to meet all of your needs. People who are monogamous and have strong f...2018-08-3021 minSex Spoken HereRewards and PunishmentsSex Spoken Here Vlog Rewards and Punishments Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this Vlog deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am talking about rewards and punishments. This may seem an unusual topic for sex and relationships. However, I was talking about authority transfer based relationships recently with a friend about rewards and punishments and when I thought more about it, the topic a...2018-08-1016 minSex Spoken HereReboot: Care and Feeding of the Penis Part 2Please enjoy again: Care and Feeding of the Penis Part 2 Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I finish my series about the care and feeding of the penis. Joining me today is Dr Pat Williams. Dr. Pat has been a psychologist and Life coach for over three decades and focuses on people living on purpose, mentally, emotionally, and p...2018-07-2535 minSex Spoken HereReboot: Sex Spoken Here: Let's Talk about Gender Part 3Please enjoy again: Sex Spoken Here: Let’s Talk about Gender part 3 Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am continuing my series about gender. Joining me today to continue the discussion is Dr Meg-John Barker. They are a writer, therapist, and activist-academic specialising in sex, gend...2018-07-1833 minSex Spoken HereReboot: Sex Spoken HEre: Choosing the Right Sex ToyPlease enjoy again: Sex Spoken Here: Choosing the Right Sex Toy Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. This week I am talking about choosing the right sex toy. Joining me today, is Katy, the public relations director and resident sexologist at Adam and Eve. Katy is a native of Tenness...2018-07-1144 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here: Difference between BDSM and AbuseSex Spoken Here: What is the Difference Between BDSM and Abuse Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. This week I am talking about the difference between BDSM and Abuse. The difference between BDSM and an abuse or an abusive relationship in a word: CONSENT. Everything done in a BDSM relationship is done with the consent of all part...2018-07-0418 minSex Spoken HereReboot: Sex Spoken Here: pervertablesWelcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am continuing my series on sex toys. So far in this series, I looked at vibrators and vibrating toys, dildos and butt plugs, and talked with Chrystal Bougon of Curvy Girl and Bliss. If you haven’t had the opportunity to listen to the first three episodes in the series, I encourage you to do so...2018-06-2721 minSex Spoken HereReboot: Care and Feeding of the PenisWelcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I start my series about the care and feeding of the penis. Joining me today is GP Walsh. Son of a schizophrenic mother and an absent father, GP’s earliest memory is being tied to his bed, to keep him from wandering. The years of abuse and emotional deprivation were offset by a natural gift for an...2018-06-1340 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here: Overcoming ShameSex Spoken Here: Overcoming Shame Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. This week I am talking about overcoming shame. Dr Brene Brown is a shame researcher. One of my favourite quotes of hers is: ‘Loving ourselves through the process of owning our story is the bravest thing we’ll ever do’. Shame is one of the most common...2018-06-0621 minSex Spoken HereReboot: Sex Spoken Here: Let's Talk About Gender 2Please enjoy again: Sex Spoken Here: Let’s Talk about Gender part 1 Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am continuing my series about gender. Last week I started my discussion with Melvin Marsh. Today we are continuing that discussion. If you haven’t heard part 1, go on and download it and have a li...2018-05-3047 minSex Spoken HereReboot: Sex Spoken Here: Let's Talk About Gender part 1Please enjoy again: Sex Spoken Here: Let’s Talk about Gender part 1 Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am beginning a series about gender. When I was growing up, many people saw gender as either male or female. There were sometimes people who were referred to as transsexual who felt they were bo...2018-05-2345 minSex Spoken HereReboot: Sex Spoken Here: Littles and Bigs and Age Play TRIGGER WARNINGPlease enjoy again: Littles and Bigs Age Play Sex Spoken Here: Littles and Bigs and Age Play TRIGGER WARNING Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am starting my series on littles, bigs and age play. This area of kink often really upsets people. Many people see it as related to...2018-05-1650 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here: Happily ever afterSomeday my prince/princess will come… Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today we will talk about the two myths that I believe cause the most problems for us in creating relationships that work and keeping them working long term. ‘Someday my prince will come’. ‘And they all lived happily ever after’. Many of us were raised with these f...2018-05-0924 minSex Spoken HereReboot: Sex Love Stories: LPlease enjoy: Sex Love Stories: L Sex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories: L Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. In today’s story, we will cover bisexuality and non-monogamy. Joining me is L who is a bisexual woman in a long term relationship with a man. She has recently moved into a polyam...2018-05-0235 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here: Arousal Non concordanceSex Spoken Here: Arousal Non-concordance: When your Body says ‘yes’ but you don’t want sex and aren’t enjoying it. Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. This week I am talking about arousal nonconcordance. What? Huh? I can hear you saying. In simple terms, arousal nonconcordance is when your genital response doesn’t not match your interna...2018-04-2519 minSex Spoken HereReboot: Sex Love Stories 6Here is a reboot of Sex Love Stories 6, please enjoy: Sex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories 6: Anita Cassidy Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today is the sixth instalment of the sex love series. Joining me today is author Anita Cassidy. Anita describes herself as a white British woman, age 41 who grew up...2018-04-1837 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here: Beyond Me TooSex Spoken Here: After #metoo Recovering from Sexual assault Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Joining me today is Carolin Hauser-Carson, German trained Naturopathic Doctor, Humanistic Psychotherapist, and Family Constellations Facilitator, is the author of the book Blossom – 7 Steps to Sexual Healing and the upcoming book The Pleasure IQ. An internationally-recognized speaker and teacher on the subject...2018-04-1140 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here: Choosing the Right Sex ToySex Spoken Here: Choosing the Right Sex Toy Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. This week I am talking about choosing the right sex toy. Joining me today, is Katy, the public relations director and resident sexologist at Adam and Eve. Katy is a native of Tennessee (Go Vols!) and a graduate...2018-04-0444 minSex Spoken HereReboot: Sex Love Stories 5Reboot: Sex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories 5: Dr Sam Webster Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today is the fifth instalment of the sex love series. Joining me today is Dr Sam Webster, Master of Divinity and Mage, my oldest friend. I started by asking Sam when he first became aware of h...2018-03-2858 minSex Spoken HereSexual AuthenticityWelcome to my virtual therapy room. My name is Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. This programme deals with adult topics so if you don’t have total privacy, you might wish to put on your headphones. This week on Sex Spoken Here, my interview with Nikki Leigh on her Ready for Love Radio programme about Sexual Authenticity. We are talking about why authenticity is important and why sexual authenticity is essential for living a life of integrity and with freedom. Sexual authenticity is when a person fully owns their desires, orientation, lifestyle, love style, relationship style...2018-03-1451 minSex Spoken HereReboot: Sex Love Stories 4: AReboot. Please enjoy: Sex Love Stories 4: A Sex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories 4: A Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today is the fourth instalment of the sex love series. I asked A to tell me about his background and culture. A is in his late 60’s and grew up in an orthodox...2018-03-0741 minSex Spoken HereReboot: Sex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories 1Reboot, so please enjoy: Sex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories 1 Intro and My Story Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am starting a series that is different from the ones I usually do. Since I started this podcast, I have covered different topics to do with sex, sexuality, gender an...2018-02-2133 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here: Strong Women and BDSMSex Spoken Here: Strong Women and BDSM Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. This week I am talking about strong women, BDSM and rough sex. I am often asked how and why strong women can desire rough sex and if strong women who enter submissive relationships are really just play acting. Submissive women are s...2018-02-1419 minSex Spoken HereReboot: Sex Love Stories: TJSex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories 3: TJ Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today is the third instalment of the sex love series. I have invited my husband, TJ Scott is retired teamster who worked for 26 years at Omega Cinema Props, the largest privately owned prop house in the US. He is a part time perc...2018-02-0743 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here Non-Monogamy Friends with benefitsSex Spoken Here: Non-Monogamy – Friends with Benefits Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. This week we are talking about friends with benefits and other forms of non-monogamy. Donna Davidge of Sewall House Yoga retreat is joining me today. She has worked in the self-growth field for over 30 years, has a masters in nutrition, meditation, and yoga. D...2018-01-3134 minSex Spoken HereRisk Assessment Part 3 RepublishDr Bisbey has called in sick, so please enjoy again Risk Assesment Part 3. Sex Spoken Here: Risk Assessment Part 3 Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am finishing my series about risk assessment in relationships. We assess risks all the time. Once we reach adulthood, we do most of our risk assessment without thinking. When you a...2018-01-2431 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here: Sex and Being Trans _ E's StorySex Spoken Here: Sex and Being Trans – E’s Story Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. This week I’m talking with E about being a pre-operative transsexual person and how this impacts sexual relationships. E is at 20 year old trans male who lives in Texas who says he is a ‘huge nerd and adore Harry Potte...2018-01-1730 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here Sexless Relationships with Dr Zoe Shaw RebootFrom the archives, have another listen to: Sexless Relationships Part 1 Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am starting my series on sexless relationships. There are far more sexless long term relationships than you might imagine. Here I am not referring to relationships that are sexless by choice. These relationships become sexless for a wide variety...2018-01-1036 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here: Relationship ResolutionsSex Spoken Here: Relationship Resolutions Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Happy New Year! This week most people are making their New Year’s resolutions to try to get the year off to a great start. Each year at this time, I like to make relationship resolutions. When I work with couples, I spend time helping...2018-01-0324 minSex Spoken HereRisk Assessment: Consent with Kitty StrykerIn time for New Year's Eve parties, just a reminder about consent. Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am starting my series on risk assessment in relationships with the topic of consent. Consent is the foundation for all sexual agreements and relationships. Some feel the current emphasis on consent is too intense and make fun of the idea of hav...2017-12-2843 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here Sex Love Stories lSex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories: Isabelle Lauren Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I have another sex love story for you. We will be talking about female sexuality, problems with libido and the joy of regaining it. Joining me is Isabelle Lauren. She is a 40 year old married mother of two who lov...2017-12-2040 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoke Here: Sex Love Stories: RSex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories: R Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today we will be talking about bisexuality and BDSM. Joining me is Rudo Mashongomende. She is 33 years old, bisexual and she works in fashion. She has always been drawn to the world of BDSM but always felt, or was made to feel that it was...2017-12-1349 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here: Transition to poly L's StorySex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories: L Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. In today’s story, we will cover bisexuality and non-monogamy. Joining me is L who is a bisexual woman in a long term relationship with a man. She has recently moved into a polyamorous way of living. I asked L to...2017-12-0635 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here: Non-monogamy with Cooper S BecketBy popular demand, here is a re-issue of my April 2017 interview with Cooper S Becket about non-monogamy and bisexual men. Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Joining me today is Cooper Beckett. Cooper S. Beckett is the co-founder and host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast since 2010, author of swinging & polyamory novels A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching The Swing...2017-11-2943 minSex Spoken HereSex Love Stories 6: Anita CassidySex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories 6: Anita Cassidy Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today is the sixth instalment of the sex love series. Joining me today is author Anita Cassidy. Anita describes herself as a white British woman, age 41 who grew up moving around a lot because her father was in the Royal Air Force...2017-11-2237 minSex Spoken HereSexual harassment and #metooSex Spoken Here: Sexual Harassment, #metoo and the impact on current society from flirting to parenting Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. When the headlines broke about Harvey Weinstein, my first response was an internal sigh that in the 21st century men still feel free to oppress women. As more and more women stood up to say...2017-11-1531 minSex Spoken HereSex Love Stories 5: SASex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories 5: Dr Sam Webster Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today is the fifth instalment of the sex love series. Joining me today is Dr Sam Webster, Master of Divinity and Mage, my oldest friend. I started by asking Sam when he first became aware of his sexual self. Sam told m...2017-11-0858 minSex Spoken HereSex Love Stories 4: ASex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories 4: A Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today is the fourth instalment of the sex love series. I asked A to tell me about his background and culture. A is in his late 60’s and grew up in an orthodox Jewish community in apartheid South Africa. He talked about it being...2017-11-0141 minSex Spoken HereSex Stories 3:TJSex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories 3: TJ Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today is the third instalment of the sex love series. I have invited my husband, TJ Scott is retired teamster who worked for 26 years at Omega Cinema Props, the largest privately owned prop house in the US. He is a part time perc...2017-10-2543 minSex Spoken HereLittles, Bigs and Age Play Part 1 TRIGGER WARNINGSex Spoken Here: Littles and Bigs and Age Play TRIGGER WARNING Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am starting my series on littles, bigs and age play. This area of kink often really upsets people. Many people see it as related to paedophilia which it is not or related to sexual abuse. There are ma...2017-10-0450 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here Sexless Relationships Part 2Sex Spoken Here: Sexless Relationships Part 2 Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am continuing my series on sexless relationships. Last week I was joined by Dr Zoe Shaw. If you didn’t hear that one, go check it out. This week I am joined by Dr Jane Guyn is a best selling author of "Too Busy t...2017-09-2741 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here: Sexless Relationships Part 1Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am starting my series on sexless relationships. There are far more sexless long term relationships than you might imagine. Here I am not referring to relationships that are sexless by choice. These relationships become sexless for a wide variety of reasons and the impact on the overall relationship and the mental health of the...2017-09-2036 minSex Spoken HereThe Care and Feeding of the Penis - Part 2Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I finish my series about the care and feeding of the penis. Joining me today is Dr Pat Williams. Dr. Pat has been a psychologist and Life coach for over three decades and focuses on people living on purpose, mentally, emotionally, and physically and spiritually. Patrick Williams, Ed.D., MCC, i...2017-09-1335 minSex Spoken HereThe Care and Feeding of the PenisWelcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I start my series about the care and feeding of the penis. Joining me today is GP Walsh. Son of a schizophrenic mother and an absent father, GP’s earliest memory is being tied to his bed, to keep him from wandering. The years of abuse and emotional deprivation were offset by a natural gift for an...2017-09-0640 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here Care and Feeding of the Vagina Part 2Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am continuing my series about the care and feeding of the vagina. Joining me today to continue the discussion is Michele Brookhaus RSHom(NA), CCH, passionately embraces her mission as Yoni whisperer and soother of all things feminine. As Creator of Yoni Bliss, a homeopathic medicinal as well as a personal exploration and...2017-08-2339 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here Care and Feeding of the Vagina Part 3Sex Spoken Here: Care and Feeding of the Vagina 3 Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am finishing my series about the care and feeding of the vagina. Anna-Thea is an author, speaker and teacher. Her courses offer women life-changing tools in the area of emotional mastery and spiritual sexuality. She is dedicated to helping women live mor...2017-08-2134 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here: Care and Feeding of Your Vagina Part 1Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. As this podcast contains adult material, if you don’t have total privacy you might want to wear headphones. Today I am starting a series on the care and feeding of your vagina. The vagina is a wonderfully complex organ that can provide us with great pleasure. It experiences many changes through the lifespan and surprisingly many women (and men) know little about what to expect. In this series, I will be looking at issues from cleanliness to perio...2017-08-1637 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here Risk Assessment in Relationships Part 3Sex Spoken Here: Risk Assessment Part 3 Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am finishing my series about risk assessment in relationships. We assess risks all the time. Once we reach adulthood, we do most of our risk assessment without thinking. When you are driving, you assess the risk of driving at a particular speed, of changing lanes...2017-08-0931 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here Risk Assessment in Relationships : Red Flags Part 2Sex Spoken Here: Risk assessment in relationships 2 Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. As this podcast contains adult material, if you don’t have total privacy you might want to wear headphones. Today I am continuing my series on risk assessment in relationships. We started last week talking all about consent and discovered that it is a many faceted topic. This week we are going to talk about the red flags that arise when you are just beginnin...2017-08-0238 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here: Risk Assessment in Relationships Part 1 ConsentWelcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am starting my series on risk assessment in relationships with the topic of consent. Consent is the foundation for all sexual agreements and relationships. Some feel the current emphasis on consent is too intense and make fun of the idea of having to ask for permission each step of the way in a sexual encoun...2017-07-2643 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here - Let's Talk About Gender 3 Non-BinarySex Spoken Here: Let’s Talk about Gender part 3 Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am continuing my series about gender. Joining me today to continue the discussion is Dr Meg-John Barker. They are a writer, therapist, and activist-academic specialising in sex, gender and relationships. Meg-John is a senior l...2017-07-1933 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here Let's talk about Gender Part 2Sex Spoken Here: Let’s Talk about Gender part 1 Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am continuing my series about gender. Last week I started my discussion with Melvin Marsh. Today we are continuing that discussion. If you haven’t heard part 1, go on and download it and have a listen. Melvin Marsh is a pr...2017-07-1247 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here: Let’s Talk about Gender part 1Sex Spoken Here: Let’s Talk about Gender part 1 Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am beginning a series about gender. When I was growing up, many people saw gender as either male or female. There were sometimes people who were referred to as transsexual who felt they were born with the wrong body and chose t...2017-07-0545 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here: Pervertables and Other Interesting Toys 016Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am continuing my series on sex toys. So far in this series, I looked at vibrators and vibrating toys, dildos and butt plugs, and talked with Chrystal Bougon of Curvy Girl and Bliss. If you haven’t had the opportunity to listen to the first three episodes in the series, I encourage you to do so...2017-06-2821 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here Toys for Curvy Girls 015Sex Spoken Here Sex Toys for Curvy Girls Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am continuing my series on sex toys. So far in this series, I looked at vibrators and vibrating toys, dildos and butt plus. If you haven’t had the opportunity to listen to the first two episodes in the series, I encourage you to do so.2017-06-2139 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here Sex Toys Part 2 014Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am continuing my series on sex toys. So far in this series, I looked at vibrators and a couple of slightly different toys that still vibrate. If you haven’t had the opportunity to listen, I encourage you to do so. Today, I’m starting with dildos and butt plugs. Despite being bisexual...2017-06-1420 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here Sex Toys Part 1 - 013Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Today I am starting a series on sex toys. In this series, I’m going to look at different types of sex toys and provide some interesting reviews, sourcing information and stories from friends and clients. When I was first learning about sex, the only sex toy I heard about was a vibra...2017-06-0722 minSex Spoken HereBDSM and Power Exchange Part 5 Practicalities 2Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Last week I explored the practicalities for beginning to explore BDSM and Power Exchange. This week I explore basic rules for events and resources for BDSM online and in the community. If you haven’t heard the first four of the BDSM and Power Exchange Series, I suggest you download them. The first two include int...2017-05-3027 minSex Spoken HereBDSM and Power Exchange Part 4 PracticalitiesWelcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Thanks for joining me for part 4 of this series on BDSM and Power Exchange. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. In parts 1-3 of this series we examined BDSM and power exchange from a number of angles. This week, I look at the practicalities for getting started if BDSM and power exchange turn you on. I will start with things everyo...2017-05-2427 minSex Spoken Here009 Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey, Pharaoh Kaf-Ra and Empress Nahara: BDSM and Power Exchange Part 3: Dominant CouplesSex Spoken Here BDSM, Power Dynamics in Relationships and the reality of 50 Shades Part 3 Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Today we are beginning our discussion about BDSM and power dynamics in relationship. Since the advent of 50 Shades of Grey, many people have approached me wondering if BDSM is something for them or saying their partner has come out as dominant or submissive and wanting to understand power dynamics in relationships and talk about power exchange. We have been delving deep into these areas for t...2017-05-1745 minSex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here Power Exchange and BDSM Part 2 Sex Spoken Here BDSM, Power Dynamics in Relationships and the reality of 50 Shades Part 2 Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. As this podcast contains adult material, if you don ’ t have total privacy you might want to wear headphones. Today we are continuing our discussion about BDSM and power dynamics in relationship. If you have not heard part one, please go and download it from iTunes of https://the-intimacy-coach/podcast . Last week we focused on some definitions and an introductory discussion around where we found power dynamics, power ex...2017-05-1033 minSex Spoken Here007 Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and Dr Kevin Boileau BDSM and Power Exchange Part 1: What are the 50 Shades, BDSM and Power Exchange?Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Today we are beginning our discussion about BDSM and power dynamics in relationship. Since the advent of 50 Shades of Grey, many people have approached me wondering if BDSM is something for them or saying their partner has come out as dominant or submissive and wanting to understand power dynamics in relationships and talk about power exchange. In the next four episodes of Sex Spoken Here we will delve deep into these areas. For those of you who don’t know, BDSM stand...2017-05-0337 minSex Spoken Here007 Sex Spoken Here Non-Monogamy 4: Swinging and Bisexual MenWelcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Joining me today is Cooper Beckett. Cooper S. Beckett is the co-founder and host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast since 2010, author of swinging & polyamory novels A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching The Swingularity, and memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory. He teaches and speaks on swinging, polyamory, pegging, play parties, and...2017-04-2544 min
Sex Spoken HereSex Spoken Here Non-Monogamy Part 3 StoriesWelcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Today I answer the question ‘What is being poly (a swinger, having an open relationship) really like?’ with relationship stories I have gathered over my years as a non-monogamist, as a therapist and as a coach. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. Personally, I never understood why someone would expect one person to meet all of their needs. It seemed to me that...2017-04-1927 minSex Spoken Here005 Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and Dr Meg-John Barker: Non-Monogamies Part 3 - Is Non-Monogamy or Polyamory for me?Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Today we are continuing our discussion about non-monogamy. Joining me again to explore this is Dr Meg-John Barker is a writer, therapist, and activist-academic specialising in sex, gender and relationships. Meg-John is a senior lecturer in psychology at the Open University and a UKCP accredited psychotherapist, and has over a decade of experience researching and publishing on these topics including the popular books Rewriting the Rules, The Secrets of Enduring Love and Queer: A Graphic History. Website: www.rewriting-the-rules.com. Twitter: @megj...2017-04-1236 minSex Spoken Here004 Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and Dr Meg-John Barker: Non-Monogamies Part 1 -What is Non-Monogamy or Polyamory?Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Today we are beginning our discussion about non-monogamy. Joining me to explore this is Dr Meg-John Barker is a writer, therapist, and activist-academic specialising in sex, gender and relationships. Meg-John is a senior lecturer in psychology at the Open University and a UKCP accredited psychotherapist, and has over a decade of experience researching and publishing on these topics including the popular books Rewriting the Rules, The Secrets of Enduring Love and Queer: A Graphic History. Welcome to the show. Le...2017-04-0544 minSex Spoken Here003 Sex & Technology- Kate Moyle & Marta PlazaWelcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Today we are talking about Sex and Technology! It’s the 21st century and many of us don’t go anywhere without our phones, our pads and myriad wearables to connect to the internet. What used to be confined to behind closed doors, sex has now entered a new open world or sort of open – on the internet. We no longer rely on dating services that make introductions face to face. We choose partners on the internet – often because we discover them in s...2017-03-2936 minSex Spoken Here002 Talking To Your Children About Sex- Dr. Lori Beth BisbeyWelcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Today we are talking about how to talk to children about sex. So many parents become anxious when the subject of sex comes up in relation to their children. It can feel incredibly awkward to try to explain to your child all aspects of the birds and the bees. How do you know what it is appropriate to say when? If you leave it to the school to teach your child, how can you make sure that your child is learning all...2017-03-1338 minSex Spoken Here001 Let's Talk About Sex - Dr. Lori Beth BisbeyWelcome to my virtual therapy room! I’m Dr Lori Beth and this is Sex Spoken Here. Today we are talking about communication and sex. Many people find talking about sex very difficult. In my experience, heterosexual couples don’t spend much time talking about sex at the beginning of a relationship. Some have the ‘safe sex’ talk but many others simply use condoms and avoid this talk. Heterosexual couples who do talk about sex before having it come in three flavours: People who prefer kinky sex, people who become involved online (and don’t meet in person quick...2017-03-1324 minSex Spoken Here000 Welcome to Sex Spoken Here with Dr. Lori Beth BisbeyWelcome to my virtual therapy room! I’m a sex coach and clinical psychologist. I created this show to provide a safe space for exploring sex, intimacy and relationships from all sides. I wanted to create a second space where all types of people from all walks of life could talk about sex, sexuality, intimacy and relationships. In this space, my focus is on authenticity, out of the box strategies to deal with issues that arise, and helping people to become adventurers when it comes to their sex lives. Knowledge makes risk taking easier as well as safer. This...2017-03-1303 min