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2 Old 4 TikTokTikTok Trends with Psychologist Robyn Koslowitz: Labubus, Cold Play Jumbotron, Post Traumatic ParentingThis week, we're joined by Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, Ph.D.—licensed school and clinical psychologist, author, and expert in what really drives our behavior. From the emotional power behind trending obsessions like Labubu dolls and Stanley cups to the psychology of blind boxes and dopamine loops, Dr. Koslowitz unpacks it all.
We get into why everyone’s captivated by the Coldplay jumbotron affair (yes, there’s science behind it), why she never posts her kids on social media, and the double-edged sword that is “ParentTok.” She also introduces us to fascinating concepts like time confetti vs. time ribbons—an...2025-07-2441 min
The Big 550 KTRS07-19-25 Girl Talk with Crystal O'Keefe, Anna Papalia, and Dr. Robyn Koslowitz07-19-25 Girl Talk with Crystal O'Keefe, Anna Papalia, and Dr. Robyn Koslowitz by2025-07-2044 min
The Morning Information Center On-DemandDr Robyn Koslowitz - Post Traumatic Parenting 7-17-2025Want to parent differently than how you were raised, but aren't sure where to start? Post-Traumatic Parenting by Dr. Robyn Koslowitz goes beyond trends to give parents clear, actionable strategies to build joyful, connected, and healthy relationships with children, turning your own survival instincts into a parenting superpower. Dr. K. joined Mike Pomp on the Morning Information Center to chat about the new book.2025-07-1710 min
The Dude TherapistFrom Trauma to Transformation: A Journey to Break the Cycle w/ Dr. Robyn KoslowitzEpisode Summary:In this eye-opening episode of The Dude Therapist, Eli Weinstein sits down with clinical child psychologist and trauma expert Dr. Robyn Koslowitz to explore the powerful concept of Post-Traumatic Parenting. As the founder of the Post-Traumatic Parenting model and author of the acclaimed book Post-Traumatic Parenting: Break the Cycle, Become the Parent You Always Wanted to Be, Dr. Koslowitz shares how unresolved childhood trauma affects parenting—and how healing is possible, not just for you, but for your entire family.With warmth, wisdom, and clarity, Dr. Koslowitz breaks down how your “trauma app”—the invisibl...2025-07-1640 minThe Big 550 KTRSCarneyShow 07.15.25 Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, Taylor Twellman, Dan Moren, George Mahe, Frank Cusumano, Heavy Smoke BBQCarneyShow 07.15.25 Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, Taylor Twellman, Dan Moren, George Mahe, Frank Cusumano, Heavy Smoke BBQ by2025-07-151h 50
Total Information AMPost Traumatic Parenting: How to break the cycleDr. Robyn Koslowitz, Ph.D., is a clinical child psychologist and the author of Post-Traumatic Parenting: Break the Cycle, joins Debbie Monterrey.2025-07-1405 min
The Las Vegas Public Affairs ShowThe Las Vegas Public Affairs Show July 12, 2025The Las Vegas Public Affairs Show, hosted by Heather Vale, highlights charity events, non-profit initiatives, and social issues around Southern Nevada. This week’s topics:
Vegas New Home Raffle supporting Meals on Wheels Southern Nevada with Leslie Carmine, Media & Community Relations Director for Catholic Charities of Southern Nevada;
Disability Community Showcase with William Tandiono-Cellona, Event Producer for the Equilora Summer Fashion Show & Charity Gala;
Summertime Driving Safety with Anita Pepper, Public Information Officer for Nevada Office of Traffic Safety overseeing Zero Fatalities;
Natural Energy from Dates with Dawn Jackson Blat...2025-07-1256 min
Moments with MariannePost-Traumatic Parenting with Dr. Robyn KoslowitzAre your childhood wounds shaping how you parent today, without you even realizing it? Dr. Robyn Koslowitz shares how trauma can silently influence parenting and how to break generational cycles with compassion, connection, and healing. Tune in for an inspiring discussion with Robyn Koslowitz, PhD, on her new book Post-Traumatic Parenting: Break the Cycle and Become the Parent You Always Wanted to Be. Moments with Marianne airs in the Southern California area on KMET 1490AM & 98.1 FM, an ABC Talk News Radio Affiliate! https://www.kmet1490am.com Robyn Koslowitz, PhD, has been a licensed child psychologist sin...2025-07-0828 min
Business TalkFrom Trauma to Transformation: Dr. Robyn Koslowitz on Healing ParenthoodDr. Robyn Koslowitz, a renowned licensed child psychologist and Educational Director of the Targeted Parenting™ Institute, shares powerful insights from her acclaimed book, Post-Traumatic Parenting: Break the Cycle and Become the Parent You Always Wanted to Be.
Dr. Robyn earned her Ph.D. in Clinical Child Psychology from New York University and brings over two decades of experience to the field. She has been serving as a licensed child psychologist since 2002 and as a licensed clinical psychologist since 2017.
During her time at New York University, Dr. Robyn collaborated with several renowned scholars. She served as a research assistant to Dr. Es...2025-07-0525 min
NightSide With Dan ReaNightSide News Update 7/2If you use any of these 7 phrases, you sound passive aggressive to other people…Guest: John Bowe - Speech & Presentation Expert The weeks around the Fourth are a peak time for burn injuries, firework accidents, and water-related emergencies, many of which are preventable with a few simple safety steps…Guest: Dr. Michael Flaherty – Pediatric Critical Care Physician at Mss General BrighamQuincy’s Inaugural Quincy400 Maritime Festival, Friday, July 4 – Sunday, July 6 at Quincy’s Marina Bay Boardwalk. It’s a three-day FREE waterfront celebration.Guest: Thomas Koch – Mayor of QuincyPost-Traumatic Parenting – Parentin...2025-07-0338 min
The Kathryn Zox ShowEp: 1773 Robyn Koslowitz PhD - Post Traumatic Parenting Every good parent wants to create relationships with their children that are filled with joy, connection, and healthy attachment. Yet well-meaning but traumatized parents--those who suffered as children or who are dealing with traumatic events as adults--tend to see the world from a survival point of view. If that's you, you might suspect that your own trauma is negatively influencing your parenting behaviors. Where can you turn for support and wisdom? Renowned traumatic parenting expert, workshop leader, speaker, and founder of the Center for Psychological Growth, child psychologist Dr. Robyn Koslowitz directly explains exactly how every post-traumatic parent can...2025-07-0227 min
Joyful Courage for Parenting TeensPost Traumatic Parenting with Dr. Robyn KoslowitzIn this powerful episode of the Joyful Courage Podcast, I talk with Dr. Robyn Koslowitz about post-traumatic parenting, emotional reactivity, entitlement, and how to raise resilient teens with compassion. We unpack how unresolved trauma can hijack our parenting and how to rewire our responses with awareness and grace. Dr. Robyn shares insights on teaching kids about needs vs. wants, building emotional regulation, and the importance of letting teens make mistakes. If you’re parenting teens and feel stuck in old patterns, this conversation offers tools, validation, and real hope. Tune in to feel seen, supported, and empowered.
2025-06-2354 minJoyful Courage for Parenting TeensPost Traumatic Parenting with Dr. Robyn KoslowitzIn this powerful episode of the Joyful Courage Podcast, I talk with Dr. Robyn Koslowitz about post-traumatic parenting, emotional reactivity, entitlement, and how to raise resilient teens with compassion. We unpack how unresolved trauma can hijack our parenting and how to rewire our responses with awareness and grace. Dr. Robyn shares insights on teaching kids about needs vs. wants, building emotional regulation, and the importance of letting teens make mistakes. If you’re parenting teens and feel stuck in old patterns, this conversation offers tools, validation, and real hope. Tune in to feel seen, supported, and empowered.
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Post Traumatic ParentingEmotional Intelligence Parenting with Stephanie PintoWhat if your "good" childhood still left emotional scars that impact your parenting? Emotional intelligence parenting requires us to confront our own histories, even when they seem picture-perfect on the surface. In today's episode, I speak with Stephanie Pinto, author of "From Chaos to Connection," who shares her remarkable story of how her body literally shut down through fainting episodes because she couldn't process certain emotions.We’ll discuss how well-meaning parents can unintentionally create emotional voids by teaching children to suppress "unacceptable" feelings. Stephanie will explain how naming emotions gives children crucial language fo...2025-06-1040 minPost Traumatic ParentingHow Generation Mindful Tools Turn Tantrums into Teaching Moments with Suzanne TuckerWhat if you could replace timeouts with a more effective approach that actually strengthens your connection with your child? Generation Mindful founder Suzanne Tucker joins me to explore the revolutionary "time-in" approach that's changing how parents respond to big emotions.As a mom of four who grew up in a "happy-happy" household, Suzanne will share how her own trauma and loss led her to create tools that give both children and parents permission to feel all emotions. You'll hear practical ways to implement emotional literacy in your home, from simple card games to creating...2025-05-2641 minPost Traumatic ParentingTheraplay: Healing Through Play With Your Children With Dafna LenderEver wonder if your trauma means you're destined to parent imperfectly? In today's episode, Theraplay expert Dafna Lender shares how all parents mess up - and that's actually okay!As a clinical psychologist and post-traumatic parent myself, I was fascinated by Dafna's perspective on how we can provide healthy childhoods despite our own wounds. She compassionately explains why parents with trauma histories often experience such crushing self-doubt and offers practical ways to rebuild connection through play. What struck me most was Dafna's story about a mother and adopted daughter who transformed their relationship over...2025-05-0955 min
The Gaslight Effect Podcast070 - Reclaiming Your Voice: The Journey to Post-Traumatic ParentingIn this enlightening episode of The Gaslight Effect Podcast, in honor of National Mental Health Awareness Month, Dr. Robin Stern welcomes clinical psychologist and trauma expert Dr. Robyn Koslowitz for a powerful conversation on breaking free from psychological control, reclaiming identity, and the complex process of healing from gaslighting. Dr. Koslowitz, founder of The Center for Psychological Growth and host of the Post-Traumatic Parenting Podcast, draws from her extensive clinical experience working with individuals from insular and high-control communities. She shares profound insights on how gaslighting can dismantle a person’s internal world—especially when embedded in relig...2025-05-0646 minPost Traumatic ParentingMulticultural Parenting: Lessons from Around the World with Marina LopesWhat if the way we parent is shaped more by culture than we realize? Multicultural parenting offers a fresh perspective on how families around the world build community and raise children. In today's episode, I sit down with Marina Lopes, a Brazilian American journalist and author of "Please Yell At My Kids," to explore how cultural traditions influence parenting decisions and what we can learn from them.We discuss the challenges American parents face, often raising children without the support systems found in other cultures, and how this independence can feel isolating. Marina shares...2025-04-2349 minPost Traumatic ParentingHow Emotional Regulation Helps You Build Stronger Connections with Your Kids with Dajana YoakleyWhat role does emotional regulation play in post-traumatic parenting, and how can it shape the way we connect with our kids? In today's episode, I sit down with Dajana Yoakley, a peaceful and playful parenting coach, to explore how neuroscience, mindfulness, and self-compassion can guide us through the challenges of raising children. Dajana shares her personal journey from corporate leadership to parenting, offering stories about navigating toddler tantrums, pre-teen autonomy, and everything in between.We discuss how to move away from control-based parenting and instead focus on fostering connection, respect, and empathy. Dajana explains...2025-04-1135 minPost Traumatic ParentingRaising Strong-Willed Children with Humor & Compassion with Sonali VongchusiriWhat does raising strong-willed children really look like when life throws unexpected challenges your way? In today's episode, I sit down with Sonali Vongchusiri, a passionate advocate for parenting with humor and compassion, to explore how we can connect with our kids while honoring their unique needs—and our own. Sonali shares her personal experiences of parenting while navigating life with legal blindness and albinism, offering a fresh perspective on balancing visible and invisible challenges.We dive into the importance of embracing differences, processing emotions creatively, and fostering genuine connections with our children. Sonali’s st...2025-03-191h 11Post Traumatic ParentingThe Truth About Parental Burnout & How to Heal Through It with Sally ArnoldAre you feeling the weight of parental burnout and looking for relief? Parental burnout is a reality many of us face, but what if there were a way to navigate it with mindfulness and compassion? In today's episode, I sit down with Sally Arnold, a renowned mindfulness educator and parenting coach, to explore how small, practical mindfulness practices can make a significant difference in our lives as parents.We'll dive into the importance of community support and self-compassion, and how these elements can help us manage stress and build resilience. Sally will share her...2025-03-1151 min
The Parentologist PodcastParenting After Trauma: Overcoming Childhood Wounds Without Repeating the PastThis week Dr. Kim is talking with Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, Ph.D. Dr. Robyn Koslowitz is a clinical child and family psychologist, and author of Post-Traumatic
Parenting: Break the Cycle, Become the Parent You Always Wanted to Be (Broadleaf, 2025). She has worked with prominent scholars, including Dr. Carol Gilligan, Dr. Ester Buchholz, and Dr. Sandee McClowry, contributing to cutting-edge research on parenting, post-traumatic growth, and psychology.
A sought-after speaker, consultant, and media contributor, Dr. Koslowitz has appeared on Fox, CNN, NPR, and more. Her Post-Traumatic Parenting podcast and Targeted Parenting blog on Psychology Today have reached wide...2025-03-1037 min
Big Ideas in EducationBIIE 223: Trauma-Informed Classrooms with Dr. Robyn KoslowitzBIIE 223: Trauma-Informed Classrooms with Dr. Robyn Koslowitz This week, Ryan sits with renowned clinical psychologist and parenting educator Robyn Koslowitz. Dr. Koslowitz is also the host of the Post-Traumatic Parenting Podcast, a program that helps parents navigate giving their children a healthy childhood in the face of traumatic events. Dr. Koslowitz shares how the COVID pandemic exacerbated trauma, parenting with trauma, steps teachers can take to help students, what a trauma-informed classroom is, and lots more valuable insight into these topics. Tune in! You can find the Post-Traumatic Parenting Podcast on all major platforms. Don...2025-03-1028 minPost Traumatic ParentingEMDR Therapy for Post-Traumatic Parents with Dr. Deborah KornHave you ever wondered how EMDR therapy can change the way we process trauma? Join me in today's episode as I sit down with Dr. Deborah Korn, a leading expert in EMDR, to explore the profound impact this therapy can have on healing traumatic memories. Together, we'll dive into the intricacies of how traumatic experiences get locked in our nervous system and how EMDR therapy helps in reprocessing these memories to reduce distress and foster healing. Dr. Korn will share her wealth of knowledge on the importance of a safe therapeutic relationship and how E...2025-02-191h 02
The Classical Academies Partnering With ParentsPrioritizing Self-Care with Dr. Robyn KoslowitzSelf-care is more than just a break, it’s a way to reconnect with yourself and show up as your best self for your family. Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, a psychologist specializing in post-traumatic parenting, explores the role of self-care in building resilience and preventing burnout. She emphasizes the importance of intentional well-being and offers practical strategies for setting boundaries, managing guilt, delegating responsibilities, and being fully present. Dr. Koslowitz is a frequent media contributor, appearing on Fox, CNN, NewsNation, and more.https://www.drrobynkoslowitz.com/about/2025-02-1124 minPost Traumatic ParentingInvisible Bruises: Breaking the Cycle of Family Trauma with Kaytee GillisAre you ready to confront the invisible bruises that linger from your past? In today's episode, we'll talk about breaking the cycle of family trauma with my guest, Dr. Kaytee Gillis, a psychotherapist and author with a passion for working with survivors of relationship and family trauma. As a fellow advocate for trauma survivors, Kaytee will share her journey and expertise in helping individuals heal from the scars of psychological abuse.We'll discuss the importance of acknowledging the trauma of absence, such as neglect and abandonment, and how these invisible wounds can impact our...2025-02-0549 min
Ordinary People, Extraordinary StoriesI Was a Teen and He Died in My ArmsShe needed to overcome her trauma to mother her own children. A trained psychotherapist, Dr. Robyn Koslowitz now helps others do the same.2025-02-0453 minOrdinary People, Extraordinary StoriesI Was a Teen and He Died in My ArmsShe needed to overcome her trauma to mother her own children. A trained psychotherapist, Dr. Robyn Koslowitz now helps others do the same.2025-02-0453 minPost Traumatic ParentingThe Motherload: Sarah Hoover's Birth Trauma StoryWelcome back to another episode of the Post Traumatic Podcast! For today's episode, I invited another special guest, Sarah Hoover—the author of the book Motherload, who will share her raw and honest birth trauma story and how it redefined her motherhood journey.We'll talk about the unspoken challenges of postpartum depression and the societal pressures that often leave new mothers feeling isolated. Sarah will open up about her personal struggles, revealing the vulnerability and courage it took to confront her own truths. We'll discuss the importance of empathy and trauma-informed care in transforming th...2025-01-2255 minPost Traumatic ParentingBuilding Resilience in Children: Parenting Strategies That Work with Tovah KleinAre you ready to discover the secrets to building resilience in children? For today's episode, I invited Dr. Tovah Klein, a renowned psychologist and author, who shares her expertise on nurturing resilience in kids. We will explore the five foundational pillars that support resilience and discuss how parents can help their children navigate life's uncertainties. Dr. Klein offers thoughtful perspectives on managing emotions, understanding the impact of our own trauma on parenting, and finding the balance between support and independence. We will also address common parenting challenges, such as dealing with selective mutism and t...2025-01-0854 minPost Traumatic ParentingThe Hand in Hand Parenting Approach: Building Strong Connections with Your Kids with Emily MurrayHow can the Hand in Hand Parenting approach transform your relationship with your child? In today's episode, we explore this question with Emily Murray, a certified Hand in Hand Parenting instructor. You'll discover how this approach emphasizes building strong connections through five essential tools that can reshape how you interact with your children. Emily shares her personal experiences and insights into how understanding emotional triggers can lead to more meaningful parenting moments.We'll dive into the practical aspects of listening partnerships and special time, offering a fresh perspective on how these techniques can help...2024-12-1838 min
Parenting UnderstoodEp. 147 - Post-Traumatic Parenting: Break the Cycle, Become the Parent You Always Wanted to BeThis episode of Parenting Understood features Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, author of the upcoming book "Post Traumatic Parenting". Dr. Koslowitz, an expert in child development and trauma, discusses the often-overlooked impact of past trauma on parenting. Robyn explains how common coping mechanisms developed in childhood, like people-pleasing, dissociation, and perfectionism, can become obstacles in parenting. These ingrained responses, once helpful, can lead to stress, anger, and disengagement when raising children. Dr. Koslowitz identifies five distinct "post traumatic parenting types". She emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and recognizing these patterns. By acknowledging their trauma and its influence, parents can begin to...2024-12-1137 minPost Traumatic ParentingDeveloping Friendship Skills in Kids: A Guide for Post-Traumatic Parents with Dr. Eileen Kennedy-MooreAre you curious about developing friendship skills in kids? Join me in today's episode as I explore this vital topic with Dr. Eileen Kennedy-Moore, a renowned psychologist and author. We'll dive into the common myths surrounding children's self-esteem and why these misconceptions might be holding them back. You'll discover how focusing on connection, competence, and choice can help your child develop a healthy sense of self and navigate social challenges with confidence.We'll also tackle the crucial distinction between bullying and ordinary meanness, offering strategies for parents to address each situation appropriately. For post-traumatic...2024-12-0438 minPost Traumatic ParentingHealing & Connecting with Your Kids Through Art Therapy with Leah GuzmanAre you curious about art therapy and how it could help you and your children process trauma? In today's episode, I sit down with Leah Guzman, an art therapist, artist, and author, to explore the profound impact of art therapy on emotional healing. We'll dive into how art can serve as a powerful tool for expressing emotions that words often fail to capture. Leah shares her unique techniques, like using colors to convey feelings and creating art journals, which can be particularly beneficial for both children and parents navigating the complexities of trauma. We'll a...2024-11-2129 min
Educational Equity EmancipationEpisode 122: Decoding Trauma, Building Resilience: A Conversation with Dr. Robyn KoslowitzSend us a textIn this episode, Dr. Almitra Berry welcomes Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, a nationally recognized expert in childhood trauma and resilience. Dr. Robyn Koslowitz shares her personal story of overcoming trauma and developing PTSD as a child, and how it motivated her to empower parents to transform their own traumas into resilience for the benefit of their children. The discussion covers practical strategies for recognizing and addressing trauma in the classroom, as well as techniques for parents to create safe spaces for their children to open up about their experiences. Dr. Koslowitz emphasizes the importance...2024-11-1138 minEducational Equity EmancipationEpisode 122: Decoding Trauma, Building Resilience: A Conversation with Dr. Robyn KoslowitzSend us a textIn this episode, Dr. Almitra Berry welcomes Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, a nationally recognized expert in childhood trauma and resilience. Dr. Robyn Koslowitz shares her personal story of overcoming trauma and developing PTSD as a child, and how it motivated her to empower parents to transform their own traumas into resilience for the benefit of their children. The discussion covers practical strategies for recognizing and addressing trauma in the classroom, as well as techniques for parents to create safe spaces for their children to open up about their experiences. Dr. Koslowitz emphasizes the importance...2024-11-1138 min
EdsUp!EdsUp! Episode 64: Robyn KoslowitzEdsUp! talks with Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, the educational director of the Targeted Parenting™ Institute. Targeted Parenting™ is a parenting system that uses empirically validated techniques to train parents and children to overcome various disorders of childhood in a preventative fashion, in order to minimize or avoid later expensive psychotherapy. View resources at https://www.drrobynkoslowitz.com/2024-11-1130 minPost Traumatic ParentingConscious Communication: How to Effectively Communicate with Your Children with Lori PetroAre you ready to transform your parenting approach with conscious communication? In today's episode, we're diving into the world of conscious communication with our children in a way that fosters respect, understanding, and emotional growth. Joined by Lori Petro, founder of Teach Through Love, we explore the profound impact of our words and how they shape our children's lives. You'll discover the power of shifting from punitive to empathetic language and learn practical strategies to connect with your kids on a deeper level.We'll discuss the challenges of breaking free from the communication patterns...2024-11-0651 min
They'll Be FineThe Hidden Struggles: Trauma and Fortitude in Gifted Learners with Dr. Robyn KoslowitzIn this episode of They’ll Be Fine, we speak with Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, an expert in childhood trauma and fortitude, about the unique challenges gifted learners face. Dr. K shares her insights on how trauma can impact gifted children and offers practical strategies for building emotional resilience at home and in the classroom. Whether you're a parent, educator, or advocate, this conversation is filled with valuable advice to help gifted learners thrive despite the challenges they may face.https://www.drrobynkoslowitz.com/about/2024-10-181h 02
Circle ForumTransforming Parent Engagement with Simple TacticsIs your school still grappling with the lingering effects of COVID-19 on student attendance? You're not alone.
What if a simple parent class could drastically improve student attendance at your school? Our podcast guest again this week is Dr. Robyn Koslowitz the educational director of the Targeted Parenting™ Institute in New Jersey. Her new book“Post Traumatic Parenting: Break the Cycle and Become the Parent You Always Wanted to Be” will be released in July, 2025. Dr. K talks about how,By fostering a positive, connected environment, one principal is breaking down the barriers between home and school. Imagine...2024-09-1620 minCircle ForumWhy Trauma Can Linger in Your School’s HallsAs a principal or vice-principal, you know that addressing student behaviour isn’t always straightforward. But did you know that trauma can manifest long after the triggering event? Our guest this week is Dr. Robyn Koslowitzhe educational director of the Targeted Parenting™ Institute in New Jersey. Her new book“Post Traumatic Parenting: Break the Cycle and Become the Parent You Always Wanted to Be” will be released in July, 2025. She breaks down how trauma may show up unexpectedly and what school administrators can do to build a trauma-sensitive culture that fosters resilience and long-term growth. Trauma isn’t always immediate...2024-09-0931 min
Let ‘em go BarefootEp. 41 Post-Traumatic Parenting with Dr. Robyn KoslowitzDr. Robyn Koslowitz is a licensed school psychologist and clinical psychologist. She is also an author, writting the book she needed as a mom, (due to be out in 2025).
As someone who suffered from childhood trauma and PTSD, she knew that her panic attacks and flashbacks would impact her ability to parent her son. So, she set out to understand only to find that the research was limited. Fast forward 26 years and she has created a community to support parents, a YouTube channel, a podcast, and is the educational director of the Targeted Parenting Institute.
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Imperfect LoveBecome Your Best Self--and a More Attuned Parent--by Healing Childhood Trauma with Expert Dr. Robyn KoslowitzIf your childhood was traumatic, you might expect yourself to have forgotten or moved past the difficulties and challenges you endured. Yet, from my clinical and life experiences, it is clear we never recover from childhood trauma – or any other form of it – unless we purposefully engage in mindful healing. We are told that "time heals all wounds." But in reality, those wounds only worsen when they are marginalized or ignored. Unresolved childhood issues are unfortunately carried into adult life, where they negatively impact relationships and are transmitted intergenerationally through parenting and other formative relationships. Can self-work be the cure...2024-08-3056 min
New Heights Show on EducationNew Heights Show on Education with Host Pamela Clark and Special Guest Dr Robyn KoslowitzJoin Pamela as she interviews Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, Ph.D.https://Radio.NewHeightsEducation.org/Info@NewHeightsEducation.orgMeet Dr. Koslowitz - Dr. Robyn Koslowitz (drrobynkoslowitz.com)For parenting class inquiries, please email: targetedparenting@gmail.comFor confidential inquiries regarding psychotherapy or an evaluation, please email: drkoslowitz@cfpgnj.comPodcast - Dr. Robyn Koslowitz (drrobynkoslowitz.com)(2740) Post Traumatic Parenting - YouTubeBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/new-heights-show-on-education--4114185/support.2024-08-2944 min
The Crisis in Education PodcastSystematic Desensitization: Building Resilience and Fortitude in Traumatized Students Returning to SchoolSend us a textAs students return to school, some carry the invisible burdens of trauma, which can manifest as anxiety, avoidance, and disruptive behavior in the classroom. Recognizing these challenges is critical but only the first step in a comprehensive support strategy.In this episode of the Crisis in Education Podcast, Dr. Paulie explores the application of systematic desensitization as a means of building resilience in traumatized students. Joined by Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, a respected clinical psychologist and trauma specialist, the conversation dives into how methodically and gently exposing students to feared situations within...2024-08-2845 min
We Are WomenFrom Trauma to Triumph with Dr. Robyn Koslowitz Dr. Robyn Koslowitz , Post Traumatic Parenting Psychologist, shares the traumatic event that influenced her field of choice as a Psychologist focusing on Post-Traumatic Parenting. Dr. Robyn breaks down the definition of PTSD and trauma and shares how PTSD affected her and why it took so long for her to realize that she had experienced PTSD. Dr. Robyn shares how you can parent your inner child and come to a place of healing, how your child can have PTSD without it being obvious, and how to make sure that even if your child doesn't exhibit signs of PTSD or seem...2024-08-2156 min
The Brighter Side of Education: Research, Innovation & ResourcesChildhood Trauma: Need to Know Strategies with Clinical Psychologist Dr. Robyn KoslowitzSend us a text"Our traumas can either be our greatest problem or our greatest superpower," (Dr. Robyn Koslowitz). Which do you believe it is? Reflect on childhood trauma with Dr. Koslowitz, a nationally recognized clinical psychologist, who dives deep into her personal journey and professional insights to help us understand how trauma can be hidden beneath a child's seemingly calm exterior. Dr. Koslowitz emphasizes the necessity for creating supportive environments for children who have faced significant hardships. This episode offers valuable strategies to help traumatized students maintain a productive learning zone without crossing the...2024-08-1539 min
Home Education MattersCoping with trauma in your home educating family with Dr KoslowitzToday I am joined by Dr Robyn Koslowitz, expert in trauma and author of upcoming book on Post Traumatic Parenting.
In this insightful episode we will talk about how school can cause trauma and the ways in which home education can uniquely heal those wounds. Robyn also guides us in how to differentiate trauma from the usual childhood ups and downs, and gives her advice on healing those trauma wounds in our children.
Often, the act of removing your child from the mainstream education system and having witnessed their distress can have...2024-08-111h 20Home Education MattersCoping with trauma in your home educating family with Dr KoslowitzToday I am joined by Dr Robyn Koslowitz, expert in trauma and author of upcoming book on Post Traumatic Parenting.
In this insightful episode we will talk about how school can cause trauma and the ways in which home education can uniquely heal those wounds. Robyn also guides us in how to differentiate trauma from the usual childhood ups and downs, and gives her advice on healing those trauma wounds in our children.
Often, the act of removing your child from the mainstream education system and having witnessed their distress can have...2024-08-111h 20Post Traumatic ParentingEmbracing Matrescence: The Strengths & Struggles of Motherhood with Dr. Nicole PensakAre you navigating the rollercoaster of matrescence and feeling overwhelmed? You're not alone! Dive into today's conversation with Dr. Nikki Pensack, author of "Rattled," where we peel back the layers of becoming a new parent, discussing why this transformation is a normative trauma, regardless of your background or education.You'll discover how your brain's incredible ability for self-directed neuroplasticity during motherhood can be your ally in achieving post-traumatic growth. Plus, you'll learn to embrace the 'mommy brain' as a badge of honor, showcasing your newfound emotional intelligence and multitasking prowess. This episode is a...2024-04-2549 minPost Traumatic ParentingNavigating Relational Aggression Bullying for Post-Traumatic Parents with Rosalind WisemanAre you a post-traumatic parent struggling to navigate the complexities of relational aggression and bullying? Tune in to today's episode where we'll dive into the world of relational aggression with Rosalind Wiseman, the author behind "Queen Bees and Wannabes" – the book that sparked the hit movie "Mean Girls." You'll discover how to empower your children and yourself to rise above bullying, maintain dignity, and foster respect in the face of life's challenges. We'll explore the invisible rules of social dynamics that can leave us feeling lost and the importance of understanding the difference between res...2024-04-1151 minPost Traumatic ParentingFrom Trauma to Hope: Brandi Cox's Story of Healing from Childhood TraumaHealing from childhood trauma is at the heart of today's podcast episode, where I sit down with Brandi Cox, author of "In Better Hands: An Appalachian Memoir of Healing and Grace." Brandi's raw and inspiring narrative, released just this year, offers a beacon of hope to anyone navigating the aftermath of a turbulent past. As a debut author, she shares her compelling desire to use her story as a catalyst for change, providing insight into the possibility of breaking free from the chains of generational curses. Join us as we dive into the essence o...2024-02-151h 01Post Traumatic ParentingBreaking the Cycle of Generational Trauma with Kimberly Shannon MurphyWelcome to a very special episode of the Post Traumatic Parenting podcast! I'm so excited about today's episode because I had the chance to sit down with Kimberly Shannon Murphy, an incredible stuntwoman and gifted author of the book Glimmer. In our conversation, we dove deep into the profound impact of generational trauma and post-traumatic parenting. Kimberly opened up about her personal journey of overcoming incest and how this experience shaped her life and approach to motherhood. This episode is not just about survival but also about breaking cycles of generational abuse and forging a...2024-01-2556 minPost Traumatic ParentingPost-Traumatic Parenting of Middle School Children with Nik BowersAre you navigating the challenging waters of post-traumatic parenting of middle school children? Today, I sit down with Nik Bowers, a former middle school principal and fellow post-traumatic parent. We dive deep into our personal experiences of overcoming trauma and how it has shaped our approach to parenting. We discuss the importance of being 'cycle breakers'—striving to provide our children with healthier childhoods than we had.Nik shares her powerful story of surviving child sexual abuse and how she used her pain as a catalyst for change in her parenting style. We also de...2024-01-181h 00
The Jews Next DorPost Traumatic Parenting – Dr. Robyn KoslowitzWelcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Our guest today is Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, one of the great leaders in our generation in the parenting realm. She is […]2024-01-1600 min
The Jews Next Dor57. Turning Pain into Progress: How Facing Your Trauma Can Make You a Better Parent | Robyn KoslowitzWelcome to another episode of The Jews Next Dor! Our guest today is Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, one of the great leaders in our generation in the parenting realm. She is a licensed clinical psychologist, a parenting educator, and the educational director of the Targeted Parenting Institute.
Targeted Parenting is a parenting system that uses empirically validated techniques to train parents and children to overcome various disorders of childhood in a preventative fashion, in order to minimize or avoid later expensive psychotherapy.
This episode provides powerful insights into how parents can overcome...2024-01-0744 minPost Traumatic ParentingBreaking Free from Toxic Relationships with Dr. Sherrie CampbellWelcome to another guest episode of Post Traumatic Parenting! In today's episode, we'll be diving deep into the complexities of navigating toxic relationships with a nationally recognized expert clinical psychologist - Dr. Sherrie Campbell. Dr. Campbell shares her personal journey of growing up in a toxic environment and how she broke free from the cycle of abuse.We discuss the importance of understanding family dynamics and setting boundaries to protect not only yourself but also your children. She provides invaluable insights on harnessing anger as a healthy emotion for justice and boundary-setting, distinguishing it...2023-11-291h 02Post Traumatic ParentingDyslexia Awareness Month: Turning Your Diagnosis into Your Superpower with Lynn GreenbergWelcome to another episode of the Post Traumatic Parenting podcast! Today's episode is extra special because I'm joined by Lynn Greenberg, co-author of the book "Robby the Dyslexic Taxi and the Airport Adventure". This episode is being released in October to honor Dyslexia Awareness Month, so let's celebrate by discussing how post-traumatic parents can better support their children with dyslexia in understanding and embracing their diagnosis.If you're a loyal listener of the Post Traumatic Parenting podcast, you've heard me talk about my AIM Model - acceptance, integration, and mission. Jonathan is a perfect...2023-10-2551 min
JOWMA (Jewish Orthodox Women's Medical Association) PodcastHelping Our Children, Helping Ourselves: Coping in Crisis with Dr. Elana DumontDr. Elana Dumont trained to work with young children though adulthood treating issues such as anxiety and depression. In addition she provides parent coaching to support parents in their developing strong relationships with their children. She is also trained to treat women struggling with pre and post natal challenges.She utilizes an integrated approach using evidence based treatments that include CBT (cognitive-behavioral therapy), mindfulness, exposure treatment, and parent management training. She also believes in the validity of psychodynamic therapy and building a strong therapeutic alliance with my clients.
Dr. Dumont works as a school psychologist at a private school...2023-10-2439 minPost Traumatic ParentingWhat Most Post-Traumatic Parents Don't Know About Attachment TheoryIn today's podcast episode, we will address the concerns of post-traumatic parents who may feel a sense of sadness as they learn about cycle-breaking and attachment theory. They wonder how their own attachment experiences may have impacted their children. However, we will debunk the myth that secure attachment is beyond the reach of post-traumatic parents. Instead, we will focus on how we can work towards repairing attachment, even if it feels challenging.Throughout this episode, we will examine attachment theory through the lens of trauma and post-traumatic parenting. We will break down the components...2023-10-181h 11Post Traumatic ParentingPTSD Parenting Your Neurodiverse Child With Dayna AbrahamAre you a parent who has experienced trauma and is now raising a neurodiverse child? Have you ever wondered how to navigate the challenges and joys that come with it? In today's podcast episode, we discuss how to overcome the challenges of parenting a neurodiverse child while addressing your own trauma with my special guest, Dayna Abraham. Dayna is a parenting educator and author of the book "Calm the Chaos." She shares her personal journey as a parent of a neurodiverse child and how she discovered the transformative effects of shifting her mindset and q...2023-09-061h 09Post Traumatic ParentingParent the Child You Have, Not the Child You Were for Post-traumatic ParentsWelcome back to another episode of the Post-Traumatic Parenting podcast! In this episode, I am joined by Dr. Brie Turns-Coe, a licensed marriage and family therapist, and together we discuss how to parent the child you have, not the child you were, and how to provide your children with a healthy childhood. Dr. Brie Turns-Coe emphasizes the importance of recognizing the unique needs of each child rather than parenting based on our own childhood experiences or the opposite of them. We also delve into the topic of post-traumatic parenting, how to identify it, including speaking to your inner child...2023-07-261h 03JOWMA (Jewish Orthodox Women's Medical Association) PodcastFight, Flight or Freeze: Dr. Sarah Becker on Anxiety and Depression in Children and TeensSarah Dienstag Becker MD is double board certified in general and child and adolescent psychiatry. She attended Brooklyn College and Albert Einstein College of Medicine where she was selected to the prestigious Alpha Omega Alpha Honors Society. Dr. Becker completed her psychiatric residency at Montefiore Medical Center and child psychiatry fellowship at Zucker Hillside Hospital at Northwell where she served as chief fellow. She currently works at Premium Health Center in Brooklyn and is the Director of Mental Health at JOWMA while maintaining a small private practice in Queens. Dr. Becker also serves on the physician advisory committee for...2023-07-201h 37Post Traumatic ParentingBreaking the Cycle of Shame in Parenting With Maggie NickTune in to today's episode to explore the topic of shame in parenting, healing low self-worth, and how to provide children with a shame-free childhood. My special guest, Maggie Nick, founder of Parenting with Perspectacles, shares her inspiring story of breaking the cycle of shame in parenting and together, we discuss the importance of breaking these cycles to ensure our children grow up feeling loved and worthy. We also talk about the transformative power of rejecting shame, fear, intimidation, and punishment as parenting tools and challenge the notion that being a "good parent" depends on having a "good" and...2023-07-191h 25Post Traumatic ParentingEating Disorder Recovery for Post-Traumatic Parents with Michelle ZagardoIn today's episode, I had the pleasure of hosting Michelle Zagardo, a member of the post-traumatic parenting community. Our discussion centered around post-traumatic parenting while in eating disorder recovery. We debunked the myth that only those who are severely ill require treatment for eating disorders. Additionally, we delved into the relationship between food and control, especially for individuals who grew up without much autonomy. We also explored how societal messages can impact our relationship with food and our bodies. It is crucial to have a healthy relationship with food, where it is viewed as a...2023-07-121h 18
The Most Important MedicineThe Domino Effect of Trauma in Parenting with Dr. Robyn KoslowitzJoin Dr. Amy & Dr. Robyn Koslowitz as she shares her experience and rich work with families in healing trauma. Robyn is brilliant, funny & compassionate. We had such a wonderful discussion about the important work of healing intergenerational trauma and ways to work with families in a way that honors their stories. Dr. Koslowitz received her PhD in Clinical Child Psychology from New York University in 2009 & has been a school psychologist since 2002. She's a frequent media contributor who has appeared on FOX, CNN, NewsNation and other shows. Her clinical work is conducted through The Center for Psychological Growth i...2023-06-0744 minPost Traumatic ParentingParts Work Therapy for Post-traumatic Parents with Ilyse KennedyIn today's podcast episode, I delve deep into the world of parts work therapy with the incredible trauma therapist, author, and parts work expert - Ilyse Kennedy. Ilyse's area of expertise lies in working with complex trauma, and she has helped numerous parents unpack their trauma while parenting their children.In this interview, Ilyse sheds light on the concept of parts work therapy, which involves identifying and addressing different parts of yourself. She also talks about the importance of parts work therapy and how it can help post-traumatic parents navigate the challenges of parenthood...2023-06-0759 minPost Traumatic ParentingGetting Out of Entanglement: Deep Dive Into BoundariesIn today’s episode of Post Traumatic Parenting, I delve further into the topic of entanglement, boundaries, and how to get out of entanglement. If you recall the previous episode, you remember Esme, a post-traumatic parent who is so tangled up in the dynamics of her family of origin that it interferes with her parenting style and hinders her ability to parent in accordance with her values. Esme has sought my guidance in analyzing her situation and finding a way out of this entanglement. While some may believe that cutting off ties or completely wit...2023-05-3159 minPost Traumatic ParentingPost-Traumatic Parenting Profiles: The Entangled ParentWelcome to another episode of Post-Traumatic Parenting! I'm thrilled to share today's episode with you as I'm experimenting with a new format for solo episodes. After hearing from several post-traumatic parents who reached out to share their stories on the podcast but were concerned about protecting their identities, I wanted to find a way to help them and analyze their situations without revealing any sensitive information. By doing so, we can learn so much from one another's experiences and grow together as a community.In today's episode, I begin by discussing the five different...2023-05-2451 minPost Traumatic ParentingPost-Traumatic Parenting After Mass Violence: Survivors Path Share Their WisdomColumbine. Las Vegas Rt. 91. Sandy Hook. Robb Elementary School. These shootings (and sadly, so many more) are seared into our public consciousness. I can still remember where I was when the news about Columbine broke. For many Post-Traumatic Parents, the thought of mass violence or school shootings is terrifying, because who knows better than us just how unsafe the world is? Even if our trauma wasn't about mass violence, the unsafe feeling trauma leaves behind affects us. In this deeply moving episode, the women of Survivors Path talk about the courage it takes to p...2023-05-181h 25Post Traumatic ParentingHow to Stop the Trauma App from Hijacking Your BrainThe metaphor I like to use the most for trauma is it’s like a mobile app running in the background. It drains your battery and keeps giving itself permissions unless you actively limit them. You could think of it as well-intentioned malware that was baked into your phone. What’s the goal of the trauma app? Restore a sense of safety. But here is the thing. The trauma app can’t tell the difference between feeling safe and being safe. It overrides your true self and your ability to act in accordance with your va...2023-05-0342 minPost Traumatic ParentingHealing Your Trauma Through Havening With Dr. Kate TruittWhen we as post-traumatic parents, come to the realization of how our traumas impact our parenting, we get anxious and try to get better quickly because we realize how much our children depend on us. Speeding out your trauma recovery is an often discussed topic in the Post Traumatic Parenting community. Members often ask me about self-healing approaches that could be used between therapy sessions to turbocharge their therapy.That's why for today's podcast episode, I invited Dr. Kate Truitt to talk about havening and how to use it to heal your trauma, and...2023-04-1055 minPost Traumatic ParentingTurning Your Trauma Into Superpower With Stephanie ChandlerWelcome to another exciting episode of the Post-Traumatic Parenting podcast! In today’s podcast episode, I’m joined by Stephanie Chandler, the founder of the Nonfiction Authors Association. I recently attended her conference and when I heard her unique post-traumatic parenting story I knew I had to share it with you all because I love bringing post-traumatic parents on the podcast so that we can hear real-life Post-Traumatic stories. Stephanie is someone I admire a lot, she turned her trauma into a superpower, while remaining a conscious, present parent. Tune in as we talk about Stephanie’s story, how she su...2023-03-2259 minPost Traumatic ParentingWhat they don't tell you about PostPartum Life & Trauma with Chelsea Bodie of @mamapsychologistsPostpartum can be tough. Whether you are a new parent or you already have children, you have never done this pregnancy before, you have never adjusted from one baby to two and from two to three. That’s why postpartum recovery might look very different for every one of us. Postpartum shakes, not feeling the rush of maternal love, or feeling incompetent and unsupported, it’s all part of the postpartum journey.Your body goes through intense experience during childbirth, so it’s important to be kind to yourself. It will take time to adjust...2023-02-1555 min
Post Traumatic ParentingDefending Young Minds from Online Predators with Kristen A JensonDo you worry about how to protect your kids from online dangers, from predators to porn? As Post-Traumatic Parents, we are especially aware of how dangerous the world can be! In this episode, Kristen A Jenson, from Defend Young Minds, helps us explore how to protect our kids in the digital world. We talk about her books, like Good Pictures, Bad Pictures, her journey towards being a kid safety crusader, and why digital safety is particularly important for those of us who have been traumatized.
You can find Kristen online atwww.defendyoungminds.com
...2022-06-2954 minPost Traumatic ParentingDefending Young Minds from Online Predators with Kristen A JensonDo you worry about how to protect your kids from online dangers, from predators to porn? As Post-Traumatic Parents, we are especially aware of how dangerous the world can be! In this episode, Kristen A Jenson, from Defend Young Minds, helps us explore how to protect our kids in the digital world. We talk about her books, like Good Pictures, Bad Pictures, her journey towards being a kid safety crusader, and why digital safety is particularly important for those of us who have been traumatized.
You can find Kristen online atwww.defendyoungminds.com
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JOWMA (Jewish Orthodox Women's Medical Association) PodcastPost-Traumatic Parenting with Robyn Koslowitz, PhDDr. Robyn Koslowitz is a clinical psychologist, parenting educator, and the host of the Post-Traumatic Parenting podcast. Dr. Koslowitz received her master’s degree in School Psychology from New York University in 2002, and her Ph.D. in School/Clinical Child Psychology from New York University in 2009. She is the author of the Prescriptive Parenting column in Binah.
Dr. Koslowitz is the founder of Post-Traumatic Parenting, which is both a podcast and social media community for parents who have ever asked themselves: How can I give my children a normal childhood, if mine was anything but? Or perhaps, our...2021-12-231h 01
The SelfWork Podcast244 SelfWork: Why We Lie (Even In Therapy)Today we're going to focus on why we lie to each other, to ourselves and even in therapy. We'll touch on severe manipulative lying, called pathological lying, and compulsive lying, but most of the episode we'll discuss plain old lying. I found two wonderful articles on the subject and their links are below. Hopefully understanding the "why" might help you realize that there are other things you could do... and I, as always, suggest what you can do about it. The listener voicemail for today is from someone who read my blogpost on enmeshment and is looking...2021-08-1326 minThe SelfWork Podcast244 SelfWork: Why We Lie (Even In Therapy)Today we're going to focus on why we lie to each other, to ourselves and even in therapy. We'll touch on severe manipulative lying, called pathological lying, and compulsive lying, but most of the episode we'll discuss plain old lying. I found two wonderful articles on the subject and their links are below. Hopefully understanding the "why" might help you realize that there are other things you could do... and I, as always, suggest what you can do about it. The listener voicemail for today is from someone who read my blogpost on enmeshment and is looking...2021-08-1326 minPost Traumatic ParentingPost Traumatic Parenting and Shame with Dr. Patti AshleyIs shame the hardest part of Post-Traumatic Parenting? Shame and trauma go together, and shame and parenting do, too. Dr. Patti Ashley, author of Shame Informed Therapy, website https://pattiashley.com/ is the expert on this. We talked about how shame is a sense of not being enough, no matter how well we’re doing, and how trauma leads to shame. Most crucially, we talked about what to do about it. So many PTPs want to avoid shaming our own kids, but we don’t know exactly how. Dr. Ashley has some great ideas.2021-05-2854 minPost Traumatic ParentingPost Traumatic Parenting and Shame with Dr. Patti AshleyIs shame the hardest part of Post-Traumatic Parenting? Shame and trauma go together, and shame and parenting do, too. Dr. Patti Ashley, author of Shame Informed Therapy, website https://pattiashley.com/ is the expert on this. We talked about how shame is a sense of not being enough, no matter how well we’re doing, and how trauma leads to shame. Most crucially, we talked about what to do about it. So many PTPs want to avoid shaming our own kids, but we don’t know exactly how. Dr. Ashley has some great ideas.2021-05-2854 min
To (Mom) LifeEpisode 46: Post Traumatic ParentingToday, Jodi speaks with Dr Robyn Koslowitz of Targeting Parenting. We all experience trauma at some point or another. Since an individual’s life experiences affect one’s current status, it is crucial to ensure that your parenting is stemming from an authentic place that does not carry too much baggage. Additionally, it is important to be on the lookout for the potential of your child’s emotions manifesting in negative ways and avoiding ways in which your parenting can lead to sensitive outcomes on behalf of your child(ren). About Our Guest:Dr. Robyn K...2021-04-2828 minPost Traumatic ParentingThe Beyond Behaviors Approach to Parenting with Dr. Mona DelahookePost-Traumatic Parents know what helpless feels like, and we don’t want to inflict that feeling on our kids. We don’t want to parent coercively. But the behavioral approach to parenting seems to be the only game in town! Is there a way to help our kids learn emotion regulation or coping without sticker charts? Dr. Mona Delahooke https://monadelahooke.com/ has a parenting plan that combines Polyvagal theory with child development research and neuroscience. Let’s apply her work to Post-Traumatic Parenting.2021-04-201h 06Post Traumatic ParentingThe Beyond Behaviors Approach to Parenting with Dr. Mona DelahookePost-Traumatic Parents know what helpless feels like, and we don’t want to inflict that feeling on our kids. We don’t want to parent coercively. But the behavioral approach to parenting seems to be the only game in town! Is there a way to help our kids learn emotion regulation or coping without sticker charts? Dr. Mona Delahooke https://monadelahooke.com/ has a parenting plan that combines Polyvagal theory with child development research and neuroscience. Let’s apply her work to Post-Traumatic Parenting.2021-04-201h 06Post Traumatic ParentingDivorce and Post-Traumatic Parenting with Dr. Ann BuschoPost-Traumatic due to divorce? You’ll want to hear what Dr. Ann Buscho has to say. She’s a psychologist and an expert in “Nesting,” a form of divorce where the kids stay home and parents rotate in and out. Her book, The Parent’s Guide to Birdnesting, is a roadmap to the only truly child-centered divorce possible. You can find her and her book at https://drannbuscho.com/ Here’s my review of her book: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/targeted-parenting/202012/book-review-the-parents-guide-birdnesting2021-04-131h 10