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Death By AdultingGathering Around the Table: Cherishing Family TraditionsDiscover stress-free holiday meal preparation with the delightful insights of James Beard Award-winning chef Emma Smock, who also happens to be my talented daughter. You'll learn how to wow your guests with a simple yet stunning roasted green beans recipe, offering a healthier twist on the classic green bean casserole. Emma shares her culinary secrets, from selecting the finest French-style green beans to mastering the art of roasted garlic and choosing high-quality olive oil. This episode is packed with practical tips and mouthwatering recipes to ensure your Thanksgiving contributions shine at the dinner table.Dive into the...2024-11-1523 minDeath By AdultingNavigating Life's Uncertainties with ConfidencePicture this: a knock on the door shatters the calm of a Sunday morning, bringing with it the unexpected weight of reality. That's the moment many of us dread, yet so few of us prepare for. Life insurance isn't just a piece of paper; it's a promise to protect your family's future against the uncertainties of life. Join us as we unpack the critical role of life insurance in adulthood, revealing how everyone—from singles to grandfathers—can benefit from this vital safety net. Through real-life stories like Steve's time in the Navy and the unforeseen tragedy of Bruce and...2024-10-2116 minDeath By AdultingThe Art of Balancing Careers and Family DreamsWhen is the right time to start a family, and how do you navigate the societal pressures that come with it? Megan and Dr. Steve Scheibner are here to share their own personal insights and experiences from raising eight wonderful children. We'll tackle the age-old conversation about the infamous "biological clock" and explore how career aspirations can mesh with family life. With a focus on intentional and prayerful decision-making, we discuss the potential challenges of postponing parenthood, especially for women approaching their late thirties. Our journey is filled with anecdotes and lessons that aim to guide couples on their...2024-10-1721 minDeath By AdultingFrom Parent to Friend: Nurturing Adult Child RelationshipsUnlock the secrets to evolving from an authoritative parent to a cherished friend to your adult child. This episode promises to guide you through the intricate journey of parenting, offering valuable insights and practical strategies for every stage of your child's development. From setting firm boundaries during their formative years to adopting a coaching mindset through their teenage phase, we cover it all, ensuring you're well-equipped to foster a relationship rooted in love and mutual respect.Our discussion doesn't stop there; we draw parallels between parenting and the world of sports. Imagine yourself as a trainer and...2024-10-0222 minDeath By AdultingBalancing Career, Finances, and Family: Lessons from Raising Eight ChildrenEver wondered how to juggle the demands of career, finances, and starting a family? Dr. Steve and Megan Scheibner share their heartfelt journey and the lessons they've learned from raising eight children on this episode of "Death by Adulting." From the importance of mutual agreement and prayer in family planning to the challenges of timing and fertility concerns, Megan and Dr. Steve offer honest insights into making these life-changing decisions. Tune in as they discuss the balance between career aspirations and the desire to grow a family, providing advice on how long couples should wait after marriage before having...2024-10-0221 minDeath By AdultingReigniting Romance: The Power of a Couple's GetawayCan a simple trip transform your relationship? Find out how a few days of isolation at Bethany Beach, Delaware, reignited our spark and could do wonders for your bond too. This episode of Death by Adulting, the on-the-road edition, is all about the magic of getting away together, just the two of you, and why it's crucial for couples at any stage. Whether you're discussing big life changes or simply reconnecting, we share personal stories and practical tips that highlight the importance of investing in your relationship without the usual distractions.Join us as we break down...2024-09-2507 minDeath By AdultingEmpowering Children with Trust and ResponsibilityCan obedience truly lead to responsibility in parenting? Today on Death by Adulting, we explore this provocative question and uncover how small adjustments in parenting can yield significant positive outcomes for your child's future. By challenging the conventional wisdom that obedience is the ultimate goal, we reveal how it serves as a crucial stepping stone to fostering responsibility. We draw insightful parallels with the US military's focus on trust and adaptability to illustrate how these principles can be seamlessly integrated into child-rearing. Through engaging, real-life scenarios, and expert advice, we demonstrate the importance of modeling good character and decision-making...2024-09-1121 minDeath By AdultingParenting with Compassion: Teaching Respect and RulesIs it possible to foster obedience in children without resorting to overbearing methods? Discover the answer with Dr. Steve on this illuminating episode of "Death by Adulting." We promise you'll gain powerful insights into why teaching children to obey quickly, completely, and without complaint is not just a demand but a crucial parental responsibility. Through practical examples, such as the potential hazards of a child running away in a busy area, we highlight the real-world implications that underscore the importance of immediate and joyful compliance.Building emotional and spiritual security is another essential topic we tackle. We...2024-09-0328 minDeath By AdultingBreaking Free from Immature Relationships: Recognizing and Remedying Arrested DevelopmentWhy do so many men seem to get stuck in a perpetual state of adolescence, treating relationships like conquests and shirking responsibilities? Discover the root causes of arrested development in relationships as Megan and Dr. Steve Scheibner explore this pervasive issue in our latest episode of "Death by Adulting". We delve into the mindset that keeps some men trapped at a 19-year-old level of maturity, leading to toxic behaviors like love bombing and blame-shifting. Through real-life counseling experiences and societal analysis, we highlight the seven signs of immature relationships and offer strategies for recognizing and addressing these harmful patterns.2024-08-2722 minDeath By AdultingParenting Tips for Stronger Family BondsEver wondered why kids form friendships so easily while adults struggle to break the ice? Today, we examine the magical world of children's social interactions, reflecting on the effortless way they engage with strangers and form bonds. We share practical tips for parents, like the red flag, green flag system to manage neighborhood playtimes. This episode is all about embracing humility and staying open to connections at any age, ensuring that both children and adults navigate social situations with ease and grace.Next, we tackle the tricky topic of honesty, inspired by a personal story of watching "...2024-08-2228 minDeath By AdultingStaying Cool Under Pressure: A Guide for Back-to-School SuccessAre you ready to conquer the chaos of back-to-school season? Join us on this episode of Death by Adulting as we share hilarious anecdotes and essential tips to ease the transition for both parents and kids. We'll explore how to tackle the anxiety that often accompanies this time of year, emphasizing the magic of preparation and maintaining a positive attitude. Whether your children are excited or dreading the return to school, we've got advice on keeping your cool and avoiding the pitfall of projecting your anxieties onto them. From public and private schools to homeschooling, our strategies for staying...2024-08-1419 minDeath By AdultingStress-Free Hosting: Transforming Your Space and MindsetEver felt overwhelmed by the idea of hosting guests? You’re not alone. Inspired by 1 Peter 4:9, we explore the real challenges and profound rewards of hospitality from a Christian viewpoint. Join us at the Death by Adulting table as we unpack the difference between merely entertaining and offering genuine hospitality that fosters deep, personal connections. We discuss the importance of making our homes welcoming and dive into how being hospitable can start with our own families. You'll learn how to transform the exhaustion of hosting into meaningful relationship-building.From repurposing that old wedding dress for a fun tw...2024-08-0622 minDeath By AdultingSurviving Social Overload and Communication PitfallsIs non-face-to-face communication sabotaging your relationships? We explore this intriguing question by recounting our own close call during Steve's time in Aviation Officer Candidate School. Discover practical strategies we've developed for managing long-distance relationships, such as scheduled FaceTime sessions and avoiding late-night texts. Effective communication can be challenging, but with the right tools, you can weather any storm—even from miles apart.Navigating conversations with narcissists and individuals with dementia can feel like walking through a minefield. True narcissists thrive on chaos and manipulation, so we share insights on how to counteract their tactics by being meticulous no...2024-07-3130 minDeath By AdultingIntrovert's Guide to Respectful and Effective CommunicationJoin us on this eye-opening episode of "Death by Adulting" as we share the intimate details of our own long-distance relationship. Have you ever struggled with the nuances of non-face-to-face communication? We'll reveal how our long-distance engagement was fraught with misunderstandings and even led to a temporary breakup. Get ready to equip yourself with practical tools for better communication like limiting texting, scheduling structured times for talks, and relying on video calls. Our personal experiences aim to help you avoid the pitfalls we faced and make more mindful communication choices.Ever felt emotionally hijacked by a narcissist...2024-07-2330 minDeath By AdultingFrom Chaos to Calm: Practical Tips for Everyday SerenityManaging stress in today’s hectic world can seem impossible, but what if we told you that balance is within reach? On this enlightening episode of "Death by Adulting," we explore our top 10 tips for stress management, starting with the profound power of prayer. Learn how incorporating prayer into your daily routine can offer a sense of calm and center, drawing on personal stories that highlight its transformative effects on our lives and our children, especially during high-anxiety moments.We then shift gears to provide you with practical, actionable strategies for managing stress effectively. Discover why seeking pr...2024-07-1538 minDeath By AdultingGetting Real: Ditching Digital Drama for Authentic InteractionEver find yourself tangled in the web of modern communication, wondering how we got here? On this episode of "Death by Adulting," we unravel the evolution from letter writing and phone calls to the quicksand of texting and email. With humor and wit, we share our personal escapades of adopting our kids' texting habits, only to find ourselves hilariously uncool. Join us as we spotlight the irreplaceable value of face-to-face interactions for clarity and conflict resolution, along with practical tips for nurturing meaningful connections in today's digital age.Why do men rush to fix problems while women...2024-07-0935 minDeath By AdultingMastering Anxiety: Humor, Hope, and Hilarious Gift BlundersEver felt like the world is closing in on you for no apparent reason? You're not alone! Tune into this episode of Death by Adulting, where we tackle the all-too-familiar beast—anxiety. We'll share our personal stories of glazed looks during anxiety attacks and dive into the biological factors like heredity, high blood pressure, and pregnancy that can crank up those anxiety levels. But it's not all doom and gloom; we promise you'll walk away with proactive strategies to manage anxiety and recognize your personal predispositions to lead a healthier life.Next, we break down the complex na...2024-06-2750 minDeath By AdultingFive sure-fire ways to ruin your sex life. Plus, how to unpack miscommunication!Ever been handed a floating light bulb as a token of love? You're not alone, and you're in for a treat! This episode of Death by Adulting kicks off with Megan Scheibner and Dr. Steve Scheibner hilariously dissecting some of the most ridiculous "romantical" gifts ever suggested. From fill-in-the-blank love journals to bizarre gadgets, we laugh our way through why some gifts might be better off never leaving the store shelf. Spoiler alert: you might rethink your next romantic gesture! Plus, five sure-fire ways to ruin your sex life. You will want to avoid these triggers!Ever...2024-06-1847 minDeath By AdultingDaughters? Tips To Deal With Teen Drama and Laughing Through Life's SurprisesHow do elephants, orcas, and dwarf mongooses deal with their mother-in-laws? Get ready for a wild ride as Megan Scheibner and Dr. Steve kick off this episode of "Death by Adulting." We start with a humorous exploration of animal kingdom in-laws and then dive into Megan’s hilarious stories about her daughters, Emma and Molly, a.k.a. "the criminals." Their childhood and college escapades are sure to leave you in stitches!Ever wondered how the Normans and Vikings shaped Irish history, or why men seem to organize their lives in such peculiar ways? We touch on th...2024-06-1151 minDeath By AdultingEmbracing the Chaos: Doctor's Appointments, Screen Time Sanity, and Stress-Free Self-CareEver feel completely overwhelmed by the intricate demands of adulting? We’ve got you covered! In this episode of Death by Adulting, we kick things off with essential tips for scheduling that dreaded doctor’s appointment—because let’s face it, no one should avoid taking care of their health. From knowing your birth date and symptoms to storing your insurance details on your phone, we’ve compiled everything you need to make this task easier. Personal anecdotes about our eight children will make you chuckle and highlight why it’s vital to take charge of your health responsibilities.Nex...2024-06-0534 minDeath By AdultingNavigating Adult Stress with a Dash of Inigo MontoyaWhat if overcoming your fear of phone calls could be as simple as channeling your inner Inigo Montoya? Learn how this beloved character from "The Princess Bride" can guide you through the art of making phone calls in a world dominated by texting. We'll share practical tips to help you conquer this modern-day challenge, all while sprinkling in a dose of humor and nostalgia from the iconic film. Discover essential communication skills that will not only make you better at adulting but also reduce your stress levels.Ever wondered why a phone call might be more effective...2024-05-2847 minDeath By AdultingUnlocking The Secrets of Steering Kids Toward Success in the Parenting CockpitEver wondered how parenting can feel like trying to land a plane on a bustling street? That's exactly where we start this episode, as Dr. Steve Scheibner shares his experiences with the peculiarities of Gibraltar Airport, where airstrips cross paths with everyday life. From there, we seamlessly transition into the pandemonium of parenting, drawing comparisons to the colorful chaos that parrots bring into our homes.As seasoned pilots in the vast skies of child-rearing, my wife Megan and I unfold the map of our parenting journey with eight kids, offering you navigational tips that steer clear of...2024-05-2048 minDeath By AdultingThe Sassy Science of Maturing and Mating RitualsEver wondered why flamingos are pink or why opposites attract in the wild dance of love? Join me and Dr. Steve Scheibner as we unravel these mysteries with our unique blend of humor and insight, offering a colorful perspective on the adulting spectacle. From the curious courtship rituals in the animal kingdom to the baffling allure of jerks, we'll connect the dots between nature's quirks and our own complex human interactions.This episode isn't just about laughs and head-scratching facts; it's a candid exploration of the deep impact our choices have on who we become. We dissect...2024-05-1353 minDeath By AdultingNurturing Connection the Otter Way and the Impact of Positive LanguageDiscover the unexpected lesson otters teach us about nurturing closeness in our relationships as Megan and I, along with our insightful guests, explore the significance of maintaining contact and the transformative power of touch. Embrace the cozy bedtime habits of these hand-holding creatures to unlock a deeper connection with your partner. This episode is a treasure trove of strategies for enhancing intimacy, from the importance of non-sexual touch and intentional communication to the art of appreciation and the joy of spiritual growth.Dive into the art of continuous learning about each other and how it keeps the...2024-04-3042 min
Death By AdultingSlapstick Penguins and Unconventional Romance: Navigating Love, Faith, and AdultingEver wondered if there's more to the penguin's love life than meets the eye? Steve and I certainly did, which is why we're tickled to share our revelations about the slapstick world of emperor penguin courtship and its uncanny resemblance to the human quest for love. Grab a front-row seat to our laughter-infused chat where we compare avian slap-downs to swiping right, and unveil the lengths we've gone to in the pursuit of partnership. Our personal escapades in love just might make you look at those tuxedoed birds—and your own dating history—in a whole new light....2024-04-3044 min
The SharpeningEp. 14 | Ephesians, Ch. 4Ephesians chapter 4, the pinnacle of a well-crafted chiastic letter. Everything we have discussed previous has led to this chapter. Everything beyond this section is dependent on it.
We talk about unity in Christ, about forgiveness and righting relationships, and we discuss cultural understandings and potential issues with Spiritual Gifts.
A huge thank you to Steve & Megan Scheibner for insights into this chapter. Check out their ministry and website at www.characterhealth.com
Resources Used:
"Christ-Centered Exposition, Exalting Jesus In Ephesians" by Tony Merida
"Exploring Ephesians & Phillipians, An Expository Commentary" by John Phillips
Notes from The Bible Project's Ephesians Classroom taught...2023-07-261h 21