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Dr. Victoria Barry And Dr. Nicole Young
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My Psychologist Bestie
Imposter Syndrome: Volume 2
Your psychologist besties are back and raring to continue our series about our perineal frenemy, Imposter Syndrome! So put on your best Adult Costume and learn about ways to actually change your behavior so that Imposter Syndrome isn't making your decisions for you. That b*tch can't be trusted!
2025-05-30
33 min
My Psychologist Bestie
AI and Mental Health: The Sequel
Your favorite definitive non-AI-experts are back to discuss the issues related to artificial intelligence and mental health! Put on your carpal tunnel wrist guards and hear your psychologist besties' concerns about how AI is increasingly being used to meet social needs.
2025-05-23
32 min
My Psychologist Bestie
The Myth of Perfect
Perfect (adjective): 1. having all the required or desirable elements, qualities, or characteristics; as good as it is possible to be.2. (verb) to make (something) completely free from faults or defects.3. (truth) a concept (not a real thing), and thus not objectively attainable. A myth.Being a perfectionist may seem like a flex and it might help you in some areas of life, but chasing "perfect" almost always takes more than it gives. So join your charmingly imperfect psychologist besties in exploring the power of striving for Good Enough.
2025-05-16
31 min
My Psychologist Bestie
Why High Achievers Need Community
Is making and sustaining community on your list of achievements? Because it should be! Few things are as powerful for our health and happiness as being connected to others, even if it doesn't seem as sexy on paper as a promotion or beautiful home! So roll up with your psychologist besties and learn why you should consider joining your local bird watching group and/or charity bowling league.
2025-05-09
34 min
My Psychologist Bestie
Cults and the High Achiever
What do multilevel-level marketing, highly restrictive wellness programs and intense niche religious movements (Not saying which ones! Stop looking at me, Tom Cruise!) have in common? They all use tactics common in cults! Put on your best tin foil bonnet and join your psychologist besties to explore why ANYONE, including very intelligent high achievers, can be drawn into predatory, cult-adjacent situations.
2025-05-02
32 min
My Psychologist Bestie
Trad Wives
Aprons and vacuums and Trad Wives, oh my! Today your psychologist besties wade into the murky waters of the Trad Wife trend. We explore this performative, overachieving form of "traditional" domesticity and why it's not always what it seems to be. So get your popcorn, your pearls, and your husband's written permission to join us for this week's episode!
2025-04-25
29 min
My Psychologist Bestie
Good Enough Parenting
In our follow up episode to Overachieving Parenting, your psychologist besties discuss the benefits of Good Enough Parenting. Learn the basic elements that are required to create a solid foundation for your kids. Spoiler: it's less than you imagined! So prepare to clutch your pearls, besties, because we are going to talk about purposely not aiming for perfection in your child rearing!
2025-04-18
29 min
My Psychologist Bestie
People Pleasing and the High Achiever
Do you want us to do an episode on people pleasing? No? Nevermind, nevermind, forget I mentioned it! We'll pivot to a discussion of mental illness in reality TV stars!JK, your psychologist besties are helping you confront your people pleasing tendencies whether you want to or not! Learn about the different ways that this issue can manifest in high achievers' lives and how to find your way out of People Pleaser Land: The Most Exhausting Place on Earth.
2025-04-11
29 min
My Psychologist Bestie
Overachieving Parenthood
Did you know that there is no trophy for being a 99th percentile mom? What a racket!In this episode, Victoria and Nicole discuss the ways that high achieving women can put unnecessary pressure on themselves, and their children, in the pursuit of being the perfect parent. So put on your comfiest pair of mom jeans and hop in your psychologist besties' car pool to learn ways to (maybe! hopefully!) have a more relaxed parenting experience.
2025-04-04
31 min
My Psychologist Bestie
Emotionally Immature Parents and Overachieving
One (pothole ridden, poorly lit, possibly haunted) road to high achievement is being raised by parents who could not provide you with the emotional warmth, care and validation all children crave. In this episode, Victoria and Nicole discuss the topic of Emotionally Immature Parents and the ways in which growing up with these caregivers can lead to chronic overachievement and irrational self-blame, particularly for women. So come recline on a leather chaise with your psychologist besties if this sounds like your childhood, and go hug your mom if it doesn't.Linked below...
2025-03-28
34 min
My Psychologist Bestie
High Achievers In Relationships
Romantic relationships are just like any other achievement, right? We can just make a detailed plan, work really hard, have a high level of control and achieve all of our goals! Right? Right?!?L.O.L.Perfectionism and personal relationships don't mix well, so cozy up to your psychologist besties as we discuss the challenges high achievers sometimes face in dating and romantic partnerships.
2025-03-21
27 min
My Psychologist Bestie
The Over-Functioning Trap
Over-Functioner? I hardly know her!Just kidding. She is us. We are her. Join your psychologist besties to learn about the dynamic of over-functioning, which breeds resentment and exhaustion, and what we can do to change it. It's time to stop feeling like we have to take on everything while the people around us relax with their feet up sipping frozen daiquiris, fellow high achievers!
2025-03-14
29 min
My Psychologist Bestie
Imposter Syndrome: Vol. 1
Overachieving and Imposter Syndrome go together like peanut butter and jelly! Join your psychologist besties for our first of several discussions on Imposter Syndrome. We'll discuss what it is, how to challenge it and ways to imagine that you deserve credit for your success.
2025-03-07
25 min
My Psychologist Bestie
Artificial Intelligence and Mental Health
Do your psychologist besties have any expertise in AI and/or computational neuroscience? Absolutely not! Are we still going to flap our gums about it? You bet! Pull up an ergonomically designed computer chair and listen to our minimally informed opinions on the intersection of AI and mental health care.
2025-02-28
28 min
My Psychologist Bestie
Money Complicates Things
Money! Wanting it, having it, spending it, saving it: these are important and often emotionally complicated experiences for high achieving women. So roll up (your pennies!) with your psychologist besties to discuss this often avoided topic.
2025-02-21
26 min
My Psychologist Bestie
Relaxation Is a Need
Unable to put your feet up for 5 minutes without feeling guilty about being unproductive? No? Just Us? Well, come alongside your psychologist besties anyway to discuss why relaxing can be challenging for high achievers and how to shift into a mindset that sees rest as a need, not a luxury.
2025-02-14
29 min
My Psychologist Bestie
Psychologists as Patients
Spoiler: your therapist is just a regular person, which means they will need professional support sometimes. Nicole and Victoria discuss their experiences from the other side of the couch and explore what it's meant for them to be on the receiving end of mental health care.
2025-02-07
29 min
My Psychologist Bestie
Why We Never Ask for Help
High achievers often struggle with asking for help, or even just accepting help when it is offered. Saddle up with your psychologist besties to hear about the benefits of getting better at this important life skill!
2025-01-31
29 min
My Psychologist Bestie
The Fine Art of Saying No
Nope. Nuh-uh. Hard pass. Nah. However we want to phrase it, no can be hard to say, especially for high achievers! Join the psychologist besties in the struggle to learn how to articulate your limits and feel empowered to refuse when it serves you.
2025-01-24
36 min
My Psychologist Bestie
Learning to Fail
High achievers struggle with embracing failure. It goes against all of our instincts! But learning to fail can help us to cultivate self trust, compassion and personal growth in all kinds of unexpected ways. So join us, and we can all fall flat on our faces together, knowing we'll be able to dust ourselves off, get back up, and be better for it.
2025-01-03
28 min
My Psychologist Bestie
Overachieving The Holidays
Hear your psychologist besties, Nicole and Victoria, discuss how high achievement can manifest around the holidays to increase your stress, decrease your happiness and keep you from focusing on what's most important to you. So pop your festive vegan holiday loaf in the oven and pull up a chair to listen to our magical tale of how to get comfortable with resetting your expectations to include your own needs and preferences!
2024-12-13
29 min
The Superhero Show Show
#403: The Apes of Wrath
The Superhero Show Show #403The Apes of WrathIt's the premiere of Hit-Monkey, plus the return of Riverdale and The Flash, on an all-new The Superhero Show Show!On an all-new, all-different episode of The Superhero Show Show, Cassie and the Boyz are checking out the newest, and final, entry into the Marvel Hulu Universe! Hit-Monkey has premiered, and the Taste Buds are reviewing the first two episodes. It's a tale as...
2021-11-22
1h 39
The Superhero Show Show
#403: The Apes of Wrath
The Superhero Show Show #403The Apes of WrathIt's the premiere of Hit-Monkey, plus the return of Riverdale and The Flash, on an all-new The Superhero Show Show!On an all-new, all-different episode of The Superhero Show Show, Cassie and the Boyz are checking out the newest, and final, entry into the Marvel Hulu Universe! Hit-Monkey has premiered, and the Taste Buds are reviewing the first two episodes. It's a tale as...
2021-11-22
1h 39