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Rewired SoberEP 32: Why You Crave Booze, Then Hate It: The Opponent Process Theory ExplainedEver wonder why you want alcohol so badly—only to feel like absolute garbage afterward? You’re not broken. Your brain is just doing its job. In this episode, I want to share more about the neuroscience of addiction, diving deep into the opponent process theory, neurotransmitter chaos, and the real reason that 5 p.m. craving feels like a freight train.In this episode I cover:The brain’s “AB Process” and how it wires us to crave booze and crash afterWhy the wine witch hour isn’t about willpower—it’s about biologyGABA, glutamate, dopamine & cortisol: what’s...2025-07-2928 minRewired SoberEP 31: How Storytelling Rewires Our Brain Through RecoveryEver wonder why telling your story in recovery feels so powerful? It’s not just emotional—it's biological. In this solo episode, I talk about how storytelling activates empathy, builds emotional safety, and rewires your brain for change.From mirror neurons to narrative psychology, learn why your messy truth is the medicine—and how sharing it might be the most powerful recovery tool you have.Today I cover:Why “stories go where science can’t” (but neuroscience is catching up!)The magic and messiness of early AA storytelling circlesHow mirror neurons and narrative psychology help us chan...2025-07-2234 min
Carlos ManaçaMagna Recordings Radio Show by Carlos Manaca 377 | Vito Vitela (Mexico City) MexicoThis week we have a special latin Tech House Summer set by Mexican DJ and producer Vito Vitela.
Vito is based in Mexico City and has been a part of the Mexican dance scene for more than 15 years.
“Dame Los Drums” by Vito Vitela, Adriano Longi and Tomy Villacorta is available on all main digital download stores and streaming services.
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Rewired SoberEP 30: Recovery Begins With Connection - with Leah Fulton-EngIn this episode of Rewired Sober, I sit down with Leah Fulton Eng, a nurse, and the heart behind the Sober Mom Collective. Leah shares the truth about what it really looks like to get sober while parenting—and why community may be the most important part of recovery.Together, we unpack how the illusion of “mommy wine culture” keeps so many women stuck, and how the simple act of showing up—being seen—can be the first step toward lasting change.In this episode we talk about:Leah’s story of addiction, denial, and finally...2025-07-1549 min
The Begin Again Podcast🏥EP 105 - From Party Girl to Sober Coach: Kate Vitela's Incredible JourneyIn this heartfelt narrative, Kate Vitela shares her raw and unfiltered experience with addiction and her initial struggles with sobriety. She describes a poignant moment of clarity at a support meeting, where she felt a deep sense of belonging for the first time. Acknowledging the importance of personal responsibility in recovery, this story encapsulates a critical point in Vitela's journey that led her to find the strength and self-worth needed to overcome her addiction. This insightful reflection offers a glimpse into the emotional and transformative experiences that define the path to sobriety.🎧 Listen to he...2025-07-1539 min
Magna Recordings Radio Show by Carlos ManacaMagna Recordings Radio Show by Carlos Manaca 377 | Vito Vitela (Mexico City) MexicoThis week we have a special latin Tech House Summer set by Mexican DJ and producer Vito Vitela.Vito is based in Mexico City and has been a part of the Mexican dance scene for more than 15 years.“Dame Los Drums” by Vito Vitela, Adriano Longi and Tomy Villacorta is available on all main digital download stores and streaming services. https://linktr.ee/magnarecordings More info at https://www.instagram.com/vito_vitelahttps://www.facebook.com/DjVitoVitelahttps://linktr.ee/carlosmanacahttps://linktr.ee/magnare...2025-07-141h 00Rewired SoberEP 29: Unsexy in the CityIn this episode, I take you on a raw and unfiltered ride through New York City—from gritty Canal Street lofts to unexpected moments of insecurity on the Upper East Side. I recorded this on the fly during a spring trip, reflecting on identity, recovery, and the unexpected ways old wounds still show up—seven years sober. What begins as a rant about bad hotel decor becomes a powerful story of self-awareness, self-talk, and rediscovering joy (and a little magic) on the sidewalks of Manhattan. Key Takeaways:Even years into sobriety, old insecurities can resurface—and that’s...2025-07-0835 min
Rewired SoberEP 28: From Numbing to Knowing - Tammy Pozerycki Shares Her Sobriety StoryIn today's episode I am speaking with a former coaching client and dementia specialist Tammy Pozerycki. With 551 days of sobriety under her belt, Tammy opens up about her long history of addiction—from food and smoking to alcohol—and the emotional roots that kept her stuck for years. She shares how body image issues, disordered eating, and generational trauma shaped her coping mechanisms.Tammy reflects on the internal pain that motivated her to change, the chronic health conditions that reinforced her decision, and the role of coaching in helping her face the truth, shed the victim mindset, and...2025-07-0146 minRewired SoberEP 27. Welcome to REWIRED SOBERWelcome to the first official episode of Rewired Sober — formerly You’ve Been Selected. In this episode I pull back the curtain on the real reasons for the name change, what I've learned about ego, identity, and Instagram, and how getting lost in vanity metrics nearly derailed the heart of my mission — to help women recover through neuroscience, storytelling, and soul-deep honesty.If you’re craving a sober space that’s about rewiring your brain — not reposting filtered versions of your rock bottom — you’re in the right place.Why the Name Change MattersThe o...2025-06-2428 min
Rewired SoberEP 26. Sobriety, Simplicity & Letting Sh*t Go with Beate PilgreenIn today's episode, I sit down with Beate Pilgreen — a professional organizer, sober powerhouse, and all-around life declutterer — to talk about the connection between getting sober and clearing the damn clutter — both emotionally and physically.Beate shares her journey from growing up in Germany to making a "geographic" move to the U.S., thinking a new zip code could fix her heartbreak (and her drinking). Spoiler: it didn’t. But the story didn’t end there. After years of struggle, a 20-year marriage, and a full life reset, Beate found her way into sobriety — and, unexpectedly, into a whole new...2025-06-1746 min
Rewired SoberEP 25. Style Is Not a Makeover—It’s a Mirror with Solita C. RobertsIn this episode, I sit down with the brilliant Solita Roberts, founder of Style to Impact and a true catalyst for transformation—one wardrobe at a time.We go deep on how style isn't about playing dress-up for the world. It's about dressing in alignment with who you actually are. Whether you're stepping into sobriety, into leadership, or just into a new era of self, your closet shouldn't be holding you hostage to an outdated version of you.Solita shares how getting dressed during the darkest season of her life became an act of self-care—and...2025-06-1042 min
Rewired SoberEP 24. "Finding My Voice" with Celeste YvonneIn this beautifully candid conversation, Kate sits down with writer and recovery advocate Celeste Yvonne to talk about sobriety, identity, motherhood, and what it really takes to step into the light after years in the shadow of shame.Celeste shares the powerful backstory behind her book It's Not About the Wine, and what it was like navigating early recovery with a deep fear of being “found out.” From unpacking inherited narratives around addiction to co-founding the transformative Sober Mom Squad, Celeste opens up about finding her voice—and using it to help others find theirs.If you...2025-06-0351 min
Rewired SoberEP 23. NLP & The Power of Reframing with Marsha VanwynsbergheIn this powerful conversation, I sit down with author, speaker, NLP trainer, and coach Marsha Vanwynsberghe. Marsha is a six-time bestselling author, host of the Own Your Choices, Own Your Life Podcast, and founder of several transformational coaching programs. She shares openly about her journey as a parent navigating teen substance abuse and how that experience catalyzed her mission to help others reframe their stories and reclaim their power.This episode is an honest, wide-ranging look at the realities behind building a meaningful business, facing personal breaking points, and evolving through discomfort. Marsha and I discuss what...2025-05-2752 min
Rewired SoberEP 22. What Do Sober Couples Do For Fun?In today's episode, I am joined once again by my husband, Philip, to talk about something they’re frequently asked: What do sober couples do for fun?Together we share how our social life has evolved in sobriety—from bar brawls and boring nights in to a packed calendar filled with live music, fashion shows, comedy, art events, photography gigs, and spontaneous "treasure hunts" at flea markets.Not only that, our marriage and personal interests have flourished, and being sober has enhanced our ability to enjoy and explore life. From mocktails to night drives, downtown adve...2025-05-2045 minRewired SoberEp 21. Introducing The Gut Check: A Private Course for Self-InquiryIn this episode, I want to share a little bit about a new course called The Gut Check—a private self-inquiry course designed for those stuck in the space between “not rock bottom” and “not free.”This episode is both a behind-the-scenes look at why The Gut Check course was created and an invitation to explore what happens when we pause before the pivot.Whether you’re questioning your relationship with alcohol, stuck in comparison traps, or simply wondering “Is this working for me anymore?”, this episode and course are designed to meet you in that sacred spac...2025-05-1334 min
Rewired SoberEP 20. How to Love Yourself No Matter F*cking What with Artist Catherine JustIn this episode, I sit down with my dear friend, artist, and sober mentor Catherine Just — a visual powerhouse whose photography gives voice to the unspoken: love, loss, desire, and transformation.Catherine celebrates 37 years of continuous sobriety, and her life’s work is a testament to what happens when you listen to the inner whisper that says, “There’s more to life than what you’re living.” From battling meth addiction at 18 to gracing the walls of galleries in Paris, Milan, and Los Angeles, Catherine shares the raw truth of what it takes to own your space, your voice...2025-05-0642 minRewired SoberEP 19. Get Sober, Get a Life, Get DressedWhat started as a silly reel (complete with banana phone and bathrobe chic) evolved into a powerful reflection on identity, transformation, and fashion as a mirror of recovery. In this episode I unpack how sobriety shattered the illusion of what I once thought was a “fabulous” drinking life and how, ironically, my style and confidence actually blossomed in recovery.I discuss:The real meaning behind “get a life” after getting soberHow fashion helped Kate find her footing in recoveryThe identity crisis of ditching wine-soaked glam for authentic styleFrom "Hollywood Kate" to conscious consumer — the evolution of a personal...2025-04-2943 min
Rewired SoberEP 18. Kate's Husband Phillip is Back - Sharing His Sobriety StoryMy husband Phillip is back, and this time he is sharing his story about getting sober. From his career in the military, to binge drinking, blackouts, and rock-bottom moments—this is his story, 4 years after I decided to quit drinking.In this episode Phillip shares:The night he wrecked his car—and how it saved his lifeThe emotional toll of transitioning out of the militaryBinge drinking, masculinity, and cultural expectations around alcoholHow relationships can grow together even when recovery looks differentThe stigma (and silence) around sobriety in certain families and communities and the work he gets to d...2025-04-2241 minRewired SoberEp 17. Staying Sober When Your Partner Still DrinksIn this episode, I’m diving into the truth that no one tells you about getting sober: the real work starts after you put down the drink.For many of us, the next layer of recovery is learning how to navigate our relationships without numbing, fixing, or losing ourselves in other people.This one is for anyone who is navigating sobriety with a partner who still drinks.What happens when your nervous system finally stops buzzingWhy peace can feel threatening after a lifetime of survival modeThe sneaky ways people-pleasing and codependency show up post-sobrietySetting bo...2025-04-1529 minRewired SoberEP 16: My Journey Through Disordered EatingIn this solo episode, I crack open the conversation around disordered eating and substance use disorder — and how they can so often co-exist behind closed doors. I'm not an expert, just a woman in recovery sharing what helped me heal. I talk through the shame, the secrecy, and the sticky-note moment that became my turning point. This is my story of getting radically honest — with myself, my husband, and eventually, the world.What I cover in this episode:The painful intersection of sobriety and bulimia: why getting sober didn’t magically “fix” everything.My personal wake-up call: how...2025-04-0837 min
Rewired SoberEP 15. Loving an Addict: A Husband's PerspectiveWhat is it like to love someone through active addiction? In this raw and deeply personal episode, I sit down with my husband, Philip—a combat veteran and mental health advocate—to talk about our journey through addiction, codependency, and survival. What we cover:Our honest, unfiltered truth about love, recovery, and the hidden battles that we both faced throughout the yearsPhillip openly shares how he felt during my rock-bottom momentsPhilip shares his own struggles, the myths he believed about addiction, and the hard-earned lessons he learnedWhere we are today and how through our experiences we can s...2025-04-0143 min
Rewired SoberEP 14. Rewired for Recovery: Dr. Robb Kelly on Beating Addiction for GoodDr. Robb Kelly is a quick-witted, no-nonsense addiction expert who doesn’t sugarcoat the truth. He takes recovery seriously because people are dying, and there’s no time for excuses. In this episode, we go deep into his journey, his methods, and why he believes full recovery is possible.What We Cover:Dr. Kelly’s personal struggle – Losing custody of his children to addiction and fighting his way back.Building a recovery empire – How he turned his pain into a powerful business that changes lives.The science of rewiring the brain – Addiction isn’t a life sentence if yo...2025-03-2557 minRewired SoberEP 13. Sober in the City: Celebrating 7 Years in NYCEvery year, I take a trip to New York City for my soberversary, and this year marks 7 years. NYC has always been a magical place, but in sobriety, it’s taken on an even deeper meaning—it’s shown me that I can accomplish bucket list dreams sober instead of just being a drunken dreamer who never follows through.What I Share in This Episode:The power of experiencing NYC sober – How this city has become proof that I can do anything without alcohol.Break Free Fashion Show – How being part of this mental health and recovery m...2025-03-1826 minRewired SoberEP 12. Gratitude: A Love-Hate Relationship and Reframing It as RebellionIn this solo episode, Kate gets real about her complicated relationship with gratitude. Spoiler alert: it wasn’t always her favorite concept. She dives into why the typical “gratitude fixes everything” mantras used to make her roll her eyes and how she found a way to embrace gratitude without spiritually bypassing the real pain that life throws at us.Kate unpacks how gratitude, when done authentically, is less about ignoring pain and more about reframing it as an act of rebellion against a world that constantly tells us we’re not enough, don’t have enough, or need more...2025-03-1128 min
Rewired SoberBonus Episode: What it Takes to Be A Sober Gangster with Kate Vitela on the Own Your Choices Own Your Life PodcastIn this episode, I speak with Kate Vitela, a board-certified nurse coach and certified addiction RN with over two decades of nursing experience. Kate has been sober since 2018. She has empowered women in recovery with humour, science, and spiritual growth. Her podcast, "You Been Selected," inspires transformation through real talk and actionable tools for sobriety and personal development. Throughout our conversation, we explored the misconceptions surrounding addiction, particularly the stigma that often accompanies it. Kate emphasized the importance of understanding addiction as a complex issue rooted in pain and trauma rather than a moral failing. She highlighted t...2025-03-0753 min
Rewired SoberEP 11. This One’s for Jenny: A Deeper Dive into Sisterhood and Jenny’s StoryIn this episode, Kate continues her heartfelt conversation with Nurse Coach Sarah Morgando as they take a deeper dive into the story of Sarah’s sister, Jenny. They explore the complex relationship between gastric bypass surgery and addiction—a journey that ultimately led to Jenny’s untimely death.Together, Kate and Sarah discuss the profound impact this experience had on Sarah’s mission to create a space where women feel seen, heard, and safe. This inspired her to form a women’s group centered on sisterhood, self-awareness, and emotional safety—a place where vulnerability can flourish and healing begi...2025-03-0440 min
Own Your Choices Own Your Life822 | What it Takes to Be A Sober Gangster with Kate VitelaIn this episode, I speak with Kate Vitela, a board-certified nurse coach and certified addiction RN with over two decades of nursing experience. Kate has been sober since 2018. She has empowered women in recovery with humour, science, and spiritual growth. Her podcast, "You Been Selected," inspires transformation through real talk and actionable tools for sobriety and personal development. Throughout our conversation, we explored the misconceptions surrounding addiction, particularly the stigma that often accompanies it. Kate emphasized the importance of understanding addiction as a complex issue rooted in pain and trauma rather than a moral failing. She highlighted t...2025-02-2751 min
Rewired SoberEP 10. Sisterhood Rising with Sarah Morgando, RNIn this episode of "You Been Selected," Kate honors the incredible work of Nurse Coach Sarah Morgando and her group Sisterhood Rising, formed in loving memory of Sarah’s sister, who lost her battle with addiction. This powerful group is rooted in the concept of healing the sister wound—the deep societal patterns of judgment, comparison, and competition that often divide women.Kate explores how Sisterhood Rising creates a space where women in recovery can come together to dismantle these wounds and foster authentic connection. This concept is especially vital in female sober circles, where fears of judg...2025-02-2539 min
Rewired SoberEP 9. The Sober Curator: Fashion, Sobriety, and Adventures with Alysse BrysonIn this entertaining episode, Kate sits down with Alysse Bryson, founder of the online magazine The Sober Curator, to talk about how it all began. Alysse shares the story behind creating this much-needed space—a BuzzFeed-style hub for sober people—and how Kate got involved writing a fashion column, despite having no clue what she was doing at first.From humble beginnings to walking the runway at NYFW, Kate and Alysse recount their adventures in NYC, their shared passion for sober creativity, and their plans to bring even more entertaining content to The Sober Curator.Tune...2025-02-1841 min
Rewired SoberEp 8. Addiction Expert Veronica Valli: Navigating the Sober Social Media LandscapeIn this enlightening episode, Kate welcomes the renowned Veronica Valli—esteemed author, podcast host, and addiction expert with decades of sobriety. Veronica shares her seasoned perspective on the ever-evolving sober landscape on social media, diving into the rise of sober influencers, the cult of online personalities, and the importance of critical thinking in recovery.Key highlights from the episode include:The Sober Social Media Boom: Veronica explores the positive and negative impacts of social media on the recovery community, including how it fosters connection but can also spread misinformation.Sober Influencers and the “Guru” Effect: Why it’s c...2025-02-1143 minRewired SoberEp 7. Post-Acute Withdrawal: The Hidden Challenge of SobrietyIn this episode of "You Been Selected," Kate breaks down the often misunderstood experience of Post-Acute Withdrawal Syndrome (PAWS) and how it can impact your sobriety journey. Many people think the hardest part of recovery is the initial detox—but PAWS, which can last much longer than expected, presents its own set of challenges.Kate explains how PAWS symptoms like mood swings, self-doubt, and emotional instability can leave you feeling frustrated and discouraged, especially if you’re navigating recovery without a supportive community. She also shares why understanding this phase of recovery is crucial for building resilience and...2025-02-0438 minRewired SoberEP 6. Kate’s Faucets of Freedom: WHAC Your Way to RecoveryIn this episode of "You Been Selected," Kate dives deep into her transformative framework for recovery: the Faucets of Freedom. Designed to help you build a life of resilience, self-awareness, and lasting sobriety, this framework breaks down six essential principles using the acronym WHAC:Willingness: The courage to take the first step and remain open to growth.Humor: Finding the light in dark moments to stay grounded and keep perspective.Honesty: Embracing radical truth with yourself and others, even when it’s hard.Humility: Recognizing your limitations and embracing the strength in asking for help.Abstinence: Staying committed to...2025-01-2833 minRewired SoberEP 5. Kate Unpacks the Road to Recovery Meetings, Surrender and Finding a Path of Her OwnIn this episode, Kate shares her journey of navigating recovery meetings and finding the support she needed along the way. It all started with a book that opened her eyes to the possibility of sobriety, inspiring her to attend her first meeting. But when live meetings closed during the pandemic, Kate faced a new challenge: staying connected to recovery in isolation.Key highlights from this episode include:The Early Days of Recovery: How reading a book inspired Kate to take the first brave step toward sobriety by attending recovery meetings.The Pandemic Shift: Navigating the closure...2025-01-2132 min
Recovery Discovery by Show Up and StaySober Positive Workplace | First responders and recovery w/Kate VitelaDeAnn interviews Kate Vitela, a board-certified nurse coach and addiction specialist, about her journey in sobriety and career. Kate, a registered nurse for over two decades, discusses her transition from various healthcare settings to behavioral health after getting sober in 2018. She shares her experiences with a state monitoring program for nurses with substance use issues and her eventual success in leadership roles. Kate emphasizes the importance of evidence-based practices, self-care, and creativity in recovery, including her involvement in fashion and her newly released podcast, "You've Been Selected."You can find Kate on Instagram https://www.instagram.com...2025-01-1431 min
Rewired SoberEP 4. Kate sits down with Jessica Landon to Discuss Eleven Years of SobrietyIn this inspiring episode, Kate sits down with the incredible Jessica Landon, who celebrates an incredible milestone—11 years of sobriety. Jessica shares her deeply personal journey, humbly reminding us that healing isn’t linear and that recovery is a lifelong process. As a self-proclaimed “forever student” of self-discovery, Jessica dives into the lessons she’s learned along the way and the challenges she continues to navigate.Key highlights from the episode include:Healing as a Lifelong Journey: Why Jessica embraces the idea that there is no final destination in recovery, only growth and learning.Spirituality as a Foundati...2025-01-1449 minRewired SoberEP 3. Resilience: Embracing the SuckIn this episode, Kate goes on a raw and relatable rant about resilience after being laid off from her job. Reflecting on her journey, she shares how hitting rock bottom in the past has equipped her to face challenges like this with perspective and strength. Kate dives into the tools she’s learned to stay resilient in hard times, proving that growth comes from leaning in, not running away.This episode explores:Why hitting rock bottom taught her everything.The importance of humor in facing life’s challenges.How adaptability and community foster resilience.Sisterhood as a so...2025-01-0725 minRewired SoberEP 2. Kate’s Story Part 2 "Rock Bottom, Redemption, and Getting “Selected"In this episode, Kate shares her powerful story of hitting rock bottom and rebuilding her life after addiction. From a psych ward to a DUI, a failing marriage, and being busted by the nursing commission, Kate faced it all. Unemployable in her community and at the lowest point of her career, she entered the monitoring program for nurses with substance use disorders.Kate recounts how the monitoring program worked, including the infamous app that would show “You Been Selected” in red letters on days she was summoned for a UA. Despite the challenges, Kate found her turning poin...2025-01-0735 min