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Parenting with ImpactEP220: Tabletop Gaming: Social & Emotional Skills for Neurodiverse KidsWhat if imagination could build real-world skills? In this episode, we will explore how tabletop role-playing games (RPGs) like D&D help neurodiverse kids develop confidence, communication, and connection. Guests Bex Taylor-Klaus and Mischa Stanton share how these games create powerful opportunities for growth. Ready to rethink what play can do? Hit play and join the adventure. What to expect in this episode:How tabletop games help kids explore emotions in a way that feels safe and empoweringWhy fantasy worlds reveal real-life struggles, your child may not know how to nameHow made-up heroes g...2025-06-2545 min
Parenting with ImpactEP218: Family Meetings for Better Communication, Trust, and ConnectionFamily meetings often sound rigid or old-fashioned—but what if they were the key to deeper connection, trust, and teamwork at home? In this episode, Diane and Elaine share a modern, lighthearted approach to turning family meetings into something everyone looks forward to. With practical tips and a focus on communication (not control), you’ll learn how to create a safe space where every voice matters.What to expect in this episode:Why connection, not correction, should be the goal of family meetingsWhat happens when kids feel heard and involved in decision-makingHow rota...2025-06-1123 min
Parenting with ImpactEP212: Beyond the Label: How to Help Your Child Flourish Using Brain ScienceWhat if the way we view our kids could literally shape their brains? In this eye-opening conversation, Sue Langley blends neuroscience, psychology, and personal stories to explore how strengths-based parenting can shift everything. Whether you're feeling stuck or simply curious, this episode invites you to rethink what’s possible for your child and for yourself. What to expect in this episode:Why every brain is “neurodiverse” and why that mattersHow the brain rewires itself through thoughts, emotions, and habitsThe dangers of over-identifying with labels and how to move beyond themHow to use strengths-based parenti...2025-04-3032 min
Parenting with ImpactEP207: Rebuilding Trust with Teens: Cleaning the Slate ConversationsRebuilding trust within a family is no small feat, especially when past hurts linger. In this episode, Elaine and Diane tackle the complexities of mending relationships and navigating emotional barriers. They share practical insights and a transformative strategy -- cleaning-the-slate conversations -- to guide families in clearing old wounds and creating space for growth and connection.What to expect in this episode:How to acknowledge and address lingering resentments that hinder communicationThe “clean the slate” approach to resetting relationships and moving forwardStrategies for creating alignment and building trust with children of all...2025-03-2624 min
Parenting with ImpactEP205: Parenting Beyond Media Stereotypes & Perfection with Bridgett BrownDiscover how embracing imperfection and redefining beauty can transform self-image and strengthen family bonds. Bridgett Brown, founder of the Beyond Beauty Project, shares her personal journey and offers fresh insights into representation, self-trust, and self-acceptance. Together, we’ll explore how we can empower parents and children to build confidence, resilience, and a healthier relationship with their bodies and minds! This is an inspiring conversation. Tune in now and find out how you can support yourself and your kids on this journey.What to expect in this episode:How so...2025-03-1228 min
Parenting with ImpactEP205: Parenting Beyond Media Stereotypes & Perfection with Bridgett BrownDiscover how embracing imperfection and redefining beauty can transform self-image and strengthen family bonds. Bridgett Brown, founder of the Beyond Beauty Project, shares her personal journey and offers fresh insights into representation, self-trust, and self-acceptance. Together, we’ll explore how we can empower parents and children to build confidence, resilience, and a healthier relationship with their bodies and minds! This is an inspiring conversation. Tune in now and find out how you can support yourself and your kids on this journey.What to expect in this episode:How so...2025-03-1228 min
Parenting with ImpactEP204: Practical Nutrition Tips For Neurodiverse Kids: Expert Advice with Kelly DorfmanCould food be the missing piece in your child's development? Learn the answer in this episode with nutrition expert Kelly Dorfman, M.S., who explores the hidden connection between diet and neurodiversity. Listen until the end for practical strategies to support your neurodiverse child through targeted nutrition!What to expect in this episode:The relationship between brain chemistry and nutrition for neurodiverse kidsHow to identify and address potential dietary irritantsThe role of essential nutrients in supporting cognitive function and learningPractical ways to reduce the “toxic load” on the brain and enhance lear...2025-03-0527 min
Parenting with ImpactEP203: The Power of Good Enough: Progress Over PerfectionWhat if perfectionism is actually holding you back? In this episode, Elaine and Diane discuss how to shift your focus from impossible standards to steady improvement. Learn why striving for “perfect” often backfires and how you can find more freedom and growth by choosing progress instead.Here's what to expect in this episode:The different forms of perfectionismImportance of a growth mindset vs. a fixed mindset in parentingStrategies for helping kids overcome the fear of failureHow parents’ own perfectionist tendencies can influence their children’s behaviorBenefits of celebrating progress and small victorie...2025-02-2625 min
Parenting with ImpactEP198: ADHD & Sleep pt 2: Getting Kids In & Out of BedBedtime battles for younger kids, sleep schedules for older kids, and morning chaos for everyone are some challenging transitions for parents and kids alike! In this episode of Parenting with Impact, Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster return to tackle sleep challenges in part two of their discussion. They explore how parents can apply the coach approach to foster collaboration, problem-solving, and resilience during these tricky times. From addressing executive function challenges to experimenting with creative wake-up solutions, this episode is packed with practical insights to help families transition smoothly in (and out) of sleep routines.2025-01-2226 min
Parenting with ImpactEP197: School Advocacy: What Parents Need to Know with Alyson YoungNavigating the school system can be overwhelming for parents of children with learning differences. In this episode, Elaine Taylor-Klaus sits down with Alyson Young who shares key information about what parents need to understand to advocate for kids with learning challenges. Tune in to learn how to unlock your child's potential and navigate school support systems and IEPs like a pro!Here is what to expect on this week’s show:A clear breakdown of remediation, accommodation, and modificationWhy children with learning differences often slip through the cracksHow to see a diagnosis as...2025-01-1528 min
Parenting with ImpactEpisode 194: Inspiring Stories: Celebrating Parent SuccessesListen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they highlight their Impact Parent success stories. In this special episode of Parenting with Impact, you will hear clips from inspiring success stories from our very own Impact Parents. These clips and stories are the best from this year. You can find link to the full episodes below. Related Links:Success! Curiosity & the Coach-Approach Transformed the Tone of Her Home: https://youtu.be/CcHgigVXwFkSuccess! A Mother’s Journey From Shame to Acceptance: https://youtu.be/nXuBh5n8DEg?si=V9xAbko0eE8G-UTESuccess! “Dad’s Fun, But I Can Talk to M...2024-12-2546 min
Parenting with ImpactEpisode 190: Social Growth & Emotional Intelligence in Children (Part 2)Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss emotional intelligence and social dynamics.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Elaine and Diane explain understanding one's own emotions and being empathetic towards others are key components of emotional intelligence.Building a supportive environment within the family involves prioritizing relationships and self-care, Elaine and Diane note.Elaine and Diane acknowledge that social skills develop over time and require patience. By meeting children where they are and guiding them towards healthier interactions, parents can empower them to navigate social dynamics effectively. Related Links:What...2024-11-2726 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 187: The Power of Emotional Intelligence in ParentingParenting With ImpListen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss Emotional Intelligence. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Elaine and Diane explain children learn by example, so showing them how to express emotions in a healthy and constructive way can have a lasting impact.Elaine and Diane suggest helping your children develop healthy coping mechanisms for dealing with difficult emotions, such as deep breathing exercises.Elaine highlights that children on the spectrum may encounter challenges in interpreting social cues; stressing the need for custom strategies to help developing these skills. Rela...2024-11-0625 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 185: The 3A's: A Framework for Parenting Complex KidsListen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the three A’s: Awareness, Acknowledgment, and Action. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Elaine and Diane emphasize the importance of approaching challenges with an open mind and a willingness to experiment."Commit to calm before you take action;" By cultivating a sense of calm and mindfulness, parents can make more deliberate and effective decisions in response to their children's behaviors.Elaine and Diane highlight the value of involving children in the decision-making process and seeking their feedback. Related Links:Welcome to Parent...2024-10-2330 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 181: Why Focus on Parents? Complex Kids Need Our GuidanceParent focus in parenting is an increasingly important topic in today's complex, globalized society. Elaine and Diane bring unique perspectives to this discussion, rooted in their experiences and beliefs. Elaine emphasizes the crucial role of self-care for parents, likening it to the necessity of putting on one’s oxygen mask first. She believes that addressing parents' own emotional struggles and needs is essential for them to effectively support their children, arguing that traditional methods often overlook this aspect. Diane, on the other hand, focuses on empowering parents to take control of their thoughts and actions without self-blame. She highlights the si...2024-09-2522 min
Parenting with ImpactEp. 178: Parents: Are You Making Your Kids Your Job?Parenting is a balancing act of love, care, and self-preservation. Elaine and Diane dive deep into the challenges and rewards of finding that sweet spot between raising your kids and nurturing your own identity. How do you maintain this delicate balance in your own life?Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss finding your balance.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Elaine emphasized the significance of defining individual measures of success as a parent instead of adhering to societal standards.Diane highlighted the necessity of intentional self-care practices beyond th...2024-09-0423 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 176: Adult Material Online: Risks & Prevention for Children & Pre-TeensListen to this Parenting With Impact episode with John Paul Simon about risks and prevention for children watching adult material online. How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships] Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship. https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/communication-tools?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm...2024-08-2135 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 175: Research Results: Porn Exposure in Pre-Teens & TeensListen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Dr. Supreet Mann about potential psychological and emotional impacts of exposure to pornographic material on children and teens. How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship. https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net...2024-08-1430 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 174: When Kids Are Not Living up to Their PotentialListen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss motivation. How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship. https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/communication-tools?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&ut...2024-08-0726 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 172: The Parent Paradox: Avoid 'Fix-It Mode' for Better Problem-SolvingThe sense of urgency in parenting often leads to reactive rather than creative problem-solving, posing unique challenges for both parents and children. Elaine and Diane, drawing from their personal experiences and insights, underscore the importance of recognizing and managing the signs of reactivity, such as hypervigilance or catastrophizing. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss problem-solving.Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more co...2024-07-2420 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 171: Are You Unflappable? Adapting to Parent Stress, Grief, Change and MoreParenting With Impact with Elaine Taylor-Klaus Episode 171 Are You Unflappable? Adapting to Parent Stress, Grief, Change and More with Renee ZavislakRenee Zavislak, the host of Psycho Therapist: The Podcast, is a licensed psychotherapist, coach, and nutritionist in private practice; she specializes in treating complex trauma, high conflict families, and anxiety. Renée's homebase is Sonoma County, California, where she lives with her husband and son, and she travels to see clients in Los Angeles, New York City, and San Diego. In addition to weekly therapy sessions, Renée works via multi-day intensives for individuals, couples, and groups that focus on ho...2024-07-1732 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 169: Beyond Mean Girls: Parenting and DignityListen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Rosalind Wiseman about parenting and dignity.Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex KidsGot complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day.UTM: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/top-twelve-tips-bonus?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=12-tipsHere is...2024-07-0333 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 168: Surgeon General Warning on Social Media: How Should Parents Respond?Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss social media and mental health.Parenting is Leadership Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Elaine and Diane encourage parents to reflect on their own technology habits and how they model healthy tech usage for their children.Elaine and Diane explain it's crucial for parents to have op...2024-06-2632 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 167: But I Don't Want To! The Emotions Behind ProcrastinationDani Donovan is a purpose-driven creator and the founder/CEO of The Anti-Boring Project. Her unorthodox self-help book “The Anti-Planner: How to Get Sh*t Done When You Don’t Feel Like It” offers procrastinators innovative strategies, activities, and games to understand their emotions and overcome productivity roadblocks. Dani’s work empowers individuals with ADHD understand themselves, feel a sense of belonging, and better explain their struggles to loved ones. Her relatable webcomics, viral TikToks, and closing keynote at the 2021 International ADHD Conference have established her as a prominent voice in the mental health community. Dani has been featured in publicat...2024-06-1931 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 166: Summer Stressors: Realistic Expectations with ADHD & AnxietyParenting during the summer presents unique challenges, as parents strive to create a balance between structured activities and unstructured downtime for their children. Elaine and Diane, both experienced in navigating these summertime hurdles, offer insightful perspectives on the matter. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss summer stressors.Ten Self Care Tips for ParentsDo you give and give until you give yourself away? You’re not alone! In this FREE guide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips -- but it’s always good to have a remi...2024-06-1222 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 165: Co-Parenting with Elaine & David: Real Strategies to Improve Family DynamicsDavid Taylor-Klaus reintroduces Successful Entrepreneurs and Senior Executives to their families. A serial entrepreneur, David is recognized for combining candor, intelligence, and humor with masterful coaching. He challenges leaders and their teams to reach their highest levels of performance in their professional and personal lives.David has lived with depression and ADHD for most of his life giving him a deep understanding of, and compassion for, the neurodivergence that is so common among entrepreneurs and maverick leaders.When David’s life work is done, no entrepreneur nor maverick leader will need to experience what he did: standing on the proverbial br...2024-06-0528 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 164: Shame Resilience: A Key Component in ADHD WellnessJamie Blume is the Founder and CEO of Alone Their Way, an organization dedicated to empowering people with ADHD and helping them reach their potential. Jamie is a certified ADHD and Life Coach an IFS and IFIO Coach, an educator at the ADD Coach Academy, a mentor of aspiring coaches, and the Chair of the Education Committee for ADDA.As a life-long learner, Jamie believes in educating and creating awareness about ADHD to support overall healing, growth, and transformation. In her practice, Jamie supports individuals and families by integrating health, wellness, and nutrition into her coaching and by incorporating the...2024-05-2926 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 163: How to Stop Fixing So You Can Start HelpingParenting is a journey filled with challenges, triumphs, and everything in between. One of the most important skills parents can learn is the art of fixing vs. helping. It's a delicate balance that can have a profound impact on a child's development and well-being.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about fixing vs helping.Motivation GuideIn this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or...2024-05-2225 min
Parenting with ImpactEp. 161: When It Feels Like It’s Just Too MuchStop the Roller Coaster, I want to get off! In today's fast-paced world, resilience and flexibility are crucial for survival. With constant changes happening around us, being able to adapt and bounce back from challenges is key to thriving in this environment.Understanding complex children is also essential for their well-being and development. Each child is unique, with their own set of needs and characteristics. By taking the time to truly understand and connect with them, we can support their growth and help them navigate the complexities of the world.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and...2024-05-0829 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 159: Rules, Boundaries, & Agreements: Balancing Freedom with ResponsibilityRules, boundaries and agreements are essential components of a healthy family dynamic. They help set expectations, create structure, and foster communication among family members. However, navigating these aspects can sometimes be challenging. Let's delve into how accountability measures, collaborative agreements, and setting boundaries play a crucial role in maintaining harmony within a family setting.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about rules, boundaries and agreementsTen Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREEGuide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you ca...2024-04-2424 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 158: ADHD Diagnosis & Treatment: From Skepticism to Evidence-Based InnovationPhil Anderton, a visionary in the field of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), has revolutionized the way we perceive and address this condition. Through his leadership at ADHD 360, the largest and most successful ADHD medical clinic in Europe, Phil and his team have consistently pushed boundaries and paved the way for new possibilities.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Phil Anderton about ADHD diagnosis and treatment.Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-SheetSo -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest...2024-04-1734 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 156: The Surprising Challenges of a Strengths-Based ApproachThe Parenting with Impact podcast presents an intriguing topic, discussing how parents can amplify their children's strengths while also addressing their challenges. Elaine and Diane, two prominent voices in this discussion, share unique but complementary perspectives shaped by their experiences.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about focusing on your child’s strengths.Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex KidsGot complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide from the exp...2024-04-0329 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 154: Parent Success! What We Wish We'd Known 10 Years AgoThis episode brings you another Success Story from the ImpactParents Community! Diane and Andy are dedicated parents who have navigated the challenges of their son's ADHD complex diagnosis since he was ten years old. Seeking support from Impact Parents, they have actively engaged in coaching and resources to better understand and support their son's needs. Diane and Andy’s journey has been marked by a deep acknowledgment of the reality of ADHD, leading them to prioritize support and understanding over frustration. They have shown remarkable growth in their parenting journey, emphasizing patience, understanding, and effective co-parenting to support their son an...2024-03-2028 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 153: Trusting Complex Kids & Helping Them Trust UsTrust in relationships, particularly between parents and children, is a fundamental cornerstone for effective communication, learning, and growth. Elaine and Diane delve into the complexities of trust-building, especially with neurodiverse children.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about communication and building trust.How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships] Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help...2024-03-1326 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 151: Improving Practices, Diagnosis, and Treatment of ADHDSometimes in the world of ADHD, we parents come across a medical provider who really, really 'gets it.' This is one of those times! Dr. Aaron Dodini understands the nuances of diagnosing and treating ADHD, and has thoughts about the future of this complex condition. This conversation is a must listen for anyone with kids or adults who have ADHD in your family!Dr. Aaron Dodini is a seasoned clinical psychologist with over 15 years of experience in diagnosing and treating ADHD, particularly focusing on high achieving professionals and athletes who may have been overlooked in the diagnosis process. Aaron...2024-02-2829 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 150: Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as ParentsListen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster about parental well-being.Ten Self Care Tips for ParentsDo you give and give until you give yourself away? You’re not alone! In this FREEguide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips -- but it’s always good to have a reminder! And then there will be some new ideas to help you put yourself back on your list and find a little more peace and joy in family life. Sure, your kids may need more than other kids. But that does...2024-02-2127 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 147: Shifting from Nagging to Collaborative SolutionsListen to this Parenting With Impact episode about nagging.Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:The topic of shifting from nagging to collaborative problem-solving in parenting is a crucial one, as i...2024-01-3125 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 146: Simple, Safe & Connected -- Tips to Navigate Big EmotionsParenting With Impact with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster Episode 146 Simple, Safe & Connected -- Tips to Navigate Big Emotions with Sonali Vongchusiri Sonali Vongchusiri is founder of Forward Together Parenting and the "Raising Your Strong-Willed Child" series. She often says that she WAS that kid and now she HAS three of those kids. As a parent coach she supports parents in shifting from "parenting perfectly" to "parenting with personality" -- helping parents step off the emotional roller-coaster, simplify parenting and stabilize their relationship with their kids by focusing on their needs as well as their kids.Listen to this Parenting...2024-01-2433 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 145: Navigating Communication and Complexity in ParentingLeslie Josel, a renowned expert in effective communication strategies for parenting complex kids, has over two decades of experience in this field. Leslie's perspective on this topic is rooted in her belief that effective communication is the most crucial aspect for parents to understand. She emphasizes that all issues related to parenting complex kids ultimately boil down to how parents communicate with their children. Drawing from her personal journey as a parent to a child with ADHD and executive dysfunction, Leslie acknowledges that parenting complex kids can be overwhelming, but she underscores the need for parents to educate themselves and...2024-01-1728 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 144: Helping Young Adults get back on TrackThe topic of supporting parents of young adults, with its unique challenges, evolving relationships, and opportunities for growth, is the focus of this Parenting with Impact podcast episode. Join Diane and Elaine on this episode as they delve deeper into this significant and necessary area of focus.Episode 144 Helping Young Adults Get Back On Track with Elaine and DianeListen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane.How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any...2024-01-1028 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 142: Helping Complex Kids Envision Their FutureAs parents, we worry about our kids fulfilling their potential, and want them to think about what they want their future to look like. How do we encourage our complex kids to envision a future, when they may still be struggling with the present?Sheila Akbar joined the Signet team in the summer of 2010, bringing with her a wealth of experience teaching SAT, ACT, GRE, literature, and composition in both one-on-one and classroom settings. Sheila loves both teaching and learning and finds nothing more rewarding than working closely with students to overcome the challenges they face. After graduating from Harvard...2023-12-2733 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 141: What Support do ADHD'ers Need? Book Smart or Street Smart?Elaine and Diane are back from the Annual International Conference on ADHD 2023! Hear about the ongoing evolution of ADHD management approaches, emphasizing the need for nuanced perspectives, change management strategies, and empowerment for individuals and families impacted by ADHD. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they reflect on their experiences at this year’s conference and the evolution of ADHD management, and how to mesh together the book-smart approach with the street-smart approach to managing ADHD.RecommendedTreatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-SheetSo -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the co...2023-12-2031 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 140: Connection & Compassion: Parenting Children & Teens in Difficult TimesSusan Stiffelman is a licensed Marriage, Family and Child Therapist and the author of Parenting Without Power Struggles and Parenting With Presence. Her work focuses on helping parents forge sturdy attachment with their children as the calm, confident “Captain of the ship.” She hosts a popular podcast and offers online classes and is a lifelong meditator who is deeply committed to enjoying her life and living with gratitude and joy.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Susan Stiffelman as she shares her journey of understanding the diverse learning needs of children and the evolution of her work in merg...2023-12-1329 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 139: Navigating the Parenthood Journey with Conscious Transformation and EmpathyGinny Luther shares her journey of parenting her son, Bart, a defiant, passionate, and determined child who challenged her to shift from control to connection. Ginny Luther MS, is an Educational and Family Behavioral Consultant, founder of Peaceful Parenting LLC, and Conscious Discipline Master Instructor. She is a dynamic international speaker for parents and educational professionals, pulling from her vast life experience. Her own challenging child was the catalyst for her passion to help others, using Conscious Discipline in schools, early childhood centers, with parents, and in mentorship. Her tremendous knowledge provides creative solutions to many difficult issues facing schools a...2023-12-0627 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 138: How Do I Get My Kids to Talk to Me? 4 Communication ToolsCommunication is an ever-evolving part of your relationship with your child, no matter what age they are. During the holiday season, when there is increased togetherness there is a greater potential for difficult conversations.Episode 138 How Do I Get My Kid To Talk To Me? 4 Communication Tools with Elaine and DianeListen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the importance of effective communication tools.How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any...2023-11-2924 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 137: Emotional Intelligence in ParentingStephanie Pinto is an Emotional Intelligence author, speaker and coach who specializes in helping parents to create an Emotionally Intelligent family culture at home. She is a certified Emotional Intelligence specialist, is a pediatric anxiety therapist, and practiced as a Speech Pathologist for 10 years. Her ground-breaking book, From Chaos to Connection, was published in March 2023. And she has over 100k in her Facebook community called Let's Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Stephanie Pinto about understanding emotional intelligence in our children and how to parent effectively based upon where your child is at. Ten Tip...2023-11-2230 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 135: It’s All About Control: Are You Ready?We all set goals for our children as to what success should look like for them. As a parent, having control seems like the simplest path to that goal. However, we know this does not lend well to your child ultimately having independence and agency. So, how do we navigate this?Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss control and how to transition from director to supporter and allowing your child to thrive in their own power. Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex Kids Got complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a...2023-11-0826 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 134: Parenting Young Boys with Difficult BehaviorsDoes your young boy exhibit behavior that has you in fear for his future, and what kind of man he will become? Parenting boys with difficult behaviors can be very challenging. What can we do now to reduce risks and aggression? Tosha Schore is a parent coach and the founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully, where she is on a mission to create a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time. She is also co-author of “Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges,” which has been translated into five languages. Tosha works with parents to care for t...2023-11-0132 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 133: Parents are the Sleeping Giant in Executive Function EducationAs the founder of Executive Function Specialists, Sean McCormick has pioneered cutting-edge practices to guide students with AD/HD to overcome procrastination, disorganization, and school avoidance. His passion for empowering others led him to establish the Executive Function Coaching Academy, offering training programs for aspiring executive function coaches. Sean also hosts the popular Earn More Tutoring Podcast with a mission to enhance the lives of teachers, tutors, and educational therapists through success stories of educational entrepreneurship. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Sean McCormickabout collective efficacy, and the impact of parents collaborating with their child and their te...2023-10-2531 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 132: If They Would Just ... Guiding Kids to Take Ownership of Their Own AgendaIf you are struggling to get your child to do something, you may want to stop and think, “Who’s agenda IS IT?” Is this just something YOU want? How do you get your kid to buy into whatever it is that you are asking them to do? This week Elaine and Diane discuss agendas! How can a parent and child come together to create a shared agenda that benefits everyone?Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you...2023-10-1823 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 129: Asking For Help: Why Is It So Difficult?Why is it so hard for your child to ask for help? Making the transition into independence can often backfire when your kiddo will not ask for help when they need it. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the reasons kids have a hard time asking for and accepting help, and how we can prepare them to seek assistance when they need it.Parenting is LeadershipParenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your p...2023-09-2721 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 127: Yes, Your Complex Kid WILL Get Into College!Will your neurodiverse child get into college? According to college admissions consultant Michelle McAnaney, the answer is a resounding YES! But just when you think it's all figured out, a sudden twist leaves parents wondering if they're truly prepared for the transition to college life...Michelle McAnaney founded The College Spy® with this mission: Help students identify colleges that are a good fit for them and get accepted. Michelle is an expert in college admissions and a leader in her field. She has over 20 years of experience as an educator, counselor and consultant, assisting students in making smart choices to re...2023-09-1326 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 126: Motivation Myths and the Magic of P.I.N.C.H.Do you struggle with getting your child to do things? Does it feel like no matter what you do, it is a struggle to motivation your child to ____. We can fill that blank with countless things: homework, clean their room, exercise, chores, be on time… Well, you may be surprised to learn that traditional motivation tactics often backfire. Elaine and Diane have a dynamic way to help your child with the P.I.N.C.H. method. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the truths and myths around motivation and what it...2023-09-0625 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 124: Keys to Parenting Autism: Education, Coaching & You!Andrea Pollack's life took an unexpected turn when her two-year-old son was diagnosed with autism. It was a heartbreaking moment that forced her to leave her promising legal career behind. But little did she know that this decision would eventually lead her to become a renowned parenting coach, helping other parents navigate the challenges of raising neurodivergent children. Her approach is unique, focusing on personal growth and self-reflection for parents, which ultimately benefits the entire family. Join us as we explore Andrea's fascinating journey and learn how she's helping parents create more fulfilling parenting experiences for themselves and their neurodivergent...2023-08-2328 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 123: Are You Stuck in Informationland?In the vast sea of information, it is easy to get stuck in the land of information. Oftentimes, we begin to apply this new knowledge, but get held up in the details and end up getting stuck with information that we cannot implement, leaving us where we started. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss how to go beyond learning strategies and tools, and get into implementation and customization for your kid and your needs.Parenting is LeadershipParenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks a...2023-08-1622 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 122: Medical Bias VS. ADHD: The History of a Smear CampaignIf you're feeling frustrated and helpless as you watch your child (or yourself) struggle with ADHD symptoms, despite trying various interventions and treatments, then you are not alone! Many parents and healthcare professionals have faced the challenge of medical bias, which has hindered accurate diagnosis and effective treatment of ADHD for far too long.In 2020, Kelly accidentally discovered she had ADHD at the age of 48. This revelation was absolutely life-changing. Since then, Kelly has dedicated her life to learning about ADHD. She is extremely passionate about spreading awareness and empathy for ADHD in general, but in women and girls in...2023-08-0929 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 121: Every Day's a New Day: Success with Community Support & Parent CoachingIf you are feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, and exhausted because your current parenting strategies are not improving your relationship with your complex child, then you are not alone! This episode brings you another Success Story from the ImpactParents Community! Ellen joins us on today's podcast to share her story of navigating the challenges of raising a complex child. Having weathered the storms of parenting and feeling unprepared for the challenges that come with a complex kid, she eventually found her guide in the community-driven support system of ImpactParents. Ellen and her husband are parents of a creative and curious 16-year-old son wh...2023-08-0232 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 120: Navigating Drama Triangles and Family DynamicsDo you want to create a more harmonious and peaceful atmosphere within your family? Are you looking for a solution to improve conflict resolution and achieve better relationships with your loved ones?Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they share the key to fostering improved dynamics and creating a more united and supportive family unitRecommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-SheetSo -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for chi...2023-07-2627 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 119: When Youth are Targeted: The Impact of Bullies, Victims, Bystanders & Institutional BetrayalBullying can be one of the most heart-rending challenges a parent faces. When your child is neurodiverse, that can make life downright miserable for both your child and your family. Kayla Taylor is a best-selling writer, researcher, advocate, and parent. She recently published “Canaries Among Us,” an important exposé that blends poignant storytelling and groundbreaking scientific research to empower those caring for the millions of kids challenged by learning differences, bullying, and anxiety. This heartrending chronicle tackles harmful stigmas while documenting the joy and heartache inherent in raising children who don’t fit society’s definition of “normal.” Listen to this gripping P...2023-07-1934 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 118: What Strong Willed Kids Need from You MostHighly sensitive children can express themselves with very strong emotions that can leave parents feeling rattled and desperate. Randi’s experience with her son took her on a journey of acceptance and unconditional love.Randi Rubenstein coaches parents raising strong willed kids. Randi searched endlessly to find the magical resource that would help her own highly sensitive, strong-willed child. (He’s now 25, healthy and happy-ish:). She’s been passionate about helping other “cycle-breaker” parents like herself for almost two decades.Randi’s the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the long standing Mastermind Parenting podcast and author of The Parent Gap. Listen...2023-07-1232 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 113: The 4 Sources of Conflict in YOUR Family: Part 2Are you tired of constantly butting heads with your child and feeling like you're not making progress? Have you been told to just 'lay down the law' or 'be stricter' but that only seems to make things worse? The frustration and tension can be unbearable, but in this episode, we'll give you practical strategies to identify the root causes of conflict, validate your child's perspective, and build trust in your relationship. Don't let conflict rule your household any longer.Listen to Part 2 of The 4 Sources of Conflict in YOUR Family with Elaine and Diane as they focus on the need...2023-06-0727 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 112: The 4 Sources of Conflict in YOUR Family: Part 1Are you tired of constantly butting heads with your child and feeling like you're not making progress? Have you been told to just 'lay down the law' or 'be stricter' but that only seems to make things worse? The frustration and tension can be unbearable, but in this episode, we'll give you practical strategies to identify the root causes of conflict, validate your child's perspective, and build trust in your relationship. Don't let conflict rule your household any longer.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss ways to identify sources of conflict in...2023-05-3121 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 111: Digital Citizenship: It's Not Too Late to Help Kids & TeensTeaching your pre-teens and teens how to maintain a balance between online and offline activities, and to understand the implications of their digital footprints is no small feat.Susan Hoyer is the Dean of Employment Skills and Technology at Gateway Academy Houston, a school for students with learning differences as they navigate a new world with increasing focus on technology for learning. Sue helps prepare students to enter a job market where technology is an assumed skill, and digital citizenship is the new hidden curriculum.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Susan Hoyer about fostering responsible tech...2023-05-2430 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 109: Success! I Changed My Family's Life with Help from Sanity School®This episode brings you another Success Story from the ImpactParents Community! Roxanne Jarrett serves as a midwife for creative professionals with ADHD. Her groundbreaking productivity programs have helped motivated ADHDers launch courses and complete passion projects while avoiding burnout. A severe trauma survivor and multi-disciplined artist who lives with ADHD herself, Roxanne emphasizes the importance and necessity of doing what you love for a living, and prioritizing self-care to produce quality work.Roxanne talks about her journey from frazzled parent, ready to give up, to a calm, confident mom who is ready to handle the challenge of parenting a complex...2023-05-1036 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 108: It’s No Mystery: Why Kids Resist Help and How To Change ItParents play a crucial role in setting the tone when it comes to asking for help. Encouraging children to seek assistance when needed and normalizing the practice can significantly impact their personal growth and confidence.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss how to encourage your kids to ask for help.Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex Kids Got complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide fro...2023-05-0319 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 104: Self Awareness, Self Regulation & Self ManagementListen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as theydiscuss navigating awareness and intention in an attempt to control dysregulation, only to find their own self-managing strategies the key to success. Ten Self Care Tips for ParentsDo you give and give until you give yourself away? You’re not alone! In this FREE guide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips -- but it’s always good to have a reminder! And then there will be some new ideas to help you put yourself back on your list and find a little...2023-04-0520 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 100: Insights from the Podcast- Celebrating 100 Episodes!Listen to this milestone Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss insights from 2 seasons of the podcast and the many wonderful guests they have had the privilege and honor to interview. Developing our content and the ways we can support families of complex kids is truly rewarding. A heartfelt thank you to all of YOU who tune in and listen every week!Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-SheetSo -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: Wha...2023-03-0825 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 096: 2022 Intern'l Conf on ADHD Takeaways Part 2: Technology & Gaming AddictionEnjoy our second installment of takeaways from the 2022 International Conference on ADHD. Elaine and Diane explore the irony of technology addiction in young people, discussing strategies to help create a game-life balance and avoid the pitfalls of problem screen use, while empowering kids to play to their strengths and stay curious. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss technology and gaming research as presented at the 2022 International Conference on ADHD.12 Tips for Parenting a Complex TeenFrom the experts at ImpactParents (and the moms of 6 young adults!), we promise you this: it’s not...2023-02-0833 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 095: What's Different About a 2E Kid?Debbie Steinberg Kuntz is a licensed marriage and family therapist and founder of Bright & Quirky. When she started her family counseling practice a decade ago, she had no idea this would be her specialty. But her sons, now teenagers, had some unique strengths and challenges that she dove deeply into understanding.Debbie learned that they were ‘2e’ or ‘twice exceptional,’ meaning they are smart and also have unique brain wiring that makes accessing those smarts at times challenging. As she researched and found solutions for them, she started to share the learning with families in her private practice near Seattle. You may k...2023-02-0127 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 092: Pushing the Reset Button to Solve Problems CollaborativelyThe New Year is a great time to reset expectations and make plans for the future. Elaine and Diane believe that taking responsibility, acknowledging the need for a reset and designing how to do it differently can create opportunities for a fresh start. Motivation GuideIn this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discu...2023-01-1121 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 088: Intern'l Conf on ADHD 2022 Part 1: Emotional Awareness and Insights about ADHDElaine and Diane sit down to cover what stood out at the International Conference on ADHD in Dallas, Texas this November. The growth of the conference over the years highlights many perspectives and approaches to ADHD.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss this year’s International Conference on ADHD, in Dallas.Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-SheetSo -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for children and t...2022-12-1432 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 084: Risky BehaviorsWe all want our kids to be able to regulate and manage their own behavior. Kids with ADHD are particularly prone to risky behaviors, which are often a way of seeking out stimulation. How do we manage risky behavior?Listen to this insightful Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss how to address and manage risky behavior in ADHD kids.12 Tips for Parenting a Complex TeenFrom the experts at ImpactParents (and the moms of 6 young adults!), we promise you this: it’s not too late. In this FREE guide you’ll learn 12 fool-proof tips to improve conver...2022-11-1630 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 081: Barriers & Solutions to Supporting Students with ADHDRevolutionizing the education system through technology is a hot topic today. How are the needs of ADHD students a part of the conversation? Elaine and Diane sit down with Entrepreneur, Adrien Harrison as he talks about his targeted courses that offer solutions to the particular struggles of ADHD learners. Adrien is a serial entrepreneur, startup advisor, and the founder of Smart Course, an education technology and healthcare startup offering online courses, marketplaces, and a collaborative platform for caregivers of kids with special needs. Adrien consults for hundreds of founders, advising them on finding product-market fit, business development best practices, UI...2022-10-2624 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 080: 4 Phases of Parenting: How to Support Without EnablingParents often find themselves stuck in particular phases of parenting. How do we foster independence and empower them to take ownership of their lives? When do we find ourselves enabling vs helping them develop independence? Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the 4 phases of parenthood- from complete dependence to independence. Parenting is LeadershipParenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.Here is what to...2022-10-1926 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 079: Leveling the Playing Field: Accommodations is in High School and CollegeOnce our kids are in high school and even college, they should be getting comfortable with advocating for themselves in getting the support they need in their education. What does the journey look like—should look like—on the way to that independence? Laura J. Patey, M. Ed. Is the Dean for Academic Advancement at Wesleyan University, in Middletown, CT. She has over thirty years of experience in higher education, serving as director of services for students with disabilities at Wesleyan, Lesley University, and Wheelock College. Ms. Patey is a strategic educational leader with extensive experience working with students and facul...2022-10-1238 min
Parenting with ImpactBonus Archive Ep 019: Growth vs. Fixed Mindset in Kids and AdultsOne of the most basic beliefs we carry about ourselves has to do with how we view our personality. You may have heard your child say something along the lines of, “Oh, I’m just not a math person,” or, “Organization isn’t my thing.” You may even recognize these types of attitudes in yourself. This is what’s known as a “fixed mindset,” a concept that originated in the book Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol Dweck.Dr. Maggie Wray is an ICF-certified Academic Life Coach and ADHD coach, with a Ph.D. in Neurobiology and Behavior from Cornell and a...2022-10-0724 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 077: Accommodations vs. Remediation - What's the Parent's Role?Much like parents arrange for accommodations at school for our complex kids, we need to create an accommodating environment at home. What does that look like? What does your kid need to support a skill that needs to be developed? Does your child need accommodations or remediation for lagging skills, and why is it important to know the difference?Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss accommodations and remediation and what you need to know about providing those at home for your child.10 Parenting Tips for School Success with Complex KidsThere are...2022-09-2823 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 070: ADHD & Depression, ADHD & Anxiety, and All of the AboveWhen dealing with behavior issues, finding the cause is a pressing concern. Is the behavior a result of ADHD and depression? Is it due to anxiety? Oftentimes it can mean a combination of two or more. Sometimes one will cause the other. Bottom line, while diagnosis is important in deciding if medication or a specialist is necessary, when it comes to behavior management, the treatment means addressing the most troublesome symptom first. How do you navigate ADHD and depression?Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the combination of ADHD and depression, an...2022-08-1035 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 068: The Independence Pyramid: Big Picture and Daily TasksListen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane go over the steps to guide your child into independence. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:The relationship you have with your child is the foundation to building independenceYour role in getting your child to self-manage, in progressive, buildable stepsFostering independence in our kids happens is habit building and trust See the Independence Pyramid Graphic Connect with Elaine and Diane:www.impactparents.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/@impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsTwitter: https://twitter.com/Impact...2022-07-2727 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 066: RESENTMENT! Understanding, Managing, & Overcoming ItResentment: (noun) bitter indignation at having been treated unfairly.Parents and kids both have moments of resentment. Elaine and Diane dive into where it comes from and how we can address it.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss resentment.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Resentment can stem from unmet expectations, or the inability to fix somethingWhen we feel resentment, we apply a negative filter to everything and increase stressHow to begin problem solving to overcome resentmentRelated Articles:Resentment in the Time of Quarantine RESENTMENT GraphicConnect with Ela...2022-07-1325 min
Parenting with ImpactBonus Archive Ep 1: What I Wish My Mom Knew When I Was a Kid with ADHDJessica McCabe, host of "How To ADHD" on YouTube, has some insights on this topic. You see, Jessica is now a grown-up, and she teaches people (of all ages) how to manage their ADHD. It took her a while to figure things out, but now she’s sharing it with others -- and doing an amazing job!In this interview, she takes a few minutes out of her busy podcast schedule to talk with Elaine about what she wishes her mom had known when she was young. In a nutshell, she wants parents to know that while you are trying yo...2022-06-0325 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 060: School RefusalIn the past few years with children being out of school, school refusal seems to have been exacerbated. How do we as parents manage children who refuse or resist going to school, when the very paradigm of being in school has shifted?Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss School Refusal.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Be calm about the situation and get clear about where you are in the processGet curious about what is going on and use your relationship and communication skillsRinse and Repeat- continue do...2022-06-0126 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 053: Up Until Now: Making Peace with the Past to Move ForwardEffecting change. It is a topic close to most of our hearts as parents of complex kids. Change means forward thinking. How can you move forward if you keep looking in the past? Elaine and Diane discuss the key to moving forward by embracing the concept of “up until now…”and taking your new tools and applying them to where you are NOW.Listen to this powerful Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss making peace with the past and moving forward with thoughtfulness and grace. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Constantl...2022-04-1321 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 049: The What & Why of Parent Behavior TrainingElaine and Diane share their thoughts on the most common hurdles parents encounter to enact change in their relationship with and behavior of their complex kids. Listen to this insightful Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss what the recommended treatments are for kids with ADHD and Executive Function challenges.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:What behavioral training is how it makes a differenceWhy the role of the parent is so critical in recommended treatment and advocacyThe difference between being reactive and proactive- why it mattersPower To The Parent Proclamation Connect with...2022-03-1629 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 045: Helping 2E Kids Reach Their Academic PotentialParenting With Impact with Elaine Taylor-Klaus Episode 045 Helping 2E Kids Reach Their Academic Potential with Dr. Shirag ShemmassianDr. Shemmassian is the Founder of Shemmassian Academic Consulting and one of the world's foremost experts on medical school admissions, college admissions, and graduate school admissions. For nearly 20 years, he and his team have helped thousands of students get into medical school and top colleges using his systematic and proprietary approach.Having reached tremendous success despite his Tourette Syndrome and all the stigma that came with it, Dr. Shemmassian pays it forward, helping students be open about a disability they may have with h...2022-02-1623 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 044: Effective AgreementsOne of the most effective tools in your parenting toolbox can be negotiation skills. Today, Elaine and Diane discuss how to create effective agreements with your kids. How do you created them to get buy-in from your kid? Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss creating effective agreements with your kids. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Identify the agenda- this helps with buy in, or identifying the skills required in your kidBe matter-of-fact and take out emotional factors when discussing what needs to happenSet a reasonable expectation and...2022-02-0929 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 041: Raising Medically Fragile KidsJuli Henderson is a highly trained vocalist, respected voice teacher and owner of JH Voice Studio, physician’s wife, mother of five adult children, and newly minted grandmother. She grew up moving frequently as a military dependent, but has called San Antonio, Texas home for 36 years. The In Our Arms blog is her passion project, launching in February 2021 to share the story of Juli’s late son, Robert. As the mother of a child with disabilities who passed at the tender age of eighteen, Juli’s writings give hope to hundreds of readers, including a private Facebook group where members share...2022-01-1925 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 040: Good Parenting Is Damage ControlFollowing another holiday season, Elaine and Diane reflect upon the simple fact that, as parents, we ARE going to mess up, it is just a matter of how. Getting it wrong is only a matter of time, it is important to know how to navigate out of it and move forward.Listen to this reflective Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss damage control, because there is no such thing as being a perfect parent. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Recognize that it is difficult to be a complex kid, no mat...2022-01-1223 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 036: Pity or Judgement From Well-Meaning Friends and FamilyAre you dreading the family gatherings this holiday? Complex kids, or not- parents are no strangers to unsolicited advice. How do you handle pity or judgement from friends and family who simply do not understand your complex kid? Elaine and Diane discuss how to navigate these situations to help alleviate holiday stress. Listen to this important Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss how to handle pity or judgement from well-meaning friends and family.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Assume someone’s good intention before going on the defenseFind ways to educa...2021-12-2225 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 032: What If My CoParent’s Not On The Same Page?When you are ready to make positive changes in relation to your child, what do you do if your co-parent isn’t on board with what you need to do? Just like you can’t control your child, you can’t control what your co-parent is going to do. Again, the thing you can control is YOU. Elaine and Diane talk about what you can do to help your kid regardless of where your co-parent is at.Listen to this supportive Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss what to do when your co-parent isn’t on the s...2021-12-0825 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 028: Gender & Queer Kids with NeurodiversityOn this very special episode of Parenting With Impact, Elaine takes a guest seat, joined by special guest and coach Tracy Lefebvre, as Diane guides them in a conversation about gender and sexual identity, and the interplay with neurodiversity. This episode shares a frank discussion about each of their parenting journeys raising gender and queer kids with neurodiversity.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine, Diane and Tracy as they discuss the nuances of parenting children who identify differently with understanding and support.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:The difference between gender and...2021-11-2430 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 024: I’ve Tried Everything, And Nothing WorksIf you are a parent, chances are you have uttered the expression, “I’ve tried everything, and nothing works!” It comes with the territory when parenting a complex kid. Eventually the truth emerges: your kid may not be ready to be helped. Even if they are, have you found the right thing to help? Elaine and Diane dive into this age-old expression and discuss developing a clear goal and finding something that creates lasting change.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss navigating the waters of finding what works to create change, and wh...2021-11-1025 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 020: What Difference Does Diagnosis Make?Obtaining a diagnosis can be a different journey for everyone. But how important is diagnosis? It is essential as a parent that you must make observations and relay them to medical professionals and teachers to supply them with information they need to diagnose and accommodate your child’s specific needs. Having a diagnosis of ADHD, Autism, Anxiety, or Executive Function challenges will chart the way to provide your child with the tools they need to thrive.Listen to this informative Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss what it means to have a diagnosis Here is wha...2021-10-2728 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 016 What Story Are You Telling Yourself ?The stories we tell ourselves can determine how you react to a situation or problem. Whether the story is about yourself, or a catastrophic outcome for your child if they don’t learn to do a simple task. What would happen if you changed that story? How would this change the outcome? What would happen if we taught our kids to change the story they tell themselves?Listen to this insightful Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss changing the way you think and creating a story with a positive outcome, to shape the way you re...2021-10-1326 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 012 Consequences and PunishmentsConsequences and punishment is a hot topic in the ImpactParents community. We all know that consequences are intended to change a behavior in your child, or get them to do a particular action, but implementing them in a way that is effective can be a daunting task. Elaine and Diane break it down so you can understand how to get the desired change and get your kid to have a buy-in on that desired behavior.Here are just a few things discussed in this week’s show:Setting expectations in advance and collaborating with your child on the consequenceUsing positive co...2021-09-2925 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 008: Parenting Emerging AdultsOn this special episode of Parenting With Impact, Elaine and Diane address common themes in their coaching groups and bring valuable insight into the hottest topics of the Impact Parents community.Listen to this insightful Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss navigating the shifting dynamic of the relationship between you and your emerging-adult child. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Shifting from instructing to collaborating and asking how they want you to helpHelping your emerging adult find their motivation and buy-in to be independentCreating “breadcrumbs” for difficult conversations they will WANT to have...2021-09-0828 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 004 What To Expect For This School YearBack to School can be an exciting reset for some, or a dreaded loss of freedom for others. The new landscape of school adds more stress to everyone’s plates, especially for our complex kids and the families who love them. Elaine and Diane dive into the 3 most important challenges you should expect this year and how to handle them.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Tools, strategies, and tips will be the same, no matter the challengesTrouble with Transitions will be more challenging in the coming yearsAnxiety and Avoidance will be heightened with uncertainty this year...2021-08-1121 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 003: Success as a Teacher & a ParentOn this special Success Stories Edition, Elaine and Diane speak with Jean McIver, mother of a complex kid, as well as a teacher. Jean was a student in Sanity School and found the lessons valuable both as a parent and as a teacher who also deals with complex kids, many who may not have the support needed at home to implement vital strategies to make schooling a success. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact Success Stories Edition episode with Jean McIver as she talks about the success she has had with Sanity School, utilizing what she learned as both a...2021-08-0426 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 001: Welcome To Parenting With ImpactElaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster are certified coaches with their own lived experience raising children with complex challenges such as ADHD, anxiety, depression, learning disabilities, gender identity issues, and more. Drawing from both personal and professional experience, they teach and inspire parents to raise complex kids with confidence and calm through ImpactParents.com, an online community, award-winning blog, and service organization.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster about how and why they became coaches and developed ImpactParents. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:How their own experience with com...2021-08-0418 min
Parenting with ImpactTrailer: Welcome to the Parenting With Impact Podcast!Welcome to the Parenting With Impact Podcast! As parents, we want nothing more than for our kids to grow up happy and fulfilled... and to ultimately live independent and productive lives! And yet, when life gets complicated, we're not always sure how to help our kids be as successful as they can be. If you have kids who are struggling with life and learning -- or are facing complex challenges like ADHD, anxiety, depression, autism, learning disabilities, or more -- we can help you calmly navigate the choppy waters with confidence. We're Elaine & Diane, founders of the world’s largest, most...2021-05-0301 min