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PrecisionCycleBuilt Different: Why Boundaries, Not Therapy, Are the True Antidote to Narcissism, Perimenopause, and Emotional CollapseSend us a textThis special Friday episode of PrecisionCycle is not for the faint-hearted. Enrique delivers a raw, grounded, and methodically explosive breakdown of why boundaries—not therapy—are the only reliable defense against narcissism, perimenopause-driven emotional collapse, and modern culture's disintegration of masculine structure. After a triggering encounter with someone close, Enrique chose not to spiral. He chose to anchor. He explains how PrecisionCycle's principles allowed him to regulate in real time, avoid histrionic self-sabotage, and reclaim authority through surgical emotional clarity.We explore:The narcissism-shame-cognitive dissonance triangle that...2025-05-2327 minPrecisionCycleBoundary Culture: What the Dutch Teach Us About Recalibration, Containment, and RespectSend us a textAfter Monday’s episode on Nancy McWilliams and perimenopause, I got a flood of messages—mostly asking the same thing: What does actual support look like?This episode answers that. But not with affirmations or coping strategies. With boundaries.We break down how modern therapy fails at structural support, how clinicians often confuse “holding space” with enabling avoidance, and why Dutch culture offers a real blueprint for field clarity, relational integrity, and post-therapy recalibration.We’ll cover:Why American therapists often avoid confrontation and fail to de...2025-05-2232 minPrecisionCyclePerimenopause as Personality Collapse: A Psychoanalytic Deep Dive with McWilliamsSend us a textMost people treat perimenopause like it's just hot flashes and hormones. But through the lens of Nancy McWilliams’ psychoanalytic theory, we see something far more structural: a full-blown stress test of personality. In this episode, Enrique, Ash, and Danni unpack how borderline, narcissistic, depressive, obsessive, and masochistic personalities react when the ego starts to crack under hormonal, relational, and existential pressure. This isn’t about blame—it’s about recalibration. elevate.epo2025-05-1924 minPrecisionCycleThe Night Jane Broke the Frame: Borderline Collapse and the Origins of elevate.epoSend us a textIt started as an after-work drink—until it became a clinical rupture.In this raw, field-based episode, Enrique walks us through the night “Jane” spiraled into a live narcissistic attack—weaponizing sex, triangulation, and emotional chaos to annihilate the containment that threatened her false self.But this isn’t gossip. It’s data. This is the night that shaped the EROS doctrine and formalized the PrecisionCycle model.We introduce three borderline subtypes—The Siren, The Mirror, and The Flame—and show how their real-world collapses exposed the deeper mecha...2025-05-1624 minPrecisionCycleTennis Court: Why You're Playing a Borderline Personality Game You Never Signed Up ForSend us a textYou didn’t choose this match—but you’re in it.In this episode, Enrique breaks down how Peter Fonagy’s groundbreaking model of borderline personality disorder (BPD) explains the emotional chaos many people experience daily—without ever getting diagnosed. From the collapse of mentalization to Lateral Plate Theory, we explore how shame, narcissistic defense, abandonment panic, and trauma structure a psychological “tennis match” between guilt and grandiosity. If you've ever sent the text, needed closure from your own rejection, or weaponized intimacy out of fear—you've stepped on this court. Most of us are p...2025-05-1529 minPrecisionCycleCap’n Crunch with Water: Fonagy, Kendrick, and the Collapse of Pretend TheorySend us a textWhat do a British psychoanalyst, a Pulitzer-winning rapper, and a soggy bowl of Cap’n Crunch have in common? Everything—if you’ve lived it. In this episode, Enrique breaks down Peter Fonagy’s 2003 psychoanalytic manifesto on theory vs. practice and connects it to Kendrick Lamar’s raw sermon from wacced out murals. The message from both? Don’t trust a system built by people who haven’t bled for it. From borderline containment collapse to broken industry models, this episode explores how Fonagy’s call for authenticity, mentalization, and clinical recalibration al...2025-05-1320 minPrecisionCycleThe Scaffolding of Return: How Your Trash Squat Is a Sign of a Fatherless Nervous SystemSend us a textYour back hurts. Your knees ache. You can’t squat 225 or pull 315 without breaking form—and it’s not because you skipped leg day. It’s because your dad never taught you how to hold tension.In this finale to Daddy Issues Week, Enrique unpacks how physical dysfunction, nervous system dysregulation, and emotional collapse all stem from a failed transmission of masculine containment. From a traumatic car crash to clinical sabotage, flat feet to pendulum squats, this episode reveals how the body holds trauma from fatherlessness—and how EROs a...2025-05-1021 minPrecisionCycleThe Gambler: Daddy Issues in the Age of DraftKingsSend us a textWhat do you get when you raise a boy in a house full of books, Nobel prizes, and emotional abandonment?You get Dave—a startup founder turned gambling mule, now flying to Texas to place $40K bets for a man who doesn’t make eye contact. But this isn’t a story about addiction. It’s a case study in the collapse of fatherhood, the pathology of passive men, and the legacy panic that kicks in when success was inherited but never earned.In this episode of PrecisionCycle, Enri...2025-05-0825 minPrecisionCycleChallenging Theories of Consciousness: Breaking the LoopSend us a textIn this episode of elevate.epo, Enrique kicks off “Daddy Issues Week” by sharing the powerful story of Jane, his first private client — a woman shaped by a father who couldn’t protect her. We connect her struggles to new science on consciousness, exploring two big brain theories and what they tell us about how we see the world. Enrique explains how elevate.epo works to break harmful cycles, reset the nervous system, and change old stories. Tune in for an honest, thoughtful journey into healing, perception, and what it means...2025-05-0619 minPrecisionCycleDan's Test: How PrecisionCycle Fixed a Broken HeartSend us a textIn this episode of elevate.epo, Enrique shares the story of Dan, a client working through the pain of a broken heart after a tough relationship at work. Using the PrecisionCycle method, Dan learned how to heal, grow, and show up as his best self—on and off the field. We talk about heartbreak, emotional strength, and why in life, every day is gameday. Whether you’re working through your own breakup or just want to build resilience, this episode is for you. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and fo...2025-05-0321 minPrecisionCycleThe Berkeley Shark: Recalibrating the Field with PrecisionCycleSend us a textWhat if the problem isn’t that you’re misunderstood—but that you’re miscalibrated to an underdeveloped field? In this episode, Enrique introduces PrecisionCycle, elevate.epo’s groundbreaking diagnostic system for tracking real psychological transformation—not in years, but in days. Through the one-month case of Danni, a single parent and UC Berkeley graduate, we unpack seven core metrics of recalibration, from emotional calibration to erotic containment. This isn’t therapy. This is the science of field fluency. Get ready to meet the shark—and learn why sharks don’t explain themselves2025-05-0132 minPrecisionCycleField Week: How Reverse Causality Destroys RelationshipsSend us a textIn this Field Week kickoff, Enrique from elevate.epo breaks down one of the most overlooked yet devastating dynamics in modern relationships: Reverse Causality. Rooted in primitive psychological defenses, reverse causality occurs when someone injures the relational field — and then blames you for reacting. Pulling from real-world clinical experiences in eating disorder treatment centers, Enrique exposes how these distorted field dynamics infect marriages, families, and organizations alike. Learn how emotional rupture, projective identification, and narcissistic attacks quietly erode connection — and how recalibrating your own field is the key to s...2025-04-2929 minPrecisionCycleThe Escape from Sedation: How Real Clinical Work Threatens Broken Systems in Eating Disorder TreatmentSend us a textWhen a borderline patient at an eating disorder residential spiraled into distorted thinking, Enrique used Lacanian principles to recalibrate her reality—in real time. Instead of being celebrated, the intervention was rejected by leadership desperate to maintain the illusion of healing. In this week's Friday Address, Enrique exposes why real psychoanalysis is forbidden inside most mental health systems—and how elevate.epo exists to do what they can't: recalibrate, not sedate.If you're tired of being trapped in distorted systems, this is your escape route.2025-04-2528 minPrecisionCycleTwo Energies: The Survival Fields of Restrictors and Binge-PurgersSend us a textNot all eating disorders are the same — not just clinically, but energetically. In this episode, Enrique breaks open the hidden divide inside the EDO world: Restrictors and Binge-Purgers. These aren't just diagnostic categories. They are distinct survival strategies with completely different emotional fields.From the quiet collapse of the Restrictor — masked in perfectionism, compliance, and silent withdrawal — to the volatile gravitational pull of the Binge-Purger — charged with chaos, trauma, and emotional detonation — this episode reveals how clinicians are often swallowed by the fields they’re tr...2025-04-2313 minPrecisionCycleThe Reality Behind Eating Disorder Treatment: Why Containment Fails and Collapse HappensSend us a textIn this episode of elevate.epo, Enrique exposes the hidden fractures inside residential eating disorder treatment. From the raw realities of nervous system collapse to the institutional betrayals patients experience after discharge, this episode peels back the sanitized marketing and reveals the truth: behavior modification is not healing. Real recovery demands system recalibration at the Parabehavioral Impulse Center (PIC) — the core survival field.Learn why patients relapse, why clinicians are trapped, and how elevate.epo offers a new path be...2025-04-2223 minPrecisionCycleIntegration Week: Friday Address – This System Is Built Under PressureSend us a textYou don’t build a new system by sitting in circles and processing your feelings. You build it by moving under pressure. In this special Friday edition, I break down what Integration Week means inside elevate.epo: recalibration through movement, not maintenance.We cover:Why structure beats survival modeHow emotional sovereignty outperforms diagnosis cultureWhat early deployment already looks like in the fieldIf you're tired of therapy that keeps you circling the same co...2025-04-1930 minPrecisionCycleBilling or Healing: Why Modern Mental Health Failed — and How We Take It BackSend us a textThe mental health industry isn’t broken — it’s executing a billing-first model by design. In this episode, we expose how compliance replaced healing, why insurance dependency destroyed practitioner autonomy, and how elevate.epo’s PrecisionCycle is the scientifically proven countermeasure. Integration and optimization aren't luxuries anymore — they are survival. Choose sovereignty. Choose elevation. Choose you.✉️ Subscribe to Substack for deeper clinical drops and case walkthroughs👤 Book a PrecisionCycle™ and experience the work in real time🔓 “Emotional Ba...2025-04-1714 minPrecisionCycleI Was 310: The Body Isn’t Broken. It’s Holding the Line.Send us a textIn this opening episode of the Week of Integration series, Ash and Danni break down a paper by Enrique—founder of elevate.epo— that unpacks what it really means to lose weight without chasing transformation. This isn’t a fitness journey. It’s a structural recalibration.The move from 310 to 230 wasn’t about health. It was about reclaiming a body that had been holding years of unresolved psychosocial data. Drawing on Erikson’s identity theory and elevate.epo core methodology, Enrique reframes mass as containment, stillness as command, and...2025-04-1428 min