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Marriage in Real LifeThe Power of Self-LoveSend us a textWhat does it truly mean to love yourself? In this deeply personal exploration of self-love, Lady P delves into the often-overlooked essentials of honoring your worth, setting boundaries, and prioritizing your wellbeing without guilt.After sharing heartwarming stories about her "grandma duty" adventures, including a special "Nana meeting" with her granddaughters, the conversation shifts to the core of self-care. Lady P unpacks five critical behaviors to leave behind: putting everyone else first, chasing people who are running away from you, negative self-talk, seeking universal understanding, and returning to toxic relationships out...2025-07-1152 min
Marriage in Real LifeLet's Talk About It with Lady P - Embracing Authentic Self-Worth in Love and LifeSend us a textLady P steps into the podcast world with refreshing candor, creating a judgment-free zone where women can discuss life's real complexities. Drawing from her 33-year marriage, experience raising six children, and personal journey from difficult beginnings to fulfilled womanhood, she offers wisdom that feels like advice from your most honest friend.This premiere episode dives into finding balance between independence and partnership, maintaining your authentic self in relationships, and identifying partners who will value rather than diminish you. "If he fears God, he's not going to do anything to damage you,"...2025-06-2548 min
Marriage in Real LifeQuestions Answered...What Happens After "I Do"?Send us a textMarriage doesn't come with a manual, but our season three finale delivers something just as valuable: raw, honest answers to your most pressing relationship questions.What does it truly mean to keep God at the center of your marriage beyond Sunday service? We explore practical approaches like praying together, studying scripture as a team, and serving others—creating a spiritual foundation that withstands life's inevitable challenges. For couples navigating parenthood, we offer counter-intuitive wisdom: scheduling one-on-one time with each child actually creates more space for your marriage to flourish. The tactical ad...2025-06-1959 min
Marriage in Real LifeWhen Love Listens: 33 Years of Growing TogetherSend us a textThirty-three years of marriage reveals truths that no honeymoon phase could ever predict. In this heartfelt conversation, Eric and Lady P pull back the curtain on their marriage journey, sharing the beautiful, challenging, and transformative moments that have shaped their relationship over three decades.The couple discusses how their understanding of love has evolved beyond flowers and grand gestures to appreciate the profound intimacy found in everyday acts of service—keeping the gas tank full, helping with household chores, and simply showing up for each other. They vulnerably share stories of fi...2025-05-151h 16
Marriage in Real Life7 Secrets Every Spouse Should KeepSend us a textWhat secrets should you actually keep in marriage? Not the harmful, relationship-damaging kind, but the sacred boundaries that protect your union.The discussion opens with a powerful story about a doctor married to a construction worker who explained her profound perspective: "I've never judged my husband by the size of his purse, but rather by the size of his purpose in my life." This wisdom sets the foundation for understanding that value in marriage transcends financial status.We explore seven areas where privacy strengthens rather than harms your relationship...2025-04-171h 00
Marriage in Real LifeThe Seven Deadly Sins of MarriageSend us a textMarriages can silently deteriorate through seven deadly behavioral patterns that many couples don't recognize until significant damage is done.• Refusing to change – digging your heels in when growth is necessary creates friction and prevents relationship development• Assuming the worst – filtering your spouse's actions through negative expectations leads to disconnection and misunderstandings• Blaming – pointing fingers instead of taking ownership creates division rather than solutions• Shutting down – avoiding conflict through silence gives the enemy space to magnify small issues into major problems• Fantasizing – comparing your relationship to idealized versions of other marriages o...2025-03-2854 min
Marriage in Real LifeReal Conversations on Marriage: Wisdom from 23 Years with the StokesSend us a textRelationships are not always simple and straightforward. Often they are filled with complexities, joys, and hurdles that couples must navigate together. In our latest episode, we welcome the Stokes couple, who share their unique journey through marriage and parenthood with us. This candid conversation delves into their insights from raising seven daughters, offering lessons on patience, understanding, and teamwork in parenting. One of the central themes of our discussion revolves around the significance of faith as a core unifying element in their relationship. The Stokes describe how a shared belief system s...2025-02-251h 02
Marriage in Real LifeNavigating Divorce and Building Resilience Through Faith and CommunicationSend us a textEver wondered how to navigate the turbulent waters of divorce while maintaining personal growth and resilience? Dr. Erica Holman, a compassionate sister from Dallas, Texas, joins us to share her profound journey through the complexities of divorce as a military spouse with a blended family. Her narrative is one of courage and transformation, as she opens up about the emotional and financial challenges that accompanied her path, including the impact on her children's perceptions of relationships. Erica's story offers a beacon of hope and strength, showing us how vulnerability can lead to healing...2025-01-301h 16
Marriage in Real LifeCreating Lasting Memories in Marriage TogetherSend us a textIs your marriage vibrant and full of spontaneous moments all year round, or does it thrive only on anniversaries and special occasions? Discover how to infuse daily life with celebrations and appreciation, whether you’re married or single. This episode promises to transform your perspective on relationships by offering insights into cherishing both the highs and lows, and the profound impact of remembering why you fell in love in the first place.Throughout our lively discussion, we uncover the secrets to a strong marriage connection. From recalling the foundational elements of fr...2025-01-1448 min
Marriage in Real LifeTransform Your Marriage Through Setting Marriage Goals for 2025Send us a textAre you ready to transform your relationship and embrace a deeper connection with your partner? Join us, Eric and Boss Lady P, as we unlock the secrets of setting marriage goals that stand the test of time. With nearly 33 years of shared experiences, we highlight the significance of crafting a unified vision and the profound impact it can have on your marriage. Discover the power of intentional goal setting and how it can prevent conflicts, maintain balance, and support individual and collective aspirations. Together, let's explore how teamwork and shared values are the...2025-01-0152 min
Marriage in Real LifeFrom Hustle to Harmony: Strengthening Your Marriage This ChristmasSend us a textRediscover the joy of the holiday season by embracing meaningful connections and innovative traditions. We promise you'll learn how to manage holiday stress and enhance relationships by fostering open communication and appreciation. By managing expectations and responsibilities, couples can prevent misunderstandings and stress, turning potentially overwhelming holiday duties into a shared, joyful experience. Learn how to transition from traditional gift exchanges to acts of generosity that bring deeper meaning to the season, and explore creating realistic holiday schedules that prioritize your family while respecting broader commitments.Have you ever felt the...2024-12-0345 min
Marriage in Real LifeThankgiving Prayer for MarriagesSend us a textThis episode is a Thanksgiving Prayer for Marriages.Watch the live show on Youtube.Follow us on Facebook & Instagram at @marriageinreallifepodcast2024-11-2805 min
Marriage in Real LifeFinding Harmony in a Politically Divided HomeSend us a textWhat happens when political polarization creeps into the heart of our personal relationships? You won't want to miss this heartfelt exploration of how differing political views can test the bonds of marriage and family. We share our holiday traditions, like cooking and family gatherings, while reflecting on the unexpected winds of life, both literal and metaphorical, that remind us to prioritize health and family above all. Amidst these tales of warmth and gratitude, we delve into the real impact of politics on relationships, drawing from studies and personal anecdotes to shed light on...2024-11-051h 01
Marriage in Real LifeNAVIGATING THE LOVE, LOSS AND LEGACY OF A HUSBAND: THE PASTOR BARR’S STORYSend us a textIn this heartfelt episode of "Marriage and Real Life," Pastor Barr shares a deeply personal and inspiring journey through marriage, faith, and loss. She reflects on the profound themes of compromise, communication, and the central role of Christ in maintaining a strong relationship. Through stories of her own marriage, listeners gain valuable insights into the dynamics of love, prayer, and mutual respect.Key takeaways from this episode include practical advice on financial planning, goal-setting, and the importance of open dialogue in avoiding unmet expectations. Pastor Barr, with her moving account of...2024-10-221h 23
Marriage in Real LifeSeason 3 Kickoff - A Conversation around the Tim Ross Viral Video about a Man's Role in MarrigeSend us a textHave you ever wondered how to weather both personal storms and actual ones? Join us as we kick off Season 3. We start by sharing our summer adventures, from attending a transformative conference in Lakeland and reconnecting with cherished mentors to attending the Florida Baptist Black Multicultural event. Amid joyous reunions, we also brace for the impending threat of a hurricane, emphasizing the importance of community safety and preparedness. Our hearts go out to those in South Florida, and we end this segment with a prayer for protection and strength.Marriage is o...2024-10-081h 05
Marriage in Real LifeWhy Planning SEX Might Save Your MarriageSend us a textEver wondered if scheduling sex could actually bring more romance into your relationship? On today's episode, we promise to reveal the surprising benefits of planning intimacy for busy couples. We’ll share evidence that a little structure can lead to more anticipation, better connections, and a healthier relationship overall. By reframing scheduled intimacy as essential relationship maintenance, you might just discover a new way to keep the spark alive.Next, we navigate the tricky waters of mismatched sex drives with some practical advice. From dealing with the impact of age and he...2024-06-1348 minMarriage in Real LifeRespect: One of the Cornerstones of a Thriving MarriageSend us a textEver wondered how God-centered marriages withstand life's greatest challenges? Join us as we celebrate life's milestones, including the end of the school year and a granddaughter's high school graduation. We take a reflective moment to honor Memorial Day and the sacrifices of veterans and their families. Then, we dive into the heart of our discussion by sharing personal stories that reveal how marriage uncovers hidden aspects of ourselves, leading to mutual growth and encouragement.Discover the bedrock of a strong marriage by keeping God at the center, as emphasized in Psalms 127:1...2024-06-061h 09
Marriage in Real LifeFoundation of a Strong Marriage - LOYALTYSend us a textHave you ever considered the intricate dance of love and dedication it takes to keep a marriage flourishing? That's precisely what we're tackling today as we guide you through the serpentine paths of marital bliss and blunders. We promise an enlightening journey, grounded in faith, from the profound wisdom of 1 Corinthians 13 to the delicate balance of 'leaving and cleaving' laid out in Ephesians 5:31. As your hosts, we're here to reveal how patience, kindness, and an unwavering commitment can reinforce the love you share with your partner.Navigating family dynamics and the...2024-05-141h 12
Marriage in Real LifeCrafting a Legacy of Love Beyond the Public EyeSend us a textOn our latest heart-to-heart podcast voyage, we unfurl the sails to explore the deep waters of love, life, and enduring partnerships. My wife and I celebrate her mother's surprise 75th birthday cruise while also reflecting on the dance of our 32-year marriage. We dive into the societal pressures women face around marriage and motherhood and the profound impact age and expectations have on shaping our narratives.As we navigate the ebb and flow of married life, it's the laughter during load-shedding and the shared silence under the stars that truly bind...2024-05-021h 17Marriage in Real Life5 Surprising Benefits to Dating Your WifeSend us a textHave you ever wondered how to keep the sparks flying years into marriage? We've got you covered with a heartwarming exploration of the joys and benefits of continuing to date your wife post-nuptials. We're taking Women's History Month to heart by sharing our own personal stories and insights that reveal just how much of a difference regular date nights can make. From strengthening your bond to rediscovering the thrill of your relationship, we talk about how simple gestures and checking in with each other can breathe new life into your love story.2024-03-2853 min
Marriage in Real LifeWhat a Wife Wants from Her HusbandSend us a textDiscover the essence of a wife's heart as we journey through scripture and personal insights to uncover what she truly desires from her husband. Our latest episode is a heartfelt exploration of love, respect, and the gold standard set by Christ's sacrificial love, as outlined in Ephesians 5:25. We dive into the idea that true love eradicates any inkling of mistreatment and fosters a nurturing ground for respect to bloom. Listen for an enriching discussion that might inspire you to renew your marital vows with a fresh perspective on love and dedication....2024-03-071h 15
Marriage in Real LifeThe Blueprint for Lifelong Devotion: Celebrating Over 40 Years of Marital Wisdom with Bishop Gerald and Lady Cheryl BanksSend us a textUnlock the secrets to a fulfilling, lifelong marriage as we sit down with Bishop Gerald and Lady Cheryl Banks, a couple whose love has blossomed over an astonishing 41 years. Their wisdom, deeply rooted in spiritual faith and practical experience, offers a blueprint for not just surviving, but thriving in a committed relationship. From the sacred origins of marriage to the daily acts that cement a loving bond, this episode is a treasure chest of insights that promises to enrich your understanding of love, partnership, and divine intention.Feel the warmth as...2024-02-051h 04
Marriage in Real LifeWords NOT to Say to Your SpouseSend us a text Marriage in Real Life isn't just a podcast; it's a community space where we expose the raw truths of our journey as partners in life, love, and everything in between. We invite you to be part of our vibrant conversation, where your voice can echo through the airwaves, sharing wisdom on weathering the stormy days of marriage and family life.Words carry weight, and in the tapestry of marriage, they can be threads that either strengthen or unravel the bond. We peel back layers on the importance of empathy and careful c...2024-01-231h 17
Marriage in Real Life5 Places to Get BAD Marriage AdviceSend us a textNavigating the sphere of marital advice can be treacherous. How do you differentiate between sound advice and chatter in the sea of voices? Drawing from personal experiences, we delve into the need for discernment and caution when choosing confidants. We discuss the potential negative influences that can rock your relationship boat, the lurking dangers of gossip, and the significance of seeking guidance from those who have weathered similar storms. Marriage is not a 50/50 venture - a shocking revelation or a familiar truth? We argue for the latter as we explore the f...2023-12-061h 17
Marriage in Real LifeThe Lasting Impact of Saying Thank You in MarriagesSend us a textWhat if the secret to a lasting, fulfilling marriage is as simple as saying "thank you"? Journey with us, your hosts Eric and Patsy Richards, as we unpack the transformative power of gratitude in marriage. Fresh from our trip to Tampa, we put the spotlight on everyday expressions of appreciation and share how this simple act can revolutionise your relationship.The second part of our heart-to-heart conversation explores the marriage-parenting conundrum. Drawing from our personal experiences, we discuss how positive behaviour in marriage sets a sturdy foundation for effective parenting. We...2023-11-211h 08Marriage in Real LifeSurviving the Weekend Warfare: Strategies for a Stress-Free Couple TimeSend us a textDo you ever wonder why some dates fizzle out while others bloom into something beautiful? At the beginning of this episode, during HOT TOPICS, we discuss the viral list of "Where Women Do Not Want to Go on First Dates." We pull back the curtain and tell you what we think about the list. Enjoy a hearty laugh as we break down the list, with Cheesecake Factory topping that list! We also delve into striking the right balance between setting expectations and keeping things simple—the cornerstone of every successful first date.2023-10-311h 01