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The Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastBelonging Without the Buzz: Queer Sobriety & ConnectionWhat does it mean to feel free, connected, and authentic in queer spaces—without the crutch of alcohol or drugs? In this episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim are joined by Dave Becker, founder of Sober Gay Sunday, to explore queer sobriety, nightlife, and what it means to connect without substances. Dave shares his personal story—from circuit parties and addiction to building a sober community that celebrates authenticity and nervous system regulation. Together, they unpack why so many queer people seek connection through bars and substances, and how alternative spaces like sports leagues, podcasts, and sobe...2025-07-1055 min
The Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastDoing vs. Being: When Growth Becomes Another GrindIn this episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim explore how personal growth and spiritual practice can quietly slip into another form of hustle. Why do we sometimes treat healing like a to-do list? What happens when our breathwork, yoga, or journaling stops being supportive and starts becoming performative?Together, they unpack perfectionism, self-trust, and the radical permission to just be. From Tim’s morning breathwork dilemma to Eric’s meditation hall ego trip, this episode is a heartfelt, humorous, and deeply honest look at what it means to grow without losing yourself in the process.To...2025-07-0356 min
The Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastThe Father Wound Part 2 w/ Amir Khalighi: Judgment, the Lone Wolf Trap, and Re-Fathering YourselfIn Part 2 of our conversation with Amir Khalighi, we move from uncovering the father wound to exploring what it takes to heal it. Why are so many men with this wound quick to judge—others, themselves, and especially other men? How does hypervigilance become a way of life? And what does it take to re-father ourselves and trust again?We talk about the lone wolf archetype, how judgment protects what we’re not ready to feel, and why healing doesn’t require reconciling with your father—but it does require showing up for yourself.🎧 If you’ve ever...2025-06-2655 min
The Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastHealing the Father Wound Part 1: Reclaiming Power, Presence, and Trust with Amir KhalighiIn this special two part episode of The Circle, we’re joined by our mentor and teacher Amir Khalighi—founder of Embodied Masculine—for a deep conversation about the father wound, masculine lineage, and the path to healing. Together, we explore how emotional or physical absence from a father figure can shape a man’s identity, disrupt his relationship with power, and perpetuate patterns of codependency, people-pleasing, addiction, and emotional disconnection.Amir shares his own story of growing up without a present father, how that wound became a gateway to personal transformation, and what it truly means to recla...2025-06-191h 02The Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastBuilding Trust: How Consistency, Embodiment, and Surrender Shape Self-Trust and RelationshipsIn this episode of The Circle Podcast, Eric and Tim go all in on the many dimensions of trust—from how we cultivate trust within ourselves to how we navigate the messy terrain of trusting others, institutions, and even the universe.With personal stories, embodiment reflections, and real-world examples from breathwork, therapy, and men’s work, they unpack why trust is so deeply linked to safety, regulation, consistency, and surrender. Whether you're rebuilding self-trust after a rupture, discerning who and what to trust externally, or learning to let go of control, this episode meets you right at the...2025-06-121h 01The Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastCircles of Care: Queer Intimacy, Radical Fairies & Healing Through the AIDS EpidemicIn this episode of The Circle Podcast, we’re joined by Jonathan Scott—also known as Wild Blue Yonder and Esther the Village Mermaid—for a deeply moving conversation about queer resilience, the Radical Fairy movement, and the healing power of gathering in circle.A longtime community organizer and founder of the Victory Programs, Jonathan shares his lived experience from the height of the AIDS epidemic, when queer communities, abandoned by institutions, created sacred spaces for care, grief, breath, and belonging. From heart circles in treatment centers to radical fairy sanctuaries, he reminds us that intimacy, connection, and br...2025-06-0552 minThe Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastTaking It All In: The Art of Receiving Without Shame or ObligationWhy is it so hard to simply take it in—a compliment, a gift, a moment of care, or even a deep breath? In this episode of The Circle Podcast, Eric and Tim unpack the cultural, emotional, and personal blocks that make receiving feel vulnerable, awkward, or even shameful. Whether it’s feeling unworthy of love, fearing hidden strings, or being conditioned to always give and never rest, many men—especially queer men—struggle to let themselves receive without guilt or defensiveness.Drawing from men’s work, embodiment practice, and real-life stories, they explore how receiving is not just a...2025-05-2943 minThe Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastThe Shaman’s Mind: Jonathan Hammond on Queer Wisdom, Nature’s Intelligence, and the Power to Co-Create RealityIn this episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim sit down with Jonathan Hammond—author, spiritual teacher, and trained shamanic practitioner—to explore how earth-based spirituality and Hawaiian wisdom can help us reclaim authenticity, heal limiting beliefs, and reimagine a more connected world. From the ancient role of queer people in shamanic cultures to the modern practice of manifestation, the conversation weaves together collective consciousness, two-spirit identity, imagination, and the sacred relationship between humans and the natural world.Jonathan unpacks core teachings from his book The Shaman’s Mind, introduces two of the Seven Principles of Huna...2025-05-221h 00The Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastRemembering to Pretend: Why Imagination Might Be the Most Important Grown-Up Thing You’ve ForgottenIn this episode of The Circle Podcast, Eric and Tim explore the transformative power of imagination—not as a childhood relic, but as a radical tool for adult healing, creative expression, emotional intelligence, and personal growth. From visualizing future goals to softening interpersonal conflicts, they unpack how reconnecting with our imaginations can help queer men reclaim authorship over their lives.Drawing from their own experiences in embodiment practice and men’s work, they reflect on the role imagination plays in everything from visualization and manifestation to empathy, problem-solving, and intimacy. The episode also looks at why so many...2025-05-1551 minThe Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastRope and Radical Communication: Mr. R on Trust, Consent, and KinkCurious about kink—but unsure where to start? In this episode of The Circle Podcast, Eric and Tim are joined by Mr. R, a rope rigger, dominant, and BDSM educator, to explore how consent, communication, and trust form the bedrock of safe and empowering experiences in BDSM and beyond.Through real stories, thoughtful analogies, and insights from kink practice, they unpack how risk, sensation, and psychological safety are negotiated in scenes—and why clear communication is a form of radical care. From navigating power dynamics to understanding your own boundaries, this episode invites you into a world wher...2025-05-081h 03The Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastUnpacking the Prickle: Irritation, Annoyance, and the Needs Beneath the NoiseEver found yourself snapping in traffic or spiraling over something small? In this episode of The Circle Podcast, Eric and Tim unpack the deeper truth behind irritation and annoyance—and how these emotions often reveal unmet needs, unconscious beliefs, and moments where we fall out of integrity with ourselves.With personal stories, embodied insights, and practical tools, they explore how common irritants—like getting cut off in traffic or feeling disrespected—can be invitations to pause, reflect, and reclaim your power. Learn how to identify your emotional patterns, reconnect with your needs, and communicate with more clarity and co...2025-05-0156 minThe Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastSeeing Ourselves in Others: Gregory Ganymedes on The Power of Projection in Dreams and LifeProjection is a fundamental yet often unnoticed aspect of human experience. We see in others what we cannot yet recognize in ourselves, whether in moments of conflict, admiration, or even within the mysterious landscapes of our dreams.In this episode of The Circle, Eric Bomyea and Timothy Bish welcome dream worker Gregory Ganymedes to go all in on the nature of projection—how it operates in our subconscious and how it influences our waking interactions. Through an insightful conversation, they explore:Understanding Projection: How our unconscious mind externalizes unrecognized aspects of ourselves onto others, shaping our re...2025-04-2453 minThe Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastHarnessing the Fire Within: Transforming Anger into EmpowermentAnger is a powerful and often misunderstood emotion, especially among men. While society may encourage its suppression or view it negatively, anger, when acknowledged and channeled appropriately, can serve as a catalyst for personal growth and transformation.In this episode of The Circle, hosts Eric Bomyea and Timothy Bish go all in on the complexities of anger, exploring its origins, manifestations, and potential as a force for positive change. Through an insightful conversation, they discuss:Understanding Anger: Recognizing anger as a natural human emotion that exists on a spectrum, from mild irritation to intense rage.Anger and Bo...2025-04-1756 minThe Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastEmotional Alchemy with Alex Lehmann: Transforming the Pain of Otherness into PurposeMany men grow up feeling othered—whether due to cultural differences, personal identity, or societal expectations. This sense of disconnection can shape their emotional landscape, leading to shame, isolation, and a struggle to express their true selves. But what if those experiences could be transformed into a source of clarity, strength, and purpose?In this episode of The Circle, we sit down with Alex Lehmann, Men’s Leadership Coach and host of The Heart of Man podcast, to explore the power of emotional literacy in reclaiming belonging and authenticity.Through raw and insightful conversation, we unco...2025-04-1059 minThe Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastRediscovering Joy in Men's Work: Unlocking Personal Growth and Purpose Through the Embodiment of JoyIn this episode of The Circle Podcast, we go all in on the often-overlooked role of joy in men’s work and embodiment practices. While grief, anger, and fear frequently dominate men’s spaces, joy remains an underdeveloped muscle—one that, when cultivated, can become a profound source of purpose and connection.Eric and Tim unpack why many men struggle to access joy, how societal conditioning stifles its expression, and why joy is just as essential as any other emotion in personal growth. They examine the embodied nature of joy—how it moves through the body, signals alignmen...2025-04-0353 min
Queer Mid-life Stories#5 Tim Bish & Eric BomyeaSend us a textThe joy of 2-in-1 this week on Queer Mid-life Stories as I'm joined by the lovely Timothy Bish and Eric Bomyea, from the Queer Men's Embodiment podcast.They are run it as The Circle in real life, and as they say on the pod, the next time you're in Provincetown Massachusetts, stop by for a session!We have a fantastic chat about:- if it's our duty to have fun- why we don't just have to 'choose the default'- personal mantras and... ...2025-04-0251 minThe Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastLeading with Heart: Steve Azar on Community, Spirituality, and TransformationIn this episode, Tim and Eric sit down with real estate entrepreneur and environmental engineer Steve Azar to explore how leading with heart can shape not just businesses, but entire communities. From high-rise developments to Provincetown’s historic Gifford House, Steve’s work is deeply rooted in impact, intention, and connection. We discuss his journey through men’s work, embodiment practices, and spiritual surrender—how listening to universal signals led him to unexpected yet powerful opportunities. Steve shares his vision for creating trustable spaces where queerness, art, and authenticity can thrive, and how leadership is less about control and more abo...2025-03-2750 minThe Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastTransforming Judgment: A Path to Growth in Men's WorkJudgment is a natural human response, but how often do we pause to examine its impact on our lives? In this episode, Eric and Tim go all in on the role of judgment in men's work, exploring how it can disrupt presence and hinder personal growth. They discuss the nuances of self-judgment and the fear of being judged by others, particularly within the queer community. By sharing personal experiences and insights, they offer strategies to transform judgment from a reactive habit into a conscious tool for self-awareness and connection. Tune in to learn how embracing curiosity and compassion can...2025-03-2059 minThe Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastSteady Leadership: Julian Cyr on Calmness as a Form of ResistanceIn a world that rewards quick reactions, what happens when we choose calmness as a form of resistance? In this episode of The Circle Podcast, we sit down with Massachusetts State Senator Julian Cyr to explore how steadiness, patience, and emotional regulation shape leadership, activism, and personal growth.Senator Cyr shares his journey from growing up in a small town on Cape Cod to becoming a leading advocate for public health, LGBTQ+ rights, and economic development. He reflects on the importance of being a mooring in turbulent waters—a steady presence that holds firm as the tides of...2025-03-1358 minThe Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastEmbracing Discomfort: Transforming Limiting Beliefs Through Patience and DisciplineIn this episode of The Circle Podcast, we explore the discomfort that comes with breaking free from limiting beliefs and stepping into a more empowered way of being. Transformation isn’t instant—it requires patience, discipline, and a willingness to sit with discomfort rather than avoid it.Eric and Tim unpack why growth often feels unsettling and why staying committed to the process—whether in men’s work, fitness, or mindset practices—is essential for real change. They challenge the myth of instant gratification, discuss the role of embodiment in rewiring thought patterns, and share strategies for navigating...2025-03-061h 03The Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastHealing the Wounded Boy: How Men's Work Helps Us Step Into Maturity with Soma MillerIn this episode of The Circle Podcast, we sit down with Soma Miller, founder of The Essential Man, to explore how unresolved wounds shape our lives and how men’s work, brotherhood, and embodiment practices help us step into maturity, integrity, and purpose.Soma shares his personal journey into men’s work, influenced by mentors like Francis Weller and Malidoma Somé, and discusses the importance of rites of passage, emotional maturity, and healing the wounds of masculinity. We dive into why many men—both queer and straight—struggle to trust other men, the role of nature and the sacre...2025-02-2754 minThe Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastFrom Obligation to Choice: Reframing Shoulds & Embracing Intentionality in Men's WorkIn this episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim explore how men can shift from living in a world of “shoulds” and obligations to consciously choosing their actions with clarity and intention. Drawing from men’s embodiment practices, Marshall Rosenberg’s Nonviolent Communication, and mindfulness techniques, they unpack the subtle but powerful difference between “I have to” and “I choose to.”Through personal reflections and recent men’s circles, they discuss how cultural conditioning shapes our internalized expectations, the role of discomfort in decision-making, and the transformative power of pausing before acting. Can we reclaim autonomy by understanding our...2025-02-2056 minThe Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastReclaiming Fitness: Queer Strength, Body Image, and Self-Love | GBTQ+ Wellness with Matt BoylesHow do queer men reclaim fitness as a space of empowerment rather than exclusion? In this episode of The Circle, we sit down with Matt Boyles, founder of Fitter Confident You, a fitness platform designed specifically for gay, bi, and trans men. Together, we explore the intersection of body image, societal expectations, and movement—unpacking the hyper-focus on aesthetics in queer spaces and how it impacts our confidence, mental health, and relationship with fitness.Matt shares his personal journey from feeling like an outsider in sports to creating a safe, inclusive fitness community that prioritizes joy, strength, an...2025-02-131h 05The Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastExpanding Capacity: Building Real Strength to Move from Burnout to BalanceIn this episode of The Circle, the Podcast for Queer Men's Embodiment, we take a deep dive into the strong man archetype—the societal expectation that men must always have the answers, never ask for help, and handle everything alone. These pressures often lead to overwhelm, isolation, and burnout, especially for queer men navigating mental, emotional, and spiritual growth.Tim and Eric explore how men’s work and embodiment practices provide essential tools for managing stress, recognizing when we’re overwhelmed, and learning to ask for support. We discuss how the false ideal of relentless self-sufficiency can keep m...2025-02-0651 minThe Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastEmbodying Polarity: Mackenzie on Masculine & Feminine Energies Through DragIn this episode of The Circle, Timothy Bish and Eric Bomyea are joined by Mackenzie, a drag entertainer, philanthropist, and artist. Mackenzie shares their journey of navigating the balance between masculine and feminine energies, using drag as a powerful tool for self-expression and transformation.Together, they explore breaking societal norms, navigating gender expression, and using drag to embody both strength and softness. The conversation unpacks how embracing polarity can deepen authenticity, creativity, and connection while challenging traditional binaries.2025-01-3050 minThe Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment PodcastThe Complexity of Gratitude: Moving Beyond Obligations and Performative Thank YousIn this episode of The Circle, Tim and Eric go all in on the emotional complexities of gratitude, exploring how to move beyond performative expressions and embrace authentic gratitude. Through personal stories and reflections, they unpack the challenges men face in connecting with genuine feelings of gratitude—particularly when societal expectations or past experiences make it feel like an obligation.They discuss how men’s work provides a framework for practicing gratitude authentically, allowing men to navigate the tension between societal pressure and personal truth. With a focus on queer men’s spirituality and personal growth, Tim and Er...2025-01-2355 min