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Am I Doing It Wrong?Am I Doing It Wrong?How Forgiveness Actually Works — And When Not To Do ItThis week Raj and Noah welcome licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. Dr. Esther Boykin to talk all about the difference between forgiving and reconciling, the necessity of apologies, and all the dimensions of the value we call forgiveness.Want to add to the conversation, or think you might be doing something wrong? Email us at amidoingitwrong@huffpost.com. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.2025-01-1642 minHello Seven PodcastHello Seven PodcastHow To Increase Your Prices Without Losing ClientsOur next guest in the hot seat is Esther Boykin. She’s a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 15 years of experience under her belt. She’s the CEO of Therapy Is Not A Dirty Word, a mental health service providing support for those often neglected or underserved in today’s society. We can see that she’s got a great thing going, so what’s the problem?! You see, Esther is in the thick of a very important transition within her business. She’s shifting away from an unsustainable business model, and adapting for a new ideal...2024-10-0255 minHello Seven PodcastHello Seven PodcastHow To Increase Your Prices Without Losing ClientsOur next guest in the hot seat is Esther Boykin. She’s a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 15 years of experience under her belt. She’s the CEO of Therapy Is Not A Dirty Word, a mental health service providing support for those often neglected or underserved in today’s society. We can see that she’s got a great thing going, so what’s the problem?! You see, Esther is in the thick of a very important transition within her business. She’s shifting away from an unsustainable business model, and adapting for a new ideal...2024-10-0255 minA Soulful Mom\'s WisdomA Soulful Mom's WisdomEpisode #21: Boundaries: Protecting Your Peace and Well-beingWelcome to another heartwarming and insightful episode of A Soulful Mom's Wisdom! This month, we're diving deep into a crucial theme for all mothers: Boundaries. In this episode, Africa O. explores the importance of setting and maintaining boundaries to protect our mental and emotional well-being.Episode Highlights:Life Changing Quotes: We hear a quote by Esther Boykins about implementing boundaries to protect and honor our time.Understanding Boundaries: Africa defines boundaries using insights from LA Concierge psychologists, explaining them as the lines and limits we...2024-06-0524 minSh*t I Just Quit My JobSh*t I Just Quit My JobSh*t Where's The Self-Compassion?Have you ever wondered why, despite ticking off every self-care task on your list, you still feel like you're barely scratching the surface of feeling good? Maybe it’s time to change your self-care routine for a dose of self-compassion. In today’s episode I sit down with Esther Boykin, we dive deep into the transformative power of self-compassion—a vital tool that might just be the missing piece in your mental wellness puzzle. Esther not only defines self-compassion but also breaks down actionable steps to integrate it into our daily lives. She emphasizes that self-compassion isn’t just a...2024-05-0956 minReimagining LoveReimagining LoveFrom Burnout to Balanced: Bringing Self-Compassion to Our Careers with Esther BoykinEsther Boykin joins Dr. Alexandra for an expansive conversation around the intersection of mental health and our careers. Esther highlights the difference between self-care and self-compassion, and points us towards using self-compassion as an essential tool for improving both our personal and work lives. When we bring self-compassion to our careers, we prevent burnout by opening up a deeper connection to our common humanity. Together, Esther and Dr. Alexandra then respond to a listener who thinks her relationship is being held back by her partner's ambition.Relevant links:Connect with Esther online and on Instagram2024-03-1950 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin20. Why Black Representation Matters in the Mental Health Space with Reginald HowardOn today’s episode of In the Space Between, I have an insightful conversation with Reginald Howard, a mental health activist. He is also the author of Suffering Into Success: A Paradigm Shift of Struggle to Achieve Happiness and the host of the Black Mental Health Podcast.We discuss representation, allowing ourselves to take up space, and the stigma within the Black community about mental health. Reginald also shares his key tips for planning a productive day.To connect further with Reginald HowardVisit his website https://reginaldahoward.com/Follow him on...2022-12-1240 minUnconditionally Worthy PodcastUnconditionally Worthy PodcastEP 64: Moving Beyond Making Your Life Look Great to Make Sure It Feels Great with Esther BoykinIn this episode of The Unconditionally Worthy Podcast, I welcome Esther Boykin, a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Tedx Speaker, and Author. Tune in as we share insights on how to make your life feel great, instead of just looking great. We also talk about how relationships can be a rich environment for learning and practicing vulnerability and self-compassion, as well as feeling unconditionally worthy.IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT…Esther’s  self-worth journey: Reaching a turning point at the end of her marriage & Finding balance between caring for herself and other...2022-12-0645 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin19. Contemplations on Self-Awareness, Shame, and Societal Norms with Kevin CarrOn today’s episode of In the Space Between, I welcome Kevin Carr, author of What I've Learned About Dating and co-host of Caught in the Act on VH1.We discuss the gift of self-expression, developing trust in self and within relationships, and the benefits of introspection. We also dove into what it takes to create relationships that center genuine connection and communication.To connect further with Kevin CarrFollow him on Instagram at www.instagram.com/kev_carrFollow him on Twitter @kev_carr Follow him on TikTok @kev_carrWa...2022-12-0536 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin18. Creating Your Own Definition of Manhood with Lance Jasper JonesOn today’s episode of In the Space Between, I speak with Lance Jasper Jones, the director and founder of Jasper House Warriors, a nonprofit that deals with sickle cell anemia and the mental health comorbidities of living with sickle cell anemia.We chat about the ways growing up with sickle cell anemia impacted him, why the collective consciousness of Black people needs to be unpacked and how he redefined what success and manhood meant for himself.To connect further with Lance JasperVisit his website at https://lancejasperjones.com/Vist the Jasper House Wa...2022-11-2846 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin17. The Power of Being Secure in Your Identity with Arron MullerOn today’s episode of In the Space Between, I speak with Arron Muller, a licensed clinical social worker, owner of Life Matters, and CEO of Modify Wellness.We talk about the importance of Black men building their own identity, and the ways in which the image of Black men as portrayed in the media differs from their lived experience. We also discussed Arron’s journey to creating the Black Therapist, and the barriers to accessing mental healthcare, and practicing self-compassion.To connect further with Arron MullerFollow him on Instagram at https://www...2022-11-2137 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin16. Finding Your Voice with Paul Bashea WilliamsOn today’s episode of In the Space Between, I chat with Paul Bashea Williams, a licensed clinical social worker, owner of Hearts In Mind Counseling, and author of Dear Future Wife: A Man's Guide and a Woman's Reference to Healthy Relationships.We talk about freedom of expression through writing, how he manages anxiety and the people and experiences that have inspired him to become the man he is.To connect further with Paul Bashea WilliamsVisit his website at https://basheawilliams.com/Follow him on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/BasheaWilliams2022-11-1442 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin15. The Importance of Personal Responsibility with Damon Roberts, Sr.On today’s episode of In the Space Between, I chat with Damon Roberts, Sr., an Iraq veteran turned social worker and the author of Matter of Time: Continue to March - a book about his transition back to life after Iraq.We talk about his experience growing up in a community that encouraged him to be Black and proud, his first experiences with racism and PTSD, how he got into social work and community service, and what personal responsibility means to him.To connect further with Damon Roberts, Sr.Follow him on Instagram at ht...2022-11-071h 13In the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin14. Achieving Goals Through Mindset Change with Jay HurtOn today’s episode of In the Space Between, I have a conversation with Jay Hurt, a certified relationship coach and the Chief Operating Officer of the Academy of Creative Coaching - a coach training program accredited by the International Coaching Federation.We talk about power dynamics, leadership, learning to believe in yourself, how to effectively mentor yourself, and Jay’s show, The Confident Charismatic.To connect further with Jay HurtFollow him on Facebook at www.facebook.com/jayhurtcoaching/Follow him on Instagram at www.instagram.com/jayhurtcoaching/Follow him on TikTok at w...2022-10-3140 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin13. Combine Entrepreneurship and Activism to Enact Change in Your Community with Randall E. TobyOn this episode of In the Space Between, I sat down with Randall E. Toby, a lifelong entrepreneur, two-time bestselling author on Amazon, and the founder of the Breakfast with Our Boys series - an award-winning program for male youth ages 10-15 years old.He shared lessons from his traumatic childhood, how he found his way as a Black man, and why he transitioned from a two-decade-long career in corporate sales to serving underserved populations.To connect further with Randall E. TobyFollow Breakfast with Our Boys on Instagram www.instagram.com/breakfastwithourboys/Follow...2022-10-2440 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin12. Reflecting on the Lessons The Podcast Has Taught MeOn this episode of In the Space Between, I welcome you to the second season of the podcast and I reflect on how the podcast reminds me that we, as humans, cannot fix everything. However, we can be attentive and hold space for the stories and explorations of Black men from all walks of life. That is the essence of this podcast.Mentioned in today’s podcast:Love and Rage by Lama Rod Owens To connect further with me:Visit my website www.estherboykin.comFollow me on Instagram www.instagram.com/estherbmft2022-10-1704 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin11. Reflecting on Season One and What’s Next for the Podcast with Esther BoykinWe’ve made it to the final episode of Season one and I can honestly say this has been one of my favorite projects. On today’s episode I reflect on some of the wisdom the podcast guests shared throughout season one. They have encouraged me to clean the chaos in my own mind and share my story and the lessons I have learned. I also have an exciting update about when you can expect Season two to be released.To connect further with me:Please follow me on social media and share your North Star with me...2022-06-2707 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin10. Lessons Learned Through Sports, Therapy, Life, and Love with Jamie WoodOn today’s episode of In the Space Between, I have a great conversation with Jamie Wood. Jamie is a former football player at Ohio State University and currently works in the athletic department. He is passionate about helping former athletes find their place after their sports career is complete and is an advocate for mental health awareness. Today we discuss what he wishes women understood, his first memories of love, the rarely discussed challenges of biracial relationships, and how he handled the expectations others placed on him both on the field and off. To Connect further with Ja...2022-06-2038 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin9. Reciprocal Accountability Inspired a Mission to Disrupt Generational Trauma with Fellonte MisherOn today’s episode, I talk to Fellonte Misher, the Co-Founder and Program Director of In the Streets, a community outreach program that’s mission is to build meaningful livelihoods and disrupt generational trauma. We discuss his experience living in Europe and how it exposed him to racial profiling and isolation but also helped him understand how to determine the person he truly is, rather than accepting who others thought he should be. We also discuss the importance of reciprocal accountability and trust and how they became the foundation of the work he is doing within his community. 2022-06-0635 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin8. Reflections on Anxiety, Hatred, and Building Confidence with Aristo Mohit-CokerOn today’s episode I am excited to welcome Aristo Mohit-Coker, founder of the startup company Downtime, which helps those struggling with emotional wellness locate the professional services that are the best fit for their needs. Aristo shares his experience growing up as a minority in Montreal and the lessons he learned from sitting with the hatred he was shown in his community as a young child. We have a meaningful and unique conversation about anxiety, entrepreneurship, relationships, coping skills, and building confidence. Aristo shares his secret to daily contentment and how he learned to show empathy toward those around hi...2022-05-2346 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin7. Imposter Syndrome and Setting Boundaries with Stevon LewisOn today’s episode, I talk to Stevon Lewis, who has a passion for helping people overcome Imposter Syndrome. He shares the pivotal moment that helped him understand that he was treated differently because of his race and his size and the healthy way he learned to handle those difficult situations. He also reflects on how he learned to accept himself while setting boundaries to protect himself and his happiness, while maintaining healthy relationships with those around him. To Connect further with Stevon LewisVisit his website: www.stevonlewis.comFollow Stevon on Instagram Stevon Lewis, LM...2022-05-0945 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin6. Understanding Systemic Racism and Turning it Into a Passion for Serving Others with André HunterIn today’s episode, I have an open and honest conversation with guest, André Hunter, who is passionate about serving others in every area of his life. He shares his feelings on being a mixed race, Black man in America, when he realized racism is systemic, and how he uses that understanding to help younger Black men and women. We also discuss how he is teaching his son confidence, why he believes Black women should be given a safe space, and what he feels is key to finding and accepting love. To Connect further with André HunterFoll...2022-04-2549 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin5. The Powerful Premium and Influence of Our Differences with Paul BrunsonToday’s guest is one of my favorite people to talk to, Paul C. Brunson, an entrepreneur, author, and TV host of a popular dating show in the UK. Paul shares how travel and frequently moving as a child changed his perspective on diversity and his view of what it means to be a Black man. He believes that differences are a resource and advantage that can make you into a powerful influencer. We also discuss how the content we consume can change our mindset and have an effect, positively or negatively, on our pursuit of excellence. To Co...2022-04-1144 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin4. Accounting for the Details in Your Life with Douglas ReedAccounting for the details in your life can help turn difficult parts of your past into positive ways to encourage and set an example for younger Black men and women. In today’s episode, I talk with Douglas Reed, the Director of Partnerships for Black Men Heal, which provides mental health support, community resources, and education for men of color. Douglas is also retired from the military and the Federal Bureau of Prisons and worked in the height of mass incarceration in the 1990’s. He brings his experience, perspective, and leadership to young people through his work in Black Men Heal...2022-03-2841 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin3. Creating Extraordinary Human Connection with Thomas KnoxIt’s important to cultivate human connection by creating a space for deep and honest conversations. In this episode of In the Space Between Podcast, I speak with Thomas Knox, the creator and founder of Date While You Wait and The Connection Collective. Thomas shares his view on masculinity and his place in the world as a Black man. He also shares about the male role model who inspired him to live a life of honesty and integrity. To Connect further with Thomas C. KnoxInstagram: @theconnectioncuratorDate While You Wait www.datewhileyouwait.tv2022-03-1447 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin2. How Artistic Expression Can Help Define Our Place in the World with Henry JonesArtistic expression is a wonderful space for self reflection and understanding. In this episode of In the Space Between Podcast, I speak with Henry Jones, a photographer and father of two, about using artistic expression and self reflection to teach our children about what it means to be a Black man, how to love others, and how to turn loss into something beautiful. We also discuss the difficult balance between natural aggression and the need for tenderness that men often face in the Black culture. IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT…How Henry’s view of his plac...2022-02-2837 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther Boykin1. Redefining Masculinity Through Daily Journaling with Joel CrossDaily journaling can give a safe place to express and understand your emotions regarding cultural limitations and your place in the world as a Black man. In today’s episode, Esther welcomes Joel Cross, a talented musician, writer, poet, and meditation instructor. Joel shares how keeping a daily journal has changed his view on toxic masculinity, systemic and cultural limits, and helped him discover his voice as a musician and in relationships with others. To Connect further with Joel CrossVisit his website www.asoulcalledjoel.comFollow Joel on Instagram @asoulcalledjoel Follow Jole on Tik To...2022-02-1449 minIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinIn the Space Between with Esther BoykinWelcome to In The Space Between PodcastAs a therapist I’ve spent more than 15 years in deep conversation with Black men. As I listened to their stories and emotions in session one theme that emerged was a longing for and a lack of space in their daily lives to be open, vulnerable, honest about their experience of benign Black men. As often as I see folks say it’s “ok” for men to share their feelings and women in particular ask men to be more emotionally available, I simultaneously see subtle and overt ways in which they are shut down and shamed. As Bell Hooks su...2022-01-3101 minTrust & ThriveTrust & Thrive150: Best of 2021I hope you enjoy the last episode of 2021 and the 150th episode of the show! Thank you for being a part of the Trust & Thrive journey. Here's to another 150 episodes and more!In this episode, I share my favorite clips from some of this year's episodes - on the topics of boundaries, relationships, healing, breaking cycles, and more. Hope you enjoy and have a great rest of your year. We will be back in 2022 with new and insightful conversations to share!GUESTS:Amanda E. White - @therapyforwomenStevon Lewis - @stevonlewismftJayson Gaddis - @jaysongaddisMichelle Goodloe...2021-12-1648 minListen to Best Full Audiobooks in Non-Fiction, Social ScienceListen to Best Full Audiobooks in Non-Fiction, Social ScienceLife, I Swear: Intimate Stories from Black Women on Identity, Healing, and Self-Trust by Chloe Dulce LouvouezoPlease visit https://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/538229 to listen full audiobooks. Title: Life, I Swear: Intimate Stories from Black Women on Identity, Healing, and Self-Trust Author: Chloe Dulce Louvouezo Narrator: Joniece Abbott-Pratt Format: Unabridged Audiobook Length: 5 hours 13 minutes Release date: November 2, 2021 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 5 of Total 1 Ratings of Narrator: 5 of Total 1 Genres: Social Science Publisher's Summary: Foreword by Elaine Welteroth In this stunning essay collection inspired by the popular podcast Life, I Swear, prominent Black women reflect on self-love and healing, sharing stories of the trials and tribulations they’ve faced and what has helped them confront pain, heal wo...2021-11-0205 minEscape Reality Through Your Headphones With Free AudiobookEscape Reality Through Your Headphones With Free AudiobookLife, I Swear: Intimate Stories from Black Women on Identity, Healing, and Self-Trust Audiobook by Chloe Dulce LouvouezoListen to this audiobook in full for free onhttps://hotaudiobook.com/freeID: 538229 Title: Life, I Swear: Intimate Stories from Black Women on Identity, Healing, and Self-Trust Author: Chloe Dulce Louvouezo Narrator: Joniece Abbott-Pratt Format: Unabridged Length: 5:13:53 Language: English Release date: 11-02-21 Publisher: HarperAudio Genres: Non-Fiction, Self Development, Health & Wellness, Social Science Summary: Foreword by Elaine Welteroth In this stunning essay collection inspired by the popular podcast Life, I Swear, prominent Black women reflect on self-love and healing, sharing stories of the trials and tribulations theyve faced and what has helped them confront pain, heal wounds, and find connection.  With e...2021-11-025h 13The Dude TherapistThe Dude TherapistDiversity in Therapy w/ Esther Boykin LMFTEsther Boykin is a psychotherapist who wants to live in a world where everyone believes that Therapy Is Not A Dirty Word.  As the CEO of Group Therapy Associates, a private practice in the DC metro area, she works every day to make mental health accessible, innovative, and culturally relevant for all people.In 2017 Esther launched Therapy Is Not A Dirty Word, a brand new division of GTA designed to bring mental health conversation outside the traditional office setting and into the community through media, webinars, social events, and retreats. In addition to...2021-09-2245 minOn the Ground w Esther IveremOn the Ground w Esther Iverem‘ON THE GROUND’ SHOW FOR AUGUST 20, 2021: Indigenous Leaders Speak on Preserving Water, Earth and Air… DC Residents Sue to Save Historic, Rare Green Space… How Will Afghanistan Defeat Impact U.S. Empire?… And MoreWhile we may have given our eulogy for the Afghanistan War, what does this defeat mean for U.S. empire? On the National Mall, Fawn Sharp, president of the National Congress of American Indians, is among the indigenous leaders vowing to fight back against continued violation and pollution of treaty lands. DC Residents Sue to Save Historic, Last Green Space. Plus headlines. With Fawn Sharp, president of the National Congress of American Indians. Daniel Wolkoff of the Committee for the McMillan Park Conservancy. Jerome Peloquin, Jimmie Boykin, Gerald Horne and Jay Julius. Bonus content on McMillan Park: Activists Speak Out...2021-08-2055 minDo Something Good TodayDo Something Good TodayEpisode 9: Finding Love in a Pandemic Ft. Esther BoykinDating in itself can be very difficult. Add on the fact that we've all essentially been on lockdown with not much human interaction as we're used to for the past 18-19 months and it gets that much more difficult. With that being said, we welcomed one of our favorite people, Family and Marriage Therapist, Esther Boykin to the podcast. We discussed why people are finding it difficult to sit in solitude, combatting the fear of dating, how we've been using the love language in the wrong way, finding love in a global pandemic, and more. ...2021-07-0645 minMProper MimiMProper MimiOvercoming Post Pandemic AnxietyS2 Ep11: It's officially Summer! Queue the beach, bikes and brunches...but wait what if you are not ready to jump back into the social scene just yet? Perhaps you have a lil anxiety about re-entering the world from your safe pandemic bubble. Whether it's home, work or play - join Mimi Jacks and Esther Boykin, LMFT of Group Therapy Associates, LLC as they chat about how to overcome some of that post pandemic anxiety! Be sure to let us know what you liked most about this episode and what you have already or plan to put into action...2021-07-0530 minMProper Mimi 2021 - Season 2MProper Mimi 2021 - Season 2Overcoming Post Pandemic AnxietyS2 Ep11: It's officially Summer! Queue the beach, bikes and brunches...but wait what if you are not ready to jump back into the social scene just yet? Perhaps you have a lil anxiety about re-entering the world from your safe pandemic bubble. Whether it's home, work or play - join Mimi Jacks and Esther Boykin, LMFT of Group Therapy Associates, LLC as they chat about how to overcome some of that post pandemic anxiety! Be sure to let us know what you liked most about this episode and what you have already or plan to put into action...2021-07-0530 minThe WellFit LabThe WellFit LabMental Health + Well-Being with Esther Boykin, LMFTToday I am talking with Esther Boykin, LMFT, about Mental Health + Well-Being in a post COVID era. This conversation focuses on navigating mental health & life after isolation, dispelling the myth of “why ppl go to therapy”, how you want to show up in the world & practicing self-compassion. Esther Boykin is a psychotherapist who wants to live in a world where everyone believes that Therapy Is Not A Dirty Word. As the CEO of Group Therapy Associates, a private practice in the DC metro area, she works every day to make mental health accessible, innovative, and culturally relevant for all people. In 2...2021-06-2150 minConnectfulness PracticeConnectfulness PracticeBoundaries Are An Invitation with Esther BoykinNo matter where you are on your healing journey, this episode has much to offer about therapy and setting boundaries. It highlights a gentle way to approach long term healing and reinforces the value of discerning and setting boundaries that keep our selves safe and deepen our relationships.Relationships are foundational to our individual and collective wellbeing. Generation after generation of intergenerational trauma have imparted messages that tell us it's selfish/unsafe to focus on our selves. In this episode, we explore how compassionate self inquiry helps expand our understanding of boundaries beyond protection and walls towards...2021-06-1253 minJust Between UsJust Between UsMENTAL HEALTH 101: Finding The Right Therapist For You with LMFT Esther BoykinIt's Mental Health 101, baby! And this week we're answering the question on everyone's mind: How the heck do you find the right therapist?! Marriage and Family Therapist Esther Boykin joins us to provide some helpful tips and tricks. We discuss everything from different theoretical orientations to whether or not your therapist should be from the same cultural background as you. She also gives some money saving suggestions before diving into our new segment, Three Questions! Turns out, putting yourself first isn't selfish! Who knew!  Trigger warning: There is discussion of eating disorders, trauma, anxiety, and other mental health issues in t...2021-05-121h 09Trust & ThriveTrust & Thrive118: Self-Awareness in Relationships - with Esther Boykin, Psychotherapist & Founder of Therapy Is Not A Dirty WordEsther Boykin is a psychotherapist who wants to live in a world where everyone believes that Therapy Is Not A Dirty Word.  As the CEO of Group Therapy Associates, a private practice in the DC metro area, she works every day to make mental health accessible, innovative, and culturally relevant for all people. In 2017, Esther launched Therapy Is Not A Dirty Word, a brand new division of GTA, designed to bring mental health conversations outside the traditional office setting and into the community through media, webinars, social events, and retreats. In addition to her role a...2021-04-0152 minTherapy For Your MoneyTherapy For Your MoneyEpisode 25: Using TV Appearances to Market Your Practice (with Esther Boykin)Are you looking for a new way to market your private practice? We've got a great idea for you! Utilizing TV appearances, such as morning news shows or reality TV, can be a great benefit for your practice. There are a number of ways to get your foot in the door to get started in TV, and we're here to help!This week, Julie sits down with Esther Boykin to discuss TV appearances and how it's helped her grow her private practice! Esther Boykin is a psychotherapist who wants to live in a world where everyone believes...2021-03-1924 minBetter With PaulBetter With PaulRelationship Coaches: Boosting Your Sex Life & Building Strong Sustainable RelationshipsBoosting Your Sex Life & Building Strong Sustainable RelationshipsMarriage is hard work but are you willing to persevere through those tough times of relationship struggles? On this week's episode of Better With Paul, I have a conversation with two relationship experts I hold in high regard, Esther Boykin & Dr. George James. We discuss the many facets of navigating through relationship roadblocks and how to know what indicators are creating the issue. It's not easy to confront relationship hardships with your partner but the very problem could be because of having a stagnant and stubborn mindset because of...2020-12-291h 13Not for Lazy Moms with Monique SamuelsNot for Lazy Moms with Monique SamuelsAnger ManagementAngry moments versus anger issues. Is there a difference? We uncover how to deal with anger from all aspects. Monique's therapist and marriage counselor, Esther Boykin, joins Monique, Chris and Aly for this week's episode.2020-12-1551 minpaul sams modern soul sessionspaul sams modern soul sessionspaul sams modern soul sessions on cruisefm 19,9,20well after finding my self on the naughty step again ( o the joy ) lol i hadnt switched on the recorder eek , so had to get the copy from the cruise server , many thanks marky p ! and this my friends is why we are a tad late this week but here it is in all its glory i do hope you enjoy this weeks efforts until next week for more of the same x 1/ewf ive had enough mike and tees remix 2/ewf September eric kupper remix 3/Brooklyn funk essentials watch want from me 4/breakwater say you...2020-09-202h 59MProper Mimi 2021 - Season 2MProper Mimi 2021 - Season 2Setting boundaries does not make us Angry Black WomenEpisode 17: There comes a time in our lives ladies, when we need to set boundaries. Whether it is at home, work or with our friends boundaries help to keep us safe and they protect our sanity! Esther Boykin, LMFT and CEO of Group Therapy Associates returns from Season 1 - Episode #2 when she and host Mimi Jacks talked about the Myth of the Strong Black Woman. Now join us as we talk about why setting boundaries is so important for self care and what some of the perceptions are of Black women in particular when we attempt to put those boundaries...2020-08-1341 minMProper MimiMProper MimiSetting boundaries does not make us Angry Black WomenEpisode 17: There comes a time in our lives ladies, when we need to set boundaries. Whether it is at home, work or with our friends boundaries help to keep us safe and they protect our sanity! Esther Boykin, LMFT and CEO of Group Therapy Associates returns from Season 1 - Episode #2 when she and host Mimi Jacks talked about the Myth of the Strong Black Woman. Now join us as we talk about why setting boundaries is so important for self care and what some of the perceptions are of Black women in particular when we attempt to put those boundaries...2020-08-1341 minLife, I SwearLife, I SwearSelf-Care and Self-Soothing: Love, Awareness and Acceptance featuring Esther Boykin, Relationship TherapistIn our quest for love, what are the best ways to put love for self first? What are the patterns that keep us from surrendering? And are emotional intimacy and vulnerability interchangeable?2020-07-2023 minBack To Community: Elevating Business SuccessBack To Community: Elevating Business SuccessHow to Build Your Business During COVID-19 Minus the BurnoutDoes it feel like you have so much to do right now? Are you struggling to see what the point is in trying to get anything done during the current pandemic? If you are overwhelmed by our current situation while still trying to build your business, then this episode is for you!  Today I share the most important steps you can be taking right NOW to build a profitable business. You’ll learn more about: The thought you MUST stop thinking if you want to make money in your business right now. The six things that SHO...2020-04-071h 14Back To Community: Elevating Business SuccessBack To Community: Elevating Business SuccessHow COVID-19 is Impacting Speakers: Mike Ganino on Why It’s Time to Share Your StoryHas the current global situation left you wondering if public speaking should be a part of your business strategy? Do you believe that it may not be a feasible option in the future? Well join me today as I chat with special guest, Mike Ganino, all about public speaking. We discuss everything from how his speaking business has been impacted by the crisis, what the future of public speaking may look like and what you can be doing RIGHT NOW to set yourself up for public speaking success! We chat about: The perspective you need to...2020-03-311h 14Back To Community: Elevating Business SuccessBack To Community: Elevating Business SuccessHere’s How COVID-19 Will Change Business Permanently (and What You Can Do to Adapt NOW)Are you wondering how you can pivot and adapt in these uncertain times? Do you want to identify the most important things for you to focus your time, attention and finances towards so that your business can ultimately succeed? Join me today as I share my thoughts and predictions on how business is changing NOW and in the future. This episode is for you if you want to learn: The six ways that business will change permanently in light of COVID-19 (and what you need to do NOW to prepare) The most important investment that you...2020-03-241h 19Back To Community: Elevating Business SuccessBack To Community: Elevating Business SuccessSupercharge Your Business: Esther Boykin on How to Cultivate Self-Love so That Your Business ThrivesHave you ever doubted yourself as an entrepreneur? Or played the comparison game? Or overextended yourself by putting others first? If so, then today’s episode is one that you won’t want to miss! My friend, Esther Boykin, joins me to chat about relationships, self-love and what you can be doing to uplevel your life and business. We talk about: How to deal with relationship stress caused by being forced to stay at home. Ways to keep your life and business running during uncertain times. One thing that Esther struggles with mentally that you’ll all re...2020-03-171h 14Back To Community: Elevating Business SuccessBack To Community: Elevating Business SuccessThe Dark Side of Success (and What I’ve Gone Through Recently)Why did you start your business? Was it because you were tired of trading hours for dollars or because you wanted more flexibility in your life to do the things that light you up from the inside out? But what happens when you think you’ve reached success in business only to feel sad and depressed? In this episode, I share my story of what I have been going through personally while at the height of my business success. This episode is for you if you want to learn: What the 3 F trifecta is in your bu...2020-03-101h 21With That Being SaidWith That Being SaidIt's Always You... Even When It's ThemIn this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica share about the importance of setting AND communicating your boundaries with others. No relationship is without boundaries, so Esther and Erica discuss how you can communicate your boundaries even when it's difficult, and why they believe boundaries are actually necessary to form meaningful connections.  If you enjoy "With That Being Said" and want more of Esther and Erica, check out their Instagram Live Show "Live with E+E" on Tuesday's at 12 PM EST. You can find E+E on both Esther and Erica's Instagrams (linked...2020-01-2846 minWith That Being SaidWith That Being SaidEpisode with James BlandIn this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica talk with special guest James Bland! James is a content creator, film maker, actor, writer, producer, and director. He is the creator, show runner and star of the award winning digital drama, Giants. Esther, Erica and James discuss the stigma around mental health, especially in communities of color, and how James is using his platform in Hollywood to help end it. They also discuss the truth about what mental illness looks like, the importance of being real, and (of course!) Esther and Erica ask James about his...2020-01-1437 minBack To Community: Elevating Business SuccessBack To Community: Elevating Business SuccessHow I Turned a Breakup Into a Six-Figure Business: The ReplayToday I’m bringing back a frequently requested episode… the very first episode of the podcast where I share about going on 35 dates in 35 days and the breakup that led to that experience. Even if you’ve heard me talk about that story before and how I turned that into a six-figure business, you haven’t heard the WHOLE story.   In this pilot episode of The Rita Made Me Do It Show two of my friends, Esther Boykin, Lindsay Sarvadi, and I sit together and chat about the whole story behind my journey from life as an att...2020-01-071h 13Xicana Code SwitchersXicana Code SwitchersOverbooking, Overcommitment & Over it!Welcome back & Happy New Year 2020! This is the Xicana Code Switchers' third season! For this episode we provide some updates, talk about being overbooked and overcommitted, all while sharing some reflections on podcasting. Podcast recommendation: With That Being Said by Esther Boykin & Erica Turner POC Business ShoutOut: Beam Paints Plastic Free Paints, Lightfast pigments, wildflower honey handmade watercolour paints, 100% indigenous female entrepreneurship. Be on the lookout for us at Harvard University on February 28th -29th where we will be presenting at the Alumni of Color Conference 2020. Connect with us via Instagram @xicanacodeswitchers, Twitter @xcodeswitchers, and email xicanacodeswitchers@gmail...2020-01-051h 16With That Being SaidWith That Being SaidHow Long is this Gonna Take?!In this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica discuss how to set realistic expectations for therapy and answer the frequently asked question from clients - "How long is this going to take?" (spoiler: you probably won't like the answer). Esther and Erica also share how things like doing the work between sessions, consistency, and being honest with your therapist can really help move the process along! If you enjoy "With That Being Said" and want more of Esther and Erica, check out their Instagram Live Show "Live with E+E" on Tuesday's at 12 PM...2019-12-171h 06With That Being SaidWith That Being SaidTechnology Won't Save YouOn this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica discuss the times when technology is actually getting in the way of our relationships with others. Don't worry, this isn't like a lecture from your mom about how your cellphone is going to kill you. Esther and Erica take the stance that in general technology can assist relationships, but the problem is when technology is used to avoid all awkward and uncomfortable conversations. With more and more people struggling with feeling lonely, the answer (shockingly) may actually be more human interaction - even when the conversations are uncomfortable...2019-12-0358 minSidewalk TalkSidewalk TalkLeading Sidewalk Talk in Washington DC with Esther BoykinStand Out Quotes I think therapists need to be more visible outside their offices and be seen as accessible warm people. We forget how important belonging is to almost every aspect of our wellness. Part of how we define who we are in the world is through our connection to other people. Esther Boykin was the very first city leader outside of California to bring listening to her community. Sidewalk Talk turned into an organization, if you really think about it, because of Esther nudging Traci to bring Sidewalk Talk out to the...2019-11-1822 minWith That Being SaidWith That Being SaidUnpopular Opinion About ForgivenessOn this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica share their "unpopular" opinion about forgiveness. They dive into the complexities of forgiveness, from the strict dictionary definition definition, to why there seems to be so much value placed on forgiveness. Esther and Erica make the case that forgiveness is a process, and not a destination and sometimes it's choosing between what takes more energy: to hate or to forgive. If you enjoy "With That Being Said" and want more of Esther and Erica, check out their Instagram Live Show "Live with E+E" on Tuesday's...2019-11-0557 minBack To Community: Elevating Business SuccessBack To Community: Elevating Business SuccessHow I Turned a Breakup Into a Six-Figure BusinessMaybe you’ve heard me talk about the breakup that led to me going on 35 dates in 35 days and how that turned into a six-figure business before, but you haven’t heard the WHOLE story.   In this pilot episode of The Rita Made Me Do It Show two of my friends, Esther Boykin, Lindsay Sarvadi, and I sit together and chat about the whole story behind my journey from life as an attorney, to the infamous 35 dates in 35 days, to a successful six-figure business as a dating coach and now a business strategist.   ...2019-09-031h 02With That Being SaidWith That Being SaidDon't Be Listening To Your Lil Instagram FriendOn this episode of "With That Being Said", Esther and Erica discuss all the internet advice you're reading and need to stop. They'll share examples of: - bad advice they've seen online, and what makes it bad - advice that isn't bad, but isn't good for you And will share tips on how you can evaluate what advice is helpful to you and what advice is not.  Upcoming Events Mentioned: - Viva Vienna (May 25-27th, 2019): more information about the event available at http://vivavienna...2019-04-3054 minWith That Being SaidWith That Being SaidLet's Talk About Sex with Pam CostaOn this episode of "With That Being Said" we chat with sex and relationship coach Pam Costa.  We'll discuss a range of topics related to sex, including the importance of having a community you can talk candidly with about sex (especially for women!), what you can expect in sex therapy, and about open and poly-amorous relationships.   Pam's Website:  www.downtothere.com  Circles: www.downtothere.com/circles   Pam's  TEDx Talk: "Reclaiming Female Sexual Desire" --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to m...2019-04-1655 minWith That Being SaidWith That Being SaidSelf Care with Jerico MandyburOn this episode of "With That Being Said" we chat with writer and self-care advocate Jerico Mandybur about how to manage your self-care and reclaim what brings you joy. We also discuss the role of social media in our lives, self-exploration and Tarot.  Jerico's Tarot Book and Deck available NOW -  Neo Tarot: A Fresh Approach to Self-Care, Healing & Empowerment Jerico's Website:  jericomandybur.com  Jerico's Instagram: @jerico.mandybur --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withthatbeingsaid/support2019-04-0241 minWith That Being SaidWith That Being SaidBad ParentsOn this episode of "With That Being Said" Esther and Erica discuss two tragic cases of 'what were the parents thinking?' and discuss why it's not helpful -- and even dangerous -- to view people as wholly bad or good.  *Warning: this episode contains an audio clip about sexual assault that some listeners may find triggering.  Twitter Video:  pic.twitter.com/tQcA4Ogk91  Abducted in Plain Sight: https://www.netflix.com/title/81000864  --- This episode is sponsored...2019-03-191h 05With That Being SaidWith That Being SaidOur Fave TV Couples In this episode Esther and Erica share their 3 favorite TV couples - who they think have the ingredients for a successful marriage (with some debate of course). *Spoiler Alert: the shows are linked below so don't click the link if you don't want to know the picks yet!* --The 'Good Enough' Couple --The 'Has The Potential To Go The Distance' Couple --The 'All Time Favorite' Couple --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this p...2019-03-051h 13With That Being SaidWith That Being SaidGetting to know Erica As we settle into our second season of the podcast, Esther and Erica finally decide it's time you get to know more about them! Tune in to find out what makes Erica Turner, LMFT really tick.  Here are Erica's most influential books:  The History of Love, Nicole Krauss - https://www.amazon.com/dp/0393328627/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_cIlACb4TJ31FH The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Milan Kundera - https://www.amazon.com/dp/0061148520/ref=cm_sw...2019-02-1931 minWith That Being SaidWith That Being SaidWho is Esther, really?As we settle into our second season of the podcast, Esther and Erica finally decide it's time you get to know more about them! Tune in to find out what makes Esther Boykin, LMFT really tick. Here are Esther's 5 most influential books: Slaughter House 5, Kurt Vonnegut - https://amzn.to/2DiJmb2 Temple of My Familiar, Alice Walker - https://amzn.to/2SGLPR2 Their Eyes Were Watching God, Zora Neal Hurston - https://amzn.to/2yMF9IT The Gift of Therapy, Irvin Yalom - https://amzn.to/2QbY9qU The 8 Habits of Love, Ed Bacon - https://amzn.to/2QbY9qU ...2019-02-1221 minWith That Being SaidWith That Being SaidI'll Never RetreatIn today's episode Esther and Erica discuss the pros and cons of going on a retreat. Erica makes the case that it's a lot like taking your work on vacation with you and Esther sets out to convince her otherwise... Want to read about the couple who run away from their marriage retreat? Here's the link - https://www.salon.com/2010/05/13/escape_from_marriage_retreat_hell/ And if you haven't watched Couples Retreat, check it out here https://amzn.to/2DcylYD so you can accurately judge Esther's movie tastes once and for all! ;-) --- This episode is sponsored by · A...2018-10-3136 minThe Dating Advisory BoardThe Dating Advisory BoardEsther Boykin LMFT- Relationships 101Did you miss this episode of The Dating Advisory Board's - The Best Damn Lunch & Learn EVER?! I had the brilliant Esther Boykin, LMFT on the show talking about..👇 Relationships 101 I have included a breakdown of the topics that we discussed! Tune in to learn more 👇 1. How can we have better relationships? (2:55) 2. How do we know if we are in a toxic relationship? (4:38) 3. Power vs. control in relationships? (8:55) 4. What is emotional abuse? (11:43) 5. What is gaslighting? (13:40) 6. What are signs of financial abuse? (19:04) 7. Tips to change your mindset (25:52) 8. Creating a support system and setting boundaries in relationships (30:40) 9. Changing relationship behaviors for the next g...2018-08-111h 00The Dating Advisory BoardThe Dating Advisory BoardRelationship & Dating Advice - Esther BoykinDid you miss this episode of The Dating Advisory Board Best Damn Lunch & Learn EVER ?! I had the amazing and brilliant Esther Boykin on the show talking about..👇 Dating & Relationship Advice💘 I have included a breakdown of the topics that we discussed! Tune in to learn more 👇 Welcome, Esther Boykin! 1. Therapy Is Not A Dirty Word (1:00) 2. Choosing the right partner (11:26)😍 3. 5 Love Languages (13:25)❤️ 4. Steps to communicate better in relationships (16:20)✔️ 5. Overcoming a scarcity mindset (20:00) 6. Tips for sharing how you like to communicate (27:04)📲📞 7. Importance of self-reflection & self-esteem (33:40)✔️ 8. Date night tips (36:37)💞 9. How to meet new people (44:22)🌎 10. How to get over a breakup (48:00)💔 Looking for more date night ideas? Grab your copy o...2018-03-2651 minWith That Being SaidWith That Being SaidJay-Z Is Making Therapist PornNearly every therapist fantasizes about creating a space where men are comfortable to openly discuss their feelings and  relationships. And this fall JAy-Z made all our dreams come true! Tune in to hearEsther and Erica  swoon over the 4:44 video as the men tackle topics like love, infidelity, masculinity, and role modelswith vulnerability, honesty, and insight that would make any therapist proud. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withthatbeingsaid/support2017-12-291h 11The Dating Advisory BoardThe Dating Advisory BoardRita Goodroe & Esther Boykin - Relationship & Dating AdviceYou don’t want to miss this episode of The Dating Advisory Show! Rita Goodroe & Esther Boykin share their wisdom on dating especially regarding online dating profile tips that help you stand out in the dating world. Below are some of the points we covered during our segment: What are some non-negotiables that we should be considering when looking for a partner? Dating Profile Tips Talk to us about How Therapy Is Not a Dirty Word The divorce rate is around 60%. What are the factors leading to this staggering number? Is traditional marriage doomed? Top issues for entrepreneurs starting a bu...2017-11-0946 minVagEsteem PodcastVagEsteem PodcastEp35: Issa Break Up w/Esther BoykinWe're talking break ups with Esther Boykin because we had to start getting folks in formation before you walk into the new year with a raggedy and stressful situation! lol! Ya'll know we got to let them go! Esther Boykin is licensed marriage and family therapist, relationship coach, and expert. Esther’s passion to change the face of mental health and emotional wellness drives her to continuously find innovative ways to reach her community. She is the creator and host of Therapy Is Not a Dirty Word , a series of happy hour style events bringing local therapists and the community to...2017-09-0700 minWith That Being SaidWith That Being Said#9 Adulting is HardToday we are joined by 4 smart, funny, and brutally honest college students for a frank discussion on what it means to really become an adult in the modern age.    Show Notes   RLW {Read Listen Watch}: Read Esther's pick-  Fascinate: Your 7 Triggers to Persuasion and Captivation by Sally Hogshead Want to get a free report on your 7 triggers?  Visit www.howtofascinate.com and use promo code JOY-EstherB Read Erica's pick-  Modern Romance by Aziz Ansari and Eric Klinenberg   THERAPIST PR...2017-08-251h 38With That Being SaidWith That Being Said#10 It Takes a Village with Sequoia BlodgettToday we are joined by entrepreneur Sequoia Blodgett, star of ABC Family's StartUp U and founder of 7AM Life. Check out episodes of StartUp U online be sure to visit www.7am.life.  You can also follow Sequoia on Twitter and Instagram. Show Notes   RLW {Read Listen Watch}: Read Erica's pick-  Ghettoized by Jill Leovy   THERAPIST PROBLEMS: Interested in the article Esther mentioned about swearing?  Here it is... 5 Reasons I Don’t Give An Eff About Swearing In Front Of My Kids by...2017-08-2550 minWith That Being SaidWith That Being Said#11 Your Therapist is Anxious with Jodi Aman  Today we are joined by Jodi Aman, therapist and author of You 1, Anxiety 0: win your freedom back from fear and panic. Don't forget to follow her on Twitter and Instagram for more tips and encouragement to embrace what you feel on your journey to emotional freedom.   Show Notes   RLW {Read Listen Watch}: Watch Esther's pick- {can't see the Sidewalk Talk video? click here.}   Watch Erica's pick - {can't see the empathy video? Click Here}   THERAPIST...2017-08-181h 12With That Being SaidWith That Being Said#12 Get Your Life with Mo SeetubtimToday we are joined by Mo Seetubtim, founder of the blog Brandmentalist and creator of The Happiness Planner. Mo's passion for living with intention and passion is inspiring and the complex relationship with her parents bring a refreshing perspective to what could've been just another pretty blog.  Don't miss her beautiful and thoughtful messages- follow her on Twitter and Instagram. Show Notes   RLW {Read Listen Watch}: Listen to Erica's pick-  Reply All podcast - Episode #64: On the Inside   THERAPIST PROBLEMS: In this epi...2017-08-111h 16With That Being SaidWith That Being Said#13 Alone in the Burbs with Traci Ruble  Today we are joined by Traci Ruble of Psyched in San Francisco and the founder/director of Sidewalk Talk. Traci is one of those rare people who I (Esther) immediately clicked with on seemingly every level- basically she rocks.  Tune in as Erica gently pulls us out of our mutual suburban angst with some spot on insights on life in the city.  We will also talk about the joys of listening - on the street and in our offices! Be sure you follow her on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram. Show Notes  2017-08-0458 minWith That Being SaidWith That Being Said#8 Black People Really Do Go To Therapy with Minaa BToday we are joined by Minaa B. of RespectYourStruggle.com.  Minaa is a on a mission and the first day of Black History month is the perfect time for us to share it.  As therapists, black women, and human beings in general we admire her courage in sharing her personal struggle and love how she has used it to give voice to so many others.  Tune in now as we talk about how #TherapyIsNotADirtyWord and why talking about our struggle is the first step to overcoming it. LISTEN NOW   SHOW NOTES Be s...2017-07-211h 04With That Being SaidWith That Being Said#7 Pajamas All Day with Tara JeffersonIt's seems rather apropros that in the aftermath of one of the east coast's worst snow storms that today's episode is all about wearing pajamas all day!  Erica and I are joined by Tara Jefferson of the YoungMommyLife.com to talk about self-care, motherhood, and why sometimes pajamas all day is the only answer. LISTEN NOW   SHOW NOTES You can find more about Tara at TheYoungMommyLife.com.  Be sure to follow her on Twitter and Instagram for more information on her excited new venture the Self Care Box {you want one! trust us...2017-07-1441 minWith That Being SaidWith That Being Said#6 Who wants to be happy: with Chianti Lomax  Seems like an obvious question... don't we all want to be happy?  Maybe so but we also put up some serious barriers to happiness, including how we choose to define and how we open our heart to it (or not). On today's show we are joined by speaker, consultant, coach, and 'happiness curator', Chianti Lomax for a serious discussion of what it really means to be happy.  Chianti has a passion for positive psychology and millennial which combines into a pretty awesome interview. Tune in now to discover who really wants to be happy and simple everyday things you can do...2017-07-141h 04With That Being SaidWith That Being Said#5 Motherhood Isn't Everything with Maimah KarmoIt feels almost blasphemous as a mom to say that motherhood isn't everything in my life... and yet it's not.  And I don't think it should be. {gasp} On today's episode of With That Being Said, Erica and I chat with Maimah Karmo about the role passion, purpose, and parenthood have in her life and the lives of women everywhere.  Maimah is a philanthropist, author, speaker, and pretty amazing mom who believes that there is more to life than just meeting the needs of others- even if "others" means your kids. Even if you aren't a mom, th...2017-07-0703 minWith That Being SaidWith That Being Said#4 Let's Get Hitched With Steve CooperToday Esther and Erica are joined by Steve Cooper of HitchedMag.com to talk all things married life. Listen in as they talk about the ups and downs and genuine joys of being a couple and investing in a healthy relationship. And find out why Steve is in fact the 'Hugh Hefner' of marriage!  It's by far the most accurate and favorite nickname of any guest so far...     SHOW NOTES HitchedMag.com | Follow Steve on Twitter @HitchedMedia RLW {Read Listen Watch} Read Masters of Love in The Atlantic Listen to S...2017-06-3040 minWith That Being SaidWith That Being Said#3 Let's Heal Our Ish with Laura ProbertToday Esther and Erica tackle the sometimes ambiguous idea of awareness. With their guest expert, Laura Probert, we discover that "the difference between living a life that feels meh and living a life that feels magical" is learning to be vulnerable. Laura is a physical therapist, poet, and wellness expert who has made it her mission to help people get out of their heads and into their bodies. Join the conversation and listen in as Laura explains why awareness is "the difference between living a life that feels meh and living a life that feels magical".   2017-06-3043 minWith That Being SaidWith That Being Said#2 Marriage is not that hardMarriage is work but is it really that hard?  Esther and Erica discuss the joys and challenges of married life, which may not be hard as we seem to think it is.  Join the conversation as we talk about all the ways we make the 'work' of marriage harder than it has to be. And don't miss this episode's RLW {Read, Listen, Watch} where Erica shares her thoughts on the interesting way we all hold our own truths... especially in marriage.   With That Being Said, don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review! SHOW NOTE...2017-06-2351 minWith That Being SaidWith That Being Said#1 Love is Not a Drive-ThruToday Esther Boykin and Erica Turner are joined by writer, speaker, and dating expert, Kevin Carr. Kevin chats with us about all the reasons love is not a drive-thru and why killing your dreams is sometimes the key to finding your happily ever after.   SHOW NOTES Kevin Carr: www.kevinscarr.com Twitter @Kev_Carr Instagram #WhatI’mLearningAboutDating @kev_carr Meet Kevin IRL along with Esther and Erica at Cocktails and Conversations on Love in DC {Jan 20,2016}  RLW {Read Listen Watch} The Man Who Wasn’t Th...2017-06-1456 minThe Mindset Shift With Jezelle\'s podcastThe Mindset Shift With Jezelle's podcastSession 12: On the Couch with Molly from InsecureThe Therapy for Black Girls Podcast is a weekly conversation with Dr. Joy Harden Bradford, a licensed Psychologist in Atlanta, Georgia, about all things mental health, personal development, and all the small decisions we can make to become the best possible version of ourselves. This week's episode is an On the Couch Episode all about Molly from HBO's hit show, Insecure. My special guest therapist is Esther Boykin, LMFT from Group Therapy Associates in Washington, DC. We discussed the reluctance that Black women sometimes have to beginning therapy, dating dilemmas that often drive one's desire to begin therapy, and how...2017-06-1433 minTherapy for Black GirlsTherapy for Black GirlsSession 12: On the Couch with Molly from InsecureThe Therapy for Black Girls Podcast is a weekly conversation with Dr. Joy Harden Bradford, a licensed Psychologist in Atlanta, Georgia, about all things mental health, personal development, and all the small decisions we can make to become the best possible version of ourselves. This week's episode is an On the Couch Episode all about Molly from HBO's hit show, Insecure. My special guest therapist is Esther Boykin, LMFT from Group Therapy Associates in Washington, DC. We discussed the reluctance that Black women sometimes have to beginning therapy, dating dilemmas that often drive one's desire to begin therapy, and how...2017-06-1433 minTherapy for Black GirlsTherapy for Black GirlsSession 12: On the Couch with Molly from InsecureThe Therapy for Black Girls Podcast is a weekly conversation with Dr. Joy Harden Bradford, a licensed Psychologist in Atlanta, Georgia, about all things mental health, personal development, and all the small decisions we can make to become the best possible version of ourselves. This week's episode is an On the Couch Episode all about Molly from HBO's hit show, Insecure. My special guest therapist is Esther Boykin, LMFT from Group Therapy Associates in Washington, DC. We discussed the reluctance that Black women sometimes have to beginning therapy, dating dilemmas that often drive one's desire to begin...2017-06-1433 minTherapy for Black GirlsTherapy for Black GirlsSession 12: On the Couch with Molly from InsecureThe Therapy for Black Girls Podcast is a weekly conversation with Dr. Joy Harden Bradford, a licensed Psychologist in Atlanta, Georgia, about all things mental health, personal development, and all the small decisions we can make to become the best possible version of ourselves. This week's episode is an On the Couch Episode all about Molly from HBO's hit show, Insecure. My special guest therapist is Esther Boykin, LMFT from Group Therapy Associates in Washington, DC. We discussed the reluctance that Black women sometimes have to beginning therapy, dating dilemmas that often drive one's desire to begin therapy, and how...2017-06-1433 minWith That Being SaidWith That Being Said#0 - With That Being Said, Welcome to Our PodcastWe've got a fresh new look and are busy recording some fresh new episodes!  Check out the new look while catching up on our original episodes for the next several weeks.     With That Being Said is a long conversation about life, love, and everything in between. Hosted by therapists and relationship experts Esther Boykin and Erica Turner this podcast dedicated to giving listeners smart, fun, insightful advice on life, love, and everything in between. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Supp...2017-05-1909 minThe NTuned Show with Ms.P And The FamilyThe NTuned Show with Ms.P And The FamilyWelcome Esther Boykin LMFT And Erica Turner MS Of Group Therapy AssociatesGroup Therapy Associates {GTA for short}!  We are a boutique style counseling and coaching agency for people who want to live happier and healthier lives. On the surface? We’re you’re typical therapy practice dedicated to good mental health and wellness and helping our clients have amazing relationships. But dig a little deeper and you’ll find that we’re different. We believe that our job is to do more than listen… we’re here to give you a comfortable place to be heard and understood.  A place to find answers to the questions that  maybe you’ve been afraid to ask anywhere e...2015-08-1153 minRelationship adviceRelationship advice43: Esther Boykin on Making Date Night Work For Your RelationshipJoin us as Esther Boykin shares her expertise on creating a fulfilling and successful relationship. In this episode, Esther gives relationship advice on making date night work for your relationship. Esther Boykin is a licensed marriage and family therapist and relationship expert who is passionate about helping people build healthier and happier relationships. She believes that meaningful emotional connections start by knowing and loving yourself. She is co-founder of Group Therapy Associates, a mental health practice in Northern Virginia, and together with her business partner hosts a free monthly web series called Q & A with GTA where the...2014-07-2331 minRelationship AdviceRelationship Advice43: Esther Boykin on Making Date Night Work For Your RelationshipJoin us as Esther Boykin shares her expertise on creating a fulfilling and successful relationship. In this episode, Esther gives relationship advice on making date night work for your relationship. Esther Boykin is a licensed marriage and family therapist and relationship expert who is passionate about helping people build healthier and happier relationships. She believes that meaningful emotional connections start by knowing and loving yourself. She is co-founder of Group Therapy Associates, a mental health practice in Northern Virginia, and together with her business partner hosts a free monthly web series called Q & A with GTA where the...2014-07-2333 minRelationship AdviceRelationship Advice43: Esther Boykin on Making Date Night Work For Your RelationshipJoin us as Esther Boykin shares her expertise on creating a fulfilling and successful relationship. In this episode, Esther gives relationship advice on making date night work for your relationship. Esther Boykin is a licensed marriage and family therapist and relationship expert who is passionate about helping people build healthier and happier relationships. She believes that meaningful emotional connections start by knowing and loving yourself. She is co-founder of Group Therapy Associates, a mental health practice in Northern Virginia, and together with her business partner hosts a free monthly web series called Q & A with GTA where the...2014-07-2333 minThe Hitched Podcast: Perfecting Your MarriageThe Hitched Podcast: Perfecting Your MarriageEpisode 303: Esther Boykin Talks About Her New Book, 'The Date Deck'We know the it's important that married couples continue to carve out time to nurture their relationship. This week, marriage and family therapist, Esther Boykin, discusses her new book, 'The Date Deck.'2014-05-0129 min