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F4Episode 28: Living AuthenticallyToday we’re exploring something that has the power to transform our relationships, our confidence, and our overall sense of purpose—living authentically. So what does it mean to live authentically? Living authentically is a journey, not a destination. It takes courage, but the reward is a life that feels real, fulfilling, and aligned with who you truly are. And as believers, we know that true authenticity comes from knowing who we are in Christ. When we embrace His design for us, we experience a lifeof freedom and joy. We would love to hear your thou...
2025-05-261h 23F4Episode 27: Be a LionWelcome to Episode 27 of the F4 podcast!
In this episode, our hosts explore how sharing your personal
story with others can help you “be a lion”. After trying to stifle the calling to share her difficult past and story of forgiveness, one of the F4 hosts explores the potential merits of helping others through telling your story—with
a little help from your friends, of course.
Here is the link to Vanessa’s story: https://www.youtube.com/live/wbcglktZWd0?si=jbGcpqXWPZyE03md
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2024-10-081h 12F4PODCAST #26 Part Two: How to be less annoying and better at managing annoying peoplePart Two: We pick back up where we left off in Episode One. Today we are going to return to a subject that we explored twenty episodes ago in episode 6, Under Pressure, when we discussed the internal and external pressures that lead to anxiety. It was inspired by author, Steve Cuss. Much of the
material that will influence our discussion today was also gleaned from Steve Cuss and can be further explored in his new book, The Expectation Gap: The Tiny Vast Space between Our Beliefs & Experience of God. In his book, he helps us answer the following question, “Ho...
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F4PODCAST #26 Part One: How to be less annoying and better at managing annoying peopleToday we are going to return to a subject that we explored twenty episodes ago in episode 6, Under Pressure, when we
discussed the internal and external pressures that lead to anxiety. It was inspired by author, Steve Cuss. Much of the material that will influence our discussion today was also gleaned from Steve Cuss and can be further explored in his new book, The Expectation Gap: The Tiny Vast Space between Our Beliefs & Experience of God. In his book, he helps us answer the following question, “How to be less annoying and better at managing annoying people” specifically in rela...
2024-07-2049 minF4Episode 25: RestWelcome to Episode 25 of the F4 podcast!
Several of our podcasts have been centered around or at
least touched on the idea of unhurrying our lives or taking time to disconnect from the chaos of the digital/social media world. This seems to be an area that continually comes up for us. We feel the tug to overfill our lives and we definitely see it in the lives of people around us. As we head into the summer months, months where we don’t have some of the regular demands with things like school, we thought it mi...
2024-05-281h 15F4Episode 24 Disconnected Part TwoWelcome to Episode 24 Part Two of the F4 podcast. In today's episode, we're diving deep into the ubiquitous presence of cell phones and the challenges they present in our relationships.
It's no secret that cell phones have become an integral part of our daily lives, revolutionizing the way we communicate, work, and connect with others. But with this technological
advancement comes a host of inherent problems that can strain even the strongest of relationships.
From dinner dates interrupted by buzzing phones to late-night scrolling sessions that replace intimate conversations, it's clear that our devices often...
2024-04-281h 00F4Episode 24 Disconnected Part oneWelcome to Episode 24 Part One of the F4 podcast. In today's episode, we're diving deep into the ubiquitous presence of cell phones and the challenges they present in our relationships.
It's no secret that cell phones have become an integral part of our daily lives, revolutionizing the way we communicate, work, and connect with others. But with this technological advancement comes a host of inherent problems that can strain even the strongest of relationships.
From dinner dates interrupted by buzzing phones to late-night scrolling sessions that replace intimate conversations, it's clear that our devices often...
2024-04-0356 minF4Episode 23: Life Lessons From A CrossFit CoachJoin us for Episode 23 of the F4 podcast! In this installment, Vanessa Giddens, a Level 3 CrossFit Coach and one of the F4 hosts, delves into the valuable life lessons she has acquired throughout her coaching journey.
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2024-02-131h 22F4Episode 22 ExcusesToday we are going to talk about an issue that seems to come up over and over again with each of us, our family, our friends, and almost everyone we come in contact with in some capacity. We are taking about excuses. You know the “I don’t have time to do X.” “I don’t have the money to do X” “I wish I could do what you do but..” We are excited to process through this. We think if we could free ourselves from excuses, we tell ourselves throughout our life, we could become the person we really want to b
2023-09-251h 23F4Episode 21: How Hurry Hurts UsToday we are going to talk about some of the highlights from a book that Brooke shared with me a couple of years ago. The content of this book smacked me in the face in all the best ways and is called, The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer. The first words of this book are from the Gospel of Matthew in chapter 11 verses 28-30 when Jesus said, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and h...
2023-08-011h 32F4Episode 20 Ryan's StoryThis month we did something we don't do very often, we interviewed one person. Ryan was a great guest and we think this is going to impact many of you in such a positive way. Why Ryan? Well, Brian has known Ryan for more than 17 years and he just celebrated his 33rd birthday! We invited Ryan to be our guest because he is a good friend and has a powerful story that we know will be encouraging to many of you. For this episode we asked him to share some of his story and then talk about a subject...
2023-06-051h 13F4F4 Podcast Episode 19 Doing Life With Your Adult ChildrenWelcome to Episode 19 of the F4 podcast! Thank you so much for listening to and watching our podcast! We need to take a moment to say “sorry”. I know we had some technical audio difficulties on our last episode and again we apologize for that. We really felt like it was good enough to post anyway so if you haven’t seen or heard it yet, please go back and check it out.
If you would follow us on Instagram and like and share the podcast, we would greatly appreciate it. We are on multiple platforms including Apple...
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F4Episode 18: “Something to Talk About” (aka the ding-dong episode)Welcome to Episode 18: “Something to Talk About” (aka the ding-dong episode)
APOLOGY UP FRONT! We had a catastrophic fatal loss of the audio file while in editing. This means the audio quality is not what you are used to hearing. Normally we wouldn’t post this because of that, but we liked this episode enough to post anyway. Our apologies and we promise it won’t happen again!
Last time, we dedicated our time to discussing what makes a marriage great. I thought we had excellent conversation around this idea. One of the things we mentione...
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F4Love and Marriage Episode 17Welcome to Episode 17 of the F4 podcast!
• We appreciate you taking the time to listen and watch our podcast! If you could follow us on Instagram and like and share the podcast, we would greatly appreciate it! We are on multiple platforms including Apple, Spotify, Google, Pocket, Radio Public, Breaker, Anchor, & YouTube!
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• This episode is a byproduct of something that Brian has been processing often…marriage...
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F4Episode 16 Favorites!I think we would all agree that asking people about their favorite things is a great way to get to know them and what makes them tick. Taking people’s favorites into account is also often a great way to keep meetings and gatherings and vacations and such running smoothly. After all, deeming something as a “favorite” is just another way of identifying your personal preferences. Hang with us this month to see if this is indeed the way to process favorites in your life!
Thank you for taking the time to listen to the F4 podcast today...
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F4Episode 15 Cancelled!Are you an adult? Do you act like an adult? Do you talk like an adult? Or do you act and function at a lower age emotionally than what you are?
The idea of “cancelling” someone (or at least walking away from someone) that you feel has wronged you in some way has become more and more prevalent in our culture over the course of our lifetime. You see this with people all the time now “cancelling” celebrities, artists, authors, pastors, churches, local businesses, friends, family, etc. We are going to cover that today, but we are also goin...
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F4Episode 14 The OpenIn this episode of the F4 Podcast we discuss our recent experiences during the 2022 CrossFit Open and what it was like to work toward the common goal of getting one of our own to the next level of the competition. This episode touches on all our “F”s: Faith, Family, Friends, and Fitness!
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F4Episode 13 "Word."We’ve talked about goals and habits before. We’ve also talked about growth. This time of year, people generally begin thinking about these sorts of things. “New year, new you” and all. In this episode we tackle what it means to have a word or phrase for the year. We look forward to your feedback! You can email us at f4ncpodcast@gmail.com or send us a DM on social platforms.
2022-01-3158 min
F4Episode 12 "Talent Show"Today we are going to be talking about talent versus skill. In previous episodes we’ve discussed the concepts of growth and setting goals and how things like mindset factor into both of those things. But today we want to strip the topic down and address a basic question: is it talent or is it skill? When we work towards growth, are we developing skill or honing raw talent?
Here are the links to books and videos discussed during the show:
The Berenstain Bears: The Talent Show
Talent Code by Daniel Coyle
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F4Episode 11 "Don't Walk Away From Me"According to the Fuller Youth Institute, over half of all high school seniors walk away from their faith in college. That is a staggering and scary number. As parents and Christians, this is one of the biggest problems that we see with our kids and in society as a whole right now.
In this episode we tackle how to help navigate this time with your kids. Matt Marston is our special guest this month, here to help unpack all the questions we wanted to know the answers to.
Thank you for taking the time to...
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F4F4 Episode 10 "Is Comfort a Trap?"In this episode, we discuss a pursuit that gets in the way growth for all of us. It isn’t an inherently wrong pursuit, but everyone struggles with it and it is a big hinderance to growth. It's the pursuit of C-O-M-F-O-R-T.
Thank you for taking the time to engage the F4 podcast today! Please follow us on social media, like and share the podcast if you think this can be helpful and/or entertaining to other people. We would love your specific feedback so we can get better in providing content that is helpful to you. Send...
2021-09-271h 26F4Episode 9 Inside Out - EmotionsWe have been hearing (and experiencing) a great deal in regards to mental and emotional health these days. The events of 2020 seem to have highlighted some issues that have been around for quite some time, we had just come up with some pretty good ways of avoiding them. When it comes to our kids, the issues related to emotional health are growing. One of the best things we can do to increase our emotional health is to identify and talk about what we are feeling. And I think we would do well to help our kids do the same.
2021-08-231h 47F4F4 Episode 8 "Come on, let's goal!"Today we're talking about setting goals. We understand the positive power of setting goals but so many of us don't really know how to set goals.
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2021-07-251h 33F4F4 Episode 7 "Don't Pet Your Peeves"This month we tackle the super funny but also super serious topic of pet peeves. I know what you are thinking: that has the potential to cause some problems with the four of us! There is also the potential for plenty of laughs for you as you listen to how we make each other frustrated. We hope you enjoy this episode and as always we would love to get feedback from you. How can we better connect and help you as a listener?
Here are some links referenced in the show...
Max Lucado You Are...
2021-06-271h 33F4F4 Episode 6 Anxiety "Under Pressure"We're excited to tackle the topic of anxiety in this episode because we are constantly talking with people who struggle with managing their anxiety in all aspects of life. We will not be able to cover every aspect of anxiety today, but we definitely want to talk about this because our mental health is so important. We have titled this podcast “Under Pressure” because we all feel internal and external pressures that lead to anxiety. We also want to say a special thank you to Steve Cuss. He is an author whose book Brian recently read, Managing Leadership Anxiety, that...
2021-05-241h 23F4F4 Episode 5 Growth "Peter Pan Isn't Real but Neither Are Grownups!"We’re excited to tackle the concept of growth as a “grown-up” in this episode. Peter Pan has always been one of Vanessa’s favorite characters. Admittedly, she always finds it sad when Wendy grows up without him. The good news is that while Peter Pan is, in fact, a fairy tale (complete with Tinkerbell), so is the concept of being a “grown-up”! Today we cover the idea that you’re never fully grown and “grown-ups” don’t exist. We focus on personal development and the importance of relationships in personal growth.
Here are the links to the books we discuss...
2021-04-281h 38F4F4 Episode 4 Friendship "I'll be there for you!"In this episode, Brooke, Brian, Vanessa, and Charles tackle friendships. There are all sorts of TV shows, songs, books, and movies developed around the idea friendship, but we think a lot of times people look around and think, "Why don’t I have friends like that?" Or, "I used to have friends, where did they go? What’s wrong with me?" Or even, "I hang out with these people, but I don’t even like them." That’s the backdrop of what we are going to try to dig into today. We hope you find this episode helpful.
We woul...
2021-03-211h 47F4F4 Episode 3 "What makes a great marriage?"“What makes a great marriage?” Why are we tackling this question? One reason is this, according to ourworldindata.org, the marriage rate has been declining in America since 1972. Fewer and fewer people see the value of marriage and how it can be great. We certainly don’t have this all figured out, but we are committed to making our marriages the best they can be. Our hope for today is that we can add value to you, if you are married or are thinking about marriage, as we share our stories and cover a wide range of marital challenges.
2021-02-211h 39F4F4 Episode 2 "Why We Workout"Episode 2: "Why We Workout"
This month Brian, Brooke, Vanessa and Charles tackle the why behind our workouts. This episode is full of nuggets of wisdom and hopefully some tips to get you going in the area of exercise. Do you struggle to stay consistent? Do you have a community that can push and pull you along? What is your motivating factor for working out? How does this tie into your walk with Jesus? Is working out punishment? All of this and more is covered in this episode. We would love for you to listen and give us...
2021-01-261h 28F4F4 Episode One IntroductionsThanks for checking out F4! This podcast is hosted by Brian, Brooke, Vanessa and Charles. Each month they take a deep dive into all things faith, family, friends and fitness. Do you want to have a better relationship with God, family, friends or yourself? If you answered yes to any of these then this podcast is for you! This month's episode Brian, Brooke, Vanessa and Charles discuss how they met, why they started a podcast and what that will look like in future episodes.
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