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FamilyLife New Zealand Podcast"Fluent in the Gospel: Even If You’re Not a Preacher " interview with Tony WeeEver felt unsure how to share your faith without sounding pushy or weird? This episode with Tony Wee is a must-listen. Learn how to build gospel fluency, start spiritual conversations naturally, and live with purpose in your home, workplace, and community. Packed with practical tools, real stories, and eternal encouragement.Watch this on YouTube: https://youtu.be/pJq2vUBNDmQFind out more about Marriage on Mission here: familylife.nz/marriage-on-mission/For more info about FamilyLife NZ go to: familylife.nzTo register for an event: familylife.nz/eventsFor more resources f...
2025-07-1841 min
FamilyLife Today®Raising Respect and Faith in a Large Family - Bill and Pam MutzOn this FamilyLife Today episode, hosted by Dave and Ann Wilson, we feature Bill and Pam Mutz, a couple with 12 children and 37 grandchildren, known for their work with FamilyLife’s Weekend to Remember conferences and the Art of Marriage series. The episode introduces their story, starting with their meeting in Indiana and Pam’s initial reluctance to marry or have children. Despite her plans to serve Jesus overseas, Pam agreed to marry Bill after guidance from mentors, and their perspective on children shifted after their first child, Carrie, awakened Pam’s nurturing instincts. They discuss using the family...
2025-06-0926 minFamilyLife Today®Understanding the Roots of Your Child's Addictive Behaviors - Dr. Adrian HickmonOn this FamilyLife Today episode, hosted by Dave and Ann Wilson, we feature a segment from the FamilyLife Blended podcast with Ron Deal and guest Dr. Adrian Hickmon, founder of Capstone Treatment Center in Arkansas. The discussion focuses on parenting children with addictive behaviors, such as drugs, alcohol, or pornography. Dr. Hickmon explains the underlying causes of these behaviors, including trauma, isolation, and disconnection, likening them to a "magma pool" beneath a volcano. He advises parents to find facts, triage the situation, and avoid detaching emotionally, instead emphasizing attachment and healthy boundaries. Ron shares a personal story a...
2025-06-0426 minFamilyLife Today®From Chaos to Connection - Faith, Football, and Blending Families: Devon and Asha StillOn this episode of FamilyLife Today, Ron Deal, along with hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, introduces Devon and Asha Still as they share their personal journey of overcoming the challenges that come with a blended family. This conversation dives deep into how they navigated both blended family struggles and personal battles, focusing on communication, faith, and intentional effort.Devon and Asha came together under difficult circumstances. Devon, a former NFL player, had to make life-changing decisions when his daughter, Leah, was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. He decided to retire from football to care for his daughter. After...
2025-04-0225 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - Help! How can I get my spouse to a Weekend To Remember?We know it takes two at the Weekend to Remember. We also know you’re looking for a stronger, more connected relationship.Maybe you’re wondering, “How do I talk to my spouse about a Weekend to Remember?”You don’t have to go it alone. Grab our free download, How To Suggest to Your Spouse the Weekend You Both Need.We’ve seen it all. Maybe your spouse doesn’t think they’re the conference type. Maybe you’re not sure how you’ll pay for the weekend or find childcare. Or maybe you’re not sur...
2025-03-2020 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - The 4 Habits of Joy-Filled Marriages with Dr Marcus WarnerWhat separates happy marriages from miserable ones? Surprisingly, it’s not healthy communication. It’s not conflict resolution skills. It’s actually the size of the marriage’s joy gap.In today’s conversation, we discuss how joy—not just communication—can transform your marriage, practical habits to deepen your connection, and why emotional resilience is key to lasting love. Whether your marriage is thriving or struggling, this conversation offers powerful insights. Watch this on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BsgPgcpKMS8Find out more about building together here: https://www.familylife.nz/donate/brick...
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FamilyLife Today®Parenting in the Digital Age: Melissa Kruger & Jim MitchellParenting in the digital age comes with new fears and concerns. Melissa Kruger and Jim Mitchell talk about how grace, communication, and modeling faith can build foundations with teens that will last a lifetime. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Melissa Kruger on her website. Purchase "Parenting with Hope" at the FamilyLife Online shop Save 25% on all small group materials at the FamilyLife online shop. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app...
2025-01-2432 minFamilyLife Today®Transforming a Blended Family: Fred and Anita Von Cannon’s Story of RedemptionOn this episode of FamilyLife Today, hosts Dave and Ann Wilson join FamilyLife Blended podcast host Ron Deal for an inspiring conversation with Fred and Anita Von Cannon. The Von Cannons share their powerful story of overcoming family trauma, building a blended family, and the transformative role of the gospel in their marriage and parenting journey. Show Notes and Resources Listen to the full episode of FamilyLife Blended Save 25% on all small group materials at the FamilyLife online shop. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our...
2025-01-2125 minFamilyLife Today®Becoming the Boss to Managing Your Feelings: Bobby & Rebecca Markham, Christian & Maddie VillafaneManaging your feelings is a key step in building a successful marriage. In this episode, several guests discuss personal stories and insights on managing emotions, the importance of intentionality, and the role of mentorship in building strong, lasting marriages. Show Notes and Resources Watch the full "Married with Benefits" episode Purchase "The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages" at the FamilyLife store. Learn more about "Art of Marriage" online Learn more about the "Love Like You Mean It" cruise online. Learn more about "Vertical Marriage" online. Register to Weekend to Remember. Find more spiritual growth resources...
2025-01-2028 min
FamilyLife Today®Beyond the Stereotype of Raising Teenagers: Brian & Jen GoinsRaising teenagers is a complex journey. While often stereotyped as "terrible", this phase presents unique challenges and opportunities. Brian and Jen Goins explore the realities of parenting teens, balancing expectations, instilling values, and nurturing resilience as kids transition to adulthood. Show Notes and Resources Find parenting help on FamilyLife's website Learn more about and attend A Weekend to Remember. Double your donation to FamilyLife Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on A...
2025-01-1031 minFamilyLife Today®Taming of the Tongue: Dave & Ann WilsonThe words we use with our children will impact them their entire lives. Dave and Ann Wilson show us how to cultivate positive parenting communication to create an environment where children can thrive. Show Notes and Resources Purchase "No Perfect Parents" at the FamilyLife online shop. Take the "No Perfect Parents" online course . familylife.com/prayforme. Register for Weekend to Remember Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or...
2025-01-0929 minFamilyLife Today®Making the Most of Blended Family Holidays: Ron Deal & Gayla GraceChristmas can be a complicated time for blended families. Join us as we discuss the challenges and joys of navigating the holidays with step-parents, step-siblings, and divided households. We’ll hear from Ron Deal and Gayla Grace, experts on blended families, as they share practical tips and heartfelt advice. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about FamilyLife Blended Purchase books written by Ron online at the FamilyLife Store. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Lea...
2024-12-1329 minFamilyLife Today®Breaking Generational Cycles: Brant HansenFrom the challenges of growing up in a dysfunctional household to the joys of raising children, Brant Hansen delves into the depths of the human experience. Discover how faith, resilience, and open communication can help us break generational cycles and build stronger, healthier families. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Brant Hansen on his website branthansen.com. See Brant's books online at the FamilyLife Store. Read FamilyLife articles on fatherhood. Find more resources on parenting teens Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and r...
2024-12-1029 minFamilyLife Today®Fatherhood and Forgiveness: Brant HansenThe father-son relationship can often get overlooked. In this episode, we explore the complexities of father-son relationships, sharing personal stories of trauma, forgiveness, and the pursuit of a better future. Author, Brant Hanson, join us for a raw and honest conversation about fatherhood, family, and the enduring power of love. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Brant Hansen on his website branthansen.com. See Brant's books online at the FamilyLife Store. Read FamilyLife articles on fatherhood. Find more resources on parenting teens Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our p...
2024-12-0928 min
FamilyLife Today®Acts of Kindness and Generosity: Brad FormsmaThere's more than one way to be generous. With money, yes, but also acts of kindness! Learn how to cultivate generosity in your family in this discussion between Brad Formsma and Dave and Ann Wilson! Show Notes and Resources Connect with Brad Formsma and hear more of his thoughts at bradformsma.com You can find more episodes featuring Brad here. Get your copy of Brad's book, I Like Giving: The Transforming Power of a Generous Life, in our shop! Find out more about Generous Kids Book Club at generousfamily.com. Don't miss out on FamilyLife's amazing...
2024-11-2927 min
FamilyLife Today®I Like Giving: The Transforming Power of a Generous Life: Brad FormsmaDid you know that generosity is actually good for us? Brad Formsma joins Dave and Ann Wilson to discuss the power of giving, as well as how to become a more generous family. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Brad Formsma and hear more of his thoughts at bradformsma.com You can find more episodes featuring Brad here. Get your copy of Brad's book, I Like Giving: The Transforming Power of a Generous Life, in our shop! Find out more about Generous Kids Book Club at generousfamily.com. Don't miss out on FamilyLife's amazing sales: Weekend...
2024-11-2827 min
FamilyLife Today®Dave & Ann's Conflict Cycle: Debra FiletaIs conflict always bad? Dave and Ann Wilson discuss their marriage conflict cycle and underlying issues as guests on Debra Fileta's podcast, "Talk To Me." Show Notes and Resources Connect with Debra Fileta and catch more of their thoughts at debrafileta.com, and on Insta @debrafileta and catch other episodes on FamilyLife Today. Also, check out her podcast, "Talk to Me." Grab your copy of Dave & Ann Wilson's book, Vertical Marriage, here. Don't miss out on FamilyLife's amazing sale: Weekend to Remember gift cards are half off and devotionals are discounted from Nov. 18 to Dec. 2 at...
2024-11-2734 minFamilyLife Today®Getting My Kids To Talk To Me: Becky HarlingDo you want your kids to open up more? Becky Harling shares what parents can do to help their children express themselves. Show Notes and Resources Black Friday; Don't miss out on FamilyLife's amazing sale: Don't miss out on FamilyLife's amazing sale: Weekend to Remember gift cards are half off and devotionals are discounted from Nov. 18 to Dec. 2 at shop.familylife.com! FamilyLife has a free devotional for you from Amber Neese: "Finding Common Ground." Sign up at familylife.com/findingcommonground! Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts...
2024-11-2628 minFamilyLife Today®I Want My Kids To Talk To Me: Becky HarlingDo you struggle with getting your kids to talk to you? Becky Harling explains how to give them a voice. Show Notes and Resources Black Friday; Don't miss out on FamilyLife's amazing sale: Don't miss out on FamilyLife's amazing sale: Weekend to Remember gift cards are half off and devotionals are discounted from Nov. 18 to Dec. 2 at shop.familylife.com! FamilyLife has a free devotional for you from Amber Neese: "Finding Common Ground." Sign up at familylife.com/findingcommonground! Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more...
2024-11-2527 min
FamilyLife Today®Spiritual Growth Amidst Chaos: Jackie Hill PerryJackie Hill Perry joins Dave and Ann Wilson to discuss spiritual growth amidst life's chaos and her new devotional, "Upon Waking, " which explores themes of humility, authentic worship, and personal surrender. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Jackie Hill Perry and hear more of her thoughts at jackiehillperry.com, or follow her on social media on Facebook, Insta, or YouTube. You can get a copy of her book, "Upon Waking: 60 Daily Reflections to Discover Ourselves and the God We Were Made For," in our shop. Don't miss out on FamilyLife's amazing sale: Weekend to Remember gift...
2024-11-2228 min
FamilyLife Today®Upon Waking: Jackie Hill PerryIt can be hard to pursue Bible study and prayer when life's busy. Author and teacher, Jackie Hill Perry, joins Dave and Ann Wilson to discuss her new devotional, "Upon Waking," written to help us pause to reflect on the Word. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Jackie Hill Perry and hear more of her thoughts at jackiehillperry.com, or follow her on social media on Facebook, Insta, or YouTube. You can get a copy of her book, "Upon Waking: 60 Daily Reflections to Discover Ourselves and the God We Were Made For," in our shop. Don't...
2024-11-2127 min
FamilyLife Today®Loneliness in the Bible: Steve & Jennifer DeWittWhen it comes to coping with loneliness, not all strategies are equal. Loneliness is a natural part of life, but Steve and Jennifer DeWitt argue it can be redeemed when approached biblically. Listen in to their conversation with Dave and Ann Wilson! Show Notes and Resources Connect with Steve DeWitt and hear more of his thoughts on Facebook. You can grab your copy of Steve & Jennifer's new book, "Loneliness: Don't Hate it or Waste it. Redeem it" here Don't miss out on FamilyLife's amazing Black Friday sale: Weekend to Remember gift cards are half off and d...
2024-11-2030 min
FamilyLife Today®Loneliness and Marriage: Steve & Jennifer DeWittMarriage and loneliness—what can we do? What if loneliness can have a good purpose, whether married or single? Author and pastor, Steve Dewitt, and his wife, Jennifer, tell us how in their discussion with hosts, Dave & Ann Wilson. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Steve DeWitt and hear more of his thoughts on Facebook. You can grab your copy of Steve & Jennifer's new book, "Loneliness: Don't Hate it or Waste it. Redeem it" here Don't miss out on FamilyLife's amazing Black Friday sale: Weekend to Remember gift cards are half off and devotionals are discounted fro...
2024-11-1931 min
FamilyLife Today®Loneliness: Don't Hate It or Waste It: Steve & Jennifer DeWittThere's a loneliness epidemic. But what if we don't have to avoid loneliness like a plague? Dave & Ann Wilson are joined by author and pastor, Steve Dewitt, and his wife, Jennifer, to discuss loneliness and offer a redemptive approach. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Steve DeWitt and hear more of his thoughts on Facebook. You can grab your copy of Steve & Jennifer's new book, "Loneliness: Don't Hate it or Waste it. Redeem it" here Song Mentioned: "One is the Loneliest Number" by Three Dog Night. Don't miss out on FamilyLife's amazing Black Friday sale: Weekend t...
2024-11-1829 min
FamilyLife Today®Image Restored: Rachael GilbertWe all have bodies. And, sometimes, we have body image issues. Listen as counselor and author, Rachael Gilbert, shares her story and approach to healing with Dave and Ann Wilson. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Rachael Gilbert and hear more of her thoughts at rachaelgilbert.com. Listen to Rachael's podcast, Real Talk with Rachael, here. You can grab your copy of Rachael's book, "Image RESTored: Tear Down Shame and Insecurity to Experience a Body Image Renovation" in our shop! See more about FamilyLife's Weekend to Remember events at weekendtoremember.com. FamilyLife would love to gift...
2024-11-1129 minFamilyLife Today®Answering Teens' Tough Questions: Michael KrugerNot sure how to answer? Michael Kruger, author of "Surviving Religion 101", offers answers for tough questions. Show Notes and Resources Check out Michael's book, Surviving Religion 101: Letters to a Christian Student on Keeping the Faith in College FamilyLife has a free devotional for you from Amberly Neese: "Finding Common Ground." Sign up at familylife.com/findingcommonground Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the...
2024-11-0825 minFamilyLife Today®Surviving Religion: Michael KrugerAre your kids college-ready? Michael Kruger, author of "Surviving Religion 101," examines how to prep teens for surviving religion—and keeping the faith. Show Notes and Resources Check out Michael's book, Surviving Religion 101: Letters to a Christian Student on Keeping the Faith in College FamilyLife has a free devotional for you from Amberly Neese: "Finding Common Ground." Sign up at familylife.com/findingcommonground Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or...
2024-11-0724 min
FamilyLife Today®Family Conflict in the Time of Cancel Culture: Tim Muehlhoff & Sean McDowellDo disagreements with family strain relationship at times? Learn to approach family conflict with wisdom and winsomeness in this conversation between Dave and Ann Wilson and Tim Muehlhoff and Sean McDowell. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Tim Muehlhoff and catch more of their thoughts on the Winsome Conviction Project. Find previous podcast episodes and articles with Tim here. Connect with Sean McDowell and catch more of their thoughts at seanmcdowell.org. Find more podcast episodes with Sean here. You find find their book, "End the Stalemate: Moving Past Cancel Culture to Meaningful Conversations," in our...
2024-11-0628 min
FamilyLife Today®Moving Past Cancel Culture: Tim Muehlhoff & Sean McDowellHow do we move away from cancel culture? One way—according to scholars and authors, Tim Muehlhoff and Sean McDowell—is growing in listening skills. Listen in to their conversation with Dave and Ann Wilson for practical help in improving. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Tim Muehlhoff and catch more of their thoughts on the Winsome Conviction Project. Find previous podcast episodes and articles with Tim here. Connect with Sean McDowell and catch more of their thoughts at seanmcdowell.org. Find more podcast episodes with Sean here. You find find their book, "End the Stalemate: Movi...
2024-11-0529 min
FamilyLife Today®End the Stalemate: Tim Muehlhoff & Sean McDowellCivil conversations feel harder and harder to come by these days. Hosts Dave and Ann Wilson are joined by scholars, authors, and Christian apologists—Tim Muehlhoff and Sean McDowell—to discuss their new book, "End the Stalemate: Move Past Cancel Culture to Meaningful Conversations." Listen in as they shed light on our current polarized culture, as well as offer practical help for having better conversations. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Tim Muehlhoff and catch more of their thoughts on the Winsome Conviction Project. Find previous podcast episodes and articles with Tim here. Connect with Sean McDo...
2024-11-0428 min
FamilyLife Today®Peace Over Election Anxiety: Brant HansenAre you feeling anxiety about the election? Brant Hansen joins hosts Dave and Ann Wilson for a hope-filled conversation about peace and politics. Listen in for helpful perspective for Christians, as well as some practical tips for coping with anxiety. Show Notes and Resources Brant Hansen has created an election anxiety guide just for FamilyLife Today® listeners that offers practical, faith-based reminders and tips to help you reduce stress, relieve fear, and find true peace during the current political season. Sign up at familylife.com/nofear Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See re...
2024-11-0127 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - Control to Surrender (Brick 8)Letting go of our ability to control the outcome isn’t easy, it requires trust. When we surrender our control to Jesus and yield to His will for our lives and marriages it can feel like a scary place, but ultimately the fruit will be much better than anything we can produce in our own strength.In today’s conversation, we talk about the journey of giving up control of our lives and each other in marriage as we choose surrender instead. This surrender is not to our spouse, but rather to the Lord - wh...
2024-10-0314 minFamilyLife Today®Childhood Grief & Family Disruption: Scott Kedersha & Ron DealDave and Ann Wilson welcome Scott Kedersha, author and marriage pastor, and Ron Deal to the show. They explore how Scott's early experiences of grief and family disruption shaped his approach to marriage and parenting. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry: SummitOnStepfamilies.com Connect with Scott Kedersha and hear more of his thoughts at scottkedersha.com. And you can find his book, Ready or Knot?, at scottkedersha.com/ready-or-knot. Enjoyed this episode? Listen to more with Scott here! Ron Deal leads FamilyLife Blended and hosts the FamilyLife Blended Podcast. Find...
2024-10-0226 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - 50/50 to All-In (Brick 7)Rather than approaching our marriage in the same way we shop for deals and money-back guarantees around boxing day, what if we approached it more like an Olympic athlete approaches their training routine? Today’s conversation is part of our Bricks and Hammer series and we’re talking about how a 50/50 mindset will bring destruction to our marriage whilst taking an “all-in” approach will help us build a strong and lasting relationship.Find out more about building together here: https://www.familylife.nz/donate/bricks/ Watch this on YouTube: h...
2024-09-2614 minFamilyLife Today®Before the 4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse: Ron & Nan DealYou may have heard of John Gottman's 'Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse': criticism, contempt, withdrawal, and stonewalling. Guess what the precursor to all these is? In this special episode, Dave and Ann Wilson share Ron and Nan Deal's wisdom that connects the dots between biblical trust and modern research. Show Notes and Resources Ron Deal leads FamilyLife Blended and hosts the FamilyLife Blended Podcast. Find more resources for Blended Families Join us aboard the Love Like You Mean It Marriage Cruise from February 8-15 for an exclusive journey dedicated to strengthening your marriage. Find resources from...
2024-09-2526 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - "Strengthen Your Relationship" - Marriage Week NZMarriage Week is an opportunity for people to be reminded about the importance of marriage, why it matters, and what you can do to strengthen your marriage relationship.Today’s discussion is part of a 2 part discussion we had before and during marriage week this year - we talked about the importance of investing in your marriage and discussed some tools that we have available to help you on the journey.Watch this on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Ii716TRQbukFind out more about building together here: https://www.familylife.nz/donate/bricks/
2024-09-1919 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - "Valuing and Investing in Your Marriage Every Day" - Marriage Week NZMarriage week is an opportunity for us to celebrate the institution of marriage as God designed it for our flourishing and as a space to raise healthy, happy and wholehearted children. It’s also an opportunity for us to look at ways we can be intentional about growing together as a couple and invest in our marriage.Today’s discussion is part of a 2 part discussion we had before and during marriage week this year - We talked about the importance of investing in your marriage and discussed some tools that we have available to help you on t...
2024-09-1712 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - Understanding the Heart of a Dad - Fathers DayMost of us have a dad in our lives. Maybe it’s your biological or spiritual dad, maybe you’re married to a dad, or maybe you’re a friend of a dad. In today’s discussion, we’re looking at understanding the heart of a dad. What are 3 things to understand and what are three ways we can honour the dads in our life? This conversation will strengthen and encourage you if you’re a dad, or it will give you some insights into honouring the dad in your life.Watch this on...
2024-08-2914 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - Argumentative to Empathy (Brick 6)Being correct doesn’t mean we connect. Sometimes we can win the fight, yet lose the battle for oneness in our marriage, but there’s a better way than arguing your way to victory.In today’s conversation, we talk about how to break out of the argumentative cycle by developing empathy and choosing to prioritise understanding above being correct. This is part of the Bricks and Hammer series where we talk about building our relationships with the bricks that will lead to a strong and lasting relationship and putting down those hammers that cause...
2024-08-1511 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - Entitlement and Discontentment to Gratitude (Brick 5)We will get more of what we focus on in life. Are you focused on what you're discontent about in your marriage or are you focused on the things you are grateful for?Today’s conversation is part of the Bricks and Hammer series where we talk about building our relationships with the bricks that will lead to a strong and lasting relationship and putting down those hammers that cause destruction. Today we focus on building with gratitude and learning how to be content. Find out more about building together here: https://www.f...
2024-08-0813 minFamilyLife Today®Past Trauma, Deep Healing: Debra FiletaCould past traumas impact your current relationships? Explore truer and deeper healing from trauma for healthy relationships now with Debra Fileta. Show Notes and Resources Help make YOUR mark: Your donation supports crucial resources for families and includes a special FamilyLife Pen and Brant Hansen's book, ""Unoffendable""—join us today! Connect with Debra Fileta and catch more of their thoughts at debrafileta.com, and on Insta @debrafileta and catch other episodes on FamilyLife Today. And grab her book, "Reset: Powerful Habits to Own Your Thoughts, Understand Your Feelings, and Change Your Life," in our shop! Explore Fa...
2024-08-0730 minFamilyLife Today®Conflict Styles: What's Yours? Debra FiletaIf people need people, do you have yours? To stick to healthy change, we all need support systems. Join Debra Fileta for practical tips on personal growth. Show Notes and Resources Help make YOUR mark: Your donation supports crucial resources for families and includes a special FamilyLife Pen and Brant Hansen's book, ""Unoffendable""—join us today! Connect with Debra Fileta and catch more of their thoughts at debrafileta.com, and on Insta @debrafileta and catch other episodes on FamilyLife Today. And grab her book, "Reset: Powerful Habits to Own Your Thoughts, Understand Your Feelings, and Change Yo...
2024-08-0630 minFamilyLife Today®How to Change...And Make it Stick! Debra FiletaYou want personal growth. And transformation that sticks. But how do we shed destructive habits and past hurts? Learn healthy habits to make change last with author and licensed counselor, Debra Fileta. Show Notes and Resources Help make YOUR mark: Your donation supports crucial resources for families and includes a special FamilyLife Pen and Brant Hansen's book, ""Unoffendable""—join us today! Connect with Debra Fileta and catch more of their thoughts at debrafileta.com, and on Insta @debrafileta and catch other episodes on FamilyLife Today. And grab her book, "Reset: Powerful Habits to Own Your Thoughts, Un...
2024-08-0528 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - Blame to Responsibility (Brick 4)What would our world look like if instead of making excuses, being defensive or shifting blame for our problems, we actually took full responsibility in every relationship? In this interview, we talk about our tendencies to blame and be defensive and how we can consider taking 100% responsibility instead. It’s a life-changing principle and it will certainly strengthen your marriage. Find out more about building together here: https://www.familylife.nz/donate/bricks/ Watch this on YouTube: https://youtu.be/aImDGXG3e1AFor more info about Famil...
2024-08-0110 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - Anger to Patience (Brick 3)At times, we all experience emotions of anger towards each other in our marriage. Anger in and of itself is not the problem, but how we respond when we’re angry is. Is it possible to learn how to return to joy from anger and apply the virtue of patience instead? We think it is. Find out more about building together here: https://www.familylife.nz/donate/bricks/ Watch this on YouTube: https://youtu.be/aImDGXG3e1AFor more info about FamilyLife NZ go to: familylife.nzTo register for an e...
2024-07-2513 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - Let's talk about pride (Brick 2)Let's talk about pride for a moment and how NOT to make your marriage fall apart. Our relationships, just like our homes, need maintenance and some tender loving care. Sometimes we need to repaint, and sometimes a complete renovation is required. Find out more about building together here: https://www.familylife.nz/donate/bricks/ Watch this on YouTube: https://youtu.be/umzNCTYkxUI For more info about FamilyLife NZ go to: familylife.nzTo register for an event: familylife.nz/eventsFor more resources from FamilyLife NZ, listen to our podcast: fa...
2024-07-1811 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - Service, the Antidote to Selfishness (Brick 1)Our relationships, just like our homes, need maintenance and some tender loving care. Sometimes we need to repaint, and sometimes a complete renovation is required. Marriage involves a little bit of compromise and a lot less selfishness, right? Today we discuss building your home through metaphorical bricks - using a brick of service and avoiding the hammer of selfishness. Find out more about building together here: https://www.familylife.nz/donate/bricks/ Watch this on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ioS5za6B2cUFor more info about Fami...
2024-07-1110 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - Bricks and HammersOur relationships, just like our homes, need maintenance and some tender loving care. Sometimes we need to repaint, and sometimes a complete renovation is required. Today’s conversation is the start of a new series on bricks and hammers. That’s right we’re talking about the types of bricks that we want to build into our marriage and then the hammers that we sometimes employ to our own detriment. Join us now for part 1 of this new series.Find out more about building together here: https://www.familylife.nz/donate/bricks/Watch this on...
2024-07-0412 minFamilyLife Today®Mother's Day for Stepmoms: Ron Deal, Gayla Grace and Summer ButlerMother's Day can be rough for stepmoms. Maybe you feel left out, unloved, and unappreciated. Ron Deal, Gayla Grace and Summer Butler discuss how tough times, like the stepmom Mother's Day dilemma, can build strength. They offer advice on how to reclaim identity and make Mother's Day a little less miserable. Show Notes and Resources Check out more content on FamilyLife Blended Listen to Gayla Grace's full episode FamilyLife Today Links: Double your gift this month when you give to FamilyLife! Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources fro...
2024-05-3029 min
FamilyLife Today®I’m Angry. Does God Care? Vivian & Darren MabuniIs it okay to be angry at God? When life crumbles, anger, resentment, and depression surface. Is there relief beyond Netflix and chocolate? Authors Vivian and Darrin Mabuni share their journey of bringing anger to God for relief. Vivian is also one of FamilyLife's guest contributors to the all-new Art of Marriage group study! To learn more or order your copy, visit artofmarriage.com. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Vivian Mabuni and catch more of her thoughts at vivianmabuni.com, and on Facebook and Instagram And grab Vivian's book, "Open Hands, Willing Heart: Discover the...
2024-04-1929 min
FamilyLife Today®But I Don’t Want to Give That Up: Vivian MabuniDoes the idea of giving God your "100% yes" freak you out? Vivian Mabuni totally gets it. She talks about how scary surrendering to God can be—and yet maybe it's exactly what we need. Could letting go of that "one thing" actually save you? Vivian is also one of FamilyLife's guest contributors to the all-new Art of Marriage group study! To learn more or order your copy, visit artofmarriage.com. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Vivian Mabuni and catch more of their thoughts at vivianmabuni.com, and on Facebook and Instagram And grab Vi...
2024-04-1828 min
FamilyLife Today®Running on Fumes: David & Meg Robbins"Our marriage feels off, but I can't pinpoint why. How can I be working on my marriage while running on fumes?" David and Meg Robbins recognize the signs of strain and provide practical advice for addressing them. Discover insights to strengthen your relationship. David and Meg are contributors to FamilyLife's all-new Art of Marriage group study! To learn more or order your copy, visit artofmarriage.com. Show Notes and Resources Want to hear more episodes by David and Meg, listen here! Intrigued by today's episode? Think deeper about Busyness in our FamilyLife episode, Breaking...
2024-02-1629 min
FamilyLife Today®He Restores My Soul: David & Meg RobbinsWondering why you feel constantly drained and emotionally exhausted? David and Meg Robbins walk through the passage of Psalm 23 highlighting the intimate and caring relationship between God and His people. Find the rest your soul's been craving. David and Meg are contributors to FamilyLife's all-new Art of Marriage group study! To learn more or order your copy, visit artofmarriage.com. Show Notes and Resources Want to hear more episodes by David and Meg, listen here! Intrigued by today's episode? Think deeper about Busyness in our FamilyLife episode, Breaking Free From Busyness. The all-newArt...
2024-02-1528 min
FamilyLife Today®Staying Close When Life is Crazy: David & Meg RobbinsLife is hectic--and finding time for intimacy feels impossible. How can we keep our connection strong amidst all the crazy? David and Meg Robbins find out how to manage overwhelming busyness, offering tangible approaches to build stronger intimacy. David and Meg are contributors to FamilyLife's all-new Art of Marriage group study! To learn more or order your copy, visit artofmarriage.com. Show Notes and Resources Want to hear more episodes by David and Meg, listen here! Intrigued by today's episode? Think deeper about Busyness in our FamilyLife episode, Breaking Free From Busyness. The...
2024-02-1428 min
FamilyLife Today®Beyond Small Talk and Sports: Brian Goins, Ed Uszynski, and Darrin MabuniMaintain your bro time even in marriage! Dave Wilson and Brian Goins, with guests Ed Uszynski, and Darrin Mabuni, emphasize the importance of male connections, particularly within the Christian community. They explore how these connections contribute to great marriages, wise parenting, and overall well-being. Discover why having someone to follow and lead in life makes all the difference. Brian, Ed, Darrin, and host Dave Wilson are contributors to FamilyLife's all-new Art of Marriage group study! To learn more or order your copy, visit artofmarriage.com. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Brian Goins at...
2024-02-0929 min
FamilyLife Today®The Sins We Hide: Brian Goins, Ed Uszynski, and Darrin MabuniEver wonder if your spouse is hiding something? Dave Wilson and Brian Goins host Ed Uszynski, and Darrin Mabuni to discuss why the dark parts of your marriage need the light. They share key ways to make your connection stronger, and foster transparency and trust. Brian, Ed, Darrin, and host Dave Wilson are contributors to FamilyLife's all-new Art of Marriage group study! To learn more or order your copy, visit artofmarriage.com. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Brian Goins at his website, brainheartworld.org aimed at helping change the conversation about pornography in our country a...
2024-02-0828 min
FamilyLife Today®Prayer–A Man’s Battlefield: Brian Goins, Ed Uszynski, and Darrin MabuniWhy is prayer important? Because prayer is a battlefield. Brian Goins, Ed Uszynski, and Darrin Mabuni discuss the roles of praying as a husband and how prayer can be intimidating for men. Discover mind-blowing ways to make prayer a superpower in your marriage and everyday life. Brian, Ed, Darrin, and host Dave Wilson are contributors to FamilyLife's all-new Art of Marriage group study! To learn more or order your copy, visit artofmarriage.com. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Brian Goins at his website, brainheartworld.org aimed at helping change the conversation about pornography in our...
2024-02-0732 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - First Things FirstToday we discuss putting "First Things First" by using this amazing resource to bring your two worlds together and put some structure into your lives. Step back and take control of your marriage, your family, your life! Check out the resource here: https://www.familylife.nz/online-store/marriage/first-things-first/For more info about FamilyLife NZ, go to: familylife.nzTo register for an event: familylife.nz/events/weekend-to-rememberFor more resources from FamilyLife NZ, listen to our podcast: familylife.nz/podcastFor more Digital Marriage Resources: familylife.nz/digital-resourcesFor Date Night ideas...
2024-01-2913 min
FamilyLife Today®Does My Spouse Know Me Anymore? David & Meg RobbinsBrian Goins and Ed Uszynski faced a mammoth challenge: reimagining and improving FamilyLife's classic group resource, Art of Marriage, to resonate with a global audience of current and new generations. Focusing on God's flawless design and purpose, the all-new Art of Marriage draws on six Hebrew and Greek words for love in the Bible. In this episode Brian and Ed--along with FamilyLife president David Robbins and his wife Meg--offer intensely practical ideas to bring these kinds of love vividly alive in your relationship. Along with co-creators Brian Goins and Ed Uszynski, the Robbins are contributors...
2024-01-2626 min
FamilyLife Today®Your Marriage, On Mission: David & Meg RobbinsWhat could it look like for your marriage to pour into your community, your neighbors, your kids friends? David and Meg Robbins explore the positive impact marriage brings the world--and the fulfillment a marriage on mission could bring the two of you. Along with co-creators Brian Goins and Ed Uszynski, the Robbins are contributors to FamilyLife's all-new Art of Marriage group study! To learn more or order your copy, visit artofmarriage.com. Show Notes and Resources Want to hear more episodes by David and Meg, listen here! Help Your Small Group Grow...
2024-01-2526 min
FamilyLife Today®I Feel Unloved in My MarriagePart two of a special interview where Brian Goins and Ed Uszynski, creators of FamilyLife's new Art of Marriage resource, interview our FamilyLife Today hosts, Dave and Ann Wilson. Listen as they empathize with feeling unloved in marriage. Find ideas for stronger connection and deeper intimacy. Show Notes and Resources Listen to the ""Married with Benefits"" podcast Tune into the ""Art of Marriage"" series for listeners interested in exploring the reimagined project. The Art of Marriage weaves together expert teaching, real-life stories, humorous vignettes, and more to portray both the challenges and the beauty of...
2024-01-0528 min
FamilyLife Today®New Year, New “Us”Today we tried something a little different! Our FamilyLife Today hosts, Dave and Ann Wilson are interviewed by the creators of FamilyLife's new Art of Marriage small group resource, Brian Goins and Ed Uszynski. Listen as they share tips on how couples can grow together, get more honest, and choose other practical steps to kickstart a stronger year together. Show Notes and Resources Listen to the ""Married with Benefits"" podcast Tune into the ""Art of Marriage"" series for listeners interested in exploring the reimagined project. The Art of Marriage weaves together expert teaching, real-life...
2024-01-0428 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - Teaching Kids About The Joy Of Jesus - Christmas SeriesFinding it hard to find Joy in this season? Want to know where to find it and how it actually starts? Here’s what we need to know about how to model joy to our kids authentically, learn from the ways in which Jesus was ‘present’ for people, and how by doing some simple things you can light up their world!For more info about FamilyLife NZ, go to: familylife.nzTo register for an event: familylife.nz/events/weekend-to-rememberFor more resources from FamilyLife NZ, listen to our podcast: familylife.nz/podcastFor more D...
2023-12-2312 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - Relationships Under Pressure - Christmas SeriesWhen life gets busy, the pressure tends to build. When we’re stressed we might not be our best selves and this can lead to pressure in our relationships and for underlying issues to become prevailing issues that lead to isolation. If you’re overwhelmed or under pressure right now, there’s HOPE.For more info about FamilyLife NZ, go to: familylife.nzTo register for an event: familylife.nz/events/weekend-to-rememberFor more resources from FamilyLife NZ, listen to our podcast: familylife.nz/podcastFor more Digital Marriage Resources: familylife.nz/digital-resourcesFor Da...
2023-12-2212 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - Don't Carry The Donkey (Managing Expectations) - Christmas SeriesChristmas can be a busy time of year and the idea is for it to be a season of celebration and joy, but it can easily turn into chaos and perhaps even resentment as we manage competing priorities and differing expectations. How do we make sure this upcoming holiday we have peace in our home?For more info about FamilyLife NZ, go to: familylife.nzTo register for an event: familylife.nz/events/weekend-to-rememberFor more resources from FamilyLife NZ, listen to our podcast: familylife.nz/podcastFor more Digital Marriage Resources: familylife.nz...
2023-12-2112 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastThe Relationship Lift - Doing Christmas Together - Christmas SeriesLet's talk passing the pepper pot, thinking less about yourself and rather about how you can be of service to others - especially your spouse and children this festive season. We learn about practising gratitude, extending grace, going slow, giving space, swapping roles and managing conflict.For more info about FamilyLife NZ, go to: familylife.nzTo register for an event: familylife.nz/events/weekend-to-rememberFor more resources from FamilyLife NZ, listen to our podcast: familylife.nz/podcastFor more Digital Marriage Resources: familylife.nz/digital-resourcesFor Date Night ideas: familylife.nz/datenights
2023-12-2011 min
FamilyLife Today®Jesus Moments: The Best of FamilyLife Today this YearReady for the best of FamilyLife Today 2023? FamilyLife President David Robbins, his wife Meg, and Shelby Abbott recall the Jesus moments from a year of wisdom, beauty, and compelling truth. Show Notes and Resources See a bigger God and Join with FamilyLife Mission Trip Give Families the Gift of Together and Double Your Impact by Dec 31! Check out our Cyber Sale Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave...
2023-11-2728 min
FamilyLife Today®How to Be a Good Grandparent: Mark Gregston & Larry FowlerWondering how to be a good grandparent—and rev up your impact? Authors Mark Gregston and Larry Fowler help you toss the stereotypes in favor of five ways your influence can go the distance. Show Notes and Resources Check out Mark Gregson at parentingtodaysteens.org Learn more about the Legacy Coalition Grandparenting Summit at legacycoalition.com/summit/ Purchase Mark's book on FamilyLife's shop: Grandparenting Teens: Leaving a Legacy of Hope More from Larry Fowler on FamilyLife Today More from Mark Gregston on FamilyLife Today Find resources from this podcast at shop.fa...
2023-10-0626 min
FamilyLife New Zealand PodcastGuest Episode - Be The Dad with Ferg TurnbullWynand interviews Ferg Turnbul, New Zealand author and father of five on his new book Be The Dad. It is a book for men who would never normally read a parenting/relationship/dad life book, full of quick tips to be a great Dad and Husband and enjoy your life while doing it. A perfect gift for those important men and fathers in your life.Inside are 20 short and easy-to-read chapters packed with helpful tips, drawings and stories to encourage and help you enjoy your Dad life.For more info about FamilyLife NZ, go to...
2023-09-0147 min
FamilyLife Blended® Podcast100: FamilyLife Blended: The Birth of a MovementHow did Ron Deal get started in blended family ministry? When was FamilyLife Blended birthed and what role does Nicole Burns play? What about Gayla Grace's start in stepfamily ministry? Listen to Ron Deal and Gayla Grace tell their stories and how they intersect with FamilyLife. Show Notes and Resources Listen to episode 21- Stepfamilies and The Holidays Thank you for sending a year end donation! More information and registration on the Preparing to Blend virtual premarital course for couples Register for the Empowered to Love resort event on Feb 13-17, 2023. Get...
2022-12-0542 min
FamilyLife Blended® Podcast64: Seasons and Rhythms: Strengthening Your Family Throughout the YearSpecial days give families an opportunity to honor each other, celebrate one another, and strengthen their identity as a stepfamily. Ron Deal and his guests present ideas on how to creatively take advantage of your family calendar in ways that will strengthen family relationships throughout the year. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry. https://www.summitonstepfamilies.com/. Listen to episode 21: Stepfamilies and The Holidays https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-blended-podcast/21-stepfamilies-and-the-holidays/. Get Ron's newest book: Preparing to Blend. https://shop.familylife.com/p-6133-preparing-to-blend.aspx. Your generous...
2021-09-1352 min
FamilyLife Blended® Podcast63: Growing up in a Blender: Shelby AbbottSometimes in stepfamilies, we take things out on each other that really are about someone or something from the past. We have something to say to a parent from the past, but instead fight that battle with a child—or spouse—in our present. Listen to Ron Deal talk with Shelby Abbott on how to keep unresolved issues of the past from damaging relationships in the present. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Shelby Abbott. https://shelbyabbott.com/. Get Shelby's books. https://shop.familylife.com/product-creator/shelby-abbott/. Learn more about FamilyLife Blended. https://www...
2021-08-3058 min
FamilyLife Blended® Podcast62: Pressure to Perform: When it Feels Like the World is WatchingThe end of your marriage doesn't mean the end of God's favor. But when you're in ministry, it can feel that way. Drs. Bobby and Janice Love speak with Ron Deal about how to manage the spotlight of ministry and the pressure that follows when you walk through divorce and remarriage, offering personal stories and suggestions to help. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Rev. Dr. Bobby and Dr. Janice Love. http://www.stepwithlove.org. Get Dr. Janice's book, One Plus One Equals Ten: A First Lady's Survival Guide for Stepmoms. https://www.amazon...
2021-08-161h 06
FamilyLife Blended® Podcast59: Conversations to Improve Your FamilyLittle things can create big changes in blended family homes. In this episode, Jed and Jenny Jurchenko share with Ron Deal how they created positive change in their home by taking small, positive steps to grow their most important relationships and give examples in their book, 131 Conversations for Stepfamily Success. Show Notes and Resources Get your copy of Jed and Jenny's book. https://www.amazon.com/131-Conversations-Stepfamily-Success-Intimacy/dp/1543236731. Learn more about FamilyLife Blended. https://www.familylife.com/familylifeblended/blended-families/. Your generous support of FamilyLife helps create podcasts like the FamilyLife Blended® Podcast. https://d...
2021-07-051h 00
FamilyLife Blended® Podcast58: Investing for Life After KidsWe could spend 1/3 of our lives without a paycheck since it's expected we can live into our mid-80's and beyond. How do we know if we're preparing adequately for retirement? Ron Deal talks with financial planner Greg Pettys on this topic and how to account for blended family variables. Show Notes and Resources Get your copy of The Smart Stepdad https://shop.familylife.com/p-5664-the-smart-stepfamily-guide-to-financial-planning.aspx. Listen to Ron and Greg's other podcast: "Financing Togetherness in Blended Families" https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-blended-podcast/19-financing-togetherness-in-blended-families/ Get the free download, 10 Tips to...
2021-06-211h 01
FamilyLife Blended® Podcast57: The Smart StepdadHow do you know if you're ready to be a stepdad? Ron Deal gives insight into the stepdad role as he talks with Bob Lepine and Dennis Rainey about this important position that can be daunting, but rewarding. Listen to his encouragement about the realities of being a stepdad and the value of stepping out in faith and relying on God's wisdom when ready to take the risk. Show Notes and Resources Get your copy of the Smart Stepdad. https://shop.familylife.com/p-5666-the-smart-stepdad.aspx. Learn more about FamilyLife Blended. https://www.familylife...
2021-06-071h 09
FamilyLife Blended® Podcast55: The Smart StepmomWhat does it mean to be a smart stepmom? Laura Petherbridge answers that question as she speaks with Dennis Rainey, Bob Lepine, and Ron Deal on how to navigate a role that can be confusing, lonely, and frustrating. She offers principles to help stepmoms feel encouraged and empowered in the important role they play. Show Notes and Resources Get The Smart Stepmom book. https://shop.familylife.com/product/the-smart-stepmom-updated/. Subscribe to the FamilyLife Blended newsletter. http://familylife.com/blendedsubscribe. Learn more about Laura Petherbridge and her ministry. http://thesmartstepmom.com/. Learn more about...
2021-05-101h 07
FamilyLife Blended® Podcast54: The Power of God at Work in StepfamiliesMarriage, while typically a two-person dance, gets complicated when couples try to manage a stepfamily maze with multiple lives around them. Ron Deal talks with Dave and Ann Wilson about how to navigate stepfamily struggles that create marital stress by sharing life with other stepfamilies and holding onto God's hand, relying on Him for answers and help to persevere. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about our Blended and Blessed Livestream Event. https://www.blendedandblessed.com/. Get Ron's Smart Stepfamily Video series for FREE. https://www.familylife.com/the-smart-stepfamily Buy The Smart Stepfamily Participant's...
2021-04-261h 09
FamilyLife Blended® Podcast49: Blended Kingdom Families podcastPeople of faith want their family to be a Kingdom family—centered in God's Word and rooted in truth and grace. Listen to Ron Deal's conversation with Scott and Vanessa Martindale, founders of Blended Kingdom Families, on how to create a blended kingdom family and why that's important. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Scott and Vanessa Martindale and their ministry, Blended Kingdom Families. https://www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com/ Get Life in a Blender Living in a Stepfamily: a Guide for Kids. https://shop.familylife.com/p-2672-life-in-a-blender.aspx Find ministries and events in yo...
2021-02-1254 min
FamilyLife Blended® Podcast46: Autism and the Blended FamilyDid you know that 1 in 6 children have some form of learning disability and some form of developmental disability, according to the CDC? Dr. Stephanie Holmes is a professional counselor and mom to a child with autism and talks with Ron Deal to give tips, understanding, and perspective on raising kids with autism in a blended family. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Stephanie Holmes and her ministry. counselorstephanieholmes.com Read Ron and Stephanie's article: Autism and the blended family. https://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/blended-family/stepparents/multiple-home-realities/autism-and-the-blended-family/ Get Ron's book...
2021-01-041h 24
FamilyLife Blended® Podcast45: Adult Stepfamilies: Joys and Challenges with the HolidaysBlended family Christmases with adult children don't always go so well, especially in the early years. Adult children bring their own needs, wants, opinions, and agendas to the family and when those wants clash with the wants of the parents, conflict erupts. In this powerful episode, Ron Deal speaks with Bob and Vicki Maday and two of their adult daughters about their holiday challenges and how they worked through their differences to find a win-win for both the parents and the children. Show Notes and Resources Read various articles on Adult Stepfamilies with topics including...
2020-12-2149 min
FamilyLife Blended® Podcast44: Overcoming Emotional Abandonment in MarriageDo differences in your marriage ever make you feel disconnected? Blended family couples have so many things related to step-ness that they need to manage, the last thing you need is to be irritated with one another about differences-or drift away from each other. In this episode, Neil and Sharol Josephson speak with Ron Deal and offer valuable tips on managing and overcoming a drift in marriage. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Neil and Sharol and FamilyLife Canada. https://www.familylifecanada.com/ Read Neil's Article - Differences and Drift: Wisdom for the...
2020-12-0759 min
FamilyLife Blended® Podcast43: Growing Up in a Blender: Who’s my Daddy?Imagine you have a relationship with your father for many years, then find out there are family secrets that will dramatically change your relationship and life. Stepfamily instability can bring confusion and shame to both children and adults. But God works in and through imperfect people and families. Listen to Ron Deal's conversation with Ray and Robin McKelvy and how God's love and grace brought resilience and redemption to their stepfamily story. Show Notes and Resources Episode 2: Life in a Blender with Dave and Ann Wilson. https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-blended-podcast/2-life-in-a-blender-dave-and-ann-wilson/ Episode 14: I...
2020-11-231h 11
FamilyLife Blended® Podcast42: Military Stepfamilies: Mission ReadyDid you know the military has a high-rate of couples in stepfamilies? Did you know that military personnel marry, divorce, and remarry at a younger age and more frequently than civilians do? Todd Gangl, co-founder of Military Ready Stepfamily, talks with Ron Deal about the added stressors military stepfamilies experience and how these families can create a healthy stepfamily culture that gives everyone the opportunity to bond, even amidst the challenges. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about The Military Ready Stepfamily and how to create a Stepfamily Care Plan. https://www.themilitaryreadystepfamily.com/ Learn...
2020-11-091h 00
Married With Benefits™13: Rapid-Fire: Questions (a lot of) Other Husbands are AskingGathered from a live audience at FamilyLife's Love Like You Mean It cruise, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn and Brian Goins answer a variety of questions from husbands--like, "Why does she ask for my opinion, then do her own thing?" "Why does she pick on my tone of voice?" "Why doesn't she say what she means?" "How can I convince her I think she looks good?" "How am I supposed to avoid fix-it mode when she talks?" Show Notes and Resources For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com Sign up for the "...
2020-07-1331 min
Married With Benefits™12: Why Does My Wife Expect Me to Read Her Mind?Trying to figure out why your wife expects you to know what she's thinking? Does trying to interpret all that mystery feel frustrating, even exhausting? Brian, Shaunti, and guest Jim Mitchell explore how to uncover what's whirring beneath the surface in a way that makes your wife feel known--and significantly improve your relationship. Show Notes and Resources For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com Sign up for the "I Do Every Day" devotional series. https://www.familylife.com/ido/ For Men Only by Shaunti Feldhahn. https://shop.familylife.com/product/f...
2020-07-0624 min
FamilyLife Blended® Podcast33: Bonus ParentingIf you had your pick, what term would you use for the stepparent in your family? Some people are perfectly fine with “stepparent”, but others prefer “bonus parent” or “Smom” if you’re a stepmom. And, does the label really matter? Or is it how you conduct yourself as a stepparent that matters? Ron Deal will get into all that and more on today’s FamilyLife Blended podcast with guests, Steve and Misty Arterburn. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Steve and Misty Arterburn http://www.stevearterburn.com/ The Smart Stepfamily by Ron Deal. https://shop.fami...
2020-07-0659 min
Married With Benefits™11: When Conflict with Your Wife Leaves You DefeatedIn this episode, Brian, Jen, and Shaunti address the common insecurities husbands experience in conflict with their wives. At work they feel they can tackle anything, but everything changes at home when emotions enter the scene. Are you curious why late-night arguments leave you feeling outmatched? Or why you'd rather withdraw to think before processing together? Listen for the reasons behind your feelings and for some healthy conflict management tips. Show Notes and Resources For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com Shaunti's book The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages...
2020-06-2927 min