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Money Making Priorities
41: Six-Figure Expert Secrets —Following Your Brain to the Next Level
If you are struggling with decision fatigue, "imposter" thoughts, or the fear of wasting time, book a 1:1 coaching call at fopsy.ca/call to replace overthinking with a simplified, high-ROI action plan.In this final part, Fope addresses the financial and time-based fears that keep experts small. Learn how to "follow your brain" to make the investment in your business finally pay off.
2026-01-05
09 min
Money Making Priorities
#40: Six-Figure Expert Secrets — The 'Couture' 1:1 Coaching Advantage
Book a sales call for 1:1 coaching at fopsy.ca/callIf you are seeing inconsistent results and feeling overwhelmed by "one-size-fits-all" courses, book a 1:1 coaching call at fopsy.ca/call to get a custom business audit and a personalized 5-client growth plan.Explore what "Couture Coaching" looks like. This is about stripping away the noise and building a high-impact, high-margin business that fits your specific strengths and your schedule.
2026-01-05
11 min
Money Making Priorities
#39: Six-Figure Expert Secrets — Social Media is Optional (The Visibility Secret)
If you are exhausted by TikTok and Instagram and feel like you have to be a "marketing guru" to succeed, book a 1:1 coaching call at fopsy.ca/call to build a custom authority strategy that brings in corporate proposals and high-value referrals.Fope dismantles the myth that you need to be an influencer to make six figures. Discover how to leverage your existing strengths to be seen as an authority—without being online 24/7.
2026-01-05
10 min
Money Making Priorities
#38: Six-Figure Expert Secrets —3 Money-Making Priorities for a 12-Week Scale
If you are seeing inconsistent results and feeling overwhelmed by "one-size-fits-all" courses, book a 1:1 coaching call at fopsy.ca/call to get a custom business audit and a personalized 5+ high ticket client growth plan.Explore what "Couture Coaching" looks like. This is about stripping away the noise and building a high-impact, high-margin business that fits your specific strengths and your schedule.Book a sales call for 1:1 coaching
2026-01-05
08 min
Money Making Priorities
#37: Six-Figure Expert Secrets — Ending the 'Busy Work' Cycle
If you are an expert feeling like your marketing is "weak" despite having all the tools, book a 1:1 coaching call at fopsy.ca/call to stop the busy-work and finally get the clarity needed to attract high-ticket clients.In this kick-off, Fope reveals why your corporate expertise hasn't translated into consistent sales yet and how to shift from "doing everything" to doing what actually pays.Book a sales call for 1:1 coaching: fopsy.ca/call
2026-01-05
03 min
Money Making Priorities
36: How to Create High-Ticket Offers That Sell | The Money-Making Offer Framework
Book your sales call now at fopsy.ca/call for 1:1 coaching. We'll map out your own money-making priorities and you will sign at least five new high-ticket clients in 12 weeks.In this episode of Money Priorities, host Fope Nkwocha (Fopsy) breaks down her proven 5-part Money-Making Offer Framework designed for service providers, coaches, and consultants who are too brilliant to be broke. Stop selling vaguely-defined "mentorship" and start packaging your expertise into irresistible, four-figure offers ($1,000+).You will learn how to:Nail the "Who": Get laser-specific on your ideal client (service providers, coaches, consultants...
2025-12-10
31 min
From Click to Client / StoryBrand Website + Marketing Strategy That Gets You More Dream Clients
Ep. 55 | How To Sign High Ticket Clients Consistently With Fope “Fopsy” Nkwocha
🥳 Free Video & Toolkit: The Five StoryBrand Soundbites That Bring You More Clients: https://www.reddoordesigns.com/free-resourcesEver feel like you’re doing all the things in your business but still not signing high ticket clients consistently? You’re not broken and you don’t need another strategy. You need to fix the execution gap that keeps smart service providers busy but not profitable.In this episode, business coach Fope “Fopsy” Nkwocha breaks down the simple, repeatable habits that help coaches and service providers turn their existing offers into steady high-t...
2025-12-09
40 min
Money Making Priorities
Lead Sprint 4: Hot seat coaching-Clarifying your offer, Getting Leads, Getting Inquiries but no sales and more
Ready to get your offer audited & fix your sales leaks? Book a free sales call: https://fopsy.ca/callWe'll spend 50 minutes creating a custom plan to make this quarter your best quarter yet. Goal: 5+ new high-ticket clients in 12 weeks.
2025-11-20
58 min
Money Making Priorities
Lead Sprint Day 3: How to Find & Engage Your Next 100 Clients |#30
Discover how coaches, consultants, experts and service providers can effectively network in both digital and physical spaces to generate a steady stream of leads. This episode from the Lead Sprint provides practical advice and real-world examples.For a deeper dive and customized support to hit your revenue targets, explore my 1:1 coaching. Book your sales call today: fopsy.ca/call
2025-11-19
54 min
Money Making Priorities
Lead Sprint Day 2 Replay: How to turn your lead magnet into actual clients
In Day 2, we broke down exactly what your leads want from you. Your lead magnet not a random freebie—it's a high-value asset that solves a real problem.Specifically, your leads want one of these 3 things:A Problem Revealer that highlights a mistake they didn't know they were making.A Sampler or Trial that gives them a risk-free taste of your solution.A One-Step Process that solves the first, most difficult part of their journey.(learned from Alex Hormozi)We went through all three types of lead ma...
2025-11-18
1h 01
Money Making Priorities
Lead Sprint Day 1: The ENGAGED Lead Problem (and How to Fix It)
☎️ Book a sales call with me at https://fopsy.ca/call for business coaching to help you sign 5 new high-ticket clients in 12 weeks by finding and focusing on your money-making priorities.
2025-11-17
1h 00
Money Making Priorities
#35: When Burnout Masquerades as Procrastination
If selling suddenly feels impossible, it’s not your mindset—it’s your energy. Burnout quietly kills sales momentum long before strategy ever does.Join the Lead Sprint (Nov 17–21) to rebuild your system for generating leads in five days → fopsy.ca/sprintThen book a 1:1 sales call to fix your offer, leads, and execution so you can sign 5 high-ticket clients in 12 weeks—or make your next $10K in 30 days. → fopsy.ca/call
2025-10-21
14 min
Money Making Priorities
#34 Why Your Offer Problem Is Really a Sales Problem
Creating new offers every month won’t fix what’s broken in your sales process. Learn why your main offer isn’t selling—and how to make it irresistible again.Join the Lead Sprint (Nov 17–21) to fill your pipeline fast → fopsy.ca/sprintThen book a 1:1 sales call to refine and sell your existing offer with confidence so you can sign 5 high-ticket clients in 12 weeks—or make your next $10K in 30 days. → fopsy.ca/call
2025-10-21
16 min
Money Making Priorities
#33: Why Your Business Feels Quiet (Even When You're Working Hard)
If your business feels quiet — even though you’re doing “all the right things” — this episode is for you. ‼️ Join us live for the Lead Sprint (Nov 17–21, 2025 + click this link in the future for new dates):A 5-day challenge to help you attract leads, follow up with confidence, and get booked again.👉 Join the Lead Sprint: https://fopsy.kit.com/lead-sprint Want 1:1 coaching to get clients faster?☎️ Book a free sales call to learn about working with Fope inside the Money-Making Priorities Coaching Program — designed to help you sign 5 high-ticket clients in 12...
2025-10-15
29 min
Money Making Priorities
Lead Sprint Day 5: Lead to Client Conversion: The Real Reason Your Audience Feels Quiet #32
☎️ Book a sales call with me at fopsy.ca/call for business coaching to help you sign 5 new high-ticket clients in 12 weeks by finding and focusing on your money-making priorities. Are you an experienced service provider who's started second-guessing everything when business gets quiet? You're not alone. In this episode, business coach Fope Nkwocha exposes the 5 unconscious behaviours that make established experts act like beginners - and how to break the cycle. For 1:1 coaching, please book a sales call with me: fopsy.ca/call Key insights:- Why "quiet audiences" are usually a mindset pr...
2025-09-20
56 min
Money Making Priorities
Lead Sprint 4: Why Your Coaching Offer Isn’t Selling (and How to Fix It Fast) #31
☎️ Book a sales call with me at fopsy.ca/call for business coaching to help you sign 5 new high-ticket clients in 12 weeks by finding and focusing on your money-making priorities. In this unfiltered hot seat coaching session, I help 4 real entrepreneurs fix their biggest offer problems in real time. What you'll see: Michelle discovers why "rediscovering yourself" doesn't pay the bills (and what to sell instead)Tomide learns she doesn't suck at sales - she just needs more leads in her pipelineLisa realizes how to guarantee job placement after 8 years and 500+ clientsToby gets a direct response str...
2025-09-19
1h 00
Money Making Priorities
Lead Sprint Day 3: How to Find & Engage Your Next 100 Clients |#30
☎️ Book a sales call with me at fopsy.ca/call for business coaching to help you sign 5 new high-ticket clients in 12 weeks by finding and focusing on your money-making priorities. Discover how coaches, consultants, experts and service providers can effectively network in both digital and physical spaces to generate a steady stream of leads. This episode from the Lead Sprint provides practical advice and real-world examples.For a deeper dive and customized support to hit your revenue targets, explore my 1:1 coaching. Book your sales call today: fopsy.ca/call
2025-09-18
57 min
Money Making Priorities
Lead Sprint Day 2: 3 Things Your Leads Actually Want |#29
In Day 2, we broke down exactly what your leads want from you. ☎️ Book a sales call with me at fopsy.ca/call for business coaching to help you sign 5 new high-ticket clients in 12 weeks by finding and focusing on your money-making priorities. Your lead magnet not a random freebie—it's a high-value asset that solves a real problem.Specifically, your leads want one of these 3 things:A Problem Revealer that highlights a mistake they didn't know they were making.A Sampler or Trial that gives them a risk-free taste...
2025-09-17
1h 02
Money Making Priorities
Lead Sprint Day 1: The ENGAGED Lead Problem (and How to Fix It) |#28
☎️ Book a sales call with me at https://fopsy.ca/call for business coaching to help you sign 5 new high-ticket clietns in 12 weeks by finding and focusing on your money making priorities.
2025-09-16
1h 00
Big Brave Business: Revolutionary Leadership and Entrepreneurship for Millennials with Sarah Heeter
Sales is Hard, But It Can Be Fun
Do you find sales hard? Uncomfortable? Does "being salesy" give you the ick? You probably just need to explore where you stand ethically when it comes to all things sales. Hey, come do that with us, in today's episode. Meet today's speakers: Sarah K. Heeter is the dynamic CEO of Podfox Media, the force behind 5,000+ episodes reaching millions across 120+ countries. Host of the award-nominated Big Brave Business podcast, Sarah electrifies audiences speaking on podcasting strategy, ethical leadership, and inclusive entrepreneurship. She serves as the NAWBO Phoenix Director of Public Policy and teaches...
2025-08-26
1h 01
Money Making Priorities
#27 How to Fix Your Messaging using the StoryBrand Framework So You Get Clients Faster
Is your offer amazing—but people still don’t get it?🎁 Free Guide: Apply the framework right now → fopsy.ca/blog/how-to-fix-your-messaging-with-storybrand-so-you-get-clients-faster🔥 Work with Me (1:1 Coaching): Money-Making Priorities: Make more in 12 weeks than you did all year—without working more.For coaches, consultants, and creatives selling high-ticket. → fopsy.ca/call💼 More Ways to Work Together: → fopsy.ca/work-with-me📲 Connect with Me: Instagram → @fopsythegreatIf potential clients keep saying “I need to think about it,” your messaging is likely the problem—not your offer. In this episode, I’ll walk you through t...
2025-07-22
34 min
Big Brave Business: Revolutionary Leadership and Entrepreneurship for Millennials with Sarah Heeter
When Marketing Becomes Manipulation
If you've ever felt uncomfortable with a marketing tactic but weren't sure why, this episode will help you trust your gut and build a business that actually serves people. Meet Today's Speakers Sarah K. Heeter is the dynamic CEO of Podfox Media, the force behind 5,000+ episodes reaching millions across 120+ countries. Host of the award-nominated Big Brave Business podcast, Sarah electrifies audiences speaking on podcasting strategy, ethical leadership, and inclusive entrepreneurship. She serves as the NAWBO Phoenix Director of Public Policy and teaches public policy at Arizona State University while championing integrity-driven business...
2025-07-22
47 min
Money Making Priorities
#26: Busy Work vs Money-Making Work: 7 Things You're Doing That Aren't Getting You Clients (And What To Do Instead)
There's a massive difference between feeling productive and actually making money. Most service providers waste months on activities that feel important but don't bring in paying clients. I'm sharing the exact busy work traps I see my clients fall into - and the simple shift that changes everything.
2025-05-31
25 min
Money Making Priorities
#25: The 2 Core Pillars of Marketing That Get You Clients as a Service-Based Business
If you want to sign more high-ticket clients consistently, you have to fix your visibility and credibility first.- Right now, you might be relying on word-of-mouth, a few excited friends, or random referrals. But that’s not a real pipeline.- 💎If people don’t know you exist, they can’t buy. And if they don’t trust you, they won’t.Visibility gets you in front of the right people. Credibility makes you the obvious choice.You don’t have to post content all day. You don’t have to do everything. Yo...
2025-03-12
16 min
Money Making Priorities
#24: How do I grow my service business when my 9-5 job takes up all my time?
"I want to grow my business, but between my 9-5, life, and everything else, I just don’t have the time."We cover how to grow your business even with a ton on your plate. You don’t need more time—you just need a plan.Here’s part of what we covered:💎Start by focusing on high-impact actions like posting where your ideal clients are,💎making sure everyone who already knows you understands your offer, and sharing your availability like a sought-after service provider.Even with just 1 hour a week or 2 focused actions, you can start...
2025-03-10
20 min
Dear Fopsy
Situationships: The Lie You've Been Sold | Situationship Audiobook (Part 3)
If you’ve ever found yourself in a relationship that feels like a relationship—but somehow isn’t—you’re not alone. Grab my book here 👉 https://fopsy.ca/situationship-book. Situationships are everywhere, sold to us as "freedom." But what if real freedom is something completely different? Watch this before you settle for less.If this has resonated with you, trust me—you’ll want to get your hands on the full book! Situationship: How Not to Break Your Own Heart is packed with more insight and guidance. Get your copy here 👉 https://fopsy.ca/situationship-book.Thank you for the support! 💕
2025-03-06
17 min
Dear Fopsy
What Are We Again? The Reality of Situationships | Situationship Audiobook (Part 2)
If you’ve ever felt confused in a situationship, it’s not just in your head—mixed signals create real heartbreak. In this video, I read Chapters 1-3 from my book Situationship: How Not to Break Your Own Heart. 💔 Listen in as we unpack why contradictory words and actions keep you stuck.🎧 Want the full story? Get my book here → https://fopsy.ca/situationship-bookSubscribe on YouTube to join the conversation https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAjYhTGjvaU
2025-02-26
19 min
Dear Fopsy
Why I Kept Ending Up in Situationships (My Story) | Situationship Audiobook (Part 1)
I thought I was self-aware… until I found myself in back-to-back situationships. 😩 In this video, I share my story—how I kept falling into undefined relationships, why I finally woke up, and what led me to write Situationship: How Not to Break Your Own Heart. If you’ve ever felt confused about “what are we?” or been strung along by someone hiding behind spirituality, this is for you. If this resonated with you, the book goes even deeper—grab your copy here:https://fopsy.ca/situationship-book📌 Subscribe & Turn on Notifications—More chapters coming soon!
2025-02-26
10 min
Big Brave Business: Revolutionary Leadership and Entrepreneurship for Millennials with Sarah Heeter
Sales Strategies Based on Human Connection
Sometimes I see a small business owner on Threads post something so evocative and aligned with my core values that I can't help it and I just reach out and invite them on the podcast. That's because with one really high impact post, I can tell that we could have an interesting and big, brave conversation about business. And really, that's the power of leveraging your core values to create human connection online and what my guest today, Fopsy, calls "creating superfans." We are talking all about this on the podcast today--and yes, we met on Threads.
2025-02-25
50 min
CozyPreneur Podcast with Stacy Braga
How to Turn Clients into Superfans, All While Wearing Your Pajamas with Fopsy [Episode 17]
Host: Stacy Braga, Copywriter + StrategistDescription In this episode of The Cozypreneur Podcast, I chat with business coach Fope Nkwocha (aka Fopsy) about how to turn your clients into loyal super fans. We dive into the power of building strong client relationships, the role of storytelling in business, and why sales skills are just as important as marketing. Fopsy shares actionable tips on cultivating super fans, fostering trust, and using feedback to create a standout customer experience.Whether you’re looking to boost client retention, grow your business sustainably, or infuse more personality int...
2025-01-24
23 min
Money Making Priorities
#23: How to Set Realistic Income Goals for 2025 (Without Feeling Overwhelmed)
Book a free consultation to work with me 1:1 as your business coach Fopsy.ca/call Setting income goals for the new year can feel daunting—but it doesn’t have to. In this episode, I share a simple, actionable approach to setting realistic goals that you can actually achieve without the stress. P.S: If you’re ready to stop feeling overwhelmed and start hitting your income goals with clarity and confidence, book a free sales call with me today. We’ll identify the next steps for your business, prioritize income-generating activities, and create a realistic plan for h...
2025-01-15
12 min
Money Making Priorities
#22: Why Most Service Providers Fail to Hit Their Income Goals (And How to Avoid It)
Book a free consultation to work with me 1:1 as your business coach Fopsy.ca/call Many service providers spend too much time on tasks that don’t bring in clients or income. In this episode, I break down: ✅ The difference between busy work and results work.✅ Why the first 12 weeks of the year are critical for your success.✅ The key activities that actually grow your business and hit your income goals. Book a free call to work with me 1:1 as your business coach to confidently sell high-ticket offers and attra...
2025-01-13
11 min
Money Making Priorities
#21: What If Sounding “Salesy" Isn’t the Problem?
Book a sales call to work with 1:1 as your business coach to confidently sell high-ticket offers and attract the right clients for your business Fopsy.ca/call. In this episode, we’re talking about one of the biggest roadblocks for service-based entrepreneurs: the fear of sounding “salesy”. But what if that’s not the real issue holding you back? We unpack seven core fears that are keeping you from confidently selling your offers and attracting high-ticket clients. Here’s what we cover: Fear of Judgment: What will they think of me? Fear of Rejection: What...
2024-11-20
40 min
Money Making Priorities
#20: Can Your Business Coach Deliver? How much do Certifications, Experience, and Client Success Matter
Learn more about how to work with Fope at fopsy.ca/call. In this episode, we delve into how to evaluate a business coach’s ability to deliver results. We discuss the importance of certifications, relevant experience, and client success stories, providing you with the tools to make an informed decision on your coaching journey.
2024-10-09
20 min
Money Making Priorities
#19: What to Expect from a Business Coach (and What Not To)
Learn more about how to work with Fope at fopsy.ca/call. This episode clarifies what you can and can’t expect from a business coach. We cover key aspects of the coaching relationship, including the responsibilities of a coach and the importance of setting realistic expectations. Equip yourself with the knowledge to navigate your coaching experience effectively.
2024-10-09
10 min
Money Making Priorities
#18: How to Choose a Business Coach: Questions to Ask to Get Clear on Your Business' Problems / Needs
Learn more about how to work with Fope at fopsy.ca/call. In this episode, we explore essential questions to ask when choosing a business coach, helping you identify the specific challenges you face and the support you need. Discover how to evaluate potential coaches and ensure they align with your goals, setting the stage for success in your entrepreneurial journey.
2024-10-09
21 min
Money Making Priorities
#17: How to Get 5 New Clients in 12 weeks [For Service Providers]
My 1:1 Coaching, Money-Making Priorities is officially open for Q4 bookings! 📅 Book your call by September 27 https://fopsy.ca/call If you’re ready to secure 5 clients in the next 12 weeks and end the year on a high note, now’s your chance. 📅 Book your call by September 27 (https://fopsy.ca/call) , and I’ll include a 30-day sprint to help you sign your first $10K client faster than you thought possible, plus a bonus 1:1 session to fine-tune your outreach strategy. Spots are limited, so don’t miss this opportunity to close out Q4 strong. Watch the replay now and let’s make it...
2024-09-13
43 min
Money Making Priorities
#16: What If I Can't Afford A Business Coach?
Investing in coaching can feel daunting, especially if money is tight. I get it—I’ve been there myself. In this episode we talk about priorities and how to make peace with your decision - to invest or not to invest. P.S: If you're a service provider aiming to secure 5 more high-ticket clients (four-figure offers or more) in the next 12 weeks, my 1:1 Money-Making Priorities coaching is what you need. Together, we’ll not only plan but execute the essential marketing, sales, and mindset strategies that will grow your business and ensure you always know w...
2024-09-10
13 min
Money Making Priorities
#15: How to Invest in Coaching Wisely, Even After a Bad Experience
If you’ve ever invested in a coach who didn’t live up to your expectations, you’re not alone—I’ve been there too. After a disappointing coaching experience, I had to rethink my approach to hiring coaches. This episode is about what I’ve learned and how it can help you make better investment decisions moving forward. If you’re considering working with me, know that I’m dedicated to ensuring you get a return on your investment. My Money-Making Priorities program is designed to help you gain 5 new clients in just 12 weeks by focusin...
2024-09-10
22 min
Money Making Priorities
#14: Why All That Work Isn’t Getting You Clients: 100 Busy Work Habits Holding You Back
Today, I reveal how busy work kept me from getting clients and how I eventually broke free from that cycle. In the early days, I focused so much on things I thought would help me get clients that I failed to realize I was engaging in tasks that didn’t move the needle. Here’s what I was caught up in: Endless Website Edits: I spent hours tweaking my website, believing that a perfect site would attract clients. But it was just a distraction from actual client acquisition. Overanalyzing Social Media: I obsessively crea...
2024-09-10
56 min
Money Making Priorities
#13: The Turning Point for me: Why Every Business Needs a Coach
I want to share a personal story with you about why I believe every business needs a coach. This journey transformed my approach to business, and I hope it can shed some light on why a coach might be the missing piece for you, too. In Part 2, I’ll dive into how I was caught up in busy work, mistaking it for progress, and how I eventually realized the difference between real work and mere activity. It goes up to Part 4 (What if I can't afford a business coach) Stay tuned. ...
2024-09-10
20 min
Money Making Priorities
#12: How to Talk to Customers & Learn If Your Business Is a Good Idea When Everyone Is Lying to You
Ever wonder if your business idea or offer will actually sell? In this episode, I dive deep into how to validate your solution by talking to real customers. Spoiler: It’s not about asking for opinions—it’s about uncovering real problems and opportunities! This is how to do market research like a pro, based on Rob Fitzpatrick's book "The Mom Test". Key takeaways: How to approach customer conversations like a pro The exact questions you should ask (and avoid!) Preparing your mindset for calls that lead to results Why getting customer feedback early saves you time a...
2024-09-05
17 min
Money Making Priorities
#11: How to Pitch to Anyone and Get a Response: Mastering Cold Emails
What if instead of aiming for 1-3% response rate you could get 90%? In this episode, I share actionable strategies for mastering the art of cold emailing and pitching to anyone (and getting a response). Learn how to: Personalize your emails by showing your recipients you know them. Craft compelling subject lines that get your emails opened. Make your emails about them, not you. Keep your pitch clear, concise, and compelling. Use follow-ups effectively to increase your response rate. Plus, I share my personal success story of making $1,200 from my gift box business before ever posting on...
2024-08-21
15 min
The Thriving Immigrant
Focusing on Money-Making Priorities In Canada
Fope Nkwocha moved to Canada at sixteen as an international student, facing numerous challenges along the way. After a successful stint as a Product Manager at Google, she founded her own business consulting firm, coaching small business owners in Canada. She's also an adjunct professor at Mohawk College and the founder of the community "Small and Thriving." In this episode, Fope and I discuss: Her immigration journey Her experience at Google Sales and Marketing tips for business owners Common mistakes new business owners make and how to avoid them. Join us to hear...
2024-08-06
42 min
Money Making Priorities
#10: How to Overcome Pricing Anxiety and Attract High-Paying Clients
Are you struggling to confidently charge what you’re worth? Whether you’re a coach, or service provider pricing anxiety can hold you back from attracting the high-paying clients you deserve. In this episode, we dive deep into how to conquer that pricing fear and start pulling in clients who value your worth. You’ll learn: Shift Your Focus from Competition to Value: Learn how to identify your unique selling points and measure the real impact of your services, so you can stop comparing yourself to others and start showcasing what makes you special. The "Sell Yourse...
2024-07-27
28 min
Money Making Priorities
#9 How to Overcome Shiny Object Syndrome: Stop Chasing New Marketing Tactics & Make Money
You know how you listen to a podcast with a mind-blowing success story or hear about a new platform everyone's raving about, and suddenly you can't sleep until you try it? Yeah, that's Shiny Object Syndrome hitting. But what if you're stuck in a cycle of jumping from tactic to tactic, never seeing results? In this episode, we'll dive deep into overcoming Shiny Object Syndrome and how to stop hopping, start focusing, and finally achieve those money-making goals. This struggle is exactly what my 1:1 coaching program, Money-Making Priorities, helps service providers and...
2024-07-17
23 min
How Does That Sound?
We'll be back in June
The hosts of the How Does That Sound podcast are taking a month-long break. Before the hiatus, Lerit and Tobi discuss their key takeaways from recent guests.Learn more about those guests here:Fope Nkwocha- Watch the episode with Fope: https://youtu.be/92Fma47K8Wo- Connect with Fope on LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/fope-nkwocha/) and Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/fopsythegreat/)- Listen to Fope’s podcast “Dear Fopsy” here: https://open.spotify.com/show/0WaZFNpffeJ3ViQ4rIgo8O Joshua...
2024-05-08
51 min
Money Making Priorities
#8 How to Deal with Social Media Overwhelm as a Small Business
Is the constant pressure of maintaining a social media presence and online marketing strategy causing overwhelm? This episode offers practical steps for simplifying your approach and making social media and online marketing work for you. Join the waitlist for Superfans Club: Download the Free Guide: 100 Free Content Ideas Fope Nkwocha, Small Business Coach & Consultant Grow Your Small Business with Clarity. Stop the random marketing! We help you unify your message, attract loyal customers, and grow your revenue. For consulting, content creation & workshops - visit https://smallandthriving.com/ Follow @smallandthriivng on Instagram Subscribe to Small Business Savvy
2024-04-18
30 min
Money Making Priorities
#7 Small Business Secrets: Why You're the Backbone of the Economy (and How to Win!)
Calling all aspiring and existing small business owners! In this episode of Small and Thriving we'll explore the crucial role SMBs play in the global economy and why you are essential for a thriving marketplace. Here's what you'll learn in this episode: The surprising impact of small businesses on the economy. What defines a small business (and are you one)? Key challenges faced by small businesses today. Actionable tips to overcome those challenges and achieve success. How to leverage your unique position as a small business owner. Fope Nkwocha, Small Business Coach & Consultant Grow...
2024-04-16
15 min
How Does That Sound?
The realities of running a small business w/ Fope Nkwocha
Fope Nkwocha joins Lerit and Tobi to have a candid conversation about running a small business, targeting the right audience, and balancing corporate life with entrepreneurship.----About Fope: Fope Nkwocha is a true mult-hyphenate. Currently serving as a professor of marketing for small businesses at Mohawk College, Fope has cultivated a wealth of experience that extends beyond traditional academia.As a marketing consultant, content creator, and small business educator, Fope specializes in navigating the intricate intersection of business growth, personal stories, and love and relationships.
2024-03-20
53 min
Money Making Priorities
#6 How to know if your business idea is any good
You know how there’s a difference between someone telling you something is a good idea and them putting money where their mouth is? Well, The Mom Test could be handy in getting honest feedback on your ideas. Listen and share your Thoughts.💭: What’s your experience with figuring out if there’s demand for what you create?💭 Thoughts?💭: What’s your experience with figuring out if there’s demand for what you create?💭 Learn more about my work as a Small Business Coach and Consultant at www.fopsy.ca and follow me on Ins...
2024-03-14
01 min
Dear Fopsy
What Does Wellness Look Like for Ambitious But Stressed Women? Ft Natalie Mullin
One moment, life is chaotic, but going okay, you think. The next, your husband is asking for a divorce out of the blue. Discover how this experience shaped Natalie and propelled her toward seeking a well-rounded life, while helping other ambitious yet stressed women do the same. Dear Fopsy is back with new episodes! Make sure to subscribe here and follow on podcast platforms. If any part of this resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you in a comment. Get in touch with our guest Natalie Mullin Here’s her website https://www.nataliemullin.com/ Her Podc...
2024-02-05
1h 03
Dear Fopsy
How Tobi Oluwole Earned $1.2M Creating Content on Linkedin | Personal Branding & Entrepreneurship
According to Tobi Oluwole, here's the #1 formula to remember: Content = Attention Attention = Traffic Traffic = Revenue Revenue = Freedom And he knows what he's talking about. From a boss who didn't like that, he was doing so much on Linkedin to another company where his content accelerated his career - he got promoted because of his visibility, got to speak at events, and more to now being able to earn (a really good) full-time income from his content. In this episode: How to accelerate your growth as a content creator, expert, or influencer. Tobi...
2024-02-05
43 min
Money Making Priorities
#5 How to Market Your Small Business WITHOUT Social Media
Are you familiar with the concept of ecosystem marketing? I read "The Widest Net," a book by Pamela Slim about finding new customers by building relationships and finding partners who serve your audience in other ways. My favourite part is that it's not aggressive - not like Twitter bro marketing. Unlike a lot of the "best practices" for lead generation that can come across as a bit too aggressive, or the super passive social media approach of build it and they'll come, this one feels natural. Pamela Slim's method is essentially a long-term play that involves building...
2023-12-08
22 min
Money Making Priorities
#4 How to Reach More Customers During the Holidays
The holiday season is the perfect opportunity for small e-commerce businesses to shine and connect with their ideal customers. In this episode, we'll explore practical strategies to promote your holiday offers and reach more customers. Looking for tailored content marketing advice? Schedule a 1:1 consultation with me to refine your strategy. Let's make this holiday season your best one yet. Learn more about Small and Thriving and how we can support your content marketing https://smallandthriving.com/ Follow @smallandthriving on Instagram Subscribe to Small Business Savvy the free newsletter Rewatch the Holiday Marketing Masterclass
2023-09-29
14 min
Money Making Priorities
#3: How to Find and Understand Your Target Audience so Your Marketing Resonates
The best way to really make sure your marketing is going to resonate is to think of who you’re marketing to. Hint: It’s not everybody. Join the Waitlist for the FREE Holiday Marketing Masterclass. https://fopsy.ca/holiday-marketing-101 Get your small business set up for a successful holiday season with strategy and accountability. Today's episode is about knowing how to reach your target audience so that you can create products they want and market them in a way that makes sense. Connect with Fope Nkwocha @smallandthriving https://www.instagram.co...
2023-09-08
29 min
Money Making Priorities
#2 Fix Your Goal Setting With This
Join the Waitlist for the FREE Holiday Marketing Masterclass. https://fopsy.ca/holiday-marketing-101 Get your small business set up for a successful holiday season with strategy and accountability. Everybody tells you to set goals but they don’t tell you that it doesn’t end there. Listen to this episode as we go through goal setting and what it actually takes to increase the chances of success. Connect with Fope Nkwocha @smallandthriving https://www.instagram.com/smallandthriving/ Small Business Savvy newsletter Contact Fope: https://fopsy.ca/contact Referen...
2023-09-07
15 min
The Business Mindset Podcast
Building Successful Businesses as a Multi-Hyphenate with Fope Nkwocha
In our latest episode, we chat with Fope Nkwocha, a content creator, podcast host, small business marketing strategist, and ex-Google SMB lead. She talks about running multiple businesses, the challenges of niching down as a multi-hyphenate, and helping small business owners work on their businesses. Watch the full video on Youtube: https://youtu.be/2lm2QySWcrA Connect With Us! Follow the podcast on Instagram: @tbm_pod. Follow Fope Nkwocha on Instagram: @fopysthegreat, and check out her podcast Dear Fopsy! This podcast is brought to you by SoPlugged, a search-friendly directory of Black-owned businesses in Canada.
2023-08-28
58 min
Dear Fopsy
Free Yourself to be "Cringe"
What would happen if you stopped being afraid of looking stupid? If you just expressed your gifts and talents fully and showed up as your full self. 🤝🏽 More from me: 📒 Here's my book : Situationship: How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart https://www.dearfopsy.com/store 🤳🏽Follow on Instagram: Me @fopsythegreat + the pod @dearfopsy ✔️ Please Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@fopsythegreat ⭐ Please Leave a review or rating where you listen 📧 To get in touch, email me at dearfopsy@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dear-fopsy/message
2023-06-23
08 min
Dear Fopsy
Holy Girl Summer
Navigating Purity and Boundaries in Dating Relationships. Join us as we discover what purity means beyond saving sex for marriage and explore the importance of honouring God, disciplining yourself, and honouring your partner. We'll address real questions like dealing with discomfort when your husband has a female friend, navigating physical touch as your love language while abstaining from sex, and managing the attention your partner receives from others. Tune in for practical advice, tips on setting boundaries, and insights on fostering a thriving relationship grounded in faith. Get my book here: Situationship: How to Stop...
2023-06-16
27 min
Money Making Priorities
#1 How to Survive Inflation as a Small Business
7 Ways Small-Business Owners Can Cope with Inflation. Don't forget to follow and leave a rating. 00:00 - Intro 00:19 1. Review and adjust pricing 01:14 Focus on the customer 03: 26 Dig into your data (80/20 rule) 05:21 Negotiate with your suppliers 06:42 Optimize your Inventory Management 07:42 Improve Productivity with technology 08:32: Consider Strategic Promotions Watch as a video on Youtube: https://youtu.be/YPhkgRs_gEE #sidehustle #howtomakemoneyonline
2023-06-10
11 min
Dear Fopsy
Are you ready to date?
How to know you're ready to date as a Christian. Get my book here: Situationship: How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart https://www.dearfopsy.com/store This is the continuation to a series on How to date as a Christian. It'll be based on boundless.org's guides: A Girl's Guide to marrying well & A Guy's Guide to Marrying Well (download here for free). POV: You're Bold About Your Desire for Marriage In today's episode, we covered part of "Intentionality", and what it means to prepare to date in a godly way, how to pick...
2023-06-09
18 min
Dear Fopsy
Are you not tired of Situationships?
Why are you having relationship drama with someone you're not even dating ?! In this episode we talk about situationships - kinda like a relationship but without the commitment of a title, and with a lot more stress. Then I answer 2 questions: one from someone getting over a 6-year relationship where he wasn't ready to settle down, and another where she wants to know early signs that he'll commit Book Recommendations*: Situationship: How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart : https://www.dearfopsy.com/store The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy Keller - https://amzn.to/3KbFGZG Preparing for Marriage: Help for...
2023-06-03
27 min
Dear Fopsy
POV: You’re bold about your desire for marriage
Or as I like to say: "If you want to marry, say it with your chest". Get my book here: Situationship: How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart https://www.dearfopsy.com/store This is the introduction to a series on How to date as a Christian. It'll be based on boundless.org's guides: A Girl's Guide to marrying well & A Guy's Guide to Marrying Well (download here for free). In today's episode we covered part of "Intentionality", what it means to live live you're planning to marry (instead of just hoping for it and "seeing if it comes") and...
2023-06-02
30 min
Dear Fopsy
Money & Marriage: How to handle Money Matters Before and After 'I Do'?
When it comes to money, most of us are figuring it out as we go. Do you know what else we're figuring out as we go? Marriage. So what's it like when you're figuring both out at the same time? Today, I'm joined by Fikayo Usman of @fixitfinance to talk about all things Money, Marriage and Mortality. It got so good, I already know Fikayo will be back to keep the conversation going. Listen for an honest conversation about paying off debt, learning about personal finance, book recommendations to get good with money, figuring out how to manage giving money...
2023-05-19
1h 09
Dear Fopsy
The Fun Side of Marriage: Abisola Shof on Marriage 10 Years Later, Change, and Keeping it Fun
Talked to Abisola Shof from @theshofs on this episode! We discussed Marriage 10 Years Later, spouses going bald 👀, Family Finances when one spouse pursues a high-risk high reward dream, dealing with the different seasons of marriage, and keeping it fun when life is life-ing 🤩 The Shofs are not just fun on Instagram, but also inspirational and transparent about their marriage on YouTube. Don't sleep on their other content! Follow them around the web. 00:00 Intro 1:05 Meet Abisola Shof 4:31 Marriage Models? 9:36 How the Shofs met 12:27 Has Marriage always been fun? ...
2023-05-12
49 min
Dear Fopsy
Building a Fresh Start in Canada: David Ojeyinka's Untold Journey of Resilience
David Ojeyinka has spoken to over 150 senior leaders of immigrant descent on his podcast about their journeys, but you haven't heard his story of resilience in moving from Nigeria to Canada. And what a story it is! I sat with my friend, an inspirational speaker and embodiment of resilience, to talk through the highs, lows, and lessons learned on his journey of building a fresh start in Canada. One of my favourite parts of this episode is where he credits his transformation from naivety to becoming wise and visionary to simply believing God. It sounds very ordinary but something...
2023-05-05
1h 21
Dear Fopsy
"I never knew I'd live till 50" -Mrs Busola Arimoro on Living with Sickle Cell Anaemia
Mrs. Busola Arimoro shares her story of life with Sickle Cell Disease - from her childhood and faith to living with chronic illness, finding love, and navigating marriage and childbearing with Sickle Cell Anaemia. I am honoured by Aunty Busola’s generosity in sharing her journey, and I know her story of resilience will inspire you. 00:00 Intro 1:30 Meet Aunty Busola 2:19 Early Life 11:13 Life with Sickle Cell Disease 19:54 The Financial Burden 💰of Sickle Cell Disease 25:22 Life Expectancy with Sickle Cell - turning 50 32:31 Believing God is a Healer - while living with a Chronic Illness 48:15 Dating with Sickle Cell 52:15 Marriage with Sickl...
2023-04-28
1h 32
Dear Fopsy
She’s Skeptical About Marriage
"With all the horror stories I keep hearing, I'm skeptical about marriage." So I was at @thebuilders.church a couple of weeks ago, and this question came up. I decided to dive deeper into this question in this episode. 0:00 First Things First 0:22 Speaking at Builders Church (@) 1:08 Learn the Principles 2:54 Learn the Purpose of Marriage 5:04 Yield to the Process 10:01 Book Recommendations on Godly Marriage And yes, this is a bonus episode, because why not? 🤝🏽 Enjoying this podcast? Here's how to support & get in touch: ⭐ Leave a review or rating here 💗 Share episodes that resonate to your social story & with friends (tag me @dearfopsy...
2023-04-19
13 min
Dear Fopsy
What happens when it's not "happily ever after"?
What happens when it's not happily ever after? Sometimes we act like relationships are formulaic- and I'm guilty of sharing lots of those formulas- but it's not always "do this, do that, and it'll be smooth sailing". Life happens, infertility happens, and past trauma pops up. So what do you do then? Today I'm sharing 2 stories of people navigating adversity and finding joy in spite of it 🤝🏽 Enjoying this podcast? Here's how to support & get in touch: ⭐ Leave a review or rating here 💗 Share episodes that resonate to your social story & with friends (tag me @dearfopsy / @fopsythegreat) ✔️ Subscribe on Yo...
2023-04-14
21 min
Dear Fopsy
Man like Obi: Igbo-Yoruba Marriage, Life's Delays, plus the Beauty of Marriage
My husband, Obi, and I have a candid chat about our cross-cultural Nigerian marriage, growing up, building confidence, and dealing with unexpected delays. He also dishes out advice to younger men and we share our favourite things about marriage. Don't miss out on this personal and entertaining conversation :) 0:00 Let’s Get into it 1:25 Meet Obi 3:08 He’s Igbo, I’m Yoruba 11:40 Growing Up 18:21 Building Confidence & An unexpected Delay 26:35 What makes some men mature and others stuck in childhood 47:10 What Brought you to Canada 🇨🇦 54:19 Advice to Younger Men 57:50 What’s the Best Part of Marriage 🤝🏽 Enjoying this podcas...
2023-04-07
1h 01
Dear Fopsy
When Should You SETTLE for Mr Good Enough? ft Kome
On this episode, Kome & I chat about modern Christian dating. We talk about where “specs” come from (aka your list), unmarried Christian women having babies solo through IVF, the balancing act of settling for Mr. Good Enough, and the struggles of women wanting to be pampered but meeting great men who make less than them. Our guest, Kome, shares her insights and experiences. We also highlight the value of finding a supportive community. Tune in for this thought-provoking episode filled with advice and inspiration on navigating modern relationships. 🤝🏽 Enjoying this podcast? Here's how to support & get in touch: ⭐ Leave a review or ra...
2023-02-10
1h 01
Dear Fopsy
How will I live if I can’t marry?
How to deal with the agonizing loneliness of singleness as a Christian. This one’s for the days when you’re sick and tired of being single- feeling frustrated towards God and not sure life is worth living. Based on a real story from boundless.org & Candice Watters’ response. 🤝🏽 Enjoying this podcast? Here's how to support & get in touch: ⭐ Leave a review or rating here 💗 Share episodes that resonate to your social story & with friends (tag me @dearfopsy / @fopsythegreat) ✔️ Subscribe on YouTube for more relationship advice 📝 Write to me with your relationship concerns or leave me a voice note at dearfopsy...
2023-02-03
25 min
Dear Fopsy
How to Love Your Wife: What Women Wish Men Knew About Marriage
How do you love your wife like Christ loved the church? In this episode, we talk through the practical ways that men can show love to their wives. We also address the difficult question of what to do when your wife doesn't respect you. Previous episodes referenced: The Ultimate Guide to Loving Your Man: Part 1 How to Love Your Man: What They Don't Tell You About Loving Your Man - Part 2 🤝🏽 Enjoying this podcast? Here's how to support & get in touch: ⭐ Leave a review or rating here 💗 Share episodes that resonate to your social story & with...
2023-01-27
25 min
Dear Fopsy
The Ultimate Guide to Loving Your Man: - Part 2
How do you actually show love and respect for your man? It feels weird to be taught how to love your husband because that's something that should come naturally, right? But, what if as a woman, your definition of love is so fundamentally different from what men want, that your acts of love aren't being translated accurately to him? This "How to Love Your Man" 2-part series is inspired by Pastor Godman Akinlabi's Mr & Mrs Better Half. I'm sharing his words (from his experience as a counsellor, pastor, and husband of 20 years) while reflecting on them as a millennial married...
2023-01-20
14 min
Dear Fopsy
The Ultimate Guide to Loving Your Man: Part 1
It feels weird to be taught how to love your husband because that's something that should come naturally, right? But, what if as a woman, your definition of love is so fundamentally different from what men want, that your acts of love aren't being translated accurately to him? This "How to Love Your Man" 2-part series is inspired by Pastor Godman Akinlabi's Mr & Mrs Better Half. I'm sharing his words (from his experience as a counsellor, pastor, and husband of 20 years) while reflecting on them as a millennial married woman. You'll get actionable, practical and biblical ways to learn...
2023-01-18
18 min
Dear Fopsy
Saving Sex For Marriage? "How Far is Too Far" is the Wrong Question
How far is too far when you're dating? Sure you have boundaries, but are they working? Here's an alternative to the "how far is too far" question that challenges you to rethink why you're dating for so long that you need to dance around sex for years. Also, a moment of vulnerability about the #real struggles when saving sex for marriage. Body no be firewood 😭 🤝🏽 Enjoying this podcast? Here's how to support & get in touch: ⭐ Leave a review or rating here 💗 Share episodes that resonate to your social story & with friends (tag me @dearfopsy / @fopsythegreat) ✔️ Subscribe on YouTube for more...
2023-01-11
18 min
Dear Fopsy
I’m Falling for 2 People, I don’t know which one to choose
Are you torn between two amazing people and don't know how to choose? In this episode, we'll go over some key points to consider as you navigate this difficult choice: Don’t String them along How to seek guidance from the Holy Spirit when deciding who to marry. How to gather enough information about each person you’re considering? Why there’s no such thing as “the one” How to actually decide between two great people you’re interested in? 🤝🏽 Enjoying this podcast? Here's how to support & get in touch: ⭐ Leave a review or rating here 💗 Share episodes that resonate to your social story...
2022-12-16
19 min
Dear Fopsy
How To Answer Awkward Questions During The Holidays
Re-connecting with family and friends during the holidays sometimes comes with awkward questions about your job, relationship status, weight, or plans for kids. It's best to be prepared. So you don't get caught off guard. Instead of choosing violence, here are some ways to navigate hard conversations with family and friends during your visits with family. 🔖 Work with our sponsor Emaege Studio for your graphic design, website design, & Audiovisual production needs 🤝🏽 Enjoying this podcast? Here's how to support & get in touch: ⭐ Leave a review or rating here 💗 Share episodes that resonate to your social story & with friends (tag me...
2022-12-09
08 min
Dear Fopsy
Relationship Green Flags 💚
Every time, you hear about relationship red flags 🚩 . How about Relationship green flags 💚? What are some early signs that you’ve met someone worth dating? Well, that’s what this episode is about. Listen, enjoy and share! 🔖 Work with our sponsor Emaege Studio for your graphic design, website design, & Audiovisual production needs 🤝🏽 Enjoying this podcast? Here's how to support & get in touch: ⭐ Leave a review or rating here 💗 Share episodes that resonate to your social story & with friends (tag me @dearfopsy / @fopsythegreat) 📝 Write to me with your relationship concerns or leave me a voice note at dearfopsy.com/ask 📒 Buy M...
2022-11-25
25 min
Dear Fopsy
My boyfriend wouldn't tell me his salary, so I ended it
Money should never be a taboo topic with anyone you are merging your life with 📢. Today, we're talking about how to talk about money in dating relationships + this 8-month relationship that ended because he wouldn't share his salary. 🔖 Work with our sponsor Emaege Studio for your graphic design, website design, & Audiovisual production needs 🤝🏽 Enjoying this podcast? Here's how to support & get in touch: ⭐ Leave a review or rating here 💗 Share episodes that resonate to your social story & with friends (tag me @dearfopsy / @fopsythegreat) 📝 Write to me with your relationship concerns or leave me a voice note at dearfopsy.com/ask ...
2022-11-18
27 min
Dear Fopsy
Sexpecations and Sexual Compatibility
If you're saving sex for marriage, how do you know that sex will be good with your partner? Is sexual compatibility a real thing, and how do you test for it if it is? Today's episode features a story from a Christian man who has a sexual history but is marrying a virgin. They're both Christians but he's concerned his fiancee might be asexual. In this episode, I respond to his question, share thoughts on counselling, purity culture, how to talk about your sex expectations and wrap with book recommendations. Enjoy & Share :) 🤝🏽 Enjoying this podcast? Here's how to sup...
2022-10-28
30 min
Dear Fopsy
7 Lessons from the 5 Love Languages
Introducing Dear Fopsy Reads: The one where I read and recap a love and relationship book. Today I share 7 lessons from the 30-year best seller: "The Five Love Languages". Download the guide to go with the episode at: https://www.dearfopsy.com/store/p/5lovelanguages 🤝🏽 Enjoying this podcast? Here's how to support: ⭐ Leave a review or rating here 💗 Share episodes that resonate to your social story & with friends (tag me @dearfopsy / @fopsythegreat) 📝 Write to me with your relationship concerns at dearfopsy.com. You can also leave me a voice message there. 🤳🏽Follow me on Instagram: https...
2022-10-21
32 min
Dear Fopsy
Breaking the Cycle of Divorce
“Dear Fopsy, I come from a line of divorced women, and I think I’m not meant to be happy in love. I’m 33, and I’ve been worried that if I ever get married, my relationship will end in a messy and bitter divorce. I’m engaged and getting married in 2024. “ Today, we’re talking about breaking the cycle of divorce. Overcoming the pain of growing up with divorced parents, breaking generational curses and creating generational joy! 🤝🏽 Enjoying this podcast? Here's how to support: ⭐ Leave a review or rating here 💗 Share episodes that resonate to your social st...
2022-10-07
25 min
Dear Fopsy
Good Girl No Dey Pay O?
Dear Fopsy, Recently, the "good girl no dey pay" sentiment is loud - and seeping into my thinking. Plus it feels like unmarried Christian women are waiting for husbands into their 30s. Any encouragement for me & the community? Tackling this question today on feeling like you're losing, despite doing everything right. Here's some encouragement for anyone who's feeling like life isn't fair right now. #dearFopsy 🤝🏽 Enjoying this podcast? Here's how to support: ⭐ Leave a review or rating here 💗 Share episodes that resonate to your social story & with friends (tag me @dearfopsy / @fopsythegreat) 📝 Write to me with your r...
2022-10-03
21 min
Dear Fopsy
Dear Fopsy Trailer
What if knowing better about love and relationships could help us choose better partners and make us better lovers? Dear Fopsy is a love and relationship blog & podcast that equips you to build thriving relationships! Hosted by Fope Nkwocha, aka Fopsy. Follow along, learn something new, & share what resonates. #dearFopsy 🤝🏽 Enjoying this podcast? Here's how to support: ⭐ Leave a review or rating here 💗 Share episodes that resonate to your social story & with friends (tag me @dearfopsy / @fopsythegreat) 📝 Write to me with your relationship concerns at dearfopsy.com/ask . You can also leave me a voice message...
2022-10-02
00 min
Dear Fopsy
Tired of Swiping Left? Consider Matchmaking
What if friends, family, or paid matchmaking could help you find a date worth keeping? In this episode, I share 5 Reasons to Let Your Friends Play Matchmaker. Listen and come over to Youtube to join the conversation! 🤝🏽 Here's how to Support Me: ⭐ Leave a review or rating here ✔️ Please Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/fopenkwocha 🤳🏽Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fopsythegreat 📒 Buy My Book on Amazon (Situationship: How To Stop Breaking Your Own Heart) : https://amzn.to/397XoJE Want to Support Even More? ☕ Buy Me a Coffee: https://www.buyme...
2022-09-09
14 min
Dear Fopsy
How to Spot Financial Abuse in Relationships
So many red flags in dating that if you spot them, can save you a lifetime of stress. Today's #AskFopsy deals with a real Life financial abuse story - Her Husband Makes Her Pay His Debt. Listen and head over to YouTube to add your own advice in the comments: what would you advise her to do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qChPrLojA6k 🤝🏽 Here's how to Support Me: ⭐ Leave a review or rating here ✔️ Please Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/fopsythegreat 🤳🏽Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fopsythegreat 📒 Bu...
2022-08-26
15 min
Dear Fopsy
How and When to share your past with your partner
Your Complete Guide to knowing when to share details of your past with your partner. I know how daunting sharing your past can be, but it's an important part of getting to know each other. I share tips on how to decide if now is a good time to share, and guide you on how to do this with your boyfriend or girlfriend. 🤝🏽 Here's how to Support Me: ✔️Please Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/fopenkwocha 🤳🏽Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fopsythegreat 📒 Buy My Book on Amazon (Situationship: How To Stop Breaking You...
2022-08-05
09 min
Dear Fopsy
So you want to Date a Not-too-Christian Guy?👀
Christian guys are boring, so your dating preference is "Christian, with a bit of hood". Let's talk about it real quick. 🤝🏽 Here's how to Support Me: ✔️Please Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/fopenkwocha 🤳🏽Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fopsythegreat 📒 Buy My Book on Amazon (Situationship: How To Stop Breaking Your Own Heart) : https://amzn.to/397XoJE Want to Support Even More? ☕ Buy Me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/fope 🔖 Consult with Emaege Studio for your graphics, website, & Audio visual production needs - https://www.emaegestudio.com/
2022-07-29
03 min
Dear Fopsy
How to Politely Ask to Pick Someone's Brain
How to ask to pick someone's brain, via DM, e-mail, and not get ignored. These are 7 tips to consider. ⏰Timestamps 00:00 7 Do’s and Don’ts of Networking 00:17 #1 Soften Them Up 1:50 #2 Get Specific 3:26 #3 Instead of “Can I Pick Your Brain” 4:10 #4 Make it Easy to Say “Yes” 4:57 #5 How to Bring Value to a Mentor 7:29 #6 Keep it Short and Sweet 8:02 #7 Be willing to Pay for Coaching Services 8:33 How to Thank Me 👏🏾 🤝🏽 Here's how to Support Me: ✔️Please Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/fopenkwocha 🤳🏽Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fopsythegreat 📒 Buy My Book on Amazon (Situationship: How To Stop...
2022-07-05
09 min
Dear Fopsy
Should You Have Joint or Separate Accounts in Marriage?
Talking about money in marriage comes down to one question about your philosophy of what marriage is. Listen to this to help you answer: Should You Have Joint or Separate Accounts in a Marriage. 00:00 Money Should Not be Where we Draw The Line 00:51 Why Talking About Money is Hard 2:52 Joint and Separate Accounts? #SteveHarvey 3:57 What if one person makes more? 4:58 Other Questions to Consider 5:45 About “Oneness” 8:10 Ask this before you get married 8:46 Should you join your accounts when getting married? 9:42 Joint Accounts are Scary 10:12 Getting Help 🤝🏽 Here's how to Support Me: ✔️Please Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.yout...
2022-06-24
11 min
Dear Fopsy
She Wants to Know How to Stop Attracting Broke Christian Guys
My counter question is Does it matter if He's Broke? ⏱Timestamps 0:00 She’s Always Attracting Broke Christian Men 2:44 A lot of us start out broke 3:13 Broke but not Vision-less? 5:31 My Husband and I’s Journey 8:00 How to Attract The Kind of Man You’re Looking For 9:34 More urgent things to consider Here's the "Parole 101: A Christian Guide to Toasting" by Pastor Emmanuel Iren I referenced https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1-u_jqcldQ 🤝🏽 Here's how to Support Me: ✔️Please Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/fopenkwocha 🤳🏽Follow me on Instagram: https://www...
2022-06-22
12 min
Dear Fopsy
How to Find a Job When You Don't Know What You Want Next
Looking for a new job but not sure what you want next? Here's a framework for figuring out what to do next when you're feeling stuck in your career or unsure of what's next. Inspired by this article from Harvard Business Review: https://hbr.org/2022/01/finding-a-job-when-you-dont-know-what-you-want-to-do-next Want to Support Me? Please Subscribe & Share this episode to your story Buy Me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/fope
2022-05-27
11 min
Dear Fopsy
What to do if your Boyfriend Feels Intimidated by You | Introducing Ask Fopsy
Gauge my response to a real question from my DM about considering playing small because the guy thinks "his family" won't like her ambition. In this video, I share my advice on whether or not to compromise in a relationship. This is the launch of #AskFopsy ! You can e-mail me / DM your questions to fopsydee@gmail.com and I'll likely answer them live in an episode. Prefer Video? Watch on my YouTube Channel (and please Subscribe)
2022-02-08
12 min
Dear Fopsy
Getting More Out Life
This episode was inspired by lessons from 2021, Pastor Nomthi's life and mantra #EnjoyYourLife, as well as a video Tosin Alabi created. Listen and enjoy.
2022-01-25
12 min