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My Friend the FriarThe Blessed Virgin: Mother, Model, and Mediator (Season 3 Episode 39)Send us a textFather Stephen and John dive deep into Chapter 8 of Lumen Gentium, exploring Mary's unique role in salvation history and addressing common misconceptions about Catholic Marian devotion.• Mary's maternal role toward humanity doesn't diminish Christ's unique mediation but shows its power• All Mary's influence originates from divine pleasure, not necessity, and depends entirely on Christ• Mary is intimately united with the Church as both an exemplar and mother in the order of grace• The Council distinguishes between veneration of Mary and worship of God• True Marian devotion leads to imitati...
2025-06-1659 minMy Friend the FriarSuffering, Faith, and Mary's Enduring InfluenceSend us a textIn this episode, Father Stephen brings his profound insights into how aligning our struggles with Christ's can be a transformative experience, offering both psychological relief and spiritual growth. Together, we explore the idea that suffering, while difficult, can be a path to deeper faith and redemption.We also look to Mary, the ultimate example of steadfast faith and unwavering commitment, as a source of inspiration. Delving into the pivotal events of her life, such as the Nativity and the Presentation in the Temple, we reflect on her openness to God's plan...
2025-02-1443 minMy Friend the FriarMary's Spiritual Significance in the Pilgrim ChurchSend us a textCan understanding the role of Mary change your perspective on the Church? Join me and Father Stephen Sanchez as we navigate the profound teachings of Lumen Gentium, focusing on the essential yet often misunderstood role of Mary. We promise this exploration will deepen your appreciation of the Church's spiritual dimensions and unveil how integral Mary is to the narrative of salvation. You'll also hear updates on my mother's health journey, a personal testament to the enduring nature of faith and resilience.We delve into Mary's pivotal role in salvation history and...
2025-01-1751 minMy Friend the FriarExploring the Universal Call to HolinessSend us a textJoin us for an engaging conversation with Father Stephen Sanchez, a Discalced Carmelite priest, who recently attended a Congress meeting in Boston. Father Stephen shares his experiences, from the joyful talks on the saints of Carmel to the camaraderie of the event. We even get a peek into the meticulous organization of his expansive library and introduce a new podcast feature that lets you, our listeners, send messages directly to us.In our exploration of holiness, we dissect vital documents like Pope Pius XI's Casti Connubii and the Second Vatican Council's...
2024-09-1357 minMy Friend the FriarThe Priesthood of the LaitySend us a textIn this episode, we dive deep into the critical role of the laity within the Church, inspired by Lumen Gentium. We discuss how both men and women are essential to the Church's mission, working alongside clergy and religious members. Our discussion touches on the importance of collaboration, mutual respect for different vocations, and the dangers of clericalism. With the backdrop of today’s internet-driven world of strong opinions, we emphasize the need for diverse perspectives and a mature approach to faith and life.This episode also brings to light the powerful mi...
2024-09-0657 minMy Friend the FriarThe Primacy of Christ in the Catholic ChurchSend us a textIn this episode, Father Stephen and John discuss the centrality of Christ in the Church and its mission as a sacrament of God's love. Drawing insights from Sacrosanctum Concilium and theologians like St. Cyprian, they explore how the Church, as the new Eve born from Christ's side, aims to unify believers. They also tackle the complexities of getting involved in church communities, especially for introverts. The conversation sheds light on the challenges and rewards of community engagement, referencing the ecclesiology and pneumatology from the Second Vatican Council's documents like Lumen Gentium. F...
2024-08-3055 minMy Friend the FriarLumen Gentium and The Mystery of the ChurchSend us a textIn this episode, John and Father Stephen explore Pope John XXIII's vision of the Pilgrim Church as detailed in Lumen Gentium, emphasizing the Church's ongoing mission away from a triumphalist view. They reflect on the veneration of saints, with a special focus on Mary, and how these practices weave into the Church's mission toward unity with God and humanity. They discuss Christ’s role as the light of nations and how the Church acts as a beacon and instrument of divine unity.What role does the Holy Spirit play in the Ch...
2024-08-2350 minMy Friend the FriarVatican History and Lumen GentiumSend us a textIn this episode, John and Fr. Stephen delve into the historical context of Vatican II.Take a walk through history with us as we revisit the abrupt end of the First Vatican Council in 1870 and the unresolved issues it left behind. Fast forward to 1958, when Pope John XXIII initiated the Second Vatican Council with a focus on inclusivity and transparency. We explore how his vision aimed at addressing the Church's challenges and how the preparatory work set the stage for a significant shift towards openness and communal participation within the Church.
2024-08-1647 minMy Friend the FriarDead for Seven Minutes with Robert and Steven DominguezSend us a textPrepare yourself for an emotionally charged episode as the co-hosts from the Bigfoot Club podcast, Robert Dominguez and his nephew, Steven Dominguez, step in for Father Stephen Sanchez. Robert recounts his terrifying health ordeal — from severe weight loss to a critical diagnosis which led to surgery. We explore the emotional rollercoaster faced by Robert and his family during his recovery, culminating in a life-threatening situation where Robert's heart stopped for seven minutes. With Steven providing additional recollections, we delve into the confusion, distress, and eventual cautious optimism as Robert was revived. Th...
2024-08-091h 16My Friend the FriarAlien Life, Mary's Assumption, and Divine Encounters with Mark GansleSend us a textIn this episode, John and Mark's discussion ranges from the philosophical themes inspired by "Groundhog Day" to pondering whether intelligent alien species would be considered children of God. Can the gospel be preached to alien beings? What are the theological implications of extraterrestrial life? They also reflect on how Christ’s redemptive act might manifest across different species and the perception of Christ in heaven. Sci-fi fans and theology enthusiasts alike will find this segment particularly intriguing.Finally, they tackle the profound topic of integrating spiritual and theological reading into everyday li...
2024-07-1900 minMy Friend the FriarAn Integrated Faith and Intimacy with God with Mark GansleSend us a textIn this episode, John and Mark Gansle continue their conversation and take a heartfelt look at the unique challenges and blessings that come with being a deacon's wife. They discuss how growing closer to God can enhance intimacy, promoting patience, love, and gratitude. They reflect on the powerful practice of praying the Divine Office, showing how praying with the Psalms and canticles can enrich your faith and offer a model for prayer that encompasses all human emotions and binds the universal Church together. Tune in to hear their reflections on religious commitment, the...
2024-07-1257 minMy Friend the FriarJoy and Discerning God's Will with Mark GansleSend us a textIn this episode, John and Mark Gansle ponder the profound distinction between happiness and joy through Mark's experience so far a year into his discernment to become a Catholic deacon. They consider the thought that while happiness is a fleeting emotion, joy is a deep-seated state rooted in following God's will and living in communion with Him. They dive into the spiritual nuances of joy, the suffusion of the Holy Spirit in our lives, and responding to God's call in our lives to live out what we're meant for instead of just doing...
2024-07-0550 minMy Friend the FriarUnderstanding Typology in Sacred ScriptureSend us a textIn this episode, Father Sanchez emphasizes the necessity of understanding the sacred authors' intentions in their historical and cultural contexts, and we explore how metaphors like the good shepherd or parables like the sower and the seed reveal deeper spiritual insights. Drawing on guidance from the Catechism, we highlight how these interpretations remain relevant and vital for contemporary believers.The conversation dives deep into the historical and theological development of scriptural interpretation, from allegorical to typological methods. Through examples such as Jonah's story prefiguring Christ, we see how Old Testament events...
2024-06-2850 minMy Friend the FriarFashion, Faith, and Resilience with Anthony AlexanderSend us a textIn this episode, John and Anthony discuss the importance of open, respectful conversations in a world increasingly divided by differing beliefs. Anthony shares the inspiration behind his innovative clothing brand aimed at making the elegant sport of croquet appealing to a younger audience while fostering memorable moments with loved ones.In a deeply reflective segment, they discuss personal experiences with loss and how faith serves as a foundation for resilience. From the emotional impact of miscarriages to the therapeutic nature of creative outlets like poetry and visual storytelling, they explore various...
2024-06-2130 minMy Friend the FriarFatherhood and Legacy with Anthony AlexanderSend us a textIn this episode, John is joined by Anthony Alexander for a heartfelt conversation about fatherhood. Navigating blended families and past relationships can be a minefield, and Anthony candidly shares his experiences with these challenges. They talk about the emotional intricacies and personal growth required to maintain respectful relationships with former partners, while offering consistent love and support to all children.They also touch on the Theology of the Body, reflecting on the sacredness of our existence and relationships. The episode wraps up with a thought-provoking discussion on how genuine connections and...
2024-06-1448 minMy Friend the FriarNavigating Life's StormsSend us a textEver found yourself caught in a storm of confusion and wondering how to discern God’s voice amidst the chaos? In this episode, John and Father Stephen discuss navigating life's tumultuous moments with trust and faith. Drawing from Bishop Barron's insights on the story of Jonah, they explore how resisting God's will can lead to turmoil, symbolized by the storm Jonah faces. They illustrate the consequences of neglecting divine guidance and encourage perseverance, even when it feels overwhelming.Difficulties don’t equate to sinfulness. Father Stephen and John discuss the importance of h...
2024-06-0741 minMy Friend the FriarFleeting Joy, Our Salvation, and Healing with Chris CollepsSend us a textIn this episode, John and Chris talk about finding joy in good times, difficult times, and trusting in God to provide comfort. We open up about healing and redemption through Christ, drawing parallels between personal struggles and the suffering of Jesus on the cross. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of finding profound transformation through faith.Click here to support the Carmelite Friars! Have something you'd love to hear Fr. Stephen and John talk about? Email us at myfriendthefriar@gmail.com or click here!
2024-05-3135 minMy Friend the FriarThe Fear of Loss with Chris CollepsSend us a textIn this episode, John and Chris explore a compelling examination of the fine line between the fear of the Lord—a reverence that shapes our purpose—against the fear of losing earthly roles and relationships that often define us. This intricate tapestry of discussion leads us to question our own priorities and the true source of our fears.Closing on a contemplative note, we probe the depths of how pain and suffering, when faced with faith, can become beacons of freedom and carriers of grace. Reflecting on the eternal peace that awai...
2024-05-241h 01My Friend the FriarThe Link Between Jewish Marriage Customs and The Last SupperSend us a textIn this episode, we discover the profound connections between ancient Jewish wedding customs and the Christian faith. Our fascinating discussion takes us on a journey through time, exploring the historical significance of wine, the ceremonial cup in betrothal rituals, and the manner in which a Jewish groom traditionally 'acquires' a bride. From the wedding at Cana to the four cups of the Passover meal at the last supper, these symbols find a deep echo in Christian beliefs, painting a vivid picture of covenant and unity that transcends the ages. Join us as we...
2024-05-1734 minMy Friend the FriarExploring the Symbolism of Wine and Marriage in Jewish and Catholic TraditionSend us a textIn this episode, Father Stephen Sanchez helps us explore the intricate symbolism of wine in the sacred context of Jewish marriage. From the Talmud we uncover the cultural and theological significance of Jewish nuptial customs and their parallels in Catholic theology. This episode isn't just an exchange of ideas; it's a celebration of the sacred union that mirrors the church as the bride of Christ, inviting you to savor the theological nuances and ancient customs that have shaped the Church's theology.Click here to support the Carmelite Friars!
2024-05-1034 minMy Friend the FriarUnveiling the Mystery of Jesus: Son of God, Son of ManSend us a textAre the titles "Son of God" and "Son of Man" simply echoes of ancient scripture, or do they offer a gateway to the profound mystery of Jesus Christ? Step into a captivating conversation with Father Stephen Sanchez, a Discalced Carmelite Priest, as we navigate the historical and theological landscapes that these enigmatic titles inhabit. We delve into the complexity of Jesus' identity, examining the duel between divine proclamation and diabolic temptation in the wilderness. Father Sanchez brings a refreshing perspective to the discussion, as we sift through layers of biblical language and centuries-old...
2024-05-0342 minMy Friend the FriarDivine Empowerment Over Satan and the Fallen AngelsSend us a textJoin us in the third and final part our conversation on the reality of Satan. Discover the divine authority that pulses within you as we reflect on quotes from St. Teresa of Avila, a Carmelite nun who commanded power over darkness through her identity in Christ. Our exploration brings her timeless revelations to light, offering you a fresh perspective on spiritual empowerment. This episode is a mosaic of theological reflection, inviting you to appreciate the angelic order and to recognize the freely given gifts of God's mercy. Embrace the lessons of honor, delight...
2024-04-2634 minMy Friend the FriarAngelic Essence and Demonic DestiniesSend us a textDiscover the profound triumphs of the divine as we navigate the enigmatic realm of spiritual beings with Father Stephen Sanchez. Our journey into the essence of angels and demons reveals their shared origins, despite their starkly contrasting destinies. We dissect the intricate roles these ethereal entities play in the grand tapestry of creation, salvation, and damnation, free from the constraints of our physical world. Father Sanchez guides us through the complexities of these spiritual creatures, drawing from the rich narratives of Tolkien's "Silmarillion" to shed further light on their existence beyond our mortal...
2024-04-1935 minMy Friend the FriarThe Fall from Grace and the Reality of SatanSend us a textEmbark on a journey into the heart of spiritual doctrine with Father Stephen Sanchez, a Discalced Carmelite Priest, as we confront the truths about Satan, the reality of angels, and their pivotal place in Catholic Christian faith. As we explore these profound teachings, you're promised an awakening to the deeper layers of our creed. By acknowledging the existence of spiritual beings, we not only adhere to the scriptures but also preserve the integrity of our beliefs, encompassing God, heaven, and the soul.In a compelling narrative that mirrors the dramatic fall...
2024-04-1240 minMy Friend the FriarFinal Judgment and the Promise of Eternal Life: A Catholic PerspectiveSend us a textHave you ever pondered what it means to stand before the God at life's end? Join us as we explore this mystery with Father Stephen Sanchez, a Discalced Carmelite priest, whose insights into the Catholic tradition's views on the afterlife and final judgment are nothing short of illuminating. We scrutinize the intimate moment of personal judgment, where the sum of our earthly lives is unveiled before God's eyes. Delving into the depths of Matthew's sheep and goats parable, we reveal how our choices resonate into eternity. Lent's culmination in Easter is cast in...
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