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Doorknob CommentsWhen Psychiatry Meets the Immune System with Dr. Tom PollakIn this episode of Doorknob Comments, Grant and Fara chat with Dr. Tom Pollak about the complex relationship between the immune system, the brain, and mental illness. Dr. Pollak is a NIHR Clinical Lecturer at the Institute of Psychiatry, Psychology and Neuroscience at King’s College London and a specialty trainee general adult psychiatrist at South London and Maudsley NHS Foundation Trust with a specialist interest in neuropsychiatry. Listeners will learn how doctors distinguish true autoimmune brain disorders from primary psychiatric conditions, why tests like spinal fluid analysis are complicated but sometimes crucial, and how both “it’s all psycho...
2026-02-0548 minDoorknob CommentsA Conversation with Dr. Siddharth Shah on Well-being, Resilience, and his Personal JourneyOn today’s episode of Doorknob Comments, Fara and Grant are joined by Siddharth Shah, the Founder and President of Greenleaf Integrative. Dr. Shah is a preventive medicine physician whose path into medicine wound through the humanities, a year traveling in India, and early work in interfaith dialogue and social justice. Siddharth talks about how he found his way into psychiatry after leaving medical school twice, the mentors who shaped his approach, and why he sees agency, curiosity, and small wins as central to healing. He also reflects on the challenges of working in a world full of injustice an...
2025-11-1747 min
The Thriving LawyerRedefining Success: Navigating Modern Legal Careers with Legal Recruiter Angela GrantIn this episode of The Thriving Lawyer, hosts Kathleen Brenner and Carla Ferraz welcome guest Angela Grant, a Brisbane-based legal recruiter, talent strategist, and blogger. Angela discusses the evolving landscape of the legal profession, highlighting the shift away from traditional, linear career paths. The conversation centers around new opportunities arising from the growth of in-house legal teams, flexibility in career choices, and the importance of self-reflection and experimentation for career satisfaction. Angela also shares valuable insights on what law firms and in-house teams are looking for in candidates, emphasizing curiosity, consistency, and collaboration. Whether you're a seasoned legal professional...
2025-11-0434 minDoorknob CommentsRupture and Repair with Dr. Soe TheinIn today's episode of Doorknob Comments, Grant and Fara are joined by Dr. Soe Thein, a board-certified child and adolescent psychiatrist and the founder of the Good Enough Psychiatrist YouTube channel. On his channel, Dr. Thein creates animated videos that explain psychodynamic therapy concepts for a general audience and has won numerous awards for his work. Together, they discuss moments of rupture that can occur in relationships and the importance of repair. They emphasize that occasional ruptures are a normal part of any healthy relationship; what truly matters is how the individuals involved address these breaks and work together...
2025-08-1041 minDoorknob CommentsSuicide Prevention with Dr. Igor GalynkerOn today's episode of Doorknob Comments, Fara and Grant are joined by Igor Galynker, a psychiatrist, clinician, and researcher known for his work in bipolar disorder, suicide prevention, and the role of family dynamics in psychiatric illness, who currently serves as the Associate Chairman for Research in the department of psychiatry at Mount Sinai Beth Israel. Dr. Galynker talks about how he got interested in exploring suicide prevention, the signs that typically appear before someone commits suicide, and how therapists can better attune themselves to these markers.We hope you enjoy.If you or someone...
2025-07-2147 minDoorknob CommentsOrganizational Psychiatry with Dr. Daven MorrisonOn today’s episode of Doorknob Comments, Fara and Grant are joined by Dr. Daven Morrison, a psychiatrist with deep expertise in organizational and occupational psychiatry. A member of the Group for the Advancement of Psychiatry and an officer of the Academy of Organizational and Occupational Psychiatry, Dr. Morrison shares insights into the psychological dimensions of workplace life. From managing mergers and downsizing to fostering self-aware leadership, he walks us through the core principles of organizational psychiatry.We hope you enjoy!Resources and LinksDoorknob Commentshttps://www.doorknobcomments.com/...
2025-06-1744 minDoorknob CommentsLooking at Art with Kate WerbleIn today's episode of Doorknob Comments, Fara and Grant are joined by Kate Werble, a longtime friend of Fara's and founder of her own New York City art gallery. They talk about the intimidating world of contemporary art, breaking down the mystique of the gallery scene and offering practical advice on how to begin engaging with galleries. Kate emphasizes that looking at art is a skill developed over time, encouraging curiosity over expertise for newcomers interested in learning how to engage with art. Finally, they talk about what art is ultimately about and what it offers psychologically. W...
2025-05-2633 minDoorknob CommentsBringing Clarity to Psychiatric ChaosIn today’s episode of Doorknob Comments, Grant and Fara sit down with Dr. Glenn Saxe to discuss the development and impact of Trauma Systems Therapy (TST), a model that addresses both emotional regulation in traumatized children and the complexities of their social environments. Dr. Saxe highlights how TST’s open-source approach has allowed practitioners worldwide to innovate and adapt the model for diverse settings, from child welfare to refugee care. The conversation explores the importance of honoring intergenerational wisdom while adapting to new challenges like cyberbullying and the digital age. They also touch on the promise of causal data...
2025-04-2055 minDoorknob CommentsEngineering Body and Mind with Michael LevinOn today's episode of Doorknob Comments Fara and Grant are joined by Dr. Michael Levin, the Vannevar Bush Distinguished Professor of Biology and the Director of the Allen Discovery Center at Tufts University. Dr. Levin publishes across developmental biology, computer science, bioengineering, and philosophy of mind, with work spanning from fundamental conceptual frameworks, to applications in birth defects, regeneration, and cancer. Fara and Grant discuss Dr. Levin's groundbreaking research, how he came to his research interests, and the potential linkages or applications his research might have for the future of therapeutic care.We hope you enjoy.
2025-03-2452 minDoorknob CommentsEmbracing Your Many Sides for Growth & ProductivityOn this episode of Doorknob Comments, Fara and Grant focus on why people often struggle to do things that are good for them while continuing habits that might be harmful. They discuss the concept of multiple self-states or personality parts that can sometimes conflict with each other, leading to procrastination, guilt, and difficulty in enjoying leisure activities. The conversation touches on topics such as the challenges of balancing productivity with self-care, the role of brain activity in procrastination, and the importance of self-reflection in understanding one's own motivations and behaviors. Throughout the episode, Fara and Grant draw on psychoanalytic...
2025-03-0342 minDoorknob CommentsValentine's Day Episode: Relationships, trauma and psychotherapy with Dr. Erica KrakovitzOn today's episode of Doorknob Comments, Grant and Fara sit down with Erica Krakovitz, a clinical psychologist and marriage and family therapist, to explore the complexities of relationships, self-trust, and emotional healing. They dive into the patterns that keep people stuck in toxic dynamics, the role of intuition in recognizing red flags, and how different therapeutic approaches—like Internal Family Systems (IFS) and EMDR—can help people rebuild their sense of self. Whether you’re navigating heartbreak, questioning your relationship, or simply curious about how therapy works, this conversation sheds light on the deep psychological forces that shape our connec...
2025-02-1032 minDoorknob CommentsWould You Rather Have An AI or a Human Therapist?On this episode of Doorknob Comments, Fara and Grant are joined by Professor Nir Eisikovits, a philosopher and the founding director of the Applied Ethics Center at UMass Boston. They delve into the intersection of artificial intelligence, ethics, and psychotherapy, exploring how AI technologies can impact therapeutic practices. The discussion highlights the growing loneliness crisis and the potential role of chatbots in providing accessible mental health support, while also addressing the ethical implications and potential hazards of automating therapy. Professor Eisikovits shares insights from his research on the moral dilemmas surrounding technology and war, questioning whether AI can genuinely...
2025-01-1844 minDoorknob CommentsNeuropsychoanalysis, Revisiting Freud, and Living Well: A Conversation with Dr. Mark SolmsIn this episode of Doorknob Comments, Fara and Grant are joined by Mark Solms, a renowned neuropsychologist and psychoanalyst. Dr. Solms discusses his groundbreaking work in neuropsychoanalysis, which bridges the gap between neuroscience and psychoanalysis. He shares insights from his 30-year project of retranslating Freud's complete works, including previously untranslated neuroscientific papers, revealing how this process has deepened our understanding of Freud's ideas. The conversation explores the fundamental role of emotions and consciousness in brain function, the importance of understanding subjective experience in mental health, and the potential future of artificial consciousness. Dr. Solms also touches on the relevance...
2024-12-271h 03Doorknob CommentsNavigating Education Challenges with Sharon ThomasIn this episode of Doorknob Comments, Fara and Grant Brenner are joined by Sharon Thomas, the founder and CEO of MAIA Education Resource Center. Sharon is a child development and learning specialist with expertise in one-on-one academic interventions and school and college placement. With over two decades of experience, she shares her insights on school placement, learning challenges, and the crucial role of executive function skills in achieving academic success. Sharon discusses the delicate balance between schools, parents, and students, providing valuable guidance on navigating the complexities of the education system from kindergarten through college.We hope...
2024-12-0952 minDoorknob CommentsOvercoming Insurance Obstacles with Joe Feldman #76In this episode, Grant and Fara are joined by Joe Feldman, the president and founder of Cover My Mental Health, a nonprofit organization dedicated to helping patients and their families secure proper insurance coverage for mental health services. Joe began advocating for access to mental healthcare after facing challenges related to insurance denials for his daughter’s residential care. During the conversation, Grant and Fara discuss these obstacles with Joe and explore the role that Cover My Mental Health plays in helping everyday people access the mental healthcare they need. Be sure to check the links in the show no...
2024-11-2543 minDoorknob CommentsNavigating Adult ADHD with Dr. Scott ShapiroIn this episode, Grant and Fata are joined by Dr. Scott Shapiro. Dr. Scott Shapiro, a leading expert in Adult ADHD trained at Harvard Medical School, provides specialized care in New York City, combining psychopharmacology, medical psychiatry, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. He also is a Corporate Executive Coach, helping professionals enhance their performance, productivity, and communication skills. Dr. Shapiro shares his expertise as a specialist in Adult ADHD, its treatment, and practical strategies to help individuals overcome their challenges. We hope you enjoy. Resources and LinksDoorknob Commentsht...
2024-11-0451 minDoorknob CommentsInsight and Mental HealthIn this episode, Grant and Fara delve into the topic of insight. They discuss its meaning, the benefits of having insight, and the various ways in which insight can be lacking. They also explore strategies for enhancing one's insight into their mental health and the role of therapy in encouraging patients to critically engage with their mental illness. We hope you find it enjoyable.Resources and LinksDoorknob Commentshttps://www.doorknobcomments.com/Dr. Fara Whitehttps://www.farawhitemd.com/Dr. Grant Brennerhttps://www...
2024-10-0851 minDoorknob CommentsThe Challenges of Modern Parenting with Angie TekriwalIn this episode of Doorknob Comments Grant and Fara are joined by Angie Tekriwal, owner of Silver Lining Counseling LLC and counselor specializing in treating adolescents, young adults, and families at her private practice in Montclair, New Jersey. Angie is also a mother and a good friend of Fara. They talk about the impact of media consumption on kids, inside scoop on the mom experience, and a range of other subjects.We hope you enjoy it!Resources and LinksDoorknob Commentshttps://www.doorknobcomments.com/Dr. Fara White
2024-09-2458 minDoorknob CommentsInside Out 2: Anxiety and InsecurityIn this episode, Grant and Fara dive into the animated film Inside Out 2, exploring its creative depiction of emotions and the educational value it offers. They begin by providing a synopsis of the film, followed by an in-depth discussion on how emotions like anxiety and sadness play a crucial role in the protagonist Riley’s conflicts and emotional growth. The conversation also touches on the portrayal of emotional frameworks in the film and how they reflect real-life therapeutic approaches. As always, they wrap up with some thoughtful closing remarks and doorknob comments.We hope you enjoy it....
2024-08-1940 minDoorknob CommentsNarrative Fallacies in Dynamic TherapyIn this episode, Grant and Fara are joined by Dr. Alexey Tolchinsky, a clinical psychologist, adjunct professor at George Washington University, and clinical fellow of the International Neuropsychoanalysis Association. He works with neurodiverse patients and young adults struggling with life transitions. Today, they discuss his peer-reviewed research, namely what he refers to as narrative fallacy in psychotherapy. Dr. Tolchinksky explains what he thinks are the dangers of narrative fallacy in psychotherapy, how it plays out between therapists and patients, and ways that we can consider re-thinking ingrained narratives in the therapeutic encounter.We hope you enjoy it.
2024-08-0546 minDoorknob CommentsActive Inference, the Free Energy Principle, and TherapyIn this episode, Grant and Fara are joined by esteemed neurophysicist and authority on brain imaging, Dr. Karl Friston. His revolutionary impact on studies of the brain derives from his inventive use of probability theory to analyze neural imaging data. They discuss how we might think about psychotherapy from the point of view of Dr. Friston’s work and briefly touch on artificial general intelligence, AGI, through Karl’s work on VERSES AI.We hope you enjoy!In This Episode[0:00] Introduction[1:35] Episode Overview[02:30] Journey into Brain Imaging Research[6...
2024-07-151h 19Doorknob CommentsWhat Does My Therapist Really Think?In this episode, Fara and Grant approach the sticky subjects in therapy, such as: billing, scheduling, boundaries, connection... and whether I really AM my therapist's favorite patient!! They provide insights into the challenges associated with managing this relationship and offer guidance on how to effectively communicate with your therapist. How do you bring up your concerns? Is it wrong to feel emotionally or romantically attracted to your therapist? This episode covers a wide range of topics to hopefully ease some of your anxieties.We hope you enjoy.Key Takeaways:Therapists, like anyone else...
2024-07-0142 minDoorknob CommentsThe Gaslight Effect with Dr. Robin SternIn this episode, Grant and Fara have a conversation with Dr. Robin Stern, the Co-Founder and Senior Advisor for the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. Dr. Stern is also the author of The Gaslight Effect and the host of The Gaslight Effect Podcast. They delve into Dr. Stern's journey in exploring gaslighting, the common tactics used by gaslighters in relationships, the role of shame and isolation for victims, and much more. Drawing from her 30 years of experience in treating individuals, couples, and families, Dr. Stern offers valuable insights into gaslighting dynamics and the steps to reclaiming one's narrative.
2024-06-1940 minDoorknob CommentsTherapy Under FireIn this episode, Grant and Fara discuss the recent criticism that therapy has faced following the release of several publications, particularly "The Therapist Who Hated Me" by Michael Bacon. They delve into the dynamics of the therapist-patient relationship in various therapeutic approaches and the potential challenges that may arise. They emphasize that there is no universal solution for therapy and stress the importance of evaluating treatment options to find what works best for each individual. We hope you find this discussion insightful and enjoyable.Key Takeaways No treatment is perfect, it is important to e...
2024-05-2741 min
Doorknob CommentsPsychology Money with George GrombacherIn this podcast episode, George Grombacher, a seasoned finance professional, joins psychiatrists Fara and Grant to explore the psychological dimensions of financial behavior. They discuss how childhood experiences and observed behaviors from adults shape our financial habits, whether we lean towards saving or spending. Grombacher emphasizes the need to confront limiting beliefs about money, drawing parallels between people's discomfort with finances and math. The conversation touches on the impact of trauma on self-care, including financial health, and the importance of designing a life aligned with personal values. Grombacher's journey from a corporate environment to a more creative financial advisory...
2024-04-1039 min
Doorknob CommentsWhere Do Doorknob Comments Come From?Join hosts Fara and Grant on the latest Doorknob Comments podcast episode, where they delve into the intricate dynamics shaping the therapist-client relationship. They dissect the subtleties of this bond, emphasizing its profound impact on therapy efficacy. Ethical dilemmas like confidentiality and intervention in client danger are explored, alongside the significance of self-awareness and transparent communication. The episode navigates the therapist's role in addressing risk behaviors and physical health, while tackling challenges posed by clients with trauma or depression. The paramount importance of prioritizing client well-being resonates throughout the discussion.P.S. Remember, therapy is a journey...
2024-03-2742 min
Doorknob CommentsSpring RomanceTune in to the latest episode of the Doorknob Comments podcast, where hosts Fara and Grant take a candid dive into the intricate world of love and dating, perfectly timed for the approaching Valentine's Day. From dissecting the dynamics of romantic relationships to scrutinizing the impact of social media on our perceptions of love, they leave no stone unturned. Drawing parallels from the relationships of celebrities like Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce, they shed light on the societal pressures to find "the one."But amidst the age-old topics, they bring a refreshing perspective, discussing the fascinating psychological...
2024-03-1245 min
Doorknob CommentsIntercultural RelationshipsJoin Fara and Grant on the latest episode of the Doorknob Comments podcast as they dive deep into the beautiful complexities of intercultural marriage. Le like to think that love knows no borders, but what about the hurdles that come with actually making it work? Together, they explore the ups and downs of love across cultures, from navigating emotional expressions to dealing with societal pressures and language barriers.In this heartfelt conversation, Fara and Grant emphasize the importance of open communication and understanding each other's cultural backgrounds. They share personal anecdotes and insights, highlighting the need for...
2024-02-2740 min
Doorknob CommentsDeveloping Engaged CitizensIn this episode of the Doorknob Comments podcast, we are excited to sit down with Dr. Edward Shapiro, a distinguished author and psychoanalyst.During our conversation, we discuss his book "Finding a Place to Stand.” We explore the significance of family dynamics, institutional roles, and citizenship. He highlights the value of self-reflection and the challenges of leadership in a polarized society. Dr. Shapiro also shares a story illustrating the importance of action in confrontational situations. His book serves as a testament to the value of this learning process and is a recommended read for anyone interested in le...
2024-02-1348 min
Doorknob CommentsSurvivor SiblingsIn this episode of the Doorknob Comments podcast, we are thrilled to be joined by psychoanalyst and author Johanna Dobrich.In our conversation, Johanna discusses her book "Working with Survivor Siblings" and her research into the unique challenges faced by individuals who grew up with chronically or severely disabled siblings. The conversation examines the profound impact these sibling relationships have on personal development, the influence of parental dynamics, and the necessity for therapists to understand these complex peer relations. The episode also addresses the effects of medical trauma on families, highlighting the importance of increased awareness and...
2024-01-3038 minDoorknob CommentsGLP-1 AgonistsHave you considered how diabetes medication might affect your mental health and body image? While managing diabetes, it's essential to recognize the potential psychiatric implications of these medications.In this episode of the Doorknob Comments podcast, Fara and Grant discuss the psychiatric effects of a new class of diabetes medications. They examine research on these drugs, their role in mental health treatment, and the influence of social media and celebrity endorsements. Additionally, they address the medications' impact on weight loss, mental health, body image, and the challenges related to misuse and strict regulations.Key Takeaways
2024-01-1533 minDoorknob CommentsMasochismIn this episode, Grant and Fara discuss the topic of masochism. They explore what it means, how it shows up in our social media habits during difficult times, its connection to "doom scrolling", and strategies for coping with our potentially masochistic tendencies as we prioritize our mental health.We hope you enjoy.
2024-01-0134 minDoorknob CommentsEndings and Transitions of TherapyIn this episode, Fara and Grant talk about the endings and transitions of therapy. They talk about why saying goodbye in therapy can be tough for both therapists and patients, highlighting the significant importance of the process. They share practical advice on how to navigate the challenges of therapeutic termination, providing an approach to closure that suits individual needs. It's an insightful conversation that encourages reflection on the various aspects of concluding therapy.We hope you enjoy.
2023-12-1843 min
Doorknob CommentsResilience with Dr. Jonathan DePierroIn today's episode, Fara and Grant have a conversation with Dr. Jonathan DePierro, an Associate Professor of Psychiatry at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai, and the Associate Director of the Center for Stress, Resilience and Personal Growth. Dr. DePierro talks with Fara and Grant about the research his team conducts on resilience, and how we might more productively think about resilience in our everyday lives through practice.We hope you enjoy!
2023-12-0444 minDoorknob CommentsDear Ani: A Conversation with Keith WassermanToday, Grant and Fara are joined by Keith Wasserman, who is a producer and a major figure in the film "Dear Ani". In this episode, they have a conversation with Keith about his life, the process of making the film, and his relationship with and understanding of his experiences of mania. "Dear Ani" is a journey that explores music, art, and mania. We hope you enjoy listening to this episode of the podcast.You can follow Keith on Instagram at @the_deep_wink. You can also follow us on Instagram at @doorknobcomments, and check out o...
2023-11-2140 minDoorknob CommentsEnactmentsIn this episode, Grant and Fara talk about something that psychoanalysts call enactment. They talk about the positive and traumatic experiences that shape enactments, and how we can use these moments for learning and therapeutic benefit—not only during therapy but also in everyday life. We hope you enjoy.
2023-10-3134 minDoorknob CommentsTransitioning into WinterIn this episode, Grant and Fara talk about transitioning into winter. They reflect on some of the physical and mental changes that might happen during the winter season, and how we can better react to these changes: seeking help, understanding and listening to our bodies, and more. We hope you enjoy.
2023-10-1032 min
LifeBloodMental Health Disaster Relief with Dr. Grant BrennerLifeBlood: We talked about mental health disaster relief, why each disaster is unique, the qualities of an effective responder, best practices and things to keep in mind, and how to have a positive impact, with Dr. Grant Brenner, Psychiatrist, Therapist, Psychoanalyst, and Mental Health Responder.
Listen to learn about the layers of considerations when addressing the mental health of disaster survivors!
You can learn more about Dr. Grant at GrantBrennerMD.com, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and LinkedIn.
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2023-10-0925 minDoorknob CommentsAuthenticity: What is it Good For?In today's episode, Fara and Grant explore the concept of authenticity. They interrogate what it means to be truly authentic, what people strive for when they aim to live authentically, and how we socially make sense of and understand what we call authentic behavior. We hope you enjoy.
2023-09-0533 minDoorknob CommentsLearning about Paruresis with Dan RockerIn this episode, Fara and Grant are joined by Dan Rocker, the President of the International Paruresis Association, and the Co-Director of the Shy Bladder Center. Dan Rocker is an expert on Paruresis (significant urinary hesitation and inhibition) and breaks down some myths and misconceptions about the social phobia. We hope you enjoy!Follow us on Instagram at @doorknobcomments, on TikTok at doorknobcomments, and visit our website DoorknobComments.com.
2023-07-2541 minDoorknob CommentsNarratives and Self-IdentityIn this episode, Fara and Grant talk about the way narratives shape self-identity. They discuss the constraints of certain personal narratives, the effects of trauma on narrative construction, and how altering our perspective on these narratives might offer us more mental and emotional clarity. We hope you enjoy.
2023-07-0334 minLifeBloodBook Club featuring Dr. Grant BrennerOn this edition of the Book Club, Dr. Grant Brenner talks about his newest book, Making Your Crazy Work for You: From Trauma and Isolation to Self-Acceptance and Love. Dr. Grant is the New York state Medical Director for SOL, a psychotherapist, therapist, psychiatrist, professor, speaker, and author.
You can learn more about Dr. Grant at GrantBrennerMD.com, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and LinkedIn.
Get your copy of Making Your Crazy Work for You HERE
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2023-07-0120 minDoorknob CommentsMaking Sense of Intrusive ThoughtsIn this episode, Grant and Fara discuss intrusive thinking. What it may or may not mean, and ways to make sense of these thoughts. They touch on personal experiences with intrusive thoughts, research on the phenomenon, and pigeons! We hope you enjoy it.
2023-06-1929 minDoorknob CommentsTo Friend or Not to FriendIn this episode, Fara and Grant talk about ways that people make, grow, and end friendships. They discuss the anxiety around reaching out to new people, the difficult conversations that can come with holding friends accountable, and how we might part ways when we feel wronged in existing friendships.
2023-06-0537 min
Polly Campbell, Simply SaidDr. Grant Brenner Talks About Self-Acceptance, Compassion, and Working Through TraumaCompassion, Empathy, and Listening to Understand Can Help Use Grow From TraumaPsychiatrist and author Dr. Grant Brenner says that with reflection and curiosity, we can start to unravel the emotional barriers that can keep us from self-acceptance and intimacy with others and move learn to ease our trauma and move toward understanding.In this fantastic conversation, he explains the 40-20-40 practice that allows us to work with others to truly listen to understand and to move into a deeper connection with compassionate empathy for ourselves and others.Listen in and try...
2023-05-3029 minDoorknob CommentsNavigating the Early Stages: RelationshipsToday, Grant and Fara talk about navigating those early stages of talking about a relationship: defining the relationship, having a conversation about where things stand, and communicating what we mean to the other person. Are we dating? Netflix-N-Chilling? Just hanging out? Should we even put a label on it? It can be tricky, but hopefully, this episode provides useful tips to help navigate these sometimes sticky situations.
2023-05-2233 minDoorknob Comments"Therapy Speak" in Everyday Life: Pros and ConsIn this episode, Grant and Fara talk about Therapy Speak outside of the clinical setting and explore the potential benefits. Join in to hear more about the interactional setting of the therapy session and what might be lost in translating this therapy speak to everyday life.
2023-05-0238 min
Becoming Your Best | The Principles of Highly Successful LeadersEpisode 376 - How to Make Your Crazy Work for You. From Trauma to Self-Acceptance and Love with Dr. Grant BrennerPracticing self-care actively and being compassionate, resilient, or kind to yourself doesn't mean you are soft or weak. Besides, part of treating yourself well is being firm and holding yourself accountable.We all have a massive potential for positive change; we just need to find (or build) the right conditions for it.This week, I'm joined by Dr. Grant Brenner, a board-certified physician-psychiatrist, an entrepreneur, teacher, speaker, and co-author of several books: "Irrelationship: How We Use Dysfunctional Relationships to Hide from Intimacy," "Relationship Sanity: Creating and Maintaining Healthy Relationships," and the most recent, "...
2023-04-2534 minDoorknob CommentsHappiness and Satisfaction: Fleishman Is in TroubleIn today's episode, we're going to talk about the trials and tribulations facing people in the middle and upper middle classes as they try to work out what is meaningful in life. Is it about worldly success, money, and the schools you go to? Is it about how you live and how spend your time and with whom? We'll be exploring the television series, Fleishman Is in Trouble, as an entry point for our conversation.
2023-04-1737 minDoorknob CommentsNoise and Disinformation: Mental Health Treatment and Social MediaToday we cover what we see as some of the noise and disinformation around mental health treatment. We explore social media's benefits and pitfalls as a space for learning about potential remedies: from giving patients greater autonomy and information, to unsafe substance usage with potentially harmful outcomes.We hope you enjoy it and take something away.
2023-04-0346 minDoorknob CommentsNew Years Resolutions and MotivationToday we talk all about motivation and New Year's resolutions. The episode was recorded early in January, but the conversation may be even more important today. Throughout the episode, try to reflect on some of the goals you may have set for yourself this year. And if you’re struggling with some of these goals, how might you reframe your motivations in a healthy manner? Thinking about the benefits can help respark motivation! And remember to give yourself credit for the progress you’ve made!
2023-03-2142 minDoorknob CommentsMental Health Stigma: From NYC to the WorkplaceIn this episode, Fara and Grant discuss recent mental health initiatives in NYC for hospitalizing unhoused people, school policies that may be harmful or stigmatizing to students, and the foundations of stigma and the implications for individuals and society.
2023-01-0231 minDoorknob CommentsWelcome Back! Taking Time Off and Coming Back Strong.Welcome Back to Season 2 of Doorknob Comments! Fara and Grant talk about taking time off and coming back strong.
2022-12-2026 min
The Doctorpedia PodcastPsychoanalysis and Comedy w/ Dr. Grant BrennerPsychiatrist Dr. Grant Brenner talks about his work with a crisis response team, his early interest in the mind, the psychology of jokes, shadow work, his photography hobby, and more.
2022-04-1352 min
Love Talk Live with Jaime BronsteinDr. Grant Brenner and Dr. Mark BorgIn this episode of "Love Talk Live," I interview Dr. Grant Brenner and Dr. Mark Borg authors of Making Your Crazy Work for You: From Isolation to Self-Acceptance, Compassionate Empathy, and Love Written by three (not present Danny Berry) practicing clinicians who have helped countless people embrace healthier and more fulfilling relationships, MAKING YOUR CRAZY WORK FOR YOU shows readers how to assess and confront their own “crazy” behaviors (or ingrained patterns that almost always lead to undesirable results). Encouraging us to use our own vulnerability as a recovery tool, the authors demonstrate how embracing our deepest insecurities and fear...
2022-01-1741 min
Doorknob CommentsThe Importance of Taking BreaksAs we wrap up season 1 of Doorknob Comments, Fara and Grant discuss the importance of taking calculated breaks as an act of self compassion and care.
2021-12-0129 minDoorknob CommentsBoys and Friendship: No Exception To The Need for Human ConnectionDr. Niobe Way talks about her research showing the crucial importance of friendship for boys. Friendship is healthy and normal for boys even though they may be taught as they get older to play cool. There are many simple things parents and educators can do to alleviate the problem.
Find more here:
https://steinhardt.nyu.edu/people/niobe-way
https://www.tedmed.com/speakers/show?id=729990
https://twitter.com/niobe_way
2021-11-0332 minDoorknob CommentsMaking the Most of Life by Facing MortalityFara and Grant discuss Terror Management Theory, which helps us understand how we cope individually and collectively when fears of death are heightened, and ways people can cope with mortality and help others around them do so as well.
2021-10-2734 minDoorknob CommentsHealth and Illness: At the Intersection of Psychiatry, Therapy and WellnessIn this episode, co-hosts Fara and Grant talk about their experience as psychiatrists who practice therapy. Listen in as we discuss important themes including the difference between treating illness and pursuing personal development, how to balance clinical care with coaching and self-help, and other key considerations in the complex, evolving landscape of wellness and self-care.
2021-10-1427 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 37: Navigating A Professional Relationship That May Feel PersonalFara and Grant speak with Jacob Appel, psychiatrist, author, and bioethicist, about important ways that the therapist-patient relationships may feel like a friendship (or just feel confusing). Well-intentioned actions may have unintended consequences when they cross the boundaries between clinician and friend. Dr. Appel helps give us clarity on how to manage when these moments come up, and advises us on how to preserve the treatment and act in the best interest of the patient.
Find more on Dr. Appel here:
https://www.mountsinai.org/profiles/jacob-m-appel
2021-09-2238 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 36: Back To School in COVID TimesFara and Grant host a wide-ranging conversation about the many things to think about as kids are returning to school as COVID continues to linger, ranging from complex emotional considerations, to social factors, to the political context, and beyond.
2021-09-0837 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 35: Real Therapy, VirtuallyFara and Grant speak with therapist and psychoanalytic candidate-in-training Hannah Weiss about therapy during the pandemic, video and in-person, our relationships with our bodies, and the future of psychoanalysis.
Read more:
Hannah Weiss: https://hannahweiss.org/index.html
Chicago Psychoanalytic Institute: https://chicagoanalysis.org
2021-08-2534 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 34: The Paradox of ChangeFara and Grant discuss reasons it can be so hard to change even when we know what needs to happen, ways to become more aware when we don't know, and ways we can connect our dots to catalyze growth and change.
2021-07-2849 minDoorknob CommentsHow We Approach Interpersonal Problems: The Good, The Bad and the LovelyFara and Grant discuss common ways we approach challenges in personal and professional relationships. Using real-world examples, we bring in key concepts including attachment style, common pitfalls including ways we self-sabotage, and tips for successfully navigating tough situations.
Read more:
https://medium.com/beingwell/exploitable-me-how-we-leave-ourselves-open-to-people-who-use-others-9dfef7c43747
2021-07-1449 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 32: Creativity In Wonderland: A Conversation with Dr. Leanne DomashFara and Grant speak with psychologist and psychoanalyst Leanne Domash about her new book Imagination, Creativity and Spirituality in Psychotherapy: Welcome to Wonderland (Psyche and Soul). Join us for a lively and pragmatic conversation about unleashing creativity in the pursuit of authenticity.
Find Dr. Domash here:
https://www.leannedomash.com
Dr. Domash's book: https://www.amazon.com/Imagination-Creativity-Spirituality-Psychotherapy-Wonderland-ebook/dp/B08HSMX7CD
2021-06-3033 minDoorknob CommentsCats, Comedy and Caring: A Conversation with Comedian Liz MieleFara, Liz and Grant discuss relationships, hardship, and the crucial role of humour and empathy in overcoming challenges on the path to healing.
Find Liz here:
https://lizmiele.com
https://www.instagram.com/lizmiele/
https://www.youtube.com/user/LizMiele
https://twitter.com/lizmiele
https://www.facebook.com/lizmielecomedy
Guardian Article referenced by Liz:
https://www.theguardian.com/science/2021/may/24/research-reveals-why-some-find-the-sound-of-others-eating-so-irritating
2021-06-1648 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 30: The Many Faces of DependencyFara and Grant discuss the purpose of dependency, how it can be both problematic and useful, and work through ways of building mutuality through healthy interdependence. We also look at counterdependency, codependency, and the pattern of shared dysfunction called "irrelationship".
2021-06-0933 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 29: Relationship Boundaries: What They Are and How to Negotiate ThemFara and Grant talk about how people set the ground rules for relationships. Boundaries define areas which are off-limits, areas where we can freely interact, and the gray zone where effective communication is critical. With insightful examples, good humor and guidelines for how to navigate tricky situations, this episode is useful and engaging.
2021-05-2642 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 28: Understanding The Basic Elements Of The Therapeutic RelationshipGrant and Fara break down some basic tenets of therapy, and give listeners some insight about the inner workings of the process. On this episode, we explore how we can make the most of the time with our therapists as a path to growth and change.
2021-05-1940 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 27: Driving The Other Person CrazyFara and Grant discuss examples of how and why people drive each other "crazy", and what we can do about it.
Read more here:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/experimentations/202103/the-effort-drive-the-other-person-crazy
2021-04-2944 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 26: Everything Is Everything: Transpersonal Therapy, Complexity and the SelfJoin Fara and Grant with Dr. Terry Marks-Tarlow, psychologist, scientist, artist, author, and yogini for an eye-opening discussion of how we can understand the deep interconnections between people through the lens of fractal mathematics and psychology. Fractals show how nature and the mind is structured, giving us in sight into who we are and how we move through the world.
Read more at:
www.markstarlow.com
2021-04-2136 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 25: Smarter Parenting with Dr. Sarah BrenFara and Grant discuss how to approach parenting by valuing the child's perspective, keeping firm boundaries and exploring one's own inner child to build a healthy, open connection with one's kids to last a lifetime.
2021-03-3138 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 24: What We Owe Our VeteransWe speak with Andrew "Doc" Berry, a seasoned psychologist who specializes in working with combat veterans and first responders. We talk with him about what it is really like for veterans, and how we can best recognize and respond to the needs of those who offer great sacrifice and service.
2021-03-2439 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 23: What is A Doorknob Comment Anyway?In this episode Fara and Grant discuss doorknob comments in more detail, the meaningful comments people make just as they are leaving a meeting when there won't be time to discuss them, and their implications for therapy.
2021-03-0332 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 22: Dr. Meggie Smith on Fertility and Family PlanningWe hope you enjoy this fascinating conversation with Nashville-based reproductive endocrinologist Dr. Meggie Smith. She is everything you’d want your doctor to be: open, honest and transparent. We talk about the issues surrounding family planning and how we can best make use of the latest medical advances.
2021-02-1744 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 21: Miracles and Manifestations | A Conversation with Harvard Psychiatrist Srini PillayOn this episode of Doorknob Comments, Fara and Grant talk with Srini Pillay, a remarkable coach, author and business person who is adept at opening up minds, fostering creativity and unhinging people in the most delightful and loving way. Learn about his book Tinker, Dabble, Doodle, Try, including simple ways to optimize your creative problem-solving skills, and join in our lively and mind-altering conversation.
Learn more from Srini Pillay here:
https://twitter.com/srinipillay and https://twitter.com/ReulayOasis
https://www.instagram.com/drsrinipillay/
https://ww...
2021-01-2546 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 20: Personality TalksGrant and Fara discuss the different models of personality and break down some of the major traits. Where do these traits come from? More importantly- can they be changed?
2021-01-1826 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 19: Jonathan Demar on the Importance of Intimacy and Meaningful CollaborationWe are joined by this talented producer, singer-songwriter, and native New-Yorker for a discussion on how to design a fulfilling career and a supportive peer group alongside.
2021-01-1144 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 18: The Arts and Mental Health with Rachel MaranGrant and Fara speak to an old friend who's leaving entertainment after nearly a decade of managing actors, and hear about why shifting to a career in therapy makes a lot of sense.
2020-12-1630 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 17: Moving On From 2020Grant and Fara discuss how to let go of (and heal from!) a pretty rough year. We touch on what it means to reflect during this time and think about ways that 2021 can be better for us- on both an individual and collective level.
2020-12-0936 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 16: Vanessa Calderon On Dance, Movement and MessagesVanessa is a multi-talented artist with a lot to say about violence towards women. We hear how she uses performance to shine the spotlight on difficult topics.
2020-11-2736 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 15: Holidays or Holi-daze? Connecting in the Time of COVIDFara and Grant offer up strategies for coping with difficult family dynamics, accepting and embracing "the new normal", and making the most out of the season this year.
2020-11-2624 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 14: Reality-based Thinking with Mardoche SidorDr. Sidor is an esteemed colleague, psychiatrist, and educator who joins Grant and Fara to discuss the science of suffering and the importance of a good team.
Find more about his work here: https://www.sweetinstitute.com/
2020-11-1936 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 13: Family Matters with Dr. Harvey WhiteDr. Harvey White, psychiatrist and family therapist talks to us about how to stay connected (but not too connected!) to our families during COVID-19. Managing stress, isolation and uncertainty is challenging but made easier with these sound suggestions.
2020-11-0938 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 12: Your Brain on Food with Uma Naidoo, MD. We are honored to be joined by psychiatrist Uma Naidoo, a trained chef and leader in the field of nutritional psychiatry. Here, she graciously talks about some of the most important parts of the mind-gut connection.
2020-10-3024 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 11: How to Deal with Existential OverloadDrs. Brenner and White talk about everything that is going on nowadays - COVID, global events, the US election, and how to navigate the great sense of uncertainty, even dread, with which so many are confronted.
2020-10-2926 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 10: You Are What You Sleep with Josh Tal, PhD.Sleep expert Josh Tal, PhD joins us to discuss some common sleep issues and treatment options for insomnia. We were delighted to hear about his boot camp approach, which incorporates CBT-I to effectively improve sleepless nights.
2020-10-2336 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 9: Breaking Up is Hard To Do. And Undo.Grant and Fara discuss the many reasons that people break up and get back together. We explore how self-concept clarity plays into our relationship habits.
2020-10-1625 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 8: Finding your Therapist: What Nobody Tells YouFara and Grant discuss key elements of traditional insight-oriented talk therapy, focusing on what to consider when searching for a well-suited therapist.
2020-09-0731 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 7: Working through Conflict to Enhance Personal and Professional RelationshipsMark Borg joins us to reflect on years of co-authorship with Grant Brenner and Danny Berry. Hear different perspectives on the same experience to learn how the "Three Amigos" have produced two books together, with a third on the way!
2020-09-0729 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 6: Healing from Trauma with Johanna DobrichJohanna Dobrich talks to us about dissociation, disabled siblings, and how to navigate complicated family dynamics and challenging life experiences.
2020-09-0740 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 5: The Performing Art of TherapyMark O’Connell explains how acting techniques can enrich the experience of insight-oriented psychotherapy. His methods help us understand the importance of finding our most authentic selves inside the therapy session, as well as outside of it.
Find more on Mark O'Connell here:
http://markoconnelltherapist.com/
2020-08-1830 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 4: Self-Care: More Complicated Than It SoundsDrs. White and Brenner discuss self-care, compassion, and the promises and challenges of cultivating a deep and fulfilling relationship with yourself. Treat yourself right and others will treat you right, too.
2020-08-0731 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 3: Profile: Jacob Appel, Writer, Psychiatrist, and Social Critic Discusses his Area of Expertise: BioethicsJoin us for a unique conversation between Drs. White and Appel. Hear from this thought leader as he asks tough questions, and unpacks some of the complexities of human decision-making.
Find more on Jacob Appel here: https://www.mountsinai.org/profiles/jacob-m-appel
2020-08-0744 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 2: Real lessons from a Fake Therapist: with Special Guest Lisa LevyLisa Levy is a performing artist and comedian with her irreverent radio show “Dr. Lisa Gives a Shit”. Here we speak with her about the trials and tribulations of a marketing pro turned artist, performer, and comedian as she discusses her experiences with various therapists over the years and how she uses her own experience to help her live audience.
Find more on Lisa Levy here: https://radiofreebrooklyn.com/show/dr-lisa-gives-a-shit/
2020-08-0746 minDoorknob CommentsEpisode 1: What is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and How Can It Help Me?Cognitive Behavior Therapy is a straightforward approach to addressing underlying problems by seeking to change how we think about ourselves. Learn how CBT works from expert therapist Dr. Gluhoski.
Find more on Vicki Gluhoski, PhD here: http://www.vickigluhoskiphd.com/
2020-08-0738 minDoorknob CommentsDoorknob Comments: Season 1 TrailerWelcome to Doorknob Comments! Doorknob Comments was named for a phenomenon that sometimes happens at the end of a therapy session, when the patient may mention something important and riddled with conflict, right as you’re walking out the door. Equal parts frustrating and enlightening, it surfaces key issues which may--or may not!-- get addressed anytime soon.
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MyNDTALK with Dr. Pamela BrewerMyNDTALK - Creating Relationship Health and Sanity - Dr. Grant BrennerDr. Grant Brenner, Dr. Mark Borg and Daniel Berry, RN continue their collaboration working to help us create and maintain healthy relationships - which might be different from the relationship you are in right now...
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Relationship Lovecast RadioEp. 29 Dysfunctional Relationships with Mark Borg, Grant Brenner & Daniel BerryIn our in-depth interview with Mark Borg, Grant Brenner and Daniel Berry, the co-authors of Irrelationship, we discuss how we may use dysfunctional relationships to hide from intimacy. In today's interview we will cover: The examples of dysfunctional relationships and how this hide us from intimacy, the concept of Irrelationship and BrainLock and how it can effect our relationships and the major defenses systems that couples commonly create within their relationship and how to overcome them. We will also cover: the main loops and patterns couples could get stuck in relation to sex, parenting, money and communication, and how the...
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MyNDTALK with Dr. Pamela BrewerMyNDTALK - Irrelationship - Dr. Mark Borg, Daniel Berry, RN and Dr. Grant BrennerIrrelationship - Dr. Mark Borg, Daniel Berry, RN and Dr. GrantBrennerDo you see a pattern in your relationships? Do you wonder why and what you are doing? Is there something that could be protective, yet dysfunctional within your couple "connection"? Is it truly an intimate connection? Get this answers from today's guests - the authors of Irrelationship - Dr. Mark B. Borg, Jr, PhD, (a community psychologist and psychoanalyst) Dr. Grant H. Brenner, (a board-certified psychiatrist in private practice) and Daniel Berry, RN, MHA, (a registered nurse in New York City since 1987). These clinicians have...
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