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Elder Law ReportOld Wills, New NightmaresImagine sorting a loved one’s papers and finding ten different wills—each telling a slightly different story about who gets what. That’s how family peace turns into a courtroom drama. We pull back the curtain on why outdated wills and mismatched beneficiary forms can derail even the most well‑meaning plans and how a few practical moves can keep your wishes clear, enforceable, and drama‑free.We break down the big three drivers of conflict—changes in law, changes in family, and changes in assets—and show how to keep everything aligned. Jane Dearwester joins Greg McIntyre...
2025-10-1514 minElder Law ReportProtecting Your Spouse from Nursing Home CostsProtecting your loved ones from the devastating financial impact of long-term care costs is one of the most powerful gifts you can give them. In this eye-opening episode, attorneys Greg McIntyre and Haley Matson reveal crucial strategies to shield your home, retirement savings, and other assets if nursing home care becomes necessary in your future.The conversation begins with a fundamental truth many families face: you've worked hard for your home, built a retirement fund over decades, and want to ensure these assets remain intact for your spouse and children. Without proper planning, the staggering costs of...
2025-09-2408 minElder Law ReportNursing Home Costs in 2025: Planning Ahead to Save Your EstateWhat would you do if you knew there was a 70% chance a meteor would hit your home? You'd move, right? According to the Department of Health and Human Services, that's the same probability seniors face for needing long-term care—yet most aren't prepared for the financial impact.Nursing homes in North Carolina now cost between $8,000-$13,000 monthly, amounting to a staggering $100,000-$150,000 annually. Without proper planning, these expenses can quickly deplete a lifetime of savings and even force the sale of your family home. But there's good news: with advance planning, you can protect what you've worked so...
2025-09-1011 minElder Law ReportSpousal Protection: Navigating Nursing Home CostsFacing the possibility that you or your spouse might need nursing home care is daunting enough without the added stress of potential financial ruin. The stark reality—nursing homes cost between $10,000 and $15,000 monthly—means even substantial estates can be rapidly depleted, leaving a healthy spouse vulnerable.In this deeply informative conversation, Elder Law attorney Greg McIntyre and his colleague Jane Dearwester demolish common misconceptions about spousal protection while revealing powerful strategies to preserve assets. The duo emphasizes that marriage alone doesn't grant financial authority over a spouse's assets—a dangerous assumption many couples make. They detail why a comp...
2025-08-2021 minElder Law ReportNavigating Difficult Discussions: Planning Your End-of-Life WishesWe all avoid the uncomfortable conversations, but what if facing them actually brought peace of mind? Attorney Greg McIntyre tackles one of life's most difficult topics—end-of-life planning—with compassion, wisdom, and practical guidance.Drawing from his two decades of experience in estate planning and elder law, Greg shares why these sensitive discussions shouldn't be postponed. He applies the powerful "Eat the Frog First" principle, suggesting that addressing our most challenging tasks first—like healthcare directives and asset distribution plans—allows everything else to flow more easily. When we face these difficult conversations head-on, we experience reduced anxiety...
2025-08-1305 minElder Law ReportPlanning for Aging Parents: Legal Essentials for Aging WellEarly Conversations and Legal Documents for Aging Parents: Jordan McIntyre emphasized the importance of discussing aging and estate planning early to ensure legal documents are in place. These crucial documents include powers of attorney and a will, which help manage assets outside of probate. Greg McIntyre highlighted the dangers of not having these documents, such as losing capacity and needing to go through guardianship proceedings to manage financial, legal, or healthcare matters.Protecting the Home and Tailored Planning: Jordan McIntyre suggested a "lady bird" deed as a simple and powerful way to protect...
2025-07-0906 minElder Law ReportGifting and Long-Term Care Benefits: When Generosity Can BackfireMoney gifted with good intentions can lead to devastating financial consequences when long-term care becomes necessary. This eye-opening discussion between Elder Law attorneys Greg McIntyre and Brenton Begley tackles one of the most misunderstood areas of senior planning: how well-meaning asset transfers can backfire when seeking Medicaid and special assistance benefits.The conversation cuts through common misconceptions, particularly the damaging belief that the federal gift tax exemption (currently $19,000 per person annually) provides a "free pass" for Medicaid eligibility. As the attorneys clarify, these systems operate under completely different rules, and conflating them can lead to benefit denials...
2025-06-1109 minElder Law ReportWhen Trusted Agents Go Rogue: Legal Remedies for Power of Attorney AbusePower of attorney abuse represents one of the most devastating breaches of trust that can occur within families and relationships. When someone appointed to handle financial and legal affairs betrays that confidence, the consequences can be financially devastating and emotionally traumatic.Attorney Greg McIntyre tackles this crucial topic head-on, providing a clear roadmap for addressing situations where an agent under a power of attorney acts against the principal's best interests. He explains that North Carolina law offers specific remedies when agents fail to uphold their fiduciary responsibilities. The first approach involves petitioning the court for an accounting—es...
2025-05-1405 minElder Law ReportStanding Up Against Nursing Home Abuse: Litigation, Advocacy, and Family SupportNursing home abuse is a harsh reality that we cannot ignore, and understanding the gravity of this issue is crucial. Join us, Brenton Begley and Greg McIntyre, as we share saddening tales of neglect that highlight the urgent need for accountability in nursing home facilities. From falls due to inadequate supervision to severe injuries from improper care, we explore the devastating impact these events have on families. Navigating the complexities of these cases, which often straddle the realms of personal injury and medical malpractice, requires seasoned litigators who can cut through the finger-pointing and fight for justice. Our experience...
2025-02-0510 minElder Law ReportEnsuring Stability through Special Needs TrustsUnlock the secrets to securing your loved ones' financial future with the expert insights of attorneys Greg McIntyre and Samantha Gordon. On this episode of the Elder Law Report, we navigate the world of special needs and supplemental needs trusts, crucial tools that help protect individuals with disabilities without risking their eligibility for government benefits. Samantha illuminates the distinctions between first-party and third-party trusts, and provides practical examples, such as when a first-party trust is essential after a significant financial settlement. This is a must-listen for anyone looking to fortify their estate planning strategy against unforeseen circumstances....
2025-01-2212 minElder Law ReportEstate Planning Naughty and Nice List: Safeguard Your Legacy with Essential StrategiesUnlock the secrets to ensuring your legacy isn't left to chance with our holiday-inspired guide to estate planning! Elder law attorneys Greg McIntyre and Brenton Begley bring you the "Estate Planning Naughty and Nice List," revealing essential strategies to safeguard your assets and avoid legal pitfalls. Learn why simply having a spouse doesn't automatically grant decision-making powers over your financial and healthcare matters, and discover the proactive steps needed to keep your estate out of probate and secure for future generations.Our episode sheds light on the power of taking a thorough inventory of your personal relationships...
2024-12-0420 minElder Law ReportMentorship and Milestones in a Legal CareerNewly minted attorney Jordan McIntyre takes us on a whirlwind journey through his first two weeks in the legal world, sharing both the exhilaration and the hurdles of transitioning from law school to practice. With lawsuits to draft and the pressure of meeting billable hours, Jordan opens up about the steep learning curve of being a young lawyer. Hear firsthand about the memorable experience of handling his first court case and how shadowing seasoned attorneys provides invaluable insights. His father, Greg McIntyre, also plays a pivotal role, offering guidance as they navigate the unique dynamics of working together in...
2024-10-2305 minElder Law ReportNavigating Probate: Ensuring Fair Heir Representation with Greg McIntyreUnlock the secrets to a fair and just probate process with insights from Greg McIntyre of McIntyre Elder Law. When it comes to heir representation, understanding the dynamics and potential pitfalls is crucial. Greg dives into the nitty-gritty of probate litigation, exploring the executor's role and the challenges heirs might encounter. From muddled will interpretations to biased executors, he underscores the necessity of clear communication and precise will drafting to avert disputes. This episode promises to equip you with the knowledge to navigate probate intricacies and secure your rightful inheritance.Greg, a seasoned estate planning and elder...
2024-10-0807 minElder Law ReportSecuring Your Legacy with Electronic Estate PlanningCurious about the future of estate planning? Join us as Greg McIntyre and Jane Dearwester from McIntyre Elder Law guide us through the monumental shift from traditional paper documents to secure electronic documents. Discover how their innovative e-docs access system ensures the validity and security of crucial documents like wills and powers of attorney. From the nostalgic charm of handwritten letters to the modern efficiency of e-signature services like DocuSign and Dotloop, learn how technology is revolutionizing the legal landscape, enhancing the interaction between legal professionals and clients.In another compelling segment, we discuss the practical advantages...
2024-10-0224 minElder Law ReportProtecting Your Legacy: Smart Strategies for Underage BeneficiariesWhat if leaving an inheritance to your underage children could harm them more than help? Join Greg McIntyre and Jordan Bentley on this week's Elder Law Report as we tackle the complicated and often misunderstood topic of underage beneficiaries. We'll discuss why directly leaving money or property to minors can lead to inaccessible funds and poor financial decisions, potentially turning a well-meaning gift into a detrimental burden. Tune in to explore smarter strategies for securing your child's or grandchild's future. We dive deep into the benefits of trusts, where discretionary language can control how and when funds a...
2024-09-2508 minElder Law ReportElder Law Report LIVE!: Estate Planning BasicsUnlock the secrets to safeguarding your legacy and ensuring your peace of mind with our special guest, attorney Greg McIntyre, founder of McIntyre Elder Law. Ever wondered how to protect your assets and secure long-term care without the stress of last-minute rushes? Greg lays out the cornerstones of estate planning, from the indispensable general durable power of attorney to the crucial healthcare power of attorney, living will, and last will and testament. By tuning in, you'll gain invaluable insights into why planning ahead is not just beneficial but essential for your financial and personal well-being.Greg dives...
2024-07-1815 minElder Law ReportEstate Planning Uncovered: Myths, Trusts, and Protecting Your AssetsThink a will is your ticket to avoiding probate? Think again. Join Greg McIntyre and Jordan Bentley from McIntyre Elder Law as they dismantle some of the most widespread myths in estate planning. From the erroneous belief that a will sidesteps probate to the misconception that a spouse will inherently inherit everything, Greg and Jordan break down the often misunderstood realities of probate and asset transition. They delve into why relying solely on a will can lead to delays, complications, and even family disputes. Learn why a comprehensive approach that includes trusts and other planning tools is crucial for...
2024-07-0319 minElder Law ReportSecure Your Assets Against Alzheimer'sWhat steps can you take today to protect yourself and your family from the devastating effects of Alzheimer's and dementia? Join estate planning and elder law attorneys Greg McIntyre and Britton Begley as they tackle the rise of these conditions and offer actionable legal strategies to safeguard your future. With a focus on the importance of proactive planning, Greg and Britton emphasize the necessity of having a general durable power of attorney to prevent undue influence and exploitation. By appointing a trusted person to manage your affairs, you can ensure that your assets are protected, and your desires are...
2024-06-1919 minElder Law ReportEstate Planning with a Focus on Mental Health ProtectionEver wondered how to navigate the often-overlooked complexities of mental health in estate planning? Well, worry no more. Your hosts, Greg McIntyre and co-host Attorney Samantha Gordon ("Sam"), delve into the heart of this matter, breaking down the crucial differences between healthcare powers of attorney and mental healthcare directives. You'll come away with a profound understanding of how to ensure your estate plan meticulously covers both physical and mental health components, and how this can be shaped to reflect your personal health care preferences, be they holistic or conventional. Especially poignant for those with aging relatives or loved ones...
2024-05-0115 minElder Law ReportPreserving Your Home from Medicaid Recovery: Strategies for Asset ProtectionCould your home be vulnerable to Medicaid recovery after you're gone? Join me, Greg McIntyre of McIntyre Elder Law, as I reveal the crucial measures necessary to shield your most valuable asset from being claimed to repay Medicaid expenses. In this eye-opening episode, we dissect the complexities of Medicaid estate recovery and highlight strategies like the Lady Bird Deed—an ingenious solution available in North Carolina that allows homeowners to retain control of their property while securing its direct transfer to heirs, bypassing Medicaid's grasp entirely. Prepare to be enlightened on how to navigate the treacherous waters of asset pr...
2024-04-2409 minElder Law ReportUnderstanding Elective Share: Rights and Fairness in EstatesEver found yourself pondering the fairness of a will? Wonder no more, as Jane Dearwester, a fierce litigation attorney, joins me, Greg McIntyre, to unravel the complexities of elective share in estate planning. Imagine the shock of being left out of your spouse's will, or receiving a mere dollar—this discussion is all about how NC General Statute 30-3.1 swings open the doors for a surviving spouse to claim a piece of the pie, regardless of what the will says. We're peeling back the layers on an often misunderstood part of estate law, discussing how the length of a ma...
2024-04-1012 minElder Law ReportNavigating Medicaid Asset Protection and Crisis Planning for Long-Term CareUnlock the secrets to securing your financial future even when long-term care is on the horizon. In our latest chat, I, Greg McIntyre, join forces with the astute attorney Samantha Gordon from our Charlotte office to navigate the confusing waters of Medicaid Asset Protection Trusts and Medicaid Crisis Planning. We peel back the layers of these complex legal strategies, revealing how you can shield your assets and ensure your loved ones receive the care they need without draining your bank account. Samantha brings a wealth of knowledge, making this conversation a treasure trove of insights for anyone facing the...
2024-03-2706 minElder Law ReportConflict Avoidance Through Thoughtful Estate Planning with Attorneys Greg McIntyre and Jordan BentleyDiscover the strategies to protect your family's future and maintain harmony through expert estate planning with me, Greg McIntyre, and my esteemed colleague, Jordan Bentley. Together, we navigate the complexities of securing your legacy and resolving familial disputes with finesse. Our engaging conversation brings Jordan's extensive family law expertise to the forefront, sharing invaluable insights for anyone looking to safeguard their assets from potential marital splits and ensuring their wishes are honored.In a world where money can stir up unexpected conflicts, we lay out an "instruction manual" for heirs, guiding asset distribution and fostering responsible stewardship...
2024-03-1210 minElder Law ReportHow Life's Curveballs Impact Your Estate PlanHave you ever considered how life's pivotal moments could alter your carefully laid plans? Join me, Greg McIntyre, and the astute attorney Samantha Gordon as we navigate the complexities of updating your estate plan following life's inevitable changes, such as births, deaths, and divorces. Together, we dissect how each of these events can significantly reshape your intentions for your legacy, stressing the critical nature of ensuring your documents reflect your current circumstances.In this thought-provoking conversation, we delve into the roles of executors and trustees, scrutinize the nuances of per stirpes versus per capita asset distribution, and...
2024-02-2805 minElder Law ReportNavigating the Complexities of Revocable and Irrevocable TrustsUnlock the secrets to safeguarding your financial future with the expert guidance of Greg McIntyre from McIntyre Elder Law. This episode is a deep dive into the world of revocable and irrevocable trusts, where Greg, with the help of his trusty coffee cup analogy, explains how a revocable living trust offers you control and flexibility over your assets. Whether you're looking to understand the ease of asset management or the nuances of trust succession, this discussion leaves no stone unturned. But it's not all about control; we also unveil the limitations when it comes to asset protection, especially in the...
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