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The Cool Grandpa PodcastA Work In Progress In this episode, Parcsen, a grandfather from Singapore, talks about his experience and the role of grandfathers in the family and community. We talk about the issue of isolation and loneliness among the older population and the need for intergenerational connections. Parcsen shares his journey of becoming a grandfather and his joy seeing his children progress. We also talk about special activities with grandchildren and the changing role of grandfathers in Singapore. Finally, we discuss Parcsen's experience with intergenerational reconciliation and the importance of healing old wounds. Our conversation...
2024-04-2655 min
WADTEp 72: Transformed Michael and WilliamThis week we continue with the Transformed series. In this episode, Rosman and Jatin will share their stories of transformation. Be sure to listen to the end where both of them will share their personal message to men out there.
2022-06-2120 minWADTEp 71: Transformed Rosman and JatinThis episode is part 3 of a 4-part series called TransformedFor this series, we are collaborating with Thye Hua Kuan Moral Charities, a non-profit Organization that provides assistance to the elderly, the sick, families, children, and persons with disabilities through many different programmes and services. One of which is the Brotherhood programme where men who have caused hurt to their loved ones are helped to resolve their issues with anger and aggression.Throughout this series, you will hear very real and personal stories of adversity, courage and victory told by those who lived these experiences.
2022-06-1322 minWADTEp 70: Transformed Ismail and SebestianThis episode is part 2 of a 4-part series called Transformed, where you will hear very real and personal stories of adversity, courage and victory told by those who lived these experiences. With us today to share their stories are Ismail and Sebestian.
2022-06-0917 min
Your Grit Story#Parenting | The key to good parenting is a strong marriage | Parcsen Loke | Head of Programs | Centre for FatheringWe have the 4th episode of the #Parenting series to wrap it up! Parcsen, Head of Programs at DADs for Life & Centre for Fathering shared with us his lessons and insights around #marriage and #parenting. đ¨âđŠâđ§âđŚParcsen is married for 31 Years, and he is a Father of 3 kids who are already adults! Given his fair share of going through the ups and downs in his own marriage in his early years, he is deeply passionate about coaching couples and helping them to build strong marriages, which is the key to good parenting. đď¸He is also a Grandfathe...
2022-06-0835 minWADTEp 69: Transformed - Firdaus and Suresh Today we begin a new series called TransformedFor this series, we are collaborating with Thye Hua Kuan Moral Charities, a non-profit Organization that provides assistance to the elderly, the sick, families, children, and persons with disabilities through many different programmes and services. One of which is the Brotherhood programme where men who have caused hurt to their loved ones are helped to resolve their issues with anger and aggression.Throughout this series, you will hear very real and personal stories of adversity, courage and victory told by those who lived these experiences.W...
2022-05-3125 minWADTEp 68: Dealing with mean kidsIn an earlier episode we talked about helping our kids choose their friends. Most of our kids friends are good, but they might encounter those that are not so good. They are the mean kids. If your kid is being bullied by a mean kid, would you know what to do? This will be the subject of our discussion today.Like and Share this episode with someone you think will benefit from it.
2022-05-2437 minWADTEp 67: Getting kids to obeyThe perfect child, if there is such a thing, in most parentsâ minds is a well-behaved and obedient one who also does well in school. Driven by this vision, parents have resorted to a number of methods to have perfect children. In this episode of WADT, the co-hosts will be discussing the right and wrong ways of getting children to obey.
2022-05-1736 minWADTEp 66: Choosing FriendsThis week on the WADT podcast, we discuss a very important aspect of childhood: making friends. As children grow, they will be making more and more of the decisions that affect their lives themselves. One of those decisions is who to choose as friends. How much say should parents have in their childrenâs choice of friends? What should parents do if their childâs friends are a bad influence? How can parents help their children make good choices when it comes to friends and how to develop strong friendships?
2022-05-0932 minWADTEp 65 : Hari Raya PuasaHari Raya Puasa or Eidul Fitri is here. Many know, for a month before that, Muslims âpuasaâ or fast by not eating and drinking from dawn until dusk. Many also see Muslims go visiting in colourful attire, not just for the day but even for the whole month. Also, not to mention the Hari Raya bazaar in Geylang Serai and Kampong Glam, where you see some food and drinks that only appear during this season. However, like for other religions, many may not know what are its significance and which practices during Hari Raya Puasa that are religious or cult...
2022-05-0133 minWADTEp 64: Stress-less ExamsExams happens twice a year and each time both parents and children are feeling stressed. What can parents do to make exams stress-less?
2022-04-2435 minWADTEp 63: Raising future-ready kidsChange is taking place all the time. But in the last 50 years, the rate of change has been increasing exponentially. At this rate, the future will be exciting and unpredictable. How then can parents prepare their children for it? How can parents raise future-ready kids starting today? Â Â Youâre listening to the WADT podcast. I am Parcsen and my co-hosts today are Hafiz, Kevin, and Fannie.
2022-04-1848 minWADTEp 62: Eat, Sleep and Move Our children are not moving enough, not sleeping enough, and eating too much. Although it has not reached crisis level yet, there are reasons to be concerned and the government saw the need to come up with a 24-hour activity guidelines for children and teens. Is this issue a hot potato? We think it is and weâll be discussing it today.
2022-04-1043 minWADTEp 61: How divorce impacts childrenThe number of divorces and annulments in Singapore has been hovering above the seven thousand mark for many years now. In 2019, 55% of the divorces involves a child under the age of 21. Accumulatively, more than 40k children over the last 10 years are affected by divorce to varying degree . Often, parents assume that children are resilient and so long as they are not showing too much negative emotions (like being depressed or feeling sad) or doing poorly in school, they assume that the kids are okay. But are they? Â In this episode of WADT, we discuss how the divorce of parents i...
2022-04-0551 minWADTEp 60: Puppy LoveYou are listening to the WADT podcast and this week we continue with the new series call Hot Potatoes where we discuss difficult situations parents face with their children and provide some practical tips on how to handle them. If there is a hot potato that you would like us to touch on do let us know through our social media and email. Â We are joined by our new co-host Alvina, a mum to 3 teenagers and currently works as Family Life Educator with MUMs for Life.
2022-03-2946 minWADTEp 59: Regulating your kid's screen timeWelcome to the WADT podcast and this week we continue with the new series call Hot Potatoes where we discuss difficult situations parents face with their children and provide some practical tips on how to handle them. If there is a hot potato that you would like us to touch on do let us know through our social media and email.
2022-03-2245 minWADTEp 58 Teaching kids about moneyWe work hard for it. It affects nearly every aspect of our lives. We use it everyday and think little of it until it runs low. Then we worry. Iâm talking about money. You are listening to the WADT podcast and this week we start a new series call Hot Potatoes where we discuss difficult situations parents face with their children and provide some practical tips on how to handle them. If there is a hot potato that you would like us to touch on do let us know through our social media and email..My co...
2022-03-1539 minWADTEp 57: Women: Worthy of HonourThe International Womenâs Day is celebrated globally on March 8 to commemorate the achievements of women. It is celebrated in different ways in different parts of the world. WADT is marking this important day by talking about women, specifically about how to respect and honour them because they are worthy of them.You will notice something different about our podcast today. instead of there being just two co-hosts (Hafiz and Parcsen), there are four. Joining us are two younger co-host: Kevin Goh and Fannie Lim. Kevin was our guest on the previous episode and he will be jo...
2022-03-0639 minWADTEp 56: Importance of making friendsWelcome to the WADT podcast. In todayâs digital world, it is not uncommon for someone to have hundreds, or even thousands of âfriendsâ on Facebook. But having so many online connections has not improved the quality of life for many. In fact, it has resulted in anxiety and depression of some, especially among the young. What is more important that the number of friends is the number of quality friendships you have. Today, Hafiz and Parcsen will be talking about the importance of making friends.
2022-03-0131 minWADTEp 55: Finding your purpose and passionWelcome to the WADT podcast. Today our guest is Kevin Goh, Deputy Group Head of Engagement and Programmes at the Centre for Fathering. We will be discussing with him about how one can find, follow and fulfil oneâs purpose in life. Weâll talk about how important having a life purpose is, what is passion and what role it plays. Kevin is also a father of 3.
2022-02-2235 minWADTEp 54: To drink or not to drink Welcome to the WADT podcast. Do you drink? And by that I mean alcoholic drinks like beer, wine, and different types of spirits. Singaporeans consumed on average around two liters of alcohol each in 2018, which was among the lowest in Asia-Pacific. This was partly due to the heavy taxation of alcoholic beverages in Singapore. Even so, health officials were concerned about a rise in unhealthy drinking habits among the young because of the harm alcohol has on the body. In this episode, we will reveal the truth about alcohol so that you will be better informed the next time y...
2022-02-1532 minWADTEp 53: Men Need SexWelcome to another edition of the WADT Podcast. We are still on the the Manhood 2.0 series. In our previous episode we discussed about ego, a 3-letter word. In this episode, we will be discussing another 3-letter word - sex. Nothing is more linked with masculinity than a manâs sexual drive and desire. Is it true that men have a greater sex drive than women? Is sex a need for men? We will asking Eugene Chong, Principal Counselling Psychologist at Seeding Minds these questions and more. We will also be talking about porn and masturbation. In Episode 20, we had Dr...
2022-02-0752 minWADTEp 52: Right-sizing your egoEgo has been given a very bad rap. It has often been associated with being selfish, self-absorbed, and narcissistic. Is ego really a bad thing? And do only men have it? Youâre listening to another edition of the WADT podcast. Today, Eugene Chong is returning to provide us with answers to these questions and more. As in the previous episode, we will be announcing a promo code that you can use for something special. So, keep listening to the end. If you like what you hear, we hope that you will subscribe to our podcast and sha...
2022-02-0133 minWADTEp 51: Feeling DownWelcome to the WADT podcast. We are in the second episode of the Manhood 2.0 series where we talk about issues pertaining to menâs mental health and relationships. With us again today is Eugene Chong, the principal counselling psychologist at Seeding Minds. Today, Eugene will be helping us understand depression.   In this episode, we talked about: 1. What is depression - what does it look, sound, and feel like? 2. What causes depression? 3. Why should men seek help asap if they are having depression? 4. Why do men tend not to seek help for...
2022-01-2633 minWADTEp 50: 20 QuestionsWith this episode, Hafiz and Parcsen celebrate WADT's first anniversary. This podcast started on 20 January 2021 and it's been a joy bringing these episodes to you.   This week, Hafiz and Parcsen will be answering 20 questions to reveal their personal sides. The question are as follows:   1. Whatâs your favorite way to spend a day off? 2. What type of music are you into? 3. What was the best vacation you ever took and why? 4. Whereâs the next place on your travel bucket list and why? 5. What are your hobbies, and how did you get...
2022-01-1935 min
WADTEp 49: Taming AngerWelcome to the WADT podcast. Today we kick off a new series called Manhood 2.0 where we will talk about issues pertaining to menâs mental health and relationships. Â Â Our guest today and for the next few episodes is Eugene Chong. Â He is the principal counselling psychologist at Seeding Minds (seeding-minds.com). He helps those with a mental health condition such as depression, anxiety and trauma. He also helps couples with their strained marital relationships. Apart from being a therapist he is also a husband and a father of a 10 year old boy. Â In this episode, Eugene...
2022-01-0833 min
WADTEp 48: How To Achieve Your New Year ResolutionsHello listeners. Hafiz and I want to wish all of you a very Happy New Year and hope that all that you wish for yourself will be fulfilled. New Yearâs day is one of the happiest times of the year. People look forward to it, hoping to put the past behind them and start over, and wish that the new year will be happier and better than the one before. It is customary for people to also make New Year resolutions. But, as experience tells us, by the second week of February most people would have given up on...
2022-01-0531 min
WADTEp 47: The Gift of ChristmasChristmas is probably the most popular celebration in the world, maybe due to the ubiquitous commercialisation by retail businesses taking advantage of the year end holiday season and buzz. Well, who doesn't know Santa Claus, Rudolf the red-nosed reindeer and the familiar Christmas songs! But what is Christmas actually beyond the Christmas tree, presents and turkey? Like many religious celebrations, those outside the Christian community may have only a little understanding of its history and significance. Are there practices during Christmas that are purely religious and others are mainly due to culture? Beyond religious beliefs and practices, w...
2021-12-2135 min
WADTEp 46: Back to School with DadWelcome to the WADT podcast. Our guest today is Shawn Quek. He is a father of two young children and the Manager of Outreach at the Centre for Fathering. He is the point person for the Back to School with Dad campaign that has been running since 2006. He will be sharing with us more about this campaign and how fathers can benefit from it. Â Be sure to visit fathers.com.sg/btsd to download the templates you can use to write special messages to your child on their first day of school.Be sure to visit fathers.c...
2021-12-1332 min
WADTEp 45: Can divorce be amicable?Each year in Singapore, there are over seven thousand divorces and annulments. And for many of them, they are acrimonious. This year, the Government of Singapore conducted several conversations with members of the public to find a way to make divorces more amicable. An amicable divorce is undoubtedly beneficial for all parties involved, especially the children. But is it possible? Our guest today is Himli Ali and he has been divorced from his wife for about a year and his divorce was (guess what?) amicable. Today, Hafiz and I will be finding out how they did it.
2021-12-0639 min
WADTEp: 44 Problem-solvingIn the final installment of the Book Club based on the book How to Talk so Kids will Listen, Hafiz and Parcsen discuss how parents can include and engage their children in the process of problem-solving. Problem-solving is an essential life skill and it can be taught through modeling and practice on a daily basis.
2021-11-3033 min
WADTEp 43: Men who AbuseViolence is everywhere. It's in cities and on the streets. It is brought to our homes through movies and video games. Most concerning is that it is happening at home in the form of domestic violence. Thankfully there are organizations like PAVE that help those who use violence against a family member, be it a spouse or child. Today, we have as our guests Saravanan Krishnan and Hewlett Chew who are social workers at PAVE and we will be discussing domestic violence and why men use violence.If you are experiencing verbal, emotional, or physical abuse, do...
2021-11-2341 min
WADTEp 42: Alternatives to PunishmentHafiz and Parcsen are back to give an overview of the third chapter of the book How To Talk So Kids Will Listen. This chapter explores the alternatives to punishment. Commonly, parents equate punishment with discipline but they are not the same thing. Punishment has been found to be ineffective in teaching children the right behaviour. What can parents do then? Well, listen to this episode and find out. Do also join in the in-depth discussion at our Book Club which is held on the first Wednesday of every month.
2021-11-1832 min
WADTEp 41: Branding with purposeOur guest today is Ferdaus, founder of the branding company Neu Entity whose clientele includes MediaCorp, MOE, HP, and Citibank. Before starting this company Ferdaus worked as a web creator and eventually rose to become the creative lead in a company. By now you must have guessed what we will be talking about in today's podcast. That's right. Branding. And you might also have noticed that our social media platforms like Instagram and Facebook and Youtube, they all look different, nicer, well that's thanks to Ferdaus and his team of designers.
2021-11-0931 min
WADTEp 40: Deepavali: Festival of LightsWelcome to the WADT podcast. The multi-racial harmony that is found in Singapore is unique and it did not happen by accident. It came about as a result of good policies and the combined effort of the citizenry. One of the ways that Singaporeans maintain racial harmony in the nation is by learning about the different cultures that are represented, including those belonging to the minority groups. Today, we will be learning more about Deepavali. Our guest is Ganesan, a civil servant, a husband, and a father of 2.Ganesan also volunteers with Appa Valnaal Uravu, an arm...
2021-11-0129 min
WADTEp 39: Engaging CooperationIn this episode, we return to the book How to Talk so Kids will Listen. In the previous chapter, we've been concentrating on how parents can help children deal with their negative feelings. Now we will focus on helping parents deal with some of their own negative feelings.
2021-10-2635 min
WADTEp 38: Flourishing at WorkToday's episode will be especially important and relevant for men who are either approaching or past the age of 50. The big 50 is a very significant milestone in life. With it comes many changes in the areas of health, outlook, relationships, and work. Our guest is Mohamed Fadhil who has over 10 years of experience in the professional training industry as a facilitator, conducting workshops relating to emotional intelligence, wellbeing, digital literacy, and workplace communication. He is currently completing his Ph.D. in Education. He is also a father and has an 11 yo son. What we talked...
2021-10-1945 min
WADTEp 37: I don't want to live anymoreOur topic for today is a solemn and serious one. It is something that is affecting more and more people in Singapore. I am talking about suicide. In Singapore, Suicide is the leading cause of death for those aged 10-29. 452Â lives were lost to suicide in 2020. And the fact that more than 70%Â of those who took their own lives are males make us want to talk about it on this podcast. Understandably, those who are thinking about killing themselves or have attempted suicide would not want to talk openly about it. But today, we are honoured to have a fr...
2021-10-1238 min
WADTEp 36: Stress can make you stronger and smarterNobody likes to feel stressed. It makes us uncomfortable and has a sense of helplessness. Advice abound on how to live a stress-free life which is something everyone hopes for. But few dare to even suggest that stress may be good for you, that it can make you stronger and sharper. It can also help you avoid some debilitating diseases in old age. Our guest today, Dr Khairudin Aljunied, recently read a book entitled The Stress Test and is here to share what he has learned from it. Dr Khairudin is an associate professor at the N...
2021-10-0445 min
WADTEp 35: RewildingOur way of life has changed drastically Since the days when men were hunter-gathers thanks to technological advances. These advances may have made our lives and work more convenient and efficient but have not necessarily made us stronger or healthier. Human beings are innately wild but modern living has domesticated us and made us no different than wild animals in a zoo. It is time for man to return to their natural state. It is time to rewild. In this episode, Hafiz and Parcsen will explore this interesting subject of rewilding: what it means and how do we do...
2021-09-2735 min
WADTEp 34: Helping children deal with their feelingsWelcome to the We Are Dads Too Book Club.In today's episode, we begin our deep dive into the book "How to talk so kids will listen & how to listen so kids will talk." This book was dubbed the ultimate âparenting bibleâ by The Boston Globe. Both the authors Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish are parenting experts who have written extensively about the parent-child relationship.Chapter one teaches parents how to deal with their children's feelings. The authors want parents to know that when kids feel right, they'll behave right. And the way to help them...
2021-09-2035 min
WADTEp 33: Fit DadSingaporeans, and human beings in general, are living longer today. And to enjoy this longer life, it is essential to stay healthy and to avoid suffering chronic illnesses in old age. Today we have Daryl Sung as our guest. He is a husband, father, and physical educator. He believes in keeping fit and staying healthy and does them with a passion.In this podcast, we talked about...1. Worrying trends in children's activeness2. 3 Simple keys to health and fitness3. How to get started on the road to health4. How to lead your family to...
2021-09-1338 min
WADTEp 32: Ayah, saya sayang kamu (Daddy, I love you.)Welcome to the We Are Dads Too podcast. Dads For Life is a national fathering movement that started in 2009 to inspire, mobilise and involve fathers to become good influences in their childrenâs lives - for life! Numerous studies have found that children do better in nearly all areas of life when they have involved fathers as compared to children with absent fathers. Behind this movement is the Centre for Fathering, a non-profit organization whose mission is to empower fathers to strengthen families. It offers programmes and workshops to equip fathers in all life stages to become effective dads. In...
2021-09-0620 min
WADTEp 31: Teacher, TeacherWelcome to the We Are Dads Too podcast. Â Teachers play a very significant role in all our lives. For at least a decade of our existence, teachers have been helping us learn and grow as a whole person. One day in a year is set aside to show our appreciation to our teachers, and rightly so because apart from providing instruction in the classroom they also accompany students on field trips, conduct extra or remedial classes, help with the organization of school functions, and serve as supervisors for co-curricular activities. How one person is able to bear so many r...
2021-08-3133 min
WADTWhat's New In Season TwoCan't believe that it's been thirty episodes already. We hope that you have enjoyed it as much as we have enjoyed producing them for you. Hafiz and I will be taking a short break but will be back with more good and exciting stuff. Season Two will start on September 1 and it will have new things. Find out what they are.Â
2021-08-1807 min
WADTEp 30: Knowing You, Knowing Me"Knowing you, knowing me", in this 30th episode of @wearedadstoo, it highlights the importance of fathers in maintaining their interest, curiosity in building a meaningful relationship with their children. All is well when an observant dad asks a specific question and speaks the language of their children for an eventful, worthwhile communication between a father and a child. Tune in to @wearedadstoo Spotify channel to find out more on this topic.
2021-08-1036 min
WADTEp 29: A Chat With SuhaimiSuhaimi Yusof, is a no stranger name in the media industry. An actor, comedian, and former radio announcer who has been in the industry for the last 32 years believes that humor gives color in one's life and helps to build a good social rapport. Behind all the smiles and laughter, he enjoys reading a lot! It gives him a sense of escapism! Join @wearedadstoo podcast this week with Suhaimi who is a versatile, dynamic, and entertaining personality sharing wisdomon his life as an entertainer, a son, a husband, and a father to 3 beautiful children only at...
2021-08-051h 00
WADTEp 28: Play: A Child's WorkLetâs LEGO everyone!Do you know what is meant by LEGO? 'LEGO' is an abbreviation of the two Danish words âleg godtâ, meaning âplay wellâ.Yes, play well everyone, regardless of our age, incorporate play in life is essential especially to the childrenâs development. It evokes creativity, brain development, social competency, and most importantly, they are learning on the go! Well, as the saying goes, âall works and no play makes Jack a dull boyâ, itâs high time for us to get amuse and enjoyment in play again. Donât worry about toys, as our surroun...
2021-07-2947 min
WADTEp 27: What New Dads Need to KnowWhat new dads should know?âAmong all my firsts in life, being a first time dad is my favouriteâ - Unknown.What a beautiful transition life journey one could experience from being a responsible adult man to having a lifetime partner and now being a dad, it surely life moments etched in one heart. Well we @wearedadstoo as a âseniorâ dad, would like to share âsecretsâ on what new dads should know to help make your adventure fatherhood journey as memorable life moments together with Dr. Zainal Muttakin a specialist paediatric only at @wearedadstoo Spotify and Youtube channel. Donât forget to tune
2021-07-2142 min
WADTEp 26: Who Should Care ?Who should care?đ¤Caring about others is a heroic act by itself. As we (children) are busy growing up, we tend to forget that our parents are growing old at the same time. And the most precious things we can give to our elders are time, love, and care. @wearedadstoo knows that caregiving for our elders has never been a walk in the park.With the empowering culture of care involving every level of society from the school, youths, emplo...
2021-07-1436 min
WADTEp 25: Values in ActionSon: Dad, Iâm going to make a cup of coffee to stay awake for final EURO 2020, would you like to have a cup? I can make it for you.Dad: Oh dear, it sounds tempting, but Iâm good. Thank you for asking.Son: Welcome!The above conversation might sound normal with the son being considerate and caring. But, to have these values inculcated actually takes a lot of practice in a family household.There are a lot of family values, but what we can do is to choose and pick...
2021-07-0744 min
WADTEp 24: Parenting That WorksWhich types of parenting styles work for you? Authoritative? Indulgent? Indifferent? Collaborative?đ¤Well, thereâs no one-size-fits-all when it comes to parenting. Each parent is different, but what's similar is that every parent wants the best for their childrenđŻSit back and join @wearedadstoo podcast this week as we share how to have rules at home without overdoing them, the importance to have a learning environment where mistakes and open discussion are welcome and cherishedđ. Tag us @wearedadstoo on your key takeaways!
2021-06-3053 min
WADTEp 23: The Hidden EnemyCan you guess who is it? Well, it is not your usual frenemy, but itâs none other than the big C; Cancer. According to the Singapore Cancer Society, about 39 people are diagnosed with cancer every day. 1 in 4 people may develop cancer in their lifetime.While not everyone develops cancer,  there are many factors that may trigger this disease. The possible factors include our environment, having a sedentary lifestyle, hidden toxins found in our daily household items such as softener. Want to know more about...
2021-06-2329 min
WADTEp 22: To Dad, With LoveâTo the world, youâre a dad,To our family, youâre the worldâ. ~ Unknown~Happy Fatherâs Day to all fathers, youâre truly the unsung heroes! On this special day, let's take this opportunity to fondly reconnect with our dads; be it via Zoom, Facetime or Skype as long as we cherish every moment with our loved ones.Try asking these questions with your dads if you often struggle to keep the conversation going!đđźÂ 1. Whatâs the one thing you li...
2021-06-1634 min
WADTEp 21: Raising Sons & DaughtersParents only want the best for their children.The subject of raising children in this fast-changing world such as how they play, live, communicate, think and how they grow as an individual - are profound concerns most parents have.Should parents raise their sons and daughters according to gender stereotypes?Join us in our podcast today with our special guest, Martin Lim, Chief Relationship Officer at Focus on the Family.Here, we talk about the difference between traditional and modern parenting, the stereotypical gender roles in society and how parents play...
2021-06-0954 min
WADTEp 20: Men & Sexual HealthIn Asian culture, it is taboo to have open discussions about healthy sexual health among family, friends and even with our own partner. We feel uncomfortable and tend to keep our sexual health problems to ourselves without seeking help from medical experts.In this episode from @wearedadstoo on Men and Sexual Health, Dr Taufiq Rashid from Pulse Medical Centre shares insights from the difficulties men face in their sexual health, such as going through andropause and many more!Tune in to Spotify @wearedadstoo to know more.
2021-06-0232 min
WADTEp 19: "Real Men" Don't Get Sick ?A lot of men have developed the mindset that âIf nothing is broken, donât fix itâ when it comes to their health. They believe that they are strong enough to do their daily activities as per usual. However, what happens then when their health starts to deteriorate?In this episode, Dr Taufiq Rashid from Pulse Medical Centre, shares with us why prevention is better than cure. He talks about the importance of going for health screening, our fitness and shares ways to maintain a healthy lifestyle.
2021-05-2637 min
WADTEp 18: Digital CandyWhat happens when you give candy to a child? He or she would want more of it. In the same way, when parents hand a digital device to their young children, they are giving them digital candy.In this episode, Professor Michael Chia from the National Institute of Education (NIE), shares about the impact digital devices has on children during the early childhood years and what parents can do to help moderate their children's screen-time. He also talks about why children should play more.Don't forget to follow on all our social media platforms @wearedadstoo...
2021-05-1958 min
WADTEp 17: Fatherhood Starts HereDid you correctly guess about the guest and topic for this week's episode?đ¤No worries, we got you covered! @wearedadstoo is honored to have Bryan Tan, CEO of Centre For Fathering, on this week's conversation. A father of 4 children, he recently welcomed the arrival of his 4th child. A former senior officer with the Singapore Armed Forces, he made a career switch to the social service sector several years ago. Tune in to this episode on our Spotify channel to catch Bryan's views on matters of concern to fathers, including the importance of fully utilizing paternity leaves.
2021-05-1247 min
WADTEp 16: A Mother SpeaksSpecial on Mother's Day, @wearedadstoo together with Dr. Mariam, a working mom, delved into various themes such as struggling of working mothers, importance of compromising between a wife and a husband, developing an effective communication style to express your thoughts and emotions productively and lots more more about motherhood as life as a wife and mother is never a destination but a beautiful journey.For more resources on parenting check us out on Facebook and Instagram @wearedadstoo.We would like to hear your comments and questions too. Feel free to share them and be connected...
2021-05-0858 min
WADTEp 15: Hope For The Busy Father (Part 2)In the previous episode we have discussed about the three ingredients needed to have good quality time. In part two of Hope for the Busy Father, we will discuss on how fathers out there can compartmentalise their time between work and family!! Listen to this episode for some tips to know how you can balance your time to ensure that you have some time to wind down, work and spend time with family.
2021-04-2829 min
WADTEp 14: Hope For The Busy Father (Part 1)âGive me five minutes, Iâll get back to youâ Do you often say this to your child? Then this episode is for you! We understand that you may be busy but that little pockets of time you make for your child makes a huge impact. Sometimes organising or having family time does not equate to quality time between you and your children. Listen to this episode to learn some tips on how you can ensure the time you spend with your children are of quality.
2021-04-2126 min
WADTEp 13: Dads In ProgressFathers, small progress is still PROGRESS. Celebrate your small wins! Fathers, like mothers, are also considered part of the backbone in the development of a child's emotional well-being.Did you know that fathers may experience postpartum depression as well? This is called paternal postpartum depression. In our society, males are depicted as the pillar of the family but what people don't see is their vulnerabilities.In this episode, WADT touches, among others, on how to cope with being a first time father and signs of paternal postpartum depression.This may be something you...
2021-04-1433 min
WADTEp 12: Fathering After Divorce (Part 2)In this second part of "Fathering After Divorce" episode, we will explore the importance of quality time between a father and the children to develop the best relationships between them. Plus point, if you're wondering when is the best time to be in love again, give a listen to this episode exclusively at We Are Dads Too (WADT).If you enjoy our episode, please do share it around, comment and tag us @wearedadstoo. WADT love to hear from you!
2021-04-1028 min
WADTEp 11: Fathering After Divorce (Part 1)"Divorce" in most cultures has always been associated with negative connotations. What if we change our perspective to the positive by talking about it so that both separated parties move forward in co-parenting their child? Our child will always be ours no matter what happens to the marriage. For the dads and moms struggling to build a life from the shattered glass, practical insights and tips are shared in this conversation, specifically for you! Hang in there! WADT got you covered!Tune in to the next episode to know how to move forward after divorce.
2021-03-3126 min
WADTEp 10: Q & A With Hafiz and ParcsenWe all agree with the saying goes: "Rome wasn't built in a day". The same goes with TRUST in a relationship. Yet, we still test the water and at the end of the day, most of us are clueless on how to save our precious relationship. Tune in to this episode to know how you can navigate through this issue!We have received a deluge of questions and we have answered a few in this episode. We truly appreciate all the questions that you have given us.For more resources on fathering check us out...
2021-03-2411 min
WADTEp 9: When Conflicts Turn ViolentIn this episode, we talk about domestic violence with the Co-Founder and Executive Director of Casa Raudha Limited, Zaharah Ariff. People have heard about domestic violence but more can be done to spread awareness of its severity and impact on families. Listen to this conversation also to know how domestic violence can be prevented and what victims can do when facing such a challenge.
2021-03-1747 min
WADTEp 8: Conflict Management In MarriageWe are all imperfect communicators. We think we know what we are saying but sometimes we are not aware of the emotions involved. The slight change of intonation and emphasis can cause a conflict. Conflict among partners is inevitable, listen to this episode to know how you and your partner can manage conflict better! It is important to know how to articulate your feelings and learn some tips to conflict management.
2021-03-1032 min
WADTEp 7: Communication In MarriageCommunication is key in achieving connection and intimacy in a relationship. This episode discusses about communication as the backbone of a marriage relationship. When communication breaks down, the marriage will start to crack and partners will feel the distance between them increasing.Listen to this episode to know how you and your partner can achieve a deeper connection through improving your communication with one another.
2021-03-0332 min
WADTEp 6: Beware of The Marriage Breakers (Part 2)One of the keys to good parenting is a strong marriage. When fathers treat their wives well and do what they can to keep the whole family intact, they are modelling to their children what they should do to have a healthy family in the future! Listen to this episode to know more about the next two indicators of marriage breakers!
2021-02-2433 min
WADTEp 5: Beware of The Marriage Breakers (Part 1)We will be covering the first part of marriage breakers in the fifth episode. Marriage is a big topic and many couples do not realise that the key to good parenting is a strong marriage. Fathers when they treat their wives well and do what they can to keep the whole family intact, they are modelling to their children what they should do to have a healthy family in the future! Listen to this episode to know more about the first two indicators of marriage breakers!
2021-02-1738 min
WADTEp 4: It Takes TwoThe topic for our fourth episode will be on parenting as a team. An important topic that we are going to discuss using the volleyball team analogy. Parenting roles were divided generally along gender lines but nowadays these two roles of mothering and fathering role are overlapping! Listen to this episode to hear some tips on how to work as a team when parenting!Â
2021-02-1041 min
WADTEp 3: The New BalanceThe topic for our third episode will be about working from home and how parenting or fathering will be in this situation. Â It can be difficult to adjust to the new normal, but it is a blessing in disguise. Listen to this episode to know how you can find the balance between working from home and parenting!
2021-02-0339 min
WADTEp 2: Strong Minds, Soft HeartsThe topic for our second episode is on mental resilience. Our children's education is something very close to our hearts and the Singapore education system can be very pressurizing. They might not know how to handle the pressure and many of them come to the point where they feel like they can't do it. Listen to this episode to know how Dads can play a part in helping the child to develop mental resilience skill!â¨
2021-01-2740 min
WADTEp 1: Papa, Don't Teach!The topic for our first episode is on childrenâs education. Many parents in Singapore are very much influenced by the high standard but pressurised education system. We understand that parents want the best for their kids but it also comes with considerable stress. Listen to know more about how we can allow our children to take control of their lives and reach their full potential!â¨
2021-01-2029 min
The Parenting PodEpisode 4 with Parcsen LokeParcsen voices out concerns of new fathers and possible reasons why they do not use the paternity leave in full. He continues to stress the importance of a father's early involvement in a child's life. Tune in to find out how parents can work together as a team and be more involved in their child's life at an early stage.
2020-02-2605 minThe Parenting PodEpisode 3 with Parcsen LokeParcsen Loke, Head of Programmes at Centre for Fathering, talks about how couples with different parenting style can still find a way to effectively parent as a team. Parcsen also uses beach volleyball to illustrate what it means to parent as a team.
2020-02-2605 min