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Purposeful ParentingEP249 My Teen Is Spoiled! HELP!!!A listener asked Harriett, "How can you reverse some of the effects in a spoiled teenager as the parent and a parent's friend?" In this episode, Harriett answers the question in the first of a two-part series.2025-04-2314 minPurposeful ParentingEP242: Teaching A Growth Mindset: Building Strength for Life's Challenges Part IIHarriett continues the series Building Strength for Life's Challenges: Teaching a Growth Mindset Part II. In this episode Harriett tells you how to develop a resilient or growth mindset in children that will empower them to view challenges as opportunities, learn perseverance through failures, and find support and inspiration in Scriptures.2025-03-0511 minPurposeful ParentingEP214RB: The Last TimeHarriett ends the summer of rebroadcasting with the episode entitled, The Last Time. In parenting there are so many "last times", and with them come many emotions. For some of you, this may be the last time you have a child at home. Whatever "last time" you are experiencing, Harriett encourages you to cherish each "last time" and hold them close to your heart. I've enjoyed revisiting some of the podcasts, I hope you have too. I hope you had a great summer and that you continued to "Parent on Purpose".2024-08-2808 minPurposeful ParentingEP207RB: Trust Is A Two Way StreetHarriett continues rebroadcasting for the summer as she talks about trust. In this episode Harriett tells parents that they must earn their child's trust. She also emphasizes the qualities that contribute to building and sustaining your child's trust.2024-07-0314 minPurposeful ParentingEP 200: A Little About MeHarriett's husband, Dennis interviews her in this milestone episode.... EP 200. Find out how Purposeful Parenting came about as well as some other things about Harriett, the person behind the podcast. 2024-05-1519 minPurposeful ParentingApologetics: Teach Your Child To Stand Firm On His/her FaithIn this episode, Harriett reviews a book, Mama Bear Apologetics by Hillary Morgan Ferrer. With Harriett's insights from the book (and a little AI), you can see why this book is a must read and a must study in order to help your child defend his/her doctrine on faith and to stand firm when challenged.2023-09-2014 minPurposeful ParentingBook Review: "Children Are Wet Cement"When Harriett was raising her children, the book by Anne Ortlund, "Children Are Wet Cement", was one that she read several times. With her memory of the book (and help of AI), Harriett pulls together a book review that she hopes will encourage you to read the book that is, if you have not already done so.2023-07-1907 minPurposeful ParentingTo Know Real Love Is To Know JesusIn this episode, Harriett tells you how to find REAL LOVE and why it is important.2022-03-2311 minPurposeful ParentingBuild Your House On A Strong FoundationIn this episode, Harriett tells you a story about 2 men building their home and how their as to where to build made a difference with the outcome of their homes. 2022-03-1610 minPurposeful ParentingIntroduction To Strong Family SeriesThe word "Family" stirs up different emotions in people. All families will experience times of love and happiness, pain and frustration. Strong families however, weather the storms of pain and frustration and the images that come to mind are of love and happiness, not of the pain and frustration they went through. In this episode, Harriett introduces the series on Characteristics of Strong Families. 2022-03-0904 minPurposeful ParentingPositivity Is Contagious...Catch It!In this episode Harriett talks about being a positive parent and gives you ways to "catch" this "parental contagion". 2022-03-0221 minPurposeful ParentingLove...The Greatest Gift Of All!Do you know the characteristics of true love? It is the vital ingredient in all relationships and must be demonstrated. In this episode, Harriett gives the key to demonstrating true love. 2022-02-2310 minPurposeful ParentingChildren Say Love Is...How does your child know that you love him? Have you ever asked him? What would your child say love is? In this episode Harriett talks about ways that children learn that they are loved. She also shares some things children, to include her grandchildren, have said about love. 2022-02-1619 minPurposeful Parenting"Not A One"In this episode Harriett tells a true story about a young boy who was excited to give, did not receive but was thrilled to say, "Not A One". This story is a life lesson that is important for children to learn.2022-02-0910 minPurposeful ParentingA Teachable HolidayValentine's Day, a day to emphasize love! It is also a perfect time to teach your child key concepts about love. In this episode Harriett gives you ways to get the concepts of empathy, kindness, and unconditional love, across to your child. 2022-02-0216 minPurposeful ParentingWhat IF?Our children learn from us. If we do certain things, our children will respond in a fairly predictable manner. If is, "a word to introduce a possible or unreal situation or condition." In this episode, Harriett gives you "ifs" to do and "ifs" not to do. 2022-01-2605 minPurposeful ParentingSelf-Care Anyone?Practicing "Self-Care" does not mean you are choosing yourself over others. "Self-Care" means that you are aware of your own needs. Harriett recommends taking a big dose of "Self-Care" to maintain your strength and energy level in order to care for your family. Find out what she has to say about the importance of "Self-Care" in this episode of Purposeful Parenting.2022-01-1918 minPurposeful ParentingThe Most Important New Year's DecisionYou probably made New Year's Resolutions, right? There is one Resolution/Decision that is a must. Harriett tells you what it is in this episode.2022-01-1109 minPurposeful ParentingWhat? Holiday Let-Down?Did you know that children, just like adults, can experience Holiday Let-Down, or what is also known as Post Holiday Blahs/Depression? In this episode, Harriett tells you how to recognize it and how to avoid it and/or treat it. 2022-01-0515 minPurposeful ParentingCelebrate 2022 With Your ChildrenTeach your children as you usher in 2022. In this episode, Harriett gives you some ideas as to how you can celebrate the New Year with your children.2021-12-2911 minPurposeful ParentingThe Word That Means Christmas.What's the first word that comes to your mind when you think about Christmas? In this episode Harriett tells you what that word is and why. Merry Christmas!2021-12-2210 minPurposeful ParentingChristmas Series Part 2 The Gift of the Magi by O.HenryCurrent events may be causing added stress. However, we can have a wonderful Christmas if we remember what Christmas is about. The book, The Gift of the Magi by O. Henry is a perfect reminder that love ALWAYS carries the day. Harriett encourages you to share this story with your children so that they will learn the true meaning of gifting and receiving.2021-12-1518 minPurposeful ParentingWords of ChristmasWhat 7 words make you think of Christmas, the REAL meaning of Christmas? In this episode, Harriett takes you back thousands of years to tell you about the 7 Words of Christmas that Robert Morris covers in his book, Seven Words of Christmas. These words are indeed the heart of Christmas.2021-12-0826 minPurposeful ParentingChristmas Series Part I: An Unlikely Story Made Real!In this episode Harriett tells the story about Love coming to earth. The poem, "Oh, Mary, How Could You," by Greta Zwaan, tells how the life of an engaged couple played a role in Christmas.2021-12-0109 minPurposeful ParentingA Heart Warming Thanksgiving StoryAre you ready to count your blessings? No matter what you are going through, there is always something to be thankful for. In this episode, Harriett shares a Thanksgiving story that shows how a little help from someone can get another to think differently about themselves and others. This is a perfect Thanksgiving story to share with your children. Happy Thanksgiving!2021-11-2407 minPurposeful ParentingGratitude, The Fairest BlossomIt is important to teach your child gratitude. In this episode Harriett tells you why it is important, how to teach your child gratitude and why "gratitude is the fairest blossom which springs from the soul." ~ Henry Ward Beecher2021-11-1713 minPurposeful ParentingChildren, Peppermint And BoundariesHarriett's experience growing peppermint showed her how peppermint without boundaries reinforces the need for children to have boundaries, and the right kind of boundaries. 2021-11-0324 minPurposeful ParentingPeppermint Or God's Way?Even peppermint needs boundaries. In this episode, Harriett tells you about her challenge with growing peppermint and relates it to you and your child. She reminds you that your child is a force that God has put on this earth and you hold his/her destiny in your hand.2021-10-2713 minPurposeful ParentingFrogs and snails or Sugar and Spice?Remember the phrase, "Little girls are made of sugar and spice and everything nice"? And this, "Little boys are made of frogs and snails and puppy dog tails." In this episode Harriett shares 2 poems by Alan Beck that captures the real differences between a little boy and a little girl. As you listen to both poems, she ask you to "dream" along and remember things that your child has done. They are perfect poems to remind you of the wonders that God created when He gave your child/children to you and how He created them so that they are ab...2021-10-2017 minPurposeful ParentingHelp Your Child Through This Season Of LifeThings in today's world can be scary, uncertain and very stressful. Sometimes as parents we forget that our children are watching how we deal with the world around us. But we must always parent on purpose. In this episode, Harriett shares a story that demonstrates how to do this. 2021-10-1317 minPurposeful ParentingYour Child Has A Calling...Don't Block ItSamson's parents knew exactly what Samson was born to do, and they taught and guided him in that direction. Samson seemed unconcerned about God's objective for his life but despite Samson's failings, God used him anyway. In this episode, Harriett tells you things that can block your child's calling.2021-10-0623 minPurposeful ParentingBorn A Hero. But What's Missing?In this episode, Harriett tells a story about a son, born to be a hero, raised to be a hero, but fell short of what he could have done. Why? What's missing? Listen to the story and you'll see. Ponder Ephesians 5:17, "Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is." 2021-09-2934 minPurposeful ParentingThe Perfect ShelterWe know there are shelters for different emergencies. But, is there A Perfect Shelter? Harriett says there is. In this episode, she tells you about The Perfect Shelter. She also gives you a 21 Day Challenge that will help you, help yourself and your child during these troubled times.2021-09-2212 minPurposeful ParentingSomeone Special Walks With MothersIn this episode Harriett shares some of the feelings she has experienced during these days filled with turmoil throughout the world and especially in the United States. She gives things to remember during these trying times and she tells us about Someone Special who walks with mothers and how to remind yourself of this so that you can Parent On Purpose.2021-09-1516 minPurposeful ParentingFear: A Gift Or A CurseFear is a big part of our experiences and it can be a gift or a curse. In this episode, Harriett talks about how to help your child handle fear so that it can be a gift. She also recommends books that can help you help your child. And, as always, she shares some of her favorite verses that help her face fearful times.2021-09-0816 minPurposeful ParentingBe PreparedWhat do you do when you wake up to a world that you don't recognize? What do you do when everything seems out of control? In this episode, Harriett talks about "A World Gone Wild" and how you navigate it and comfort your family.2021-09-0112 minPurposeful ParentingGod Delights In Mothers Who... (Part of Wisdom Series)Are you a Mother that God delights in? Find out if you are in the episode. In this episode Harriett tells you how to be a Mother that God delights in.2021-08-2523 minPurposeful ParentingGet Wisdom: He Wants To Teach You...Let Him! (Part III)God's Wisdom is needed in every mother's life, and He wants you to have this Wisdom. There are however, things you must do. In this episode, Harriett covers 6 things that you need to do so that God can teach you to walk in His Word and gain His Wisdom.2021-08-1825 minPurposeful ParentingGod's Wisdom and Your ChildThis is Part II of the series on Wisdom...the most important ingredient needed in Purposeful Parenting. In this episode Harriett tells you about God's wisdom with children and how you and your children reap lasting benefits when "God's wisdom is whispered into hearts." 2021-08-1117 minPurposeful ParentingThe Main Ingredient In Purposeful ParentingDo you want to know what the main ingredient in Purposeful Parenting is? If so, you will want to listen to this 4 part series during the month of August. After reading Jack Countryman's book of verses, God's Wisdom For Mothers, Harriett was led to share the importance of being a mother with this ingredient. She explains the importance of it, how to obtain it and why it is the main ingredient in Purposeful Parenting. 2021-08-0417 minPurposeful ParentingHow Two Daughters View Their Birth OrderIn this episode, two of Harriett's daughters discuss how they view Birth Order based on their place in the family. There are interesting revelations as Harriett, Allison and Kirsten talk Birth Order.2021-07-2132 minPurposeful ParentingMemorize This And Then Hide It!What is the most important thing your child should memorize and then Hide? God's Word encourages us to raise children in the way they should go and when they are old, they will not depart from it (Proverbs 22:6 ). The answer to the question then is, God's Word. In this episode, Harriett tells you why this is important and gives you ways to help your child "Memorize and Hide".2021-07-1420 minPurposeful ParentingKirsten, The Third Child's ViewpointHarriett's youngest daughter joins her on this episode. Hear how Kirsten, the third child of 4 children and the 3rd daughter viewed growing up in the Rowe household. Kirsten covers the role her parents played in her activities, school work, and how she viewed discipline. She also shares how she and her husband Scott are bringing up their son Trey to learn to trust Jesus as his Lord and Savior. 2021-07-0728 minPurposeful ParentingThe Art Of Listening To Your ChildDo you listen to your child? Do your REALLY listen? In this episode, Harriett talks about actively listening to your child. She tells you what actively listening is, why it is important and just how to actively listen. 2021-06-3021 minPurposeful ParentingPut On The Whole Armor Of God Part IIThis episode covers the last 3 parts of the Armor of God...The Shield of Faith, The Helmet of Salvation and The Sword of the Spirit. Harriett discuss the importance of each of these and gives ways to make use of them in order to recognize and fight against false teachers.2021-06-2323 minPurposeful ParentingHow To Fight Against False TeachersThe armor of God is our spiritual defense needed to fight against false teachers. In this episode, Harriett covers the first 3 pieces of armor...1) The Belt Of Truth, 2) The Breastplate Of Righteousness and 3) Feet Fitted With The Gospel Of Peace. She stresses the importance of this armor as parents protect their children from false teachings.2021-06-1621 minPurposeful ParentingParents, Be Aware Of False Teachers!Parents, there are things going on in the world today that you MUST be aware of and you must make sure your child does not become a victim. In the episode today, Harriett talks about these things that go against what God says. The more you know, the better you can, "Parent On Purpose."2021-06-0926 minPurposeful ParentingThe Benefits Of Eating Together As A FamilyDoes your family eat meals together or does each family member run in and grab something to eat at different times because of your busy schedules? If so, Harriett gives suggestions as to steps to take to start eating at least one meal as a family. She also covers the many benefits from eating family meals.2021-05-2620 minPurposeful ParentingSingle Parents Part III: Raising Happy, Healthy ChildrenChildren raised by single parents can be just as happy and mentally strong as children living with two parents. In this episode, Harriett covers key points that lead to positive single parenting, and what is needed to build strong relationships in a single family home. 2021-05-1223 minPurposeful ParentingPower in Praise And The Single ParentIn this second episode for single parents, Harriett reminds you that God knows where you are in life and that He has a plan for you and your children. She walks you through the first step in your relationship with God. She covers the importance of praising God in every situation, showing how praise brings about a change in your attitude which allows you to show true gratitude. She stresses that this is for people in general, not just parents.2021-05-0521 minPurposeful ParentingSingle Parenting Part IIn this episode, Harriett begins a series on Single Parenting. She wants single parents to know and understand that God's directives for raising their children are the same for 2 parent families. And that, "Being a single parent is twice the work, twice the stress and twice the tears BUT also twice the hugs, twice the love and twice the pride." ~ Unknown2021-04-2812 minPurposeful ParentingLove Your Child The Apostle Paul's WayLove is not just an emotion or a thought, it must be demonstrated. In this episode, Harriett shows how to demonstrate love to your child as described by Apostle Paul in 1 Corinthians 13 : 4-7.2021-04-2123 minPurposeful ParentingPut An End To The WhiningAre you at your wits end trying to figure out how to stop your child from whining? In this episode Harriett talks about how whining got started, the role you play in it and how to bring it to a halt. 2021-04-1417 minPurposeful ParentingGuard Your Child's HeartIn this episode, Harriett talks about something that is happening in today's world that parents need to be aware of and intentionally guard their children's heart.2021-04-0712 minPurposeful ParentingCareer Day Speech-Be All God Wants You To BeIn this episode, Harriett shares the speech she gave to students during their Career Day. She wove a tapestry of stories together about her life and the lives of her family members as she gave them the blueprint of how to go about being all God created them to be.2021-03-3137 minPurposeful ParentingBuilding Your Child's Self-EsteemIn this episode Harriett gives ways to build your child's self-esteem. She also covers what happens to a child's self-esteem when bullied if the parent is unsupportive, over-supportive or uninvolved.2021-03-2421 minPurposeful ParentingThe Characteristics Of A Child With Healthy Self-Esteem, Poor Self-Esteem, and Inflated Self-EsteemHave you ever wondered about your child's self-esteem? In this episode Harriett discusses the characteristics of a child who has a healthy self-esteem. She also discusses what a child will experience if he has poor self-esteem. And yes, a child can have an inflated self-esteem and she covers those characteristics too.2021-03-1716 minPurposeful ParentingSafe-Guarding Your Child's Self-EsteemIn this episode, Safe-Guarding Your Child's Self-Esteem, Harriett covers the 6 Vital Ingredients of self-esteem and gives ideas as to how to go about safe-guarding your child's self-esteem. 2021-03-1016 minPurposeful ParentingEmotional Intelligence Part 2In this episode, Harriett covers the benefits of Emotional Intelligence, how to know if your child is developing Emotional Intelligence and what you, the parent can do to enhance/increase your child's Emotional Intelligence.2021-03-0321 minPurposeful ParentingEmotional Intelligence Part 1Emotional Intelligence (EI) is ones ability to recognize and understand emotions in ourselves and others. In fact, it is a strong indicator of leadership and personal excellence. With that in mind, it is important to help your child increase his/her EI Score. In this first episode of this series, Harriett discuss Emotional Intelligence as it relates to ones IQ and personality.2021-02-2413 minPurposeful ParentingYour Most Important Decision To MakeThere are a lot of decisions to make throughout ones life. In this episode, Harriett talks about the most important decision, as she sees it, that you can make in your life and that you can guide your child towards making. This decision is key in Purposeful Parenting. 2021-02-1712 minPurposeful ParentingA David and Goliath Experience With Your ChildHave you had a day or days when you felt overwhelmed and at the end of your rope with your child? Are you faced with trials and difficulties and many are centered around your child? Harriett refers to this as having "David and Goliath Experiences." In this episode she tells you how to successfully deal with this experience.2021-02-1012 minPurposeful ParentingWhy Encouraging Your Child is More Effective Than Praising Him/HerDo you encourage or praise your child? Have you ever thought about the difference? There is a difference and they have different effects on children. In this episode Harriett discusses the differences, gives examples and tells you the effects of encouragement and praise.2021-02-0314 minPurposeful ParentingPart 3: Interview with 2 of my DaughtersThis episode with Allison and Lauren takes place after the interview is over but the recording is still going. They use this opportunity and ask Harriett to critic how she felt she did as a parent...interesting! Here's a spoiler alert (just in case you have "little ears" around)...they discuss learning about Saint Nick.2021-01-2724 minPurposeful ParentingPart 1: Interview with 2 of my DaughtersIn this episode, Harriett interviews their 2 older daughters, Allison and Lauren. They remember their childhood interactions with each other and talk about some of the traditions they found meaningful.2021-01-1325 minPurposeful ParentingStart Where You StandIn this episode Harriett shares 6 principles that she was always aware of when raising their children. It's a new year and a new beginning and it is important to "Start Where You Stand"2021-01-0610 minPurposeful ParentingMiracles And Your ChildIn this episode Harriett shares two true miracles, one involves her family. She encourages you to pray with your child, let them know when a "huge miracle" happens and let them know when and how your prayers are answered. Teach your child to expect answers to their prayers and that God always gets it right.2020-12-3012 minPurposeful ParentingYour Child, Miracles and Faith-Filled Prayers!Teach your child to pray and expect answers and teach them that God's answer is always best. In this episode Harriett talks about faith-filled prayer and the importance of teaching it to your children. "The Problem in praying for miracles with our kids comes only when we begin to direct their faith to the results of our prayers instead of the miracle worker Who is God."She shares a true story demonstrating a miracle of love.2020-12-2312 minPurposeful ParentingHope Never Abandons You-You Abandon Hope!This is the season of Hope. In this episode Harriett tells you a story about Hope, what it is and how you, the parent should teach your child about hope and let him/her see you demonstrate it.2020-12-1605 minPurposeful ParentingTraditions are Important! Don't Take Them Lightly!In this episode Harriett discusses the importance of family traditions. She explains why it is important to continue or create family traditions during this time of Covid. She also offers suggestions for starting family traditions during this time.2020-12-0908 minPurposeful ParentingWhat's Your Parenting Style?Do you know your parenting style? In this weeks episode, Harriett discusses the four types of parenting styles. You'll see how each style differs in the areas of discipline, communication, expectations, and nurturing. You will also see the effects each parenting style has on children.2020-12-0219 minPurposeful ParentingThe Fruits of The Spirit and You, The ParentIn this episode Harriett names and explains the Fruits of the Spirit. She tells you how The Holy Spirit gives you the power needed to respond to your children in a loving way. She also takes you through what you need to do in order to have the Fruits of the Spirit become evident in your life.2020-11-2515 minPurposeful ParentingYour Child and Their StrugglesChildren should learn to deal with adversity according to their developmental level. In this episode, Harriett uses two short stories to explain why it is important to allow children to struggle. Parents must teach and yes, role model the healthy way to deal with adversity.2020-11-1810 minPurposeful ParentingCharacteristics of a Disciplined ParentAre you a disciplined parent? In this episode, Harriett gives the characteristics of disciplined parents and tells you what you can do to become one. 2020-11-1119 minPurposeful ParentingTeach Your Child About "The Still Small Voice"Your child must be taught about distrust...that feeling of doubt that one has towards something or someone. In this episode, Harriett tells you how you can help your child tune into the "Still Small Voice" that can help guide him/her away from harm. She also covers other actions you can take to help keep your children safe.2020-11-0419 minPurposeful ParentingTrust Is A Two-Way StreetTrust is foundational to human relationships. More often than not, parents tend to forget that they must earn their child's trust. In this episode, Harriett emphasizes the qualities that contribute to building and sustaining your child's trust.2020-10-2814 minPurposeful ParentingYou MUST Teach Your Child This!In this episode find out the most important thing that a child should learn. Harriett tells you what it is and what you, as the parent should do to help your child learn it. 2020-10-2117 minPurposeful ParentingThe Love Language of Acts of ServiceThe Love Language of Acts of Service is the last of the 5 Love Languages. In this episode Harriett tells you two stories. One story shows you the response of a child whose love language, Acts of Service, is not met. The other story, taken from the 4 Gospels in the Bible, shows the use of all of the Love Languages: Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Gifts, and Acts of Service.2020-10-1422 minPurposeful ParentingThe Love Language of GiftsA child whose love language is gifts, sees gifts given to them as expressions of love. There are dos and don'ts to giving gifts to these children. What are they? In this episode, Harriett covers what to do and what not to do if your child's love language is gifts.2020-10-0712 minPurposeful ParentingReal TalkHave you ever had "one of those days? Nothing seems to go right, the kids are running all over the place, the house is a wreck and you need to make an appointment but you can't find a babysitter. You're sinking and there's no life preserver.Harriett has been there, done that. In this episode she shares how she learned to cope when she had, "one of those days."2020-09-3014 minPurposeful ParentingThe Love Language of Quality TimeIn this episode Harriett talks about the importance of quality and quantity time and how quality time is especially important for the child whose love language is Quality Time. She discusses the benefits of spending time with your children and how even the smallest amount time spent with them can make memories that can last a lifetime.2020-09-2313 minPurposeful ParentingLove Language: Words of Affirmation Part IIWords can hurt children. The wrong words, the wrong tone and even the wrong body language can scar a child emotionally and shatter his self-image and is especially harmful if the child's Love Language is Words of Affirmation. In this episode, Harriett discusses healthy ways to communicate with your child using biblical principles.2020-09-1621 minPurposeful ParentingLove Language: Words of Affirmation Part IWords are powerful and can either build up or tear down a child. If Words of Affirmation is your child's Love Language, the wrong words can be extremely detrimental. "The way we talk to our child becomes his/her inner voice." In this episode, Harriett covers things to avoid doing when communicating with your child.2020-09-0917 minPurposeful ParentingEP252: RB Purposeful Parenting DefinedAre you wondering what exactly Purposeful Parenting is? In today’s episode, Harriett defines Purposeful Parenting and tells you how she learned to “parent on purpose.” She also reveals the ONE resource that contains all the principles of parenting that she ever needed.Follow Harriett at:https://www.harriettrowe.com/2020-08-2610 minPurposeful ParentingLove, The FoundationHarriett uses this episode to introduce you to the importance of knowing and "speaking" your child's "Love Language." Love is the foundation of the family and your child needs to "hear" that you love her/him in her/his "Love Language."2020-08-2618 minPurposeful ParentingYes, I Have A Story!Harriett heard over and over how a person’s story can help others. However, she didn’t think her story would be dramatic enough to help others. In today’s episode, Harriett will share with you how she finally realized that she has a story that CAN help others. Follow Harriett at:https://www.harriettrowe.com/2020-08-1611 min