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Raising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys41. How to Connect with Your Teenage Son Using Humor (Stop the Power Struggles)If you're tired of walking on eggshells around your teenage son or feeling like every conversation turns into a power struggle, this episode is for you. You don't need to be naturally funny - you just need to be a little less serious. Your son is gauging your reaction to his struggles, and humor can be the bridge that keeps you connected through the tough moments.
Discover why humor isn't just "nice to have" - it's a neuroscience-backed parenting superpower that can transform your relationship with your teenage son. I'm sharing real stories from our family (yes...2025-07-2818 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys40. What to Do If Your Son Argues With Everything You Say (4 Science-Backed Solutions)If you're questioning whether you know anything at all because your son argues with literally everything you say - from room cleaning to what time it is - you're not alone. This isn't about disrespect or failure. It's developmental, it's normal, and most importantly, it's fixable.
Today we're diving deep into the nitty-gritty of that argue-about-everything phase that hits around age 14. I'm sharing the science behind why your son challenges YOU more than dad, plus four practical strategies you can use TODAY to stop those circular arguments that leave you both frustrated.
Want more conversations...2025-07-2121 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys39. Stop Focusing on What You're Doing Wrong: How to Parent from Your StrengthsIf you're exhausted from the constant self-criticism. The guilt. The comparison to "perfect" moms. This episode gives you permission to stop beating yourself up and start building on what you're already doing well.
You will discover the game-changing "gap vs. gain" mindset that transforms how you see yourself as a mom. Learn why your brain is wired to focus on what's wrong, plus three simple strategies to parent from your strengths instead of your struggles.
Today's episode will help you:
Understand why focusing on deficits keeps you stuck
Learn the 3-win daily practice that...2025-07-1420 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys38. Sibling Rivalry: How to Stop Being the Referee and Start Building Peace at HomeIf you're exhausted from breaking up fights, tired of being the family referee, and wondering if your boys will ever actually like each other - this episode is your lifeline. You're not failing as a mom. Your kids aren't broken. This is normal, and it gets better.
In todays episode you'll walk away knowing exactly how to respond with wisdom instead of weariness, create more connection in your home, and stop parenting from panic so you can start parenting from peace. Most importantly, you'll have hope that this phase won't last forever.
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2025-07-0721 min
The Robyn Graham Show - Life and Health Strategies for Christian Women to Maximize Potential in Parenting and LeadershipEpisode 388: Keys to a Healthy Mother-Son Relationship with Heidi AllsopUnderstanding the Dynamics of Raising Boys In the realm of parenting, the relationship between a mother and her son is both unique and crucial. As children transition from adolescence into adulthood, fostering a healthy mother-son relationship can be pivotal in shaping well-rounded, compassionate, and confident young men. The journey of parenting boys is filled with distinct challenges and joys. Raising sons is not just about addressing their basic needs but also about understanding their intrinsic masculine traits. It's crucial for mothers to be consciously involved in their sons' emotional and social development, which can directly...2025-07-0132 minThe Robyn Graham Show - Life and Health Strategies for Christian Women to Maximize Potential in Parenting and LeadershipEpisode 388: Keys to a Healthy Mother-Son Relationship with Heidi AllsopUnderstanding the Dynamics of Raising Boys In the realm of parenting, the relationship between a mother and her son is both unique and crucial. As children transition from adolescence into adulthood, fostering a healthy mother-son relationship can be pivotal in shaping well-rounded, compassionate, and confident young men. The journey of parenting boys is filled with distinct challenges and joys. Raising sons is not just about addressing their basic needs but also about understanding their intrinsic masculine traits. It's crucial for mothers to be consciously involved in their sons' emotional and social development, which can directly...2025-07-0132 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys37. How to Stop Fighting With Your Teenage Son: 3 Steps to End Daily ArgumentsIf you're tired of the guilt, confusion, and that aching feeling that something is breaking between you and your son after every argument, this episode is for you. Those explosive moments aren't really about the chores or curfew - there's so much more happening underneath.
Today we're breaking the exhausting cycle of daily arguments with your teenage son. I'm sharing my simple 3-step framework that works even when your teen isn't calm - because we can't count on them to stay levelheaded, but we can control ourselves.
Learn why anger is just the tip of...2025-06-3023 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys36. Help! My Teenage Son Doesn't Talk to Me Anymore: A Mom's Guide to ReconnectionIf you're lying awake wondering where you went wrong or feeling like you're failing because your son barely speaks to you anymore, this episode will be your lifeline. You're not alone, you're not failing, and most importantly - this phase doesn't last forever when you know how to navigate it.
This episode introduces the three-step roadmap to move from feeling isolated and rejected by your teenage son to building a strong, connected relationship that lasts into adulthood. We'll break down why that cuddly boy suddenly went quiet, how to stop taking his distance personally, and practical ways...2025-06-2317 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys35. What My 79-Year-Old Dad Learned from His Mom That Every Mother Raising Boys Needs to KnowAs a mom raising boys, you're constantly wondering if you're doing enough, doing it right, or if your influence will last. In today's heartwarming Father's Day tribute, Heidi sits down with her dad, Larry Rigby, to explore the timeless wisdom passed down through generations.
This conversation spans three generations of parenting wisdom, from the Greatest Generation to today's digital challenges. You'll gain perspective on the long game of parenting and understand that your steady presence and example are shaping the future for generations to come.
If You Are:
Overwhelmed by parenting advice? Learn to focus on...2025-06-1633 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys34. When Your Son Struggles Socially: Two Powerful Shifts Every Mom Needs to KnowIf you've ever watched your son sit home alone on Friday nights, wondered why he doesn't have friends, or felt that pit in your stomach when he seems lonely and disconnected - this episode is for YOU. You're not alone in this worry.
Learn how to create genuine safety at home (not just asking 50 questions)
Discover why your own social story might be driving your panic
Get practical tools to support your son without trying to "fix" everything
Transform from anxious rescuer to confident anchor
Ready to dive deeper? Join our private Facebook community HERE where moms...2025-06-0918 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys33. Your Parenting Why: The Secret That Separates Struggling Moms from Thriving OnesWhat's in Today's Episode
This isn't about another parenting strategy or technique. Today we're diving deep into the one thing that will transform your entire parenting experience: discovering your powerful WHY. I share the emotional story of bringing home my fifth son and the crushing moment that led to my breakthrough understanding of what really matters in raising boys.
Why This Matters to You (Mom of Boys)
If you've ever found yourself checking missing assignments for the third time in a week, lying awake at 3 AM worried about your son's future, or feeling like this parenting journey...2025-06-0220 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys32. Surviving Summer Break: 3 Simple Shifts to Transform Chaos into Connection with Your Teenage SonSummer break promises family memories but often delivers chaos, empty refrigerators and endless screen time battles. With teenage boys shutting off their executive functioning and living purely from their primitive brains (seeking pleasure, avoiding pain, staying efficient), it's no wonder we feel overwhelmed! Understanding what's happening in your son's brain will help you navigate this season with more patience and connection.
Todays episode gives practical strategies that will help you:
Manage your expectations (without lowering your standards)
Create a collaborative outline your son will actually buy into
Find the balance between structure and flexibility
Transform from...2025-05-2622 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys31. The Critical Communication Mistake Making Your Teen Son Shut Down: Why He's Not Hearing You (And What To Do Instead)Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your son feeling frustrated and disconnected? In this episode, I'm diving into the critical communication mistake I see moms make with their teenage sons (and honestly, I catch myself making it too!).
In this episode you'll walk away with practical strategies to shift from talking AT your son to talking WITH him, helping you rebuild connection even during the busiest times of year. I'll show you how to replace lectures with conversations and get your son to actually open up to you again.
2025-05-1918 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys30. Managing Anxiety: Tools and Strategies with Dr. Robin GrahamAs moms of boys, we often see symptoms of anxiety but don't know how to help without overparenting. You might notice your son having stomach aches, resistance to social situations, or trouble at school—all potential signs of anxiety that's going unaddressed.
In this eye-opening conversation, I'm joined by Dr. Robin Graham, author of "You, Me and Anxiety - Take Action Over Anxiety to Enjoy Being You". She shares her personal journey with anxiety and how she helped her son navigate his own anxiety struggles. We dive into practical strategies like the powerful Five C's journaling method and...2025-05-1236 min
The Masterful Coach Podcast: Coaching skill mastery, business strategy, and ideal life creation!187. Navigating Emotions: A Guide for Moms Raising Boys with Heidi AllsopWhen I first began my own motherhood journey, surviving each day seemed to be the goal. Can you relate? As women, the degree to which we can feel spread thin and overwhelmed by the emotional overload of becoming a mom can seem unbearable. And yet, I’ve come to learn that while “survival” mode can serve us from time to time, ultimately leaning into thriving is not only possible, but an incredible opportunity to expand our ability to impact our kids. I love supporting women in my work and have a special place in my heart for motherho...2025-05-0739 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys29. The Mother's Day Secret No One Talks About: Why Celebrations Go Sideways and Your #1 Strategy for Creating the Day You Actually WantAs a mom of boys, you put so much pressure on yourself to be the perfect mother, especially on days meant to celebrate you. When reality doesn't match your expectations, the disappointment can be crushing. You deserve to enjoy these special days without the emotional rollercoaster.
Join me today as I share my not-so-perfect Mother's Day story (involving a black eye and two feuding brothers) and the three powerful mindset shifts that helped me navigate the disappointment when celebrations go sideways.
This episode gives you permission to feel disappointed while providing concrete strategies to move...2025-05-0519 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys28. The Power of Fun: Why Laughing with Your Teenage Son Isn't Optional (And How to Do It)As a mom of teenage boys, you're probably feeling the pressure build in your relationship. Misunderstandings, school situations, and daily life challenges create tension that needs release. This episode gives you permission to prioritize fun and shows you how these moments actually strengthen your connection during the hard teenage years.
You'll walk away with practical ideas to create enjoyable moments that don't require a ton of planning or money. These simple strategies help you reconnect with your son when everything feels like it's falling apart.
⭐ Get "5 Things Your Son Desperately Wants You...2025-04-2822 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys27. Teenage Boys and Big Emotions: A Conversation with Molly ClaireAs moms of teenage boys, we often find ourselves walking a tightrope between wanting to fix everything and giving them space to grow. Whether your son is exploding with anger or retreating into silence, this episode gives you the tools to meet him where he is emotionally without compromising your boundaries.
Master coach Molly Claire joins us to dive deep into navigating the emotional world of teenage boys! We explore why some boys express emotions through anger while others remain silent, how moms can create a safe space for emotional connection, and the power of a...2025-04-2135 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys26. The Weight of Worry: How to Stop Letting It Control Your Parenting (and What to do Instead)As moms of teenage boys, worry often feels like love. But that anxiety is zapping your energy, causing you to over parent, and creating disconnection with your son. When you find yourself spiraling at 2 AM about his future or hovering over his every move, you're not alone – but there is a better way forward.
In this powerful episode, I break down how worry impacts your relationship with your teenage son and share five transformative questions that will shift you from anxiety to intentional parenting. No empty advice to "just stop worrying" here – instead, I offer practical tools to h...2025-04-1417 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys25. 5 Must-Read Books to Understand Your Teenage Son's Brain and BehaviorFeeling lost in the teenage wilderness? Wondering if your son's behavior is "normal"? You're not alone. These books offer more than advice – they're your roadmap through the complex terrain of raising teenage boys.
In this powerful episode, I'm diving deep into five transformative books that will completely change how you understand and connect with your teenage son. These aren't just any books – they're scientifically-backed resources from neuroscientists and psychologists who specialize in adolescent boys' development.
Want more: Grab my free download, "5 Things Your Teen Son Desperately Wants You To Know"
Come j...2025-04-0717 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys24. Reframing Failure: The Critical Parenting Shift That Builds Resilient Teenage SonsIn today's episode of Raising Boys, Building Men, we're breaking down failure – what it really means and how loosening our grip on it allows our sons to learn crucial life lessons.
This episode gives you permission to let go of the heavy meaning you've attached to "failure" and provides practical tactics to support your son through struggles while maintaining your connection. You'll learn how to be his safe place while still allowing him to develop the resilience muscles he'll need for adulthood.
"Imagine believing that the hard things now are really what are building him in...2025-03-3124 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys23. Gaining Perspective When Parenting Gets Hard: A Simple Framework for Handling Your Teenage Son's Most Challenging MomentsIf you're feeling overwhelmed by your son's attitude, door-slamming, eye-rolling, or other challenging behaviors, you're not alone. Every mom experiences moments where everything feels like an emergency. This episode gives you permission (and a strategy) to step back and gain a new perspective that will strengthen your relationship with your son.
You'll walk away with a practical tool to immediately implement when emotions run high, helping you determine which issues deserve your attention and which ones you can let go.
This perspective shift allows you to preserve what matters most - your relationship with your...2025-03-2419 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys22. From Conflict to Connection: How to Rebuild Trust After a Fight with Your SonIn today's episode, I'm sharing my proven BRIDGE method for reconnecting with your teenage son after arguments. You'll learn exactly what to say (and what not to say) to rebuild trust and strengthen your relationship, plus fascinating research about why post-conflict conversations are actually beneficial for your son's brain development!
Get my step-by-step BRIDGE framework to:
Regulate emotions after conflicts
Initiate healing conversations
Guide productive discussions
Create stronger trust
Build lasting connection
Plus, receive word-for-word scripts to help you navigate post-argument conversations with confidence.
Download your FREE printable HERE...2025-03-1727 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys21. Stop Managing Your Teen Son's Life: 5 Ways to Build Independence Without Feeling Like the Mean MomIf you've ever felt guilty about letting your son struggle, or found yourself managing every aspect of his life (hello, checking those missing assignments!), you're not alone. Research shows that over-helping our teens will actually lower their confidence and increase anxiety.
But here's the good news - you can shift from micromanaging to guiding without damaging your relationship.
In todays episode you will get a simple checklist to recognize enabling behaviors, learn the difference between helping and enabling, and discover how to step back while staying connected. You'll learn practical strategies to empower your son's...2025-03-1020 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys20. The Truth About Mom Guilt: Why Your Parenting Mistakes Aren't Ruining Your Teen (And How to Use Them)As moms raising teenage boys, we often feel like we're failing when we're actually just... parenting. If you've ever felt that gut punch of guilt after setting a boundary or taking time for yourself, this episode will help you understand why those feelings show up and how to use them to your advantage.
In this episode you'll learn:
The critical difference between guilt and shame (and why it matters)
How to stop guilt from leading to ineffective parenting
A practical framework for using guilt to strengthen your relationship with your son
Tools to reframe those "I'm...2025-03-0317 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys19. The #1 Parenting Secret That Will Transform Your Relationship With Your Teenage Son (And Why Nothing Else Matters)If you're exhausted from the constant power struggles, feeling disconnected from your son, or worried that your relationship is slipping away – this episode is your lifeline. We'll explore why common approaches like trying to control or change your teen often backfire, and what to do instead.
You'll discover:
Why relationship trumps everything (and how to make this shift)
The bridge analogy that will forever change how you view your connection with your son
Practical steps to rebuild trust and influence, even if things feel broken
How to stop the demand-resist-disconnect cycle that's pushing your son away
...2025-02-2419 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys18. Raising Teen Boys: 6 Game-Changing Truths I Had to Learn the Hard Way (So You Don't Have To)If you've ever sat on the couch worrying about your teen son's future (like I did), or found yourself overthinking every parenting decision, this episode is your permission slip to breathe.
In this episode we look at the 6 game-changing insights I wish I'd known 10 years ago while raising teenage sons.
From letting go of perfect parenting to trusting your mom intuition, these are the truths that transformed my parenting journey with five boys - and they might just be exactly what you need to hear too.
🤝 JOIN OUR COMMUNITY: Continue the conversation in our...2025-02-1719 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys17. Parenting Through Anxiety: A Powerful Framework to Calm Mom Stress and Help Your Teenage SonCrushing Mom Anxiety and Raising Confident Sons
Today's episode is full of raw, real-talk frameworks for managing mom anxiety and supporting teenage sons through overwhelming emotional challenges.
Discover a simple 3-question strategy to:
Instantly calm your racing thoughts
Understand what's really causing your anxiety
Help your son develop lifelong emotional resilience
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2025-02-1016 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys16. Stop the Nagging: How to Break Free from Negativity Bias While Raising Teen BoysIf you're exhausted from nagging, worrying about your son's future, or caught in negative thought patterns, you're not alone – it's actually your brain's natural wiring! But these patterns might be damaging your relationship with your teen boy.
In Today's Episode we are diving into the science of negativity bias and discover why your mom-brain might be stuck in worst-case-scenario mode. Learn practical strategies to shift from constant worry to meaningful connection with your teen son.
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2025-02-0317 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys15. Decision Making Help for Moms: How to Build Trust When You're OverwhelmedDiscover how to handle the 35,000+ daily decisions that come with being a mom of boys. Learn a powerful 4-step framework for making better choices, even when you're exhausted, while strengthening your relationship and building trust with your son.
Learn a proven system to:
Transform exhausting decisions into connection opportunities
Build trust through intentional decision-making
Help your son develop strong decision-making skills
Create a safe space for open communication
Maintain boundaries while strengthening your relationship
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Aja's & Claire Simone's Ketch A Vibe Show !Aja & Claire Simone's Ketch A Vibe 805 ShowIt's Astral /Spiritual/Afro/Nu/Soulful/Hip Hop It's all Jazz and all the glorious bits in inbetween !Aja & Claire The Cinematic Orchestra - Ode to the Big SeaEmanuele Cisi - Pharaoh's MessageJerker Kluge's Deep Jazz - The MeetingSteve Reid Ft The Legendary Master Brotherhood - NovaRonin Arkestra - Stranger SearchingLon Moshe Southern Freedom Arkestra - Ballad For Bobby HutchersonDexter Story - Mamdooh.Dexter Story - As Is (feat. Mark de Clive-Lowe)The Cinematic Orc...2025-01-242h 00Raising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys14. The Joy of Raising Son’s: 5 Unexpected Gifts of Being a Boy MomIf you've ever felt overwhelmed by the energy of raising boys or questioned whether you're doing it all wrong, this episode will remind you of the incredible privilege of being a boy mom. You'll gain a fresh perspective on those challenging days and remember why this journey is so special.
Learn how to shift your mindset from focusing on the challenges to celebrating the unique gifts of raising your son. Discover how embracing these positive aspects can help you show up as a better mom and strengthen your relationship with your boys.
Come connect with...2025-01-2013 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys13. Turning Your Parenting Plan into Real-World Skills: My 3-Step Process for Teaching Your TeenIn this powerful episode, learn the exact 3-step process to teach your teenage son critical life skills that build unshakable confidence and prepare him for adulthood. Part of our "Parenting with the End in Mind" series, this episode breaks down how to intentionally guide your son's growth without drama or constant arguing.
By following the 3-step strategy you will:
Develop a systematic way to teach essential life skills
Reduce parenting stress and second-guessing
Help your son gain real-world competence and self-assurance
Bonus: Download the FREE Parenting Roadmap mentioned in the episode - your step-by-step blueprint...2025-01-1318 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys12. The Complete Guide to Creating an Intentional Parenting Plan: And Why It’s the Key to Parenting SuccessDiscover a game-changing parenting blueprint based on Dr. William Hetler's seven dimensions of wellness. Learn how to create a personalized strategy that transforms how you parent, setting your son up for success without micromanaging.
You'll walk away with:
A clear roadmap for raising confident, well-rounded young men
Strategies to intentionally teach life skills
Confidence in your parenting approach
Bonus: Download the FREE Parenting Roadmap mentioned in the episode - your step-by-step blueprint for raising confident sons.
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2025-01-0616 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys11. Parenting with Purpose: Why Your Current Approach Isn't Working and What To Do InsteadAre you tired of parenting by hope and chance? This episode is your game-changer. You'll learn how to:
Build intentional parenting strategies
Boost your son's resilience and confidence
Focus on individual growth without controlling their choices
Prepare your son for real-world success before he leaves home
Discover the transformative concept of "parenting with the end in mind" - a strategic approach that helps you intentionally prepare your sons for successful adulthood. Learn how to move beyond day-to-day parenting and create a purposeful roadmap for raising resilient, confident young men.
Bonus: Download the FREE P...2024-12-3015 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys10. How Self-Doubt Sabotages Motherhood Plus a Simple 3-Step Solution Every Mom NeedsIn this game-changing episode, we're diving deep into the self-doubt spiral that keeps moms feeling stuck and overwhelmed. Learn three powerful questions that will transform your parenting approach, help you find peace, and reconnect with your incredible intuition.
Discover a simple 3-question formula to tap into your problem-solving potential
Learn how to acknowledge what's working and let go of what's not
Shift from survival mode to intentional, joyful parenting
Rebuild confidence in your unique motherhood journey
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Grab m...2024-12-2313 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys09. Holiday Relationship Killers: 5 Mistakes That Sabotage Joy (And What To Do Instead)If holiday gatherings leave you feeling exhausted, frustrated, and disconnected from your family, this episode is your lifeline.
In this raw and real episode of Raising Boys, Building Men, we're diving deep into the five ways moms unintentionally sabotage relationships during holidays — and how to transform potential disasters into moments of genuine connection.
You'll walk away with practical strategies to:
Communicate effectively with teenagers
Reduce holiday stress
Create meaningful family moments
Protect your emotional well-being
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Facebook: @heidia...2024-12-1614 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys08. Unlocking Emotional Intelligence: The #1 Proven Way Moms Can Help Their Sons (And Themselves) Navigate FeelingsDo your son's emotions feel like a mystery? It doesn't have to be! We're diving into the science behind teenage boys' emotions and revealing the three dangerous traps that keep them from expressing themselves. Plus, you'll discover the #1 approach to helping both you and your son navigate emotions effectively.
Learn practical strategies to:
Identify when your son is avoiding emotions
Help him develop emotional literacy
Create a safe space for emotional expression
Break generational patterns of emotional suppression
Ready to transform your relationship with your son? Let's connect!
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...2024-12-0915 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys07. Lessons from the Stands: 5 Game-Changing Parenting Truths Every Boy Mom NeedsJoin me in todays episode as I share 5 transformative lessons learned from 28 years of watching from the stands. From managing pressure to embracing failure, these insights will revolutionize how you support your boy - whether he's an athlete, artist, or academic.
Learn how to:
Recognize and appreciate your son's best efforts
Create a pressure-free environment for success
Foster leadership and team spirit
Handle mistakes gracefully
Transform losses into valuable learning experiences
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2024-12-0214 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys06. Teenage Boys & Family Traditions: Parenting Tips For Building Identity & BelongingDiscover how simple, intentional family traditions can strengthen your relationship with your teenage son and create lasting memories. Learn why these small, consistent rituals matter more than grand gestures, and get 10+ practical, budget-friendly tradition ideas you can start today.
Stop wondering if you're doing enough to connect with your teen son. Learn how to:
Create traditions that teenage boys will actually participate in
Build lasting family bonds without the eye rolls
Develop traditions that cost little to nothing
Handle resistance while keeping traditions alive
Adapt traditions for changing family dynamics
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👉 Ins...2024-11-2517 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys05. Parenting Teen Boys: The Game-Changing Mindset Shift Every Mom NeedsWhat if most of your stress isn't coming from what's actually happening with your son, but from the stories you're telling yourself about these situations?
Discover the powerful mindset shift that's transforming how moms parent their teenage sons. Learn the life-changing skill of separating facts from stories, and how this simple technique can dramatically improve your relationship with your boy, and your peace of mind.
Learn a practical, three-step approach to:
Identify pure facts versus your interpretations
Challenge your automatic thought patterns
Stay curious instead of judgmental
Transform difficult moments into opportunities for connection
2024-11-1812 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys04. The Hidden Truth About Mom Appreciation: Finding Value When No One NoticesIf you're feeling invisible in your own home, questioning whether anything you do matters, or missing that little boy who used to shower you with love notes - this episode is your wake-up call. Because feeling appreciated shouldn't depend on a teenager's emotional awareness (especially when he still needs reminders to shower 😉).
In this episode we'll discuss:
Why your teen's lack of appreciation isn't a reflection of your mothering
The sneaky trap that's making you feel undervalued (and how to escape it)
A simple 3-step system to build your self-appreciation muscle
How to ask for...2024-11-1114 min
Latter-day Life Coaches202. Parenting with the End in Mind with Heidi AllsopIn this episode, Heather welcomes back Coach Heidi Allsop to discuss intentional parenting and fostering strong bonds between mothers and sons. Heidi shares her journey from social work to raising five boys, and her mission to help moms raise sons with purpose and connection. They dive deep into the importance of parenting with the "end in mind" and setting intentional goals to guide children through their formative years. Heather and Heidi also discuss strategies to foster emotional resilience, independence, and essential life skills in boys, alongside balancing nurturing instincts with teaching moments. This episode is filled with insights, practical...2024-11-0541 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys03. 5 Ways to Ruin Your Relationship with Your Teenage Son; and What To Do InsteadMany moms feel lost when it comes to connecting with their teenage sons. This episode provides clear, actionable strategies to avoid common mistakes and strengthen your bond, even during the challenging teen years.
What's in today's episode:
5 surprising ways moms can damage their relationship with their teenage sons
Practical tips to transform these common mistakes into opportunities for connection
Real-life examples and personal stories to illustrate each point
The teenage years are crucial for building a lasting relationship with your son. Understanding these common pitfalls can make the difference between a strained relationship and a...2024-10-2218 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys02. From confused to confident: The #1 thing you need to sift through all the parenting adviceAre you overwhelmed by the endless stream of parenting advice for raising teenage sons? In this episode, we dive deep into the confusing world of parenting strategies and discover how to find your own unique approach that works for your family.
Episode Highlights:
The top 10 trending parenting strategies and why they can be overwhelming
Why looking outward for parenting advice can lead to self-doubt
A real-life example of adapting the "Love and Logic" parenting strategy
The power of asking yourself, "What do I know?" when facing parenting challenges
How to transform your relationship with your teenage...2024-10-2114 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And Boys01. The hidden crisis facing our sons and what moms can do to fix it, plus 3 tips to connect with your teen today.Feeling worried about your son's motivation or behavior? You're not alone! Discover why your role as a boy mom is more important than ever in today's challenging world.
In this episode, we'll:
Uncover alarming statistics on boys' academic and mental health struggles
Discuss the crucial role of mother-son relationships
Share a transformative new way to think about your son
Provide 3 practical tips to better connect with him starting today
Improving your relationship with your son doesn't have to be hard or complicated.
Ready to join the boy mom revolution? Click here to get "...2024-10-2115 minRaising Boys Building Men/Parenting Solutions For Moms And BoysRaising Boys, Building Men: Strengthening Moms to Raise Resilient Sons One Boy at a TimeAre you struggling to connect with your teenage son? Join Me, a seasoned mom of five boys, in "Raising Boys, Building Men" – the ultimate podcast for moms navigating the challenging journey from boyhood to manhood.
In this trailer episode, I introduce the mission of this podcast:
The Why: Helping moms raise happy, resilient sons
Common challenges: Growing distance, communication breakdowns, and parental frustration
A fresh perspective: Your parenting is the solution, not the problem
Weekly insights: Expert guests, practical tips, and strategies for reconnecting
Focus areas: Mental and emotional health for both moms and sons
The ult...2024-10-0202 min
The Masterful Coach Podcast: Coaching skill mastery, business strategy, and ideal life creation!What it takes to succeed as a coach: 3 Tips and a Conversation with Molly Claire and Heidi AllsopWelcome back to another episode of The Masterful Coach. In today's episode, Molly Claire and Heidi Allsop take listeners on an inspiring journey. Heidi, a dynamic coach and mother of five, shares her story of transformation—initially feeling overwhelmed by coaching but ultimately realizing its immense value in enhancing her life and family relationships.Together, they dive into the powerful mindset shifts that align your business with your ideal life, ensuring that work fuels joy and fulfillment rather than detracts from it. They explore the importance of self-confidence, the influence of mentors, and practical tips for building a...2024-05-2236 min
Latter-day Life Coaches176. Building Connection Between Mother and Son with Heidi AllsopEvery mother wants to have a connection with their son and that pull to be connected often seems to increase as they get older and are closer to leaving the nest. Coach Heidi Allsop is a mom to five boys and coaches other moms of boys in helping them build stronger connections with their sons as well as prepare their sons to go out into the real world. If you are a mom of boys and just don’t know how to handle them and feel like you are losing the connection you would like to have, reach out to...2024-05-0734 min
Lovin My Daughter-in-law PodcastBoys with Heidi AllsopThe beautiful Heidi Allsop shares love and relationship insights about her 5 sons, 4 daughters-in-law and much more~ Take a listen as Heidi gives some excellent ideas to connect more with your son. Get the full show notes and more information here: https://leannaustin.com/podcast/2024-04-1718 min
Bounce Back After BabyHow to stop worrying about your kids with Heidi AllsopToday's episode features a special interview with my friend and colleague, Heidi Allsop. Heidi is a certified coach who works with boy moms who want rock-solid relationships with their sons. She's phenomenal. If you've ever spent your days or nights worrying about your kids, this episode is for you. We all fear as mothers. It shows how much we care about our kids, but worrying in extreme amounts isn't good for us. Listen to Heidi's simple ways to break free from worry here. Get Heidi's free boy mom blueprint here. In it, you'll find eight pow...2024-03-2334 min
The Mixed Faith Relationship PodcastEpisode 95 Parenting In A Mixed Faith Marriage With Heidi AllsopParenting is a topic that comes up a lot in mixed faith marriages. In this episode Heidi Allsop and I discuss:
How to lean into you motherhood GENIUS!
How to raise strong, confident, resilient kids.
How do we parent when we have different religious beliefs at home?
How do I parent my child if they leave the church?
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8 Tips To Connect...2024-03-2046 min
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Latter-day Life Coaches154. Lessons from the Stripling Warriors’ Mothers with Heidi AllsopIf you are a mother there’s no doubt you have often felt like you are floundering and that the ground you stand on is shaky. Raising kids is not for the faint of heart. While the scriptures do not give much direction on how to be a mother there is one verse in the Book of Mormon that speaks volumes about mothering. Coach Heidi Allsop is on the podcast today talking about the profound impact the Stripling Warriors’ mothers had on them simply by knowing. But what did they know? Come and listen as Heidi reveals the answer to t...2023-12-0535 min
Aja's & Claire Simone's Ketch A Vibe Show !Aja & Claire Simone's Ketch A Vibe 783 ShowWelcome along for another couple of hours of all things jazzy,soulful,afro,spiritual,break & beats with a leftfield feel !Featuring brand new music from J & J Orchestra,Tony Allen and Adrian Younge,SHOKAZULU & Bokani Dyer and much much more.Aja & Claire Inverse Cinematics - Detroit Jazzin'St Germain - Rose rouge (Atjazz Galaxy Aart Remix)Les Gammas - Guauanco (The Cinematic Orchestra Extended Mix)The Decoders - I Am The Black Gold Of The Sun Alex Malheiros feat. Banda Utopia and Sabrina Malheiros - Uno Esta (Spiritual So...2023-05-131h 53