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Remember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesRemembering MaxThis episode is part of the Instagram Lives that inspired Remember Me: The Stories of Our Babies. Ellie shares the story of her son, Max whose second name, Arthur, is in honour of his grandmother. We hear about how his father sang "the Fresh Prince" theme song to him, and the little orange Diplodocus dinosaur that represents him and travels with his family wherever they go.This episode is a gentle exploration of memory, love, and the small symbols that keep our babies close to us, offering a space for remembrance and connection for anyone navigating grief...
2025-11-2724 minRemember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesRemembering ForestIn this episode Helena sits down with Elizabeth, Forest’s mum, to honour her son’s life and the path she has walked since his death. Forest was born early after a diagnosis that led to an interruption of pregnancy, an experience that reshaped Elizabeth’s understanding of connection, love, and what it means to mother a baby who is no longer physically here.Elizabeth shares the music she listened to with Forest, she reflects on the profound realisations that emerged after his death, including how she now thinks about birthdays.Today, Elizabeth volunteers with baby-lo...
2025-11-1019 minRemember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesRemembering JordanIn this heartfelt episode, Helena speaks with Yannique about her beautiful son, Jordan, who was born sleeping on the 31st of August 2024. Yannique shares how she keeps Jordan close in her everyday life, from the ways she envisions who he would be today, to the precious moments spent visiting his resting place. She also reflects on how her family lovingly honour him, keeping his presence alive in their home and hearts.This tender conversation is a reminder that love continues beyond loss, and that our babies remain an eternal part of us.🎧 Listen to connect, rem...
2025-11-0249 minRemember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesIntroducing Wunmi & The Intersections of Baby LossIn this episode, we introduce Wunmi Kayode's mum and our newest member. She's an advocate and creative force, who unapologetically shares her story of baby loss. We talk about silence around loss particularly when there is no living baby, how different the reality of grief is depending on our truth. This is a tender, honest conversation about love, loss, and the layered experiences that often go unseen.Grab a tea and sit with us as we have an intimate girls chat on the ups and downs of being the one whose baby died. Fi...
2025-08-0457 minRemember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesRemembering KayodeIn this episode, Helena is joined by Wunmi, Kayode’s mama.Wunmi tenderly shares the story of her son, Kayode, who was born on the 23rd of December 2023 a strong baby boy with the most beautiful, expressive eyes, just like his mama. From the moment he arrived, he showed strength and presence lifting his head with confidence, even in his first few weeks of life.Wunmi speaks openly about her pregnancy journey, which was deeply impacted by hyperemesis gravidarum. She recalls funny moments like missing Beyoncé’s concert or the brain fog that comes with pregn...
2025-07-251h 36Remember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesWe're Back & Pregnancy After LossSorry for the break, but we're back!In this episode, Chelsey and Helena catch up from their last chat. It will be a conversation on what's new with us, our mental health and a new host on the way.This episode contains conversations about pregnancy after loss and living children, Chelsey also shares that she is currently expecting - please feel free to skip this one if it can be triggering for you.Thank you for all your support until now.Find Us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.c...
2025-07-0246 minRemember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesRemembering Autumn AngelaThis episode was recording on the 19th of December 2024. In this episode Helena is joined by Sonia Pietrangelo, Autumn's mama. Sonia beautifully reminisces on the times she spent pregnant with her daughter, Autumn who was born on the 29th December 2023. Sonia, shares her journey into motherhood through IUI and using her spiritually to intentional help with her conception. We learn about how Autumn's name was chosen, the Harry Potter storytimes with her dad and the heartbreaking day Sonia learnt about her departure. Through and with Autumn, Sonia has been able to conn...
2025-05-111h 17Remember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesNavigating Mother's DayIn this short but heartfelt episode, Helena and Chelsey reflect on the complexities of Mother’s Day for those grieving whether it’s the loss of a mother or the loss of a child. While both hosts feel a certain detachment from the day, they acknowledge the ways it can feel alienating, especially when the world seems to celebrate it so loudly.Together, they think out loud about how Mother’s Day could be more inclusive, recognising those who feel like “half a mum” and those who would rather avoid it all together. Though neither of them fully conn...
2025-04-0121 minRemember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesRemembering JesseIn this episode, Chelsey is joined by Jesse’s mama, Arrieanne. She lovingly reflects on the short but meaningful time she had with her son, Jesse, who tragically passed away two weeks after birth due to complications from PPROM causing his birth at 31 weeks. Jesse was Arrieanne's first boy she shares how she navigates her grief while being a mother to three living girls.Arrieanne talks about the books she has written to help her children through their grief, giving them a way to process their emotions which something she also offers hospitals.She speaks ab...
2025-03-1855 minRemember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesCoping & Surviving in GriefIn this episode Helena and Chelsey open up about the different ways they have coped and survived in their grief after losing their babies. They reflect on how their methods of coping have evolved over the years.Helena shares how Spiritism has been her saving grace, offering her an evidence-based belief that spirit continues beyond the physical world. Chelsey discusses how writing her book, Remembering Eli, became an essential outlet for her grief—a guide she wishes she had in the early days of loss.Through heartfelt conversation, they explore the importance of finding what tr...
2025-02-151h 03Remember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesRemembering WilliamIn this episode William’s mum Thalia shares how on the night of the 14th November 2024 she started feeling cramps. As a first time mum she thought these were Braxton Hicks, however as they intensified she quickly realised she needed to go to the hospital. On the 15th November, Thalia gave birth to her son who was sadly no longer breathing. In this episode, you'll hear the story beautiful of William's life in the womb. You'll hear the story of how his name was chosen, how he made his mama crave nothing but meat, how his parents nic...
2025-02-031h 15Remember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesBirthday BluesIn this episode, Helena and Chelsey reflect on the Christmas and New Year period, the ups and downs of navigating this emotionally draining "family time" while also passing through their babies’ birth days in between.Helena shares how her family’s approach to remembering Maila took a massive U-turn, her dad is no longer hesitant to talk about his granddaughter, but now leads the conversation in honouring her. Helena also recounts her spa day in honour of Maila’s birthday.Chelsey shares that she was pleasantly surprised upon receiving so many birthday cards for Eli, a remin...
2025-01-1842 minRemember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesRemembering MakennaIn this episode, Chelsey is joined by Katie, Makenna’s mum. Katie shares her heartfelt story, reflecting on her journey to parenthood and the cherished memories she holds of her daughter.In the first part, Katie discusses challenges of becoming a mum, including the emotional weight of experiencing multiple baby losses. She shares how these experiences affected her bond during pregnancy. While recording Chelsey and Katie talk about the signs Katie's children send her.In the second part, Katie recounts her daughter’s passing, reflecting on the difficulty of seeing her daughter in the NICU befo...
2024-12-2649 minRemember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesGriefmasAs Christmas approaches, Helena and Chelsey speak of what they are feeling as they apprehensively await the " family festive" season. They talk about the fact that not everyone appreciates Christmas and how much grief impacts the enjoyment of Christmas aka Griefmas. Chelsey recounts her first Christmas without Eli who would have then been 2 weeks old. Helena talks about her worries for Christmases to come as Maila will be older and she won't get to see the progression of her daughter's reaction to opening Christmas presents. Both speak of the different ways they have found to include their b...
2024-12-1648 minRemember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesRemembering DanteIn this episode Helena is joined by Dante’s mama Gina Reeves. She fondly recalls the memories she has with her baby boy, Dante Rueben Theodore Reeves who was devastatingly stillborn at 25weeks. This episode is broken into three parts where Gina shares her work as part of the charity Ebony Bonds Support https://www.instagram.com/ebonybondsupport?igsh=MW9tamdkdzZtcWI5Zg==She then speaks about how her Caribbean heritage played a big part in her relationship with Dante while he was in her tummy, from the Soca tunes to the Coucou and flying fish meal...
2024-12-081h 10Remember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesEarly Days of GriefIn this episode, Chelsey and Helena delve into the raw and tender early days of grief after losing a baby. Together they validate the thoughts and feelings that some may label as "crazy" but are deeply rooted in the love and loss we carry as parents.They reflect on the moment they realised they are and will always be mothers to their babies, even in their absence. They briefly touch on the subject of returning to work and how the world around them just keeps going. The difficulty of the journey back home without a baby and...
2024-11-3049 minRemember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesRemembering EliIn this warm episode our cohost Chelsey shares the intimate and deeply cherished memories she has of her son, Eli, while he was alive in her tummy. She reflects on the love and joy that surrounded his baby shower, the tender anticipation of meeting him, and the thoughtful moments spent preparing for his send-off day. Chelsey opens up about the profound connection she felt with Eli, celebrating his life and honouring his memory with love and longing.Join us for this touching conversation, a reminder that every baby leaves an indelible mark on the hearts of t...
2024-11-2353 minRemember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesIntroducing ChelseyIn this episode we introduce Chelsey Tookey, mum to her beautiful son Eli, as the new co-host of the podcast. Chelsey shares her journey through loss, love, and remembrance, offering heartfelt insights into her experience as Eli’s mum and the ways she honours his memory every day.As she steps into her role as co-host, Chelsey brings a deeply personal perspective and a passion for creating a safe space for families to share their stories. Together, we will continue to amplify the voices of parents and keep the memories of our babies alive.Join us...
2024-11-1648 minRemember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesRemembering MailaIn this deeply personal episode of Remember Me: The Stories of Our Babies, Helena, Maila’s mum, shares the treasured memories she holds of her daughter and the precious moments they shared while Maila was still alive in her womb. From the joy and dreams she carried for her baby’s future, their routine and precious memories. Helena also opens up about the painful day Maila died, a moment that changed everything. She sheds a light on some of the failures in pregnancy education. To close, she offers an important resource to support those on similar journeys, provi...
2024-11-0954 minRemember Me - The Stories of Our BabiesIntroductionOn this episode Helena, Maila’s mum shares personal stories on why she strongly believes the spirit of her daughter continues and why she has decided to continue her legacy with Maila’s Present and through connecting with other parents who have also lost their children by starting this podcast. She touches briefly on what to expect on this podcast but as it develops many new topics will arise and are on the way.Find Us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/remembermeourbabies/Maila's Present - https://www.instagram.com/mailaspresent/...
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