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The Tango BanterTango Travel Insights: festival editionIn this episode, I discuss my experiences and insights on traveling for tango events. Travel preferences are very subjective and personal factors such as physical and mental well-being can greatly impact your enjoyment of an event. I share suggestions and tips on how to make the best of your tango travel.
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The Tango BanterFading Embrace: when tango connections changeIn this episode, I discuss the common experience of not wanting to dance with someone anymore and the associated feelings of guilt and embarrassment.
I explore both interpersonal and technical reasons for this change in preference and share my own strategies for navigating these situations.
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The Tango BanterLost in Tango: concepts that challenge most (beginner) dancersTango is famous for confusing people to the point that you might forget how to walk for a second or two. In this banter Alex and I cast a wide net as we talk about the parallels between tango and art. We then explore a few of the tango concepts that cause the most confusion and debate among dancers and share personal stories about making sense of tango over time.
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The Tango BanterHow to find the best tango events in 2024FOMO (fear of missing out) is a common experience for tango dancers. Throughout the year we see videos and pictures from exotic locations of beautiful dancers having a lot of fun and we wish we knew about it before it happened.
How do you find out tango events and how to do you make sure they are right for you?
In this episode, I discuss the process of finding the right tango events to attend. I share my strategies for gathering information about events through social media platforms like Facebook and Instagram, as well as...2024-01-0344 min
The Tango BanterChecking Out: highlights from a year in tangoIn this episode, Alex and I reflect on our tango experiences in 2023. We share some of our insights and lessons learned throughout the year. Overall, we discuss the joys and challenges of being social tango dancers and the impact it has on our lives.
In a nutshell:
Reflecting on the year allows for personal growth and appreciation of tango experiences.
Dancing with a crush can be both exciting and nerve-wracking, but it offers a unique opportunity for growth.
Workshops and classes can provide new insights and techniques to enhance one's tango...2023-12-2749 min
The Tango BanterTango: the ultimate pleasure fixIn this episode I'm delving into the captivating world of tango as an addiction, exploring why I consider it to be an unparalleled pleasure fix. Picture those heart-fluttering, toe-tapping vibes that beckon you back for more – akin to savoring your favorite delicacy, but with a rhythmic twist.
Tango is more than just a dance; it's an invitation to an exclusive realm where emotions run deep. We transcend reality and immerse ourselves in a space where we can authentically be ourselves, sans the melodrama.
Now, let's get real. It's not all sunshine and rainbows. Here I unravel the intricacies of my...2023-12-2037 min
The Tango BanterBody Talks: the ever-evolving definition of tango beautyIn this episode, I discuss the topic of body image, particularly in the context of tango. I share my personal struggles and experiences with body image and explore the impact of societal beauty standards on dancers.
Takeaways
- Body image is an evergreen topic that affects many people, including those in the tango community.
- Beauty standards in tango can create challenges and insecurities for dancers.
- Grace, presence, and self-acceptance are more important than conforming to societal beauty standards.
- Focusing on aspects of your...2023-12-1352 min
The Tango Banter“No for now or no forever?”: interpreting rejection on the dance floorDo you want to know what my cat thinks about rejection? In this episode you can hear all of his opinions as Alex and I banter on the subject.
Rejection is hardly black and white when it comes to the tango dance floor. Sometime no can mean just no for this tanda, other times it’s something different. How do you decide?
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The Tango BanterEmbracing Your Limitations: conversation with Carolyn StoklosaWhether you dance ballet, tango, or hip hop, at some point all of us come face to face with some form of physical limitations. What we do with and about those limitations directly influences our ability to continue dancing.
This is what Carolyn Stoklosa and I banter about in this episode. Carolyn is a physical therapist and draws on her extensive experience as a professional ballet dancer to help dancers overcome injuries and develop mobility.
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The Tango BanterUnseen Thanks: your impact in the tango communityTango gives us a lot of things to be grateful for but most of the time we might take them for granted. We are used to being able to go out on a regular basis and spend a few hours hugging people and listening to amazing music. One day I hope there is a way to measure brain activity while we dance... There is nothing like it! And most people in the world don't know of anything like this.
In this episode I banter about "the little things that make all the difference." And in the context...2023-11-2241 min
The Tango BanterTango Altruism: navigating the dance between community service and personal passionSome people you LOVE dancing with. With others... you dance for other reasons. Sometimes these "other" dances are lovingly referred to as "charity" or "community service" tandas.
For our first "together" episode, my husband Alex and I tackle this somewhat uncomfortable topic. I have never met a tango dancer who was not at least somewhat conflicted on this issue. What do you think?
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The Tango BanterFeedback in Tango: the art of empowering growthGiving and receiving feedback is a necessary skill that we have to develop in order to progress, both in tango and in life. But why is it so difficult? Why does it cause so much tension and what can we do to make the process more effective (and pleasant!)?In this episode I banter about my own struggle with giving/receiving feedback and some of the methods I developed over the years of teaching to make this process more successful.Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworldSign...2023-11-0853 min
The Tango BanterThe Dance Dilemma: Assigning Blame in TangoWhat limits us social dancers most is not the technical stuff, but rather the psychological and emotional stuff. Tango is notorious for causing conflict and many couples break up after starting to learn this dance, at least that’s what happened for me.In this episode I banter about the source of most tango conflicts - the question of “whose fault is it?” when something is not working correctly. I dive deep into my own experience of figuring out the answer to that question and how we can learn to transform the emotional charge of that question to som...2023-11-0136 min
The Tango BanterTop 10 complaints leaders have about tango followersContinuing our discussion from last week, in this episode I go over the most common complaints I hear from leaders in regards to followers. There is some overlap here, but there are certain things that followers in particular should keep in mind to make their partner's experience more comfortable and enjoyable.Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworldSign up for my weekly NEWSLETTER: https://newsletter.imsotango.com/Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/LEW7T74KbSMQuestions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotang...2023-10-2552 min
The Tango BanterTop 10 complaints followers have about tango leadersNobody is perfect, but the social dance floor is not the place to air our grievances. So many things remain unsaid and dancers remain unaware that certain habits and behaviors make a poor impression and prevent them from getting more dances.In this episode I tackle some of the major complaints that followers have of tango leaders and provide suggestions for how to remedy the situation.Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworldSign up for my weekly NEWSLETTER: https://newsletter.imsotango.com/Watch this episode on...2023-10-1847 min
The Tango BanterTango, age, and how short your skirt has to be to get a dance | Episode 1 Replay“If you want to get more dances, just wear a shorter skirt!” my tango friend exclaimed as if it was SO simple! But I believed him, and that’s what I did early on as a dancer. And it worked… but not really.In this inaugural Tango Banter aired in January 2022, I share some of my personal story of how I got into tango, why, what it was that drew me into it and ultimately, what ended up transforming me as a person.Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworldSign u...2023-10-1132 min
The Tango BanterWhy you shouldn't date within tango... but you'll do it anyway. REPLAYIs dating another tango dancer a good idea? How do you deal with all the inevitable emotional ups and downs it can bring? These are the questions I'm tackling in this episode and I share a few insights that I have gained over the 12 years of romantic relationships in tango.Oxygen Tango Milonga Thursday night November 2, info will post here: https://www.facebook.com/oxygentangoJoin my private FaceBook Group: SoTango World | FacebookSign up for my weekly NEWSLETTER: Welcome...Questions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: http://imsotango.co...2023-10-0442 min
The Tango BanterDancing in Your Prime: women overcoming ageism in tangoIf you've ever felt at a disadvantage in tango because of your age, you’re not alone. Many (if not most) women in tango feel somehow disempowered by their age, especially once we start getting over 40. We start doubting our abilities to attract the dancers we want…In this episode I dive into the topic of women, women’s age, and how it impacts our experience of tango. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworldSign up for my weekly NEWSLETTER: https://unique-architect-417.ck.page/365ba048c6Watch t...2023-09-2751 min
The Tango BanterTurning Meltdowns into Breakthroughs: mastering the tango of self-improvementIt's common to hit a wall, or multiple walls, when learning tango. You might open yourself up to working with new teachers or signing up for a tango competition, only to realize that you know less than you thought, your have to unlearn a bunch of stuff, and there are all sorts of things wrong with your dance.In this episode I banter about how this happened (repeatedly) for me and some of the things that ended up helping me get to the other side.Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups...2023-09-2040 min
The Tango BanterBalancing Love and Tango: conversation with Christos KouroupetroglouStarting tango with your girlfriend/boyfriend is typically the worst idea for your relationship. It’s a common story tango dancers jokingly retell, of how they came to tango because of someone, and then that someone didn’t pan out, but tango did.But this banter is not about the typical story. There are those few cases where both the love of the relationship and the love of tango are able to coexist at the same time. This is where this banter starts and from there meanders to discuss the other nooks and crannies of living as a ta...2023-09-1359 min
The Tango BanterDancing Beyond Age: conversation with Sarah PettitDoes getting older put you at a disadvantage on the dance floor and lead to getting less dances? For many women this has been the case, and unfair instances of ageism are common topics of conversation at the milonga.But some women defy the norms and tap into other, less common strategies for getting the dances that they want. Today my guest is Sarah Pettit, who at age 67, regularly travels and dances tango around the world. In this episode we banter about her dance journey and how she learned to make tango work for her, rather than...2023-09-0656 min
The Tango BanterDancing Past Doubt: intimidation's role in shaping our storyThere are many things out there we could learn how to do, and plenty of them we don’t really care to… But then there are other things (like trying partner dancing, or rollerskating, or surfing) that trigger a particular blend of longing and intimidation when we witness someone else doing it.We feel like we would love to do it so much, but there is just no way we ever could… This banter is about THAT feeling and my own recent experience with it.Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotang...2023-08-3030 min
The Tango BanterFrom Arcade to the Milonga: conversation with Stephen AldacoThere are many paths to tango. Some people fell in love with the music first, others saw it in “Scent of a Woman (and it’s not even tango!), and then there are some who start their dance journey by playing Dance Dance Revolution.For this episode my guest is Stephen Aldaco who has lived a riveting life of adventure and dance exploration. We only got to scratch the surface here, I think I am going to have to invite him for a follow up… Let me know what you thinkCheck out my upcoming teachi...2023-08-2356 min
The Tango BanterDancing in Your Own Shoes: the True Currency of Tango ConnectionTango seems so fancy at first, so many moves to learn, so much technique. But you talk to any seasoned dancer and they will tell you it’s really not about the moves… it’s really something else.What is it that we are after on the dance floor? And what value do we bring to our dance with another person? This is what this banter is all about.NEWSLETTER: https://unique-architect-417.ck.page/365ba048c6Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworldQuestions/comments? Reach out to me...2023-08-1630 min
The Tango Banter(Are we?) Dancing in Circles: the role of marathons in social tangoMarathons have been a significant component of most dancers' yearly schedule. We joke that we plan our lives around the yearly tango events.But something has been missing, it seems, and in this episode I banter about what tango marathons are about, why some of us are feeling dissatisfied and what we can do about it.NEWSLETTER: https://unique-architect-417.ck.page/365ba048c6FACEBOOK GROUP: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworldQuestions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@imsotango.comFacebook @IMSO TangoInstagram @imso_tango2023-08-0948 min
The Tango BanterTango Demystified: 3 surprising essentials for your Dancing SuccessTango may take a lifetime to master, but what are the most essential building blocks that lead to the most payoff as quickly as possible?In this episode I banter about the commonly overlooked and forgotten tango skills that, when developed, can totally transform one’s tango experience.TANGO SUMMER SPECIAL: https://imsotango.namastream.com/product/62377 Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/g_qBn7oxWJQQuestions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@imsot...2023-08-0240 min
The Tango BanterStepping into Vulnerability: The Tango of Self-AcceptanceTo develop as a social tango dancer you need to work on 3 things: movement, musicality, mindset. Of these, mindset is the most challenging to master and is the one most responsible for people leaving tango.In this episode I dive into some surprisingly common feelings and emotions that plague the majority of dancers, regardless of their level and experience.Sign up for my newsletter: https://unique-architect-417.ck.page/365ba048c6 Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/IKvvOUoPNy8Q...2023-07-2645 min
The Tango BanterLights, Camera, Tango! A conversation with a filmmaker and dancer: Oliver KolkerWhat was tango like in Buenos Aires in the 1970? Is it possible to imagine a person who only speaks in tango lyrics? Is tango socialist or capitalist at it’s core?These are just some of the questions Oliver Kolker and I banter about in this episode.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/WfmFPsBb5JMJoin my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Questions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@imsotango.comFacebook @IMSO TangoInstagram @imso_tango2023-07-1956 min
The Tango BanterREPLAY: How to survive the worst tango tanda of your lifeWe've all been there. You accept a cabeceo, walk across, take the embrace, and realize that the next 12 minutes are going to be hell. Well maybe not hell, but still, very unpleasant. What do you do? How do you survive/endure/thrive in that kind of situation? Is it even possible?In this episode I ponder the reasons for such unfortunate experiences and how we can make them easier on our bodies and our spirits.Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Watch the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be...2023-07-1248 min
The Tango BanterThe Price of Sensuality: Unraveling the Complexities of Tango's AllureTango is a sexy dance. It makes us feel things we had never known are possible. It is euphoric and blissful, it makes us delirious with new kinds of desires, feelings, sensations.But sometimes this newfound raw power can expose us to painful and even traumatic experiences.In this episode I banter about my own sensual awakening that transformed my life and the windy path I took to learning how to wield this amazing energy in tango.Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Watch this episode on...2023-07-0555 min
The Tango BanterStepping Out of Your Comfort Zone: Building the Necessary Skills for TangoMost people who start tango have to face many emotional obstacles and some don’t succeed. Those who do somehow manage to develop the skills to deal with the intense emotional and psychological pressure that this dance frequently imposes on us.In this episode we banter about what these major obstacles are and how to develop the necessary skills to overcome them.Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Watch the full episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ybwWO8z-hRsQuestions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango...2023-06-2838 min
The Tango BanterRedefining Tradition: Women's Empowerment in TangoTango has changed a lot since it first began at the beginning of the 20th century. One of the main shifts revolves about the power dynamics between men and women and women stepping up and learning to lead.Not everyone is excited about this change because change in general is difficult and uncomfortable. In this episode I ponder our relationship to change and my perspective on how tango has been evolving over the past 100+ years.Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Tangamente June 29-July 2: https://www.tangamentesf.c...2023-06-2144 min
The Tango BanterDancing in Darkness: Exploring the Breakdowns and Breakthroughs of TangoSo frequently in tango our biggest breakthroughs happen when we are somehow breaking down, when we lose hope, or feel like there is no way we are going to figure it out.In this episode I banter about my own journey through the ongoing discomfort of breakdowns and breakthroughs in my tango and how I learned to use them for personal empowerment and growth.Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/WeYeSQZHlZoQuestions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango...2023-06-1442 min
The Tango BanterThe Dance Dilemma: Assigning Blame in TangoWhat limits us social dancers most is no the technical stuff, but rather the psychological and emotional stuff. Tango is notorious for causing conflict and many couples break up after starting to learn this dance, at least that’s what happened for me.In this episode I banter about the source of most tango conflicts - the question of “whose fault is it?” when something is not working correctly. I dive deep into my own experience of figuring out the answer to that question and how we can learn to transform the emotional charge of that question to som...2023-06-0745 min
The Tango BanterFrom Japanese Kendo to Argentine Tango: Conversation with Toshi TakeuchiSome people start tango because they fall in love with the music or love the dance, others start it because they have to stop doing Japanese Kendo. This was the case for Toshi Takeuchi, my guest for this episode.In our banter we touched on a variety of interesting aspects of tango including how different tango is in Japan, the similarities between kendo and tango, and how to cabeceo when you can’t make eye contact.Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be...2023-05-3133 min
The Tango BanterDressed to Tango: The Power of Clothing in Shaping Your DanceDo you find that certain clothes make you dance better than others? Sometimes it’s about the way the outfit feels on your body as you move with your partner. Other times it’s how it looks to you as you catch your reflection in the mirror and it fuels your confidence on the dance floor.In this episode I indulge in a banter about one of the biggest loves in my life… clothes. Or specifically, their ability to take us to places of feeling and experiencing ourselves in a new way on the dance floor.Come...2023-05-2438 min
The Tango BanterConnection in Tango: What is it and how do you get more of it?In tango, “connection” is the Holy Grail, everyone talks about it, everybody is after it. But what exactly is it and how do you know you have it? In this episode I banter about the various perspectives on the idea of connection I had over the years and my two cents on how to get more of it from your dancing.Come dance with us at LA Tango Marathon: https://www.latangomarathon.com/**Use code LAMeow23 in the “Message” field when registering and the a FREE T-shirt!Listen to my review of last y...2023-05-1737 min
The Tango BanterFrom Stranger to Friend and the Tango Transplant Experience: Conversation with Lozita OnsyIn today’s episode you will meet Lozita Onsy, an Egyptian auto engineer living and dancing in Germany who has been a dedicated Banter listener for some time. Lozita reached out to me on social media when she was visiting LA, and like you, I was instantly curious about her. So we met up one afternoon at my house for a much anticipated in-person banter.In our conversation we talk about the various facets of tango and how it plays a different role at different stages of life. Lozita also shared her story about how and why sh...2023-05-1034 min
The Tango BanterDynamics of attraction in tango and how they inform your danceWhen it comes to attraction we are all highly individual. What might be attractive to one person might repulse another. And what you like when you first start tango might change over time as your taste changes.In this episode I banter about the evolution of my taste and how the object of my attraction has changed over the years that I have been dancing tango.Come dance with us at LA Tango Marathon: https://www.latangomarathon.com/**Use code LAMeow23 in the “Message” field when registering and the a FREE T-shirt!...2023-05-0337 min
The Tango BanterFrom Beginner to Buenos Aires: Conversation with Eugene LewinsNo matter where in the world you learn to dance tango, at some point most dancers find themselves on a pilgrimage to Buenos Aires - the place where tango never sleeps. There is something special about dancing tango specifically in that city. The the culture, the history, the vibe - all have something to contribute to a sort of “widening” of our tango horizons.This is what Eugene Lewins and I banter about in this episode. It’s his first time to go to Buenos Aires, and after two months there her reflects on the changes he has un...2023-04-2656 min
The Tango BanterHarmonizing Body and Soul: Exploring the Spiritual Side of Tango DancingThere is no doubt that dancing tango can transport us into a different dimension of experience, where we can feel and see things in a completely new and novel ways. Our perception alters and we find ourselves coming closer to something sacred, even spiritual.Tango is not the only way to access this state. For me, before tango, it was through yoga that I found my way to this place. And having done yoga alongside tango for many years, I love exploring how the two movement systems (and even philosophies) overlap and inform each other. In this...2023-04-1935 min
The Tango BanterFrom Electrical Engineer to Tango Traveler:Interview with Maziar AmiraniHow does an engineering student from Iran end up dancing tango in Louisiana? In this banter I sit down with my good friend Maziar Amirani whom I met on the dance floor in Portland, OR almost a decade ago. Maziar is a prominent figure on the social dance floors across the US and in our conversation we discuss the circumstances of his falling in love with tango and how he manages to maintain a full time job while being a tango nomad.Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Watch this episode...2023-04-121h 11
The Tango BanterFinding your tango timing: exploring the ideal age to start dancing“I wish I had started dancing earlier” I hear from certain dancers, while others say something like “I couldn’t have handled tango when I was younger.” So what is the idea age to start dancing tango, or to start dancing in general.In this episode I explore this question by diving into my own history of and relationship to dance, how it evolved over time and what I have learned about myself through the process.Watch my performance with Tanya: https://imsotango.com/sctc-video Wanna be on the Tango Banter? Apply here: https://ims...2023-04-0534 min
The Tango BanterOn becoming a tango dancer later in life - Conversation with Tanya MagidSome say that you don’t find tango, but that tango finds you. It finds you when you’re ready. For some, like me, it means starting in late 20s but for others it can be much later. You could even get introduced to tango or hear a tango song somewhere and then not start dancing it until a decade later. Something like this happened to Tanya Magid, a long time social dancer who didn’t start tango until her late 40s. In this episode we discuss and compare notes on how tango is different for people dependi...2023-03-291h 08
The Tango BanterThe Power of Passion: understanding tango championshipsTo many social dancers, the idea of competing in tango is unthinkable. For other dancers, the challenge of competing in tango is rewarding and pushes them artistically. Having been an avid social dancer I always was curious what the world of tango competitions was all about.In this episode I share my recent experience as a competitor at the Southern California Tango Championship and some of the insights that I came away with.You can watch my performance at SCTC here: https://imsotango.com/sctc-videoJoin my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.c...2023-03-2246 min
The Tango BanterREPLAY: "When am I going to be a good enough dancer and how do I get there?"We all want to be good enough so that we get to have more of what we want. And most of us dancers are willing to do the work, take the classes, sign up for workshops, do private sessions, etc. in pursuit of that goal.But frequently, no matter how much time passes or how much work we put in, we still don't feel like we measure up with the level of "good" we think we are supposed to reach.In this episode I discuss what this concept of "good enough" really means on our...2023-03-1543 min
The Tango BanterRomance in tango and its effect on your dance"Like a moth to a flame," romance is difficult to resist and many fall under its spell (myself included). It can bring the best and deepest experiences but also cause incredible heartache and pain. But in addition to that, what impact does romance have on our actual dance?In this episode I chew on this issue of romance and share some of my own romantic history and how it has shaped my dance.I’m DJing at LA Tango Marathon in May: https://www.latangomarathon.com/Apply to be on the Tango Banter: ht...2023-03-0850 min
The Tango BanterWhat is the difference between "dancing" and "performing" tango?The way it feels when you step onto a warmly lit dance floor into a friendly embrace among dozens of other people is a very different experience from walking onto a stage with a spotlight over your head, hundreds of eyes watching your every move. Both might be called tango, both might be considered "dance." But for us social dancers, there is a massive hard-to-describe difference in how it feels.In this episode I wade through my own experiences in search for a meaningful way to describe the subtle, yet profound, differences in these two states of...2023-03-0142 min
The Tango BanterHow to survive the worst tango tanda of your dance lifeWe've all been there. You accept a cabeceo, walk across, take the embrace, and realize that the next 12 minutes are going to be hell. Well maybe not hell, but still, very unpleasant. What do you do? How do you survive/endure/thrive in that kind of situation? Is it even possible?In this episode I ponder the reasons for such unfortunate experiences and how we can make them easier on our bodies and our spirits.I’m DJing at LA Tango Marathon in May: https://www.latangomarathon.com/Apply to be on the Ta...2023-02-2248 min
The Tango BanterTop 10 complaints leaders have about tango followersContinuing our discussion from last week, in this episode I go over the most common complaints I hear from leaders in regards to followers. There is some overlap here, but there are certain things that followers in particular should keep in mind to make their partner's experience more comfortable and enjoyable.LA Tango Marathon: https://www.latangomarathon.com/Apply to be on the Tango Banter: https://imsotango.com/banterJoin my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Questions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@im...2023-02-1550 min
The Tango BanterTop 10 complaints followers have about tango leadersNobody is perfect, but the social dance floor is not the place to air our grievances. So many things remain unsaid and dancers remain unaware that certain habits and behaviors make a poor impression and prevent them from getting more dances.In this episode I tackle some of the major complaints that followers have of tango leaders and provide suggestions for how to remedy the situation.Apply to be on the Tango Banter: https://imsotango.com/banterJoin my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Questions/comments? Reach out...2023-02-0846 min
The Tango BanterTango taxi dancers - solution to gender imbalance?Gender/role imbalance in tango has been a hot topic of conversation and debate for a long time. What to do about? Taxi dancing is one of the ways dancers can take matters into their own hands, bypass the whole cabeceo game, and get the dances that they want. But it is a viable strategy for the tango communities at large?In this episode I reflect on my experience at the Puerto Vallarta Tango Festival where taxi dancing was a prominent component of the milongas. I share my observations of the effect taxi dancing potentially has on...2023-02-0131 min
The Tango BanterTango lead or follow - which one is right for you?Most people assume that in tango (as in life) men are supposed to lead and women are supposed to follow. But in recent years our perception and understanding of roles in tango has been changing, reflecting the changes we are experiencing in the larger context of life.In this episode I banter about my journey into understanding the challenges and rewards of each role and how exploring both can contribute to more holistic development of our dance.Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Questions/comments? Reach out to meWeb...2023-01-2539 min
The Tango BanterHow long does it take to get good at tango?You start tango one day, and the next you're wondering... "how long this going to take?" If you're asking yourself that question, you are not the only one. We all want to know how long it's going to take us to get good and what we need to do to get there as fast as possible.In this episode I ponder the idea of what "good" means and what tools dancers need to get there.Women Leading Tango - Santa Barbara: https://imsotango.namastream.com/product/56483Puerto Vallarta Tango Festival: https://pvtangofestival.com/2023-01-1845 min
The Tango Banter8 things every beginner should know about social tangoSo you've started learning tango, now what? You might be excited, overwhelmed, confused, or a little bit of everything. What are the most important/helpful insights to keep in mind about tango to help you adapt and progress.In this episode I share some of my most impactful insights that made the most difference in my journey to becoming a successful social dancer.Musicality Seminar with Horacio Godoy: https://imsotango.namastream.com/buy/product/55975Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Questions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: ims...2023-01-1146 min
The Tango BanterThe future of tango and what you can do about it | Tango Banter #47It's a new year and a new perspective on what kinds of evolution social tango is going to undergo over the next years. How tango evolves depends very much on the evolution of the people who dance it.In this episode I ponder the ways tango has changed over the past decades and where it might be heading next.Musicality Seminar with Horacio Godoy: https://imsotango.namastream.com/product/55975Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Questions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@im...2023-01-0447 min
The Tango Banter5 good reasons to quit tangoTango is an acquired taste. It takes a long time to learn and maybe even longer to get what you want out of it. So how do you know whether to keep going or to go ahead and throw in the towel?In this episode I banter about the best reasons to part with tango, but also about what is NOT a good reason to leave and scenarios when you should keep at it even though it sucks.12-Month Musicality Course: https://imsotango.com/musicality2023Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook...2022-12-2733 min
The Tango BanterHow to dance tango when feeling nervousSometimes it's just butterflies in your stomach, other times you're shaking like a leaf and sweating bullets. Social situations and general, and tango in particular, can shake up those nerves and make you run for the hills. Everyone experiences it, no matter the level, and nobody is immune.In this episode I chat about different strategies I have adopted over the years to deal with my own social anxiety and paranoia. Musicality Seminar with Horacio Godoy: https://imsotango.namastream.com/product/55975Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Q...2022-12-2049 min
The Tango BanterThe role of cabeceo in your experience of social tangoWhether you love it or loathe it, cabeceo is one of tango's most important conventions. Understanding the rules of cabeceo and knowing how to apply them (and how to break them gracefully) is crucial to succeeding on the social dance floor.In this episode I share some general guidelines for performing cabeceo properly and how to use it to your advantage so that you get the dances you want.FREE Musicality class Tuesday, Dec 13: https://imsotango.namastream.com/buy/product/5515312-Month Musicality Course: https://imsotango.com/musicality2023Join my private FaceBook...2022-12-1333 min
The Tango BanterThe tango of breaking upWhether it's losing a friend, or a lover, breakups are never easy. No matter how many times we might go through something like this, it's rarely clear what the "right" thing to do is, or how to act "appropriately."In this episode I dive into some of the subtleties and nuances of the break up process and talk about the various strategies we can try to ease the process.FREE Musicality class Tuesday, Dec 13: https://imsotango.namastream.com/product/55153Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Questions/comments...2022-12-0747 min
The Tango BanterTango, self-preservation, and determination - conversation with Risa BensonFor some tango is a destination. For others it is a means to an end. For Risa Benson, continuing to dance is a way of insisting on life itself. This is the quality that first drew me to Risa when I met her online through one of my workshops.In this episode I sit down with Risa to talk about the role that tango has played in her life and her experiences that served to make her who she is today.12-Month Musicality Training starting January 2023: https://imsotango.com/musicality2023Questions/comments? Reach...2022-11-2946 min
The Tango BanterHow to know when you're ready to attend your first tango marathon or festivalTango festivals and marathons are a great opportunity to experience some amazing tango. You've been thinking about but you're not sure if you have what it takes. What if you are just a beginner? What skills do you need to hone before going to that next level?In this episode I share some practice advice on what skills you should get under your belt before heading to your first marathon or festival.12-Month Musicality Training: https://imsotango.com/musicality2023Join my private facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Questions/comments...2022-11-2250 min
The Tango BanterHow to know when you're ready to attend your first tango marathon or festivalTango festivals and marathons are a great opportunity to experience some amazing tango. You've been thinking about but you're not sure if you have what it takes. What if you are just a beginner? What skills do you need to hone before going to that next level?In this episode I share some practice advice on what skills you should get under your belt before heading to your first marathon or festival.12-Month Musicality Training: https://imsotango.com/musicality2023Join my private facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812Questions/comments...2022-11-2251 min
The Tango BanterEnhancing your physical endurance and reducing pain at tango festivals and marathonsTango marathons and festivals can be extremely demanding on the physical body. To be able to dance for 6-10 hours a day for several days in a row requires an immense amount of energy and endurance. In this episode I share the most important things to consider if you're looking to to maximize your time on the dance floor while reducing the painful side effects of dancing so much.Essential follower technique for dancing tango in flats: https://youtu.be/UBD7EzL1hNwJoin my private facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/gr...2022-11-1551 min
The Tango BanterMy best tips for scoring good tango at festivals and marathonsI used to think getting good dances at a big tango event depended on my technical level and skill. But success at a tango festivals and marathons depends as much, if not more, on social strategies and interpersonal skills as on our actual dance technique.In this episode I reveal my most effective strategies for navigating these big events and getting the tango that you really want.Upcoming Online Event - Confronting fear to get the dances you want - November 10, 11-12:30pm - FREE - https://www.eventbrite.com/e/confronting-fear-to-get-the-dances-you-want-tickets-442713647437?utm-campaign=social&utm-content...2022-11-0850 min
The Tango BanterThe good and the bad of tango festivals and marathonsIf you hang around in social tango long enough, at some point you will start hearing about marathons and festivals and how much fun they are. And if you've been in tango long enough to have participated in these events, you know that there are pros and cons to both.In this episode I share some of my thoughts about the two events, which I prefer and why. Upcoming Online Event - Confronting fear to get the dances you want - November 10, 11-12:30pm - FREE - https://www.eventbrite.com/e/confronting-fear-to-get-the-dances-you-want-tickets-442713647437?utm-campaign=social&u...2022-11-0153 min
The Tango Banter13 things you can do to ruin your practiceHaving a practice partner can do wonders for your tango, but frequently instead of progress we experience frustration. And rather than enjoying ourselves, we end up feeling even worse about our dance. Most of the time it has to do with what's happening internally and how we choose to show up with our partner (just like in relationships!).In this episode I go over some of the most prominent ways that I have ruined my practice and how I learned to stop making the same mistakes again and again.Join my private facebook group: https...2022-10-2550 min
The Tango BanterHow to practice tango effectively... even if you're lazyThere are so many things we are supposed to practice, and there is only so much time we have on our hands. So how do we decide what kind of things to focus on to get the most out of our practice time?In this episode I dive a little deeper into my personal philosophy of how to practice in such a way that it's effective AND sustainable over a long time... even if you are super lazy like me :)Join my private facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281203268944812FREE Course: Essential...2022-10-1834 min
The Tango BanterDo you need a practice partner and how to choose the right one for you?Whether you want to practice towards a performance or improve your musicality, there are a number of considerations every dancer should take before agreeing to practice with someone. Because, let's face it, we are all a little different, with our unique preferences and learning styles.In this episode I talk about what I consider to be the most important things to consider when choosing your practice partner and the steps you can take to ensure you get exactly what you want.Join my private facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/12812...FREE Course...2022-10-1138 min
The Tango BanterImportance of tango practice and what is the right one for you?Most will agree that practicing is an important aspect of getting better at anything, whether it's playing the piano or playing tennis. But when it comes to social tango, what kind of practice is important and effective is different for different people. Let's face it, not all of us like to drill patterns and choreography.In this episode I talk about what the meaning of practice is for me and my thoughts on how every dancer can develop an effective and personalized tango practice that's fun and enjoyable.Join my Musicality Training TODAY: https://imsotango...2022-10-0442 min
The Tango Banter5 Reasons being a beginner sucks and what I do about itI don't like being a beginner at things. In fact, there are few things that I dislike more than that awkward and clumsy feeling you get when you start learning something new. It's been a while since I have felt this way, but recently I got an unexpected opportunity to dive back into this iconic experience.In this more vulnerable episode I share my current, unresolved struggles with being a beginner and how I deal with all those pesky emotions that plague our beginners' minds.6-Week Musicality Training: https://imsotango.namastream.com/product/52341Join...2022-09-2855 min
The Tango Banter"When am I going to be a good enough dancer and how do I get there?"We all want to be good enough so that we get to have more of what we want. And most of us dancers are willing to do the work, take the classes, sign up for workshops, do private sessions, etc. in pursuit of that goal.But frequently, no matter how much time passes or how much work we put in, we still don't feel like we measure up with the level of "good" we think we are supposed to reach.In this episode I discuss what this concept of "good enough" really means on our...2022-09-2041 min
The Tango BanterMy best tips for choosing the best teacher for YOUNot all tango teachers are created equal. And not all tango dancers have the same ambitions. Knowing your goals and understanding how to choose the right teacher to achieve those goals is one of the best ways to guarantee your success in tango.In this episode I lay out some of my most important considerations for selecting the right teacher for you as well as some important questions for self-reflection that will help you make the right decisions.FREE Course: Essential Tango Mechanics: https://imsotango.namastream.com/buy/product/52054Questions/comments? Reach out...2022-09-1449 min
The Tango BanterMy best tips for choosing the best teacher for YOUNot all tango teachers are created equal. And not all tango dancers have the same ambitions. Knowing your goals and understanding how to choose the right teacher to achieve those goals is one of the best ways to guarantee your success in tango.In this episode I lay out some of my most important considerations for selecting the right teacher for you as well as some important questions for self-reflection that will help you make the right decisions.FREE Course: Essential Tango Mechanics: https://imsotango.namastream.com/buy/product/52054Questions/comments? Reach out...2022-09-1353 min
The Tango Banter4 social strategies for attracting the dances you wantWhen I was new to tango I thought the way to getting the dances I wanted required a high level of talent and technique. So my thinking was "the better I got technically, the better dances I would get." Unfortunately, when it comes to attracting the higher level dancers, I eventually realized that it really wasn't about my technique. There was something else at play that had nothing to do with my lines or my aesthetics. Reframing my mindset was the key to my eventual success in the social tango scene. In my latest episode I...2022-09-0753 min
The Tango Banter3 Reasons why you're not getting the tango you want and what to do about it"Why is she getting the good dances and I am not?" - used to be one of the most persistent questions running through my mind at a milonga. I had done the work - group classes, privates, technique training, workshops - but still I found myself sitting tanda after tanda sulking. Tango can be pretty brutal like that. Seemingly for no reason, it grants favor to some but not others. The "some" soak it in, taking it for granted. The "others" are left scratching their heads on the sidelines wondering... But the good news is th...2022-08-3149 min
The Tango Banter5 qualities of a good dancer and how I choose my next tanda"Who are the good dancers here?" "Is he/she any good?" Those are frequently uttered questions at the milonga and it's not surprising! 12 minutes is a long time to spend in someone's embrace and we want to make sure we enjoy it. Whether someone is good or not can be fairly subjective but there are certain things that stand out about good dancers that appeal to most of us. In this episode I reveal some of my preferences and things I look for when I am deciding whom to dance with at a milonga.Questions/c...2022-08-2439 min
The Tango BanterDifficulty with rejection and my biggest tango deal breakersWe all want to say no to a dance sometimes, but frequently we don’t because we feel guilty. We don’t want to hurt the other person’s feelings and maybe we are afraid that if we say no to one person, then we might have to sit out another tanda. The struggle is real! And although it does get easier with time, the awkward, difficult feelings that come with saying no to someone never really go away. Each dancer has to decide for themselves, when to say yes to a dance, and what are the dealbre...2022-08-1540 min
The Tango BanterHow social anxiety can mess with your tango and what I do to succeed anywayYou’ve got the moves but you’re still not getting the dances you want? Succeeding at social tango doesn’t just require technical proficiency, but each dancer also has to learn how to navigate the sometimes unpredictable social environment of the milonga.For many dancers, social discomfort is the main obstacle that prevents them from getting what they want and/or quitting tango all together.In this episode I share some of my own challenges as a very shy and introverted person and the tools that I developed to become more confident in uncomfortable social...2022-08-0938 min
The Tango BanterHow to be a "popular" dancer at the milonga?"What's your goal with tango?" I ask this question of all of my students, expecting them to share with me their ambitions to become stage performers or teach or become a DJ. Many of them shy away from answering, but those that have the courage to admit to what they really want say something along the lines of "I want to be a popular dancer that everybody wants to dance with..." I will be honest. This is what I wanted too and it took me a while to figure out what it takes: what skills, strategies, mindset, o...2022-08-0240 min
The Tango BanterUshering the new Golden Age of Tango with Rodolfo RoballosThey say the Golden Age of tango roughly covers 1935-1952 but what made it so... golden?🤔 Was it the quality and the amount of highly innovative music?🤔 Was it the high numbers of social dancers dancing all over the city every day and night?🤔 Was it the high number of dance clubs that hosted milongas at all hours of the day?Well, ALL OF THE ABOVE!🤯 Imagine yourself rushing from one milonga to another to catch orchestras such as Pugliese, Di Sarli, or D'Arienzo playing live every day of the week. Imagine havi...2022-07-2640 min
The Tango BanterDancing with self-doubtSelf-doubt is one of the hallmark experiences in life and in tango it can be a particularly gnarly beast. It can break your spirit, paralyze you and sabotage you getting what you actually want.So what do we do? How do we deal with the panic and anxiety that arises in response to it? What do we say to someone who experiences it? Let's bite into this one together.Questions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@imsotango.comFacebook @IMSO TangoInstagram @imso_tango2022-07-1239 min
The Tango BanterThe discomfort of being a beginner and how I survived my first night at La VirutaThe first night I went to La Viruta in Buenos Aires I was terrified. Now, years later is the fear gone? Was I successful at eliminating that feeling of awkwardness and discomfort that plagues us at the beginning of starting something new and unfamiliar? In today's episode I reminisce about my early struggles in tango and how those initial experiences shaped my tango journey up to now.DON'T FORGET!“Understanding the essential layers of tango music” with Horacio GodoySaturday, July 9th 12-1:30pm Pacific time. Register at http://imsotango.com.Qu...2022-07-0536 min
The Tango BanterPost-covid tango around the world and creating new music with Horacio GodoyHoracio Godoy is one of the most influential and renowned figures in social tango today. He’s filled every tango role possible: from performing in multiple tango companies, to his role as an internationally sought DJ and tango music expert, to being a guest maestro, judge, and consultant at festivals and mundials in over 40 countries. This year marks 31 years since Horacio began DJing tango and in this episode we banter about how he started, what he loves so much about tango, and his many artistic projects that serve to illuminate the musical history of this danc...2022-06-2838 min
The Tango BanterPost-covid tango around the world and creating new music with Horacio GodoyHoracio Godoy is one of the most influential and renowned figures in social tango today. He’s filled every tango role possible: from performing in multiple tango companies, to his role as an internationally sought DJ and tango music expert, to being a guest maestro, judge, and consultant at festivals and mundials in over 40 countries. Today marks 31 years since Horacio began DJing tango and in this episode we banter about how he started, what he loves so much about tango, and his many artistic projects that serve to illuminate the musical history of this dance....2022-06-2838 min
The Tango BanterMy thoughts about turning 40 and what I think I have figured out by nowTomorrow is my birthday and it's a BIG one. So I reflect on the the way my life has been going and how I got to where I am at. Questions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@imsotango.comFacebook @IMSO TangoInstagram @imso_tango2022-06-2143 min
The Tango BanterWhy aren't there more women DJing in tango and what I think we can do about itTango DJing is a field that has been historically dominated by men. Many blame the tango organizers for not giving more women DJs opportunities to play at large scale events. But to my eyes, this issue is not that simple and points to some underlying limiting beliefs that women (myself included), struggle to overcome in both tango and in life. Musicality Training for Dancers & Aspiring Tango DJs: http://imsotango.comYouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/yelizaveta_imsotangoQuestions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@imsotango.comFacebook @IMSO Tan...2022-06-1435 min
The Tango BanterTango, jealousy, and how I learned what I really wantOf all the emotions tango incites in us, jealousy is the most difficult to deal with. Every dancer struggles with jealousy at some point and in this episode I talk about my own strategies for dealing with this pesky emotion and what we can ultimately learn from it to empower ourselves.Upcoming Musicality Training for Dancers & Aspiring Tango DJs: http://imsotango.comQuestions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@imsotango.comFacebook @IMSO TangoInstagram @imso_tango2022-06-0731 min
The Tango BanterWhy I loved LA Tango Marathon and what I want more ofThe first tango marathon in LA since 2019! How it felt, what I loved, what I wanted more of... that's the banter on the menu today.Upcoming seminar with DJ Davin Quinn "Secrets of Tango on Vinyl": http://imsotango.comQuestions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@imsotango.comFacebook @IMSO TangoInstagram @imso_tango2022-06-0138 min
The Tango BanterMy best tips for planning a trip to Buenos Aires and what to do once you're thereSo you've decided to go to Buenos Aires... what do you need to know? In this episode I share some tips about when to go, where to stay, and how to plan your trip.Upcoming events info on my website: http://imsotango.comQuestions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@imsotango.comFacebook @IMSO TangoInstagram @imso_tango2022-05-2638 min
The Tango BanterShould you go to Buenos Aires and what happens if you don't?Is it important to go to Buenos Aires as a tango dancer? Honestly, it depends... In this episode I share my own experience of going to Buenos Aires and how my relationship with that city evolved over time.Questions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@imsotango.comFacebook @IMSO TangoInstagram @imso_tango2022-05-1131 min
The Tango BanterHow I like to cabeceo and dealing with the pain of rejectionCebeceo is the traditional etiquette of inviting someone to dance tango. Some would like to get rid of it, others insist on enforcing it. In this episode I discuss my feelings on the subject and share some tips on how to navigate these challenging waters.Questions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@imsotango.comFacebook @IMSO TangoInstagram @imso_tango2022-05-0434 min
The Tango BanterFeeling like an outsider in tango and how to make it as an introvert at the milongaMost people who come into tango feel like they are outsiders or don't fit in on some level. In this episode I share my own experiences of being an outsider in tango and the lessons I have learned along the way. Join me at Women Leading Tango Immersion Weekend in Portland! Info at http://womxnleadingtango.com.Check out Earth Virtual Milonga: http://earthvirtualmilonga.comQuestions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@imsotango.comFacebook @IMSO TangoInstagram @imso_tango2022-04-2734 min
The Tango BanterThe intoxicating power of tango and how gossip could be the answer to our problems.There is a darkness to everything, even tango. In this episode I strike upon one of the most prevalent issues we face individually and collectively, in tango and in our daily lives.La Academia Tango Club: http://laacademiatangoclub.com/Join me at Women Leading Tango Immersion Weekend in Portland! Info at http://womxnleadingtango.com.Questions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@imsotango.comFacebook @IMSO TangoInstagram @imso_tango2022-04-2036 min
The Tango BanterThe 3 keys to unlocking your dance potentialWhat does it take to become a good dancer? Do you have to train for years at a university? Or study with master teachers? Or maybe being a good dancer means you can perform on stage?We carry a lot of beliefs about dance that keep us from truly experiencing what we are capable of. In this episode I talk about my own struggle to feel confident as a dancer and what I now see as the essential building blocks of tapping into our inherent potential as dancers (tango or otherwise).Chicas del Tango Online...2022-04-1336 min
The Tango BanterTango, body image, and the long journey to self-acceptanceHow we feel about our bodies has a great impact on our experience of social dance. In this episode I scratch the surface of this subject and share my own struggles with body images over the years.Questions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@imsotango.comFacebook @IMSO TangoInstagram @imso_tango2022-04-0633 min
The Tango BanterThe rules of cabeceo and how I like to break them...Cabeceo - the traditional etiquette for inviting someone to dance tango - has been around for a long time. Some people love it, other people would prefer to do away with it.In this episode I share my personal philosophy on the it and strategies for making cabeceo work for you rather than against you.UPCOMING EVENT: Womxn Leading Tango - Portlandinfo at: http://womxnleadingtango.comQuestions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@imsotango.comFacebook @IMSO TangoInstagram @imso_tango2022-03-3035 min
The Tango BanterWhy you shouldn't date within tango... but you'll do it anyway.Is dating another tango dancer a good idea? How do you deal with all the inevitable emotional ups and downs it can bring? These are the questions I'm tackling in this episode and I share a few insights that I have gained over the 12 years of romantic relationships in tango.Questions/comments? Reach out to meWeb: imsotango.comEmail: connect@imsotango.comFacebook @IMSO TangoInstagram @imso_tango2022-03-2233 min
The Tango BanterWhy is tango so hard to learn and what can we do about it?Learning tango was hard for me. I know I'm not the only one. Is it really because tango is so hard? Or is there something else at play here that makes our progress difficult?In this episode I explore some possible ways that tango can be made easier to learn and how we can all benefit from implementing these changes.Questions/comments? Reach out to meEmail: connect@imsotango.comFacebook @IMSO TangoInstagram @imso_tango2022-03-1536 min
The Tango BanterWhy is it so hard to give and receive feedback in tango and what I do about itGiving and receiving feedback in tango is tough and pushes us to confront a lot of our emotional baggage that we might be carrying around. In this episode I share some stories of my own experience receiving feedback as well as tips for how to develop the necessary skills to make this process more fun and user friendly.Support of a community is huge and if you are interested in finding one, check out my Chicas del Tango Membership open to women who want guidance and support on their tango journey online and in-person.Questions/comments...2022-03-0937 min