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Life Lessons with Indie WrytesS4:E5 Expectations vs. StandardsIn this episode we take a look at what expectations really are and look for the answers to the question, "do expectations ruin relationships?"
I hear and read so much about how expectations ruin relationships. When I first read and heard this, I thought that it was very misleading and more harmful to our happiness within relationships. So, I decided to really look into what expectations really are and after reading, I thought to myself, is it expectations alone that ruin relationships or is it unhealthy, unfair, & unrealistic expectations that destroy and ravage relationships? This is where standards come in...2023-07-1053 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS4:E4 Love & Freedom.In this episode we talk about the influence of LOVE & FREEDOM!
There are so many things that we build hope and fidelity in. This includes people, relationships, careers, even our own bodies and abilities, but today we’re going to focus on people and relationships. We make space for people out of need, desire, connection, companionship, attraction, and compatibility, right? We spend time getting to know people and we trust, we place our reliance on and in them and move with the presumption they’re being honest about who they say they are and what they say they want and how...2023-07-0329 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS4:E3 The Journey Back To Ourselves.In this episode we discuss The Journey Back To Ourselves. Where does it start? WHY does it start? How do we recognize when we’ve lost ourselves? What are the indicators? One night I was journaling about some experiences that I was going through and attempting to understand and conceptualize the feelings I was having, which lead to me ask myself all of the aforementioned questions. I, then, went on to write down eight questions that opened so many things up for me and I'm sharing those things with you in this lesson. Have your notebook and your pen ready. You...2023-06-2646 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS4:E2 Intimacy: The Beauty & The Betrayal.In this episode, we discuss intimacy. What is intimacy? Do you create intimacy, do you invite it, or does it naturally happen through connection? What does it mean? How does it look? How does it feel? What are the initiators of true intimacy? What is false intimacy and what are the signs of false intimacy?
Intimacy is one of the most overused, while being simultaneously misused, words in the world right now. We think intimacy means sex, we’ve deduced and reduced it to something explicitly physical and sexual when intimacy, in its most euph...2023-06-2046 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS4:E1 The Power of a Made-Up Mind!Welcome to Season 4 of the Life Lessons Podcast! We're starting this season off where everything starts: CHOICE! And, in order to make a choice, you first have to have a made-up mind.
So many of US don't realize we don't make choices with CONSCIOUS INTENTION! Our choices are often made out of desperation and short term relief. Question: how often have you made choices without even processing the picture that you would like to see the choice develop? When you're taking a picture, you pose based on what you want to see reflected back...2023-04-1332 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS3:E5 Your Experiences vs Your Expectations.We all have experiences in life, some good some challenging, however we don't have to allow those experiences to dictate what we expect and the results we receive. It may have gone this way last time the experience happened, but that doesn't mean it HAS to go the same way when it comes back around. In this episode, I speak about the lessons I have learned in marriage, divorce, and primary parenting and the importance of finding those lessons in the things we experience and then being adamant about changing our fate.
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Life Lessons with Indie WrytesS3:E3 Things Fall Apart, Intentions Shatter... But, Do They Have To?In this episode I Am discussing the inevitability of relationships/partnerships. Do you believe it is predestined and almost certain that your relationships will start off great, yet experience inescapable declination? Are we stuck in a continuum of defeat no matter who we are having the experience with? I deeply believe in the ability and strength of Love. To me, it is the infinite power of God, that is with and within us. Even though I've experienced heartbreak, betrayal, and divorce I still trust in Love and believe that I will experience it in it's fullest.
I a...2022-04-2740 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS3:E2 Divorce, Yes! BUT, I AM ALL I NEED TO START OVER.In this episode I go a little further into my experiences with divorce and some of the reasons. DIVORCE IS NOT THE EASY WAY OUT. It's such a painful experience for you and if there's kids involved, it's even deeper. But, sometimes, you have to put away the fear of "what if" and be more afraid of "what is." I was more afraid of things being the same way they'd been for the past 6 years, than I was about how they would be for the next 6 if I didn't make the choice to choose myself. I Am not a divorce...2022-02-0949 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS3:E1 Welcome Back - Primary Parenting: What Am I Doing?!Welcome back to the Life Lessons PodCLASS! This season I will be sharing my experiences and the lessons I've acquired through those experiences over the past year. This first episode is about my journey into PRIMARY PARENTING. How I've had to learn a new way of parenting and living, altogether. How I've had to navigate my own healing while trying to help and nurture my girls through their own. Finding ways to help my oldest daughter release the things she's felt through this process has been paramount for me and also a HUGE lesson on not needing to be the "...2022-02-0249 min
Life Lessons with Indie WrytesS2:E10 Need and Desperation: Are They The Same?This episode is based around a conversation I was having with someone about a clip from a show she'd seen. So often we speak against our desires without even realizing it, because of how we THINK it might make us look or sound. Needing something doesn't mean you're desperate for it. And, needs are fine to have. You can still be great and strong, even when you need people. Break the curse. Break the lie.
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2021-03-1655 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS2:E9 Can I Kick It? Pt. II: An Open ConversationI just wanted to share what I’ve been going THROUGH (because I’m moving past it) over the past couple of months and weeks. This is just an open conversation about the emotional and mental experiences I Am dealing with right now. I wanted to (needed to) openly share and release my feelings. I know it’ll help someone(s). We’re all dealing with similar things and knowing, hearing, and seeing hope helps to keep going. ❤️
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2021-01-2941 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS2:E8 The Phase FactorThis lesson is about the phases and cycles we experience being living things and how to properly prepare for them and how to accept and learn the lessons from them. All things on this earth are subjected to the Universal law of cycles and phases. Understanding this is a part of life itself. It's a part of growth, it's a part of BEING. We experience highs and lows, ups and downs, but they're all a part of life's phases. It's about transformation and metamorphosing into our next form and being content and purposeful during them and in them.
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-12-2239 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS2:E6 Get Over It!When I heard this phrase inside of me 5 years ago while feeling so betrayed and hurt, it really upset me. It upset me and then it taught a Life Lesson that I now practice with everything I encounter. We will always experience disappointment and sometimes hurtful experiences, yet learning to "get over it" is a necessary practice in order to live again. This episode is about GETTING OVER IT BY BUILDING A BRIDGE TO HEALING.
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-12-0930 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS2:E5 Giving Meaning To Defining MomentsIn this lesson we discuss defining moments and realizing how we respond to them gives our tomorrows meaning. Every moment you’re faced with a choice, it’s defining you and your life. Make them good.
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-11-1726 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS2:E4 You Your Best Thing, You Are.This lesson is based on a quote by Paul D from the Book, Beloved. So many times we make the mistake of basing our goodness and importance on titles, attachments, and roles we play in life. We forget that we are our OWN good thing without anything else. This is about getting back to SELF.
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-10-2146 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS2:E3 Love Ain’t Enough.We’ve always been told and shown that love is the answer to everything, including our happiness. Love is very necessary, but it’s not enough. You need additional additives to make love good! This is your lesson!
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-10-0739 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS2:E2 Is Your Relationship a Job or Career?While conversing with a colleague, she used the phrase “Relationships are work!” She said this over and over again. It made me think about relationships from the aspect of Jobs vs. Careers. Your relationship should be a partnership that is run like a business you want to see grow, expand, and see big profits .
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-09-2433 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS2:E1 Patterns! Believe The Design They’re Showing You!This is the first Episode of Season 2! This episode is about paying attention to patterns in yourself and your relationships. It's about learning your fabric, measurements, shape, and patterns of your design and those around you to enhance the beauty of what you're creating and your own person design!
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-09-1752 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1:E20 RelationSHIPS and RelationSHIFTSRelationSHIPS are meant to be a means of transportation. They are to keep us moving on our specialized missions in this life. They aren't meant to just make it feel good, the aren't to inspire to us do and be good. They aren't meant to be stagnant or idle. This lesson is about the movement that needs to happen in and on relationSHIPS and all the relationSHIFTS that happen along the way.
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-08-1831 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1:E19 Before You Move On, Move IN.In this episode we discuss how Being with ourselves, giving ourselves the time to heal from heartache is so important. So many times we just move on to help assuage the hurt, but it’s just a mask. It’s a temporary fix. Before you move to the next, move in to yourself.
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-08-0435 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1:E18 You Gotta See It With Vision Before You See It With SightThis episode is about EMPLOYING our vision to manage our sight. Do you know the power of your Vision and the important role sight plays? You’re going to learn that in this lesson!
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-07-2930 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1:E17 The Storm May Be Ahead, But The Future Is INSIDE!Your future is not ahead of you, it lives inside of you. It is there to guide you, protect you, lead you, and correct you. Recognize the voice and acts of your future and heed it’s voice.2020-07-2227 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1:E16 I’m An Isolator, But I Don’t Mean To Be Cold.Some of us are isolators when we are going through trying times. Sometimes, that isolation can make the people we’re in a relationship with feel like I’m giving them the “cold shoulder.” This lesson is about learning and understanding those of us who are ISOLATORS and give an understanding of what helps and what doesn’t.2020-07-1543 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1: E15 Can I Kick It? An 0pen Conversation.This week it’s just an open conversation I’m having with myself and you guys. I just wanted to spill all of the thoughts about what I’ve been feeling and experiencing over the past few weeks. I know it’ll help you where you are, too.2020-07-0648 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1: E14 Recognizing the Voices! Hearing and Healing.There are voices that speak to us that don’t belong. There are thoughts about feelings we have about ourselves that don’t belong to us. This episode is about recognizing that voice that has been programmed into our minds and then deleting it. Healing our inner child selves in order to love and accept our inner and outer adult selves.2020-06-3021 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1:E13 Germinating? Don’t Despise Your Darkness or Your Dirt.We all go through stages in our lives. During the germination process it’s dark, it’s dirty, it everything but pretty! But, those are our most important moments. Those are opportunities to grow and manifest PERSONIFIED POTENTIAL! Don’t despise these times. You’re growing something!
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-06-2320 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1:E12 In The Beginning. — End. The Beginning.There are certain desires and outcomes we create in our minds IN THE BEGINNING of relationships. When those things don’t happen the way we visioned, we can start to feel hopeless and upset. Yet, at every END there is a beginning. It’s not over for your dreams, it just didn’t happen in that space, with that person. This lesson is about accepting, adjusting, aligning, arising, and achieving! There’s a “In The Beginning” and there’s an “End; The Beginning.” There’s hope for you at what looks like the End.
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-06-0920 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1:E10 Don’t Rush! It’s A False Alarm.All of our lives we have always been in a hurry. We have been startled and rushed by the ringing of false alarms. This lesson is about taking (seizing and securing) our time.
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-06-0230 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1:E9 Don’t Drown: Stay On Your CurrentStay on the Current in your life today. It may feel like it’s trying to pull you under, but it’s trying to pull you out!
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-05-2616 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1:E8 From Hurt To Hate. It’s Time To Heal.We have all experienced hurt and betrayal. That hurt, when not dealt with and untreated, turns into hate. Let’s choose healing!
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-05-1920 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1:E7 You Must Be Enough To And For Yourself, FIRST!You can’t give anything to anyone that you don’t have for yourself first. This Life Lesson is the first step towards that.
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-05-1218 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1:E6 Don’t Settle For The Pebbles; Own The Stones!Allow yourself to believe again. Don’t settle for anything you are discontent with.
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-05-0419 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1:E5 You Are A Creator: From Words To World.With every word you speak, you are creating a world that will manifest. Speak what you seek, not what you see.
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-04-2715 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1:E4 Sometimes, Subtraction Yields The Greatest Additions.We are so afraid of subtraction. It seems like lose. But, if you do it right and see it clear, I’ll add to your life.
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-04-2017 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1:E3 Negatives Develop in the DarkMake sure the darkness and negatives in your life are being exposed to special light and running water.
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· Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app2020-04-1415 minLife Lessons with Indie WrytesS1:E2 Reserve Your SpaceThis episode is about protecting the sacred space of your mind, heart, and imagination. Learn and INjoy! 💜
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Life Lessons with Indie WrytesS1:E1 Welcome to Indie Speaks! Here I’ll share important Life lessons everyone needs to learn!This is the Welcome! Sharing my goals and setting my intentions for this podcast!
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