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Beyond the StatisticsCoercive Control: The Emotional Abuse You Don’t See with Eva Levina I Ep. 144A relationship can look calm from the outside while quietly teaching you to ask permission for your own life.In this episode of Beyond the Statistics, Ingrid Dutton sits down with author Eva Levina to explore coercive control, emotional abuse, and the slow loss of independence that can happen in an abusive relationship—even when there are no visible signs of violence.Eva shares how patterns of control developed over decades of marriage, why she didn't fully recognize what was happening while she was living inside it, and the moment her marriage suddenly ended. She al...
2026-10-2147 minBeyond the StatisticsHow Psychological Abuse Becomes Invisible with Dr. Sandra Evers I Ep. 143What happens when domestic violence leaves few visible marks—and the systems you turn to for help believe the wrong person?Dr. Sandra Evers joins Ingrid Dutton on Beyond the Statistics to share her experience of psychological violence, coercive control, sexual coercion, financial exploitation, isolation, threats, and institutional harm.Sandra was a respected professor, published author, and trusted professional. None of that protected her from abuse.She describes how control developed gradually, how she learned to become “nicer” to keep the peace, and how a threat involving “the perfect murder” changed everything. When she eventu...
2026-10-141h 37Beyond the StatisticsTrauma Bonds, DARVO & Emotional Abuse with Catherine Anne Castillo I Ep. 142How do you end up apologizing for the very thing that hurt you?In this episode of Beyond the Statistics, Ingrid Dutton is joined by Catherine Anne Castillo, a nurse and relational trauma clinician, for a conversation about trauma bonding, emotional abuse, DARVO, gaslighting, and the psychological manipulation that can make you question your own memory, judgment, and identity.Catherine begins by clearing up one of the most common misconceptions about trauma bonds. Trauma bonding isn’t two people connecting over shared trauma. It is an attachment that can form between a person and someone wh...
2026-10-131h 11Beyond the StatisticsHow Human Trafficking Really Works: Sextortion, Grooming & Intervention with Laura Parker I Ep. 141Human trafficking can feel distant—until you see the patterns, the people being targeted, and the routes traffickers use to move them.In this episode of Beyond the Statistics, Ingrid Dutton sits down with Laura Parker, CEO and co-founder of The Exodus Road, to go inside the realities of human trafficking intervention, sex trafficking prevention, online grooming, and sextortion.Laura shares how she and her husband went from teaching and pastoring to working alongside law enforcement, going undercover, and eventually building an international anti-trafficking organization.What does human trafficking intervention actually look like? La...
2026-09-301h 00Beyond the StatisticsReligious Trauma, Cult Recovery & High-Control Groups with Hollyanna I Ep. 140“Look at that little enemy of God.”That single sentence captures the shame and fear Hollyanna grew up with as the fourth generation of her family inside a high-control religious group.In this episode of Beyond the Statistics, Ingrid Dutton sits down with Hollyanna to talk about religious trauma, cult recovery, coercive control, and what happens when a system demands obedience at the expense of identity.Hollyanna describes growing up in an environment where questioning could be dangerous, information was controlled, critics were discredited, and leaving could mean losing everyone you knew. She shar...
2026-09-231h 02Beyond the StatisticsGrowing Up in a Family Cult: Religious Trauma & Coercive Control with Stella McCormick I Ep. 138The most chilling cult stories aren’t always about strangers. Sometimes the cult is your last name.Stella McCormick, author of Deliver Us from Mother: Faith, Fear, and the Family Cult That Broke Me, joins Ingrid to share what it was like growing up inside what she now recognizes as a single-family cult—an extreme fundamentalist Christian home shaped by isolation, fear, unquestioned authority, and punishment disguised as discipline.But Stella didn’t always recognize her childhood as abuse.Years later, after surviving a military sexual assault and beginning therapy during an overseas deploy...
2026-09-161h 21Beyond the StatisticsHealing After Abuse: When Your Body Still Feels Unsafe with Dr. Lisha Antiqua I Ep. 137You can leave an abusive relationship and still feel like your body is bracing for the next threat. Panic, numbness, hypervigilance, physical symptoms, and a nervous system that won’t seem to settle can leave survivors wondering why they don’t feel “better” yet.In this episode of Beyond the Statistics, Ingrid sits down with Dr. Lisha Antiqua, a survivor who works in trauma recovery and somatic healing to talk about healing after abuse, somatic trauma, and nervous system regulation. They explore why trauma can remain in the body long after the immediate danger has passed—and why recover...
2026-09-0950 minBeyond the StatisticsThe Pulpit and the Badge: Mica Miller, Stacy Peterson & Abuse of Power I Ep. 136When the person causing harm holds a position of power, the barriers survivors already face can become even more complicated.In this special Beyond the Statistics conversation, Ingrid Dutton moderates The Pulpit and the Badge: When Power and Authority Go Wrong with Norma Peterson of Document the Abuse, Neil Schori of Called to Peace Ministries, and Bruce Bieber.Using the stories of Mica Miller and Stacy Peterson as a starting point, they examine what happens when domestic abuse and coercive control intersect with positions of power—particularly within churches and law enforcement.The co...
2026-09-051h 32Beyond the StatisticsHealing After Domestic Violence: Reclaiming Your Story with Tricia Gray I Ep. 135 What happens after you tell your story—and the people from your past start responding?Tricia Gray returns to Beyond the Statistics to talk about what happened after publishing her memoir, A Lotus Legacy. Readers across the country began connecting with her story, but so did people from the Louisiana hometown she once ran from—including people who remembered the day her mother died.In this conversation, Tricia and Ingrid explore healing after domestic violence and childhood trauma, what survivors may need after someone finally says “me too,” and why telling your own story can be both f...
2026-09-0258 minBeyond the StatisticsBreaking Codependency After Abuse: Boundaries & Self-Trust with Barb Nangle I Ep. 133Codependency is often talked about in conversations about domestic violence—but too often, it sounds like blame. What if people pleasing, approval seeking, and self-abandonment aren't character flaws, but patterns shaped by trauma, instability, and survival?In this episode of Beyond the Statistics, Ingrid is joined by boundaries coach, speaker, and podcaster Barb Nangle to talk about codependency recovery, healthy boundaries, and rebuilding self-trust after relational trauma.Barb shares her own “codependent bottom” and the volatile living situation that led her into 12-step recovery through Al-Anon, CoDA, and ACA. Together, Ingrid and Barb explore how childh...
2026-08-261h 12Beyond the StatisticsLife After Domestic Violence: Hypervigilance, Trauma & Healing with Ray Floyd I Ep. 130Someone can survive domestic violence and still feel unsafe long after the relationship ends.In this episode of Beyond the Statistics, Ray Floyd shares how abuse changed his everyday life—from living without fear to constantly scanning his surroundings for danger. His memoir, No One Is Listening, tells the story of surviving domestic violence, navigating trauma, and rebuilding life after abuse.Ray and host Ingrid Dutton discuss the warning signs he recognizes in hindsight, including escalating anger, communication breakdowns, chronic job instability, isolation, and the gradual loss of peace that often accompanies abusive re...
2026-08-051h 04Beyond the StatisticsWhat Is Coercive Control? Understanding the Pattern Behind Domestic Abuse with Tracy Curtis I Ep. 129Domestic abuse isn't defined by a single incident—it's defined by a pattern. At the center of that pattern is coercive control.Coercive control is the ongoing use of fear, intimidation, manipulation, isolation, and domination to strip away another person's freedom and autonomy. It can exist with physical violence, but it doesn't have to. In many abusive relationships, coercive control is the foundation that allows every other form of abuse to take hold.In this episode of Beyond the Statistics, host Ingrid Dutton is joined by Tracy Curtis—survivor, forensic psychology professional, and founder of Empo...
2026-07-2947 minBeyond the StatisticsNonfatal Strangulation: Domestic Violence's Deadliest Warning Sign with Brian Bennett I Ep. 128Strangulation is one of the strongest predictors of future homicide in domestic violence, yet it's often misunderstood, minimized, and overlooked because many survivors have little or no visible injury.In this episode of Beyond the Statistics, Ingrid Dutton is joined by retired South Carolina law enforcement officer and domestic violence expert Brian Bennett, who has trained thousands of officers, investigators, medical professionals, and advocates on identifying and responding to nonfatal strangulation.Together they discuss:• Why nonfatal strangulation dramatically increases homicide risk • The difference between strangulation and "choking"—and why the language matters •...
2026-07-221h 45Beyond the StatisticsStrangulation, Brain Injury & Survivor Safety with April Flores-Brayton | Ep. 122Strangulation doesn't have to leave visible bruises to cause life-altering injuries—or even death.In Episode 122 of 1 in 3, Ingrid Dutton sits down with April Flores-Brayton, Director of Community-Based Services at WINGS, Illinois' largest domestic violence agency, to discuss the often-overlooked connection between strangulation, traumatic brain injury (TBI), and intimate partner violence.April explains how WINGS' hospital-based advocacy program helps survivors access support during one of the few moments they may be separated from the person causing harm. Together, Ingrid and April discuss how healthcare providers can recognize warning signs of abuse, conduct trauma-informed screenings, and co...
2026-06-171h 07Beyond the StatisticsJustice Is Finding Peace: Childhood Sexual Abuse, Healing & Truth with Kath Essing I Ep. 99What if justice isn’t a courtroom verdict, but the peace that comes from telling the truth?On this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid sits down with Kath Essing, author of The Courage to Speak Your Truth: Shifting the Narrative on Childhood Sexual Abuse, for a powerful conversation about healing when the legal system cannot deliver a conviction.Kath shares how suppressed memories of childhood sexual abuse resurfaced in adulthood, why survivors often shift their language from “abuse” to “rape,” and how reclaiming accurate words can be a critical step in trauma recovery. She walks us t...
2025-12-1750 minBeyond the StatisticsShear Haven’s Domestic Violence Training with Susanne Shepherd Post I Ep. 98What if the person most likely to spot early signs of domestic violence isn’t a police officer, clinician, or counselor—but your hairstylist? In this episode of the 1in3 Podcast, Ingrid sits down with salon owner and advocate Susanne Shepherd Post to reveal how Shear Haven is transforming everyday salon appointments into potentially life-saving interactions through a free, 20-minute domestic violence training.Susanne shares how a short news clip about an Illinois law sparked a statewide movement in Tennessee. Starting with in-person trainings through the YWCA, she discovered a powerful truth: stylists often hear the earliest indi...
2025-12-1057 minBeyond the StatisticsHow An A.I. Companion Helps Survivors Navigate Abuse, Document Evidence, And Prepare For Court with Anne Wintemute I Ep. 96What if the smartest “person” in the room during your most stressful moments isn’t a person at all—yet it remembers your story, protects your privacy, and helps you plan your next safe move? In this episode of the 1in3 Podcast, Ingrid sits down with Anne, creator of Aimee, a survivor-first A.I. tool designed specifically for domestic abuse and coercive control. Together, they explore how focused technology can turn chaos into clarity without compromising confidentiality or safety.This raw, practical conversation breaks down why general chatbots aren’t safe or effective for domestic violence situations and how a...
2025-11-2657 minBeyond the StatisticsEMDR Explained: A Trauma Therapist’s Guide to Safe, Effective Healing with Laurel Roberts-Meese I Ep. 95Your brain can remember the past without reliving it—that’s the power of EMDR therapy. In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid sits down with licensed therapist Laurel to break down what EMDR is, how it works, and why it’s become one of the most effective trauma therapies for survivors of domestic violence, PTSD, and complex trauma.We explore how traumatic memories get “red-flagged” in the brain, why hypervigilance sticks around, and how EMDR helps your nervous system finally believe you’re safe. If EMDR has ever sounded confusing, intense, or too simple, this conversation...
2025-11-1944 minBeyond the StatisticsTrauma-Informed Reporting Tech: REES on Safety, Choice & Data-Driven Prevention with Mary Lobson I Ep. 94What if reporting sexual violence, domestic abuse, harassment, or discrimination felt safe, clear, confidential, and survivor-centered?In this episode of 1 in 3, Ingrid sits down with Mary Lobson, founder of REES (Respect, Educate, Empower Survivors), to explore how trauma-informed technology is reshaping reporting systems across college campuses, sports organizations, live music events, workplaces, and community spaces.Mary shares her journey from frontline domestic violence advocacy to building a privacy-first, trauma-informed reporting platform trusted across North America. We break down what survivor-centered design really means in practice, including:✅ Encrypted records even the platform can’t acce...
2025-11-121h 06Beyond the StatisticsFrom Silence to Strength: Grooming, Justice, and Prevention with Morgan Scafe I Ep. 93Some stories don’t just deserve to be heard—they demand change. In this powerful episode of 1 in 3 Podcast, Morgan Scafe joins host Ingrid Dutton to share her harrowing story of child sexual abuse that began at age eight and continued until fifteen. She reveals how a courtroom turned her truth into a test—forcing her to relive trauma while sitting just feet from her abuser.Together, we examine how statutes of limitations erased most of her abuse from trial and why Morgan wrote Carpenter Road: The Inadmissible Years—a prequel that exposes the grooming process and violent...
2025-11-051h 07Beyond the StatisticsProtecting Kids After Domestic Violence: Dr. Royster on Post-Separation Abuse I Ep. 91In this episode of 1 in 3, child psychologist Dr. Royster joins Ingrid to unpack how to protect children’s mental health in high-conflict co-parenting and post-separation abuse situations. A calm home, a steady voice, and the right words at the right time can change a child’s life—even when a co-parent thrives on chaos.Dr. Royster breaks down the three main co-parenting models—collaborative, nesting, and parallel parenting—and explains when each approach fits. If your ex uses control, blame, or litigation as leverage, you’ll learn why parallel parenting may be the safest path and how to apply it...
2025-10-2246 minBeyond the StatisticsLizzbeth Aleman-Popoca, Named and Remembered I Ep. 90A woman is “found dead.” The headline ends there, but the story doesn’t—and neither does our responsibility. Ingrid sits with Vanessa and Yaneth to honor Lizzbeth by name, define femicide without euphemism, and follow the thread from a family’s search to a community’s demand for change. What emerges is both deeply personal and relentlessly systemic: a town that looked away, a police response that lagged, and a courtroom outcome negotiated on the killer’s terms.Vanessa, founder of Vivan Las Autonomas, explains how a small group of young immigrant women stepped into the vacuum—pressur...
2025-10-1545 minBeyond the StatisticsTeresa’s Light, Devyn’s Voice with Devyn O'Neill I Ep. 89In this episode of 1 in 3, Devyn joins Ingrid to share her powerful domestic violence survivor story—one that began with a late-night knock, a 911 call, and the moment her stepfather returned and pulled a trigger. The small town that knew Teresa, a beloved nurse with a bright laugh and steady hands, now mourned the loss of someone who made others feel safe at their most vulnerable.Devyn opens up about how her world changed at 14 and what healing has looked like since: panic, nightmares, self-harm, medication, and the long, imperfect process of trauma recovery through therapy. Together, we...
2025-10-081h 03Beyond the StatisticsWhen Systems Align with Captain Eric Threlkeld I Ep. 88In this episode of 1 in 3, host Ingrid sits down with Captain Eric Threlkeld—law enforcement leader, former UN police trainer, and domestic violence specialist—to unpack what truly saves lives: better first responses, stronger multidisciplinary teams, and real training on non-fatal strangulation that too often goes unnoticed in the ER and on the street.The conversation connects hard data with practical tools, showing how domestic violence response intersects with mass-shooting prevention, officer safety, and survivor protection. Eric explains why traditional police academy training falls short for complex DV cases—and how those first few minutes at a scene...
2025-10-0137 minBeyond the StatisticsDomestic Violence Awareness Month: Dates, Themes, and How to Show UpIn this episode of 1 in 3, host Ingrid kicks off Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM) with a clear, practical roadmap for how each of us can show up—visibly, safely, and meaningfully. When the calendar flips to October, the air changes: it’s time to bring domestic violence awareness out of the shadows and into our shared care.We unpack the message behind this year’s theme, “Everyone Knows Someone,” a reminder that abuse is closer than most realize—touching families, workplaces, schools, and faith communities. Then we lean into “With Survivors Always (con sobrevivientes siempre),” a love letter and a cal...
2025-09-2906 minBeyond the StatisticsRed Flags and Reality: Escaping Domestic Violence with Tiffiny Newton I Ep. 87What does domestic violence really look like behind closed doors? In this raw, unfiltered conversation, host Ingrid sits down with fellow survivor Tiffiny Newton for a candid exploration of abuse dynamics that goes far beyond what most people understand.Together, they unpack the subtle warning signs that precede full-blown abuse – the love bombing, future faking, and gradual escalation of control that can feel deceptively like love. "It's the green screen of relationships," Tiffiny explains, describing how abusers create an illusion before revealing their true nature. Their discussion reveals how technology has become a powerful tool for abusers, wi...
2025-09-241h 03Beyond the StatisticsUnmasking Sexual Violence: Survivors, Systems, and Solutions with Tracy DeTomasi I Ep. 86In this episode of 1 in 3, host Ingrid speaks with Tracy DiTomasi, CEO of Callisto and a licensed clinical social worker with over 25 years of experience in gender-based violence. Together, they confront the ways society talks—or avoids talking—about sexual assault. Too often, we use euphemisms, passive language, and subtle victim-blaming that shifts focus away from perpetrators. Tracy refuses to participate in that avoidance.She breaks down the essential terminology of sexual violence, challenges persistent myths, and explains why sexual assault is about power and control—not sex. Tracy discusses why many survivors freeze during attacks instead of fig...
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Another Situation90-Come Along and Ride On a Fantastic Voyage Back to 1995We take a nostalgic journey back to 1995, exploring everything from hit movies and music to fashion trends and major news events that defined the year. Through movie quotes, mall culture references, and historical touchpoints, Ingrid recreates the experience of being a teenager during this pivotal time in pop culture.• Revisiting iconic movie quotes • Remembering mall culture • Discussing fashion trends• Reflecting on major news events • Celebrating entertainment highlights • Comparing prices to todaySources: https://www.moviemistakes.com/best1995/quoteshttps://www.oscars.org/oscars/ceremonies/1995https://www...
2025-09-1622 minAnother Situation87-Food Trucks and Vendors (The Dionne Quintuplets' Survival Story)Have you ever heard of the Dionne quintuplets? In this riveting comeback episode, Jessica uncovers the shocking story of the world's first surviving quintuplets, born in rural Canada in 1934. What began as a medical miracle quickly transformed into one of history's most disturbing examples of child exploitation.These five identical girls—Yvonne, Annette, Cecile, Emily, and Marie—were removed from their parents and placed under government guardianship, where they became Canada's biggest tourist attraction. Behind one-way screens in a compound dubbed "Quintland," they were displayed to 3,000 visitors daily like animals in a zoo. Their images sold everything from...
2025-08-0537 minAnother SituationSisters UncensoredGet ready for the triumphant return of your favorite sister duo! Ingrid and Jessica are bringing back "Another Situation" on August 5th, and they're packing more heart, humor, and unfiltered conversation than ever before.What makes this podcast a must-listen? It's the irresistible combination of personal tales that resonate with everyday life, wild headlines that leave you speechless, and jaw-dropping historical deep dives that you won't hear anywhere else. From moments that will have you doubled over laughing to stories that might bring a tear to your eye, Ingrid and Jessica create a unique listening experience where...
2025-07-3002 minBeyond the StatisticsThe Coke Grenade: When Romance Turns Toxic with Emma Jean Rowin (Part 1/3) I Ep. 59Emma Jean Rowin survived an abusive marriage that culminated in her ex-husband becoming an active shooter. Her powerful memoir "When Things Collapse" chronicles this journey, but more importantly, reveals the subtle pathway that led her there - the very pathway many dismiss with "I would never stay in an abusive relationship."Through reading passages from her book, Emma Jean transports us to her college years when the relationship began. We witness the seemingly small moments that were actually major warning signs: a boyfriend who breaks up with her repeatedly as punishment for minor disagreements, who throws a...
2025-03-1233 minBeyond the StatisticsRecognizing Emotional Abuse: Antoinette Foxworthy on Toxic Relationships and Survivor Support (Part 3/3) I Ep. 52How can you recognize emotional abuse before it escalates?In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid welcomes back Antoinette Foxworthy to explore the often-hidden world of emotional and psychological abuse. Drawing from her research, personal experience, and her book No More, Antoinette reveals the subtle tactics abusers use, from isolation and manipulation to gaslighting, and provides tools for identifying these behaviors early.Together, we discuss: Warning signs of emotional and mental abuse How to support friends or loved ones in abusive relationships Practical strategies for offering help safely Understanding isolation tactics and controlling behavio...
2025-01-2229 minBeyond the StatisticsAntoinette Foxworthy Reads “No More”: Exploring the Realities of Domestic Violence (Part 2/3) I Ep. 51How do professional women navigate the hidden dangers of abusive relationships?In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid is joined by Antoinette Foxworthy as she shares poignant excerpts from her book No More. The narrative follows Dr. Anita Stone, a professional woman trapped in an abusive relationship, set against the backdrop of the O.J. Simpson verdict — highlighting the complex realities and societal pressures faced by survivors.Through Antoinette’s readings, we explore: The emotional and physical barriers victims face when leaving abuse Psychological tactics used by abusers to maintain control Misconceptions about why leavi...
2025-01-1534 minBeyond the StatisticsSurviving Abuse Through Storytelling: Antoinette Foxworthy on Writing “No More” (Part 1/3) I Ep. 50How can storytelling empower survivors and educate the world about the realities of domestic violence?In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid is joined by Antoinette Foxworthy, who shares her journey from surviving domestic abuse to writing the compelling novel No More. What began as a writing class assignment evolved into a story that illuminates the challenges women face after leaving abusive relationships — including Dr. Anita Stone, an orthopedic surgeon navigating life post-abuse.Together, we explore the psychological impact of domestic violence, the heightened risks victims face when seeking protection, and the importance of au...
2025-01-0823 minBeyond the StatisticsDomestic Violence During the Holidays: Protecting Yourself and Others I Ep. 49The holiday season is often a time of joy and togetherness, but for many, it also brings heightened stress and danger, especially for those affected by domestic violence. Join me, Ingrid, as I share crucial insights into why instances of domestic violence surge during this festive period. From financial strain to the emotional toll of past traumas resurfacing, I explore the various pressures that escalate tensions and the unique challenges survivors face in seeking help during holiday closures. I offer practical advice for victims on how to protect themselves and their loved ones, from escape planning to setting boundaries...
2024-12-1807 minBeyond the StatisticsCaitlynne’s Story: Domestic Violence, Legal Failures, and the Fight for Caitlynne’s Law I Ep. 45Can a legal system meant to protect endanger lives instead? In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid explores the tragic story of Caitlynne, whose life was taken by her husband, Alex Daniel Guajardo, despite his documented history of abuse.Through the lens of bail reform, we examine how the presumption of innocence and personal recognizance bonds can clash with public safety, sometimes with devastating consequences. Caitlynne’s mother, Melanie Infinger, shares her journey from grief to activism, fighting to enact Caitlynne’s Law to strengthen protections for survivors and prevent similar tragedies.🎧 In this episode...
2024-11-0610 minBeyond the StatisticsJane Laut Case: Domestic Violence, Self-Defense, and the Quest for Truth I Ep. 44What really happened between Jane and Dave Laut? In this gripping episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid untangles the complex web of allegations, hidden evidence, and conflicting testimonies surrounding Jane Laut’s explosive case.Was it a desperate act of self-defense after years of abuse, as Jane claims, or something more sinister? We explore: The legal and psychological dimensions of domestic violence allegations How financial motives and public perception can shape a case The ambiguity survivors face when their actions are questioned The ripple effects of conflicting narratives on families and communities Lessons in recognizing abuse while navig...
2024-10-3014 minBeyond the StatisticsBreaking the Cycle of Abuse: A. Garcia's Journey From Trauma to Advocacy (Part 1/2) I Ep. 42What drives someone to transform personal trauma into a force for change?In this powerful episode of 1 in 3, Ingrid sits down with A. Garcia, a resilient survivor of domestic violence who shares her journey from enduring abuse to becoming an advocate determined to break generational cycles of harm.Growing up in a home shaped by violence, A. Garcia later found herself confronting similar patterns in adulthood. A turning point came when she became a parent and made the life-altering decision to create a safer future for her daughter. She recounts the terrifying experience of her...
2024-10-1649 minBeyond the StatisticsHow Survivors Leave Abusive Relationships: Michelle Johnson’s Escape Story (Part 2/2) I Ep. 41What does it truly take to leave an abusive relationship — and why is escaping often the most dangerous moment for survivors?In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Ingrid continues her discussion with Michelle Johnson, who shares the courageous and carefully planned steps she took to escape domestic violence and rebuild her life.Michelle walks listeners through the reality behind leaving abuse — from secretly moving belongings and safety planning to a heart-stopping confrontation that nearly changed everything. Her story reveals the immense emotional strength, preparation, and support required for survivors to safely break free.In t...
2024-10-1028 minBeyond the StatisticsBreaking Trauma Bonds: Michelle Johnson’s Journey Out of Domestic Violence (Part 1/2) I Ep. 40What makes someone stay in an abusive relationship — even when danger is clear? In this powerful episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid speaks with Michelle Johnson, whose upcoming book Beauty and the Beast Within explores the complex psychological grip of trauma bonds and the hidden realities of domestic violence.Michelle courageously shares the terrifying moments that ultimately led her to escape an abusive relationship, revealing how manipulation, fear, and emotional dependency can keep survivors trapped in dangerous cycles. Through deeply personal storytelling and eye-opening statistics, she helps listeners understand the warning signs many people miss until it’s to...
2024-10-0937 minBeyond the Statistics“Worst Ex Ever” Highlights Domestic Abuse: Survivor Stories and Lessons Learned I Ep. 39What happens when societal judgment and systemic failures leave survivors of domestic violence isolated and unheard? In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid examines the stories featured in Netflix’s Worst Ex Ever, highlighting the immense courage it takes to escape abusive relationships and rebuild a life.Through these narratives, we explore: The legal and systemic obstacles survivors often face Emotional resilience required to survive and thrive The ongoing impact of trauma and societal judgment The importance of support networks, empathy, and advocacy How media representation can raise awareness and spark action 🎧 Key Takeaways: Understandin...
2024-10-0216 minBeyond the StatisticsDomestic Violence and Family Court: Viv’s Story of Survival and Advocacy I Ep. 38How does one protect herself and her children when the legal system seems to fail at every turn? In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid sits down with Viv, a courageous survivor of domestic violence and legal abuse, to explore the emotional, financial, and psychological toll of navigating family court under the shadow of an abusive partner.We discuss: Emotional manipulation and isolation inflicted by abusers Society’s tendency to blame victims instead of abusers Challenges of protecting children while maintaining honesty and stability The dual personas abusers present and the difficulties courts face discerning truth Th...
2024-07-241h 08Beyond the StatisticsClare Bernal: Stalking, Domestic Violence, and the Fight for Justice I Ep. 37Witness the harrowing story of Clare Bernal, a young woman whose life was tragically ended after enduring escalating stalking and domestic abuse. In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid uncovers the chilling sequence of events that transformed a seemingly normal workplace relationship with Michael Pech at Harvey Nichols into a life-shattering nightmare.Despite systemic failures to protect her, Clare’s story ignited a powerful movement led by her mother, Patricia Bernal, which ultimately led to the criminalization of stalking in the UK in 2012. Even Prime Minister David Cameron acknowledged the gravity of stalking, cementing Clare’s lega...
2024-05-0112 minAnother Situation85-She Dropped the Skirt (Dr. Mary Walker)After quite the hiatus, the girls are back! Better late than never, Ingrid tells all about Dr. Mary Walker—the perfect topic for International Women’s Day (just 1-1/2 months late). Sources:https://www.azquotes.com/author/23198-Mary_Edwards_Walker#google_vignettehttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1830s_in_Western_fashionhttps://schools.scsk12.org/cms/lib/TN50000520/Centricity/Domain/1793/MooreSurgeon%20Mary%20Walker.pdfhttps://www.americancivilwarforum.com/mary-edwards-walker-let-the-generations-know-that-women-in-uniform-also-guaranteed-their-freedom.-794.htmlhttps://www.battlefields.org/learn/biographies/mary-e-walkerhttps://www.britannica.com/biography/Mary-Edwards-Walkerhttps://www.ausa.org/dr-mary-e-walkerhttp...
2024-04-2323 minBeyond the StatisticsDomestic Violence SURVIVOR: Danielle Patrice (Part 1/2) I Ep. 35Every survivor’s journey is different, yet the shared threads of human experience connect us all. In this raw and deeply revealing episode of 1 in 3, Ingrid sits down with Danielle — a domestic violence survivor, advocate, and author of Neuroscience: The Ecosystem of Domestic Violence — to explore how trauma, resilience, and advocacy intersect.Danielle’s story shines a light on the often unseen realities of abuse, blending personal testimony with powerful insight into the psychological and systemic forces that allow cycles of violence to persist. Together, we unpack the complex dynamics of trust and betrayal, the emotional toll of navig...
2024-03-2039 minBeyond the StatisticsBail Reform and Domestic Violence: Justice, Policy, and Survivor Safety with Ken W. Good I Ep. 34Bail reform sparks heated debates across the U.S., especially when it intersects with domestic violence. In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid sits down with Ken W. Good to dissect the legal, social, and personal dimensions of bail reform.We explore: Constitutional nuances and zero-bail policies The impact of bail reform on survivors of domestic violence Judicial discretion and the rise of failure-to-appear incidents Public safety versus leniency: finding the balance Lessons from states like Texas where reform is contentious 🎧 Key Takeaways: Understanding the private surety bail system How systemic failures can put survivors at...
2024-03-1351 minBeyond the StatisticsSally McNeil: Domestic Violence, Abuse, and Resilience Behind Closed Doors I Ep. 33When violence hides behind closed doors, seeking justice and truth can be a perilous journey. In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid examines the life of Sally McNeil, a former Marine turned bodybuilder whose remarkable resilience was shadowed by the devastating realities of domestic abuse.From early achievements to escalating violence in her relationship with Ray McNeil, we explore: Physical, emotional, and sexual abuse within intimate relationships The impact on children and family dynamics Financial pressures and survival strategies in abusive environments The warning signs and escalation patterns that often precede domestic tragedies The critical role of a...
2024-03-0616 minBeyond the StatisticsDarjeeling Pur: Tami Weissenberg on Being a Male Victim of Domestic Abuse I Ep. 32When you think of a domestic abuse victim, does a man come to mind? In this eye-opening episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid shares the story of Tami Weissenberg (pseudonym) and his personal journey as a male victim of domestic violence as taken from his book Darjeeling Pur.Tami’s story defies stereotypes, illustrating how emotional manipulation, physical abuse, and social isolation can impact men just as severely as women. Through his experiences, listeners will understand: The hidden struggles male victims face in abusive relationships The emotional and physical manipulation used by abusers, regardless of gender How soc...
2024-02-0716 minBeyond the StatisticsStanding for Justice: Michelle Horton on Nicole Addimando, Family, and Domestic Violence Reform I Ep. 31How can families navigate the aftermath of domestic violence while advocating for justice?In this powerful episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid is joined by Michelle Horton, sister of Nicole Addimando, author of DEAR SISTER: A Memoir of Secrets, Survival, and Unbreakable Bonds. Michelle shares her journey of adopting her niece and nephew, supporting Nicole’s cause, and confronting systemic failures that leave survivors vulnerable.We explore: The subtle and overt signs of domestic abuse within families How silence, shame, and victim-blaming hinder survivors The emotional journey of supporting a loved one through trauma The impli...
2024-01-3145 minBeyond the StatisticsKirsty Wilkinson: Domestic Violence, Tragedy, and the Legacy Left Behind I Ep. 30Every life has a story that deserves to be told. In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid honors the memory of Kirsty Wilkinson, a young woman whose promising future in modeling and life was tragically cut short by domestic abuse and murder.We examine the relationship between Kirsty and her husband, Paul Grabham, exploring the early warning signs of abuse and the psychological control that escalated to fatal consequences. Through intimate readings from Kirsty’s personal journal, including a heartfelt poem about motherhood, listeners gain a profound understanding of her life, dreams, and the enduring impact of...
2024-01-2417 minBeyond the StatisticsVirginia Pictou Noyes: The Vanishing That Highlights Hidden Domestic Violence I Ep. 29On the night of April 23, 1993, Virginia Pictou Noyes vanished in Bangor, Maine, leaving behind a chilling story that remains unresolved.In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid unpacks Virginia’s life — from a turbulent upbringing to the complex dynamics with Larry and Roger Noyes Jr., men with a history of violence — culminating in a tragedy that underscores the hidden victims of domestic abuse.Virginia’s story is more than a mystery; it is a reminder of the countless people who suffer in silence and the urgent need for awareness, support, and action. By exploring the even...
2024-01-1713 minBeyond the StatisticsBreaking Free from Manipulation: Hayley’s Story of Psychological Abuse and Survival I Ep. 28What happens when love becomes a source of fear?In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid shares the compelling story of Hayley, a single mother whose pursuit of affection led her into a relationship marked by manipulation, gaslighting, and psychological abuse.Hayley’s experience exposes the hidden tactics abusers use to dominate and control, from subtle coercion to verbal and physical aggression. This episode provides both a personal narrative and a guide for understanding the signs of coercive control, empowering listeners to recognize, resist, and break free from abusive patterns.🎧 In this episo...
2024-01-1027 minBeyond the StatisticsThe Children of Shelly Knotek: Enduring Abuse and Finding Strength (Part 5/5) I Ep. 26How do children survive when the person meant to provide care becomes the source of fear and harm?In this gut-wrenching episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid shares the story of the three daughters and nephew of Shelly Knotek. Victims of relentless physical, verbal, and psychological abuse, these children endured an environment of manipulation, cruelty, and terror at the hands of their mother.Through their experiences, we explore the devastating impact of parental abuse, the longing for nurturing, and the extraordinary resilience required to survive such trauma. This episode serves both as a cautionary tale...
2023-12-1320 minAnother Situation84-Phonetically French (the story behind the Michelin Man)Innovation and progress. That’s what we’re all about here at Another Situation. Or just randomness that interests us. Join the ladies today as Ingrid talks about an internationally known name and mascot. Sources:https://allpoetry.com/poems/about/Innovationhttps://business.michelinman.com/blog/articles/history-of-the-michelin-manhttps://www.logodesignlove.com/bibendum-michelin-manhttps://www.michelin.com/en/michelin-group/about-us/michelin-heritage/#https://francetoday.com/culture/did-you-know-the-michelin-mans-slightly-sinister-origin-story/https://guide.michelin.com/en/about-usSupport the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmai...
2023-12-0520 minBeyond the StatisticsRon Woodworth’s Story: Isolation, Manipulation, and Abuse Under Shelly Knotek (Part 4/5) I Ep. 25How does manipulation become total control — and how can someone be isolated from everyone they love?In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid examines the heartbreaking story of Ron Woodworth, a man searching for stability after personal tragedy who instead became entangled in the destructive control of Shelly Knotek.Through psychological manipulation, isolation, and escalating abuse, Ron was gradually cut off from his support system — even pressured to sever ties with his own mother. His experience reveals how coercive control can reshape reality for victims and make escape incredibly difficult.Rather than sens...
2023-11-2915 minBeyond the StatisticsKathy Loreno’s Story: Coercive Control, Manipulation, and the Abuse Behind Shelly Knotek (Part 3/5) I Ep. 24What does abuse look like when manipulation becomes a prison — and escape feels impossible?In this powerful episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid examines the devastating experience of Kathy Loreno, a compassionate hairdresser and caregiver whose life became entangled in the web of control created by Shelly Knotek.Kathy entered the relationship as a trusted friend but gradually became isolated, psychologically manipulated, and subjected to escalating physical and emotional abuse. Through coercive control, intimidation, and calculated mind games, Shelly maintained dominance while those outside struggled to see the reality unfolding behind closed doors.Th...
2023-10-1818 minBeyond the StatisticsShelly Knotek: Family Abuse, Control, and the Hidden Warning Signs Inside a Home (Part 2/5) I Ep. 22What happens when instability, control, and dysfunction take root inside a family?In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid explores the complex life story of Shelly Knotek, tracing her path from adolescence through turbulent marriages and increasingly chaotic family dynamics.This episode examines how financial stress, unpredictable behavior, and controlling relationships created an environment marked by instability and emotional harm — and how these patterns deeply affected the children growing up within the household.Through careful storytelling, Ingrid looks beyond headlines to explore the broader realities of family abuse, relational control, and the lo...
2023-09-2713 minAnother Situation79-No Cap Just Corn (astrology)Astrology--is it a science? No, but it is a lot of fun. No cap. Ingrid details astrology and gives you just enough information to confuse you. Make sure to listen to the end to hear your own horoscope prediction for 2023!!Sources:https://www.wattpad.com/316519434-%E2%99%A0zodiac-signs%E2%99%A0-~poems-for-the-signs~https://www.britannica.com/summary//summary/astrologyhttps://theconversation.com/why-is-astronomy-a-science-but-astrology-is-not-192376https://www.purewow.com/wellness/types-of-astrologyhttps://www.thecut.com/article/astrology-birth-chart-meaning-analysis.htmlhttps://www.today.com/life/astrology/sun-moon-rising-meaning-rcna23286https://www.allure.com/story/zodiac-signs-elements-fire-earth-air-water
2023-09-2642 minAnother SituationWait! We're Coming Back!!Sorry for the radio silence! Stay tuned, we will be back!! Make sure to check out the website for Ingrid's other podcast at https://www.1in3podcast.com/Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched! Start for FREESupport the showContact Another Situation: Email us at anothersituationpodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Tweet us @AnotherSitPod Check out our website https://www.anothersituationpodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Cover art by Kevin StoneMusic by Tim Crowe
2023-09-0702 minBeyond the StatisticsMichelle “Shelly” Knotek: Lies, Control, and the Warning Signs of Family Abuse (Part 1/5) I Ep. 21Can you face the uncomfortable truth about how abuse and manipulation can slowly take hold inside a family?In this powerful episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid begins the disturbing and complex story of Michelle Knotek — often known as Shelly Knotek — whose life reveals how deception, instability, and control can reshape families and leave lasting harm.This first installment explores Shelly’s early years, marked by frequent moves, changing schools, fractured relationships, and escalating patterns of manipulation. Allegations, shifting narratives, and damaged marriages paint a troubling picture of how destructive behaviors can evolve over time.R...
2023-08-0211 minBeyond the StatisticsThe Hidden Start of an Abusive Relationship: Abigail Blake’s Survivor Story I Ep. 20How does an abusive relationship really begin — and why are the warning signs so easy to miss?In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid shares the powerful survivor story of Abigail Blake, whose seemingly perfect relationship slowly transformed into a cycle of manipulation, control, and violence.What began with charm and affection evolved into psychological abuse, isolation, and eventually physical harm. Through Abby’s experience with her partner Sebastian, this episode explores the gradual escalation many survivors face — revealing how abuse often develops long before it becomes visible to others.Drawing from posted...
2023-07-2615 minBeyond the StatisticsDomestic Violence, Self-Defense, and the Law: The Story of Nicole Addimando I Ep. 19What happens when a survivor fights back — and the justice system fails to recognize the abuse behind the act?In this powerful advocacy-driven episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid examines the case of Nicole Addimando, whose story exposes the complex intersection of domestic violence, self-defense, and criminal justice.Drawing from the documentary And So I Stayed and investigative reporting, this episode explores the years of physical and sexual abuse Nicole endured, the escalating risk factors that placed her in danger of homicide, and the controversial conviction that initially overlooked her lived reality as a survivor....
2023-07-1914 minBeyond the StatisticsA Love Story Turned Deadly: The Murder of Landy Martinez and the Warning Signs of Domestic Violence I Ep. 18Be prepared for a deeply emotional and unforgettable story.In this gripping episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid shares the tragic case of Landy Martinez — a story that began as a romance but ended in devastating violence.Through careful storytelling, this episode examines the escalating dynamics of a relationship marked by conflict, fear, and warning signs that ultimately culminated in murder. From a tense confrontation in a fast-food parking lot to the chilling 911 call made moments before Landy’s life was taken, the timeline reveals how domestic violence can intensify with heartbreaking consequences.Ingr...
2023-07-1213 minBeyond the StatisticsWhen Love Turns Dangerous: Michele Weldon’s Story of Abuse, Survival, and Healing I Ep. 17What would you do if the person you promised to love began wishing for your death?In this powerful episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid shares the gripping true story of writer, journalist, and mother of three Michele Weldon — a survivor who endured years of emotional and physical abuse before finding the strength to rebuild her life.Through discussion of her memoir, I Close My Eyes, this episode explores the progression of abuse within an intimate relationship — from early warning signs during courtship to escalating control, fear, and trauma inside marriage.With compassion and...
2023-06-2115 minAnother Situation76-You Get Twice the Fun (month of May)What’s in a name? A month by any other name would still be spring. Today Ingrid covers what May (and her name) mean and came to be.Sources:https://www.sheknows.com/baby-names/name/may/https://www.wonderopolis.org/wonder/how-did-the-months-of-the-year-get-their-nameshttps://www.thoughtco.com/maia-greek-nymph-mother-of-hermes-111823#:~:text=The%20Greek%20nymph%20Maia%20was,goddess%20of%20spring%2C%20Maia%20Maiestas.Wkipediahttps://www.oakhousefoods.co.uk/blog/blog/2019/05/03/the-maypole-what-does-is-it-and-what-does-it-signify/#:~:text=Maypole%20dancing%20is%20a%20tradition,rather%20than%20a%20tree...https://www.grapevinestudies.com/blog/how-our-modern-calendar-was-created/https://www.greeklegendsandmyths.com/maia.html
2023-06-2026 minBeyond the StatisticsFrom Survival to Freedom: The Powerful Final Chapter of Tina Turner’s Story (Part 2/2) I Ep. 16What happens when the world sees glamour — but behind closed doors, survival becomes a daily fight?In this powerful concluding episode, Ingrid explores the hidden reality behind the life of music legend Tina Turner and her deeply abusive marriage to Ike Turner.While audiences celebrated fame and success, Tina endured years of manipulation, control, and escalating violence. This episode examines the emotional and psychological toll of abuse, the devastating breaking point that led to her suicide attempt, and the moment she made the courageous decision to fight for her freedom and protect her family....
2023-06-1420 minBeyond the StatisticsFrom Anna Mae Bullock to Tina Turner: A Survivor’s Journey to Freedom (Part 1/2) I Ep. 15Discover the extraordinary life story of Tina Turner — born Anna Mae Bullock — in this powerful episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast.Host Ingrid explores Tina Turner’s turbulent childhood shaped by family instability, abandonment, and early adversity, revealing how resilience began long before fame. As a young woman and mother, Anna Mae faced complex choices while navigating her relationship with Ike Turner, a partnership that would both launch her career and place her in a deeply abusive environment.Through insight, compassion, and survivor-focused discussion, this episode examines how determination, courage, and self-belief helped transform Anna Mae Bulloc...
2023-06-0715 minAnother Situation74-Yay Tomah!T-O-M-A-H. That’s right. Today Ingrid talks about their hometown and goes over the history. Sources for this episode:https://www.travelwisconsin.com/museums-history/little-red-school-house-192254http://www.wcwcw.com/feature31.htmhttps://www.tomahmuseum.com/https://en.wikipedia.org
2023-05-3023 minAnother Situation72-She Never Stopped Salivating (history of the hot dogs)Hot dogs! Get your hot dogs!! Ingrid goes over everything you ever wanted to know about this American favorite. For a little treat, we have special guests do the intro. Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
2023-05-1635 minAnother Situation70-It's Cool, I'm Fine, It's Cool (cursed movie, "Rosemary's Baby")Continuing our feast of horror….. Ingrid will be going over the curse of Rosemary’s Baby. Better sleep with the lights on!Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
2023-05-0224 minAnother Situation68-Annamarie Cochran Rintala (1 in 3 episode)Hey Another Situation listeners!! We have a treat for you today. In order to help spread awareness and to promote Ingrid’s new podcast, we’re showcasing Jessica’s favorite episode from 1 in 3 this week. Don’t worry though. The ladies will be back with their fatuous banter next week!Abuse comes in many forms and often escalates. In this case, it may have escalated to murder. Sources:https://obits.masslive.com/us/obituaries/masslive/name/annamarie-rintala-obituary?id=12266167https://www.northwesternda.org/home/news/judge-sets-4th-murder-trial-cara-rintala-september-2023https://www.gazettenet.com/The-Annamarie-Cochrane-Rintala-you-never-knew-5341770https://thecinemaholic.com/annamarie...
2023-04-1822 minAnother Situation67-Marsha, Marsha, Marsha (Independent Order of Odd Fellows secret society)Today Ingrid embraces her inner "odd" and tells all about the Independent Order of Odd Fellows. When, how, and why did they originate? More importantly, what are all of the amazing things they are still doing today? Listen and find out a little bit, join them and learn it all!Sources:https://www.rmg.co.uk/stories/topics/health-17th-century https://www.historic-uk.com/HistoryUK/HistoryofEngland/The-Great-Plague/ https://www.infoplease.com/history/world/1600-1699-ad-world-history https://www.history.org.uk/student/module/4536/overview-of-elizabeth-i/4543/social-structure https://iooflodgedirectory.org/ https://odd-fellows.org/history/ The Three Links Oddcast Parcast Networ...
2023-04-1126 minBeyond the StatisticsTragedy, Transformation, and Claire's Law I Ep. 5How can one tragedy change the law and potentially save thousands of lives?In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, we explore the heartbreaking story of Clare Wood, whose murder by former partner George Appleton led to the creation of Clare’s Law, also known as the Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme.Host Ingrid takes listeners through Clare’s life, her relationship history, and the systemic failures that prevented her from knowing the extent of her partner’s violent past. After Clare’s death, her father, Michael Brown, launched a relentless campaign for reform — ultimately changing how domest...
2023-03-2920 minAnother Situation65-His Doppelgänger Was Mr. Peanut (mistaken identity)Continuing with mistaken identities, Ingrid goes to England and cover the tale of Adolf Beck. You’ll want to make sure to hang on to your jewelry for this one!Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
2023-03-2828 minAnother Situation63-Sunshine Girl (Taylor University mistaken identity)Who are you? Today Ingrid covers a tragic case of mistaken identity. Get your tissues ready!Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
2023-03-1434 minBeyond the StatisticsA Voice for the Voiceless: Shedding Light on the Hidden Crisis of Domestic Abuse I Ep. 1Domestic violence has shocking statistics that affects people from all walks of life, and it's time to shed light on this pervasive issue. Join me, Ingrid, as we unravel the complexities of domestic violence and explore the different types of abuse, terminology, and the long-lasting effects like depression, suicide, and economic costs. Together, we'll educate ourselves on how to better support those affected by it.As a survivor of domestic violence myself, I know first-hand the pain and struggle that comes with it. Let's raise awareness, support one another, and continue the fight against domestic violence because...
2023-03-0118 minBeyond the StatisticsWelcome to Beyond the Statistics | Stories of Domestic Violence, Abuse, Healing & HopeWelcome to Beyond the Statistics, a survivor-led podcast hosted by Ingrid Dutton that explores the stories behind domestic violence, sexual assault, human trafficking, coercive control, and trauma.Statistics help us understand the scope of abuse—but understanding begins with stories.Each week, survivors, advocates, therapists, legal professionals, researchers, and other experts join the conversation to educate, challenge misconceptions, and inspire hope. Together, we discuss healthy relationships, coercive control, narcissistic abuse, trauma recovery, healing, resilience, legal abuse, prevention, and the systems that impact survivors.Whether you're a survivor, supporting someone yo...
2023-02-2801 minAnother Situation61-No Sniffles (Sandy Hook)Please note, this episode includes graphic details of violence and murder. There is also explicit language use throughout. Today Ingrid covers the tragedy of Sandy Hook and the devastation that followed from one man’s conspiratorial claims.Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
2023-02-2839 minAnother Situation57-Are We Human or Are We Astronauts? (the Challenger disaster)This week the ladies take on the Challenger disaster. Ingrid covers what led up to the tragedy and names the lives lost. Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
2023-01-3136 minAnother Situation55-Dang it Dolly! (how Dolly Parton turned her difficult situation around)Continuing with our difficult situations turned around series, Ingrid totally fan girls it and tells the amazing story of how Dolly Parton turned rags into sequins! Dolly's determination and talent turned her into one of country music's biggest stars. You don't have to love country to love Dolly though. Just listen and you'll see what we mean!Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening...
2023-01-1736 minAnother Situation50-A Day I Remember (Pearl Harbor)A day that will live in infamy. The ladies cover their grandpa’s first hand account of the bombings at Pearl Harbor. Ingrid also gives a brief recap of the events leading to Pearl Harbor. We are the sleeping giant!!!Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
2022-12-0628 minAnother Situation48-Happy Feudsgiving Part 1 (Hatfield & McCoy Feud)Since Thanksgiving is often a time families get together, we thought we would throw in an episode or two to liven things up by covering feuds. In this first part of the Hatfield and McCoy feud, Ingrid sets the scene and describes the initial incidents contributing to one of the most notorious family feuds in American history.Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!
2022-11-2249 minAnother Situation40-Here's the Situation: Forty is the New FiftyThis week Ingrid and Jessica cover what the upcoming months are going to look like. October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month so expect some heavy situations. To counter that, please send us your acts of kindness! Either acts you’ve done, someone did for you or ones you’ve seen. Also putting a call out for messages of things you’re thankful for. Thank you for coming along with us to our 40th episode!!!!!!!Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook...
2022-09-2716 minAnother Situation39-Skin to Skin (Michelle Harris discusses NICU)September is NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit) awareness month. Michelle Harris, fellow podcaster and host of "The Conversing Nurse Podcast", joins Ingrid in discussing her career as a NICU nurse. She also describes typical hurdles new parents of NICU babies experience. Her podcast is a collection of interviews with nurses of various backgrounds and is very interesting. Please check it out on your favorite directory. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Here's a link to her website if you want more information.https://theconversingnursepodcast.com/Check out Michelle's bio on Another Situation's website: https://www.anothersituationpodcast.c...
2022-09-201h 11Another Situation36-The Tuske-Bee-Gee Syphilis StudyWe have already learned of the shady history that happened in our "What the HeLa" episode. Ingrid now details the historical syphilis situation that happened at the Tuskegee Institute.Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
2022-08-301h 14Another Situation34-What the HeLa?! (I thought we were talking about immunizations)Ingrid touches on the topic of immunization (August is immunization awareness month) by detailing the life of the woman whose cells changed the world of medicine forever--Henrietta Lacks.Information for this episode was obtained from the book, "The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks" by Rebecca Skloot, the podcast, "This Podcast Will Kill You" Episode 70, and Wikipedia.Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and s...
2022-08-161h 15Another Situation31-How Did I Not Die Part 3It's back by popular demand!!! Listen as Ingrid and Jessica go over the amazing survival stories of Mauro Prosperi and Juliane Koepcke-Diller. Spoiler alert...both stories involve bats.Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
2022-07-2659 minAnother Situation30-Fifty Shades of Fables (folklore and fables)Happy 30th episode!! This podcast is based on sharing situations or stories. Today Ingrid and Jessica dive into fables and folklores. Some have been passed down in their family and others from different cultures. Cuddle up and get cozy for some sweet bedtimes stories.Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
2022-07-191h 08Another Situation29-Myster-E Part II (the Voynich Manuscript)Today Jessica and Ingrid explore the wonders of the Voynich Manuscript and all of its possibilities. Is it real? Is it a hoax? We'll let you decide.Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
2022-07-0548 minAnother Situation28-Myster-E Part I (Edith's mysterious situations request)Ingrid covers the kidnapping of Charley Ross. Learn how this led to changes in the system and provided sage advice.Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
2022-06-281h 03Another Situation27-Just Stop It (hate crimes against the LGBTQ+ community)It's back to just Ingrid and Jessica on this one! To continue celebrating Pride month, we chose four situations from the history of America's LGBTQ population. Their struggles and tragedies should not be repeated and their sacrifices should not be in vain. We discuss the Stonewall Uprising, the murders of Matthew Shepard and Jason Fox, and the mass shooting at Pulse in Orlando. Love people. Love is never wrong.Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website http...
2022-06-2158 minAnother Situation23-Sleep With the TV On (a paranormal situation)Happy belated National Paranormal Day! We are a few weeks late, but May 3rd is the day the United States observes all things paranormal. Snuggle up with a blanket and turn all the lights on as Ingrid reads a compilation of paranormal experiences by one woman from Nashville.Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
2022-05-241h 03Another Situation14-Welcome Home Vietnam Vets (Vietnam history and interview with a Vietnam Vet)March 29th is a day to recognize the dedication and service of all of our Vietnam Veterans and to give them the welcome home they deserved. This episode covers Jessica’s take on the history of Vietnam and Ingrid shares our uncle’s experiences in Vietnam along with summing up the aftermath of the Vietnam War. If you would like to find an event in your area to participate in honoring these men and women, please visit www.vietnamwar50th.com and plug in your zip code. Support the showContact Another Situation: Ema...
2022-03-221h 11Another Situation12-Obnoxious Suffragists and the War of the RosesHappy International Women’s Day! Ingrid discusses how American women worked to #breakthebias and won Woman Suffrage. Jessica gives us the scoop on one particular woman.Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
2022-03-0859 minAnother Situation11-Ashley and Eric's Situation (traumatic brain injury)Ashley and Eric were your average couple. They were happily married with an adorable and healthy little girl and had stable jobs. April 30, 2020 changed all of that for them. Listen as Jessica and Ingrid retell their journey following a car versus bicycle accident which left Eric with a Traumatic Brain Injury. Hear as Ashley and Eric describe some of their resulting challenges. Find their GoFundMe by checking out the link to Ashley and Eric's bio on Another Situation's website: https://www.anothersituationpodcast.com/guests/ashley-and-eric-rene/Support the showContact Another Situation: Em...
2022-03-0141 minAnother Situation9-Rudy's Situation (blatant racism)In this episode, Ingrid and Jessica talk with Rudy Story about a situation that happened to him in college. Rudy shares how he was treated with overt racism and violence and how it still impacts him today. DISCLAIMER: this episode contains explicit language and physical violence that appears to be racially motivated. Please use discretion when listening.Check out Rudy's bio on Another Situation's website: https://www.anothersituationpodcast.com/guests/rudy-story/Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Ch...
2022-02-1754 minAnother Situation5-How Did I Not Die Part 2Ingrid shares her personal story. Jessica tells the story of “The Man Who Wouldn’t Die”. Bear with Jessica, she has a cold…Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
2022-02-0436 minAnother Situation4-How Did I Not Die Part 1Jessica shares a story submitted to us anonymously. As an aside for that story, we do not condone the behavior of the women and do not condone any type of illegal drug use. The story is not meant to glamourize drug or alcohol use, but to identify poor choices and major red flags. Ingrid shares the story of Phineas Gage. Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Than...
2022-02-0344 minAnother Situation3-Rachel Groves and Ray Forsythe (Young Empowered Stroke Survivors)Ingrid and Jessica follow up with Rachel Groves and hear from former professional athlete, Ray Forsythe, about his stroke at the age of 41. The duo are the founders of the YESS (Young Empowered Stroke Survivors) Foundation. You can find out more information, read their full stories, and support them at yessfoundation.orgWe want to say congratulations Ray on the Bengals making it to the Bowl!Check out Rachel's bio on Another Situation's website: https://www.anothersituationpodcast.com/guests/rachel-groves/Support the showContact Another Situation: E...
2022-02-021h 02Another Situation1-The PremiseJessica had a dream, Ingrid had a plan, now we have a podcast. Send us your stories! anothersituationpodcast@gmail.comSupport the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
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