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1 in 3103-How Documenting Abuse Saves Lives with Norma PetersonWhen headlines fade, survivors are often left with the aftermath. In this episode of 1 in 3, Ingrid speaks with Norma Peterson, Executive Director of Document the Abuse, about what really happens behind high-profile domestic violence cases—and how abuse often escalates when someone tries to leave.Using lessons learned from the disappearance of Stacy Peterson, Norma explains how control, isolation, and intimidation evolve quietly, long before the public ever notices. We explore the legal concept of forfeiture by wrongdoing, which allows a victim’s documented words to be used when they can no longer speak for themselves.No...
2026-01-141h 281 in 3102-From Fairytale to Coercive Control: Grooming & Domestic Violence with BeccaIn this episode of 1 in 3, Ingrid sits down with Becca to unpack how reconnecting with someone from her past quickly escalated into coercive control, domestic violence, and physical abuse—and ultimately led to the devastating discovery of grooming and sexual assault against her child.Becca walks us through the timeline in clear, unflinching detail: intense love-bombing and a rushed marriage, early red flags during pregnancy, isolation and alcohol-fueled conflict during COVID, and the shift from gaslighting to physical violence. Everything changes when her child discloses the abuse—forcing Becca to make urgent decisions to protect her children and...
2026-01-071h 111 in 3101-Coercive Control, The Invisible Abuse with Dr. LisaWhat if the most dangerous abuse leaves no bruises?In this episode of 1 in 3, Ingrid is joined by Dr. Lisa to unpack coercive control—a form of abuse that often hides behind charm, faith language, and “helpful” or respected personas. We explore how relationships that begin with love bombing, future faking, and devotion slowly shift into gaslighting, DARVO, isolation, and financial dependence, causing even the most capable people to doubt their own reality.This conversation breaks down why focusing on labels like narcissist or sociopath can distract from what truly matters: patterns of behavior over time...
2025-12-311h 091 in 3100-Surviving A Covert Narcissist with Mia HanksThe most dangerous abusers aren’t always loud. Sometimes they appear kind, generous, and adored—until the door closes. In this episode, Ingrid sits down with Mia Hanks, author and survivor of covert narcissistic abuse, to unpack life with a narcissist: from the dizzying highs of love bombing to the slow drain of gaslighting, blame-shifting, and identity erasure.Mia shares practical tools for recognizing abuse, why couples therapy can backfire, and how to safely plan a low-contact exit. She also explores the messy, hopeful work of rebuilding: reclaiming your voice, making independent choices, and finding freedom after abus...
2025-12-2454 min1 in 399 – Justice Is Finding Peace: Childhood Sexual Abuse, Healing & Truth with Kath EssingWhat if justice isn’t a courtroom verdict, but the peace that comes from telling the truth?On this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid sits down with Kath Essing, author of The Courage to Speak Your Truth: Shifting the Narrative on Childhood Sexual Abuse, for a powerful conversation about healing when the legal system cannot deliver a conviction.Kath shares how suppressed memories of childhood sexual abuse resurfaced in adulthood, why survivors often shift their language from “abuse” to “rape,” and how reclaiming accurate words can be a critical step in trauma recovery. She walks us t...
2025-12-1750 min1 in 398 – Shear Haven’s Domestic Violence Training with Susanne Shepherd PostWhat if the person most likely to spot early signs of domestic violence isn’t a police officer, clinician, or counselor—but your hairstylist? In this episode of the 1in3 Podcast, Ingrid sits down with salon owner and advocate Susanne Shepherd Post to reveal how Shear Haven is transforming everyday salon appointments into potentially life-saving interactions through a free, 20-minute domestic violence training.Susanne shares how a short news clip about an Illinois law sparked a statewide movement in Tennessee. Starting with in-person trainings through the YWCA, she discovered a powerful truth: stylists often hear the earliest indi...
2025-12-1057 min1 in 396-How An A.I. Companion Helps Survivors Navigate Abuse, Document Evidence, And Prepare For Court with Anne WintemuteWhat if the smartest “person” in the room during your most stressful moments isn’t a person at all—yet it remembers your story, protects your privacy, and helps you plan your next safe move? In this episode of the 1in3 Podcast, Ingrid sits down with Anne, creator of Aimee, a survivor-first A.I. tool designed specifically for domestic abuse and coercive control. Together, they explore how focused technology can turn chaos into clarity without compromising confidentiality or safety.This raw, practical conversation breaks down why general chatbots aren’t safe or effective for domestic violence situations and how a...
2025-11-2657 min1 in 395-EMDR Explained: A Trauma Therapist’s Guide to Safe, Effective Healing with Laurel Roberts-MeeseYour brain can remember the past without reliving it—that’s the power of EMDR therapy. In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid sits down with licensed therapist Laurel to break down what EMDR is, how it works, and why it’s become one of the most effective trauma therapies for survivors of domestic violence, PTSD, and complex trauma.We explore how traumatic memories get “red-flagged” in the brain, why hypervigilance sticks around, and how EMDR helps your nervous system finally believe you’re safe. If EMDR has ever sounded confusing, intense, or too simple, this conversation...
2025-11-1944 min1 in 394-Trauma-Informed Reporting Tech: REES on Safety, Choice & Data-Driven Prevention with Mary LobsonHow Trauma-Informed Tech Is Transforming Abuse & Harassment Reporting | Mary Lobson, REES FounderWhat if reporting sexual violence, domestic abuse, harassment, or discrimination felt safe, clear, confidential, and survivor-centered?In this episode of 1 in 3, Ingrid sits down with Mary Lobson, founder of REES (Respect, Educate, Empower Survivors), to explore how trauma-informed technology is reshaping reporting systems across college campuses, sports organizations, live music events, workplaces, and community spaces.Mary shares her journey from frontline domestic violence advocacy to building a privacy-first, trauma-informed reporting platform trusted across North America. We break down what survivor-centered design...
2025-11-121h 061 in 393-From Silence to Strength: Grooming, Justice, and Prevention with Morgan ScafeSome stories don’t just deserve to be heard—they demand change. In this powerful episode of 1 in 3 Podcast, Morgan Scafe joins host Ingrid Dutton to share her harrowing story of child sexual abuse that began at age eight and continued until fifteen. She reveals how a courtroom turned her truth into a test—forcing her to relive trauma while sitting just feet from her abuser.Together, we examine how statutes of limitations erased most of her abuse from trial and why Morgan wrote Carpenter Road: The Inadmissible Years—a prequel that exposes the grooming process and violent...
2025-11-051h 061 in 391-Protecting Kids After Domestic Violence: Dr. Royster on Post-Separation AbuseIn this episode of 1 in 3, child psychologist Dr. Royster joins Ingrid to unpack how to protect children’s mental health in high-conflict co-parenting and post-separation abuse situations. A calm home, a steady voice, and the right words at the right time can change a child’s life—even when a co-parent thrives on chaos.Dr. Royster breaks down the three main co-parenting models—collaborative, nesting, and parallel parenting—and explains when each approach fits. If your ex uses control, blame, or litigation as leverage, you’ll learn why parallel parenting may be the safest path and how to apply it...
2025-10-2246 min1 in 390-Lizzbeth Aleman-Popoca, Named and RememberedA woman is “found dead.” The headline ends there, but the story doesn’t—and neither does our responsibility. Ingrid sits with Vanessa and Yaneth to honor Lizzbeth by name, define femicide without euphemism, and follow the thread from a family’s search to a community’s demand for change. What emerges is both deeply personal and relentlessly systemic: a town that looked away, a police response that lagged, and a courtroom outcome negotiated on the killer’s terms.Vanessa, founder of Vivan Las Autonomas, explains how a small group of young immigrant women stepped into the vacuum—pressur...
2025-10-1545 min1 in 389-Teresa’s Light, Devyn’s Voice with Devyn O'NeillIn this episode of 1 in 3, Devyn joins Ingrid to share her powerful domestic violence survivor story—one that began with a late-night knock, a 911 call, and the moment her stepfather returned and pulled a trigger. The small town that knew Teresa, a beloved nurse with a bright laugh and steady hands, now mourned the loss of someone who made others feel safe at their most vulnerable.Devyn opens up about how her world changed at 14 and what healing has looked like since: panic, nightmares, self-harm, medication, and the long, imperfect process of trauma recovery through therapy. Together, we...
2025-10-081h 031 in 388-When Systems Align with Captain Eric ThrelkeldIn this episode of 1 in 3, host Ingrid sits down with Captain Eric Threlkeld—law enforcement leader, former UN police trainer, and domestic violence specialist—to unpack what truly saves lives: better first responses, stronger multidisciplinary teams, and real training on non-fatal strangulation that too often goes unnoticed in the ER and on the street.The conversation connects hard data with practical tools, showing how domestic violence response intersects with mass-shooting prevention, officer safety, and survivor protection. Eric explains why traditional police academy training falls short for complex DV cases—and how those first few minutes at a scene...
2025-10-0137 min1 in 3Domestic Violence Awareness Month: Dates, Themes, and How to Show UpIn this episode of 1 in 3, host Ingrid kicks off Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM) with a clear, practical roadmap for how each of us can show up—visibly, safely, and meaningfully. When the calendar flips to October, the air changes: it’s time to bring domestic violence awareness out of the shadows and into our shared care.We unpack the message behind this year’s theme, “Everyone Knows Someone,” a reminder that abuse is closer than most realize—touching families, workplaces, schools, and faith communities. Then we lean into “With Survivors Always (con sobrevivientes siempre),” a love letter and a cal...
2025-09-2906 min1 in 387-Red Flags and Reality: Escaping Domestic Violence with Tiffiny NewtonWhat does domestic violence really look like behind closed doors? In this raw, unfiltered conversation, host Ingrid sits down with fellow survivor Tiffiny Newton for a candid exploration of abuse dynamics that goes far beyond what most people understand.Together, they unpack the subtle warning signs that precede full-blown abuse – the love bombing, future faking, and gradual escalation of control that can feel deceptively like love. "It's the green screen of relationships," Tiffiny explains, describing how abusers create an illusion before revealing their true nature. Their discussion reveals how technology has become a powerful tool for abusers, wi...
2025-09-241h 031 in 386-Unmasking Sexual Violence: Survivors, Systems, and Solutions with Tracy DeTomasiIn this episode of 1 in 3, host Ingrid speaks with Tracy DiTomasi, CEO of Callisto and a licensed clinical social worker with over 25 years of experience in gender-based violence. Together, they confront the ways society talks—or avoids talking—about sexual assault. Too often, we use euphemisms, passive language, and subtle victim-blaming that shifts focus away from perpetrators. Tracy refuses to participate in that avoidance.She breaks down the essential terminology of sexual violence, challenges persistent myths, and explains why sexual assault is about power and control—not sex. Tracy discusses why many survivors freeze during attacks instead of fig...
2025-09-1757 min
Another Situation90-Come Along and Ride On a Fantastic Voyage Back to 1995We take a nostalgic journey back to 1995, exploring everything from hit movies and music to fashion trends and major news events that defined the year. Through movie quotes, mall culture references, and historical touchpoints, Ingrid recreates the experience of being a teenager during this pivotal time in pop culture.• Revisiting iconic movie quotes • Remembering mall culture • Discussing fashion trends• Reflecting on major news events • Celebrating entertainment highlights • Comparing prices to todaySources: https://www.moviemistakes.com/best1995/quoteshttps://www.oscars.org/oscars/ceremonies/1995https://www...
2025-09-1622 minAnother Situation87-Food Trucks and Vendors (The Dionne Quintuplets' Survival Story)Have you ever heard of the Dionne quintuplets? In this riveting comeback episode, Jessica uncovers the shocking story of the world's first surviving quintuplets, born in rural Canada in 1934. What began as a medical miracle quickly transformed into one of history's most disturbing examples of child exploitation.These five identical girls—Yvonne, Annette, Cecile, Emily, and Marie—were removed from their parents and placed under government guardianship, where they became Canada's biggest tourist attraction. Behind one-way screens in a compound dubbed "Quintland," they were displayed to 3,000 visitors daily like animals in a zoo. Their images sold everything from...
2025-08-0537 minAnother SituationSisters UncensoredGet ready for the triumphant return of your favorite sister duo! Ingrid and Jessica are bringing back "Another Situation" on August 5th, and they're packing more heart, humor, and unfiltered conversation than ever before.What makes this podcast a must-listen? It's the irresistible combination of personal tales that resonate with everyday life, wild headlines that leave you speechless, and jaw-dropping historical deep dives that you won't hear anywhere else. From moments that will have you doubled over laughing to stories that might bring a tear to your eye, Ingrid and Jessica create a unique listening experience where...
2025-07-3002 min1 in 359-The Coke Grenade: When Romance Turns Toxic with Emma Jean RowinEmma Jean Rowin survived an abusive marriage that culminated in her ex-husband becoming an active shooter. Her powerful memoir "When Things Collapse" chronicles this journey, but more importantly, reveals the subtle pathway that led her there - the very pathway many dismiss with "I would never stay in an abusive relationship."Through reading passages from her book, Emma Jean transports us to her college years when the relationship began. We witness the seemingly small moments that were actually major warning signs: a boyfriend who breaks up with her repeatedly as punishment for minor disagreements, who throws a...
2025-03-1233 min1 in 349-Domestic Violence During the Holidays: Protecting Yourself and OthersThe holiday season is often a time of joy and togetherness, but for many, it also brings heightened stress and danger, especially for those affected by domestic violence. Join me, Ingrid, as I share crucial insights into why instances of domestic violence surge during this festive period. From financial strain to the emotional toll of past traumas resurfacing, I explore the various pressures that escalate tensions and the unique challenges survivors face in seeking help during holiday closures. I offer practical advice for victims on how to protect themselves and their loved ones, from escape planning to setting boundaries...
2024-12-1807 minAnother Situation85-She Dropped the Skirt (Dr. Mary Walker)After quite the hiatus, the girls are back! Better late than never, Ingrid tells all about Dr. Mary Walker—the perfect topic for International Women’s Day (just 1-1/2 months late). Sources:https://www.azquotes.com/author/23198-Mary_Edwards_Walker#google_vignettehttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1830s_in_Western_fashionhttps://schools.scsk12.org/cms/lib/TN50000520/Centricity/Domain/1793/MooreSurgeon%20Mary%20Walker.pdfhttps://www.americancivilwarforum.com/mary-edwards-walker-let-the-generations-know-that-women-in-uniform-also-guaranteed-their-freedom.-794.htmlhttps://www.battlefields.org/learn/biographies/mary-e-walkerhttps://www.britannica.com/biography/Mary-Edwards-Walkerhttps://www.ausa.org/dr-mary-e-walkerhttp...
2024-04-2323 minAnother Situation84-Phonetically French (the story behind the Michelin Man)Innovation and progress. That’s what we’re all about here at Another Situation. Or just randomness that interests us. Join the ladies today as Ingrid talks about an internationally known name and mascot. Sources:https://allpoetry.com/poems/about/Innovationhttps://business.michelinman.com/blog/articles/history-of-the-michelin-manhttps://www.logodesignlove.com/bibendum-michelin-manhttps://www.michelin.com/en/michelin-group/about-us/michelin-heritage/#https://francetoday.com/culture/did-you-know-the-michelin-mans-slightly-sinister-origin-story/https://guide.michelin.com/en/about-usSupport the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmai...
2023-12-0520 minAnother Situation79-No Cap Just Corn (astrology)Astrology--is it a science? No, but it is a lot of fun. No cap. Ingrid details astrology and gives you just enough information to confuse you. Make sure to listen to the end to hear your own horoscope prediction for 2023!!Sources:https://www.wattpad.com/316519434-%E2%99%A0zodiac-signs%E2%99%A0-~poems-for-the-signs~https://www.britannica.com/summary//summary/astrologyhttps://theconversation.com/why-is-astronomy-a-science-but-astrology-is-not-192376https://www.purewow.com/wellness/types-of-astrologyhttps://www.thecut.com/article/astrology-birth-chart-meaning-analysis.htmlhttps://www.today.com/life/astrology/sun-moon-rising-meaning-rcna23286https://www.allure.com/story/zodiac-signs-elements-fire-earth-air-water
2023-09-2642 minAnother SituationWait! We're Coming Back!!Sorry for the radio silence! Stay tuned, we will be back!! Make sure to check out the website for Ingrid's other podcast at https://www.1in3podcast.com/Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched! Start for FREESupport the showContact Another Situation: Email us at anothersituationpodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Tweet us @AnotherSitPod Check out our website https://www.anothersituationpodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Cover art by Kevin StoneMusic by Tim Crowe
2023-09-0702 minAnother Situation76-You Get Twice the Fun (month of May)What’s in a name? A month by any other name would still be spring. Today Ingrid covers what May (and her name) mean and came to be.Sources:https://www.sheknows.com/baby-names/name/may/https://www.wonderopolis.org/wonder/how-did-the-months-of-the-year-get-their-nameshttps://www.thoughtco.com/maia-greek-nymph-mother-of-hermes-111823#:~:text=The%20Greek%20nymph%20Maia%20was,goddess%20of%20spring%2C%20Maia%20Maiestas.Wkipediahttps://www.oakhousefoods.co.uk/blog/blog/2019/05/03/the-maypole-what-does-is-it-and-what-does-it-signify/#:~:text=Maypole%20dancing%20is%20a%20tradition,rather%20than%20a%20tree...https://www.grapevinestudies.com/blog/how-our-modern-calendar-was-created/https://www.greeklegendsandmyths.com/maia.html
2023-06-2026 minAnother Situation74-Yay Tomah!T-O-M-A-H. That’s right. Today Ingrid talks about their hometown and goes over the history. Sources for this episode:https://www.travelwisconsin.com/museums-history/little-red-school-house-192254http://www.wcwcw.com/feature31.htmhttps://www.tomahmuseum.com/https://en.wikipedia.org
2023-05-3023 minAnother Situation72-She Never Stopped Salivating (history of the hot dogs)Hot dogs! Get your hot dogs!! Ingrid goes over everything you ever wanted to know about this American favorite. For a little treat, we have special guests do the intro. Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
2023-05-1635 minAnother Situation70-It's Cool, I'm Fine, It's Cool (cursed movie, "Rosemary's Baby")Continuing our feast of horror….. Ingrid will be going over the curse of Rosemary’s Baby. Better sleep with the lights on!Support the showContact Another Situation: Email us at AnotherSituationPodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @AnotherSituationPodcast Check out our website https://www.AnotherSituationPodcast.com/ Thank you for listening and sharing!!Music by Tim Crowe
2023-05-0224 min