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All Outta Grace with J.DeBoyiàI Shouldn’t Have to Bleed to Prove I’m Worth LovingWhat happens when the people who have repeatedly hurt you expect you to keep proving your worth just to earn the bare minimum of their love?This week, we are naming the harm of being in relationships with people who have mismanaged our hearts and then demand receipts for our pain before offering empathy. We talk about what it feels like to be neglected at your lowest while others hide behind ego, never offering a real apology, just distance and doubt.Host J. DeBoyià unpacks the heartbreak of attracting people who only believe you are h...
2025-10-3108 minAll Outta Grace with J.DeBoyiàThe Weight We Carry: Being Black, the Only Daughter, or the FirstbornIn this raw and reflective episode of All Outta Grace, host J.DeBoyià opens up about the unspoken pressure of being the only daughter or the eldest Black daughter. She shares what it feels like to be expected to serve, solve, and show up for everyone else....even right after leaving the hospital.After a serious health scare last week, J.DeBoyià found herself being asked to step right back into service. As if her collapse never happened. As if her life-threatening condition was just a footnote.This episode explores the emotional exhaustion of being th...
2025-10-2309 minAll Outta Grace with J.DeBoyiàThe Myth of the Strong Black Woman: When Pushing Through Almost Kills YouWe need to talk about the cost of holding it all together.In this powerful and personal episode, J.DeBoyia returns with raw honesty about what it means to be a “Strong Black Woman” and what it costs to wear that title. Fresh off a health scare that landed her in the hospital after collapsing in a mall while running an errand for someone else, she unpacks the pressure, pain, and expectations that too often silence our cries for help.This isn’t just a reflection. It’s a reckoning.We explo...
2025-10-1614 minAll Outta Grace with J.DeBoyiàWhen the Ones Who Raised You Resent YouIn this raw and soul-deep episode of All Outta Grace, host J.DeBoyia opens up about one of the most painful truths many of us carry in silence: the realization that some of our deepest heartbreaks were shaped not by strangers, but by the very people who were supposed to love us most. Through a personal story of a secret engagement, a dream deferred, and a moment of betrayal that altered the course of her life, she explores what it means to be resented by your own caregivers, and what it costs to choose peace over obligation.
2025-09-0419 minAll Outta Grace with J.DeBoyiàI’m Tired of Being Strong... Softness is What I DeserveThis week on All Outta Grace, J.DeBoyià gets honest about the emotional cost of being “the strong one.” From family grief to abandonment in pivotal moments, this episode explores what it means to carry it all and what it looks like to finally lay it down.Through personal truth-telling and deep reflection, we unpack the myth of strength that so many Black women are forced to perform, even in the middle of heartbreak. What happens when your softness goes unseen? When your pain gets overlooked in favor of your power?This isn’t just a conve...
2025-08-2118 minAll Outta Grace with J.DeBoyiàGrace for the In-Between🎧 A Check-In for the Ones Still Becoming🎙️ Hosted by J.DeBoyiaHealing isn’t linear, and you don’t have to be at the finish line to be worthy of rest, love, or grace.In this week’s episode, J.DeBoyia shares a gentle but honest check-in for the ones in the messy middle: not broken, not healed, just becoming. She reflects on the pressure to always be your “best self,” the quiet grief that lives inside transformation, and why the in-between deserves tenderness too.Whether you’re exhausted from the work, slipping back into o...
2025-08-1515 minAll Outta Grace with J.DeBoyiàBoundaries Aren’t BetrayalWhen Black women set boundaries, it’s often called anger.When we say no, suddenly we’re “ungrateful,” “difficult,” or “too much.”Meanwhile, women of other races are celebrated as “bosses” and “powerful” for reclaiming their time.In this episode, J.DeBoyia unpacks the double standard that makes our boundaries feel like betrayal to others. She shares personal stories of removing access from people who mistreated her, why their discomfort isn’t her responsibility, and how choosing yourself is the ultimate act of self-respect.If you’ve ever second-guessed your no, struggled with guilt, or felt the pressure...
2025-07-3115 minAll Outta Grace with J.DeBoyiàThe Day I Took My Cape OffThere comes a moment when the performance of strengthjust... breaks.In this first official episode of All Outta Grace, J.DeBoyia shares the raw, unfiltered story of the day she laid it all down……..the expectations, the pressure, the unspoken rules of always being “the strong one.”This is not a guide. It’s a reckoning. A confession. A release.If you’ve ever sat in your car too tired to move, cried in silence while carrying everyone else's weight, or wondered who would catch you if you stopped holding it all together, this episode is for you....
2025-07-1712 minAll Outta Grace with J.DeBoyiàWhen Grace Runs Out: A Soft Landing BeginsIn this special introductory episode of All Outta Grace, host JDeBoyià opens the door to the sacred, soft space she’s creating for every Black woman who’s ever whispered, “I’m tired.”Through raw reflection and intentional truth-telling, she shares why this podcast was born, out of exhaustion, out of silence, out of the weight of always being strong. This episode lays the foundation for what All Outta Grace will hold: storytelling, honesty, healing, and permission to finally lay it all down.The full show officially launches on July 17, 2025. Until then, take this moment to exhale...
2025-06-1603 min
Tales of SheChapter 17: Where Do We Go From Here? A Love TrapezoidShe wanted the moment to disappear fast. With both Brandon and Cameron standing in her home, she wasstuck between escape and confrontation. Should she leave them behind entirely,or keep chasing the love she’s never quite found? No. That was her younger self speaking, the version who used to ghost her problems instead of facing them. This time, she knew better. First things first: get these men out of her house.
2025-05-1904 minTales of SheChapter 16: Foreva OUR lady
It felt like a dream. How had she allowed herself to
get caught between Brandon and Cameron? While she and Brandon were falling apart, there was no doubt in Cameron’s mind that she was the one. Funny how one night of ecstasy could spiral into a world of regret. Was she destined to be forever their lady, or would she finally choose herself for once? Her love life was worse than rush hour traffic on 75/85—chaotic, stalled, and seemingly impossible to navigate. This couldn’t be her reality. It had to be a dream.
2025-02-1008 minTales of SheChapter 15 Feenin’: Cameron is hooked AGAIN!Making love was not something they were supposed to do. She knew that Cameron would want more, as if he was addicted to her. This man would be feening, feening, feening on her doorstep for months to come if she didn’t dismiss him now.
2024-03-2607 minTales of SheChapter 14: As We Lay Part 2: Its morning, now Cameron has to go!It’s morning, and now she must live with the decision she made last night. She knew that Cameron was in love with her, and it was killing her. But she only needed the relief he provided in the moment.
2024-01-0304 minTales of SheChapter 13: As We Lay…. But She and Cam really shouldn’tHere comes trouble. So much for being alone for the evening. Maybe she should have counted up the cost of letting Cameron in her home. But instead, She got lost in the second, in the minute, in the hour.
2024-01-0308 minTales of SheChapter 12 : Somebody Else: Here comes trouble, I mean CameronWould she find somebody? Because Brandon had made promises he could not keep. He’d left her feeling like she was incomplete and incapable of being loved. She just wanted someone who was truly there for her. In this moment, she felt like she never really had the key to Brandon’s heart. So, was it time to go back to square one to find someone new? Or maybe someone from her past.
2023-07-0205 minTales of SheChapter 11 :She Not Goin Cry, But Brandon is All the
All the
time that she’s spend loving him and Brandon was busy sleeping with someone
else. He was truly busy being selfish and only thinking of himself. He’d made a
fool of the only woman he’d ever loved. And Brandon knew that she deserved
better. He truly hoped that his actions did not make her cry, because his BS
wasn’t worth her tears. She has been his lover, his confidant and even his
secretary when he needed her to be.
All time that she’s spend loving him and Bran...
2023-06-1806 minTales of SheChapter 10: Who Can She Run To? Because Brandon Aint it!She stood there contemplating. What was the right thing to decide? Was leaving Brandon the wrong direction for her life? Where could she go from here? What lies ahead for her? Who can she run to heal the empty space in her heart? Who could she run to that would give her the love she needed? Who could she run to that would fill her heart with laughter again? Who would now be the special one in her life?
2023-02-1616 min
Tales of SheChapter Nine: Anytime........ or is Brandon out of time?There Brandon was reminiscing on how he and his fiancé met while Tiffany stood in his office. Brandon couldn’t remember how he’d let things fall apart with the love of his life. He knew their love was so meant to be. He knew in his heart that he could promise his fiancé a forever. Now, he was left wondering how they would even move on from here. Brandon’s fiancé was the only person that crossed his mind anytime he thought of the future. He woke up every day and attempted to reach his goals because he wanted to...
2022-06-1514 minTales of SheChapter Eight: Hit Up Style (Oops)....... Tiffany is "Pregnant"Oops, and just like that there goes all the Dreams that Brandon had for his life with his fiancé. Oops , just like that all the promises Brandon made his fiancé were invalid. Oops, just like that the entire church that Brandon was supposed to lead knew he was a cheater. Oops, just like that Brandon knew that the house he lived in with his fiancé would never be home again. Oops, just like that Brandon knew he was stuck with Tiffany for life. Oops, just like that all the lies that Brandon had told his fiancé revealed all the karma...
2022-06-0109 minTales of SheChapter Seven: In love With Another ManIt was the only thing that she and Tiffany had in common. They were both in love with men that they should not have even given the time of day. If she could, could forget Kingston. She would, and she desperately wanted to believe it. But could she really just throw the towel in on her relationship with Brandon without even giving it a chance to blossom? It wasn’t that easy! Brandon treated her so much better than Kingston ever had. And if she was sane, she would see that there was no competition. But she was in lo...
2021-10-1313 minTales of SheChapter Six: Luv in this Club.........Kingston is tryin to make luv in this club!She’d been searching for somebody that'll take her out and do her right.
Well, here comes Winston (Kingston ) to remind her what it feels like
He knew what she liked to sip' on. And when she was with Winston (Kingston) he kept her comin’ all night long
2021-09-2212 minTales of SheChapter Five: Tiffany is a Sideline..............HoeHere we learn that Brandon’s mistress Tiffany is okay with makin' a fool of herself. While Brandon did spend the night, he has told Tiffany that his home is somewhere else. But it doesn’t appear that Tiffany is tired of bein' on the sideline, because she has her own little secret she is keeping from Brandon.
2021-08-1309 minTales of SheChapter Four: Hotline Notification Ding or whatever Drake SaidI know when that hotline bling, that can only mean one thing: Will she confront Brandon about what she overheard last night? Or will she use it as an excuse to wear less while she has glasses of champagne on the dance floor during Moms Night out with Jackie?
2021-04-0808 minTales of SheChapter Three: Wicked Games (We Play)So tell her you love her, only for tonight, only for tonight, even though you don’t love her: Today we meet Brandon, her loving fiancé or so she thought.
2021-04-0712 minTales of SheChapter Two: She thinks She is in Love with Another ManIf she could, could forget him. She would, please believe her: Here we meet “Kingston” the last man she said I love you to and meant it. But their timing was always off.
2021-04-0711 minTales of SheChapter One: She Needs HealingHealing for her Soul; Give her a Healing for her Soul: Here we meet the title character “She” in her first therapy session
2021-04-0608 minTales of SheChapter Fifteen"Feenin"
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2020-12-1710 minTales of SheChapter Fourteen"As We Lay" Part 2 The Conclusion
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2020-12-0305 minTales of SheChapter Thirteen"As We Lay" Part 1
This week’s episode of Tales of She Podcast is entitled “As We Lay ” after the song sang by both Shirley Murdock and Kelly Price. Our protagonist has welcomed a surprise visitor (Cameron) into her home. Cameron enters her home under the guise of being a supportive friend, but soon we learn that he is there to do more than just listen to her feelings. Emotions run high as drinks flow freely, and a protagonist soon receives something she didn't even know she needed.
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2020-09-1607 minTales of SheChapter Twelve"Somebody Else"
This week’s episode of Tales of She Podcast is entitled “Somebody Else” after the song by Anhayla. Our protagonist is home alone for the first time in forever, and this allows her to be one with her thoughts. Or so she thought. Before she can truly self-reflect on the weekend’s events, she receives a surprise visit from yet another blast from her past. Will this “Somebody Else” bring her joy or pain? Only time will tell.
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2020-06-1706 minTales of SheChapter Eleven"Not Goin Cry"
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2020-06-0306 minTales of SheChapter Ten"Who Can I Run To? "
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2020-04-0815 minTales of SheChapter Nine"Do I Ever Cross Your Mind Anytime"
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2020-02-1713 min2020-01-0105 min2019-11-2710 minTales of SheChapter Six"Luv in the Club"
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2019-11-1109 minTales of SheChapter Five"She Just Wanna Party"
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2019-11-0407 minTales of SheChapter Four"Hotline Notification Ding" or whatever Drake said.
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2019-10-1608 minTales of SheChapter Three"Brandon"
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2019-08-2609 minTales of SheChapter Two"Kingston"
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2019-08-1910 minTales of SheChapter OneHere we meet "She" in her first therapy session.
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2019-08-1209 min
Hello Social MediaSolo Riot: The Black and Yellow Phone CarrierThis week, J.DeBoyià has the nerve to be ranting about Sprint while smacking her lips around her braces. SMH. She had a horrible customer service experience and she just wants Sprint to do better!
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2019-06-2617 minHello Social MediaChild Support: It is more than money.
Yes! We are late! Good thing we aren’t a menstrual cycle! *whew*. This week J. DeBoyia speaks with Sam of The Iron Sharpens Iron podcast on The Ice Podcast Network. The pair talk about their views on Child Support.
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2019-06-1359 min
Hello Social MediaWife Life: Behind the #RelationshipGoals@JDeBoyia is over your #RelationshipGoals. No, she is not hating; she just wants you to keep it real! Let’s be honest, all relationships are not goals simply because people often only show/tell you the good in their lives. There is more to being a wife or a husband than the rings, the cars, and the houses. Many relationships have challenges that you do not often see on social media. In this episode of The Roundtable Riot J.DeBoyia discusses what is behind the “iron curtain” of marriage with @mstierz of “The Crown Chronicles” Podcast and Shanta of the “Talk Allowed...
2018-11-2936 min