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The History of Ukrainian Jews
As Ukraine continues to be under siege and over 2 million people are now fleeing, including the 5th largest Jewish population of Jewish people in the world, Rabbi Spiro takes us through the very long, and very complex, history of the Jews in Ukraine. Want more history? Go back and listen to this series from the beginning, as Winston Churchill once said “The farther back you can look, the farther forward you are likely to see.” so we are going all the way back, so we can understand what is happening now and plan for the future. Che...
2022-03-16
59 min
Pop Parenting
Charlie and The Chocolate Factory: Are Parents Really the Culprit?
S2 Ep15: In this episode Avrum and Ellie talk about the movie Charlie and The Chocolate Factory with Johnny Depp. This movie is a feast for themes on parenting, but we focus on fault. Is it totally the parents fault when kids behave badly? How much are parents really to blame for how their kids turn out? PLEASE NOTE! We are about to change the focus of this podcast! Don't worry, a big announcement next episode plus a lookback at our favourites, and we can't wait to lauch the new season with you all in the next...
2021-10-01
1h 05
Pop Parenting
Little Miss Sunshine: Families Living in a Fantasy World and How Reality Bites
In this episode Avrum and Ellie talk about the movie Little Miss Sunshine and the idea of what happens when fantasy is the only coping mechanism in a family, and how if even one person decides to get real and grow up, that can help change an entire system, be it a family, community or nation. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Click...
2021-08-12
54 min
Pop Parenting
Igby Goes Down: The Consequences of Family Secrets
S2 Ep13: This episode Avrum and Ellie watched Igby Goes Down, a dark, tragic movie that explores the tangled web of family secrets, and how they can both protect and destroy a family from the inside. Aside from Ellie’s deep dislike of the characters, we are looking at themes around marital infidelity, being on the inside of a secret and how to recover and free yourself from secrets are part of this discussion. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's pr...
2021-08-12
50 min
Pop Parenting
The Family Stone: Theory of Displacement and Families We Hate
This week Avrum and Ellie are digging into The Family Stone. An annoying film with a ton of great themes about family dynamics, they are kibbitzing about displacement, being in reality, family secrets, and allowing for small moments of grief and change. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Click here to learn more about Ellie's coaching We want to hear from...
2021-07-30
59 min
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"Deadly Exchange" Is Israel Responsible for Racism in America's Policing?
S1 Ep 22: In this episode Rabbi Spiro and Ellie are discussing a push by antisemitic groups to have local governments in the US make resolutions stating that their police force is racist and violent because they trained with the IDF. This has passed in Durham NC, Seattle and it's on the way to several other US cities. We are looking into what is the history and halacha of Jewish rules of engagement in war, what is a moral army and what is the history of how Jewish soldiers are allowed to act, train and carry out missions. ...
2021-07-29
48 min
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Ben and Jerry's, BDS and Israel
S1 Ep 21: In this episode Rabbi Spiro and Ellie are discussing the recent "boycott" by Ben and Jerry's in Israel, and how we as Jews are called on to respond when people attack us. Want more history? Go back and listen to this series from the beginning, as Winston Churchill once said “The farther back you can look, the farther forward you are likely to see.” so we are going all the way back, so we can understand what is happening now and plan for the future. Check out more about Rabbi Ken Spiro and his w...
2021-07-28
57 min
Pop Parenting
Something's Gotta Give: The Crucible of Commitment and Chest Pains
S2 Ep11: This week Avrum and Ellie are exploring the movie Something’s Gotta Give with Jack Nicholson and Diane Keaton. This film brings up issues around chronically anxious families and the deep roots of non-connection, and the crucible of commitment. We delve into actors playing roles that reflect their lives, and how physical pain can express emotional injury. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute...
2021-07-26
58 min
Pop Parenting
Up In the Air: George Clooney, Backpacks and Marital Affairs
S2 Ep10: This 2009 movie starring George Clooney and Anna Kendrick is a meditation and exploration of who we are and what we do. In this episode Avrum and Ellie explore the idea of "functional self" vs "core self" and whether our life covenants and laws have been updated to fit with our current circumstances, and how that affects our parenting and families. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman J...
2021-07-15
47 min
Pop Parenting
Lost In Translation: How are Bob's kids and Is Charlotte Part of the Problem?
S2 Ep9: Sofia Coppola's movie Lost In Translation is filled with the coolest soundtrack, a stellar cast (Bill Murray is incredible as always) and the moody questioning of life that moves us all into a new frame of mind. This movie propels Avrum and Ellie to ask about whether kids really are affected by the absence of a parent, whether teens are really suffering during this pandemic to the degree we think they are, and is Charlotte (played by Scarlett Johansson) really the catalyst of her own loneliness? Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where W...
2021-07-15
1h 00
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The Word Antisemitism: Trying to make Judaophobia Scientific
S1 Ep 20: In this episode Rabbi Spiro and Ellie are dissecting the birth of the word “antisemitism” and how only 75 years ago, the racial and scientific dialogue of the age, and well-devised language and marketing, crafted a new and dangerous justification for hatred that ultimately ended up purposefully wiping out ⅔ of the European Jewish world, and ⅓ of all Jews worldwide in full view of civilized humanity. Want more history? Go back and listen to this series from the beginning, as Winston Churchill once said “The farther back you can look, the farther forward you are likely to see.” so w...
2021-07-05
52 min
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Judaophobia - Medieval and Ancient Jew Hatred
S1 Ep19: In this episode Rabbi Spiro and Ellie drill down into the ancient history of Jew-Hatred, its forms, purpose and ultimately how it morphs through the ages but remains the same. Want more history? Go back and listen to this series from the beginning, as Winston Churchill once said “The farther back you can look, the farther forward you are likely to see.” so we are going all the way back, so we can understand what is happening now and plan for the future. Check out more about Rabbi Ken Spiro and his work at ww...
2021-07-05
58 min
Pop Parenting
Almost Famous: Pseudo Self Vs Solid Self and The Transformative Power of Music
S2 Ep8: Almost Famous is now 20 years old and being celebrated again as one of director Cameron Crowes best films of all time. Sweet, deep, real and lovely, this film is a favourite of music lovers and rock gods. Avrum and Ellie dive into discussions around who we really think we are versus who we are, the importance of right distance as parents to get good feedback and how music can really give us a new experience of life and ourselves. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" ...
2021-06-25
1h 10
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Mizrachi Jews - No, Not Sephardi! Mizrachi!
We are returning to our journey to understand the history of our people, this week we are learning more about what is a Mizrachi Jew, where did they come from, how are we all related (more than we all think!) and how do we understand the Jewish people as a whole when we all look so different? Want to learn more about Rabbi Spiro's work and read more resources on these topics: www.kenspiro.com Check out his incredible book "Crash Course in Jewish History" at all online bookstores. Want to learn more a...
2021-06-17
1h 06
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Historical Revisionism Online, In Israel and In The Diaspora
S1 Ep 18: This week Rabbi Spiro and Ellie are dissecting the various historical revisionist narratives that are out there surrounding Israel and the Jewish people. Check out more about Rabbi Ken Spiro and his work at www.KenSpiro.com Learn more about The Jewish Family Insitute at www.MyJFI.com
2021-06-17
56 min
Pop Parenting
Winter's Bone: Blood, Kin and the Strength of Burden
Winter's Bone is a sparse haunting film starring Jennifer Lawrence and Avrum and Ellie take a journey through this moving film and discuss dealing with the harsh realities of life, the essential power of family and when is "toxic" really toxic? Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Click here to learn more about Ellie's coaching We want to hear from you! C...
2021-06-14
54 min
Pop Parenting
The Namesake: Cultural Difference and Emotional Growth
S2 Ep6: The 2006 Mira Nair film The Namesake is a beautiful film about love, marriage, families and creating your life. Avrum and Ellie use this film to delve into parents hopes for their kids, raising teens and the implications of deep cultural ties to a modern life. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want to hear from you! Click here t...
2021-06-04
58 min
Pop Parenting
Napoleon Dynamite: Friendship, True Selves and Mirrors
Ellie was forced to watch Napoleon Dynamite this week, but ended up really digging what there is to learn from it about friendship, differentiation of self and how longing for the past can make a mess of your present. Avrum feels vindicated. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice...
2021-06-04
42 min
Pop Parenting
Mean Girls: Internality and Externality, Mother Daughter Fusion and Burn Books
S2 Ep 5: This week Avrum and Ellie are exploring the movie Mean Girls. The 2004 cult classic is a hilarious look at teens, queen bees and how to topple the popularity system. This movie gets us talking about what we focus on and value in our families, and how that impacts the next generation, and how mothers and teen daughters can be a complicated system unto themselves. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more...
2021-05-20
55 min
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Hamas, Israel and the Chessboard of Conflict in the Middle East
Responding to the conflict that has become world news in Israel over the last few days, Rabbi Spiro is giving us an appreciation of the complexity of what is happening based on thousands of years of history and ideaology. Caveat: This is a difficult and emotional topic, and we did the best we could to speak about it in a nuanced way. For more on Rabbi Spiro: www.kenspiro.com For more on the JFI: www.myjfi.com
2021-05-12
57 min
Pop Parenting
The Royal Tenenbaums: Emotional Shockwaves in Families and How We Cope
The Royal Tenenbaums is one of our favourites so far, so many juicy family dynamics, but we are focusing on the emotional shockwave when Chaz, played by Ben Stiller, loses his wife to a tragic accident, and how he copes or doesn't, and how we are all looking for ways to manage sudden change and Avrum and Ellie point to some powerful ideas to help us go forward. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to l...
2021-05-07
52 min
Pop Parenting
High Fidelity: No Relationship Will Fix You
This week Avrum and Ellie are exploring the movie High Fidelity. A musical masterpiece and superfun trip through relationship dissection and the realization that getting the love you want won't come from other people. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Click here to learn more about Ellie's coaching We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice m...
2021-05-07
47 min
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Yom Yerushalyim
Why is Jerusalem still the capital of Israel? Rabbi Ken Spiro takes us on a whirlwind tour of the history of Jerusalem. Check out more about Rabbi Ken Spiro and his work at www.KenSpiro.com Learn more about The Jewish Family Insitute at www.MyJFI.com
2021-05-06
58 min
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Lag B'Omer and The Bar Kochba Revolt
This week we Rabbi Ken Spiro is talking about Lag B'Omer and the Bar Kochba Revolution as it relates to this holiday. Check out more about Rabbi Ken Spiro and his work at www.KenSpiro.com Learn more about The Jewish Family Insitute at www.MyJFI.com
2021-05-04
59 min
Pop Parenting
Gladiator: The Roots of Being Unloved
S2 Ep2: This week Avrum and Ellie are diving into the Oscar winning movie Gladiator. Rife with family dysfunction, the tragedy of Commodus the Emperor and Maximus the Gladiator leads us down a path to be able to discuss fathers and son, how birth order, and family history can conspire to put so much pressure on a child that they break, and how we could do 3 more episodes on this movie alone...but we won't. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about T...
2021-04-29
58 min
Pop Parenting
Traffic: Addiction and Families
S2 Ep1: We are looking at the movie Traffic as a door into the world of drugs, addiction and symptoms of family illness. For more information on Avrum Nadigel, MSW and his books and resources, or to join his newsletter go here: www.nadigel.com For more infomation on Ellie Bass go here: www.elliebass.com For more information on The Jewish Family Institute go here: www.myjfi.com If you have a movie suggestion, argument or feedback please email us at ellie@myjfi.com or leave us a voicenote on A...
2021-04-23
1h 00
Pop Parenting
SEASON 2 ANNOUNCEMENT!
This is the beginning of Season 2... stay tuned for more full episodes now with movies from the 2000s.
2021-04-23
01 min
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Anti-Zionism in Israel and in the Jewish Community
S1 Ep 14: In this episode Rabbi Spiro and Ellie discuss why there are experiences of anti-Zionism within Israel itself and in the Jewish community, what the history of that is and why it's important to understand today as we fight for our survival.
2021-04-21
57 min
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Yom Hazikaron and Yom Haatzmaut - The History of the IDF
This week we are celebrating Yom Hazikaron and Yom Haatzmaut by asking and discussing the history of the IDF, learning how it came to be and what the Israeli culture is like as a society growing up with a necessary army draft. Please subscribe if you want to hear more and check out more about Rabbi Ken Spiro's work at www.kenspiro.com
2021-04-14
59 min
Pop Parenting
Contact: Little Green Men and Societal Regression
Contact is a movie that asks big questions. This week Avrum and Ellie are using it to explore how anxious societies deal with uncertainty, and how that plays out in families, and how our experience with our own parents influences our present relationships. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a v...
2021-04-11
55 min
Pop Parenting
The Outsiders: Family Loss, Surrogate Care and the Need for Support
Ep 29: The Outsiders was a Coppola film based on the book by S.E. Hinton and stacked with a breakout cast. The story of PonyBoy, Soda Pop and Darry is a class warfare drama that looks into sensitive characters and their losses. In this film Avrum and Ellie explore trauma and parenting, what happens when there are surrogate caregivers, and how families can easily buckle under pressure when they don’t have enough support or care. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more ab...
2021-04-11
1h 02
Pop Parenting
Edward Scissorhands: High Expectations, Deflecting Responsibility and Making Mistakes
Tim Burton’s Edward Scissorhands is a surreal adventure and love story that Avrum and Ellie use as a springboard for conversations this week about what to do when parents make mistakes, high expectations and saviour complexes and how we tend to look for ways to deflect responsibility in relationships when we don’t know what to do. Please subscribe if you like our podcast!!! Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join...
2021-03-31
58 min
Pop Parenting
Heathers: Seen, Heard, Understood
S1 Ep 27: Heathers… Do we really need to say more? Dark, sassy and a brutal look at class and caste warfare in high school. In this episode we are digging into how kids need to be seen, heard and understood, but we can’t do that as parents if we are freaking out, and asking the question what does it mean to be in control of ourselves and the difference between being able and not being able to be in choice. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Clic...
2021-03-21
1h 03
Pop Parenting
Crossing Delancey: Choosing the "Right" Partner
This week we watched the Jewish classic Crossing Delancey… Izzy and the Pickle Man and her lovely Bubbie in NYC of the early 80s… a charming love story that poses questions about old world vs new, how to choose the “right” partner and whether to listen to wisdom or push for progress.. Also, this week we had some tech issues, so we leave you on a cliffhanger, but we want to know your answer to our question! Send us what you think at ellie@myjfi.com Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To S...
2021-03-08
57 min
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Sephardic Jews
Rabbi Spiro takes us on a journey about the history of Sephardic Jewry, Mizrahi Jews and how the Golden Age of Spain created vibrant and lasting Jewish communities around the world.
2021-03-08
58 min
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The History of Russian Jewry
This week we Rabbi Ken Spiro is taking us on an adventure to Russia, as one of his specialties in history and research he is giving us the on one foot version of Russian Jewry and it’s impact on the world. Check out more about Rabbi Ken Spiro and his work at www.KenSpiro.com Learn more about The Jewish Family Insitute at www.MyJFI.com
2021-02-26
1h 00
Pop Parenting
Beetlejuice! Beetlejuice! Beetlejuice!
This week on Pop Parenting : This week Avrum and Ellie watched the classic Beetlejuice, this movie with a stellar cast was one of Tim Burton’s first breakout hits and is lovely, weird and lovable. Avrum goes super-clinical on us with quotes from Bowen and we dig into how when a kid is symptomatic, the illness is in the family...Here we go... Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us li...
2021-02-25
56 min
Pop Parenting
As Good As It Gets: What Are Relationships For?
As Good As it Gets with Jack Nicolson is a wild ride of anxiety, empathy and OCD. This week Avrum and Ellie use this film to explore relationships being a “people growing machine” and how we try to fix everyone else when we don’t want to fix ourselves. Here we go... Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want to hear f...
2021-02-23
56 min
Pop Parenting
St Elmo's Fire: Failure to Launch and Where Are They Now?
S1 Ep23 - This week we are watching St Elmos Fire and wondering where all of those iconic characters end up. Its a movie that’s hard to watch through the lens of today, but it brings up some fascinating questions about launching our kids into adult life. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want to hear from you! Click he...
2021-02-22
56 min
Pop Parenting
Wall Street: Is Gordon Gekko Emotionally Mature?
This week on Pop Parenting : Wall Street with Charlie Sheen and Michael Douglas was an 80s staple and a raw look at the new money culture of that time. In this episode Avrum and Ellie are exploring themes how kids not feeling seen or heard at home will seek out surrogate parents, we are debating whether the character of “Gordon Gekko” is emotionally mature or not, and discussing when it’s a parents responsibility to launch their kids into the world beyond them. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" C...
2021-02-07
57 min
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The History of Ashkenazim
Rabbi Ken Spiro and Ellie Bass discuss the history of the Ashkenazi lineage of the Jewish people. Who are they and where did they come from? Want more history? Go back and listen to this series from the beginning, as Winston Churchill once said “The farther back you can look, the farther forward you are likely to see.” so we are going all the way back, so we can understand what is happening now and plan for the future. Check out more about Rabbi Ken Spiro and his work at www.KenSpiro.com Learn more about Ellie...
2021-02-05
55 min
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S1 Ep 9: Personal Responsibility and Jewish Kings
What does Jewish history teach us about our personal role in creating a just society? How do the kings of Jewish history model good and bad leadership?
2021-01-31
57 min
Pop Parenting
Mental Health and My Cousin Vinny
S1 Ep 21: Avrum and Ellie open with a discussion about Bell Let’s Talk day, mental heath and wellness and how to understand this from a more holistic viewpoint. We also get into My Cousin Vinny with Joe Pesci and Marisa Tomei, and delve into a fused family dynamic where no one knows who they are, and ask the question should the person who cares the most really be the one to solve a problem? Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Th...
2021-01-31
1h 01
Pop Parenting
Mermaids: Parenting After Divorce, Freewheeling and Good Soundtracks
S1 Ep 20: Mermaids with Cher and Winona Ryder was a huge hit when it came out. This week Avrum and Ellie are taking a look at this film and discussing free wheeling parents and the fallout for kids, the roles of men and women today, and what the role of a parent after divorce is when their ex is talked about in the home. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join...
2021-01-24
43 min
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S1 Ep 8: On Leadership: Inauguration, King Solomon and What is a Jewish Leader?
We are talking about what it means to be a leader through a Jewish lens and looking back at Jewish history to see who is the role model of a great leader and who isn't. Find out more about Rabbi Ken Spiro and for more resources, videos and articles or to buy his book "Crash Course in Jewish History" go to www.kenspiro.com To check out Ellie and the work she does go to www.MyJFI.com
2021-01-24
55 min
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Adaptability vs Remaining Awake
Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi! Click here to check out Ilana's new book "Choosing Up"
2021-01-17
45 min
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S1 Ep 7: Antisemitism and AntiZionism Part 2
Today we discuss the topics of indigeneity, the new blood libel that Israel is withholding vaccines, and that in order for us to be able to address the virus of antisemitism we have to diagnose it correctly when it appears.
2021-01-17
1h 02
Pop Parenting
The Karate Kid: Meditation, Wise Elders and Power in the Family
This week on Pop Parenting : The Karate Kid is seeing another heyday with the release of Cobra Kai on Netflix. This week Avrum and Ellie discuss this 80s classic and touch on themes of meditation, wise elders, being present and giving space and where should the locus of power be in a family… also, check out Avrum’s new email newsletter for extra ideas and insights on each of the films we have looked at. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about The...
2021-01-17
1h 00
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
The Burning Bush and Choice Points
This week the Choosing Up discussion centers around our moments of choice, what does the story of Moshe and the burning bush teach us about awareness and showing up. Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi! Click here to check out Ilana's new book "Choosing U...
2021-01-09
34 min
Pop Parenting
16 Candles: Grandparents, No Boundaries and Anthony Michael Hall
This week on Pop Parenting : Back to John Hughes. 16 Candles was the first John Hughes break out hit. Avrum and Ellie are looking at emotional immaturity in grandparents and parents, how cluster events and nodal events bring out the worst, and sometime the best in people, and we agree that Anthony Michael Hall is totally amazing in this film. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? C...
2021-01-08
1h 01
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S1 Ep 6 Anti-Semitism and Anti-Zionism Part 1 - The History and Social Media
In this episode Rabbi Ken Spiro and Ellie Bass are discussing the landscape of anti-semitic and anti-zionist rhetoric on social media today, and how Jewish history is essential to understanding the multi-layered aspects of this ancient hatred and modern version of it. Check out more about Ken's work at www.kenspiro.com Learn more about what Ellie does at www.MyJFI.com Send us questions and topic suggestions to Ellie@MyJFI.com
2021-01-06
56 min
Pop Parenting
Field of Dreams: Old Regrets, Flexible Marriage and Step by Step Progress
This week on Pop Parenting Avrum and Ellie watched and are now discussing the Kevin Costner movie Field of Dreams. We are using it to explore ideas around making amends after someone has passed away, parenting in 2021, the beauty of a flexible supportive marriage and how to make progress in a dysfunctional family system. Next week: 16 Candles Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here!
2021-01-04
58 min
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S1 Ep 5: Leadership, Polarization and CoVid - 2020 Lookback
This week Rabbi Ken Spiro and Ellie Bass glance over 2020 and use Jewish history to understand the themes of this year, political polarization, CoVid, global connections and lack of leadership. Learn more about Rabbi Spiro at www.kenspiro.com Learn more about the JFI www.MyJFI.com Let us know your questions, topic ideas and feedback at Ellie@MyJFI.com
2020-12-31
57 min
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Abraham Accords: The History of Arabs and Jews
In this episode Rabbi Spiro and Ellie discuss the recent Abraham Accords and look back to the history of Yishmael and Yitzchak and move forward from there to try to understand what is happening now and what we can do to bring peace.
2020-12-28
59 min
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Joseph and a Life of Ups and Downs
This week Ilana and Ellie speak about the relief of not being God, Joseph and a life of ups and downs. Click here to check out Ilana's new book "Choosing Up" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi!
2020-12-21
51 min
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Chanukah: Hope Detective, Kedusha Embassies and Spice Language
This week Ilana and Ellie speak about Chanukah, the importance of home, creating a “Kedusah embassy” having a spice language and becoming a hope detective. Click here to check out Ilana's new book "Choosing Up" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi!
2020-12-21
54 min
Pop Parenting
S1 Ep 17: Rainman - Emotional Cutoff, Vulnerability and Tom Cruise
This week on Pop Parenting we are looking at the 1988 hit movie Rainman. This movie leads us to tracking the growth of the main character Charlie Babbitt, played by Tom Cruise, and how in order to actually grow up and get a life, Charlie has to drop his guard, get vulnerable and understand what it means to be part of a family. We look at emotional cutoff, the quieter twin to physical cut off, and we decide on a movie for the next episode so you can all watch it before we record! Check out Field of Dreams next...
2020-12-20
59 min
Pop Parenting
Parenthood: Siblings, Stress and Unfinished Business
This week on Pop Parenting Ellie and Avrum are looking at the movie Parenthood with Steve Martin. We are seeing 3 generations of anxiety and coping systems in this movie, and we are speaking about siblings, stress, fathers and sons and how our unfinished business starts family fires. We also delve into the prevalence of anxious therapists, and Avrum’s deep love of Oreos. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us li...
2020-12-20
1h 09
Remember What's Next
S1 Ep 3: Chanukah Then and Now
This week on Rabbi Ken Spiro and Ellie Bass discuss the upcoming Jewish holiday of Chanukah starting with a history of the holiday. They discuss whether we are really commemorating the right things, what it means to be a Hellenist and what is the real superpower of the Jewish people. To learn more about Rabbi Spiro's work go to www.KenSpiro.com To learn more about Ellie Bass and The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute go to https://www.myjfi.com/ To leave us a voice message with topic ideas, questions and feedback go...
2020-12-10
57 min
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Tilting and Our Power to Make Things Happen
This week Ilana’s speaks about how in this week's Parsha we learn from Jacob the power we have to change the world, and how tilting like a Chanukah flame is the way to move with change. Click here to check out Ilana's new book "Choosing Up" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giv...
2020-12-06
46 min
Pop Parenting
S1 Ep 15 Boyz N The Hood: Fathers and Mothers, Masculine Energy and Guest Host!
Hi This is Ellie, this week on Pop Parenting we welcomed our first guest host Immanuel Marsh, co-host of the podcast So, Tell Me About Your Mother, therapist, teacher, counsellor and minister in Alabama. Avrum, Immanuel and Ellie are together talking about the 1991 John Singleton movie Boyz N The Hood and discussing masculine energy, the roles of fathers and mothers, the Torah as it pertains to cycles of violence and how each family carries its own unique brand of stress. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click...
2020-12-06
1h 14
Remember What's Next
S1 Ep 2 Part 2 Intro: What is History
Part 2 of our Introduction rounds out the plot of the narrative of our Jewish history and gives us a timeline to orient us now. We discuss how we can see ourselves as a part of history if we believe in a God that determines the goals and future. We also get an update on Rabbi Spiro's latest dig!
2020-12-02
54 min
Pop Parenting
S1 Ep16 Dead Poets Society: Losing Ourselves In Our Children
This week Avrum and Ellie are talking about the movie Dead Poets Society. They are asking about what happens when parents can no longer tell themselves apart from their children. And, noticing that this movie hits, different, after the passing of Robin Williams.
2020-11-27
1h 10
Remember What's Next
S1 Ep1 Intro Part 1: What is "History"
In this first episode we meet Rabbi Ken Spiro and Ellie Bass, and ask the beginning question of "What is History"? What sources do we use and how do we ascertain fact from fiction? We also delve into the idea that we are a part of an ongoing story, and how looking back helps us to clarify where we are going. Look for Part 2 of this intro next week were we will then ask What is "Our Story". If you would like to know more about Ellie Bass and the JFI and our other podcasts and programs p...
2020-11-26
57 min
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Fatigue and Finding our Energy
This week Ilana Kendal discusses CoVid Fatigue, what we can learn from Eisav and how to find our energy and resilience.
2020-11-24
52 min
Pop Parenting
S1 Ep15 Footloose: Death, Divorce and Dancing
This week Avrum and Ellie are re-watching the film Footloose and discussing death, dancing and divorce. They're asking what happens when parents try to control their children's every move and is that actually focusing on the wrong issues?
2020-11-24
1h 07
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Losing Rabbi Sacks z''l and Stories
Todays episode deals with the loss of Rabbi Jonathan Sacks z''l and Ilana reads a listener story about resilience. Click here to check out Ilana's new book "Choosing Up" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi!
2020-11-13
53 min
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Choice VS Default
This week Ilana’s speaks about how we see our own stories. She reads a story from a listener and we explore modelling being in choice. Click here to check out Ilana's new book "Choosing Up" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi!
2020-11-13
49 min
Pop Parenting
The Lost Boys: Vampires, Chosen Families and Feeling Lost
This week on Pop Parenting we checked out the cult favourite “The Lost Boys”. A beloved, kitschy and weird ode to the 80s vampire obsession. Avrum and Ellie are exploring the themes of “chosen families”, dealing with loss, and feeling lost, and wondering why during this era vampires were such a thing. Here we go. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want...
2020-11-13
51 min
Pop Parenting
The Breakfast Club: Bender (The Rebel)
This week on Pop Parenting The 5 Books of the Breakfast Club ends with the last character we see raising his arm in triumph… “Bender” played by Judd Hersh is the rebel without a pause, he’s rude, loud, complicated and clearly hurting. In this episode Avrum and Ellie are talking about generational anger and domestic violence, how to break a pattern, and was Bender’s blond joke ever finished? Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want...
2020-11-13
1h 11
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Choice, Stress and Trauma
October 30 2020: Ilana looks at Lech Lecha and how we can learn about managing our trauma from Avraham. Click here to check out Ilana's new book "Choosing Up" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi!
2020-11-03
54 min
Justin-Finkelstein
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2020-11-01
01 min
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Noach and Gratitude
This week Ilana speaks about preparing for long term challenge and how to have gratitude. Click here to check out Ilana's new book "Choosing Up" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi!
2020-10-29
53 min
Pop Parenting
The Breakfast Club: Brian (The Nerd)
This week on Pop Parenting we are on the 4th of the 5 teen characters in the breakfast club. "Brian" played by Anthony Michael Hall is the quintessential “nerd”...gets good grades and does what his parents tell him, but brings a gun to school. We are delving into searching for simple solutions when faced with complex problems, as well as are we asking right questions as parents and partners in our lives? Trigger warning, we do briefly address the topic of suicide. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start...
2020-10-23
1h 06
Pop Parenting
The Breakfast Club: Allison
This week on Pop Parenting - The 5 Books of the Breakfast Club continues with Ally Sheedy’s character Allison who is “ignored”. Avrum asks if we can really trust only the viewpoint of a child in working out solutions, and Ellie asks if it actually might be a good thing to ignore your kids. We also delve into remembering our parents were also people and how we see “parenting” as a verb rather than a noun. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about The Y...
2020-10-16
1h 09
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Beginnings and Transitions
October 16 2020: This week Ilana talks about Bereshit and how transitions are an opportunity for Choosing Up! Click here to check out Ilana's new book "Choosing Up" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi!
2020-10-16
52 min
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
We Are All Storytellers
June 19 2020: In this episode Ilana reinforces that we are all innate storytellers in our own lives and the lives of those around us, and that the power of a story can change how we view our lives and our immediate circumstances.
2020-10-13
54 min
Pop Parenting
The Breakfast Club: Andrew (The Jock)
This week on Pop Parenting we come back to The Breakfast Club and look at the character played by Emilio Estevez “Andrew” the jock/star athlete who is in detention for torturing another kid and under pressure from his father to be the best. Avrum and Ellie use his story to talk about Fathers and Sons, Unrealized hopes and dreams that parents put on their children, second marriages, definition of success and the importance of taking personal responsibility for all of your relationships good and bad, and how to know if what you are doing is parenting or just putt...
2020-10-13
54 min
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Opportunity and Experience
June 12 2020 - Ellie and Ilana discuss Bamidbar and the dance between stability and change. If you want to find Ilana's book "Choosing Up" check it out on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.ca/Choosing-Up-Ilana-Kendal/dp/1946351814 For more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute check us out here: https://www.myjfi.com/ If you want to join us live go to the JFI website and click on register. If you would like to support this program please go to the JFI website and click donate. All donations get a tax receipt and go towards continuing t...
2020-10-02
53 min
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Taking our Emotional Pulse
June 5 2020 - In this episode Ilana is talking about how when our emotional mind and logical mind overlap we get to our wise mind and how to use these tools to them look outside of ourselves and help others during this time.
2020-10-02
53 min
Pop Parenting
The Breakfast Club: Claire
In this weeks episode of Pop Parenting Avrum and Ellie are watching the Breakfast Club for the 4 millionth time and picking on Claire. Molly Ringwald's character is wealthy, snobby, fashionable and frustrated and a perfect opening to seeing what all of the teens in this movie are struggling with. We dig into family triangles, whether all parents are at fault for their kids issues and how to change generations of anxiety.
2020-10-01
1h 03
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
This Is Your Pilot Speaking
May 22 2020 - Ilana and Ellie discuss relationships and Tikkun Olam, having a gift consciousness and getting ready for Shavuot.
2020-09-30
54 min
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Growth and God
May 15 2020 - We are looking for the opportunities for growth, even when it seems that we don't know where point A or B is. How do we grow when all of our reference points are up in the air and we aren't sure which direction we are going in?
2020-09-30
53 min
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Stories and Paradigm Shifts
May 8 2020 - Ilana speaks about the power of stories in her therapeutic and spiritual practices to transform our ideas of who we are what's possible in our lives.
2020-09-30
54 min
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Marathons, Resilience and Looking Back at CoVid
May 1 2020 - In this episode we explore the idea of how CoVid is an opportunity not just for short term crises growth, but also a long term plan. Ilana shares her marathon training experience as a way of understanding resilience and we delve into parenting as a model for life.
2020-09-29
58 min
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Sacred Space and Grocery Lists
April 24 2020 - In this episode Ilana and Ellie dig into the idea of space, in an time of social and physical distancing how are we navigating the spaces around us, what is considered a "sacred space" in Jewish wisdom and what happens when we have a grocery list of items we want from God and we get an out of stock notification? Also, Ilana has a "Choosing Up Challenge" for us all.
2020-09-29
56 min
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Counting the Omer and the 5 Stages of Grief
April 17 2020 - Ilana takes us on a journey around understanding the stages of grief, and how this time of counting the Omer between Passover and Shavuot in the middle of a global pandemic can bring us to more peace with our current situation.
2020-09-29
52 min
JFI Choosing Up with Ilana Kendal and Ellie Bass
Passover April 3 2020
In this episode Ilana and Ellie talk about Passover and getting ready for a Seder unlike any other this year in 2020.
2020-09-24
58 min
Pop Parenting
Good Will Hunting - The Myth of the "United Front of Parenting" and How To Be a Wise Elder
When parents are absent and/or abusive, a wise elder can step in and provide a young person with guidance, wisdom and a loving kick in the ass. Also in an ode to the incredible Robyn Williams and the character of Sean he plays in the film Good Will Hunting, Avrum and Ellie wax poetic about the myth of the “united front” of parenting, how wise elders come into being, a healthy breaking of boundaries, and how not to start off a session with a client...here we go:
2020-09-24
54 min
Pop Parenting
Less Than Zero - Privilege, Principles and Parenting
This week on Pop Parenting** we tackle one of our all-time favourite films: "Less Than Zero". When Avrum posted about this episode here's what he said: Questions to be tackled: 1. How to set boundaries when your child is freebasing cocaine? 2. Is it possible for a drug dealer to have useful life principles? If so, what? 3. Is it possible to love and worry about your children too much? If so, what are the possible outcomes?
2020-09-24
57 min
Pop Parenting
Some Kind of Wonderful and How To Have a Healthy Fight
In this episode of Pop Parenting we are talking about the movie “Some Kind of Wonderful” by John Hughes, Avrum pushes the conversation into religion and freedom, we talk about The Maiden King and spiritual awakenings, parents who live vicariously through their kids, our present day emotional immaturity and its effect on societal regression, how to have a healthy family fight and Ellie’s teenage wallpaper. Want to join us live on Zoom? Register at www.MyJFI.com/register and join us live on Thursday mornings at 10am EST. Want to check out Avrum's new book? C...
2020-09-24
1h 04
Pop Parenting
Pretty In Pink: Iona - Wise Elders and Real Leaders
This week in Pop Parenting we are discussing "Wise Elders", Iona's iconic fashion sense in Pretty in Pink and how we all long for a good leader...
2020-09-23
1h 00
Pop Parenting
Pretty In Pink: Parenting Parents and What is Love
This episode of Pop Parenting, Avrum and Ellie are geeking out on one of the canon movies from the 80’s “Pretty in Pink”. What do our parents teach us about love through osmosis and how do we pass this on to our kids? What do we do when we have to parent our parents? Check out Avrum’s blog on this https://nadigel.com/blog/pretty-pink-mom and if you would like to join us live on our Zoom's here is the link to register: myjfi.com/register
2020-09-23
1h 02
Pop Parenting
Ferris Recap and Pandemic Back To School PLUS Avrum's New Book!
In the episode Avrum and Ellie do a short recap of some of the ideas we looked at in Ferris Bueller's Day off, we hear about Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like to Start" with his late supervisor Dr. David Freeman, and take a look at how to deal with anxiety and uncertainty in sending our kids back to school in a pandemic.
2020-09-23
23 min
Pop Parenting
Cameron in Ferris Bueller's Day Off - How Effective is Yelling At Parents?
Today’s Pop Parenting with Avrum Nadigel and Ellie Bass we are watching Cameron in Ferris Buellers Day Off both melt down and wake up, and understand the family system he’s been caught in. Who were his parents and how do we change the patterns of interaction in our families?
2020-09-23
1h 02
Pop Parenting
Ferris Bueller: Hero or Psychopath?
Avrum and Ellie are getting nerdy and intense about understanding parenting using Ferris Bueller as our example, was he a freedom fighter or master manipulator? What was happening in that family dynamic that speaks to setting boundaries with our kids, and how siblings feel about different parenting styles and choices...
2020-09-23
1h 00
Deine persönliche Bestform. Der Podcast für DICH mit Gabriele Kahl
#090 JFI Learning Village, with Józefa Fawcett
JFI is a Brand of Józefa Fawcett International This Interview is in English. Please enjoy. JFI Store and JFI Learning Village is Józefas answer of an Online Course. Józefa is working as a HR Trainer but she did this not from the beginning. She started as an Makeup Artist and she recognized very early that she could not do this for a long time. Her life changed and she started to train the Trainer, and train the Trainer who train the Trainer. Today she trains International Process Managem...
2019-01-25
00 min
JFI Radio 'LIVE'
#11 JFI Radio 'LIVE' episode
WELCOME TO JFI RADIO THIS IS OUR 11TH ‘LIVE’ SHOW AND WE’RE BACK IN THE STUDIOOn the show today… AMERICAN REPORT FROM JAMES, CANCER AWARENESS & LEARNING THROUGH TECHNOLOGY AND CREATIVITYITEM #1 – LEARNING THROUGH TECHNOLOGY – NFC and digital literacyITEM #2 – LEARNING THROUGH CREATIVITY – using acting in trainingJFI RADIO LISTENERS "HAVING THEIR SAY" Perry O’Halloran UK host of ‘The Melodist Podcast’GLOBAL NEWS ROOM what’s going on in world of training, hr and business excellenceITEM #3 – CANCER AWARENESS UK SPECIAL – Macmillan Cancer Support Coffee Morning‘JAMES ACTING UP’ – an academic & personal journey in Sou
2015-09-25
44 min
Spreaker @ NMEU
Józefa Fawcett of JFI Radio
'Live chat' at JFI Radio and 'Light Learning' podcasts exploring the racy world of business training, corporate learning, quality & excellence - produced by Business Vocals.http://jozefafawcett.com/jfiradio/
2015-09-12
03 min
JFI Podcast
JFI Episode 47 with Guest Reverse Psychology Panda Podcast combo episode
Episode 47 JFI and Episode 23 RPP Knightmari and KistyNocturn have a large guest list as the RPP Podcast makes a raid on our show. Matt, Reilly, Fred, and Mike are our guests Link Dump RPP Podcast site RPP_Podcast twitter Reversepsycopanda@gmail.com Reilly Twitter Fred Twitter Mike Twitter Matt Twitter Bunny Tim Leftwich twitter and his Youtube Feed the beast Matt's Picture Micheal J Fox Youtube Comedy Week Smosh RvB Teaser Trailer June 14th ...
2013-05-23
00 min