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Sex, love, & moneyBurnt Out by Design: Why Women's Bodies Can't Keep UpThis episode explores why so many women feel chronically exhausted: society, medicine, and workplaces are built around a 24-hour male model while women's hormones follow a 28-day cycle, causing predictable mismatches and burnout.
The host explains how this mismatch leads to emotional and physical consequences across life stages—especially menopause—and shares a call to reframe health and policy to honor cyclical biology so women can protect their energy and wellbeing.
2025-12-0105 minSex, love, & moneyHow women's biology and boundaries shape relationships and societyThis episode explores female desire, the power of the menstrual cycle and menopause, and how women's biology and boundaries shape relationships and society.
It calls men into deeper integrity and action, critiques modern dating culture, and argues that mutual responsibility and secure attachment can heal individuals and benefit the future of our species.
2025-11-0617 minSex, love, & moneyFinding Treasure in Conflict: How Disagreements Can Lead to Deeper ConnectionIn this episode, delve into the transformative power of conflict within relationships. Discover how repetitive arguments can be gateways to deeper intimacy when approached with respect and curiosity. Learn about the importance of listening, asking different questions, and doing something different to break the cycle and find clarity. Explore the idea that conflict, often seen as detrimental, can actually be a guiding light towards a more profound connection. This episode offers insights and strategies to help couples navigate the tumultuous waters of disagreement to achieve lasting, meaningful partnerships.
2025-08-2904 minSex, love, & moneyWhy it matters that your ex is a narcissist (or anyone else for that matter)In this episode, we delve into the crucial importance of recognizing narcissistic traits in relationships. Understanding whether your partner or ex is a narcissist is vital for choosing the right strategies for emotional and mental well-being.
We discuss the dangers of overlooking narcissism and how it can lead to ineffective relationship advice. Learn how to equip yourself with the proper tools to handle these complex dynamics, and explore paths for those who wish to remain or leave a relationship with a narcissist.
This insightful conversation offers guidance, support, and resources for anyone affected. Embark on...
2025-06-2608 minSex, love, & moneyWhat’s it like dating a relationship Coach? Featuring my husbandJoin Jennifer J. in an engaging episode featuring her husband, Tom, as they explore the unique dynamics of dating a relationship coach. Together, they discuss the adventures and challenges of their relationship, merging eastern and western philosophies, and the importance of trust and intuition. With Tom's extensive experience in martial arts and holistic healing, and Jennifer's expertise as a coach, they offer a fresh perspective on personal growth and shared experiences. This episode delves into how couples can navigate complex emotions and embrace mutual growth, showcasing their journey towards a deeper connection through trust and honesty. Enjoy this candid...
2025-06-2125 min
Impolite Company with Demetra Gray#19: The Aubrey Marcus drama, cult dynamics, Marc Gafni, & the sad attempt to redefine monogamyA few weeks ago, Aubrey Marcus released a podcast explaining how God told him to open up his marriage and find a younger woman and how the spirit of Isis told him to impregnate both of them. Our characters are Aubrey, 44; his wife Vylana, 38; the new addition Alana, 28; and Marc Ganfi, a culty ex-rabbi posing as a "relationship coach" who was accused of molesting young girls in his time as a youth leader. Jade and I dissect the dynamics of this podcast — about what we call "God," how we know "truth," the tactics narcissists use to manipulate others, our ow...
2025-06-132h 23Sex, love, & moneyI’m BACK baby, from having a baby- all that I’ve learnedJoin me as I embark on a profound journey through motherhood, sharing my experiences, reflections, and discoveries along the way. Having given birth nearly eight weeks ago, I delve into the life-changing impact of having a child and how it has multiplied my capacity for love and purpose.
In this episode, I reflect on my adventurous past, enriched with travel, purpose-driven work, and deep relationships. I discuss how these experiences have shaped me and how becoming a mother has added new dimensions to my life.
Balancing the multiple layers of my identity as a Latin...
2025-06-1218 minImpolite Company with Demetra Gray#7: Polyamory to monogamy, porn, abortion, & the dark side of “sex positivity” | Jennifer Jade MerrihueJade joins me for this episode to discuss the lies we were sold about "sexual liberation" — from polyamory and BDSM to the way porn is impacting our society and why we now have porn-free relationships. We discuss our culture’s links to pedophilia, the way kink is used (and abused), and why not all desires are good. We also discuss women making money on OnlyFans, figures like Lily Phillips and Bonnie Blue, and the impact of selling sexuality online. Beyond that, we get very honest about abortion (including Jade’s personal experience), whether it should be legal, and even wonder...
2025-03-213h 04Sex, love, & moneyThe Mindf**** that is SuicideIn this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the deeply challenging subject of suicide, exploring personal experiences and the complex emotions that surround this tragic event. The discussion highlights the societal need for a better understanding of mental health, as well as the importance of distinguishing between suicidal ideation and planning. We reflect on the impact of suicide on loved ones and the urgent need to address mental health education from an early age to prevent violence and promote well-being.
2025-01-0810 minSex, love, & moneyThere is nothing more expensive than bad help/ supportThere is nothing more expensive than bad help.
2024-12-0915 minSex, love, & moneyFrom Dysfunction to Harmony: Story TimeJoin us in this insightful episode as we delve into a personal story of transformation through one of the most challenging relationships. Our host shares a candid account of a past relationship that was both dysfunctional and deeply educational. The narrative unfolds as an exploration of self-discovery and growth, highlighting how diverse dating experiences can be a powerful catalyst for personal development.
Throughout the episode, you'll hear about the impact of intensive self-help programs and the value of seeking external guidance when personal resources are exhausted. The story sheds light on the power of cognitive behavior therapy...
2024-11-2112 minSex, love, & moneySchooled by Money: Story timeJoin us for a heartfelt exploration of the complex relationship with money, as shared by a coach who teaches on the subject. In this episode, we delve into the challenges and triumphs of embracing financial support and overcoming internal resistance to receiving abundance.
Discover the transformative power of commitment and the importance of rewiring our beliefs about money, love, and life. Through personal stories and insights, learn how confronting fears and embracing support can lead to unexpected ease and fluidity in life.
Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on how our beliefs shape our reality...
2024-11-1407 minSex, love, & moneyThe monumental difference b/w Arousal vs. Desire: how it impacts what you manifest in lifeIn this thought-provoking episode, join us as we delve into the often-confused concepts of arousal and desire. Discover how misunderstanding these two can lead to self-betrayal and unwanted long-term outcomes. We explore how shame impacts our actions, putting us in a defensive state that hinders genuine connection and authenticity.
Learn how physiological responses can be misinterpreted as sexual desire, and how this confusion can lead to behaviors that are out of character. We discuss the cultural disconnection many experience and how a fractured understanding of arousal can manifest in various life areas, from relationships to professional settings.
2024-11-1310 minSex, love, & moneyMoney as a Spiritual Practice: Part 2In this insightful episode, we delve into the fascinating connection between money and spirituality. Our host explores how faith, a concept often linked to spiritual beliefs, also plays a crucial role in our relationship with finances. By comparing money to spirituality, the episode encourages listeners to view their financial life as a reflection of their deeper beliefs and values.
The discussion touches upon the influence of institutions like banks and churches on our perceptions of money and faith, highlighting the power of forming personal, independent relationships with both. The episode emphasizes the indestructible nature of faith when...
2024-11-0308 minSex, love, & moneyEmbracing Money as a Spiritual Journey: Part 1In this thought-provoking episode, we dive deep into the concept of money as a spiritual journey. Our host explores how our relationship with money reflects our broader life philosophies and how it can be a powerful tool for personal growth and transformation.
Discover the societal beliefs ingrained in us about wealth and poverty, and learn how to rewire these perceptions to create a healthier, more fulfilling relationship with money. Whether it's living modestly or embracing abundance, this episode emphasizes the value of authenticity and self-expression in financial matters.
Join us as we uncover the ways...
2024-10-3115 minSex, love, & moneyThe Monumental Hidden Truth of Attraction and IntimacyWe delve into the often-overlooked, buried, hidden, and destroyed, truths about attraction, sex, and compatibility in relationships. Discover the secrets of physical intimacy that society tends to ignore, as we explore how true attraction goes WAY beyond mere physical appearance.
Learn how cultural conditioning shapes our perception of beauty, and why understanding the deeper aspects of attraction is crucial for long-term partnerships. This episode challenges the notion of superficial attraction and reveals how cultivating genuine intimacy can transform relationships.
Through personal stories and insights, we discuss the societal impact of repressing sexual wisdom and the...
2024-10-2510 minSex, love, & moneyConfessions of a Relationship Coach: story time, attachment, my past and moreIn this heartfelt episode, I open up about my personal journey with love, sharing insights and lessons learned from years of experience. From childhood dreams of romance to the challenges of serial monogamy, I delve into the complexities of finding true compatibility and the importance of not settling for less than one deserves.
We explore the dynamics of attachment styles, the dangers of settling, and the transformative power of shifting one's beliefs about love. The coach emphasizes the significance of compatibility in sustaining long-term relationships and the necessity of maintaining open, honest conversations with partners.
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2024-10-2016 minSex, love, & moneyCoaching vs. TherapyJoin me on a serene evening walk with the most energetic dog, under the glow of a full moon, as we explore the profound differences between coaching and therapy. This episode delves into my personal journey with mental and emotional health, highlighting how discovering coaching transformed my life in ways traditional therapy could not.
From a lifelong interest in psychology to a disheartening search for effective therapy, I share candid insights into the challenges and limitations faced within the therapeutic field. Discover how coaching offered a proactive and personalized approach, providing tools and hope that traditional therapy...
2024-10-1617 minSex, love, & moneyDid living in the jungle for a year make me capitalist?? America and its freedomsIn this heartfelt episode, our host reflects on the profound experiences of living across different cultures and the unique opportunities available in the West. Having spent a transformative year in South America, they share insights on the contrasts between the freedoms available in America and the challenges faced in other regions.
The episode delves into the appreciation for the ability to express oneself and build a life from scratch in the U.S., highlighting the ease of starting creative ventures without the need for extensive resources. The host shares personal anecdotes from their diverse career path, emphasizing...
2024-10-0511 minSex, love, & moneyMeditation: A quickie to GratitideA quickie meditation ending with a profound sense of gratitude… whether you feel you have something to be grateful for or not today.
Enjoy 🌞
2024-10-0206 minSex, love, & moneyModern sex, expectations & roadblocks to the epicIn this episode, we delve into the complexities of transforming sexual relationships into deeply connected and fulfilling experiences. Inspired by previous discussions and insights shared on Instagram, we explore why so many people feel frustrated and lost when striving for a more meaningful sexual connection with their partners.
We discuss the common misconceptions about sexuality, the slow and necessary process of unlearning and relearning, and the importance of honest communication and intimacy beyond physical touch. This episode sheds light on the challenges faced by individuals in the spiritual and coaching communities who struggle with the initial stages...
2024-09-2811 minSex, love, & moneyBetter SexWelcome back! After a year-long adventure in the jungle, I'm excited to dive into today's episode on a topic that impacts all of us—better sex and what it truly means. Drawing from my experiences and insights as a professional in this field, we challenge the common belief that marital sex is where passion fades.
We'll explore contrasting cultural narratives, from the Western idea of the "seven-year itch" to Eastern philosophies that view long-term monogamous sex as a path to deeper spiritual connection. The discussion highlights the importance of belief, intention, and understanding in fostering a thriving in...
2024-09-2513 min2023-04-1210 minSex, love, & moneyQuick activity for connection in partnership (holiday hack)Avoid the misery and trap of uncommunicated expectations in relationships
2022-12-0607 min2022-08-2508 min2022-08-2410 min2022-04-1311 minSex, love, & moneyCLEANING OUT THE DAY: 10min MeditationCleaning out the days perfectionism and garbage
2022-04-0809 min2022-04-0707 min2022-04-0609 min2022-04-0508 minSex, love, & moneyOtherizing: using idealism to scare people into believing youMaking corporations and rich people evil is a way to make you feel superior.
It’s a way to convince people that you are right, about whatever you believe.
If THEY are the problem, you don’t have to fix anything in yourself.
There are more solutions in relating to them and finding ways to incentivize each other toward a common goal.
2022-03-0911 minSex, love, & moneyRespecting AddictionRather unorthodox way to relate to your own addictive behaviors or the addictionsnof others.
2022-02-2819 minSex, love, & moneyThe full spectrum of humanity- how chaos can lead to freedomHow permission to be the messy side of human can lead to freedom, self-trust, and a more delicious life.
2022-02-2518 min
Wild & SacredWhat monogamy could learn from non-monogamyThe Sexpert Talks Summit was a beautiful event I co-created with a group of colleagues back in 2019-
I wanted to share some of the interviews as podcasts from time to time here and to invite you to check out the whole summit for free in our youtube channel.
I've been considering a second round or season of this summit, maybe in the future (say late 2022 or early 2023)
The Sexpert Talks Summit empowers women, men, and non-binary individuals in their diversity of experiences and expressions of sexuality. Our series of interviews aim to invite curiosity, increase...
2022-01-2432 minSex, love, & moneyE.14- The psychology of MONEY vs. manifestationComparing the theories on the psych. of money vs. the idea that you can manifest anything you fucking want
2021-06-1614 minSex, love, & moneyE.13- Continued opinion on psychoanalysis and the showA bit out of the norm. This one is such a continued opinion on psychoanalysis and the show “In Treatment”.
2021-06-1408 min2021-06-1114 minSex, love, & moneyE. 11- How to build the life you want right nowFuck perfectionism, do the thing, then do the thing again, then do the thing some more
2021-06-0120 minSex, love, & moneyE.10- The difference between MAGIC, SPIRITUALITY, and COINCIDENCEHint: Whichever you choose will add up to the way you perceive life in general...
2021-05-3007 minSex, love, & moneyE.9- Unlearning restriction in work, food, exerciseSometimes the “healthiest” thing is the thing in the way
Restriction is not freedom
2021-05-2718 minSex, love, & moneyE.8- Intensity as a guide to desire & being sexually misinterpretedBeing misunderstood post covid
Intensity as a guide to desire (how this may manifest unconsciously)
2021-05-2310 minSex, love, & moneyE.7– We were made to eat, sleep, & f*k. We can all work for ourselves, what the coaching industry shows us is possible, infinite money- What the coaching industry shows us about what’s possible in the world
- A world with infinite money
✨podcast mentioned by economist- on “how to get rich” and a world where everyone works for themselves:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/naval/id1454097755?i=1000460753835
2021-05-2220 minSex, love, & moneyE.6- Romanticism and the Medicine in AbuseLife-long romantics, a coach's job in supporting the truth vs. what's "right" or "wrong", how abusive relationships can be the most healing when it's the only medicine you'll listen to!
2021-05-2109 minSex, love, & moneyE.5- When things feel out of syncWhen you feel one step off or like things are out of your control, you’re likely aligning your life towards what ever you may be consciously or unconsciously creating.
2021-05-1909 minSex, love, & moneyE.4- Understanding family porn & other highly charged thingsUnderstanding the difference between biologically fueled unconscious habits and triggered compulsions that are trying to soothe something in you.
Understanding arousal and charge.
2021-05-1511 minSex, love, & moneyE.3- On Addictive Tendencies & tipsWhy addictive tendencies get triggered and how to create a new relationship with them
2021-05-1409 minSex, love, & moneyE.2 - 3 Stages of Emotional Mastery & My personal journeyA deeper look into my past, rock bottom, learning how to feel.
My journey as a coach & a human.
3 stages of emotional mastery
2021-05-1324 minSex, love, & moneyE.1- Do the damn thingOn overriding perfectionism, finding the reason underneath it, and doing the damn thing
2021-05-1311 min
Reawakening Love and Power24. MONEY: a story of self trust, worthiness, agency, and power with Jennifer Jade MerrihueJennifer Jade Merrihue joins me to talk about how our personal money story is also a story of self trust, worthiness, agency, and power.
She shares her story of growing up wanting to save the world, and then working seven days a week for $800 a month in the non-profit sector, chronically over-giving in work and relationships until her body burned out.
Jennifer Jade also talks about dating money, the tools she used to shift what she describes as abusive relationship dynamics with it, and the big financial risk she took. We cover women’s particular tr...
2020-09-061h 14
Sexpert TalksSexpert Jennifer Jade Talks about what Monogamy could learn from non-monogamy#Sexperttalks #Sexpert #Monogamy The Sexpert Talks Summit empowers women, men, and non-binary individuals in their diversity of experiences and expressions of sexuality. Our series of interviews aim to invite curiosity, increase confidence, create clarity, and breathe vitality into the lives of our participants from across the globe. Our online summit is designed differently than most you’ve experienced. We value the wisdom and opportunities shared by our experts so much, we want it to be as accessible as possible. We release a small number of episodes each week so you never feel behind. You’ll h...
2020-03-1332 min