Jaemin Yi And Gabe Rose - Podcast Details

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Guys with Feelings#36 - Bojack Horseman (& COVID, Morning Routines)Gabe falls in love with his first TV show ever...and it's a cartoon about a talking horse. Jaemin and Alan join him in discussing why it's the perfect Guys with Feeling show! The guys also talk about the Coronavirus pandemic and how it's affecting them. And Jaemin touts the importance of morning routines (and cold showers!)2020-04-101h 14

Guys with Feelings#35 - Where'd We Go? (Un-Achieving, Fatherhood, & Mexico!)We've been gone for over a year! Why?? We've got a few good reasons... Jaemin talks about living in Puerto Escondido and giving up achieving...forever. Gabe shares what it's like being an expectant father - and how it's already changed his life and marriage. *Please excuse the poor sound quality from Jaemin's mic. **Mentioned:** Jaemin's latest post: [How I Learned to Stop Achieving (and Love Being)](http://www.jaeminyi.com/how-i-learned-to-stop-achieving/)2020-03-121h 01

Guys with Feelings#34 - Jaemin's Non-Dual Retreat in IndiaJaemin just got back from a spiritual retreat in India and opens up for the first time about his 6-year journey exploring non-duality. Also: Jaemin talks about befriending a Trump supporter, working with a spiritual teacher who'd rather be making rock & roll music, and the paradoxical nature of India itself!2019-02-0440 min

Guys with Feelings#33 - The Feels of 2018The guys take a look back on a wild year and share the feelings that inspired, moved, and challenged them in 2018. Also in this episode: - they divulge their (embarrassing) Spotify "Year in Review" results LIVE - Gabe survives a bike-totalling crash - Jaemin's tips on plugging away at chronic illness - when a friend becomes a Twitter-famous meme - and much more! ### Show Notes (1:20) Live Spotify "Year in Review" Results (6:03) **The Feelings of 2018** Gabe's #1 Feeling: Gratitude "When I think back on where we were last year and where we are now...I think, 'Holy shit, we are so lucky...2018-12-221h 01

Guys with Feelings#32 - Exploring Gender Fluidity (w/ Andrew Dunn)We sit down with Andrew Dunn (Co-Founder of Siempo) to hear about his journey with gender and the surprising challenges and joys along the way. We also dive into: how embracing the feminine helped Andrew’s startup thrive, why yoga pants rock, the ever infamous “bro voice”, and how Gabe learned to embrace the color pink. **Mentioned** - [Zebras Unite](https://www.zebrasunite.com/) - [Sister](https://sister.is/) - feminist business school - Find your [local LGBTQ center](https://www.lgbtcenters.org/LGBTCenters) - [Alex S. Morgan](http://www.alexsmorgan.com/) (Gender coach in the SF Bay Area) - [Fluidi...2018-12-0353 min

Guys with Feelings#31 - From #MeToo to #WeToo (w/ Amanda Biccum)Jaemin and Gabe sit down with Amanda Biccum, a health & mindfulness coach for men, to talk about masculinity in the #MeToo era and the growing #MenNeedSpaceToo movement. We also dive into: the hidden pain that men carry (and often hide from themselves), the difference between masculinity and divine masculinity, what dance + creativity + sex have in common, and where the #MeToo movement is evolving to next. Learn more about Amanda's work at: [amandabiccum.com](http://amandabiccum.com/) Check out Amanda's podcast: [Driven for Purpose - Reconnecting Mankind](http://amandabiccum.com/podcasts/)2018-11-1356 min

Guys with Feelings#30 - Mindfulness for Lawyers (w/ Annette Wong)Jaemin and Gabe are joined by Annette Wong (mindfulness coach) to dive deep into mindfulness: why it matters, how it's changed our lives, and why burnt-out professionals need it! We also talk about: the joys of becoming a morning person, how meditation is like lifting weights, realizing you are not your thoughts, and why you should stop time traveling. Learn more about Annette's coaching at: [annettewong.com](https://www.annettewong.com/) Check out Annette's podcast: [Breakform](http://breakformpodcast.com/)2018-10-1951 min

Guys with Feelings#29 - Quick Picks: Sleep Tracking Rings, Kombucha, and Barefoot ShoesJaemin, Gabe, and their resident lawyer & culture expert, Alan Ai, are back with another round of Quick Picks! Their recommendations include: sleep tracking rings, barefoot shoes that DON'T look stupid, growing your own living drinks, minimalist wallets, and GPS guided walking tours (perfect for the date that Jaemin set you up on!). Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.com **Mentioned:** - [Detour - Guided Walking Tours](https://www.detour.com/) - [Vivobarefoot Shoes](https://www.vivobarefoot.com/us) - [Earthrunners Sandals](https://www.earthrunners.com/) (recommended instead of Xero sandals) - [Oura Ring...2018-09-2120 min

Guys with Feelings#28 - Feelings on Crazy Rich AsiansThis weekend saw the opening of Crazy Rich Asians, the first studio film with an all-Asian cast in 25 years - and you know we had some feelings about it! Jaemin and Alan discuss why this is such a monumental event for them, what their theater experience was like, and what this means for movies and people of color going forward. **Mentioned** - [The Stakes Are High for 'Crazy Rich Asians' — And That's the Point](https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/features/crazy-rich-asians-story-behind-rom-com-1130965) (Hollywood Reporter) - [Read the Letter That Convinced Coldplay to Allow "Yellow" in the Movie](https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/cr...2018-08-2422 min

Guys with Feelings#27 - Starting Your Own Men's Group (w/ Brian Thompson)Jaemin and Gabe bring on Brian Thompson (founder of IRL Men) to break down how to start your very own men's group - and why it's such a damn good idea! We cover a TON of territory in this episode, including: how men's groups bring greater intimacy to all your relationships, how to get bro's to talk about their feelings, and whether or not you should get your therapist's name tattooed on your arm. Learn more about Brian's men's groups at: [IRL Men](https://www.irlmen.com/) Check out Brian's therapy radio show/podcast: [Radical Advice](https://www.radicaladviceshow.com/) ...2018-08-1656 min

Guys with Feelings#26 - Ketamine Therapy: A New Hope for Treating Depression? (w/ Sharon Avesar)Jaemin and Gabe welcome Sharon Avesar (integrative therapist) to talk about her work using ketamine, a controversial club drug, alongside therapy to quickly and effectively treat severe cases of depression. We talk about the surprising breakthroughs Sharon has seen with her clients, why ketamine combined WITH therapy is so damn effective, the future of psychedelics for treating mental health, and also how attachment theory can be a gamechanger for men's romantic lives (as it was for Jaemin). Learn more about Sharon's clinic at: ketaminecollective.com ### Timestamps (7:06) Love Avoidance and Attachment Theory (16:35) Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy **Mentioned:** - Washington Post article: [Onetime...2018-08-0242 min

Guys with Feelings#25 - The Rise of the Asian HunkIn this special episode, Jaemin and Alan dive deep on something they've been waiting their ENTIRE lives for: The Rise of the Asian-American Hunk! The guys discuss how shittily Asian men have always been portrayed onscreen (silent, serious, and sexless) and how that's finally starting to change. They explore Jaemin's lifelong struggle with his Korean identity, the power of seeing yourself represented on-screen, and why Jet Li never got to kiss Aaliyah. ### **Find Us Online** [Gabe’s Twitter](https://twitter.com/gaberose) [Jaemin’s Twitter](https://twitter.com/jaemin_yi) [Alan's Twitter](https://twitter.com/alanai) – Jaemin’s latest post: [What Rap...2018-07-1734 min

Guys with Feelings#24 - Monogomy Isn't Dead Yet (w/ Connor Moss)Jaemin and Gabe bring on Connor Moss (men's coach & therapist) to talk about a word that strikes fear into the hearts of men everywhere: COMMITMENT. We dive into the gifts of committed relationship, monogamy as a spiritual growth path, how a lot of guys are misusing polyamory, and why James Bond is a shitty role model. ### **Find Us Online** Connor Moss - [Men's Coaching](https://www.hconnormoss.com/) [Gabe’s Twitter](https://twitter.com/gaberose) [Jaemin’s Twitter](https://twitter.com/jaemin_yi) – Jaemin’s latest post: [Don't Call It Depression](http://www.jaeminyi.com/dont-call-it-depression/) Music for the podcast: “As Colorfu...2018-06-2930 min

Guys with Feelings#23 - Ghost BustersToday the guys tackle a topic that's afflicting millions of daters in our culture today: ghosting. Jaemin, Gabe, and Alan discuss what ghosting is, why it's affecting so many of us, how to STOP ghosting once and for all, and most importantly - what Drake thinks about all this. Have any ghosting stories or anti-ghosting maneuvers of your own? Share them with us at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.com 2018-05-3124 min

Guys with Feelings#22 - Getting Mugged in Colombia (Live Story)This week we have a special episode for you: Jaemin tells a story live, at The Embassy Network, on how getting mugged in Colombia helped him find an authentic life...and Chamillionaire. You'll laugh, you'll cry, you'll wonder how you still know the lyrics to "Ridin' Dirty". **Mentioned:** Jaemin's [blog post](http://www.jaeminyi.com/mugged/) on getting mugged 2018-05-1719 min

Guys with Feelings#21 - WTF Kanye?Kanye's back on a tweeting rampage and you know we had to talk about it! Jaemin and Gabe bring back Alan Ai for a deep dive into Kanye's latest string of controversial tweets on Trump, love, and scoopity poop. We debate whether Ye's causing damage, wasting everyone's time, or spreading empathy & love across the political divide. Is Yeezy the hero we need right now? **Mentioned:** [Kanye West's tweets on Trump](https://www.vox.com/culture/2018/4/25/17280922/kanye-west-donald-trump-tweets-kim-kardashian) [Ye vs. The People (lyrics)](https://genius.com/Kanye-west-ye-vs-the-people-lyrics) [The American Chopper Meme, Explained (Vox)](https://www.vox.com/2018/4/10/17207588/american-chopper-meme)2018-04-3038 min

Guys with Feelings#20 - The Power of Men's Work (w/ Enrico Moses)Jaemin and Gabe welcome Enrico Moses (entrepreneur, Multicultural Chair of The ManKind Project) to talk about the project and how the men's organization completely changed his life. We discuss the power of men's work, letting go of your fear of fucking up, discovering a new approach to parenting, getting in touch with your inner warrior (and lover and king), and more. ### **Mentioned:** [The Mankind Project](https://mankindproject.org/) [The Next Step Program](https://mkpusa.org/next-step/) [Woman Within](http://womanwithin.org/) [H.E.R. Weekend](https://herweekend.com/community/) ### **Find Us Online** [Enrico's Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/enricomoses/) ...2018-04-2653 min

Guys with Feelings#19 - Quick Picks: Matchmaking, Earplugs, and Bojack Horseman (w/ Alan Ai)Jaemin and Gabe welcome back their resident culture expert and lawyer, Alan Ai, to do an all Quick Picks focused episode! Their recommendations include: matchmaking your friends, concert earplugs, date nights, Esther Perel, board games, and a cartoon about a talking horse. Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.com **Mentioned:** - [Bojack Horseman](https://www.netflix.com/title/70300800) (Netflix) - [Mating in Captivity](https://www.amazon.com/Mating-Captivity-Unlocking-Erotic-Intelligence/dp/0060753641/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1524106697&sr=8-1&keywords=mating+in+captivity) by Esther Perel - Esther Perel's podcast: [Where Should We Begin?](https://www...2018-04-1931 min

Guys with Feelings#18 - Roses & Thorns, an Honest Love Story (w/ Sara Rezvanpour Rose)Jaemin and Gabe welcome a very special guest - Gabe's wife, Sara Rezvanpour Rose. The two of them open up about their relationship: their strengths, struggles, and everything in-between. We discuss the joy of couples therapy, how breaking up saved their relationship, why community is a bedrock of their marriage, the importance of being "emotional detectives", and much more. ### **Find Us Online** [Sara's Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/sararezrose/) > – [The Jungalow (Instagram)](https://www.instagram.com/thejungalow/) [Gabe’s Twitter](https://twitter.com/gaberose) > – Gabe’s latest post: [We Have to Do This Right](http://www.gaberose.com/blog/how-the-democratic-party-may-be-hurting-the-metoo-movement) [Jaemin’s...2018-04-021h 02

Guys with Feelings#17 - Breaking the Phone AddictionIn this Minisode, the guys share the tips that've helped them break free from their phone addictions and reclaim their sanity. **Mentioned:** - [Change Your Screen to Grayscale to Combat Phone Addiction](https://lifehacker.com/change-your-screen-to-grayscale-to-combat-phone-addicti-1795821843) - [Moment (iOS app)](https://inthemoment.io/) - [Ezra Klein interview w/ Tristan Harris](https://www.vox.com/technology/2018/2/19/17020310/tristan-harris-facebook-twitter-humane-tech-time) - Center for Humane Technology ([timewellspent.io](https://timewellspent.io)) - Jaemin's blog post on [Breaking the Phone Addiction](http://www.jaeminyi.com/breaking-phone-addiction/)2018-03-2021 min

Guys with Feelings#16 - Masculinity and 'The Mask You Live In'In this Minisode, the guys discuss the Netflix documentary, "[The Mask You Live In](http://http://therepresentationproject.org/film/the-mask-you-live-in/)". They explore masculinity in our culture and themes such as: why our boys and men are going through such a crisis, how men are longing to connect with one another (and Gabe & Jaemin's own story with this), how we can better raise our sons, and how to help shift this problem. **Mentioned:** - ["The Mask You Live In" trailer](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hc45-ptHMxo) - [5 Ways to Help Reduce the Male Suicide Rate](http://www.jordangrayconsulting.com/2017/12/5...2018-03-0721 min

Guys with Feelings#15 - Deep Dive: Why Therapy Is Our JamJaemin and Gabe dive deep on a topic that's completely changed both their lives: therapy! They discuss how seeing a therapist is like "5 years of growth in weeks"; how it may be the antidote to toxic masculinity; they share their own therapy journeys; and tips on how to find an awesome therapist. Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.com ### Show Notes (2:14) Remembering [Shirley Ford](http://laschoolreport.com/shirley-ford-passionate-los-angeles-education-advocate-and-co-founder-of-parent-revolution-dies/) (5:34) **Deep Dive: Why Every Guy Should Consider Therapy** (7:43) How we define "therapy". (8:54) **Jaemin's therapy story** (and why he sees it as "self-growth on steroids"). (17:04) **Gabe's...2018-02-2350 min

Guys with Feelings#14 - In Defense of TinderIn this special Valentines Day Minisode, Jaemin mounts a passionate defense of the app everyone loves to hate: Tinder. The guys talk about how Jaemin went from hating the Tinder experience to appreciating it, how it's enriched his life, and the one tip that'll make the biggest difference in your quality of matches. Share your thoughts, feedback, or your own experiences with Tinder at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.com 2018-02-1413 min

Guys with Feelings#13 - Jaemin's First 10-Day Spiritual RetreatIn this Minisode, the guys talk about Jaemin's first 10-day spiritual retreat (in the mountains of Spain)! They discuss what he got out of it, how it affected his life moving forward, and tips on pitfalls to watch out for (like chasing the post-retreat highs), and how to integrate the experience into the rest of your daily life. Send us thoughts, feedback, and suggestions for the next Minisode at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.com 2018-01-1024 min

Guys with Feelings#12 - The Feels of 2017Jaemin and Gabe take a look back at the feelings that defined their 2017 - and the ones they're looking forward to exploring in 2018. They also reflect on the 1st birthday of the podcast and share their top Quick Picks of the year! Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.com ### Show Notes (3:15) **The Feelings of 2017** Gabe's #1 Feeling of 2017: Honesty (10:44) Jaemin's #1 Feeling of 2017: Inspiration (Self-Expression) (16:53) Gabe's #2 Feeling: Curiosity (23:00) Jaemin's #2 Feeling: Love (with others, with self) (29:43) **The** **Feelings of 2018** (35:34) Reflections on one year of podcasting. (40:04) **Quick Picks** Gabe: Hack your phone so you use it less...2018-01-0148 min

Guys with Feelings#11 - Advice to Your Younger SelfJaemin and Gabe answer the question: "What advice do you wish you could've given yourself 10 years ago?" They also share a bunch of answers from their online community (including Gabe's mom), as well as discussing what alpha males can learn from alpha wolves, and why you should pancake surprise your friends. Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.com ### Show Notes (2:50) Jaemin's video for Planned Parenthood [got nominated](http://shortyawards.com/2nd-socialgood/the-abortion-pill-in-clinic-abortion) for a Shorty Social Good Award! (4:03) Jaemin and Gabe's [video for Flippable](http://www.imaginarylava.org/project/flippable/). (9:00) **Deep Dive: What...2017-10-2857 min

Guys with Feelings#10 - The Burning Man Episode (w/ Kareem Hammad)Jaemin and Gabe welcome guest Kareem Hammad to dive deep into a topic near and dear to their hearts: Burning Man. They discuss what it is, why it's so transformational, how it helps men become more vulnerable, their controversial beliefs about it, and much more! Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.com ### Show Notes (4:38) **Clip Montage #1: What was your last Burning Man like?** (5:35) What is Burning Man? (10:39) **Clip Montage #2: What's a favorite memory from your last Burn?** (13:11) Kareem: dancing to the Raj Mahal. (14:18) Gabe: Burner wedding and Temple burn. (16:02) The beauty and spirituality...2017-10-011h 04

Guys with Feelings#9 - Embracing the LowsJaemin and Gabe discuss embracing the lows of life, as well as manscaping, banishing phones from bedrooms, an easier way to call your representatives, updates on Jaemin's online dating life, and more! Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.com ### Show Notes (4:20) **Deep Dive: Embracing the Lows** (6:20) Interview with [Allie Lapidus](http://www.allielapidus.com/) on having to take a retail makeup job that she was resisting for years – and how it ended up being exactly what she needed. (9:40) What makes lows such powerful growth catalysts? (11:50) Jaemin’s low story: struggling with severe hypothyroidism for...2017-08-1657 min

Guys with Feelings#8 - Effortless Writing and Birthday BluesJaemin and Gabe discuss making writing an effortless habit, the birthday blues, online dating woes, new favorite podcasts, microfiber towels, and more! Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.com. Show Notes (4:00) What Are You Bringing to the Table? • Gabe: The Birthday Blues…why is this such a prevalent thing? • (14:15) Jaemin: How I finally made writing an effortless, enjoyable habit (after struggling for over a decade). (28:25) Quick Picks • Gabe’s #1: Making your own almond milk. • (31:31) Jaemin’s #1: New favorite podcast: The Daily by the New York Times. • (34:51) Gabe’s #2: Chrome extension for finding email addresses: Hunter ...2017-06-3050 min

Guys with Feelings#7 - How to Switch Careers in 9 Months (w/ Peter Krouse)Jaemin and Gabe welcome Peter Krouse to discuss becoming a software engineer in just 9 months, conscious dog parenting, ethical men’s fashion, the virtues of slow reading, and more! Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.com. Show Notes (2:47) What Are You Bringing to the Table? • Peter: How he went from working in a travel company to being a software engineer in just 9 months! – (8:39) Advice: do self-exploration first. It’s a lot of money to invest in a bootcamp or any kind of transition without knowing if you’ll be genuinely interested in it. – (10:50) The most suc...2017-05-131h 11

Guys with FeelingsBonus Ep. - S-Town, Drake, and Whitewashing (w/ Alan Ai)In this Bonus Episode, Jaemin and Gabe welcome their resident culture expert and lawyer, Alan Ai, to do a deep dive into pop culture. They discuss Get Out, whitewashing, Mike Pence, Drake’s playlist, how hip hop is like dirty talk, S-Town, and why Alan hates podcasts. 2017-04-1253 min

Guys with Feelings#6 - Meditation Retreats and Big Life TransitionsJaemin and Gabe share their thoughts on Gabe's first weekend meditation retreat; navigating big life transitions (like moving!); silencing your phone's notifications; 7 minute workouts; and much more! Show Notes What Are You Bringing to the Table? • Gabe: How a weekend meditation retreat finally got me excited about meditation. – Deer Park Monastery – Vipassana Meditation Retreats • Jaemin: Navigating big life transitions (like moving out of a 30-person mansion), knowing when it’s time to move on, and leaving while it’s still good. Quick Picks • Gabe’s #1: Arriving places 15 minutes early. – I Will Teach You to Be Rich by Ramit Sethi • Jaemin’s #1: 7 minute workout...2017-03-2356 min

Guys with Feelings#5 - Being a Modern Day Renaissance Person (w/ Alex Zobel)Jaemin and Gabe welcome their first ever Guest with Feelings: Alex Zobel, a modern-day Renaissance woman who has a PhD in 16th century English Lit, teaches prisoners in San Quentin, is building her own tiny home, and opening a brewery with her brother, among other things. The three of them discuss: how to become a modern day Renaissance person, what San Quentin prisoners thought of the election, what Standing Rock taught Alex (radical listening), IUD's and accessible poetry, and much more! Show Notes Guest with Feelings Interview • The tension between exploring many diverse interests and diving deep into each of th...2017-02-231h 04

Guys with Feelings#4 - Soft Veganism, Chronic Health Issues, and Better QuestionsJaemin and Gabe share their thoughts on going not-quite-full vegan, coming out of the hypothyroidism closet, better questions to ask when you meet someone, how to do the right thing monthly (and effortlessly), and much more! Show Notes What Are You Bringing to the Table? • Jaemin: What you can learn from struggling with chronic health issues. • Gabe: Changing my views on vegans and going vegan-ish. – When people try to come at veganism but you ready (Instagram) Quick Picks • Jaemin’s #1: Have an Accidental Budget – I Will Teach You to Be Rich by Ramit Sethi • Gabe’s #1: Alexander Hamilton by Ron Chernow • Jaemin...2017-02-0354 min

Guys with Feelings#3 - Conscious Dating, Solo Backpacking, and Impossible BurgersIn episode #3 of Guys with Feelings, Jaemin and Gabe share their thoughts on: • dating more consciously • the magic (and danger) of solo backpacking • eating a plant burger that bleeds • how intentional communities can save your relationship • and much more! \- Show notes at: http://www.jaeminyi.com/podcast-3/ \- Music for the podcast: "As Colorful As Ever" by Broke For Free (brokeforfree.com/) 2017-01-061h 05

Guys with Feelings#2 - On Trump, Creative Perfectionism, and OnesiesIn this episode, Jaemin and Gabe cover topics such as: • re-thinking their views post-Trump • learning to be a disciplined half-ass • why you need a onesie (with a tail) • and much more! \- Show notes at: http://www.jaeminyi.com/podcast-2/ \- Music for the podcast: "As Colorful As Ever" by Broke For Free (brokeforfree.com/) 2016-11-2858 min

Guys with Feelings#1 - Jaemin & Gabe Record a Podcast!As part of Jaemin's October Creativity Challenge, he finally moved forward with something he's always wanted to do: record a podcast! So he sat down with Gabe Rose, a lifelong friend and frequent collaborator, and they decided to hit the record button and see what happened. In their first podcast attempt, they cover topics such as: • sleep drugs extracted from sleepy cats • giving up a kidney • undergoing a journey of the senses • why religion is underrated •what we’re missing about Trump supporters • and much more! And there's a bonus surprise if you wait til the end... Enjoy! \- Show notes at: http...2016-11-281h 10