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With Love, MenWhat Does It Mean to Be a Man in 2026?In this episode of With Love, Men, co-hosts Jake Fishbein and Nick Papadopoulos tackle the timeless question: What does it mean to be a man in 2026?Jake reflects on lessons from his father—leading with heart, embracing vulnerability, and making a difference without seeking credit. Nick shares his immigrant father's blueprint: being a man means contributing more than you take, not from unworthiness, but from trust that giving creates its own rewards.They challenge the "Happy wife, happy life" mentality, clarifying that loving the relationship more than yourself isn't about se...
2026-01-2642 minWith Love, MenThe Money Chase: What Men Are Really AfterIn this episode of With Love, Men, co-hosts Jake Fishbein and Nick Papadopoulos explore why men chase money—and what they're really seeking beneath the surface.Nick argues men are chasing self-worth and validation, measuring themselves against others to prove "I'm okay, I'm a real man." Jake adds that economic shifts have stripped away traditional pathways: only 15% of 30-year-olds own homes today (down from 50% in 1960), women graduate college at twice the rate of men, and younger generations face stagnating wages. Many men feel their masculinity and purpose eroding.The hosts examine the toll: ne...
2025-12-1949 minWith Love, MenMen and SexIn this episode of With Love, Men, co-hosts Jake Fishbein and Nick Papadopoulos tackle one of the most avoided topics in men's work: sexuality and physical intimacy. Opening with a striking story from a joint men's and women's group session where men were paralyzed by fear while women spoke explicitly and comfortably about sex, they explore why this topic remains so taboo—even in spaces designed for vulnerable conversation.Nick shares how religious shame, non-affectionate parents, and childhood sexual abuse distorted his relationship with intimacy for decades. Jake opens up about growing up in the in...
2025-10-2547 minWith Love, MenIs Masculinity a Prison?In this episode of With Love, Men, co-hosts Jake Fishbein and Nick Papadopoulos tackle one of today's most contentious questions: Is masculinity a prison? Inspired by a recent debate they attended at Comedy Cellar in New York's West Village, they dive deep into what masculinity actually means and whether it constrains or empowers modern men.The conversation begins with a fundamental challenge: defining masculinity itself. Nick reveals how masculinity has been constructed around specific behaviors—strength, assertiveness, dominance, competition—while acknowledging that all humans have access to both masculine and feminine ener...
2025-09-1652 minWith Love, MenFrom Directions to Gratitude: Why Men Struggle to Ask for SupportIn this episode of With Love, Men, co-hosts Jake Fishbein and Nick Papadopoulos tackle one of the most fundamental yet avoided aspects of masculinity: why men struggle to ask for help and express genuine gratitude.From the age-old joke about men refusing to ask for directions to today's digital age equivalent of wandering grocery store aisles rather than asking staff for help, this pattern runs deep in the male psyche. Jake candidly shares his recent experience avoiding lawyers while trying to create contractor agreements, preferring to spend 25 hours wrestling with AI...
2025-08-2343 minWith Love, MenBeyond the Title: Finding Worth Outside Your WorkIn this episode of With Love, Men, co-hosts Jake Fishbein and Nick Papadopoulos tackle one of the most pervasive yet unspoken challenges in modern masculinity: the dangerous entanglement of self-worth and career identity.Through raw vulnerability and unflinching honesty, Nick reveals his own journey of career addiction—how titles, responsibilities, and external validation became the sole source of his identity until a cancer diagnosis in 2021 forced a complete reckoning. He shares the painful moments of feeling invisible at social gatherings when conversations weren't centered on his work, and how he would de...
2025-08-0844 min
Practicing Love: Have the Best Love and Sex of Your Life After 40#30: Unlearn Childhood Patterns to Build Real LoveThe relational patterns you learn in childhood shape your romantic relationships, often without you knowing it. In this episode, we dive deep into how early experiences influence adult love — and what it takes to unlearn those patterns to build real, lasting connection. Host Shana James and executive coach Jake Fishbein explore emotional resilience, trust, and the courage to embrace vulnerability in love. Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life! Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/prigida/burbleLicense code: FTDWN40V3UIZ...
2025-07-2443 minWith Love, MenWhy do men watch porn?In this episode of With Love, Men, co-hosts Jake Fishbein and Nick Papadopoulos tackle one of the most avoided topics in men's conversations: pornography and its profound impact on intimacy and relationships.With 91.5% of men aged 18-73 reporting porn consumption in the past month, this isn't a fringe issue—it's affecting nearly every man and their relationships. Nick courageously shares his traumatic first encounter with pornography at age 10, revealing how it was used as a tool of manipulation by a predator, and how his family's shame-filled reaction pushed him deeper into da...
2025-06-2446 minWith Love, MenWhat does it mean to be in the arena?In this episode of With Love, Men, co-hosts Jake Fishbein and Nick Papadopoulos explore a fundamental question: Are you living in the arena or watching from the stands?Drawing inspiration from Teddy Roosevelt's famous "Man in the Arena" speech, Jake and Nick challenge listeners to step out of the safety of spectating and into the messy, vital experience of being fully alive. Through baseball metaphors, immigrant stories, and raw personal reflections, they examine what it means to show up present, vulnerable, and accountable in your own life.Expect honest...
2025-06-0339 minWith Love, MenStep Into Your Self-WorthIn this episode of With Love, Men, co-hosts Jake Fishbein and Nick Papadopoulos dive into a question at the heart of modern masculinity: What gives men their sense of self-worth?From childhood heartbreaks to the quiet pressures of adulthood, Jake and Nick explore how men lose touch with their intrinsic value—and how they can reclaim it. They share personal stories of early rejections, the cultural myth of the self-sacrificing man, and the long, often painful journey to realizing you matter simply because you exist.Expect deep reflections, laughter, a...
2025-04-2839 minWith Love, MenWhy Sharing MattersIn this episode of With Love, Men, co-hosts Jake Fishbein and Nick Papadopoulos dive into the surprisingly complex world of sharing—why it’s so damn hard for men, and why it might be the most transformational thing they can do.From childhood messages about “manning up” to the unspoken fear of losing an edge, Jake and Nick explore the emotional minefields that keep men quiet—and the magic that happens when they speak. Nick reflects on how writing about his cancer journey turned darkness into light. Jake opens up about oversharin...
2025-04-1149 minWith Love, MenWhat Does It Mean To Be A Man?In this inaugural episode of With Love, Men, co-hosts Jake Fishbein and Nick Papadopoulos dive into the big, beautiful, messy question: What does it mean to be a man today?Drawing from their 25+ years leading men’s groups and their own personal journeys, Jake and Nick explore success, role modeling, emotional expression, fatherhood, heartbreak, vulnerability, and how real change often requires crisis—or courage.Expect raw conversation, laughter, deep reflection, and an invitation to step into the arena of modern masculinity—with love.🔑 Topics CoveredRedefining success for menFather...
2025-03-3141 min
Genuinely YouGina Gardiner & Friends: Jake Fishbein Welcome to the 'Gina Gardiner & Friends Show' - this episode features my guest, Jake Fishbein whose theme was 'The impact of men's work on men, healing, and relationships'.
About The Show
The Gina Gardiner & Friends Show is an opportunity to hear an inspirational story and the inside track on the amazing expertise of my guests. Relaxed and conversational - why not grab a cup of your favourite brew, draw up a seat and join me and my friend for positive take-aways, tons of inspiration, shifts in perspective, and a sense of hope and possibility!
2024-12-2030 min
Super Entrepreneurs PodcastExploring Potential: Insights from Executive Coach Jake Fishbein on Choices and Growth.Welcome to a transformative journey with Jake Fishbein, an executive coach and facilitator. Join us as we explore powerful insights on choices, growth, and unlocking your full potential. Get ready to embark on a path of personal and professional evolution. This is the Super Entrepreneurs Podcast! Chapter Stamps: Super Entrepreneurs Podcast Introduction (00:02:00-00:03:00): Jake's Journey into Coaching (00:03:00-00:05:00): The Power of Vulnerability (00:05:00-00:07:00): Coaching High-Achievers (00:07:00-00:09:00): Consistency in Growth (00:09:00-00:10:00): Meditation Practices (00:12:00-00:15:00): Client-Focused Coaching (00:17:00-00:18:00): Building a Sustainable...
2024-01-2626 min
Health UpThe True Essence of Masculinity in Today's WorldSend us a textAre traditional notions of masculinity limiting your potential for personal growth and emotional connection? How can embracing vulnerability and empathy redefine what it means to be a man in today's world? In this enlightening episode of the "me&my health up" podcast, host Anthony Hartcher is joined by executive coach Jake Fishbein to explore the evolving landscape of masculinity. As society's understanding of gender roles continues to shift, men are increasingly challenged ...
2024-01-0135 min
Holly Cotton ConversationsJake Fishbein talks....common male struggles with gender expectations, personal growth, decision-making, and the transformative power of genuine friendships.In this episode, host Holly Cotton and Jake "Coach Jake" Fishbein, an acclaimed New York City-based Executive Coach, Facilitator, and Men's Work Leader, talk about common struggles men have with gender expectations, personal growth, decision-making, and the transformative power of genuine friendships.Jake has dedicated the past decade to empowering individuals and teams to navigate their most challenging decisions, improve communication, and build meaningful relationships. His particular focus on men's development work sets him apart. He co-facilitates The Arena Men’s Group, where he inspires men to live authentically, engage vulnerably, and make impactful contributions to their pe...
2023-10-1537 min
Gina Gardiner & FriendsGina Gardiner & Friends with Jake FishbeinGina Gardiner & Friends with Jake Fishbein
2023-10-1030 min
The Super Human LifeUnderstanding Relationships, Story, & Personal Growth w/ Jake Fishbein | Ep. 217Jacob "Coach Jake" Fishbein is an Executive Coach & Facilitator who specializes in helping people and teams make and navigate their most pressing choices. He's passionate about helping men and women make proactive decisions and pushing their endeavors forward in purposeful and powerful ways. For him, coaching is all about learning - learning about yourself, your choices, your results, and how you can choose differently to create something new for you and the people and communities you impact. In addition to his work with individuals, entrepreneurs, and corporate professionals, Coach Jake works with men to inspire...
2023-09-1857 min
Fearless AgingRedefining Masculinity: The Need for Connection, Support, and Accountability in Men's LivesOur expert guest Jake Fishbein is an acclaimed New York City-based Executive Coach and Facilitator. He runs The Arena's Men Group in NYC. You will learn about the many struggles many men are now facing in today's rapidly changing world. How men's goups and coaching can make a big difference by helping men to examine their true values and to live a more authentic, joyful life. You can contact Jake for a free coaching session @ jake@jakefishbein.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/fearless-aging--2801795/support.
2023-08-2333 min
Calm The Hell DownThe Power Of Vulnerability (and why we should rethink our accomplishments) with Jake FishbeinWhat is vulnerability? Is it sharing your deepest, darkest secrets? Maybe sometimes. But it can also be something smaller like trying a new restaurant or asking for help at the grocery store. In this episode, Laura talks with Executive & Personal Coach Jake Fishbein about how we can expand our definition of vulnerability, find our purpose, and rethink our goals. They also chat about reframing the concept of accomplishment to focus on who we want to be instead of what we want to achieve.Learn more about Jake on his website.Follow Calm The Hell Down...
2022-12-2121 min
Mojo for the Modern Man"Strictly For Research Purposes" with Jake Fishbein - Act 2Plunging into the deep end, executive coach and men’s work leader Jake Fishbein opens Act 2 rising powerfully to a question about vulnerability and realness.We touch on romantic and platonic love, and stepping out of our comfort zones to enjoy richer, deeper, more real conversations.Willing to have your heart broken?Jake’s response is, of course, an enthusiastic “yes.” And he shares the importance of that answer in a moving moment of recalling his grandmother and her passing, and how heartbreak is, at times, an expression of joy. Jake wrap...
2022-11-0830 min
The Impostor Syndrome FilesBreaking Down Gender Barriers in the WorkplaceIn this episode of the Impostor Syndrome Files, we talk about the power of bringing professionals of all genders together so that we can better understand and support each other. My guest, Jake Fishbein, and I share our journey of leading conversations about the gender experience in the workplace and discuss how surprised we were to learn that our experiences are far more similar than different. We also talk about the importance of psychological safety to these discussions and how we can all take ownership of creating a better workplace.About My Guest
2022-11-0852 minMojo for the Modern Man"Strictly For Research Purposes" with Jake Fishbein - Act 1A New Yorker hailing (originally) from Santa Fe, New Mexico, executive coach and men’s group leader Jake Fishbein shares his younger days as a Montessori student and explorer of the land. He talks about his early connection to that land, and how New York is… different.And walking on the concrete of the city rather than in connection with the Earth is where different begins. Jake unpacks some long-time influences, including a couple of translations of the Odyssey and the lessons they hold, then points his narrative lens at his experiences of leadin...
2022-11-0134 minWith Love, MenMen & FatherhoodWhen men become fathers, what impact does that have on their identity, way of living, and sense of self? Is it something they prepare for or something that’s sprung on them?Few relationships impact a man as much as his relationship with his father, whether his father was absent or present. Many times, the nature of this relationship carries far into his life and impacts how he chooses to be a father, in his own right, or whether he chooses to be a father at all. While conversations for women around motherhood are commonplace in our so...
2022-07-011h 15
The Impostor Syndrome FilesWe Are All on the Same TeamWelcome to another episode of The Impostor Syndrome Files! Join Kim Meninger and Jake Fishbein as they discuss a very timely topic of bringing men and women together in the workplace. As an executive coach and men’s group leader, Jake talks confidence and vulnerability challenges facing men. He shares examples, such as the lack of spaces for men to be vulnerable, how men tend to disconnect when they’re having a tough time, and more. Talking about how gender stereotypes hold us back and finding new, more authentic ways to engage can release everyone from the internal and exte...
2022-03-1550 min
DTong Radio Indie Music ShowcaseTop Indie Music Artists on #dtongradio - Powered by Tracker KeeperThe BEST Independent Music Artists & Singers from around the world: EDM, Indie Rock, Indie Pop, Hip Hop, R & B, Rap, reggae, Jazz, Country, Folk, & more...Hosted by DTongAdvertising & Sponsorship: http://goo.gl/ioP6HwGuaranteed Song Play & Promotion: http://goo.gl/4aD98wBROUGHT TO YOU BY:Tracker Keeperhttps://bit.ly/3tD9g10WaTalk by Wave Talkhttps://bit.ly/3pOKqtYTOME: digital trading card gamehttps://bit.ly/3MCxxNpSeasons of Security by Carl Martinhttps://amzn...
2022-03-093h 21
DTong Radio Indie Music ShowcaseAll Independent Music Weekend Showcase - Powered by Fiverr.com/DTongSportsThe BEST Independent Music Artists & Singers from around the world: EDM, Indie Rock, Indie Pop, Hip Hop, R & B, Rap, reggae, Jazz, Country, Folk, & more...Hosted by DTongAdvertising & Sponsorship: http://goo.gl/ioP6HwGuaranteed Song Play & Promotion: http://goo.gl/4aD98wBROUGHT TO YOU BY:Psi Saviorhttps://bit.ly/35oxbJpMeta Racer Xhttps://bit.ly/3M1Vb5HThe Great I Am by Marisa Readushttps://amzn.to/3LZeyMKI Think I Saw A Bug...
2022-03-062h 09
The PalveshowPalveshow: Nature Vs Nurture w/Jake FishbeinJake Fishbein is an executive and personal coach who helps men make and navigate their most important choices.
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He works with small business owners, mid-level executives, and facilitates men's groups.
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He's worked with men for over half a decade to inspire them to trust themselves, live authentically and vulnerably, and step into the arena in their personal and professional lives.
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Jake received his professional coaching certification from iPEC and is an ACC and ACE Certified Coach. He grew up in New Mexico and currently lives in New York City.
2021-12-3147 minWith Love, MenMen & The CaveCoach Nick Papadopoulos, Coach Jake Fishbein, and Dr. Jessica Koblenz to explore ‘Men & The Cave’ in this 75-minute conversation.When men are living in the cave, what impact does it have on their mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being? When men don’t take care of themselves, what’s the impact on them and others?For men, it can be challenging and societally unacceptable to ask for help or to admit when something is wrong and isn’t working. Instead of acknowledging the need for support or change, many men retreat to the metaphorical cave instead. W...
2021-08-061h 15With Love, MenMen & IntimacyIn this hour-long conversation, Coach Nick Papadopoulos, Coach Jake Fishbein, and Dr. Jessica Koblenz explore Men & Intimacy. What does intimacy mean to men? What gets in the way of men experiencing and creating the intimacy they desire?Men often find themselves in a competitive mindset, focused on winning and accomplishment. While this mindset can lead to tremendous tangible results, it can also get in the way of men creating intimate relationships.In this conversation, we explore how men can experience greater intimacy in their lives. We’ll share our own experiences with intimacy and...
2021-06-101h 02With Love, MenMen & FriendshipCoach Nick, Coach Jake, and special guest Stephanie D’Ambra explore Men & Friendship in this episode of The Arena Series.What does friendship mean to men in general?How has COVID-19 impacted men’s relationship to friendship?There are many stereotypes and jokes about male friendship, but most of the time we don’t talk about what’s at the core and what’s possible when men connect with each other (and women) in different ways. In this hour-long conversation, we’ll talk about how men usually choose friendships that are side-by-side and activity-bas...
2021-06-1058 min
@BetchesIs “Love Is Blind” Living Up To The Hype?This week our hosts Chris Burns (Video Content Creator), Sara Levine (Editor in Chief/Host of ‘Not Another True Crime Podcast’) and Mike Coscarelli (Manager: Podcast Production) begin the show by discussing Gigi Hadid’s epic fight night twitter clap back at Jake Paul. Next they dive into Justin Bieber’s shade throwing at Cara Delevingne on James Corden’s show. Later they give their thoughts on Amanda Byne’s engagement announcement on Instagram. Finally, they’re joined by Betches Co-Founder Sami Fishbein to break down all the madness happening on the Netflix show “Love Is Blind”. Learn more abo...
2020-02-251h 00
Talking to Cool People w/ Jason FrazellJake Fishbein-Business and Personal CoachSend us a textJake professes his undying love for ancient Greek history, gets compared to a couple of Stephen King characters, and gets emotional talking about how he was intentional about leaving his last relationship in a better place than it was when it first started.Jake Fishbein is a Certified Professional Coach specializing in Business & Career Coaching, Personal Coaching, and Creative Coaching. His passion is helping entrepreneurs, founders, and creative freelancers make value-driven choices and push their business and/or creative endeavors forward in purposeful and powerful ways. A coach and writer based...
2020-02-201h 02
Dudes of DisruptionEpisode 107: “Fathers & Sons”<img src="https://assets.podomatic.net/ts/bb/a6/bf/tommy-spero/3000x3000_11808827.jpg" alt="itunes pic" /><br />“When a father gives to his son, both laugh; when a son gives to his father, both cry” – Shakespeare
Men and women communicate very differently. Coach Nick and the Dudes of Disruption examine how this difference in communication is most illuminated than in the relationship between fathers and sons.
Why is that men show affection towards their daughters differently than their sons? Why do sons show a different type of emotion towards their moms in...
2017-06-2954 minDudes of DisruptionEpisode 90: “Win/Win”<img src="https://assets.podomatic.net/ts/bb/a6/bf/tommy-spero/3000x3000_11808827.jpg" alt="itunes pic" /><br />Our culture is obsessed with winning at everything. Often the winning comes with a large cost including separation and even polarization. It translates from politics to sports to the corporate world. Everyday business conversation is consumed with the vocabulary of the locker room and battlefield. The obsession to win at all costs turns the conversation into dominating the opposition, destroying the competitor and even extinguishing an opponent.
Coach Nick & Dudes of Disruption along with...
2017-02-1449 minDudes of DisruptionEpisode 89: “Disrupting Fear”<img src="https://assets.podomatic.net/ts/bb/a6/bf/tommy-spero/3000x3000_11808827.jpg" alt="itunes pic" /><br />Coach Nick & Dudes of Disruption along with guests Jake Fishbein & Kerry Cannava Turner explore the role that fear plays in creating division, chaos and separation in both our lives and in politics. Helen Keller once said, “Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much” So, how can we overcome fear and begin to come together?
In this episode, the show takes on the topic of fear and how we...
2017-02-0654 minDudes of DisruptionElection 2016 Is Complete: What Now - From Fear to Inspiration<img src="https://assets.podomatic.net/ts/bb/a6/bf/tommy-spero/3000x3000_11793622.jpg" alt="itunes pic" /><br />Coach Nick & Dudes of Disruption along with guests Jake Fishbein & Christen Bavero explore how we can take all this passion and energy that we see in the streets, on social media and in our daily conversations to disrupt fear in order to live purposefully where everyone feels taken care of and safe. The conversation discusses how to move from fear to a win/win mindset so we transform everyone to a place that...
2016-11-1457 min