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Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Leaving “Charming”: Finding Peace With the Life I Didn’t ExpectWe all have stories we tell ourselves about who our kids will become, how our relationships will unfold, and what life is supposed to look like. But what happens when reality tears those stories apart?In this week’s episode of Hi Pod! I’m Dad, James Guttman shares a raw, honest reflection on the life he never expected. From a divorce during the pandemic to parenting a nonverbal son with autism, James opens up about the imagined futures he had to grieve and the unexpected beauty he found in letting them go.▶️ Watch the full epi...
2025-07-1814 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.When They Stop Being Babies: A Father’s Journey Between Two WorldsJames Guttman reflects on the emotional milestones of parenting a neurotypical teenager and a nonverbal son with autism. In this week’s heartfelt episode, he shares how Olivia has grown from the little girl who monopolized his time after school into a self-sufficient 17-year-old — and how their bond has evolved along the way.At the same time, James discusses the equally powerful connection he shares with Lucas, built on unspoken cues and trust. With honesty, humor, and vulnerability, he explores:How his blog shifted focus as Olivia requested privacyThe unique but equal importance of both of his...
2025-07-1120 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.What My Non-Verbal Son Taught Me About Love, Toys, and Letting GoWatch This Episode on YouTube - https://youtu.be/ad4q7DE2SlEJames Guttman shares a deeply personal look at the evolution of his parenting journey with Lucas, his 14-year-old son with severe autism. From the emotional tug-of-war over age-appropriate toys to unexpected moments of connection in thrift stores and living rooms, James explores how he learned to stop correcting his son’s play and instead joined him in it.This episode dives into the beauty of authenticity, the pressure of societal expectations, and the unspoken bond between a father and son. Ja...
2025-07-0421 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.Appreciating Autism Changed How I See EverythingWatch This Episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/5tgNT1CIUw4What does it really mean to appreciate autism - not just accept it? In this personal episode, James Guttman reflects on how his non-verbal son Lucas has reshaped his perspective and brought unexpected joy into their lives.Through emotional honesty and candid moments, James shares how their bond has grown through trust, gestures, and a shared understanding that goes far beyond words.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, d...
2025-06-2713 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.Learning to Love Autism - One Heartbeat at a TimeIn this special episode, James Guttman celebrates the release of his new book Hi World, I'm Dad and officially launches the video version of his podcast - available here on YouTube. He opens up about autism appreciation, what it truly means to love without conditions, and how his son Lucas, who is non-verbal with autism, has shaped his understanding of life, connection, and purpose. From surviving a heart attack and quintuple bypass to embracing his son’s unfiltered authenticity, James shares the powerful moments that led to his most personal work yet.Catch new blogs every Monday an...
2025-06-2017 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.Why Holidays Are Sometimes Hard For Special Needs ParentsJames Guttman has happy holidays now with his non-verbal son and loved ones, but there was a time when they weren't so merry. James talks about why celebrations were difficult when his son was first diagnosed with autism and how he's learned to make the perfect Christmas.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also, be sure to read the blog that started it all - Hi Blog! I...
2024-12-2019 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.A Stranger's Kindness To Our Special Needs FamilyJames Guttman talks about a stranger's kind gesture towards him, his girlfriend, and their special needs children last week. James speaks about how he, like Lauren, takes care to make sure his non-verbal son is a positive part of the community, and why it's important to have good like-minded people around you.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also, be sure to read the blog that started...
2024-11-0819 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.Taking A Wrong Turn Down Sesame StreetJames Guttman and Lucas are back. James talks about his epiphany when taking his non-verbal 13 year old to Sesame Street Live.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also, be sure to read the blog that started it all - Hi Blog! I'm Dad.
2024-05-1014 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.When I Tell My Son "No"The kids are home from school and James Guttman is tired. James talks about his non-verbals son's stubborn moments, similar to a neurotypical kid, and how "no" has to have meaning to deal with that - even when it makes James's life (and sleep schedule) more difficult.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also, be sure to read the blog that started it all - Hi Blog! I...
2024-04-2620 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.My Non-Verbal Son Won't Let Me Be UnhappyJames Guttman had a rough start to the week, but his kids came back and it all turned around. James speaks on Autism Appreciation and how his non-verbal son pulls him back from overthinking.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also, be sure to read the blog that started it all - Hi Blog! I'm Dad.
2024-04-1910 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.My Son's Unspoken Party MilestoneJames Guttman is having a great week and it started with his non-verbal son's wonderful behavior at a friend's birthday party. James looks at why that is, how it happened, and lessons learned for everyone.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also, be sure to read the blog that started it all - Hi Blog! I'm Dad.
2024-02-1614 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.Involving My Non-Verbal Son In ChristmasDoes James Guttman's son with autism understand Christmas? Santa? Presents? Reindeer? Maybe. But even if he doesn't, he's a part of it anyway. James looks at why that is and the road that brought us here in the last edition of Hi Pod for 2023.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also, be sure to read the blog that started it all - Hi Blog! I'm Dad.
2023-12-2213 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.Autism Experts Who Know Nothing About AutismJames Guttman talks about seeing the Broadway musical, "How To Dance In Ohio" and how real the subject matter was. James also mentions how those with the most to say about children like his non-verbal son know the least about it.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also, be sure to read the blog that started it all - Hi Blog! I'm Dad.
2023-12-0817 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.Guilt & ShameJames Guttman looks at the strange ways in which guilt and shame enter the mind of a new special needs parent...and not in the ways you might think. James looks at how it is important to be honest about that time, despite how much things may have changed since his non-verbal child with autism was a baby.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also, be sure to...
2023-07-2113 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.My Unspoken Fears As A Special Needs ParentPeople are aware of some of James Guttman's worries as a father to a non-verbal boy. James addresses the worries and fears that are rarely spoken of, but vastly outweigh communication concerns.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also, be sure to read the blog that started it all - Hi Blog! I'm Dad.
2023-07-1412 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.A Special Graduation For My Special BoyJames Guttman's non-verbal son has just graduated elementary school. James looks at the stark contrast between this ceremony and the debacle that was is preschool one. #AutismAppreciationIt's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also, be sure to read the blog that started it all - Hi Blog! I'm Dad.
2023-06-2215 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.Self-Deprecating Silver LiningsJames Guttman doesn't include hidden references to people in his blogs...kind of. James talks about learning from mistakes, the repeating patterns of his life, how they don't affect his work as an autism advocate for his son or father for his daughter, and why it's all much healthier than it seems.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also, be sure to read the blog that started...
2023-05-1913 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.Sometimes I'm Chill, Sometimes I'm NotAudio Fixed: Last week, James Guttman wasn't feeling it. This week, James Guttman returns to talk about the times he wasn't feeling it. From the near fight with the garbage tattler to a high school kid at lunch, JG recounts tales from the temper.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also, be sure to read the blog that started it all - Hi Blog! I'm Dad.
2022-11-2518 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.My Old Neighbor Thinks The Divorce House Is CursedIn a new shorter and experimental format, James Guttman speaks out in this Fun Size episode on his former neighbor, who isn't one to gossip, and the thing she said that doomed the Divorce House. James looks at what we don't know about what happens behind the closed doors of others.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also, be sure to read the blog that started it all...
2022-05-2713 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Lindenhurst, New York: My HometownThis week's podcast is green and white with Lindy Pride as James Guttman talks about Lindenhurst, New York, the town he grew up in. James looks at hometown pride and how it grows the most once you're gone. Plus, talk of the Lindy Docks, Babylon Town House Diner, Lindy Movie Theater/Boat Store/CVS, and more. Also, making sure his non-verbal son with autism lives his best life.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTo...
2022-05-2022 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad."Getting Closure" Is A ScamGoing back to a toxic person to hash it out one last time post-relationship? How'd that work out for ya? James Guttman looks at the scam of "getting closure", why you wouldn't need it if the person was capable of it, and how it can stick you in a loop forever. Plus, blaming yourself when your child has special needs...or disabilities? Challenges? James also talks about the difficulty of finding a word that's appropriate when describing how autism manifests itself for his non-verbal child.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Jo...
2022-05-0621 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.A Special Christmas Christmas SpecialJames Guttman has the Christmas Spirit for, perhaps, the first time ever. James looks at this year's autism-inclusive event, past battles with bipolar and seasonal depression, the disastrous 2019 Christmas, JG's big changes this past year, being grateful for new people in his life, and more. Plus, this week's posts on HiBlogImDad.com and discovering Christmas Lights.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also, be sure to read the...
2021-12-2424 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Talking About Mental Health, Being Bipolar, And The HolidaysJames Guttman has just put up his tree and, in his first post-divorce Christmas, is learning about the holiday spirit. James talks frankly about being bipolar, triggers, signs when he was younger, and more. Plus, giving his non-verbal son with autism a chance to just be a kid, decorating for the holidays, and 143 (aw).Preorder James Guttman’s new book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation”Follow Us On Facebook and Follow James Guttman on Instagram. Also, be sure to read the blog that started it...
2021-12-0330 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Find Your PeopleJames Guttman is thankful even on the final Friday of November for finding his people but offers a cautionary look at how those people can be hard to spot after a lifetime of others. Including the recent reminder he had of how far he's come, the big evolutionary year, rewatching his son with autism's baby videos, 90s nostalgia, and the infamous 1994 story of when James met Joey Buttafuoco. It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok...
2021-11-2636 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.How To Break The Cycle Of AbuseJames Guttman talks about his blog post, "The Year Santa Gave Me Coal For Christmas", and why he felt it was time to speak out, how there are stories far worse than that from his childhood, and the realization he had to come to in order to not repeat the cycle of abuse with his own children. Also, watered-down orange juice for his non-verbal son, dated Mr. Belvedere references, and the time James helped a parrot save the day.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Ap...
2021-11-1937 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.The Mega-Noveaster SpecialHappy Noveaster! James Guttman explains the annual tradition in his home for those who aren't familiar, what gross food they ate this year, how it started, and why he offered to call it off in 2021. Plus, dealing with an autism diagnosis, the Autism Speaks walk that changed everything for James's family, the mega kid, an impromptu Pete Davidson impression, old Big Brother contestants, and more.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook...
2021-11-1232 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Today, I Am Raffi's FatherIt might not be Halloween, but James Guttman's son, Lucas, is all dressed up in his Raffi costume. James discusses the love his non-verbal son has for Raffi's music, the concert they attended, James's word-for-word memorization of Raffi's 1984 concert in Canada, and more. Plus, misconceptions about special needs families, helping his son learn new things, the wonderful person his daughter recently compared him to (in a terrible way), and much more. Remember, you can now listen to this podcast everywhere including directly on Facebook at - https://www.facebook.com/HiPodImDadIt's Here! Get the book – “Hi Worl...
2021-10-2932 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.Middle Age, Middle SchoolJames Guttman takes you to back to school night and how his first time attending his daughter's middle school tour brought with it epiphanies about education, adulthood, and the inspiration those seven minute speedy introductions brought. Plus, celebrating his new achievements, raising a great special needs sibling, and an unforgettable moment from his childhood...that James wasn't even a part of.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also...
2021-09-2435 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.North Korea, South Korea, Marilyn MonroeJames Guttman repeats weird things in his head and sometimes out loud. You do too. James looks at how similar that is to the way his non-verbal son might call out based on impulse, tantrums, chores, and a Moment of Sanity that happened today.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also, be sure to read the blog that started it all - Hi Blog! I'm Dad.
2021-09-0331 minHi Pod! I'm Dad.PECs, Hand Lickers, and My Kids' Hot DadJames Guttman returns with a look at annoying his children, his non-verbal son's evolving social skills, people who let their kids be weird, adults who expect you to correct behavior that you shouldn't correct, and why horror movies don't let 40 year old men play the hero. Momet of Sanity, Word & Phrases, and More - Tell James your thoughts at: HiBlogImDad.com/ContactMentioned HiBlogImDad.com Posts: THE CLEVER WAYS I ANNOY MY CHILDREN, EVERY GOOD BOY DESERVES FUN, THE WAYS MY KID MESSES WITH MEIt's Here! Get the book – “Hi World...
2021-08-0631 minHi Pod! I'm Dad."With Autism" vs. "Autistic", New Segments, & Returning FavoritesJames Guttman is evolving Hi Pod! with a brand new segment, the return of a favorite, and a ton of topics including his place in Autism Acceptance for others, not being so ready to be offended, those who are, rude comments from people, genuine misunderstanding from others, and the day he decided to just "let them look." Tell James your thoughts at: HiBlogImDad.com/ContactMentioned HiBlogImDad.com Posts: Let Them Look, Handling People Who Know Nothing About Autism, The Boy In My Son's WindowIt's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fat...
2021-07-3035 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Hi Pod! I'm Bipolar.For the first time, James Guttman speaks out about being Bipolar-1 following Wednesday's blog post. Including how it has affected him, how it flies in the face of preconceived notions, and more. Plus, a look at Monday's blog about worrying for a special needs child and how that can manifest itself in productive ways.Preorder James Guttman’s new book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation”Follow Us On Facebook and Follow James Guttman on Instagram. Also, be sure to read the blog that started it a...
2021-06-1128 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.How I Overcame Childhood Abuse To Break The CycleJames Guttman opens up in a podcast unlike any other he has done, looking at his own childhood and how he managed to avoid the abusive cycle he saw from others. James talks about the methods he used to see the world differently and how others in his position don't have to be like the people that may have hurt them. Plus, his evolving life and a very open week on HiBlogImDad.comIt's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.
2021-04-2332 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.I Have COVIDSome people got hammered on St. Patrick's Day. James Guttman got COVID.Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/James Guttman on The Richest: https://www.therichest.com/author/james-guttman/Order James's Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMaFollow James Guttman on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HiPodImDad...
2021-03-1923 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Weird Childhood MomentsJames Guttman talks insane childhood interactions retained within his brain including jokes that made no sense, Luchiese The Boy Wonder, and Bill Walker (go tell your father).Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/James Guttman on The Richest: https://www.therichest.com/author/james-guttman/Order James's Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMaFollow James Guttman on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttman...
2021-03-1223 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Sit At The Head Of The TableJames Guttman is making things happen and telling his daughter she can too. JG looks at his new position as content editor for TheRichest.com, how it came about, and the piece of advice he was told as a kid that held him back for decades. Plus, coping with good news in a positive way and more.Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/James Guttman on The Richest: https://www.therichest.com/author/james-guttman/Order...
2021-03-0526 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Handicap Parking & Energy Drink MorningsAfter a morning that sadly didn't include coffee, James Guttman gives details on the realities of handicap parking, what made him realize he needed it for his son, why it's not what people think, and the heartbreaking drop-off at school because of it. Plus, a bonehead story left out of this week's blog about how easy it is to accidentally screw your kids up.Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/James Guttman on The Richest: https://www.therichest.com...
2021-02-2625 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.When My Kids Aren't HereLucas is the unofficial non-verbal co-host as James Guttman looks at how divorce has affected his sleeping pattern, time with the kids, and why some stories seem sad, when they're not...but kind of still are.Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/James Guttman on The Richest: https://www.therichest.com/author/james-guttman/Order James's Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMaFollow James...
2021-02-1927 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Saying Things Out Loud That Scare YouWith Lucas yelling in the background, James Guttman explains how much better life is when you can finally admit to certain things including his son's autism, stories of his upbringing, his insane heart surgery fallout, the cablevision bird man, and more. Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/The Video of James and Lucas: https://www.facebook.com/HiBlogImDad/posts/4140610302629194Order James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https://amzn.to/3...
2021-02-1319 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Open and HonestJames Guttman continues his unfiltered week with a podcast that is both open and honest about his estranged relationship with his family, the catalyst to his heart attack, and finally betting on himself at 43 years old.Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/Order James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMaFollow James Guttman on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook: https...
2021-02-0625 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.You're The Villain In Someone Else's StoryWhen the Joker tells his tale, Batman is a jerk. James Guttman looks at accepting the fact that we all are portrayed in different ways when different stories are told by different people.Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/Order James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMaFollow James Guttman on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com...
2021-01-2929 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Finally Telling My StoryJames Guttman on two things that he has never discussed before - his estrangement from his family following heart surgery and his upcoming divorce. He looks at the parallels of his life and the reason why no one should ever tell you that you can't tell others your own story.Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/Order James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMaFollow James Guttman on T...
2021-01-2236 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Hidden AnxietyAnxiety isn't just stress just like depression isn't just sadness. James Guttman looks at how his own anxious feelings manifest themselves in the absence of stress and how it has evolved through the years.Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/Order James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMaFollow James Guttman on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook...
2021-01-1534 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Are You Happy?Are you happy? It's not a trick question. James Guttman looks at a sentence that can require a lot more thinking than it should and how, as the years go by, he's learning how to truly be happy.Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/Order James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMaFollow James Guttman on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook:
2021-01-0823 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.New Year's EvolutionsIt's officially 2021 and James Guttman is recording this episode on New Year's Day. JG looks at resolutions, evolutions, and why exactly the new year brings new hope. Plus why sometimes charting a new path in the new year works and why sometimes it doesn't.Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/The Monkey Video: https://www.instagram.com/p/CJWEia3hqZ5/Order James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: ...
2021-01-0127 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Merry Christmas, Archibald!Merry Christmas, 2020! James Guttman looks at a holiday season that definitely had more ups than downs including his Elf on a Shelf disaster, the annual tradition of Sadder Claus fighting his daughter, and the story of Archibald, Reginald, and Captain Crazy Pants!Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/5th Annual Sadder Claus Christmas Eve Battle: https://www.instagram.com/p/CJM7DhEB7IG/Order James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" H...
2020-12-2522 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Don't Let Them See You Fake ItBad day? James Guttman has those. Had one yesterday morning, but it stayed there. James looks at the awful advice to "not let them see that they got to you" and why, if it's not real, it's not helpful. How to stay genuinely positive in the face of adversity and why an extended bout of anger or a false smile doesn't help you in the long-run.Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/Order James's New Book - "The...
2020-12-1835 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Struggling With Seasonal DepressionBrutally honest, this week's episode has James Guttman talking about his personal struggles with depression, both seasonal and otherwise, and how he's learned to get ahead of it. From the tale of his December quintuple bypass that changed his life to the memories the holidays bring up to last year's disastrous Christmas, James bears his soul to talk about something he feels many others can relate to, but few talk about.Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/(Mentioned In The Episode...
2020-12-1142 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Finding Light In A COVID TunnelJames Guttman on the mandates surrounding COVID-19, understanding both sides of the argument, how those in power aren't helping, and the desire to make it through even when it seems there's nothing there to make it through to.Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/Order James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMaRead JG on BabyGaga.com: https://www.babygaga.com/author/james-guttman/
2020-11-2729 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.The Things We Say To KidsWhat we say to kids stays with them forever. James Guttman offers stories of crazy teachers from his childhood including the gym teacher who beat up a 6th grader and how the things adults say can have long lasting effects on any child.Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/Order James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMaRead JG on BabyGaga.com: https://www.babygaga.com...
2020-11-2030 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.And Then You WinHappy Noveaster! James Guttman is back to talk about this year's fifth annual celebration in his house, plus a look at how you - yeah you - may not be able to do anything, but you can do whatever you believe yourself capable of. With personal stories about how the world will try to knock you down for good, but can't unless you let it.Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/Order James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" H...
2020-11-1346 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.How To Spot Toxic PeopleDo you have toxic people in your world? James Guttman has been around them his whole life and tells you the warning signs to discover who they are, what they do, and how to move forward without letting them spin you back around.Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/Order James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMaRead JG on BabyGaga.com: https://www.babygaga.com...
2020-11-0634 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Don't Forget The Autism DadsSocial media may tell you to "keep going, mama", but dads are doing their part too. James Guttman is one of them and he talks about the annoyance of reading memes about fathers not doing their part. He gives examples, stories, and insight into why we should expect more from fathers and not make them feel unwanted in a community that needs them. Plus, a look at the term "autism parent" and why he doesn't use the word "autistic" to describe his son (but doesn't have an issue if someone else does).Read The Blog That...
2020-10-2334 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Stress, Karma, and HeartJames Guttman is having a rare week and, if his blog posts haven't told you, then he will himself. JG's raw grasp of sanity is explained in detail dating back to his surprise quintuple bypass, coming to grips with his son's autism, trying to squash anxiety, and thoughts about karma not existing at all. Unfiltered. That's a good word for it.Read The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/Order James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https...
2020-10-1643 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Somewhere In The MiddleEveryone is busy picking sides and James Guttman, author of The Expectant Father's Activity Book, explains how arguing keeps us all divided while discussions can help find a happy medium. He then looks at the new idea of "losing it in front of your kids" is the perfect example of why that thinking is flawed. Plus, JG's newest venture as writer and breaking news analyst for BabyGaga!Order James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMaFollow James G...
2020-10-0932 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Picture Day On The SpectrumJames Guttman, author of The Expectant Father's Activity Book, looks at the plight of picture-taking when your child has autism. Including photo shoots for his non-verbal son, professional "autism-friendly" photographers who weren't, candid shots, class pictures, and the way his boy has done his part to make his picture-loving dad happy. Plus, as is up on Instagram, JG's kids - the DVD series.Order James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMaFollow James Guttman on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttman
2020-10-0225 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.5 Major Tips For New DadsJames Guttman, author of The Expectant Father's Activity Book, presents five vital, but overlooked tips that any new dad should take notes on. Plus, this week's blog posts, and all the insanity that comes from raising a non-verbal nine year old son with autism and a nonstop verbal preteen daughter with attitude.Order James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMaFollow James Guttman on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com...
2020-09-2535 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Those Who Support Us, Those Who Don'tAs James Guttman prepares for the release of his new book this Tuesday, he talks openly about issues he has with celebrating his own achievements. While looking back at some of the struggles releasing his first titles in an industry that eats its own, JG speaks about the overwhelming support from some, the stinging lack of support from others, and why learning to love yourself is the key to it all.Preorder James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMaFollow James Guttman on...
2020-09-1838 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Horror Stories From Music TogetherPrepare to cringe as James Guttman looks back at his time at the Music Together "Mommy and Me" program with his son, Lucas, whose special needs were first becoming apparent. How apparent? He laid down on a baby. What? Yeah. You need to hear this.Preorder James's New Book - "The Expectant Father's Activity Book" Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMaFollow James Guttman on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HiPodImDadRead The Blog That Inspires It All...
2020-09-1132 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Take Your Victory LapHaving a rough day? James Guttman can relate and this is the episode for you. James doesn’t sugar-coat his own struggles. He also talks why he stays brutally honest when telling the story of his non-verbal son with autism, bloggers who veer too far in positive/negative directions, and learning how to be proud of himself. Preorder James's New Book Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMaFollow James Guttman on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HiPodImDadRead The Bl...
2020-09-0436 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Announcing The Expectant Father's Activity Book! (Now Available For Preorder)After long last, James Guttman can finally announce that his new book, The Expectant Father's Activity Book, is available for preorder on Amazon (https://amzn.to/3klOWMa) and wherever books are sold. JG goes through the process of writing it, how it stands out from other titles, and tons more in a podcast months in the making. Plus, how he tamed his non-verbal Lord of the Living Room on Monday, vowing to not let the summer/lockdown blues keep his child with autism cooped up inside.Preorder James's New Book Here: https://amzn.to/3klOWMa
2020-08-2827 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Knowing What My Special Needs Child Is Capable OfWith a big announcement just days away, James Guttman looks at the high price we pay for not spoiling our children, what he's learned about dealing with his non-verbal son's silent protests in public places, and more. Plus the story of a special needs father whose interaction with his daughter in the lobby of a preschool taught him how to deal with his own son years later. Send questions/comments/stories to: Words@HiPodImDad.comFollow James Guttman on Twitter and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.co...
2020-08-2128 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Ugh...These KidsJames Guttman is tired - a two and a half second tired, at that - and his kids are to blame. Channeling Bernie Mack, JG explains it all. Plus, a look at how he still can't stop himself from being the embarrassing dad to his twelve year old daughter and the beautiful gentle nature that autism has given his non-verbal son...and how so many in the world can't even fathom it.Send questions/comments/stories to: Words@HiPodImDad.comFollow James Guttman on Twitter and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook:
2020-08-1427 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Love The Things Your Kids LoveJames Guttman watches plenty of shows below his age range, but his kids appreciate every minute. JG talks about the importance of loving the activities, events, and programs that your kids do from Liv and Maddie to Big Brother and how The Brady Bunch taught him the life lesson that made it happen. Plus, how this point of view extends to his son with Autism too.Send questions/comments/stories to: Words@HiPodImDad.comFollow James Guttman on Twitter and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com...
2020-08-0729 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.A Toast To Our HatersYou may have done good things for others and still had people burn you for it. The trick is to not let it change or destroy you. James Guttman is committed to that, but, man, is it ever hard sometimes. So for those who have betrayed, attacked, trolled, and hurt us, and for those who have chosen sides against us before knowing if there even was a side, this is for you. Send questions/comments/stories to: Words@HiPodImDad.comFollow James Guttman on Twitter and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook:
2020-07-3130 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Teaching My Special Needs Son Anything And EverythingJames Guttman discusses all the things he has helped his non-verbal child with autism learn including things he never thought possible. Plus, talking about concern over masks in a Covid world for a child with sensory issues, mental health breaks, and more.Send questions/comments/stories to: Words@HiPodImDad.comFollow James Guttman on Twitter and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HiPodImDadFollow The Blog That Inspires It All - Hi Blog! I'm Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/
2020-07-2430 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.The Bond Between My Son With Autism And My Daughter WithoutThe bonds between a brother and sister go beyond words or spectrums. James Guttman looks at the relationship between his neurotypical daughter and his non-verbal son including what he, as a father, does to help those bonds grow, stories of protection, and the similarities that are hard-wired into their DNA. Plus, sending his special needs child back to school after lockdown, brawling with your kids, and more.Send questions/comments/stories to: Words@HiPodImDad.comFollow James Guttman on Twitter and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook...
2020-07-1030 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Life Outside The Autism BubbleJames Guttman looks at why it's important to remember his life before having a child with Autism and not erasing his days of ignorance about it. His non-verbal son, to some, might be their only exposure to Autism and James works to give them the best possible example while remembering that they could represent an entire community.Send questions/comments/stories to: Words@HiPodImDad.comFollow James Guttman on Twitter and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HiPodImDadLike HiBlogImDad.com on...
2020-07-0330 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.How I Eliminated Stress From My LifeJames Guttman looks at how a sudden heart surgery changed a lifetime of stress. How things ranging from having a non-verbal child to frantic bosses seem like they would knock him back, but they don't. Including childhood stories, reasons, and tips. Rate, review, like, and subscribe, Poodle Noodle. Send questions/comments/stories to: Words@HiPodImDad.comFollow James Guttman on Twitter and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HiPodImDadLike HiBlogImDad.com on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HiBlogImDad/
2020-06-2632 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Things People Say To Autism ParentsSometimes it's not what someone says but how and when they say it. James Guttman looks at comments and questions he's heard about his non-verbal child with autism that can stir up some pretty deep emotions, often unintentionally. Send questions/comments/stories to: Words@HiPodImDad.comFollow James Guttman on Twitter and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HiPodImDadLike HiBlogImDad.com on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HiBlogImDad/It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad...
2020-06-1944 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.An Open Talk Between Two Autism ParentsThis week, James Guttman welcomes the mother of one of his son’s oldest friends, Lauren Dean, to talk about the unique similarities of raising a child on the spectrum. James and Lauren discuss how Lucas and Christian have grown up together and reached heights they never thought possible. Also, discussion includes distance learning challenges, food/eating issues, personal quirks, listener questions, and more. Send questions/comments/stories to: Words@HiPodImDad.comFollow James Guttman on Twitter and Instagram: @HiJamesGuttmanLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HiPodImDad
2020-06-1250 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Fighting For My Special Needs Child's EducationIn what might be one of the most controversial and pointed shows to date, James Guttman looks at the protests and the response people have had to them, how he explains what is happening to his daughter, thoughts on Black Lives Matter, thoughts on good cops vs. bad cops, and more. Also, the battle over his son's summer services and anger with New York deeming liquor stores and summer camps essential, but his son's right to an education falling through the cracks. With the podcast on the verge of some big changes, this is one that you don't want...
2020-06-0543 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.But, They're Our Babies...Life is returning to normal and James Guttman looks at his first post coronavirus Target run and the toll that cancelled summer school in New York will take on his non-verbal son. Plus, his daughter's first year of middle school being cut short, the clubs James loved that his daughter wouldn't hear of, and more. Then, it's a look at online bullying and torment, the role that Hana Kimura's passing played in the writing of one of his blog posts, and gross stories from parenting young children in an always-evolving, jam-packed show.- Like Hi...
2020-05-2954 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Birthday Parade!With his daughter's birthday around the corner, James Guttman looks at the influx of birthday parades during the coronavirus pandemic - the good, the bad, and the annoying. Plus, the yearly tradition he does each year for her birthday, the woes of being a kid with a summer birthday, and more. Also, JG goes in-depth on his blogs from the week about mental illness, the stigma that surrounds it, the surprising place where he first realized how misunderstood it often is, and what we should all do to support each other. Plus, how to teach a non-verbal child with...
2020-05-2236 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Good GriefJames Guttman taught his daughter an important life lesson this week...through socks. Now, JG explains how his partnership with DivvyUp custom socks allowed him to keep the memory of his cat, Buddy, alive for his 11 year old. He looks at grief as a whole, why ignoring the pain only pushes it forward, and all the things he's picked up from loss through the years. Plus, the tales of his non-verbal son's incredibly loud wake-up calls, going nuts in quarantine, the return of his Starbucks, a pool party his son attended, and why his daughter refused to...
2020-05-1541 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Serving The HeroesThis week, James Guttman tackles celebrity culture and how we don't know the people on television like we think we do. Featuring a Moment of Sanity intro from Nickie Weisensee Egan of the Chasing Cosby Podcast and book, James speaks about how that podcast changed his entire view of the Bill Cosby trial, Cosby as a person, and why #MeToo should transcend gender in its supporters. Plus, James offers a story of a wrestler he interacted with who was nothing like people expected. Also, a look at school closing during the coronavirus lockdown, how it has potential to severely...
2020-05-0845 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.I Can't Take These Kids AnywhereIt's literal now, but it's always been true. James Guttman can't take these kids anywhere. With his daughter, Olivia, joining him for a Moment of Sanity looking at ridiculous restaurant antics, Tik Tok challenges, Jelly Fruits, and the $30 12-pack of apple juice you bite because it sounds like an apple (what?!), it's a view of life as the dad to a daughter who's eleven going on terrifying. Plus, why smiling at strangers doesn't have the same impact during a pandemic, public views on children with nonverbal autism, and a restaurateur giving back to the community during Covid-19....
2020-05-0142 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Bully For YouHi Pod! It's James Guttman looking at raising kids and wearing masks. After speaking about the support he has received following the pet episode, James talks at how his daughter has handled grief like a champ. Then, JG takes a look at his non-verbal son's propensity for eating, how he uses that to increase communication, the perils of handling disobedience as an autism parent, and why certain things have to be done differently. From there, following a Moment of Sanity from a fraternity brother wise beyond his years, he turns to bullying, the class he took about it, and...
2020-04-2441 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.The Pet EpisodeFollowing the loss of his cat, Buddy, after 15 years, James Guttman talks about the importance of pets in our lives, how past grief doesn't soften the blow of losing a long time pet, stories of getting Buddy, how Tipsy (his other cat) immediately protected him, stories of how his pets behaved in ways that he never expected, and more. Plus, talk of raising a daughter, why "losing your baby" isn't really a loss, the ways Autism Awareness affects his family, and other topics. - Like Hi Pod! I'm Dad on Facebook: https://www.facebook.c...
2020-04-1737 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Trampolines, Quarantines, and Wrestling TeesJames Guttman is wearing his leather Dexter gloves and a homemade facemask for another week behind locked Covid-19 doors. James looks at how the extended social distance has affected us all including his kids. Plus, his thoughts on Autism Appreciation for his son Lucas, how autism (and far more) make him a wonderful person, stories of the first time they bonded in Lucas's world, and more. Finally, it's a Moment of Sanity intro from the a special education teacher who happens to be the daughter of wrestling's greatest announcer...EVER followed by stories of James bringing his daughter to...
2020-04-1038 min
Hi Pod! I'm Dad.Appreciating Autism, Our Reality, and Each OtherDon’t hate, appreciate. James Guttman is here with a packed edition of Hi Pod looking at Autism Awareness Month, why he says “person with autism” rather than “autistic”, the importance of not building walls around loved ones with autism, what “autism awareness” was like in the 1980s, the Twilight Zone episode that proves autism isn’t new, what Jake The Snake vs. Rick Rude taught him about defending his family’s honor, and more. Plus, appreciation for what we’re all going through right now, those who divide the world up into groups, how insane that it is at a time like this...
2020-04-0358 min