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StepDad SuccessEP130: Deric Keller – Dropping The Ego Produces Surprising Results2017-12-0443 minStepDad SuccessEP129: Yes No Maybe – Get Off The Fence and Out of Chaos2017-12-0306 minStepDad SuccessEP128: Porn Addiction – Overcoming it and talking to your kids about porn with Robert Gardner2017-12-011h 02StepDad SuccessEP125: Warrior Week 42 – Return And Report on my experience of Warrior Week
BECOME A 4 DIMENSIONAL MAN - APPLY TODAY
Discover The ART & SCIENCE Behind Accessing your Best BODY, a Booming
Business and Balanced Relationships...While Living The Life You WANT!
LIMITED PLACES AVAILABLE - SELLING OUT FAST - APPLY TODAY2017-11-2911 minStepDad SuccessEP124: Warrior Week Day 16 – Asking For Forgiveness or Permission
BECOME A 4 DIMENSIONAL MAN - APPLY TODAY
Discover The ART & SCIENCE Behind Accessing your Best BODY, a Booming
Business and Balanced Relationships...While Living The Life You WANT!
LIMITED PLACES AVAILABLE - SELLING OUT FAST - APPLY TODAY2017-11-2810 minStepDad SuccessEP123: Warrior Week Day 15 – My Heart, My Guide
BECOME A 4 DIMENSIONAL MAN - APPLY TODAY
Discover The ART & SCIENCE Behind Accessing your Best BODY, a Booming
Business and Balanced Relationships...While Living The Life You WANT!
LIMITED PLACES AVAILABLE - SELLING OUT FAST - APPLY TODAY2017-11-2710 minStepDad SuccessEP122: Warrior Week Day 14 – Your Biggest Lies Are Killing You
BECOME A 4 DIMENSIONAL MAN - APPLY TODAY
Discover The ART & SCIENCE Behind Accessing your Best BODY, a Booming
Business and Balanced Relationships...While Living The Life You WANT!
LIMITED PLACES AVAILABLE - SELLING OUT FAST - APPLY TODAY2017-11-2606 minStepDad SuccessEP121: Warrior Week Day 13 – Real, Raw, Relevant, Results – Liar Liar
BECOME A 4 DIMENSIONAL MAN - APPLY TODAY
Discover The ART & SCIENCE Behind Accessing your Best BODY, a Booming
Business and Balanced Relationships...While Living The Life You WANT!
LIMITED PLACES AVAILABLE - SELLING OUT FAST - APPLY TODAY2017-11-2407 minStepDad SuccessEP118: Warrior Week Day 12 – Reasons, Excuses and Maybe’s, Fuck YOU
BECOME A 4 DIMENSIONAL MAN - APPLY TODAY
Discover The ART & SCIENCE Behind Accessing your Best BODY, a Booming
Business and Balanced Relationships...While Living The Life You WANT!
LIMITED PLACES AVAILABLE - SELLING OUT FAST - APPLY TODAY2017-11-2207 minStepDad SuccessEP117: Warrior Week Day 11 – Wants, Desires and Why Does It Matter
BECOME A 4 DIMENSIONAL MAN - APPLY TODAY
Discover The ART & SCIENCE Behind Accessing your Best BODY, a Booming
Business and Balanced Relationships...While Living The Life You WANT!
LIMITED PLACES AVAILABLE - SELLING OUT FAST - APPLY TODAY2017-11-2106 minStepDad SuccessEP116: Warrior Week Day 10 – You Are Not Alone In Your Pain
BECOME A 4 DIMENSIONAL MAN - APPLY TODAY
Discover The ART & SCIENCE Behind Accessing your Best BODY, a Booming
Business and Balanced Relationships...While Living The Life You WANT!
LIMITED PLACES AVAILABLE - SELLING OUT FAST - APPLY TODAY2017-11-2006 minStepDad SuccessEP115: Warrior Week Day 9 – What Fantasy are you Living in
BECOME A 4 DIMENSIONAL MAN - APPLY TODAY
Discover The ART & SCIENCE Behind Accessing your Best BODY, a Booming
Business and Balanced Relationships...While Living The Life You WANT!
LIMITED PLACES AVAILABLE - SELLING OUT FAST - APPLY TODAY2017-11-1906 minStepDad SuccessEP114: Warrior Week Day 8 – What’s The Best of Your Worst
BECOME A 4 DIMENSIONAL MAN - APPLY TODAY
Discover The ART & SCIENCE Behind Accessing your Best BODY, a Booming
Business and Balanced Relationships...While Living The Life You WANT!
LIMITED PLACES AVAILABLE - SELLING OUT FAST - APPLY TODAY2017-11-1707 minStepDad SuccessEP107: Warrior Week Day 7 – What’s the Path and What are the Obstacles
BECOME A 4 DIMENSIONAL MAN - APPLY TODAY
Discover The ART & SCIENCE Behind Accessing your Best BODY, a Booming
Business and Balanced Relationships...While Living The Life You WANT!
LIMITED PLACES AVAILABLE - SELLING OUT FAST - APPLY TODAY2017-11-1506 minStepDad SuccessEP106: Warrior Week Day 6 – The Pain, the Cost and Why Change Now
BECOME A 4 DIMENSIONAL MAN - APPLY TODAY
Discover The ART & SCIENCE Behind Accessing your Best BODY, a Booming
Business and Balanced Relationships...While Living The Life You WANT!
LIMITED PLACES AVAILABLE - SELLING OUT FAST - APPLY TODAY2017-11-1407 minStepDad SuccessEP105: Warrior Week Day 5 – What’s the Possibility For You
BECOME A 4 DIMENSIONAL MAN - APPLY TODAY
Discover The ART & SCIENCE Behind Accessing your Best BODY, a Booming
Business and Balanced Relationships...While Living The Life You WANT!
LIMITED PLACES AVAILABLE - SELLING OUT FAST - APPLY TODAY2017-11-1307 minStepDad SuccessEP104: Warrior Week Day 4 – Your Real Pain Has Your Answers
It’s difficult to think about what makes you hurt inside, but this type of self-examination causes transformation. We’ll discuss how digging into your pain will help you to solve problems in your life. We’ll talk about how looking at your pain will allow you to see it clearly and understand that change needs to happen.
Finally, we’ll talk about what it means to step forward as a leader and address the things that are holding you back.
POINT #1: Ignoring Pain Will Only Make It Worse
* It is easy to tell you...2017-11-1208 minStepDad SuccessEP103: Warrior Week Day 3 – Exposing the Truth About You
If you are looking to grow, you must understand your purpose. We’ll discuss how asking yourself three foundational questions can help you clarify why growth is important to you. We’ll talk about how your ego serves as a protection mechanism and can hold you back.
Finally, we’ll talk about what it means to let go of your ego so you can experience growth.
POINT #1: Ask Foundational Questions
* To achieve maximum growth, you must understand your “why.”
* Ask yourself “what is the pain?”, “what is the cost of the pain?”, and “why does it n...2017-11-1007 minStepDad SuccessEP102: Warrior Week Day 2 – Do You Choose To DIE
Do you choose to die, or are you choosing to live? We’ll discuss how your choices impact every area of your life and determine whether you move forward (live) or stand still or move backward (die). We’ll talk about how showing up on a daily basis and choosing to live will put you on the road to having it all.
Finally, we’ll talk about what it means to step forward and take on challenges in your life.
POINT #1: You Can Choose to Live or Die
* The choices you make in your l...2017-11-0806 minStepDad SuccessEP101: Warrior Week Day 1 – Experiencing Chaos – It Lives Inside YOU
Are you experiencing chaos in your life? We’ll discuss how chaos starts in your mind and how following a plan can help you achieve results. We’ll talk about the importance of paying attention to the details when making and executing your plan.
Finally, we’ll talk about how you can reduce chaos across all areas of your life in a few simple steps.
POINT #1: The Chaos Is in Your Mind
* Everyone experiences at least occasional chaos in their life.
* You create chaos in your own mind when you don’t stop, br...2017-11-0706 minStepDad SuccessEP100: The Work Never Stops – Sweet Arse Seduction While Traveling
Are you doing the work when it comes to your relationships—even when you’re on vacation? We’ll discuss why spending one-on-one time with your partner and your kids is important whether you are at home or away. We’ll talk about how to carve out the time to connect with your loved ones individually, even during a family trip.
Finally, we’ll talk about the importance of taking your Core 4 daily actions with you when you travel.
POINT #1: No Matter Where You Are, You Always Need Balance
* If you’re living the Warrior’...2017-11-0606 minStepDad SuccessEP099: Productivity – Creating Optimal Effectivness While Traveling
Although you may view travel as a time to get away from your business responsibilities, travel can help you learn to work more efficiently. We’ll discuss how traveling effectively means working effectively. We’ll talk about how setting specific times for work will help you complete tasks more efficiently—and will allow you to enjoy the rest of your day.
Finally, we’ll talk about the benefits of scheduling time for the things that are important to you.
POINT #1: Traveling Effectively Means Working Effectively
* Travel forces you to work efficiently so you can enjo...2017-11-0507 minStepDad SuccessEP098: Josh Wells – Giving Builds Legacy
Josh Wells, a fire service worker from Sedona, Arizona who also operates Rockstar CPR, realized early in his journey as a stepdad that giving and serving are the keys to developing solid relationships with his two stepkids, his biological daughter and his wife. He’ll discuss his initial reluctance to take on the role of stepdad and the game-changing moment when he realized that he could shift his focus outward toward his family. He’ll talk about how he connects with his kids and supports them as they develop into adults.
Finally, Josh will talk about the...2017-11-0340 minStepDad SuccessEP095: Discipline – Creating Consequences That Matter
Discipline can be a touchy subject for stepdads, but it is possible to discipline effectively while remaining calm. We’ll discuss how keeping discipline standard and establishing rules in advance can help your kids understand what’s expected. We’ll talk about why disciplining your kids in the heat of the moment isn’t always the best option.
Finally, we’ll talk about how waiting until emotions settle and using agreed consequences teaches kids and prevents repeated problems.
POINT #1: Set Standards and Stick to Them
* Establishing standards for your kids and going over rules in a...2017-11-0109 minStepDad SuccessEP094: Bridging The Gap – Battling The Destruction You Cause
Have you spent enough quality time with your children lately? We’ll discuss how feeling disconnected from you can cause your children to become rowdy and what you can do to help them to calm down. We’ll talk about the benefits of scheduling daily one-on-one time with your children.
Finally, we’ll talk about how one-on-one time with your kids can help you become more open and giving while improving your listening skills.
POINT #1: Kids Need Connection
* Connection with others is a basic human need.
* If you notice that your kids are ge...2017-10-3108 minStepDad SuccessEP093: Traveling – Overcoming The Travel Blues With Kids
Many people dread traveling with kids because of all the baggage they require—but there are ways to help them travel light. We’ll discuss how you can help them understand the opportunities and possibilities for the trip by emphasizing the experiences they will have.
Finally, we’ll talk about the benefits of not cluttering your days on vacation with extra stuff from home.
POINT #1: Traveling Light is Key
* Packing well is the start of a great trip.
* Your family will get more out of the trip if they are not distracted by lot...2017-10-3007 minStepDad SuccessEP092: Fast vs Slow – Is Your Speed Killing You
If you want to finish fast, you have to start slow. We’ll discuss how mastering the basics and laying foundations will help you hit your targets. We’ll talk about how trying to hit home runs and achieve big results right away will set you back and slow you down.
Finally, we’ll talk about the importance slowing down so you can go fast later.
POINT #1: It’s OK to Start Slow
* In order to hit your targets, you need to start slow.
* Taking the time to master the basics and lay prop...2017-10-2906 minStepDad SuccessEP091: Matt Jones – Letting Go
Matt Jones, a stepdad of one and father of two, will discuss how he believes that embracing your parenting experiences can help you become a better person. He’ll discuss how he grew into his role of stepdad, learned from role models in his life and developed a relationship with his stepson.
Finally, Matt will share his thoughts on being grateful for what he has been given—even when he didn’t expect it.
POINT #1: Trying Too Hard Doesn’t Work
* As Matt adapted to his role as stepdad, he was encountering some resistan...2017-10-2752 minStepDad SuccessEP088: Resistance – It’s a Beautiful Thing Ain’t It
Are you having trouble hearing your inner voice? If so, slow down and take the time to meditate. We’ll discuss how all the chaos, confusion and information in your daily life can prevent you from hearing your inner voice. We’ll talk about how reconnecting with your inner voice can help you to understand what you want in life.
Finally, we’ll talk about the importance of pushing through resistance to achieve maximum growth.
POINT #1: Hearing Your Inner Voice is Key
* You have an inner voice that is telling you the answers to pro...2017-10-2508 minStepDad SuccessEP087: Leadership – Are You That Dominating Asshole
Are you leading your family from a domineering perspective, or are you leading by example? In every household, someone must lead the way—whether it’s you, your partner or the kids. We’ll discuss the difference between leading by example and being domineering and why it can be frustrating when other members of your family are moving slowly or aren’t yet ready for growth.
Finally, we’ll talk about the benefits of leading the way and allowing your family to follow.
POINT #1: Someone Must Lead the Way
* In every household, someone must lead...2017-10-2407 minStepDad SuccessEP086: Production – Is Comparing Yourself Killing You
Comparing yourself to others is a natural tendency that allows you to measure where you are in a specific area of your life. However, comparison does not encourage production. We’ll discuss how production comes from within as you challenge and compete against yourself.
Finally, we’ll talk about the importance of setting targets and connecting with your “why” to give you powerful motivation to produce.
POINT #1: Comparison and Competition Do Not Create Production
* It is normal to compare yourself to others to see where you are in a specific area of your life.2017-10-2309 minStepDad SuccessEP085: Kids Must Learn To Thrive – Leading The Next Generation
If you improve as a stepdad, your kids will benefit—and that’s the mission of Stepdad Success. We’ll discuss the value of passing down your wisdom to help your kids learn how to live a better life.
Finally, we’ll talk about how sharing the Stepdad Success message with other stepdads will help to raise an entire generation of leaders.
POINT #1: Improve for Your Kids
* If you improve as a stepdad, your kids will reap the rewards.
* If children have a negative role model or no role model at all, they wil...2017-10-2208 minStepDad SuccessEP084: Grant Belcher – Opening Greater Possibilities Within Their Minds
As a stepdad of three children, Grant Belcher of the Sunshine Coast in Australia knew that his role was to show his kids the possibilities for their lives. He’ll discuss how his kids reacted to him becoming their stepdad and his philosophy of treating his stepkids as his own. He’ll talk about how he developed an emotional connection to his kids and learned to put their needs first.
Finally, Grant will talk about the benefits of helping his kids to better understand themselves and showing them different “models” for how to live.
POINT #1: Establis...2017-10-2046 minStepDad SuccessEP081: Storms – Dealing With The Ups & Downs Of Life
Everyone experiences challenges now and then, but effectively dealing with these “storms” is key to achieving your goals. We’ll discuss the negative impact of stopping and waiting for a storm to come—or creating a storm of your own.
Finally, we’ll talk about the importance of preventing storms from dragging you off course and staying focused on the blue skies ahead.
POINT #1: Don’t Create Your Own Storms
* When things are going well in your life, it can be tempting to stop moving forward while you wait for a storm to come.
...2017-10-1807 minStepDad SuccessEP080: Stop Making It Hard – Ask The Damn Question
Have you ever gotten stuck in a difficult situation because you forgot to ask a simple question? It happens to everyone, especially when dealing with busy schedules and competing priorities. We’ll discuss how asking simple questions can help you to avoid problems and improve your life.
Finally, we’ll talk about how avoiding complexity and focusing on simplicity can help you to expand.
POINT #1: Asking Simple Questions Can Help You Avoid Problems
* It’s normal to want to take control in your life, but you must be sure you are asking simple questi...2017-10-1707 minStepDad SuccessEP079: Be The Example – What Are You Passing Down
Being the example is a foundational principle in life— and although many people try to make themselves look good, few do the work required to be good. We’ll discuss what it means to be the example for your kids and why modeling positive behaviors is so important.
Finally, we’ll talk about how you can be the example in every area of your life and pass good actions and words to your kids.
POINT #1: Leadership Means Being the Example
* To be a leader, you must be the example you want others to follow...2017-10-1606 minStepDad SuccessEP078: Listening vs Hearing – Going To War With Kids
When you talk to your children, are they really hearing you and understanding your message? Or, are they just listening? We’ll discuss why speaking to children can be challenging and what you can do to make sure they are understanding what you’re saying.
We’ll also talk about how asking questions can help you to ensure that you and your children are on the same page.
POINT #1: Communication Gaps Create Challenges when Speaking to Kids
* Because you are older than your kids, you have a larger vocabulary and more refined language skills...2017-10-1508 minStepDad SuccessEP077: Luke Perisin – Be The Example
Life is always changing, and Luke Perisin, a stepdad of one and a father of one from southern California, learned to adapt. He’ll discuss how he adjusted his plans and goals after meeting his wife and becoming a dad. After years of being a “lifelong bachelor,” Luke also learned to adopt a different attitude to help him relate better to his wife and children.
Finally, Luke will talk about how striving for patience and calm helped him to become a better father and husband.
POINT #1: You Must Adapt Your Plans to Life Changes
...2017-10-1355 minStepDad SuccessEP074: Giving To Yourself – Saying Yes Builds Your Worth
If you’re like most people, you have a ton of responsibilities. And guess what? It’s OK—and even beneficial—to spoil yourself. We’ll discuss how scheduling time and allowing yourself to indulge creates self-worth.
Finally, we’ll talk about how shifting your perspective can help you overcome perceived financial limitations and time constraints that may be causing you to deny yourself.
POINT #1: Sometimes You Have to Spoil Yourself
* It’s important to schedule time to allow yourself to indulge in activities you enjoy.
* When you hold back and deny yourself enjoy...2017-10-1107 minStepDad SuccessEP073: Feed Your Positivity – Deleting Negatives
The news and entertainment content you consume can affect your mindset, values and interactions with others. We’ll discuss the impact of negative content and how positive content can inspire and motivate you.
Finally, we’ll talk about how you can choose the content that is right for you and your family.
POINT #1: Most News Content is Negative
* As a society, we’re trained to react to bad news and news outlets take advantage of that by reporting negative news to make more money.
* Some news content includes “propaganda” that can promote negative v...2017-10-1008 minStepDad SuccessEP072: Expansion – Thinking Comes First
Are you expanding and growing across all areas of your life? We’ll discuss how a scarcity mindset can apply to more than just your finances and create limitations for you.
Finally, we’ll talk about living in abundance, stretching your thinking and imagining what’s possible.
POINT #1: Scarcity Mindset Affects More Than Finances
* Scarcity mindset is about more than just your finances; it can affect your Body, Being, Balance and Business, too.
* Having a scarcity mindset creates limitations.
* To create abundance across all areas of your life, you need to be abl...2017-10-0907 minStepDad SuccessEP071: Scarcity – Know Your Numbers
If you want to live an abundant life, you need to take care of your financial “numbers” and make sure you are on the profit side. We’ll discuss how managing debt creates scarcity, while managing profit creates abundance.
Finally, we’ll talk about the importance of investing in yourself and teaching positive money habits to your kids.
POINT #1: Managing Debt Creates Scarcity and Managing Profit Creates Abundance
* Managing debt creates a scarcity mentality, so it is critical that you look at your personal and business finances, understand your income/expenses, and make sure you...2017-10-0808 minStepDad SuccessEP070: Jeff Casebier – Mastering Self First
Does your family stand for something? Jeff Casebier, a stepdad of two and a father of three from southern California, will discuss how he and his wife intentionally set their family on a positive path by establishing core values for their household. He’ll discuss his relationship to his stepkids and how his biological children adjusted to their new siblings.
Finally, Jeff will talk about his ongoing commitment to self-improvement and how it has helped him to build a strong blended family.
POINT #1: Your Family Can Stand for Something
* When Jeff and his wi...2017-10-0645 minStepDad SuccessEP067: Depression – Fighting The Black Dog
When you’re feeling depressed, it can be difficult to snap yourself out of it—especially when you don’t feel like doing anything. We’ll discuss how moving your body and working up a sweat doing something that you enjoy can help to shift your energy.
Finally, we’ll talk about the importance of assessing how you are feeling and why you are feeling that way so you can develop strategies to manage depression in the future.
POINT #1: Everyone Feels Depressed Sometimes
* It’s normal to be in a bad mood and feel like yo...2017-10-0408 minStepDad SuccessEP066: 4 Dimensional Man – What’s In It For YOU
What does it mean to live a 4-Dimensional life? We’ll discuss the 4-Dimensional Man training and how it can help you to expand across Body, Being, Balance and Business. We’ll discuss why most men only excel in one or two areas of their lives and what it means to be a 4-Dimensional Man.
Finally, we’ll talk about how doing the work required in the 4-Dimensional Man training can help you achieve your goals faster.
POINT #1: There’s a Reason Why Most Men Excel in Only One or Two Areas of Life
...2017-10-0310 minStepDad SuccessEP065: Mastery – The Key To Action and Success
Mastery requires more dedication and focus than simply consuming information. We’ll discuss how mastery is about implementing and summarizing what you learn and teaching other people.
Finally, we’ll talk about how mastery can lead to success and allow you to be much more effective when implementing what you learned.
POINT #1: Consuming Information Doesn’t Equal Mastery
* People who read lots of books and consume other content often are just turning the pages without mastering the content.
* If you can’t explain or summarize the content and teach it to someone else, yo...2017-10-0207 minStepDad SuccessEP064: The Pressure Cooker – Releasing The Valve Safely
Everyone has pressure in their life, but where does it come from? How do you manage it? We’ll discuss how meditation can help you when you’re feeling antsy and frustrated and keep you from turning to drugs, alcohol or pills to find relief.
Finally, we’ll talk about how meditation can help you walk through decisions and bring peace of mind.
POINT #1: Everyone Deals with Pressure
* Everyone is under different types of pressure; pressure can come from a variety of sources including work and family.
* Whether pressure is major or minor...2017-10-0108 minStepDad SuccessEP063: Rick Blackburn – Rough Beginnings Are A Gift
Rick Blackburn, a stepdad of two from San Antonio, Texas, will discuss how he made positive changes in his life after overcoming his drug and alcohol problems and serving time in prison. He’ll discuss how he rebuilt his life, started a business, married his wife and adjusted to being a stepdad.
Finally, Rick will talk about his ongoing commitment to his kids and how he developed a connection with them by focusing on fun and love.
POINT #1: It’s Never Too Late to Change Your Life
* Rick grew up in a military fami...2017-09-2953 minStepDad SuccessEP060: Mental Toughness – Train Yourself Daily
Mental toughness, that's an area you should be constantly practicing. So today we’ll discuss how mental challenges can be linked to other goals in your life, such as physical or business goals.
Finally, we’ll talk about how completing little challenges each day helps you build mental strength and resilience to handle larger challenges.
POINT #1: You Can Never Have Enough Mental Toughness
* Mental toughness creates strength and resilience that you need to meet your goals and overcome obstacles.
* By testing your mind, you can create expansion across all areas of life (Body...2017-09-2707 minStepDad SuccessEP059: Free Time – The Chaos That Kills You
Overcoming those obstacles that stand between you and your focus is theme of today's episode. We’ll discuss how free time can cause mental chaos that leads to a lack of clarity and how it is important to have a plan for your free time.
Finally, we’ll talk about the benefits of scheduling enjoyable activities during your free time.
POINT #1: Free Time Can Cause Chaos
* If you find yourself with free time, you may become overwhelmed with all the options of things to do.
* Free time can lead to chaos in your...2017-09-2607 minStepDad SuccessEP058: Kids and Discipline – Choose Another Way
The theme of our discussion today is discipline—a topic that is always on the agenda for stepdads. We’ll discuss how some discipline can be damaging and how you can take other approaches to impart important lessons without violence, aggression or anger.
Finally, we’ll talk about how it is possible to incorporate an element of fun while disciplining your kids.
POINT #1: Everyone Handles Discipline Differently
* Some people find discipline easy and seem to know exactly what works for their children, but others struggle to find an effective approach.
* Hitting and yellin...2017-09-2508 minStepDad SuccessEP057: Four B’s Recap – The Work Pays
It's time go back to basics and recap the things you need to be doing each day to be the best stepdad you can be—and pass your legacy onto your kids. We’ll discuss the daily actions you need to take across The Four Bs (Body, Being, Balance and Business) to fulfill the Stepdad Success mission of Leaders Raising Leaders.
Finally, we’ll talk about the benefits of these daily actions and how they will change your life.
POINT #1: Reviewing What You Learned Can Keep You on Track
* Your legacy is to pass t...2017-09-2408 minStepDad SuccessEP056: Exton Male – Dealing with Death
Exton Male, a stepdad of one and father of three from the United Kingdom, will discuss how the sudden death of his first wife impacted his two oldest children—and how he and his children came through the tragedy together. He’ll discuss his role as a stepdad and how his third biological child with his current wife has cemented family relationships.
Finally, Exton will talk about how he let go of guilt so he could heal and create a strong blended family.
POINT #1: Your Kids Need Your Leadership During Tough Times
* After losi...2017-09-2242 minStepDad SuccessEP053: Challenging Your Challenges For Growth
Today, we’ll talk about the importance of challenging why you are doing things and assessing your level of commitment. We’ll discuss how looking at the feelings, facts, focus and “fruit” around each challenge that you face can help you to overcome it.
Finally, we’ll talk about the benefits of saying “yes” and how to get support from others in your life as you overcome your challenges.
POINT #1: When Dealing with Challenges, Ask “Why?”
* When challenges come your way, it’s important to ask yourself why you are doing things and assess your level of...2017-09-2008 minStepDad SuccessEP052: The 4 F’s – Creating Unlimited Momentum
Today, we’ll talk about what really drives and motivates you. We’ll discuss how looking at the four Fs (Feelings, Facts, Focus and “Fruit”) around each of your goals can help to increase your motivation and drive.
Finally, we’ll talk about how looking at the four Fs can help you to achieve your goals regularly, quickly and powerfully.
POINT #1: Assess the Facts
* When you have a target, it’s important to get clear on the facts of your current situation.
* For example, if you want to take a surf trip, you may need...2017-09-1908 minStepDad SuccessEP051: The Little Things – Leading Through Permission
Today, we’ll talk about the importance of doing little things to show gratitude for the people in your life. We’ll discuss how easy it is to lose sight of the little things when pursuing big goals and how little daily actions can help you pass gratitude to your kids.
Finally, we’ll talk about the benefits of practicing gratitude on a regular basis.
POINT #1: Teach Gratitude to Your Children
* Gratitude is a gift that you can give to your children.
* Leading kids to be grateful involves doing little things consistently.
...2017-09-1806 minStepDad SuccessEP050: Saying YES – Leading Through Permission
Today, we’ll talk about the importance of saying “yes” to yourself and how it can empower you. We’ll discuss how saying “no” to yourself can cause you to live from a place of scarcity.
Finally, we’ll talk about how asking the right questions can lead you to “yes.”
POINT #1: Saying “Yes” Is About Leadership
* Saying “yes” to yourself isn’t about being selfish or greedy; it’s about empowering yourself and living a life of abundance.
* Saying “yes” to yourself is about teaching your children how to create the life that they want.
* Say...2017-09-1707 minStepDad SuccessEP049: Matt Roth – Overcoming Challenge
Matt Roth, a stepdad of two from Rochester, New York, will discuss how he adjusted to becoming a stepfather and developed a mutually beneficial relationship with his stepkids. He’ll discuss how his own experiences growing up with a stepdad influenced how he interacts with his stepkids.
Finally, Matt will share his philosophy on molding his kids by providing the guidance, love and support they need.
POINT #1: Your Background Can Influence Your Behavior
* Matt was raised by his mom and his stepfather and had a difficult upbringing; his biological father was not around du...2017-09-1548 minStepDad SuccessEP046: Making Love – The Benefits of Living The Warriors Way
Today, we’ll talk about the benefits of including other people in your target-setting. We’ll look at how living The Warriors Way benefits you and your partner, and how measuring the little things can help you keep track of how you are doing across all areas of your life.
Finally, we’ll discuss how targets can help to keep you focused—and why hitting your targets can be fun.
POINT #1: Your Partner Will Notice Your Efforts
* As you begin to adopt The Warriors Way, your partner will notice positive changes in you.
...2017-09-1307 minStepDad SuccessEP045: Focus – Measuring it Matters
Today, we’ll talk about the importance of focus. We’ll look at why it’s easy to lose focus and why vague goals prevent you from being successful.
Finally, we’ll discuss how creating targets can help you get back on track and define the important characteristics of a target.
POINT #1: Focus is a Key Component of Growth
* Whether you are working on personal or business growth, you need to have focus.
* When you lose focus, it means that you lose clarity on what you are working toward.
* To regain your foc...2017-09-1206 minStepDad SuccessEP044: Letting Go To Create Rapid Expansion
Today, we’ll talk about the importance of letting go. We’ll look at how being flexible can allow you to let go of old behaviors that are holding you back and move forward with new, constructive behaviors.
Finally, we’ll discuss the power that comes from being able to recreate yourself so that you can achieve your definition of success.
POINT #1: You Must Become Comfortable with Letting Go
* As you grow older, things in your life will change.
* You must become comfortable with letting go of old behaviors, mindsets, beliefs, etc. that n...2017-09-1106 minStepDad SuccessEP043: INVICTUS – Creating Your Life Your Way
Today, we’ll talk about how you are in control of your world. We’ll look at how positive and negative outside influences can affect your family—and your entire life.
Finally, we’ll discuss how taking responsibility and making good choices about the outside influences you allow into your life can lead to happiness.
POINT #1: You Are in Control of Your World
* There is a lot of chaos in the world that can damage your kids and family.
* Outside influences can be positive or negative.
* It’s important for you to realize...2017-09-1007 minStepDad SuccessEP042: BJ Bench – Conversations On Sex, Technology and TeensBJ Bench, a father of two and guardian of his 16-year-old cousin, will discuss what he had to learn to be the father-figure that his cousin needed. He’ll discuss the importance of being a part of his cousin’s life, setting limits on technology and training her to recognize concerning behaviors in other people, particularly boys.
Finally, BJ will talk about why dads shouldn’t be afraid to have difficult conversations about uncomfortable subjects with their teens.
POINT #1: Dads Must Be Adaptable
* BJ and his wife have two biological daughters (ages 4 and 1) and to...2017-09-0849 minStepDad SuccessEP039: Make it Fun – Challenges That Make You Smile And Cry
Today, we’ll talk about how you can create an amazing connection with your kids simply by having fun. We’ll talk about the importance of having fun despite all the adult responsibilities that make it easy for us to become too serious.
Finally, we’ll discuss the benefits of having fun across all areas of our life.
POINT #1: Fun Creates a Connection with Your Kids
* Your job and your other adult responsibilities can cause you to become serious, stubborn and stuck in your ways.
* Because of everything on your plate, it can be...2017-09-0607 minStepDad SuccessEP038: Empowering Your Partner – Seeing Beyond The Limitations
Today, we’ll talk about how you can empower your partner by recognizing when she needs a break—and encouraging her to take time to recharge. We’ll talk about how you can help your partner thrive by picking up the slack and throwing out “old thinking” about the roles of men and women.
Finally, we’ll discuss how you can show your kids how to lead a family and empower others.
POINT #1: Empowering Others is Part of Leadership
* Good leaders empower those around them.
* Part of a man’s role is leading his fa...2017-09-0506 minStepDad SuccessEP037: Doing What’s REQUIRED – Forget Your Excuses You Lazy Bastard
Today, we’ll talk about productivity and how doing the right things at the right times will help you to accomplish your goals. We’ll talk about what it means to do the work required—and how it is different from doing only what you must.
Finally, we’ll discuss the importance of showing your kids how to achieve goals by going above and beyond while taking the most efficient path.
POINT #1: “Doing the Work Required” Improves Productivity
* To be productive, you must manage yourself correctly and do the right things at the right times...2017-09-0408 minStepDad SuccessEP036: Gratitude Walk n Talk
Today, we’ll talk about gratitude and how you can pass it to your kids. We’ll talk about how life is full of challenges and choices, and how reflecting on these things can help you to feel grateful for where you are today.
Finally, we’ll discuss the importance of appreciating what is possible in your life.
POINT #1: Becoming a Better Stepdad Helps You Raise Great Kids
* When your kids see you learning, improving your lifestyle and asking yourself tough questions, it sends a powerful message.
* It is important to teach kids t...2017-09-0306 minStepDad SuccessEP035: Glenn Osgoodby interview
Glenn Osgoodby, a stepdad of two and father of three, will discuss how he has learned from his experiences and grown as a parent while raising his children from his first marriage, his step children, and his youngest child from his second marriage.
He’ll discuss how he acclimated to his new role of stepdad and the dynamics in his now-expanded family.
Finally, Glenn will share his thoughts on developing a relationship with his step kids that is based on respect and love.
POINT #1: Learn from Your Experiences
* Glenn had the op...2017-09-0141 minStepDad SuccessEP032: Long Term Vision vs Short Term Vision
Today, we’ll discuss how your feelings and old stories can hold you back from achieving your goals. We’ll talk about the benefits of long-term thinking and how changing your mindset and feelings can drive change in your life.
Finally, we’ll discuss the importance of challenging your thinking to get the results you want.
POINT #1: Your Early Experiences Create “Stories”
* Your early life experiences create “stories” that you carry with you into adulthood; some stories are positive and some are negative.
* For example, if you had a rough upbringing, you may not value...2017-08-3008 minStepDad SuccessEP031: Powerful Questions Power The Future
Today, we’ll discuss the power of the questions you ask yourself and how these questions relate to creating a strong foundation for your life. We’ll talk about how your old “stories” can affect the questions you ask yourself today.
Finally, we’ll discuss how to look at all areas of your life and ask questions that help you create renewed foundations and new stories that reflect your goals.
POINT #1: Dig Deeper with Quality Questions
* There are all sorts of questions in life, but most of them are at a surface level.
...2017-08-2905 minStepDad SuccessEP030: Investing in Yourself
Today, we’ll discuss the one selfish thing that you should be doing every week. We’ll talk about how scheduling time for yourself and doing exactly what you want to do is a great investment.
Finally, we’ll discuss how this time will help you to understand why you’re working so hard and give you the energy to move forward.
POINT #1: Take a Break
* When you’re following the Core 4, you’ve got a lot to do—and sometimes, you just need a break.
* To recharge and reenergize, it’s important to tak...2017-08-2806 minStepDad SuccessEP029: Overcoming No And Facing Fears
Today, we’ll discuss how to identify when our kids are saying “no” to an activity or opportunity because they are feeling scared about learning something new. We’ll talk about how a simple conversation with your kids can help you get to the bottom of their feelings and give them the confidence to try new things.
Finally, we’ll talk about how you can show your kids how to overcome “no” by modeling a love of learning and getting over your fear of asking for help when you need it.
POINT #1: Sometimes “No” Means “I’m Scared”
2017-08-2707 minStepDad SuccessEP028: Jason Brangers Interview
In this week's interview Jason Brangers, a stepdad of two and father of two, will discuss how he went “all-in” with his step kids when he married his wife. He’ll discuss the challenges his family faced as he adjusted to his new role as a stepdad and his thoughts on building trust with his kids.
Finally, Jason will share his thoughts on other step-parenting topics, such as coping with transition times, the importance of investing in your wife and relaxing and having fun.
POINT #1: It’s Not Possible to Marry Only Your Wife
...2017-08-251h 02StepDad SuccessEP025: Reps Matter
Today, we’ll discuss how getting better across all areas of your life takes work and repetition. We’ll talk about how repetition across your Core 4 daily activities can help you to lay a foundation for long-term success.
Finally, we’ll discuss how hitting singles every day will prepare you for hitting home runs down the road.
POINT #1: Getting Better Takes Work
* If you want to get better across all areas of your life, it is going to take some work.
* Doing the work involves repeating your Core 4 daily activities over and over again...2017-08-2308 minStepDad SuccessEP024: Who Am I?Writing Your Stories
Today, we’ll discuss the “stories” that we’ve been told about ourselves growing up and how they can affect our lives. We’ll talk about how to get rid of the stories that hold us back and weigh us down.
Finally, we’ll discuss how to write new stories that are empowering, motivating and inspiring and reflect who we are today.
POINT #1: We All Have “Stories”
* From a very young age, we are all given “stories” about ourselves that direct the paths we take in life.
* Some examples of stories...2017-08-2206 minStepDad SuccessEP023: Lying and Results
Today, we’ll discuss the two types of lies and which one is the most destructive. We’ll talk about how lies keep us from getting the results we want in life.
Finally, we’ll discuss the importance of getting real with yourself and assessing how you’re doing in all areas of your life.
POINT #1: There Are Two Types of Lies
* There are two types of lies: The lies you tell other people and the lies you tell yourself.
* The lies you tell others include making yourself look like you’re doing bett...2017-08-2108 minStepDad SuccessEP022: Flip Floppers – Choosing Powerfully
Today, we’ll discuss why making choices is an important and powerful leadership skill. We’ll talk about the difference between flip-floppers and leaders.
Finally, we’ll discuss how leaders create forward movement in their lives by choosing boldly and committing to their decisions.
POINT #1: Leaders Make Decisions and Instruct Others
* Leaders make clear, confident decisions and share their choices with others.
* Flip-floppers, who never make clear, decisive, fast choices, turn up frequently in life.
* Flip-floppers are one-dimensional men who only achieve success in one area of life.
POINT #2: Decisi...2017-08-2006 minStepDad SuccessEP021: William Worthington – Attitude is Everything
Today's interview is with William Worthington, a stepdad of three, father of two and professor at Baylor University, will discuss how attitude affects everything—from parenting to work to overcoming challenges.
He’ll talk about making the adjustment to becoming a stepdad, building a blended family and how he and his wife model positive values while teaching and training their children.
Finally, William will share how his attitude and mindset helped him to overcome the hurdles in his life, including a cancer diagnosis.
POINT #1: Don’t Just Say It—Live It
* William...2017-08-1849 minStepDad SuccessEP018: Gratitude and Experiences
Today we’ll discuss the importance of showing your kids what’s possible in their lives. We’ll talk passing gratitude to your kids by giving them opportunities and experiences that open their eyes to new things.
Finally, we’ll discuss how you can give your kids the vision that they can live wherever and however they like and show them that there are lots of options that they can choose from.
POINT #1: Anything’s Possible
* Leading your children is about showing them what is possible for their lives.
* You can pass your value...2017-08-1607 minStepDad SuccessEP017: Young Love and Teaching Values
In today's episode we’ll discuss young love and how, even at an early age, parents have an opportunity to teach values about relationships. We’ll talk about the importance of modeling positive behaviors in your own relationship—and in all areas of your life.
Finally, we’ll discuss how strong values learned at a young age can help your children grow up to be great adults.
POINT #1: Children Learn Relationship Values from You
* Children mimic their parents every day and behave the same way their parents behave in relationships.
* Teaching kids to show...2017-08-1508 minStepDad SuccessEP016: Transition Times – Coming Back Together
Today we’ll discuss how to create beautiful moments with your kids, even during sometimes-difficult “transition times” after they return from a visit with their other parent. We’ll talk about a strategy to relieve tension and help your children settle in while creating peace in your home.
Finally, we’ll discuss the importance of slowing down, listening and connecting with your kids after they’ve been away.
POINT #1: Transitions Can Be Tricky
* When children spend their time in different households, the rules, values and people are different.
* Children need time to adjust upon...2017-08-1409 minStepDad SuccessEP015: Get Excited – Let Your Kids Lead YOU
Today we’ll discuss how getting excited about life is an important component of the “Have-It-All Lifestyle.” We’ll talk about the importance of letting your true feelings out so you can fully express who you are.
Finally, we’ll discuss how sharing your appreciation for your family members and taking stock of the “little things”—just like children do—can help you to get excited about the life you are leading.
POINT #1: Get Excited About Life
* Often, men don’t express themselves or get excited about the good things in their lives.
* By holding...2017-08-1307 minStepDad SuccessEP014: Kevin Voisin – Commitment Matters
In this week's interview Kevin Voisin will discuss the sometimes-difficult choices you must make as a dad and stepdad—and how important it is to be involved in your children’s lives.
He’ll talk about his parenting journey, the investment he made in his relationship with his kids and how he and his wife make it all work for their blended family.
Finally, Kevin will share his thoughts on telling the truth and why men make ideal step-parents.
POINT #1: Dads Have Choices, But Kids Usually Don’t
* In a divorce, dads mak...2017-08-111h 13StepDad SuccessEP011: Creating Sexy Time
Today we’ll discuss what can be possible with your partner. We’ll talk about the importance of connecting and communicating to develop passion over time.
Finally, we’ll talk about how you can create passion with your partner by making daily deposits into your relationship.
POINT #1: Passion is Possible
* Men need to make time to connect with their partners and make daily deposits into their relationships.
* When tough circumstances arise, connected couples can communicate through their difficulties.
* Sending messages, weekly date nights and conversation are great ways to foster a connec...2017-08-0908 minStepDad SuccessEP010: Art and Science – The Warriors Way
Today we’ll discuss the art and science behind improving yourself. We’ll talk about the importance of the Core 4 (Science) as a foundation in your life and how you can incorporate each daily activity into your life (Art) in a way that works for you.
Finally, we’ll talk about how hitting a single every day—instead of waiting for the home run—will help you to create momentum and improve in all Core 4 areas.
POINT #1: Art & Science Is About Improving Yourself
* When you are a stepdad, you must be a leader so you can...2017-08-0809 minStepDad SuccessEP009: Business – Will Your Kingdom Thrive?
Today we’ll get down to “Business” (the fourth element of our Core 4) and learn how this area gives you power, energy and drive. We’ll talk about the difference between trying to hit home runs and trying to hit singles—and how this baseball analogy relates to your life.
Finally, we’ll look at the impact that studying, learning and implementing new ideas every day will have on your business.
POINT #1: Try to Hit Singles Every Day, Not Home Runs
* In baseball, there are two types of hitters—those who always try for home runs...2017-08-0710 minStepDad SuccessEP008: Balance – Seeking Intimacy
We’ll explore “Balance,” the third element of our Core 4. We’ll talk about how balance is the key to building and creating successful relationships and feeling fulfilled at home—and in life.
Finally, we’ll look at how “daily deposits” can help you find power in your relationships and deepen your relationship with the people you love most.
POINT #1: Balance is About Relationships
* “Balance” is about building and creating relationships as a foundation for happiness in the home.
* Without strong relationships, your life will be out of balance. You could have money, physical fitn...2017-08-0613 minStepDad SuccessEP007: Cullen Talley – Take The High Road
Today we’ll hear Cullen Talley, a stepdad from Baton Rouge, LA, discuss his experience as the stepdad of two girls.
We’ll cover everything from how Cullen met his daughters to navigating family transitions to his parenting role now that his girls are young adults.
We’ll also hear Cullen discuss what his commitment to his girls means to him—and how it has enriched his life.
POINT #1: Becoming a Stepdad is Rewarding, but Can Present Challenges
* Some stepdads find that younger children are more flexible and older children have a harder...2017-08-0447 minStepDad SuccessEP004: Being – Are You Connected?
Today we’ll explore "Being," the second element of our Core 4.
We’ll talk about what it means to be "spiritual" and discuss how different things, such as religion and "source", can give people guidance and power.
Finally, we’ll look at how meditation and journaling can help you to hear and understand your inner voice in less than one hour each day.
POINT #1: Being is About the Spiritual Aspects of Life
* "Spiritual" refers to whatever you believe it in that gives you guidance or power (religion, "source," etc.); you do not ne...2017-08-0210 minStepDad SuccessEP003: Body – What’s Up
Today we’ll explore "Body"—the first element of our Core 4—and what it means to live "The Warriors Way." We’ll talk about two simple things that you can do every day to take care of your body.
Finally, we’ll discuss how you can develop a routine that helps you grab power and feel energized, no matter where you are in your physical fitness journey.
POINT #1: Living "The Warriors Way" Is About Grabbing Power Every Day
* In order to be our best, it is critical for us to be honest about our physic...2017-08-0109 minStepDad SuccessEP002: In The BeginningDeepening the Discussion Living "The Warriors Way"
Today we’ll talk about what it means to want more for your family and explore the definition of "true success."
We’ll discuss how the Wake Up Warrior system will help you be your best by focusing on four key components of your life.
Finally, you’ll learn how living "The Warriors Way" can help to set a positive example for your kids.
POINT #1: Stepdad Success is about Wanting More for your Family
* Although my sporting and business career was full of advent...2017-07-3109 minStepDad SuccessEP001: WelcomeStepdads: Leaders Raising Leaders
Today we explore why Stepdad Success was created and find out how you can use your unique experiences to become the best possible leader for your kids.
This podcast will lay the foundation to help you thrive in all areas of your life.
POINT #1: Why Did I Create Stepdad Success?
Stepdad Success is about learning how to be a leader so you can raise a leader.
* Stepdads have a unique position in the parenting landscape and need a special community to help them learn, discuss ideas and...2017-07-3012 min
Stream Free Audiobook in Business, MarketingThe Experts Handbook by James Klobasa | Free AudiobookListen to full audiobooks for free on :https://hotaudiobook.com/freeTitle: The Experts Handbook
Author: James Klobasa
Narrator: Ryan Tucker
Format: Unabridged
Length: 3 hrs and 52 mins
Language: English
Release date: 11-17-16
Publisher: Motivational Press, Inc
Genres: Business, Marketing
Summary:
While online systems and strategies can leverage time, reach, and profit, allowing you to fulfill your vision, business online can also be a minefield of confusion and overwhelm.
After multiple successes working with experts, thought leaders, and visionaries, James Klobasa gives you the road map to access your true power, create your perfect day, structure success, increase impact, and be...2016-11-173h 52
Influencers Radio with Jack MizeJames Klobasa - Product Launch MentorJames Klobasa is Product Launch Manager and Mentor. “Taking someone through a product launch, for me, is really about getting to know your market on a really intimate level, he says, “finding out what they’re after and presenting that in a curious manner or in a shock-and-awe type manner, so that they sit up and take notice.” He specializes in helping businesses find and market to their ideal client. “All of my clients have either had five to ten to multiples of that in return, so return on investment. You’ve got to look at it in the right way, as far...2014-05-1022 min