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Tell Me If I’m WrongCelibacy & Affection Part 1.Manipulation will rear its ugly head in the unlikeliest of ways. There are sneaky people that will lie and deceive, just to persuade their partner to break their vow of celibacy. Morality is a myth to some & everything to others. Come join Jaquay & Natalie discuss this moral dilemma.
2026-02-1609 minTell Me If I’m WrongThe Best In Me (Spoken Word)Poetry is one of the purest forms of expression. Listen to Jaquay, as he takes you on a lyrical journey.
2025-09-2600 minTell Me If I’m WrongGood GuyDo good guys truly finish last ? Listen to Jaquay as he details the truths and the myths of this phrase.
2025-08-1604 minTell Me If I’m WrongGood AdviceAdvice can be a tricky thing and sometimes it rubs people the wrong way. Listen to Jaquay as he tells you the RIGHT way to deliver efficient advice.
2025-04-0318 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongLove: EuphoriaHave you ever notice that we are always searching for that sense of Euphoria ? Join Jaquay as he discusses relationships and the effects of chasing the ultimate Euphoria.
2025-03-0721 minTell Me If I’m WrongMy Honesty is Your LieThere is something admirable about making ones’ true intentions known. Listen to Jaquay, as he provides examples of why honesty can prove to be quite efficient.
2024-12-2612 minTell Me If I’m WrongIndividuality: Fading AwayAre we passing up on individuality at a chance to be popular ? Join Jaquay as he discusses why he thinks there is a shift to following trends.
2024-07-0918 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongLove OverboardToo many times, we live with complacency because “LOVE” is the driving force behind our decision making. Listen to Natalie ( @poisunnink_nm) & Jaquay describe exactly what they mean by that statement.
2024-06-1527 minTell Me If I’m WrongDon’t Compare MeComparison is not flattery, it is a restriction. We should all be seen and judged based on our own merits. Listen 👂 to Jaquay as he details why comparison can have negative effects on our psyche.
2024-05-1415 minTell Me If I’m WrongUnwilling to ListenJoin Jewels 💎 ( @diamondslikejewels) & Jaquay ( @quaysofocused757) as they talk about the importance of listening and comprehension.
2024-04-1238 minTell Me If I’m WrongStructured InnovationFollowing a structured system is fine, but it is not the only way to be productive. Listen to Jaquay as he discusses the battle of philosophies between non conformists & structured individuals.
2024-02-1209 minTell Me If I’m WrongDefine Your ValueBeware of users and manipulators, for they will leave you emotionally damaged. Listen 🎧 to Jaquay as he discusses the importance of learning the definition of personal value.
2024-01-2917 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongSupport SystemEvery artist and or ambitious person believes in themselves 100%; however, ones support system is just as important for overall success. Listen 🎧 to Jaquay & Jewels(@diamondslikejewels) as they discuss how having a lackluster support system can impact personal growth.
2024-01-2337 minTell Me If I’m WrongBooty CallsSex is often considered a taboo topic, but today we are going to push that boundary ! Listen to Jaquay as he details the differences and similarities between one night stands & booty calls.
2024-01-1813 minTell Me If I’m WrongStructured InnovationIn this world, there are innovators and there are structured individuals. Depending on one’s mindset, either they follow a readymade societal structure or the aim to start their own. Listen to Jaquay as he provides context on structured innovation.
2024-01-0901 minTell Me If I’m WrongSexual Prowess Pt. 1Are you open about sex? We are sexual beings by nature but some of us do not feel comfortable talking about our desires. Listen to Jaquay & Special Guest Dee a.k.a.(themahoganyassassin_) as they detail the importance of honesty about personal pleasures.
2024-01-0212 minTell Me If I’m WrongSecond Guessing YourselfOften times we may doubt ourselves when our goals aren’t unfolding before our eyes. Listen to Jaquay, as he discusses ways to combat self doubt.
2023-10-2212 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongStrictly BusinessRelationships tend to be based solely off of monetary value nowadays. There is a selfishness that overcomes us as we try to decipher what and whom is worth our time. Let’s talk about it.
2023-09-2511 minTell Me If I’m WrongDecision MakingWe are tasked with decisions each and every day, whether they are small or large. No matter the magnitude of said decision, there is a process we go through to reach an end result. Come Listen 🎧 to Jaquay and special guest Autumn( @autumn2285), discuss the 7 steps of decision making.
2023-08-1139 minTell Me If I’m WrongTranscends Positive EnergyDaily stressors are everywhere, that’s why it is important to learn ways to channel both frustration & anger into a positive outlet.
2023-07-2812 minTell Me If I’m WrongAssumptionsWhen we assume, it can end up blowing up in our face. Learning how to judge individuals based on their own merit versus our projections is key to relationship building.
2023-07-2713 minTell Me If I’m WrongMoney, Love, FallacyMoney is often a topic of conversation, especially when your partner or spouse makes more than you. Listen to Jaquay as he discusses the affects of financial gaps in relationships.
2023-07-2727 minTell Me If I’m WrongLiar LiarIt is easy to fall into the trap of lying consistently, so it is something we have to be conscious of. Once you are deemed as a “liar” then all of your credibility is destroyed. Let’s talk about it.
2023-07-2510 minTell Me If I’m WrongConfidence & ResiliencyThroughout this often strenuous life, we have to learn how to be both confident & resilient. Listen 🎧 to Jaquay as he describes the importance in finding ways to push through tough times.
2023-07-2113 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongSabotageMany believe that sabotage comes from outside sources; However, sometimes it can come from within. Through our destructive actions we can become the roadblock we were unaware of. Join Jaquay(@quaysofocused757), Autumn(@autumnt2285), & Jewels(@diamondslikejewels) as they discuss how self sabotage and toxic behaviors can affect our everyday lives.
2023-07-0734 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongLack of CommunicationCommunication is the doorway to problem solving. The moment we begin to neglect it, is the moment where the distance increases. Listen 🎧 to Jaquay & Loyal (@Dalayazone) as they discuss the several types of communication breakdowns.
2023-07-0546 minTell Me If I’m WrongToo Much Of A Good ThingThings in excess can be a bad thing. It is all about moderation. Don’t believe it? Listen to this episode as Jaquay discusses how the mismanagement of excess assets can be a serious problem.
2023-06-3019 minTell Me If I’m WrongPointless PassengerWe often carry people with us on our journey; However, not everyone deserves to be inside your car. Be mindful of the people you attach yourself to and or allow to ride in the passenger seat. Listen to Jaquay as he talks about how important it is to pick friends wisely.
2023-06-3007 minTell Me If I’m WrongMental Health vs. Value of SelfMental health is so important in the grand scheme of our daily development and or lack there of. In order to move forward, we have to look within and find out what makes us happy opposed to what triggers our sadness. Come Join Jaquay (@quaysofocused757) & Rene Love (@realrenelove23) as they discuss how value of self can affect mental fortitude.
2023-06-2035 minTell Me If I’m WrongChoices TRAILERThe choices we make today can affect us tomorrow. With that being said, be mindful of the decisions you make and more so how you decide to treat people. Listen to Jaquay, as he briefly touches on the impact of decision making.
2023-06-1903 minTell Me If I’m WrongCommon GoalOne thing we have to get better at Is INCLUSION, specifically in the workplace. The more diverse voices & perspectives, the better the overall product.
2023-06-0811 minTell Me If I’m WrongSoul SearchingIt is imperative that we learn how to communicate with one another without coming across disrespectful. Join Jaquay, as he discusses the soul searching required to learn the strategies of face to face interaction.
2023-06-0508 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongBalancing ActIt is a balancing act between personal boundaries and selflessness. We must make decisions that appease others while not devaluing ourselves. Join Julie(@diamondslikejewels) & I as we talk about this topic in more depth.
2023-06-0240 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongPerception & JealousyEverybody perceives situations differently. We are often trapped by someone’s opinions of us, so much so that it hinders our individual growth. Join Jaquay & Jewels 💎(@diamondslikejewels) as they discuss how perception of success leads to jealousy.
2023-05-1440 minTell Me If I’m WrongPerception & Jealousy Trailer #1Everybody perceives situations differently. We are often trapped by someone’s opinions of us, so much so that it hinders our individual growth. Join Jaquay & Jewels 💎(@diamondslikejewels) as they discuss how perception of success leads to jealousy.
2023-05-1401 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongSexual SatisfactionSex is important in any form of relationship. We are adamant about the positions we like, the way we loved to be touched, and the manner in which we are gazed upon. However, we shy away from having open conversations when our needs are not being met.
2023-05-1439 minTell Me If I’m WrongSexual Satisfaction TrailerSex is a key component to any form of relationship. We are adamant about the positions we like, the way we loved to be touched, and the manner in which we are gazed upon. However, we shy away from having open conversations when our needs are not being met.
2023-05-1200 minTell Me If I’m WrongLoving YourselfJoin Jaquay, as he discusses the importance of obtaining self love before entering a relationship. A partner is there for moral support, but they cannot carry your burdens and or grievances for you. The journey of self discovery is vital to our individual growth.
2023-05-1214 minTell Me If I’m WrongManipulationWhen you are a selfless person, you must be aware of potential manipulative individuals. Listen to Jaquay, as he discusses the passive aggressive nature of manipulation.
2023-03-2408 minTell Me If I’m WrongInsecureTake responsibility for how you feel about yourself. It is easy to let someone else shoulder the blame for your emotions and self esteem. The esteem of yourself was tailor made for you to adjust, boost, & raise.
2023-03-2206 minTell Me If I’m WrongBaby, I trust you. I think.Lying is something that we have all did at least once. However, the question persists, is it the right thing to do? Listen to Jaquay as he discusses towing the line between honesty and lies in a relationship.
2023-03-2212 minTell Me If I’m WrongLet Me See Your Phone!! (FULL EPISODE)Listen to Jaquay as he talks about the 3 main reasons why your spouse is obsessed with seeing and going through your phone.
2023-03-0512 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongHypocritical or Ambitious?It is easy to talk about doing something, but it is a whole different thing to actually fulfill that promise. Listen to Jaquay & Special Guest, Clive( @cash_flow14) discuss the importance of standing on one’s word.
2023-02-2533 minTell Me If I’m WrongLet Me See Your Phone!Trust issues in a relationship can cause both parties to wonder about the unknown. The path of distrust only leads to one outcome…… LET ME SEE YOUR PHONE ! . Do you trust your spouse enough not to go through their phone ?
2023-02-2201 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongPlaying Hard to GetIs playing hard to get wise or childish? Listen to Jaquay & Shay (@shaysbeautydiary) talk about the complexities of making yourself accessible to everyone.
2023-02-0937 minTell Me If I’m WrongBiases, Stereotypes, & JudgementBelieve it or not, everyone has their personal biases; However, we can not allow them to cloud our judgement. It’s is unfair to those you encounter to pigeon hold and or generalize them. People are multifaceted, we are not bound to one specific skill or aesthetic.
2023-02-0213 minTell Me If I’m WrongWants vs. NeedsJoin Jaquay and his guest @sinatrashotcha as they discuss deciphering between what we want versus prioritizing the things we need.
2023-02-0138 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongMaturityMaturity changes along with us. As we see the world and gather more experiences, our eyes are widened to what is important versus the things that are unimportant.
2023-01-2615 min2022-12-2202 minTell Me If I’m WrongMasculinity: Strength or Weakness?Did you know that your biggest strength can also be your biggest weakness? Men, are often under the impression that every act they participate in has to fit the “Macho” persona when in reality that is an invalid notion. Find out why, Listen To Jaquay as he details the importance of using vulnerability as a strength.
2022-12-2212 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongConsistencyConsistency is the engine behind accomplishing goals. We must stay driven in the face of adversity and rise to the occasion when called upon to do so.
2022-11-1316 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongConsistency TRAILERConsistency is the engine behind accomplishing goals. We must stay driven in the face of adversity and rise to the occasion when called upon to do so.
2022-11-1100 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongPerfect Relationship?There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, so don’t believe the hype. However, there are several steps one can take to ensure the success of their relationship. Listen to Jaquay as he details the steps of maintaining a healthy relationship.
2022-10-0412 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongSeeking ValidationWe often seek validation for our thought processes. Ultimately, we have to rely on our own intuition to lead us to our highest level of success.
2022-09-2710 minTell Me If I’m WrongStrengthThis life throws obstacles daily, so we must be able to attack them head on. Mental fortitude is vital for dealing with unfortunate situations. Let’s talk about it.
2022-09-2213 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongFaking Orgasms: What’s the Deal ?Faking Orgasms is not uncommon. Listen to Jaquay as he breaks down some of the reasons behind lack of truth and clarity between men & women during sex.
2022-09-2208 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongBody Positivity: Focus On YouEmbracing the way you look is so empowering but is body positivity an excuse not to try to get in shape ? Listen to Jaquay & Haeley (Instagram:@mental_physicalexperience) they discuss how fat shaming can be detrimental to a person’s psyche.
2022-08-2639 minTell Me If I’m WrongThe Intimidation FactorFear can be a driving force in one’s life. However, we cannot allow it to impede our progression towards becoming the best version of ourselves. We often become intimidated by our counterparts and as a result we find ourselves in a puddle of self doubt. Listen to Jaquay as he discusses overcoming the intimidation factor.
2022-08-1915 minTell Me If I’m WrongSacred SexWith the growth of embraced sexuality and sexual freedom, the dynamics of relationships has changed dramatically. Intimacy may be affected by the lack of exclusivity with one’s partner. Let’s talk about it !
2022-08-1013 minTell Me If I’m WrongOne Night StandsSex is a part of our normal everyday routine, but should it dictate our relationships ? For some, one night stands are the move and for others, they would rather have a more consistent situation to rely on. Are one night stands overrated or underrated?
2022-06-1913 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongHow well do you know your Lover/Best-Friend ?As much as we would like to believe, we do not know every single thing about the people in our life. Listen to Jaquay, as he discusses the unknowns of interpersonal communication.
2022-06-1712 minTell Me If I’m WrongLove: A Perfect FantasyWe often fantasize about falling in love similar to events of a movie; however, life usually does not play out that way. Listen to Jaquay as he discusses tempering expectations when it comes to relationships.
2022-06-0412 minTell Me If I’m WrongMoment of ClarityListen as Jaquay talks about personal growth, not internalizing negative emotions, & much more !!!! The moment we become honest with ourselves, the better off we will be.
2022-06-0411 minTell Me If I’m WrongPatienceDating is totally different nowadays. People are more prone to one night stands opposed to courting and actually getting to know their counterparts. Listen to Jaquay, as he discusses the importance of patience while dating a potential mate.
2022-05-2708 minTell Me If I’m WrongHonest Emotions in Relationships ( Full Episode )Too many times, we conform to someone else's will while disregarding our own likes and passions. Healthy relationships require compromise and honesty. People are not mind readers, so if you have strong feelings towards something your partner is doing then you need to speak up or the problem will persist.
2022-05-2516 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongHonest Emotions in a RelationshipToo many times, we conform to someone else's will while disregarding our own likes and passions. Healthy relationships require compromise and honesty. People are not mind readers, so if you have strong feelings towards something your partner is doing then you need to speak up or the problem will persist.
2022-05-1901 minTell Me If I’m WrongBody PositivityEmbracing the way you look is so empowering but is body positivity an excuse not to try to get in shape ? Listen to Jaquay as he discusses how fat shaming can be detrimental to a person’s psyche.
2022-05-0716 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongModern Day RelationshipsListen to Jaquay & his two special guests, Jade(@mznaughtymorena) & Nykki(@blkbeauti_luvinmiison39) discuss the intricacies of relationships today. The constructs of a relationship are not as rigid as they once were. Open relationships are the new norm while monogamy has taken the proverbial back seat. Where does dating go from here ?
2022-05-0425 minTell Me If I’m WrongCheating & Infidelity Part 1.Have you ever been cheated on ? If so, how did that affect you? Listen to Jaquay as he discusses the complexities of cheating, including how & why people choose this particular action instead of opting for communication with their partner.
2022-04-3011 minTell Me If I’m WrongHate: Why don't you want me to grow? ( TRAILER )They say misery loves company, and people definitely take that notion to heart. People do not like to see a person doing better than them, so rather than admit to their own faults and inadequacies they would rather throw negativity onto the one who is stepping into their positivity. The term "SELL OUT" is often verbalized when someone is attempting to grow and evolve. Why is that, you may ask? Tune in and listen to Jaquay discuss how hate stems from a place of insecurity and jealousy.
2022-04-2906 minTell Me If I’m WrongDismissal and RejectionIt hurts to be denied, rejected, and or turned away. The pain of being told you are not good enough can break a person’s psyche. Let’s discuss how we can turn that rejection into fuel for acceptance.
2022-04-2713 minTell Me If I’m WrongMoney ManagementAs we all know, money is the driving force of life and without it we would be in a world of trouble. However, having money means nothing if you do not know how to manage and allocate your funds properly. Listen to Jaquay as he details strategies for money management. We must live in the moment while planning for the future.
2022-04-0710 minTell Me If I’m WrongStress Is All in the MindLife may throw us several curveballs but we were born to play the game opposed to striking out. Listen to Jaquay, as touches on how impactful stress can be on not only one's life but their body as well. Stress is an emotional response but the body will make the call if the line is busy. In other words, the longer stress festers and goes unchecked, the greater the impact on the individual.
2022-04-0511 minTell Me If I’m WrongRealizing TalentsListen to Jaquay as he talks about the importance of realizing personal talents. The worst thing to do is second guess yourself. Ability can only be realized when you are brave enough to allow your ambitions to flourish.
2022-03-2515 minTell Me If I’m WrongBasic Instinct: Feast or Famine ?Learning how to handle problems that arise in our life is a skill. There are multiple ways of going about handling said problem but we are always left with the ability to choose. Life is about choices. Make sure you make the right one. Join Jaquay, as he talks about not relying on your most common instinct, ANGER.
2022-03-2210 minTell Me If I’m WrongJust Do ItProcrastination is something we all deal with; However, we can’t allow it to control our future. Don’t overthink it, Just Do It !!!! Listen to Jaquay & Dee as they navigate how action is the best way to combat procrastination.
2022-03-1934 minTell Me If I’m WrongJust Do It TrailerProcrastination is something we all deal with; However, we can’t allow it to control our future. Don’t overthink it, Just Do It !!!! Listen to Jaquay & Dee as they navigate how action is the best way to combat procrastination.
2022-03-1900 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongGood Sex Vs. Bad SexJaquay debates whether or not good sex with a bad person is worth it. Physical attraction quite often takes the spotlight away from characteristics and intangibles. There is a decision to be made when looking for a compatible mate. Are you making the right one ?
2022-03-1213 minTell Me If I’m WrongRespectful or Disrespectful?Jaquay describes the importance of showing others respect. How we engage with others ultimately says a lot about our personality. There is a right way & wrong way to talk to people, so make sure you choose wisely.
2022-03-0912 minTell Me If I’m WrongLetting Go Of Traumatic Experiences & Not Holding GrudgesToo many times we hold grudges for years on end without considering how it affects us in the long run. Jaquay previews an upcoming episode while providing a new perspective on how past experiences can hinder future endeavors.
2022-03-0902 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongCommon Sense & Difference Of OpinionJaquay speaks on how common sense is formed by personal experiences. What may be common to one individual may be uncommon to everyone else. That is where a potential difference of opinion arises.
2022-03-0213 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongRelationships, Social Media, & Gender RolesListen to Jaquay and special Guest Dee aka @the_mahogany_mermaid, discuss relationships and the difficulties of balancing them when social media & gender roles come into play.
2022-02-2252 minTell Me If I’m WrongPerception vs. RealityA person’s perception is what leads them to make decisions. However, one’s perception may not always be reality. Listen to Jaquay break down the difference between the two.
2022-02-1508 minTell Me If I’m WrongRelationships, Social Media, & Gender RolesListen to Jaquay & Dee discuss how social media can effect an individual’s thought process. Gender roles are loved by some and hated by many. This discussion touches on how complacency can stunt growth. You’re not going to want to miss this one !!!!
2022-02-1400 minTell Me If I’m WrongPerfection is a MythJaquay touches on the pressures of trying to live a PERFECT life. Humans are innately flawed, so is perfection really attainable ?
2022-02-0919 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongRich In SpiritListen to Jaquay, as he speaks on the importance of realizing self worth & value. One can be extremely wealthy, without receiving a single dollar. The true compensation comes from within.
2022-02-0212 minTell Me If I’m WrongAccountability & Childish GamesWe often don’t want to admit when we are wrong. It is not an easy task but we have to learn how to take responsibility for our actions. Tell Me If I’m Wrong!
2022-01-3017 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongBalancing Relationships & Mental WellnessListen to Jaquay & Dee(@the_mahogany_mermaid) talk about the importance of balancing mental wellness, self care, & relationships. You’d be surprised to know just how many outside factors influence the growth and or the deterioration of your mental health. Come join the conversation !
2022-01-1945 minTell Me If I’m WrongHeartbreakListen to Jaquay as he dives into heartbreak and how it can positively effect you. Sounds crazy right ? Tune in to figure out the message behind his madness !
2021-12-2815 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongSex is not a down payment for loveSex is great but a relationship based solely on its glory, is not always a recipe for success. Let’s talk about it ! TELL ME IF I’M WRONG
2021-12-2808 minTell Me If I’m WrongFriendshipsListen to Jaquay as he breaks down the difference between friend and foe. The word FRIEND is sacred and shouldn’t be thrown around lightly.
2021-12-1911 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongEmbracing StereotypesAs black people, our movements are watched extremely closely so there is no room for error. We must refrain from becoming a walking contradiction and or stereotype.
2021-12-1918 minTell Me If I’m WrongBeing labeled as a selloutJealousy breeds envy. People do not like to see your success so they project their insecurities onto you. Listen to Jaquay as he deciphers why people loosely toss around the term of “SELLOUT”.
2021-12-0615 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongGaining enough confidence to chase your dreamsAs individuals, we are often afraid of the unknown. The sense of unease makes us second guess ourselves. We are stronger than we give ourselves credit for. Once we master the art of self acceptance and self confidence, our dreams will become a reality.
2021-11-1314 minTell Me If I’m WrongChasing your dreamsLife is too short not to go after the things you love. Trust your passions and allow your ambition to lead the way.
2021-11-1100 minTell Me If I’m WrongHonest men, do we still exist ?Often times, women may feel like every man is dishonest which may or not be the case. Join Jaquay as he discusses not categorizing every man into the same category.
2021-11-1113 minTell Me If I’m WrongThe Friend ZoneToday Jaquay talks about the dreaded FRIEND ZONE that so many fear. He discusses the importance of knowing one’s worth and being able to recognize when someone is attempting to be manipulative.
2021-10-2011 min
Tell Me If I’m WrongDealing with adversityLife can be extremely hard, as we all know but we can’t let the unforeseen obstacles strip us of our joy. In this episode, Jaquay gives strategies on how to cope with adversity and the internal stress that it brings. You’re not going to want to miss this one !
2021-10-1414 minTell Me If I’m WrongLack of opportunities for African AmericansAs a black man, I know what it is like first hand to see the unequal balance of power. Our opportunities fail in comparison to those who hold the majority of the power. The biases are present even if no one is brave enough to talk about them.
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