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The Choice026 - Set GoalsThe conversation delves into the significance of spiritual goals, the impact of the Glenn Blend Method, the importance of financial goal setting, and the value of recreation and family. It also explores the impact of goal setting on personal growth and the challenges associated with holding oneself accountable. The conversation delves into the importance of recreation and family values, financial goals, intentional relationships, learning goals, improving family communication, the quality of relationships and longevity, nurturing old friendships, roots and relationships, and spiritual growth and accountability. The speakers share their personal experiences and struggles, emphasizing the significance of these themes...
2026-01-2058 minThe Choice025 - 2025: Change and ControversyJason and Ray discuss the significant news events of 2025, including Trump's inauguration and various protests. They reflect on the cultural implications of government actions and the importance of compassion and accountability in society. The discussion also delves into the challenges of parenting in an affluent environment, emphasizing the need to instill a strong work ethic in children. In this conversation, Jason and Ray explore various themes including personal stories of overcoming adversity, cultural perspectives on work ethic, and the importance of understanding different worldviews. They discuss the impact of education on mindset, the role of immigration in shaping the...
2026-01-061h 21The Choice024 - JC GayleJason and JC discuss the importance of purpose in life, and the challenges of navigating change in organizations. JC shares his journey of overcoming personal challenges, the significance of community, and the role of AI in the workplace. They emphasize the need for vision and intentionality in both personal and professional growth, while also highlighting the power of relationships in achieving success.About JCJason (JC) Gayle wears a few hats…Speaker, Entrepreneur, Pastor, Consultant, Author, Podcaster, Leader. But at his core, he is a Transformational Coach. HIs goal is to im...
2025-12-301h 03The Choice023 - Contentment ISN'T ComplacentJason and Ray explore various themes surrounding parenting, education, and the holiday season. They discuss the importance of competitiveness in sports, the role of parents in their children's education, and the significance of family traditions during Christmas. The conversation also delves into personal experiences with gift-giving, the joy of community, and the ups and downs of life. Ultimately, they reflect on the balance between contentment and the drive for personal growth, emphasizing the importance of being present in the moment and cherishing experiences over material possessions.TakeawaysParental involvement is crucial in...
2025-12-2359 minThe Choice022 - Andrew BurkumAndrew Burkum shares his journey from Hollywood to the business world, emphasizing the importance of identity, personal growth, and the IDEA framework. He discusses the challenges faced in education and the need for individuality, as well as the role of AI in transforming learning. The discussion highlights the significance of understanding working geniuses and the impact of accountability on personal development. Andrew's insights provide valuable lessons for leaders and educators alike, encouraging a shift towards a more personalized approach in both business and education.TakeawaysThe importance of understanding one's identity in...
2025-12-161h 16The Choice021 - Courage Sparks ConfidenceRay and Jason explore the multifaceted nature of courage, emphasizing its importance in personal growth, parenting, and everyday life. They discuss how courage is not just the absence of fear but the choice to act despite it. The dialogue highlights the role of discomfort in fostering courage and the impact of vulnerability on personal connections. Through anecdotes and reflections, they illustrate how small acts of courage can lead to significant changes and inspire others to embrace their own courage.TakeawaysCourage is choosing action despite fear.Grit and perseverance are essential for...
2025-12-0957 minThe Choice020 - David LeaJason and David discuss the impact of childhood trauma on adult relationships and introduce a unique healing modality designed to help individuals understand and overcome their unresolved issues. The focus is on how these traumas manifest in relationship patterns and the importance of addressing them for personal growth and healthier connections.TakeawaysUnresolved childhood trauma affects relationships.People often repeat unwanted patterns in relationships.Understanding trauma is key to healing.Healing childhood trauma leads to better relationships.Emotional healing is a journey worth taking.
2025-12-0257 minThe Choice019 - PersevereJason and Ray dive deep into the internal battles we all face—doubt, insecurity, unfinished goals, fear of failure—and how discipline, coaching principles, and a shift in mindset can transform every area of life. From middle school athletes wrestling with confidence, to dads afraid to fail, to adults pushing through anxiety, social discomfort, and unfinished commitments, this conversation gets real about what it takes to grow.Jason opens up about his own struggles with school, social fear, and the grind of finishing his book. Ray brings the counselor-coach perspective—empathy paired with expectation, soft-heart with thick-skin, and pu...
2025-11-2557 minThe Choice018 - What to Do With DoubtJason and Ray explore the theme of doubt, particularly in the context of sports and personal growth. They discuss how self-doubt can manifest in various situations, the importance of faith and belief in overcoming challenges, and practical strategies for managing doubt. The conversation emphasizes the role of community and support in navigating doubt and highlights the need for parents to be involved in their children's development. Ultimately, the discussion encourages listeners to embrace doubt as a natural part of growth and to take actionable steps towards overcoming it.TakeawaysDoubt is a...
2025-11-181h 01The Choice017 - Low ExpectationsThis conversation explores the themes of expectations in education, the balance between empathy and high standards, and the role of athletics in developing work ethic. The speakers discuss the challenges faced by educators and students, the importance of individual learning styles, and the disconnect between education and the workforce. They emphasize the need for high expectations and the impact of a positive attitude and effort in achieving success.TakeawaysKids today are perceived as less willing to work hard.High expectations can coexist with empathy in education.The lowering of standards can...
2025-11-1157 minThe Choice016 - Celebrate the WinsJason and Ray discuss the importance of celebrating wins and reflecting on progress, particularly in the context of coaching and personal growth. They explore the concept of 'The Gap and the Gain' by Dan Sullivan, emphasizing the need for high performers to recognize their achievements rather than constantly striving for the next goal. The discussion also touches on the culture of a high school football team, the challenges of coaching, and the significance of empathy in leadership roles. Ray shares his experiences as a coach and counselor, highlighting the lessons learned in responsibility and perseverance, while Jason reflects on...
2025-11-041h 01The Choice015 - Model DadJason and Ray discuss the importance of modeling behavior for children, particularly in the context of social interactions, emotional intelligence, and self-advocacy. They share personal anecdotes about their experiences as fathers, emphasizing the need for parents to demonstrate healthy emotional responses and effective communication. The discussion also touches on the influence of role models, the challenges of parenting, and the significance of teaching children to navigate their emotions and relationships with others.TakeawaysModeling social interactions is crucial for children's development.Confidence in children can be built through practice and encouragement.Self-advocacy...
2025-10-2854 minThe Choice014 - Andrea BeemJason Richards and Andrea Beem explore the intricacies of life choices, faith, and the journey of entrepreneurship. Andrea shares her personal story of resilience, the pivotal moments that shaped her life, and how she found her calling in real estate. They discuss the importance of integrating faith into business practices and the launch of Andrea's new initiative, Kingdom Warrior, aimed at empowering others through community and support. The conversation highlights the significance of making intentional choices, overcoming adversity, and the power of connection in both personal and professional realms.Chapters01:42 Andrea...
2025-10-2159 minThe Choice013 - Velvet Brick LeadershipJason Richards and Ray discuss the concept of Velvet Brick Leadership, which combines firmness with compassion. They explore how this leadership style can be applied in various contexts, including parenting and coaching. The discussion also delves into the importance of empathy, conviction, and accountability in leadership roles, emphasizing the need for leaders to be both approachable and authoritative. The conversation highlights the challenges of navigating modern communication and the impact of digital culture on relationships and leadership.TakeawaysVelvet Brick Leadership combines firmness with compassion.Effective leadership requires knowing when to be authoritative.Empathy without...
2025-10-1448 minThe Choice012 - Confidence in ConflictJason and Ray explore the complexities of conflict resolution, emphasizing the importance of face-to-face communication, trust-building, and accountability in both personal and professional settings. They discuss the impact of online interactions on conflict and the necessity of having hard conversations to foster growth and understanding. The dialogue also touches on leadership dynamics, the role of healthy conflict in team environments, and the significance of maintaining respect during disagreements.TakeawaysConflict often escalates in online communication due to anonymity.Face-to-face interactions can diffuse tension and lead to resolution.Building trust is essential for...
2025-10-0750 minThe Choice011 - Rites of PassageJason and Ray discuss their recent experiences with school, coaching, and parenting. They reflect on the challenges and joys of transitioning into new roles, the importance of mentorship, and the significance of rites of passage in their children's lives. The conversation also touches on the impact of personal growth and the lessons learned through adventure and responsibility.TakeawaysCoaching is a rewarding experience that fosters personal growth.Parenting involves navigating transitions and supporting children through change.Experiential education is vital for personal development.Rites of passage help children transition into adulthood.Mentorship...
2025-09-301h 02The Choice010 - Perspectives | RIP Charlie KirkRay and Jason dive into the importance of understanding different perspectives, especially in light of recent events involving Charlie Kirk. They discuss the impact of social media on our perceptions, the value of face-to-face communication, and the need for mentorship and deeper connections in today's society. They emphasize the significance of love and empathy in disagreements and the importance of finding common ground to foster understanding and community.TakeawaysThe ability to see other people's perspectives is crucial.Social media often distorts our understanding of others.Face-to-face conversations foster deeper understanding.Many...
2025-09-231h 00The Choice009 - Living A Non-Anxious LifeJason and Ray explore the concept of living a non-anxious life, reflecting on personal experiences with anxiety, burnout, and leadership. They discuss the importance of self-reflection, defining reality, and the value of connection in overcoming anxiety. The conversation emphasizes the power of belief and the necessity of choosing to live in a way that prioritizes mental health and well-being. They also touch on the role of faith and spirituality in navigating life's challenges, particularly in professional settings.TakeawaysLiving a non-anxious life requires self-reflection and understanding of one's limits.Burnout can lead...
2025-09-161h 04The Choice008 - Is Therapy Helping?In this conversation, Jason and Ray explore the intricacies of therapy in personal growth, and the importance of accountability in both therapy and parenting. They discuss the challenges faced by therapists and the need for self-reflection in the therapeutic process. The conversation also delves into parenting dynamics, emphasizing the balance between tough love and nurturing relationships. Additionally, they touch on cultural norms in business and the human element in policy-making, ultimately advocating for principles over rigid policies in both therapy and parenting.TakeawaysTherapy can be a crucial tool for personal growth...
2025-09-0958 minThe Choice007 - The Power of Curiosity in CoachingRay and Jason dive into the concept of coachability, exploring its significance in personal development and leadership. The speakers share personal anecdotes about coaching experiences, the importance of curiosity, and the role of love and values in effective coaching. They discuss the dynamics between mentors, coaches, and leaders, emphasizing the need for a supportive environment that fosters growth and accountability. The conversation also touches on navigating moral standards in coaching and the impact of coaches on individuals' lives.TakeawaysCoachability is essential for personal growth.Curiosity fuels the desire to be coached...
2025-09-0455 minThe Choice006 - Who Do You Emulate?Jason and Ray explore the themes of emulation, authenticity, and the importance of mentorship in personal growth. They discuss the challenges of finding role models, the significance of learning through imitation, and the necessity of creating inspiring environments for youth. The dialogue emphasizes the need for intentional relationships and the role of authority in education, while also addressing the shifting paradigms in teaching and the importance of storytelling in engaging young minds.TakeawaysFinding people worth emulating is a challenge.Emulating patience can be a valuable trait.Authenticity is crucial in teaching and...
2025-09-0259 minThe Choice005 - Do It AnywayTakeawaysAccountability is crucial when starting something new.Overcoming excuses is a mindset challenge.Just doing it can lead to unexpected growth.Reflecting on past experiences can spark new ideas.Intentionality in relationships fosters deeper connections.Complacency can hinder personal and professional growth.Building meaningful relationships requires effort and intention.Energy in interactions can influence outcomes.Coaching dynamics play a significant role in development.Navigating hard conversations is essential for growth.Chapters00:00 The Spark of Podcasting03:17 Overcoming Excuses and Accountability06:13 The Importance of Just Doing...
2025-08-281h 03The Choice004 - Jason's StorySummaryThis conversation explores the speaker's journey from a small-town upbringing in Montana to navigating personal and family challenges, including loss and transformation. It delves into themes of resilience, the importance of choices, and the impact of environment on personal growth. Through storytelling, the speaker reflects on their experiences with family, mental health, and the journey of self-discovery, emphasizing the significance of connection and authenticity in overcoming adversity.TakeawaysWe are shaped by our environment and experiences.Childhood adventures can leave lasting impressions.Navigating family dynamics can be...
2025-08-2654 minThe Choice003 - Ray's StorySummaryThis conversation explores the life journey of the speakers, touching on their backgrounds, cultural experiences, education, family dynamics, and career paths. It delves into the immigrant experience, the importance of personal growth, and the challenges of parenting. The discussion also highlights the significance of mental health and the impact of community involvement.TakeawaysThe importance of understanding one's background shapes personal identity.Cultural experiences influence perspectives on life and opportunities.Education is a continuous journey that can start at any age.Parenting requires intentionality and...
2025-08-211h 06The Choice002 - The Power of Choice in LifeSummaryIn this conversation, the speakers explore the themes of intentional living, the impact of coaching, and the importance of making conscious choices in life. They discuss the cultural influences that shape our decisions, the role of social media in youth development, and the significance of building relationships with students. The conversation emphasizes the need for tough love and the power of small choices in achieving personal growth. Ultimately, they reflect on the journey of leveling up in life and the challenges that come with it.TakeawaysIntentional actions lead...
2025-08-1955 minThe Choice001 - The DemotakeawaysParenting requires navigating challenges with patience and understanding.Intentionality is crucial in guiding children towards responsibility.Generational differences impact parenting styles and expectations.Building respect and authority is essential for effective parenting.Laziness in children can be addressed through motivation and goal-setting.Setting clear goals helps children understand expectations.Screen time can negatively affect family dynamics and communication.Values and principles should guide parenting decisions and actions.Continuous growth and learning are vital for both parents and children.Effective communication fosters better relationships and understanding.summaryThis conversation delves into the complexities...
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