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THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 216 "We Only Have Sex When She Wants To- What Should I Do?"In this episode, Jay and Petra kick things off with the Question of the Day: “Why do men with multiple women struggle with the thought of those women sleeping with someone else?” It’s a juicy one, and the duo doesn’t hold back.Then, they jump into the main topic, inspired by a listener’s write-in. He shares that the woman he’s seeing only wants sex when she’s in the mood — leaving him feeling confused and disconnected. Jay and Petra break it all down, offering practical advice all while keeping things light, honest, a...2025-04-151h 01THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 213 "Why is She Acting Different With Her Childs Father Now That She's in a New Relationship "In this episode, Jay and Petra start with the Question of the Day: “What is something you had in a past relationship that you didn’t appreciate at the time, but now recognize as valuable?” Their answers might surprise you!Next, they dive into a listener’s letter about betrayal and broken trust—her cousin slept with her ex after lying about getting her blessing. The listener never actually gave her approval, but her cousin went ahead and did it anyway. Now she’s struggling with feelings of hurt and frustration. Did the cousin break the ul...2025-03-091h 11THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 212 “ Why Expect Them to Fight for The Relationship After You Ended It?”In this episode, Jay and Petra kick things off with the Question of the Day: Should women have to teach men how to please them, or should he already know? They dive into why some women say they don’t have time to teach a man and whether that mindset helps or hurts relationships.Then, they tackle the main topic—Why do people feel a way when an ex doesn’t fight for them, even when they were the ones who ended the relationship? Should an ex still chase after you, or is moving on the...2025-02-261h 07THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 211 “The Importance of Forgiving Yourself Before Entering a Relationship”In this insightful episode, Jay Christian and Petra dive deep into the transformative power of self-forgiveness and why it’s a critical step before entering any relationship. They explore how unresolved guilt, shame, and past mistakes can create emotional baggage that often sabotages intimacy and trust.Jay and Petra share actionable advice on how to identify the need for self-forgiveness, let go of self-judgment, and create a foundation of emotional clarity. They also discuss the ripple effects of unresolved self-blame on communication, vulnerability, and overall relationship health.Whether you’re s...2025-01-271h 04THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 209 "The Importance of Managing Dating Expectations"Join Jay Christian and Petra in this engaging episode as they dive into the importance of managing expectations in the dating world. Discover how to approach dating with an open mind, embrace new experiences, and focus on having fun rather than chasing perfection. Whether you’re navigating the dating scene or looking for tips to build stronger connections, this conversation is packed with practical advice and fresh insights. Tune in for a lively discussion that will transform how you view dating! This episode is sponsored by better help Cognac Ro...2024-12-221h 28THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 208 "Seeking Intimate Connection Elsewhere While Maintaining a Happy Household?”In this episode, Jay and Petra kick things off with the question of the day: “After your significant other passes away, how long should someone wait before declaring their romantic intentions?” The duo dives deep into this sensitive topic, exploring societal expectations, personal readiness, and emotional well-being. They then read and respond to a letter from a listener grappling with a complex issue: balancing the desire for deeper intimacy outside their marriage while preserving the happiness and stability of their current household. Jay and Petra offer compassionate, insightful advice on navigating the delicate boundaries of r...2024-11-141h 15THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 206 “Chalant Your A$$ Off!: Why Do Women Dislike Nonchalant Behavior In Men?"In this weeks episode, Jay and Petra get into a hot topic: Why do women dislike it when men are nonchalant? Are these feelings valid, or could they be overreactions? They tackle the complexities behind this dynamic, exploring the emotional needs and communication challenges that often arise in relationships. The episode kicks off with the question of the day: "Is it cheating to let someone think they have a chance with you?" Jay and Petra discuss different perspectives and offer insights on where to draw the line. Then, they read a listener's letter from a man whose...2024-10-221h 55THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 168 “Full Disclosure”Petra gets her feet wet as an interviewer as she gets a very up close and personal interview with the Cognac Room founder and host, Jay Christian. Nothing is off the table. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom2023-08-1057 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 91 “Watch Your Mouth”Jay, Petra, and Lyric talk about the importance of using discretion with your words in relationships. Not just as it relates to saying hurtful things but also in giving compliments and praise. This weeks featured artist is Young Juan with his single “90’s Kind Of Love” (31:07)2021-04-0549 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 90 “Confronting The Other Woman: Is It Going Too Far?”After playing a clip from social media about women confronting “the other woman”, Jay and Petra discuss the topic in depth. The question is posed, “Is it going too far to call a woman that has dealings with your guy?” You will find that the answer isn’t exactly cut and dry. This weeks featured artist is TG13 with his song “Bounce Back” (26:16). Contact us: thecognacroompod@gmail.com2021-03-281h 01THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 89 “iamciti”In this episode Jay sits down with TikTok sensation “iamciti” to discuss how he became popular on the app and in Japan as a whole. Covid has changed everyone’s life to some degree but “iamciti” is proof that it doesn’t have to be for the worse. Life is truly what you make it. He is also this weeks featured artist with his single “Designer” (12:51). Email:thecognacroompod@gmail.com2021-03-2131 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 88 “Threatened”In this episode Petra, Lyric, and Jay discuss the age old problem of having people who feel threatened by others because of their talent or drive. It’s the Cognac Room so you know it’s gonna get saucy!2021-03-171h 10THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 87 “Erik Everhard”In this episode Jay interviews Author and Men’s Coach Erik Everhard, one of the top paid and most recognized performers in adult films of the last two decades. He has won numerous Male performer awards and been enshrined in the hall of fame of the AVN and XRCO organizations. In 2010 he embarked on a transformational journey studying NLP at one of the top institutions in America. Since then he has dedicated his time and effort to helping men by teaching them elite level sexual skills to have confidence with women in the bedroom. This weeks featured artist is ReeCee Ra...2021-03-071h 25THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 86 “Love Bombing”Have you ever heard of “Love Bombing”? In this episode Lyric, Jay, Sincere, and Petra put a face on the term. The featured artist is Kvng Jay with his song “Elite” (33:55). Email: thecognacroompod@gmail.com2021-02-281h 13THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 85 “Réal Andrews” (General Hospital)In this episode Jay interviews Emmy Award winning actor Réal Andrews who plays Marcus Taggert on General Hospital. He has also acted on All My Children, As The World Turns, and Port Charles as well as a many movies and shows. He is also a Motivational Speaker, Action Coach, and entrepreneur. Listen in as Jay digs a little deeper into what fuels Réal and has brought him to where he is in life now. This weeks featured artist is K.Zia with her single “Mon Mood”(31:51)2021-02-2135 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 84 “BOB”In this episode Jay sits down with Bob Galletta, a coach who specializes in fundamental transformation, and host of the hit podcast Beyond Our Boundaries. Bob shares his very interesting journey to becoming a new and better version of himself in this very honest and open conversation. This weeks featured artist is Dez Mac with his single “Lately” (28:33)2021-02-141h 06THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 83 “Let’s Talk About It”In this episode Jay is joined by special guest Kim Swann as they discuss the topic of the Clubhouse app reaching a valuation of 1 billion dollars in just nine months, and the role that people of color play in its success . As well as how similar apps created by people of color have greatly lacked support from the black and brown community. These conversations are never easy but often necessary. So pull up a chair, pour up a glass, and let’s discuss. Featured artist of the week is DE. OG with his song “Got A Feeling” (31:19) from his album Black...2021-02-071h 02THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 82 “Here We Go Again”Petra, Lyric, and Jay welcome special guest Juan into the Cognac Room to discuss The drama surrounding T.I. and Tiny and how it relates to everyday life and relationships. Listener beware... This weeks featured artist is Lace with his song,”Lies And Corruption” (39:27) _____________________________________Facebook @The Cognac Room Podcast _____________________________________Instagram @the_cognac_room_podcast _____________________________________ Twitter @thecognacroom _____________________________________email: thecognacroompod@gmail.com2021-02-0256 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 81 “You Ain’t Gotta Lie Craig”Petra, Jay, and Sincere talk about the unnecessary lies that men and women tell each other and the possible “not so obvious” motives behind them. The featured artist this week is T3REZZY with his song “Where You Been” (33.18).—————————————————————————follow us Facebook @ The Cognac Room Podcast—————————————————————————Instagram @the_cognac_room_podcast—————————————————————————twitter @thecognacroom—————————————————————————email: thecognacroompod@gmail.com2021-01-241h 28THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 80 “Friends and Competition”Public Figure Ron Sanders (Nobody’s Favorite Podcast and Swag Cast Podcast) joins Jay in the Cognac Room to discuss the dynamics of friendly competition (if there is such a thing) and secret competition among friends. This weeks featured artist is Mike Jet. Song: Right One ft. T. Rizer.————————————————- Follow on Facebook @TheCognacRoomPodcast / Instagram @the_cognac_room_podcast / Twitter @thecognacroom / email: thecognacroompod@gmail.com2021-01-1856 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 79 “Body Image”In this episode Jay and Petra are joined by Rod (The Blunt Effect Podcast) and E ( Confessions Of An X Hairstylist) to discuss the increasing number of women and men alike, who feel the need to go under the knife to get the bodies and features they want.2021-01-111h 17THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 78 “The Disconnect” pt. 2Jay and Petra continue their talk about feeling disconnected from your partner and offer some solutions to the common causes of feeling detached.2021-01-031h 34THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp 77 “The Disconnect” pt.1Jay, Petra, and Sincere discuss the different causes of feeling disconnected from your partner in true Cognac Room fashion, with silliness and laughter. All the while dropping valuable nuggets and truth bombs along the way. This is part one. Enjoy!2020-12-281h 17THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 76 “True Love... A Myth?”JoJoBoo, a skeptic when it comes to love, joins Jay in the Cognac Room to discuss whether or not true love actually exists. She builds her case through a number of examples and experiences that make for an interesting episode.2020-12-211h 14THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 75 “No Disrespect, But...” pt.2Petra, Jay, and Lyric conclude their talk about how the older generation, who were our teachers failed us by giving us bad information that has encouraged bad decisions made by many of us. Lyric and Petra share some really personal and eye opening things in this episode. Pull up a chair, pour up a glass, and let’s discuss!2020-12-161h 17THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp 74 “No Disrespect, But...” pt.1Have you ever felt like your elders gave you a lot of bad guidance growing up? Jay, Petra and Lyric address this issue in this episode. Listen, learn, and be entertained!2020-12-1058 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 73 “Unpack That Ish!” pt. 2Jay and Davina continue their conversation about how ppl can unpack their baggage to find healing and happiness.2020-11-3032 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp 72 “Unpack That Ish!”Special guest Davina joins Jay in the cognac room to discuss the issues that many people have finding love and healthy relationships, after being broken, and how to heal. Grab a nice stiff drink, kick back in your favorite chair, and enjoy!2020-11-231h 09THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 71 “Look Before You Leap”Jay, Petra, and Sincere discuss the age old beef between men and women over the toilet seat. This one ends up in a very interesting place and as always, they bring it to you straight, no chaser!2020-11-161h 30THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 70 “How Do I Measure Up?”How do you measure up to your current lovers ex? Are you giving them a better or worse relationship experience? Why does it even matter? Is it actually important? Lyric, Petra, and Jay go all the way in on this one, so pour up a glass and enjoy!2020-11-091h 38THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 69 “Don’t Hold It Against Me”Why is it that many times when you tell someone something personal about your past, they end up holding it against you and throwing it in your face at some point? Petra and Jay talk about it in this episode. Pull up a chair, Pour up a glass, and let’s discuss!2020-11-011h 46THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 68 “WTF Happened Here?” Pt.2Jetta, Petra, Drama Free, and Jay conclude their drunken discussion on love and needing space. It goes down in The Cognac Room!2020-10-2255 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 66 “Community Service”Society is fine with a man sowing his oats and playing the field until he’s ready to settle down but a woman who does the same is frowned upon. In this episode “C” and “Q” join Jay and Petra in the cognac room to discuss a woman’s sexual liberties and if they should test the waters the same way men do. “Drunk Jay” shows up to antagonize Petra a bit, and some great points are made along the way.2020-10-0551 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 65 “Step Parenting: The Blessing And The Curse” pt.2Jay and Rod continue their conversation on step parenting and Rod gives his top 5 guidelines to step parenting successfully.2020-09-3059 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 64 “Step Parenting: The Blessing And The Curse” Pt.1Rod from “The Blunt Effect Podcast” joins Jay in an honest discussion about what it means to be a Step Parent and how to successfully embark on this amazing and joyous journey. (As well as how to navigate the sometimes deep and tumultuous waters! )2020-09-1257 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 63 “Super Save Em” pt. 2Lyric, Petra and Jay go yet a little deeper on the subject of being Mr./Mrs. “captain save a hoe” It’s not just financially!2020-08-0254 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 62 “Super Save Em”Lyric, Petra, and Jay discuss the “captain save a hoe” syndrome from both the male and female perspectives with special guest D-Elle. Pull up a chair, pour up a glass, and prepare to laugh!2020-07-2138 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 61 “The Clap Back”In this episode Petra and Lii Taki respond to the criticisms that Sincere and Jay had In episode 60 “Mistakes Women Make In The Bedroom” . Enjoy the ride!2020-07-061h 22THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 60 “Mistakes Women Make In The Bedroom”No one is perfect and we all make mistakes. Some bigger than others. Jay and Sincere discuss some of the biggest mistakes women make in the bedroom that result in turning their partner off or disrupting the sexual chemistry.2020-06-231h 18THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 59 “Single Man Problems” pt.2In this episode Jay talks with Dre Moe, the author of “ Queen City Life: Love’s Shadow” about single man problems, promiscuity, writing, self publishing, marriage, and guy trips. Laugh and learn as you listen to this one!2020-06-1656 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 58 “Single Man Problems” pt. 1In this episode Jay speaks with the late Antonio Roberson about the ups and downs ( mostly the downs ) of being a single man in the times in which we now live.2020-06-0950 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 57 “ The Main Reasons Relationships And Marriages Fail” pt.2In this episode Jay and his special guest Dr. Hotchkins continue their discussion about the reasons most relationships and marriages fail.2020-06-0136 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 56 “ The Main Reasons Relationships And Marriages Fail”In this episode Jay has special guest Dr. Brian Keith Hotchkins (The Facade Podcast) on to discuss the top 10 reasons most relationships and marriages fail. Dr. Hotchkins has been married for 26 years and knows a thing or two about a successful relationship.2020-05-251h 53THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 55 “The Ex Factor”Jay and Petra tackle the topic of ex’s and when if ever it’s ok to let them back in. They are later joined by Sincere who shares his view and experience as well. The tipsy talk here is everything!2020-05-181h 55THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 54 “Money Matters”Jay and special guest John Adams talk about women and money, the importance of money in relationships, and each parties role in a relationship where money is concerned. This episode is very informative and insightful.2020-05-1158 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 53 “When Is Enough, Enough?”Lyric, Petra, and Jay discuss a situation in Lyric’s life that involves her love interest and begs the question, when is enough, enough? Strap on your seat belt and enjoy!2020-05-042h 07THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 52 “ The Trials Of A Woman Who Loves Women”In this episode Jay and Petra talk with Chaz about the challenges , and discrimination she’s had to face as a strong educated black woman who openly enjoys romantic relationships with other women.2020-04-2745 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 51 “Dads And Divorce”In this one Jay and Sincere start out catching up and talking about manifesting the life you want. Next they get into fatherhood, being divorcees, and the challenges that some divorced fathers face.2020-04-191h 02THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 50 “👠” pt.2Special guest Q joins Petra and Jay as they discuss self image, the pettiness of women, “other women,” and and the wondering eye.2020-04-1458 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 49 “👠” pt.1In this episode The Cognac Room has special guest Q. She’s a fan of the show who joins Jay and Petra to talk about women and their insecurities and protective ways when it comes to other women approaching their man, men looking at other women while with their lady and much more.2020-04-0659 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMBonus episode 5 “Social Distancing And Relationships “In this time of social distancing, relationships can be a big challenge. Petra, Sincere, and Jay discuss this topic in true Cognac Room fashion and make some really good points.2020-04-011h 21THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 48 “Attraction” pt.2The laughs keep coming in this one a tipsy Jay continues to discuss the topic of attraction with Petra and Sincere. And as usual the side conversations are interesting as well.2020-03-301h 02THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 47 “Attraction” pt.1There are many different types of attraction. In this episode Jay and the crew explore a few of them and how they come into play.2020-03-221h 07THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 45 “The Beauty In The Break-up”Jay, Petra, and Sincere talk about breakups and how if you look closely there may be many positives that come out of them.2020-03-021h 00THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 44 “Foreplay” pt. 2Jay and the crew continue their discussion on foreplay with special guest Black.2020-02-241h 19THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 43 “Foreplay” pt.1In this episode Jay, Lyric, Petra, and Sincere talk with special guest Black about what Foreplay actually is, the different types of foreplay, and it becoming a lost art.2020-02-161h 00THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 42 “Quick Starts”Petra, Lyric, Sincere, and Jay talk about relationships that move too fast, how they usually play out, and why.2020-02-101h 04THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp.41 “Lovers And Friends” pt.2Jay, Petra, and Sincere continue their discussion on how friendships can affect love relationships.2020-02-031h 12THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 40 “Lovers And Friends”Jay, Sincere, and Petra talk about how friendships have the ability to cause issues in people’s relationships.2020-01-2755 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 39 “Child Support”Khouri and Jay Talk about Child Support enforced by the courts from the perspective of both parents.2020-01-201h 07THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 38 “Women Cheat Too” pt. 2Che, Petra, Sincere and Jay continue to discuss why women cheat.2020-01-121h 11THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 37 “Women Cheat Too”Jay, Sincere, and Petra, welcome Che into The Cognac Room to discuss women cheating and why.2020-01-051h 00THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 36 “Love Is A Choice” pt.2Lyric, Sincere, Petra, and Jay Continue to discuss what love truly is.2019-12-291h 11THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEP. 35 “Love Is A Choice” pt.1Jay, Petra, Lyric, and Sincere discuss the topic of love and the fact It’s a choice and not a feeling.2019-12-231h 05THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp.34 “Tiffany Nicole” pt.2Jay, Petra, Sincere, and David continue their discussion with Tiffiany Nicole from “The Real Side Chicks Of Charlotte” about side chick situations and more.2019-12-1642 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 33 “Tiffany Nicole” pt.1Petra, Jay, Sincere, and David discuss the side chick topic with Tiffany Nicole from the reality show “The Side Chicks Of Charlotte”.2019-12-081h 00THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 32 “Irrational/Side Chick” pt. 2Jetta, Petra, David, and Jay continue their Discussion about irrational mates and side chicks.2019-12-0153 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 31 “Irrational/Side Chick”Jay, Petra, David, and Jetta discuss irrational men and women, and the conversation leads to the topic of side chicks.2019-11-2459 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 30 “Where Was That Energy When You Was Fine”Jay, Petra, and Sincere discuss how sometimes very attractive people with many dating options will not give someone the time of day until their looks are on the decline and options are few.2019-11-171h 00THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 29 “Off Topic”In this episode Jay And his guest AJ discuss everything from letting go of toxic relationships to protecting your children.2019-11-1054 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMBonus Episode 4 “Tales Of Being Ghosted And Relationship Horror Stories”Jay and the usual suspects, Petra, Lyric, and Sincere, along with special guest Chaz tell stories of ghosting and being ghosted as well as a few relationship horror stories.2019-10-311h 07THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 27 “Different Strokes”In this episode Jay, Sincere, Petra, Lyric, and Six explore the topic of men sexing different women differently. Does this take place and if so why?2019-10-271h 21THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 26 “Love Online” pt. 2Lyric, Petra, and Jay continue their discussion on the pros and cons of online dating.2019-10-2158 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 25 “Love Online”Jay, Lyric, and Petra discuss the ups and downs of online dating.2019-10-131h 09THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 24 “Fact or Fiction” pt.2Jay, Lyric, Sincere, and Petra are joined by Six to delve deeper into the topic of fact or fiction when it comes to the thoughts and opinions we have of the opposite sex.2019-10-061h 36THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 23 “Fact or Fiction”Petra, Sincere, and Jay discuss common sayings and opinions when it comes to men and women to see if they are actually fact or fiction.2019-09-301h 01THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 22 “Red Flags”Jay and T discuss red flags early in a relationship. People tend to ignore the obvious and they shed light on a variety of red flags that should be your cue to exit ASAP.2019-09-2351 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 21 “Peake Interest”Jay discusses Business and travel with Derrick Peake, an entrepreneur and travel enthusiast.2019-09-151h 31THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 20 “Phone Privileges” pt.2Jay, Petra, and Sincere, and Lyric conclude their discussion on phone issues in relationships.2019-09-0850 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 19 “Phone Privileges”Jay, Petra, and Sincere discuss phone issues in relationships and men and women going through each other’s phones.2019-09-011h 01THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 18 “Grown Man-ish” Pt.2Jay, Petra, Sincere, and Joey conclude the discussion of what makes a man a man and how to be a man in today’s society.2019-08-261h 00THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 17 “Grown Man-ish”Jay and guests Petra, Lyric, Sincere, and Aj discuss some of the key points of being a man. Just having the equipment isn’t enough! See if you agree with the things they’ve decided separates the men from the boys.2019-08-1859 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp.16 ”On Again Off Again”In this episode Jay and his guest T. Take the bull by the horns and discuss the dynamics of on again off again relationships, what factors come into play, and how to deal with them.2019-08-1159 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMBonus episode 3 “Bulletproof Cognac” part 2Darnell Brown continues to interview Jay and dig deep into the mind of the man behind the podcast.2019-08-0551 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMBonus Ep.2 “Bulletproof Cognac”In this bonus episode Jay gets interviewed by friend and fellow podcaster Darnell Brown. He shares details from his personal life as well as upcoming projects, and views on some of today’s issues.2019-07-2841 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 15 “No Wedding Cake Yet??!!” Pt.3Jay and his guests wrap up their discussion about why women 40 years old and older are still unmarried.2019-07-221h 07THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 14 “No Wedding Cake Yet??!!” Pt. 2Jay continues the discussion with Lyric and Petra about why women 40 and up are still unmarried. This time around they got more of a male perspective and invited Joel and Sincere to join in the conversation.2019-07-151h 07THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 13 No Wedding Cake Yet??!! PT.1Jay discusses the top 3 reasons women 40 years old and up are still unmarried with two women in their 40’s, Lyric and Petra.2019-07-0751 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 12 Local LegendIn this Episode Jay talks with childhood friend and local legend Kandi Man about his latest project and his time on the music scene in Charlotte, NC.2019-07-0147 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 11 Define BougieJay sits down with Petra and Riddle to discuss the meaning of the word bougie as it relates to the hip hop community as well as others. Who’s right and who’s wrong?2019-06-241h 31THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp.10 LuxuriousIn this episode Jay talks to “Ice” from Luxurious Entertainment. They discuss the start of the company, his business relationship with 50 cent, how him and his team took the party promotion game to the next level, and the 4th annual Wet and Wild jet ski party.2019-06-171h 23THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp.09 Agree To DisagreeJay along with guests Matt and Joey tackles a wide range of topics from music to tattoo culture (40:46), supernatural experiences (124:46), spirituality ( 130:45), and much more!2019-06-092h 06THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp.8 A sneak peek of Nayy SeductionJay interviews public figure, model, video vixen, and cast member of the upcoming reality show, “Models Of Atlanta.”2019-06-0244 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp.7 A New Set Of EyesJay sits down with Joe Deluca as they discuss the life, lust, and mindset of a millennial.2019-05-261h 31THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMBonus Ep.1 “Deny, Deny, Deny!”Jay discusses M.E.A.T.S, a personal basketball rivalry, and Juneteenth in an entertaining round table discussion with friends E and Darnell Brown.2019-05-2549 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp.5 Gun TalkIn this episode Jay and his guest Sean talk guns, violence, school shootings, and gun control.2019-05-131h 54THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp.4 “Bulletproof” pt.2Jay sits down with Motivational speaker, Brand coach, and Author of "The Bullet Proof Hustler" Darnell Brown . The conversation gets interesting to say the least.2019-05-0630 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp.3 "Bulletproof" pt.1Jay sits down with Motivational speaker, Brand coach, and Author of "The Bullet Proof Hustler" Darnell Brown . The conversation gets interesting to say the least. podcoin2019-04-281h 02THE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 2 "No playing in the dark"In this episode, Jay sits down with poet, singer, and model Riddle to get her take on the birds and the bees.2019-04-2156 minTHE COGNAC ROOMTHE COGNAC ROOMEp. 1 9 kids and side conversationsIn this first episode Jay gets his feet wet with his first interview with a middle aged woman who has raised nine children. The side conversations are insightful and entertaining. Listen till the end, it gets good!2019-04-141h 36