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Uncut with JeffARFID Andrew & ARFID JeffJeff Perla is joined by social media friend ARFID Andrew. The boys talk about their eating struggles and how it has affected their lives.
2025-05-1943 minUncut with JeffLife updates with Jeff & ChrisJeff Perla is joined by good friend Chris Pitsicalis to catch up and fill you in on some life updates
2025-04-1438 minUncut with JeffWtf are we doing with Jeff & ElliottJeff Perla and Elliott Norris overshare in this weeks episode with a lot of laughs. Hear about the real story behind Antarctica, Mardi Gras, and Elliott’s personal life.
2025-03-1040 minUncut with JeffWrap it up with Jeff & ElliottJeff Perla & Elliott Norris share what’s next for them in the coming weeks.
2024-11-2530 minUncut with JeffNoah Davis wants to get stuffedJeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Noah Davis for a gay journey. The boys share their goals and how being sexual on the internet has made them successful. Should Jeff, Elliott, and Noah drop a Christmas song?
2024-11-1143 minUncut with JeffWanna collab? With Taylor StilsonWhile Elliott is away Jeff Perla is joined by Taylor Stilson sharing his thoughts on hooking up with straight friends. Does an enlarged prostate make it more pleasurable? Take a shot every time Taylor asks Jeff to collab.
2024-10-1442 minUncut with JeffDon't Fall In Love On VacationJeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by their travel bestie Alex Van Gurp! The boys discuss their week in Portugal, Jeff's crash and burn Euro relationship... Tune into this episode of Lost Nuggs!
2024-08-1234 minUncut with JeffA Hot "New Gay" Has Entered The Villa with Luke MatthewsJeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Luke Matthews, a "new" gay in the community. What does coming out look like for Gen z-ers, FMK Gaymer edition, Will Jeff and Luke date? Maybe Elliott and Luke have a better connection? Tune into this episode of Lost Nuggs!
2024-07-2254 minUncut with JeffThe Gays Of Traitors Season 3Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Courtney Revolution, reality TV guru to reminisce on iconic shows from the past and bash the ones they were on. Jeff & Courtney may have overshared, but lets see how this goes!
2024-07-0245 minUncut with JeffPsychic Readings with Roy TomkoJeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Roy Tomko, psychic medium in hopes of getting a look into their future. Roy shares what is in store for Jeff & Elliott this next year. Elliott is joined by a spirit looking for closure.. Listen to this episode to hear this in real time!
2024-06-2458 minUncut with JeffCheesecake Factory Underwear with Austin ShowJeff Perla & Elliott Norris are joined by Austin Show. Why don't you wear your good underwear to the Cheesecake Factory? Who chills naked together? Between Austin, Jeff, & Elliott what is the obsession with twinks?
2024-06-1739 minUncut with JeffWho joined the mile high club?Jeff Perla & Elliott Norris are joined by Chris Pitsicalis. Who offended Jojo Siwa's bestie? Is it normal to ask someone if they are autistic on a date? Sounds Iike Jeff & Elliott have had a week..lets unpack this...
2024-06-1047 min
Uncut with JeffWho is the bigger h0e Jeff or Elliott?Jeff Perla & Elliott Norris launch their new venture "Lost Nuggs" sharing their ins and outs navigating life behind the scenes. Catch up on their dating life. Is Elliott on Ozempic? Who has the higher body count between Jeff & Elliott? Well lets find out...
2024-06-0343 min
Uncut with JeffWhy Ban Drag Shows? with Britney Banks & Justine Van De BlairJeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by drag artists Britney Banks (@thebritneybanks) & Justine Van De Blair (@justinequeenqueen) to share everything that is going on with the new legislation that just passed in Tennessee. Jeff explains what you can expect in this new "Gays in the Wild" journey!
2023-03-0638 min
Uncut with JeffThe End with Nancy RodriguezJeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by Netflix's Love Is Blind star Nancy Rodriguez (@thenancyrodriguez) to share their most recent relationship highs, lows, and what ultimately led to their breakups. Nancy shares why her and Bartise were never meant to be (5:02) Jeff asks Nancy the most inappropriate question (22:20) Jeff dives in the why him and Alex ended (25:30)! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
2023-02-2749 minUncut with JeffAstrology Gays with the Astro TwinsJeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) & Alex Van Gurp (@Alexvangurp) are joined by Ophira Edut (@Astrotwins) to discuss their birth charts. Ophi is an Astrologer for Elle Magazine as well as one of the masterminds behind Amazon Prime Video's latest show Cosmic Love. Are the stars aligned for Jeff & Alex? What zodiac signs make the best matches? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! You guys can follow the Astro Twins Here & be sure to stream Cosmic Love on Prime Video now!
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2022-09-1446 minUncut with Jeff'Uncoupled' & Immigration with Gonzalo Aburto de la FuenteJeff Perla is joined by Gonzalo Aburto de la Fuente (@Gonzalo_Aburto) from 'Uncoupled' now streaming on Netflix. Gonzalo shares his experiences on set working with Darren Star & NPH. How difficult has it been immigrating to the US from Mexico City? Jeff & Gonzalo give some life advice to 2 guys navigating a bump in their relationships. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
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& be sure to stream Uncoupled on Netflix now!
2022-09-0539 minUncut with JeffRelationship Status, Monkey Pox, & MoreJeff Perla is joined by Alex Van Gurp (@AlexVanGurp) to discuss their relationship pending the show. You all submitted questions you wanted to know. What was it like transitioning back into the real world? When did we tell our friends? What was it like filming the bedroom scene on camera?
The second half of this podcast Jeff is joined by Gabe, (@GabrielBoyers) to share his experience battling Monkey Pox. What does Gabe wish he knew prior to getting it? What's it feel like? The boys discuss everything from where he got it to treatment. Grab a glass...
2022-07-2540 min
Uncut with JeffTwitter Kings and Daddies with Christian Berry (@ChristianTBerry)Jeff Perla is joined by Christian Berry (@ChristianTBerry) to reminisce on their sugar daddies! What is the worst situation they've put themselves in with a daddy? How did Christian start on Twitter? What is the most awkward sex video to film of yourself? We talked about a lot more than we cared to share on this but hope you enjoy!
If you want to follow Christian @ChristianTBerry on Instagram or @Seateabe
2022-02-141h 14Uncut with JeffWhat Would You Do For $1?Jeff Perla is joined by Daniel (@NKD_Dan) to laugh about the odd requests they've been receiving? What would you send out for money? What is something that just no amount of money can get? Who sent out their c*m rag for $200? Oh god... Enjoy
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2022-02-0740 minUncut with JeffOn The Run with BashSebastian (@BashDeltas) joins Jeff Perla (@JeffPerlaa) to talk about what it's like going back to the place you grew up for the holidays. What do you do when you see a family member you don't get along with? Is it normal to get anxious going back home. Why is it so common to leave home and move to a big city? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2021-11-1540 minUncut with JeffStretch Marks, Loose Skin, & Self Love with Kendrick Leon ValKendrick (@KendrickLeonVal) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his weight loss journey and self love. Have you noticed a difference in attention from gay men post weight loss journey? Has your "type" changed at all? What aspects of your mental health have grown throughout the process. This episode takes a lot of twist and turns. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2021-10-1853 minUncut with JeffDu Du with Jimmy & JessaJimmy (@JimmyPezzino) & Jessa (@TheeJessa) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss their new douche @discover_DU. How often do you douche? Is it just me or do you view douching as like arghhh I'm a hungry bottom lets fuck... Here's the Du's and Dunt's on douching. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
If you'd like to try or purchase your own Du - https://www.discoverdu.com/
2021-10-0433 minUncut with JeffCircle Message ... with Daniel CusimanoDaniel Cusimano (@Daniel_Cusimano) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his Virginity, Gay Culture, and his time on The Circle. Has Daniel had his first kiss now? Why is he holding on to his virginity for so long? Who was his best friend and not so favorite person from the show? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2021-09-2936 minUncut with JeffMental Health, Suicide, & PreventionWith September right around the corner, Tony Santilli (@TonyJoeSantilli) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) as they discuss National Suicide Awareness Month. The Boys dive in on their own mental health journeys. Have they ever contemplated suicide? Men who post shirtless selfies non-stop, are they more narcissistic than others? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2021-08-3039 minUncut with JeffTruvada, Descovy, Pep What's The Difference?Joey Gentile (@Joey.Gentile) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to talk about Truvada, Descovy, & Pep. What's the difference between Truvada and Descovy? How many people actually take Prep? Do you need insurance to get Prep? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
I think my most asked question is "How can I get Prep with or without insurance"? You can checkout Mistr here.
2021-08-2331 minUncut with JeffJeff & Corey Unhinged & UneditedCorey Rae (@ImCoreyRae) and host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) share their experiences dating around. Are you a serial killer if you go on a weekend date? Do you know what you want in a relationship? Is it ok to compare new and old relationships? This conversation is a great representation of what it's like to be in my head. Aka unedited and all over the place. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2021-08-1640 minUncut with JeffThe Gay VirginKevin (@Hoosagoodboy) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share his thoughts on sex before marriage. What is it like to be 53 and never have had penetrative sex yet? Would you be scared to take a guys virginity? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2021-07-0533 minUncut with JeffMy Wife Found Out I Was GayJeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 3 guests, David, Josh, & Britt who are all men who were once married to women. At what point did they know they were gay? Why go through with a marriage if you knew you were gay? How one wife went through his phone and discovered ... well grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2021-06-2137 minUncut with JeffShould I Become A Dad?Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 2 guests, Casey & James who are fathers VIA adoption & surrogacy. What's easier adoption or surrogacy? Is it possible to jerk off into a cup and get a female pregnant turkey baster style? Listen as we hear how these men did it. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2021-06-1434 minUncut with JeffCan You Sit On A Pierced D*ck?Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 3 guests who have unique piercings and tattoos in their genital areas. Would you bottom for a guy who had a pierced dick? Listen as we break down what is safe or not safe. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2021-06-0818 minUncut with JeffNo D*ck Is That Good!Zak (@TallZT) & Brian (@yeatheycallmeb) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share their experiences with straight men. Should you hook up with your straight friends? At what point should you start saying no to them? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2021-05-2441 minUncut with JeffWould You Be In An Age Gapped Relationship?Couple Marco (@Msivio516) & Arial (@Arialw_) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share if a 27 year age gap is a factor in their relationship. Later in the episode Jeff is joined by Andre, 21 (@_who_is_Andre) who shares his experience in an age gap relationship, and why it didn't work. Do you think you could be in an age gapped relationship? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2021-05-1743 minUncut with JeffDo you have a "Micro Penis"?Anonymous Guests join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss their "Micro Penis". A Micro Penis has a stretched penile length of a maximum of 3.67 IN (9.32 cm). Should a guy with a micro penis disclose his size prior to meeting up for sex? What is penile humiliation? Sean (Seanlshow) shares his experience hooking up with someone who has one. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2021-05-1038 minUncut with JeffHow Has My Race Impacted Me with Bernard GreenBernard Green M.Ed, Doctoral Candidate (@johnnybgood09) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to challenge him to have a conversation about race. Can white people be victims of racism? Is it ok to use the "N" word in songs? Is racism a power dynamic that is pushed upon others? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2021-04-2653 minUncut with JeffElliott Norris Is My Gay GuideElliott Norris (@elliottnorris) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss everything from Colton Underwood to shirtless selfies. The boys share how they learned to appreciate their bodies and avoid the Instagram explore page expectations. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2021-04-1944 minUncut with JeffTwink Therapy with Andres, Steven, and JavierJeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by Instagram friends; Andres (@andrespalenciao), Steven (@smccutie) & Javier (@jv.rv) to share their experience as a Twink. At what age are you no longer considered a Twink? Do Twink's have a daddy fetish? Has anyone ever used the term Twink to negatively described someone? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
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2021-04-1242 minUncut with JeffBathroom Do's and Don'ts with Frank (@Franekskywalker)Frank (@Franekskywalker) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share what they think is the right or wrong way to use the bathroom. From toilet paper to bidets to going in a hole in the ground. These boys leave nothing to the imagination and share way more than they should have. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2021-03-2943 minUncut with JeffHole Etiquette with Dr. Evan GoldsteinDr. Evan Goldstein(@DrEvanGoldstein) owner of @BespokeSurgical & @TheFutureMethod joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to talk all things related to your behind. What is the best products and ways to wipe for men? Is douching with water harming your insides? Is there really such thing as the second wall? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2021-03-2351 minUncut with JeffEverything You Wanted To Know with NikoNiko Wirachman (@Nikowirachman) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to answer all your personal questions and advise you needed. Have you ever hit your g-spot? What to do if your mans cheats on you? At what age did eating an ass go from being super gross to super hot? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2021-03-1542 minUncut with JeffIs Sex Addiction A Thing?Harris Stevens (@Heresystevens) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to talk about his experience being "diagnosed" a sex addict. Is being a sex addict a real thing? Does religion play a role in the diagnosis? If you masturbate "too much" are you considered a sex addict? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2021-02-1546 minUncut with JeffDo I Have An Eating Disorder?Traci Carson (@Traci_Carson) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to analyze Jeff's picky eating habits. How restrictive is Jeff's palate? What percentage of gay men actually have an eating disorder? Have you ever skipped a meal because you wanted to look skinnier? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2021-02-0850 minUncut with JeffNavigating Curious Straight Men with Anthony GuerrieriAnthony Guerrieri (@badboyantg) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss their experience hooking up with straight men. What't the appeal? How did it work out for Jeff & Anthony? The boys talk with 3 other anonymous guests who share how some have and some haven't gotten over their first love to a straight man. Jeff & Anthony try to leave the boys with some advice on how to navigate a curious straight male. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2021-02-0154 minUncut with JeffPower Bottoming with James & NicoJames (@jj1993c) & Nico (@musically_nico) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share what exactly a Power Bottom is. Is there one sole definition of a power bottom? Does a power bottom mean you can take any dick size? Is a power bottom a sexual position or a personality trait? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2021-01-2537 minUncut with JeffAre You My Fetish?Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by 4 guests; Mike, Derek, Ryan, & Theo who have all been fetishized for their outter appearance. How does it feel when someone treats you like a fetish? Is there a difference between having a type and being a fetish? Is it wrong to be curious about how big a guy's dick is because of his race or what color his pubes are because of his hair color? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
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2021-01-1840 minUncut with JeffWhy I Made An Only Fans with (@Jimmypezzino)Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by his good friend Jimmy Pezzino (@JimmyPezzino) to share why they motivated one another to make an Only Fans. What's the craziest request they've received so far? What made Jeff finally pull the trigger? How pissed did Jeff get when he saw his pictures leaked? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
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2021-01-1143 minUncut with JeffAre You Mentally ill If You Traveled For New Years Eve with (@DontAskGreg)Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by Dr. Greg Cason (@DontAskGreg) a psychologist for over 20 years with an expertise in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. The boys go through behavioral patterns of gays traveling to Mexico for New Years Eve. Why did men travel for New Years? If they think people know it is wrong why are they still posting about it? Do people partying during a pandemic have a mental illness? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
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2021-01-0433 minUncut with JeffHow To Move Past The Hookup Phase On Dating AppsJeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by 3 different couples, who met on various dating apps; Tinder, Scruff, & Grindr. First we have Steven and Connor or married couple VIA Tinder. How did Steven handle being Super-liked by Connor? How far into dating someone do you delete dating apps? Should you talk to a few guys at once to keep your options open? My next couple is Tony & Alejandro from Scruff. After a 15 year marriage Tony dove into scruff. How long did it take to find Alejandro? Last but not least our Grindr couple that has been together for 7 years, Samuel & Euan...
2020-12-2152 minUncut with JeffMens Health - How To Check For Testicular Cancer with CharlieJeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by 2019 Mr Gay World South Africa, Charl-jaquairdo van Helsdingen (@charlieboy23) to share his experience with testicular cancer. How did he first find out? What are some ways you can check your testicles from home? Does testicular cancer lead to the removal of your testicles and reproductive organs? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
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2020-12-1436 minUncut with JeffWhat It Means To Be HIV + with Shane, Chris, and ChristopherJeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by Instagram friends; Shane (@theshaneh), Chris (@itsgalby) & Christopher (@cjrfitnessforward) to share their experience being HIV+. When did they first find out? What does it mean to be Undetectable = Untransmittable? How has being HIV+ affected their relationships? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
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2020-12-0744 minUncut with JeffWhat's The Craziest Thing You've Done For Money?What's The Craziest Thing You've Done For Money? Alex Vangurp (@Alexvangurp) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss "What's The Craziest Thing You've Done For Money?" The boys are joined by 4 guests throughout the episode; Hayden, Matt, Anonymous Chad, and Rhys to share the craziest things they've done for money. From farts to blow jobs, you'll need a glass of wine for this one. Keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2020-11-3039 minUncut with JeffInstagram Booties with Ties, Daniel, & JeremyJeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by other Instagram Booty boys; Ties (@Strip.Ties), Daniel (@NKD.Dan) & Jeremy (@Grmhenry). Does posting photos of your butt make you a bottom? How have your friends and family reacted to your social media accounts? When people see you in public do you get nervous? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!
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2020-11-1641 minUncut with JeffEscaping Home-aphobia In AmericaTy Talley (@TyTalleyOfficial) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss what life was like growing up in what they felt was homophobic towns. Does it feel like you need to leave your home town to be accepted for your sexuality? What have you gained from leaving where you grew up? What advice would you give to anyone who is feeling uncomfortable or stuck in a small town? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2020-11-0444 minUncut with JeffGay Sex with Brent Everett (@BrentEverett_com)Brent Everett (@BrentEverett_com) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his career in the adult entertainment industry. What was his favorite scene? Has doing porn ever affected his relationships? Do you think gay porn is a good way to educated gay men on sex? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2020-10-2637 minUncut with JeffSober Gay'sJeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) invites on Eddie (@eddiebeiler), Fernando (@fernandodc), & Jon (@jonjondotcom) to discuss life as a sober gay male. At what age did you guys first start experiencing drugs and alcohol? Have you ever had a problem with drugs or alcohol? Do you find it difficult to build friendships and find a safe gay space without the use of drugs or alcohol? Keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2020-10-1939 minUncut with JeffElection DayJeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) invites Arielle Scarcella (@arielle_scarcella) & JC Dombrowki (@jc.dombrowski) to discuss their final thoughts before Election Day. Who is voting for Trump and who is voting for Biden? Is it possible for someone to vote for Trump if they are in the LGBTQ community? Can you be friends with someone who has opposing political views than you? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2020-10-1249 minUncut with JeffSex Work Is WorkJeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) invites on 3 guests to discuss sex work. Guests include Peter Pagen (OheyPete), Jimmy Pezzino (@JimmyPezzino), & Kevin Mimms(@TheBlackWidowNYC). Do you ever feel it is wrong to show off your body to make money? Has a relationship ever failed because of it? Do you think sex work has a negative stigma? How do you change the narrative to make it more socially acceptable? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2020-09-1459 minUncut with JeffKarens Gone Wild with (@Pavelpaulinich)Pavel Paulinich (@PavelPaulinich) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss cancel culture and the creation of his latest Instagram (@KarensGoingWilds). What do you do when you are approached by a Karen? Do you think these people are past the point of educating? How do you step in if you see someone being harassed by a Karen or Kevin? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2020-09-0852 minUncut with JeffThe BreakupHost Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) invites 3 guests (@TheJulesCastro, @JMusiel09, & @KevinllWriter) on who have recently gone through navigating a breakup. Did Covid have anything to do with why they broke up? How do you manage a breakup when you can't really see anyone new right now? Is it possible to live with your ex boyfriend during this time? Should you settle to be in a relationship right now just because you're horny? Listen as Jeff helps these men navigate their breakups. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2020-08-3133 minUncut with JeffGay Fat Friend with Todd MastersonTodd Masterson (@GayFatFriend) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share what it's like being the Gay Fat Friend. Have you ever felt fetishized for being chubby? Do you think gay men notoriously hangout with people who look like themselves? If you could give advice to anyone insecure in their own body, what would you say? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
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2020-08-1748 minUncut with JeffGenerations Of GayHost Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) organizes a group of men 50+ to share their journeys of coming out. Who was married with children? What was it like trying to explore your sexual identity in the midst of the AIDS epidemic in the 80's? Can you find true love after 50? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
I want to give a shoutout to Liam, Edwin, & Michael for sharing their personal journeys with me, it means a lot. Give them a follow.
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2020-08-101h 03Uncut with JeffSexual Fantasies with Niko (@NikoWirachman)Niko Wirachman (@nikowirachman) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss sexual fantasies. Do you think as gay men, we are forced to be more sexually exploratory in order to keep a man interested? Do you like when people call you names or use derogatory words? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2020-08-0341 minUncut with JeffExploring the B's of the LGBTQAndres Simon (@andressimon_) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the struggles of coming out as Bisexual. Jeff and Andres chemistry sparks as sexual tension builds. Later on Jeff is joined by Ellie Shiovitz (@ellieshiovitz) & Wesley Boyett (@Wesleyboyett) as they discuss what life is like for them fitting into the LGBTQ community. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2020-07-2853 minUncut with JeffUnderstanding Gen Z with (@JC.Dombrowski)JC Dombrowski (@JC.Dombrowski) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the annoying habits of being a Gen Z'er. JC and Jeff share their thoughts on Tik Tok vs Instagram, LPSG.com, & trying to make gay friends. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2020-07-2042 minUncut with JeffEmbarrassing Sexual ExperiencesHost Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) sought out the help of fans to hear about their most embarrassing sexual experiences. Magnus (@potgietermagnus) shares his not so hot experience in Qatar. Anthony (Anonymous) shares what it's like to be walked in on & Christopher (@chrisnemetz) shares what happens once you get catfished. Let's see how many of these stories you boys relate too. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2020-07-1337 minUncut with JeffWest Coast Gays VS East Coast Gays with (@Koludro)Daniel Koludrovich (@Koludro) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to debate gay stereotypes between the West coast vs East coast. The boys share their perceptions on what the differences are like from the dating scene to going out. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2020-07-0648 minUncut with JeffCovid & Chill with Dr.Leo (@DrLeoNissola)Dr. Leo Nissola (@DrLeoNissola) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss Covid-19 in the United States. We have all been forced to listen to mainstream media and follow the CDC guidelines for the past 4 months, but what really should we be doing? Is a mask essential? When is it appropriate to start hooking up with someone again? If the government says you are allowed to do something now, should you go? How do we feel about the bashing and shaming that is being shown on social media today? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on...
2020-06-2243 minUncut with JeffLiberals, Conservatives, What Am I?Anthony Velez (@Antnyvlz) & David Leatherwood (@Realbrokebackpatriot) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the current political climate in the United States. These boys dive into 3 issues in particular; LGBTQ rights, the Black Lives Matter (BLM) Movement alongside police brutality, and also the system and voting in general. Is it a moral obligation for gay men to vote democrat? Is it wrong to be republican and be gay? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2020-06-151h 15Uncut with JeffEffects Of Social Media On Your Relationship with Rick & Griff (@rick_and_the_griffopotamus)Rick & Griff (@rick_and_the_griffopotamus) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss how social media can effect a relationship. How did Rick & Griff get into the production of their own line of dildos? What were the beginning struggles of being an Instagram couple? Listen as we break down couple questions and get an inside scoop into this couples relationship. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2020-05-1855 minUncut with JeffIs There Such Thing As Too Big? (@TomDeanErnsting)Tom Ernsting (@TomDeanErnsting) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to see if there is such thing as too big. You can hear all about what they classify as too big. How they feel about the penis pump& enhancement pills. Tom shares advice on how a parent should approach coming out to their child. And most importantly a genuine conversation between 2 men from different generations sharing stories about gay culture. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with them on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2020-05-1149 minUncut with JeffPhotography In The World Of Social Media with Felipe (@FollowFelipe)Felipe Borras (@FollowFelipe) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss how photography grew in a world driven by social media. You can hear all about how Felipe got started in Photography, Instagram, and made a professional career out of it. Felipe dives into who if favorite influencers to work with are and who he hopes to never see again. What's the weirdest thing these 2 have done for money? Is a threesome in the future for these Jeff, Felipe, & Felipe's Boyfriend Andrew (@followandriy)? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2020-05-0544 minUncut with JeffQuarantined & Sexually Deprived with John Duff (@IAmJohnDuff)John Duff (@IAmJohnDuff) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss similar feelings that we all must be feeling during this time. You can hear how Jeff & John are both dealing with sexual deprivation and this quarantine lifestyle. The boys go in depth in what they are doing to occupy their time, things they miss, and a majority of off topic inappropriate questions along the way. Grab your glass of wine and tune into this episode of Behind The Bum!.
2020-04-2851 minUncut with JeffCosmetics with Dr. Jen (@dolceaestheticsny)Dr. Jennifer DiLandro (@dolceaestheticsny) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss common aging signs among men. She offers advice on how to combat the aging process for guys. She is also the Doctor behind Jeff's laser hair removal on his butt. Find out if getting Botox in your hole is a good idea! What typeof cosmetic surgery is considered the gateway drug? If you have ever been interested in learning about potential treatment options based on your age give this a listen. Grab your glass of wine and tune into this episode of Behind The Bum!.
2020-04-2034 minUncut with JeffTraveling Hookups With Logan (@Brogan_NYC)Logan (@Brogan_NYC) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss what they loved and miss most about their lives traveling. What are the essentials you need to bring to a hookup? Have you ever stolen anything from a hookups apartment? What city has the best gay nightlife? Which city has the friendliest LGBTQ community? Would they hookup with their exes? All that and more on this episode with Brogan. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2020-04-1440 minUncut with JeffJobs Before Fame with The Zakar Twins (@Zakartwins)Michael & Zach (@ZakarTwins) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss what their aspirations were before they pursued "Instagram Fame". You can hear all about someones sexual experience with a fruit, how did Zach take having his nudes leaked on LPSG.com, and why is Michael's penis curved lol. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2020-04-0636 minUncut with JeffBest Bottoming Practices with Dr. Goldstein (drevangoldstein)Dr. Evan Goldstein (@drevangoldstein) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the best bottoming practices for first timers or those who may be looking to better their skills. Dr. Goldstein is the founder of Bespoke surgical (@bespokesurgical), an elite surgical and sexual wellness practice for today's male. Jeff & Dr. Goldstein share advice from positions to douching and what you can do from home to heighten your experience. Whether you're a top or bottom, everyone can learn something from this episode. The last 15 minutes this duo sits down and answers some of your bottoming questions so grab a glass of...
2020-03-1049 minUncut with JeffWhat's The Weirdest Requests You've Ever Received? @JustasoccerboiEnrico (@justasoccerboi) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss what life is like in the gay community here in Sydney. You can hear all about Enrico’s first time bottoming, Only Fans, as well as Jeff and Enrico’s awkward encounters during their time together. At 16:52 you can hear about why Enrico started his Only Fans account and at 26:56 you can hear all about his sexual Bread encounter. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2020-03-0242 minUncut with JeffStereotyping with 27 Travels(@27travels)Gabi & Shanna (@27travels) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss Gay & Lesbian stereotypes. Are lesbians truly homebody cat lovers? Are gay men truly obsessed with their physical appearance? Listen as we break down each truth and misconception. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2020-02-2444 minUncut with JeffThe Devil Works Hard, But Spencer Olson Works Harder (@Spencer.T.Olson)Spencer Olson (@Spencer.T.Olson) long lost cousin to the Mary-Kate & Ashley Olsen, joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the Hetrick-Martin Institute (HMI) and the amazing work behind this institute. HMI is a New York City-based non-profit organization devoted to serving the needs of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or questioning youth between the ages of 13 and 24. Halfway through 18:37 this takes an interesting turn where Jeff and Spencer share some personal stories and techniques that may be NSFW! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2020-02-1741 minUncut with JeffNever Have I Ever with Justin & Shae (@justshaemless)Boyfriends Justin & Shae (@justshaemless) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss gay relationships, Fire Island, & play a very intense game of never have I ever. What happened when Shae walked in on Jeff having sex? Wait what?! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2020-02-1051 minUncut with JeffThe Time I Was Sent To The Hospital with @GabrielvalentinclinazHost Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) is greeted by a surprise guest from his past Gabriel Valentin Clinaz (@Gabrielvalentinclinaz). Gabriel had a 5 hour layover in NYC and ran in quick to visit Jeff after not seeing each other in nearly 2 years. They reminisce on what sent Jeff to the hospital on Halloween 2017, what it's like to eat the "shell", and Gabriel tries very hard to get with Jeff. You can listen to all this and more on this episode of Behind The Bum.
2019-10-0730 minUncut with JeffRunning For Office with Marti G CummingsHost Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) sits down with the iconic Marti G Cummings (@Martigcummings). Marti is known for many things around this city, you may have seen them as the drag queen who sang baby shark to a child, witnessed one of the handful of shows Marti hosts in NYC, or recently saw their campaign for New York CIty Council. Jeff learns all about the life behind Marti and dives into the fishbowl to answer a few uncomfortable questions.
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2019-09-1931 minUncut with JeffWhat Happens In Mykonos with Reed, Max, and AnthonyHost Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) went to Mykonos with his best friends Reed Buggie (@Reedbuggie), Max Rutcofsky (@Maxrut), and Anthony Guerrieri (@Asguerrieri). If you watched their Instagram stories you may have noticed they were kicked out of their hotel, never slept and lets be honest we have a lot of questions! On this episode Reed joins Jeff to discuss why they were kicked out of the hotel and who won't be allowed to rent an ATV ever again. On the second half of this episode Max and Anthony join Jeff to discuss the Catamaran day, Max's firsts from this trip...
2019-08-3028 minUncut with JeffYou're Tacky & I Hate You with Brian Falduto @BrianFaldutoHost Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) sits down with School of Rock icon Brian Falduto (@brianfalduto). What was it like filming School of Rock as a closeted kid? How did you grow up to be a fetish queen? Where was the most public place they each have had sex? Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!
2019-08-2242 minUncut with JeffRosè All Day with Matt Bellassai (@mattbellassai)Matt Bellassai (@Mattbellassai) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss gay culture to pop culture. From Queer Eye (sorry Bobby) to Big Little Lies, from vaginas to nugget porn? Wait what?! Nothing is off topic after 2 bottles of rosè. Grab a glass and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!
2019-08-1555 minUncut with JeffDoes Race Play a Roll in Gay Culture with Igee OkaforIgee Okafor (@Igeeokafor) joins host, Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) as they discuss what it was like growing up in Nigeria and moving to America? How do you explain to your parents that you are gay? Is it easier to come out once you don't live home anymore? Have you ever experienced racism within the LGBTQ community? Was being shipped off the boarding school like living your best Zoey 101 experience?
2019-08-0845 minUncut with JeffMermaid Realness with Bradley Miller (@TheArtOfBradley)Bradley Miller (@TheArtOfBradley) joins host Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) as they discuss gender identity. Throughout the episode and a few bottles of rosè things take a turn to scrotum detailing VIA Instagram. Hear about the first and last time Jeff sent a naked picture, who slid into Bradley's DM's recently *cough cough* TWINS?! Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum.
2019-08-0146 minUncut with JeffNuts to Nuts with Jimmy PezzinoJimmy Pezzino (@Jimmypezzino) joins host Jeff Perla (@Thetravelinbum) to discuss life after pride and 4th of July. Jeff and Jimmy share a story about what it was like doing their first photo shoot together which took a turn for the worst. Between Fire Island, Instagram, Modeling, and a little bit about chicken nuggets listen up on this episode of Behind The Bum!
2019-07-1744 minUncut with JeffWho's In Control? The Top or James Rogers?James Rogers(@jamesroghairs) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) post wig brunch to discuss everything from life to bottom shaming. Have you ever had an accident when bottoming? Has someone's "O" face ever been so awful you never hooked up with them again? Who has bigger .... Oh wait, find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!
2019-06-2750 minUncut with JeffLove at first sight or lack there of with John Halbach and Kit WilliamsonJohn Halbach (@johnhalbach) and Kit Williamson (@kitwilliamson) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss when you know you met the one! From their first impressions to their most memorable sexual encounter Jeff learns what it takes to make and keep a relationship. Will Eastsider's see a season 5? Who is the biggest stoner out of this group of 3? Who should never take an edible again? Find out on this episode f Behind The Bum!
2019-06-2041 minUncut with JeffGender Reveal with Corey RaeCorey Rae (@imcoreyrae) joins Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) as they discuss transitioning from male to female. How does someone at the age of 12 find the words transgender? Can you be trans and not have bottom surgery? Should transgender individuals be apart of the LGBTQ+ community? Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!
2019-06-1342 minUncut with JeffBody Issues with Fat Carrie BradshawFat Carrie Bradshaw (@fatcarriebradshaw) joins Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) as they discuss body issues in the gay community. What does it mean to be comfortable in your body? What is the worst thing someone has ever said to you because of your weight? Have you ever catfished someone because you felt you weren't "Good Enough". Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!
2019-05-0945 minUncut with JeffGay Boy Problems AF with Jeff Perla & Peter PaganGay Boy Problem AF with Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) & Peter Pagan (@GayBoyProblems.AF) discuss the meme era we are living in? Where does Peter project it going? How can hopefully future memer's create their own content? Is there a secret society of memer's who all support each other? What are the struggles of being a late 20 year old approaching their 30's. Find out on Behind The Bum!
2019-05-0254 minUncut with JeffInsta-Triplets with Jeff Perla, Michael & Zach ZakarInsta-Triplets with Jeff Perla from (@thetravelinbum), Michael & Zach Zakar (@zakartwins) talk about how they first met. They give their best attempt at giving you a serious conversation about where they see their lives going. Do Jeff and Michael see themselves being married? Will Michael and Zach move to NYC? Who slashed their ex boyfriends tires? Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!
2019-04-2544 minUncut with JeffMasc 4 Masc with Corey CamperchioliJeff Perla and Corey Camperchioli (@coreycamp) discuss gender norms. Jeff shares his view point on the term "masc" and "femme". Corey shares his experiences growing up "femme" and how a word that tormented him his whole life has turned in to a light for his future. How do Jeff & Corey feel about hooking up with someone "femme" or "masc"? What journey are Jeff & Corey going to take on this summer? Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!
2019-04-1847 minUncut with JeffThreesomes with DJ Mikey PopJeff Perla & DJ Mikey Pop (@DJMikeyPop) discuss Threesomes. Jeff shares his view points on threesomes and Mikey discusses how he manages being in a an open relationship. How does Jeff feel about having a threesome? Where is the craziest place Mikey has ever had a threesome? Will Jeff ever have one? Find out on Behind The Bum!
2019-04-1141 minUncut with JeffOnly Fans with Edgardo Riveros (Gato)Jeff Perla & Edgardo Riveros (@Gatosheko) discuss Only Fans. From personal experience, Gato shares how his photos and videos were leaked, what his family thinks of his new business, and how he manages to maintain a day job. Will Gato convince Jeff Perla to make an Only Fans account? Find out on Behind The Bum?
2019-04-0440 minUncut with JeffSugar Daddy-ING with Garrett SwannJeff Perla & Garrett Swann discuss the Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy life. From personal experiences, Jeff opens up on how he originally found a Sugar Daddy and Garrett shares his feelings on age in the gay community. Is Garrett Swann Jeff Perla's sugar daddy? Find out on Behind The Bum?
2019-03-2839 minUncut with JeffBottoming with Logan Fletcher @Brogan_NYCJeff Perla & Logan Fletcher discuss what dating is like in the big city. From bad relationships to horror story bottoming experiences they dish the dirt on everything you wanted to know. Have Jeff and Logan ever been a thing? Find out on Behind the Bum!
2019-03-2150 minUncut with JeffBehind The Bum TrailerHey guys I'm your host Jeff Perla, founder and creator of The Travelin Bum on Instagram. It's time to take my bum to new tops or new heights and get deep into some of these bottoms. I am here to give you the inside scoop from your favorite influencers, reality tv stars, trailblazers and iconic gays in our community. So what are you waiting for grab a condom and get ready for an episode of behind the bum.
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