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For The Love Of Men Podcast#112 Why Men Struggle with Emotions (and How to Shift That) ft Jeremie Lotemo)We are thrilled to share part 2 with Jeremie Lotemo. He shares his experience working with men and the most common reason men feel disconnected from their purpose and have a hard time connecting with their woman.Check out Jeremie's work on Instagram at @jeremielotemo!Want more from Bri and Court?Check out our Masterclasses:1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a62️⃣ Creating...2025-07-0457 minFor The Love Of Men Podcast#111: The Masculine Experience of Healing (What Men and Women Need To Know) Ft. Jeremie LotemoWe are THRILLED to host Jeremie Lotemo on this week's episode. He shares his journey of healing and leading men (and women) to deeper understandings of themselves and relationships.Stay tuned, in part two, we're discussing how the Father Wound shows up in relationships and how to start unwinding it so you can create the connections you've been craving.Check out Jeremie's work on Instagram at @jeremielotemo!Want more from Bri and Court?Check out our Masterclasses:1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulf...2025-06-2034 min
Dear Men Podcastpoly… or just longing for the village?In this episode I explore what I believe is a misdiagnosed hunger for tribe, elders, touch, and true belonging in a world that’s lost the village. We unpack the collapse of communal life, the overconsumption of intimacy, and why many are mistaking emotional starvation and gluttony for expansive love.Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @jeremielotemoAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2025-05-2228 minDear Men PodcastHow to keep her sexually attracted to youMost men lose their woman’s desire because they forget the three P’s: penetration, presence, and polarity. In this episode, we break down how to embody these core masculine principles so she stays turned on by you not just emotionally, but sexually. If you’ve ever felt her pull away or have been in a sexless relationship without knowing how you got there, this will hit different.Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @jeremielotemoAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2025-05-0429 min
Dom Sub DevotionEmbracing Devotion and Masculine Integrity with Jeremie LotemoIn this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, Andrew speaks with Jeremie Lotemo about the transformative journey of breaking away from conventional professional paths to find deeper meaning, purpose, and connection as a man.
The discussion explores how Jeremie and Andrew help men cultivate confidence and leadership in their lives and relationships, moving beyond the pursuit of material success to seek fulfillment.
Through personal anecdotes and reflections, they delve into the importance of surrender, the balance between masculine strength and vulnerability, and honoring differences in relationships. Essential tools like journaling, physical activity, and creating st...2025-03-101h 06
what's my 100%exploring masculine archetypesjeremie lotemo is a transformation coach who focuses on offering men and women tools to break free from limiting beliefs, create radical, lasting changes in their lives, and experience loving relationships that support the best version of themselves. in this week’s episode of what’s my 100%, Jeremie and dené explore:attempting to find the balance between allowing ourselves to be seen in our ‘messiness,’ while continuing to step into the space of personal responsibility drawing from masculine archetypes to create a vision for evolving frameworks of integrated masculinity what might be the best way for...2025-03-061h 20Dear Men PodcastWomen are just as nasty, freaky, and kinky as you, but...Women are just as wild, kinky, and sexual as men—sometimes even more. But if she’s not bringing that side out, it’s not because she doesn’t have it… it’s probably because she doesn’t trust you with it. This episode is for you if you want to unlock a deeper level of attraction, passion, and desire in your relationships.Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @jeremielotemoAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2025-02-2030 minDear Men PodcastAre they your partner or your renovation project?If you have to constantly set boundaries and remind someone how to treat you, you didn’t choose a partner you may have signed up for a renovation project. In this episode, how to spot misalignment before you get attached, and the key to choosing relationships that don’t require you to potty train, coach, or micromanage their healing work. Tune in and learn how to stop dating potential.🔗 Ladies, follow this link to join our virtual workshop on how to stop doing the work for him: www.byermeas.com/claimed-without-chasingInstagram | Twitter | TikTok - @jeremielotem...2025-01-3133 minDear Men PodcastBe a little bit possessive bro, its actually healthyPossessiveness gets a bad rap, but what if a little bit of it is actually healthy? In this episode, I break down the difference between obsession (toxic and rooted in insecurity) and possessiveness (a natural, protective instinct). Learn how to set boundaries that make her feel claimed, not caged, and why embracing your territorial nature is part of being a strong, integrated man.Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @jeremielotemoAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2025-01-2324 minDear Men PodcastYou cannot save her, only God canIn this episode, we dive into the complex struggle of wanting to save a woman we care about, only to realize that some battles are beyond our control. That we are not heroes or superhuman, but simply humans. What does it mean to let go and trust a higher power?Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @jeremielotemoAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2025-01-1526 minDear Men PodcastYour vulnerability isn't the problem, your approach isIn this episode, we explore how to be truly open and vulnerable with women in a way that connects, not pushes them away. Learn the art of male vulnerability—what works, what doesn’t, and how to show up authentically without losing your strength or her respect.Looking to improve your focus and mental clarity? Use code GATES20 for 48% off a subscription or 20% off a one-time purchase of MagicMind here.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2024-10-1442 minDear Men PodcastWhy women are drawn to men who own their darknessIn this episode, we dive deep into the raw, untamed power of a man who’s unafraid to face his shadows. We explore how owning your darkness makes you magnetic, confident, and surprisingly, safe in relationships—and why it’s the key to attracting the kind of deep intimacy you’ve always craved. Tune in to learn how tapping into this primal energy not only sets you apart but makes you the man she respects and feels safe with.Looking to improve your focus and mental clarity? Use code GATES20 for 48% off a subscription or 20% off a one...2024-09-2642 minDear Men PodcastWhy men avoid therapy—how therapy fails menWhy are so many men avoiding therapy? Is it really just the stigma, or is the system not built to meet men where they are? In this episode, we explore the untouched conversation around why men aren’t showing up to therapy and what needs to change.Looking to improve your focus and mental clarity? Use code GATES20 for 48% off a subscription or 20% off a one-time purchase of MagicMind here.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2024-09-0625 minDear Men PodcastShe Wants Sex Just As Much As You, But ...Think your sex drive is higher than hers? Think again. In this episode, we explore the misconceptions about women's sexual desires. We dive into the societal norms, communication issues, and emotional neglect that can shape a woman's level of interest. If you want to deepen your understanding or enhance your relationship, this episode is for you.Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2024-06-1437 min
BedtalksBedtalks Episode 99: 🎙️The Path to Healing Your Inner Wounds: A Deep Dive with Jeremie LotemoHey Y'All
One thing that often prevents us from having healthy relationships is not dealing with our inner wounds.
We're back with another episode of the Bedtalks Episode, and this one isn't for the weary. However, if you are determined to break unhealthy relationship patterns that keep you from the relationship you desire, this is a show that you will not miss!
In our latest podcast episode, we delve into the profound topic of healing inner wounds with the insightful Jeremie Lotemo. Jeremie, a highly respected expert...2024-06-081h 00Dear Men Podcast5 Powerful Ways to Inspire His Masculine EnergyIn this episode, we dive deep into five ways to inspire and empower masculine energy. Whether you're looking to support your partner, or close friend these powerful insights will help you welcome more balanced, supportive, and fulfilling connections with the men in your life. Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2024-05-3045 minDear Men PodcastJealousy Is Not the Thief of JoyExplore with me how this complex emotion can actually serve as a powerful tool for personal growth and self-awareness. We'll delve into how understanding the root causes of jealousy can reveal the desires and values that matter most to us. Tune in to redefine your relationship with jealousy and harness it for your benefit.Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2024-05-2028 minDear Men PodcastHow To Love a Man Who's Learned to Hate WomenIn this episode, we explore the complex journey of loving and understanding men who harbor negative feelings toward women. We unpack some of the origins of these attitudes, their impact on relationships, and some strategies for mutual healing.Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2024-05-1444 minDear Men PodcastHow To Love a Woman Who's Learned to Hate MenThere are no ready-made partners in life, everyone brings their shadows and scars into relationships. This episode is to help men who are willing to engage in that complexity, not just to bridge gaps of mistrust, but to foster mutual healing. Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2024-05-0640 min
Beneath The SurfaceEp 8 Jeremie Lotemo - The Mother Wound. Find your power, build your ideal relationship.Jeremie is a transformational coach. Specialising in relationships and emotional intelligence, Jeremie helps people examine and release the beliefs that continue to influence them on an unconscious level.
Jeremie discusses his heros journey into the work he does today, outlining the pain that gave birth to the insights and perspectives that he teaches to others. We then discuss: The power of taking responsibility, the most common struggles he helps men through, Mother Wounds and how that can impacts individuals, what most people get wrong about masculine and feminine polarity, relationship advice for both men and women, porn...2024-03-171h 26Dear Men PodcastWhy Women Dont Want Men To Be "In Touch With Their Feelings"In this episode, we dive into the complex dynamics of emotional expression in relationships. Exploring a nuanced reality behind a woman's preference regarding male vulnerability and the misunderstandings that often come up in the emotional communication between men and women.Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2024-02-0134 minDear Men PodcastHealing Your Father & Mother Wounds With This One MethodIf you want to experience a breakthrough in healing your father and mother wounds then this episode is for you. Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2024-01-2126 minDear Men PodcastLife Update: Why I Dont Chase My PurposeIn this episode, I share my relationship to my purpose and calling in this life, how I am navigating the challenges that come with it and the spiritual aspect that keeps me grounded and centered. Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2024-01-0745 minDear Men PodcastWant To Date High-Quality People? Use This One MethodDiscover a game-changing approach to elevate your dating life. We delve into a simple yet profound strategy that will transform how you meet and connect with high-quality individuals. If you're tired of the usual superficial dating scene and want to step up your game, this episode is for you. Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2023-12-2641 minDear Men PodcastWife Her, If She Does These 5 ThingsIf you're looking for more than just a beautiful face, but a partner to build a lifetime of love with, this episode is for you. In this episode, we explore the subtle cues and profound gestures that signify a woman who embodies the elements that can help you create a foundation for a lasting and meaningful connection.Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2023-12-0635 min
The Authentic Man Podcast with David ChambersEP166: How Men Can Thrive in Love And Commitment Featuring Jeremie LotemoMain Topics: Men, Masculinity, Love, Commitment, Vulnerability & Emotional Dumping, Intuition, Authenticity Jeremie Lotemo is a poet, writer & transformation coach whose work focuses primarily on supporting men in thriving in love, healing the masculine shadow, and creating new paradigms of masculinity. Key topics include: ⭐️ Men’s Negative View on Commitment ⭐️ The Indecisiveness Coming from Too Many Choices ⭐️ The Influence of the Patriarchal Father Figure on Young Men ⭐️ Men’s Disconnect from Their Intuition and Actual Needs in Life ⭐️ The Paralyzing Fear of Commitment ⭐️ Finding Healthy Ways t...2023-12-061h 22Dear Men PodcastWho Really Leads? Man or Woman?This episode is a journey into redefining intimacy, leadership, and connection, perfect for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of love and partnership in the modern world. Tune in to discover new ways of connecting that are not just about leading or surrendering, but about creating a union built on mutual respect, and understanding, and embraces the fullness of our humanity.Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2023-11-2442 minDear Men PodcastHow Can We Feel Claimed Without Feeling Possessed?This episode unpacks the fine line between being cherished and claimed and feeling controlled and owned. Join us for an insightful discussion and practical advice on nurturing a bond that balances emotional belonging with personal autonomy. It's all about loving and being loved, without the shadows of possession. Perfect for anyone looking to deepen their devotion while maintaining their sense of self.Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2023-11-1848 minDear Men PodcastWhy We Polarize: Cultivating Compassion in Times of WarIn this episode, we unpack the challenge of staying grounded amidst a crisis. Discover how to discern the media you consume, remain present during conflict, and approach your privileges with compassion. Gain insights on how to nurture self-love, unity, and personal integrity in a polarized world. Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2023-11-041h 03
HeadstrongLeadership Recalibration | Walking The Path of Truth & Change w/ Jeremie LotemoJeremies Instagram: www.instagram.com/byermeasApply to Join The Impakt Legacy Mastermind:https://nick-komodina.mykajabi.com/Subscribe to Nicks Podcast on Apple or Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/7iMVpfMuRY8WMtXVd26hoyhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/headstrong/id1356321385Support the show2023-10-261h 10Dear Men PodcastHow Your Darkest Sexual Desires Can Make Your Relationship StrongerIn this episode, we dive deep into the dark textures of our sexual fantasies and explore how they can be powerful components of creating a fulfilling and empowering relationship and how unveiling our darker textures is key to unlocking a more authentic version of ourselves.Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2023-09-2443 minDear Men PodcastWhat Polyamory Has Taught Me About LoveWhile it's not a lifestyle I choose for myself, my research and interactions with those who do have offered me invaluable insights into love, commitment, and human connection. So whether you're poly-curious, in a polyamorous relationship, or like me, prefer monogamy, I hope this episode will invite you to think more deeply about what love can look like.Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2023-09-0945 minDear Men PodcastThe Myth & Trap of Unconditional LoveIn this eye-opening episode, we dive into the often-misunderstood concept of unconditional love. While the idea of loving someone without conditions may seem ideal, it can actually hinder personal growth and authentic connection. Explore with me why seeking unconditional love can lead to unrealistic expectations and how embracing a more nuanced understanding of love can foster deeper, more fulfilling relationships. Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2023-08-2235 minDear Men PodcastHow to Properly Court a WomanDo you know the difference between dating and courting? In this episode, we dive into the lost art of courting and how it distinguishes itself from modern casual dating. I share the intentional, respectful, and masculine approach along with key principles and guides to follow when truly courting a potential wife.If this episode resonates with you, please take a moment to leave a review. Your insights not only help us grow but also allow these important conversations to reach more people.Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsP...2023-08-0555 min
The Passion Podcast26~ Reshaping Masculinity: Healing the Heart of Men. W/ Jeremie LotemoIn this episode Saora and Jeremie Lotemo intimately explore the path of men's healing.
- Exploring the deep pain and wounds experienced by men
- Womens challenges in:
*Finding the balance between expressing boundaries and showing understanding/compassion
*Reclaiming voice without swinging to extremes.
*Recognizing the impact of choices on relationships and respect.
- Importance of respect in relationships and its role in preventing resentment.
- Navigating conflicts, controls patterns.
- Men's deep desire to provide and...2023-08-031h 04Dear Men PodcastParental Wounds are Portals to the DivineIn this episode, we delve into the intricate and complex wounds of our relationships with our parents. We explore the idea that the wounds we have from these experiences are far from being barriers, and can actually serve as transformative gateways or initiations leading us toward profound spiritual growth. If this episode resonates with you, please take a moment to leave a review. Your insights not only help us grow but also allow these important conversations to reach more people.Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Ou...2023-07-291h 00Dear Men PodcastHow to Create Enriching Relationships: Going Beyond Role-PlayingIn this episode, we dive deep into the fabric of what truly creates an enriching relationship. How to move beyond societal expectations, beyond the cooking and cleaning, beyond the paying of bills. This conversation is an invitation to shift your perspective and cultivate relationships that are truly enriching. If this episode resonates with you, please take a moment to leave a review. Your insights not only help us grow, but they also allow these important conversations to reach more people. Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands2023-07-0936 minDear Men PodcastHealing the Father Wound: Everything You Need To KnowIf you grew up with a father that was physically absent, emotionally unavailable, or verbally or physically abusive, chances are the relationship you had with him is still impacting your relationships and self-worth. In this podcast episode, we confront this deep-seated issue, its manifestations, and ways to heal. If you're seeking to understand how this wound holds you back, this episode is for you.Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasTo learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.co...2023-06-1549 minDear Men PodcastLife Update: Living with Trust IssuesAfter some positive feedback from my last life update episode, I decided to keep the series going. In this episode, I vulnerably and openly share my struggles with trust in my life and relationships. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2023-05-1536 minDear Men PodcastPart 2 How the World Is Being Dehumanized: What Drives Female Objectification?When women are objectified they're seen as just bodies, instruments and objects designed for the use and pleasure of others. But what drives us as a collective to reduce women to less than human, is it cultural norms, gender roles, religious institutes, or is it the media we consume? And is there anything we can do about it? Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasTo learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coachingAdv...2023-04-1849 minDear Men PodcastPart 1 How the World Is Being Dehumanized: Social Media Stripping Us of Our Humanity?What happens when you grow up in a world where communication is instant, where you have access to so much information, and so many different types of people, their lives, relationships, and personal story, and you can interact with whoever you wanted whenever you wanted? How does this impact our psychology and our relationship with self and others?Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasTo learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coaching2023-04-091h 03Dear Men PodcastEmbracing impermanence & Navigating the Shadow of impermanenceMaybe you've heard the Buddhist philosophical concept of impermanence before, and maybe you haven't. But in this episode, I share my relationship with impermanence and uncertainty and navigating the possible shadows that manifest as a result of this integration. Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasTo learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coachingAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2023-04-0225 minDear Men PodcastLife Update: Messiness of the Journey, Inviting Play and moreThis episode is a brief update on my life. I talk about the importance of sharing the messiness and complexities of the human experience, my challenges around balancing work and play, and making time for my spiritual practice. Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2023-03-2327 minDear Men PodcastStopping the Cycle of Terrible Relationships Requires You Understand These 5 StepsHave you found yourself constantly attracting the same person in a different body? In this episode, I share why this may be happening and provide insight into a five-step process that when followed can create lasting changes in the type of partners and dynamics you attract. Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasTo learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coachingAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/pr...2023-03-1541 min
Cheaper Than Therapy with Vanessa and DenéEp 140 Talking Sexual Entitlement with Jeremie LotemoJeremie Lotemo is a Transformation Coach who supports both men and women with cultivating tools to create radical, lasting changes in their lives and relationships.We are thrilled to have Jeremie joining us for a second time after the incredible response we had to our first conversation with him (ep. 118). We sat down to talk about:1. The insights he gained after making the conscious decision to be celibate for over a year2. The ancestral trauma that is often being perpetuated in the unconscious sexual patterns that have b...2023-03-151h 02Dear Men PodcastWhy I Dont Actually Value ProductivityI think productivity is over-glorified, over-valued, and over-emphasized in our culture. The glorification of productivity conditions us to externalize our value and believe that our worth does not exist beyond what we are capable of producing and doing for others. In this episode, I also unpack and explore what the obsession with productivity, being busy, and chasing goals is helping us avoid.Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasTo learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coaching...2023-02-2033 minDear Men Podcast5 Reasons Why Every Man Needs to Go CelibateIn this episode, I share 5 reasons why I believe every man needs to go celibate at some point in his journey. I share some of the benefits I noticed from my own celibacy journey, things men need to unlearn and deprogram, and how future relationships will be impacted as a result.Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasTo learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coachingAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands2023-02-0633 min
ManTalks PodcastJeremie Lotemo - Navigating America, Masculinity, And Partnership
Talking points: transition, moving from the Congo to America, equality, masculinity, and relationships.
This was a phenomenal conversation. Full stop. Jeremie and I cover a lot of ground, and I'm grateful to have his insight and perspective on men's work. It's nuanced, clear, and deeply authentic.
Jeremie Lotemo is a transformation coach helping clients create lasting change by examining the stories and beliefs that influence them on an unconscious level. He works to help them reestablish safety in the body in order to recognize these beliefs and release them completely.
Before becoming a...2023-01-301h 12Dear Men PodcastWhy I Do Not Teach PolarityIn this episode, I discuss why I do not identify as a polarity teacher, the ways that these teachings can be harmful rather than constructive in a relationship, and how I apply these teachings in my own personal life. Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasTo learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coachingAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2023-01-2132 minDear Men PodcastWhy Darkness Is So Repressed and MisunderstoodIn this episode, I talk about what dark masculine and feminine energy are, what they are not, and how we can begin to integrate, purify and embody these energies in an authentic and empowered way.Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasTo learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coachingAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2023-01-1442 minDear Men Podcast6 Tips for Setting Stronger BoundariesIn this episode, I cover my 6 tips to help you set stronger boundaries. So whether you are new to developing this skill, or have had years of practice, the tips I share will be able to support you in refining and strengthening this ability no matter where you're at in your journey. Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasTo learn more about my private mentorship programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coachingAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands2023-01-1040 minDear Men PodcastThe Addiction to Healing & Self-ImprovementHealing our deepest wounds and improving ourselves is such a gift not only to ourselves but also to our relationships, but often this endless ambition to be better or more "healed" feels more comforting and safe than being and accepting who we are right now in this moment at this point in our journeys. This is how healing gradually becomes a cover-up for perfectionism...Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasTo learn more about my private coaching programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.co...2022-12-2941 minDear Men PodcastFact or Myth: "If He Wanted To, He Would"When advice like "if he wanted, he would" goes viral and is validated and approved by thousands of people we end up taking it at face value, ignore the nuances and fail to skillfully filter it through the context of our life and unique relationships. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2022-12-2135 minDear Men PodcastMy Personal & Spiritual Journey So FarIn this episode, I wanted to share more about my personal and spiritual journey. What are the events that lead me to the work that I'm doing today, what are the experiences in my childhood that shaped the beliefs I have, and a glimpse into my spiritual awakening and initiations that took place in my early 20s. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2022-12-1350 minDear Men PodcastWhat is The Rise of the Sacred FeminineWhat does the rise of the sacred feminine mean to us as a collective, as individuals, and to our future? How can we consciously participate in this awakening? Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasTo learn more about my private coaching programs for both men and women, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coachingAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2022-12-0643 minDear Men PodcastThe Real Reason Why You Believe “There Aren’t Enough Good Men or People Left”I hear this all of the time, “where are all the good men?” “All the available people are taken and married.” But what does this belief secretly give us permission to do, what is the unconscious benefit/payoff we get from believing this? Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasTo book your FREE introduction with me, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coachingAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2022-11-1918 minCheaper Than Therapy with Vanessa and DenéEp 118 Living from Your Deepest Core by Integrating Your Deepest Shadows with Jeremie LotemoJeremie Lotemo is a poet, writer, and coach who utilizes his insights on relational dynamics to help men live from their deepest core. Through his writing, his podcast, 1:1 coaching and building community, Jeremie supports others in the integration of their deepest shadows. We sat down with Jeremie to discuss: 1. The invisible initiation society puts young boys through, where they are socialized to sever their authenticity in an attempt to maintain a sense of acceptance and connection to other men. 2. How women can support the men in their lives by seeing them in the...2022-10-261h 11Dear Men PodcastThe Art of Being AuthenticBeing authentic is about being your true self, accepting yourself, and not shrinking who you are or your values to avoid rejection or being misunderstood. But how can we be authentic without trying to control other people’s views of us? How can we be our full, vibrant selves while also being mindful of those around us?Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasTo book your FREE introduction with me, click the link below. https://www.byermeas.com/1-on-1-coachingAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands...2022-10-2527 minDear Men PodcastYour Guide On Going No Contact With a Toxic ParentThere comes a time in your journey when the most empowering, healing, and healthiest thing you can do for yourself is to choose to no longer engage or maintain a relationship with your toxic family. This episode is a guide to help you know when and how to establish no contact.If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. Links: Instagram | Twitter | TikTok - @byermeasTo book your FREE introduction wit...2022-09-2741 minDear Men Podcast3 Reasons Why Nice Guys and Assholes Finish Last: What Women Truly WantWhen it comes to dating women there's a common belief amongst men that in order to get the girl, you have to embody and become the asshole or the jerk. So the saying goes, “nice guys finish last.” But this is so far from the truth so today I want to demystify this myth and talk a little about what women actually want from a man.If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. Links: Instag...2022-09-0623 minDear Men PodcastLove Beyond Restricting Gender RolesThere was a time when the primary purpose of our relationships was to ensure our survival and the continuation of our lineages. Now today that has become only one aspect of why we seek partnership and love. We now are driven by the desire for emotional depth, intimacy, spiritual evolution, and healing. But the fulfillment of these desires cannot truly unfold when we are relating to each other within the context of assigned gender roles. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may al...2022-09-0439 minDear Men PodcastHow Porn is Hurting Your RelationshipsThere’s no doubt that the consumption of porn is more accessible and more acceptable in our society and sometimes even in our relationships. Porn sites get more traffic than Twitter, Instagram, Netflix, Pinterest, and LinkedIn combined. Even though for the most part it is free, there is definitely a price we pay. And when it comes to creating healthy, intimate connections with others, the price may be too high.If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it...2022-08-2152 min
The Time of the Feminine - A Global Sisterhood PodcastJeremie Lotemo: How Men Heal the Wounds of PatriarchyThe patriarchy is killing men. And yet, men continue to uphold this broken system. Jeremie Lotemo explains that this allegiance has been socialized from a young age. Fathers teach their sons how to dismiss their mothers. Sports initiates kids into a culture of dominance. There is no space for kindness and warmth. To be respected, men have to reject their emotions. Not only do they feel disconnected from their emotions, but men also feel cut off from the Great Mother. As a result, they don’t know how to take responsibility for their feelings. They have been tau...2022-08-041h 23Dear Men PodcastWhy Mature Men Don't Date Sweet & Nice GirlsThere is this sweet and nice girl persona that women tend to embody as a way to create safety for themselves but also as a way to secure a man. But the men that they secure that desire them to be sweet and nice in order to love and commit to them, are not actually real men. In this episode, I explore why men like this are immature and what fears they're protecting themselves from by being with a woman that’s sweet and nice all the time. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to lea...2022-07-3124 minDear Men PodcastWhy Men Are Violent & Emotionally DisconnectedIt is easy today to notice how disconnected men are from their emotional sensitivity and how this lack of self-awareness and emotional intelligence has and continues to lead to violent outbursts of rage and violence towards other men and women. In this episode, I want to focus on of the biggest reasons I believe men lose sensitivity to their emotions and how they affect others. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. @Byermeas to fol...2022-07-3033 min
Here For The TruthEp 79 - Jeremie Lotemo | Breaking Patterns & Safety In RelationshipsJeremie is a transformation coach, poet and podcast host.
Previously he comes from the advertising world helping clients and brands influence the behaviours of their ideal customers.
It was through this process that he began to realise that conscious thought is not actually in charge of our behaviours and he began to connect with the power of the unconscious.
This led him through a journey of self-discovery in which he started applying his marketing observations to himself and began to realise how much his own choices and decisions were a product of outside inf...2022-07-171h 14
Dear Men PodcastYour Savior Complex is Also Your Pattern of CodependencyHave you ever felt that you were responsible for someone’s healing or wellbeing? And if you weren’t in the picture or if you didn’t tend to their needs they would be a wreck and couldn’t take care of themselves or something terrible would happen to them? In this episode, I discuss how this pattern of relating known as codependency, when it goes unchecked and unnoticed evolves and becomes what can be seen as a Savior Complex. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other l...2022-07-0941 min
Dear Men PodcastEffects of Our Collective Father WoundFathers today are either completely absent or emotionally unavailable. And how fathers show up today not only affects women and daughters but men and young boys— it shapes their perspective of manhood and masculinity. So based on the state of men today there is a conversation that men are not having with each other about the effects of having absent or emotionally unavailable fathers. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. @Byermeas to follow me on...2022-06-2932 min
Dear Men PodcastLearning To Trust Again After BetrayalHow do you recover and heal from a betrayal by someone close to you? How do you find the courage to remove your armor in order to let love in? How could you ever put your trust in someone else again after seeing what happened when you did? If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. @Byermeas to follow me on Instagram | Twitter | TikTok Subscribe on Apple | Spotify | Google PodcastsAdve...2022-06-1431 min
Dear Men PodcastExpanding What It Means to Provide & ProtectWhen a man loves a woman he does three things profess, provide, and protect. And on this episode, I want to focus on how we as a collective define and view the responsibility of providing and protecting, and how it can and has negatively impacted our relationships and the evolution of men as a whole. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. @Byermeas to follow me on Instagram | Twitter | TikTok Subscribe on Appl...2022-06-1224 min
Dear Men PodcastWhy You Keep Recycling Terrible RelationshipsWhy is it that even after we've learned a lesson, or seen what happens when we ignore specific red flags in people, we somehow recycle the same relationship? We recreate the same dynamics that exhausted us and caused us to negotiate boundaries and abandon ourselves in the process. In this episode, I explore some of the conditions that shape that experience. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. @Byermeas to follow me on Instagram | Tw...2022-06-0521 min
Dear Men PodcastThe Wounds We Each ShareThough our traumas may be unique and different from each other, there is a trauma that we all share, and this trauma formed a deep wound inside our souls that we all carry. In this episode, I explore that trauma, how it affects us and our relationships, and the things we can do to tend to it.If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. @Byermeas to follow me on Instagram | Twitter | TikTok Sub...2022-05-2834 min
Dear Men PodcastWhat Do Mature Men Really Want in a Partner?Many women and even men think that what men want and only really care and think about is sex. Which is on the list, no doubt about that. But when men mature there are things that they begin to crave, yearn, and desire from their partner that has little to nothing to do with her physical body or appearance. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. @Byermeas to follow me on Instagram | Twitter | TikTok 2022-05-1629 min
Dear Men PodcastThe Mechanics of Men's HealingThe more men can take the time to look and address how much their relationship with their mother has impacted and continues to influence their relationship with women as an adult, the less difficult it will be for women to feel safe with men. In this episode, I explore what impedes a man's evolution, and the stories that skew his perception of the women around him. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. 2022-05-1032 minDear Men PodcastHow Sexual Purity and Slut Shaming Affects MenThe idea of purity and the experience of being slut shamed are closely linked but also originate from the minds of men who want to not just control women, but reduce the risk of rejection. In this episode, I show how each of these is connected, and the harm it causes women but also men that uphold it. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get this message to other listeners that may also enjoy and benefit from it. @Byermeas to follow me on Instagram | Twitter | Tik...2022-05-0826 min
Dear Men PodcastThe Fragility of the Male EgoI've noticed in my life an inability to properly process rejection and realized how I was also not alone in this. That there were a lot of men around me and even men I looked up to that didn't also know how to navigate the feeling of being rejected. So in this episode, I explore how this failure to cope and process rejection influences the behaviors and patterns of many, and even determines what personality they choose to embody. If you enjoyed this episode, please feel free to leave a review. It helps get th...2022-05-0230 minDear Men PodcastTechnology As a MirrorWe can easily witness and state how technology is made in our image, but how often do we take the time to really integrate what this means? If our phones are a reflection of us, what experiences and stories are taking the most storage? What conversations have over 5GB of data? What can we clear in order to make room for new, more resistant love, relationships, and opportunities?Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2021-04-0220 minDear Men PodcastDoors to the Inner Child Part 3: The Password is UnderstandingIn Part 3 of 3, we bring everything we've unpacked in parts one and two, full circle. Looking at the power of understanding, and how it is understanding that moves the fear, anger, or guilt we may uncover as we return home to ourselves, into higher frequencies such as compassion, love, and joy. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2020-11-1029 minDear Men PodcastDoors to the Inner Child Part 2: Bringing Balance to the Broken Family StructureGrowing up we enjoyed films and stories like Sleeping Beauty, Cinderella, Rapunzel the list goes on. But each of these stories carries the same energy and underlying meaning, they point us to a story that is taking place inside. Where a part or aspect of ourselves seems to have been abandoned or rejected and now awaits our return. In this episode, we explore what are these aspects that we've abandoned and how can we begin to welcome them back home.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2020-10-3137 minDear Men PodcastDoors to the Inner Child Part 1: Repeating the Same Lessons Again and AgainIn Part 1 of 3 episodes, we unpack one of the biggest factors that lead us to repeat the same lessons in new forms, when it comes to our relationships. Something is happening on a subconscious level that is causing us to date the same person with a new face. To go through the same experiences and dynamics of relationships as the ones we have known and experienced growing up with our parents. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2020-10-2341 minDear Men PodcastHow Do You Discern Between What Feels Good and Whats True?Have you ever heard the saying "go with your gut" or "trust your gut"? But have you also heard "detox your gut before you can trust it"? So how often are we trusting our gut or our internal guidance system without clearing it of the things it's accumulated over time, from false perceptions, traumatic experiences and so on. Can we really trust what feels good to us?Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2020-10-1223 minDear Men PodcastNutrition, Diet & KarmaIn the age of information and misinformation, it becomes difficult for us to discern what's true and what should be thrown out. We have groups of people and "thought leaders" recommending and prescribing one diet for all of humanity, if its the vegan diet, the KETO, etc. How do we know which to choose? Are all of them the right diet? and what determines that? 2020-10-0525 minDear Men PodcastOur Fears Actually Excite UsIn this episode, we unpack and explore the root of our fears around making life-changing decisions that we ultimately and intuitively know will lead us into more of our Highest Joy. Seeing the many voices, and forms of Fear and how it tries to prevent and protect us from new and unknown spaces of ourselves.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2020-09-2618 minDear Men PodcastThe PilotAn introduction to the host Jeremie Lotemo and the podcast. Why was it created and what the listeners can look forward to from the episodes to come. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy2020-09-2615 min