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Remodeled LoveSMASH BROS!!! [PREVIEW]What is a yuletide? Is Matty Healy the Jess Mariano to Taylor's Rory? Is Joe reading smut??Also: Joe's breakup, parenting fails, polyamorous guilt, Jes is over avoidants (for real this time), and Jes went on a date with a girl!JOIN OUR PATREON TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THIS EPISODE, PLUS YEARS OF EXCLUSIVE CONTENT!***You can submit a polyamorous advice question at RemodeledLove.com/DearDaylovers !***Support us on Patreon and get access to exclusive content and a behind-the-scenes look at our life!Nuclear Fusion's alpha network is live, and you...2025-02-2028 minRemodeled Love37: Polyamory & The Holidays (with Chaneé Jackson Kendall)It is really important to Jes that you know this episode was recorded BEFORE Thanksgiving and that it was supposed to be out BEFORE Thanksgiving, and she's really sorry it's only coming out now on Christmas Eve Eve. Good ol' ADHD and general overwhelm.
Also, now that the live event for "Off the Table" has passed, you can still purchase the recording!
In this episode, The Daylovers and friend-of-the-pod Chaneé Jackson Kendall sit down to hash out some of the common difficulties and pitfalls polyamorous folks face during the h...2024-12-2452 minRemodeled Love36: Jes is BACK ON THE APPS, BABY!!Episode highlights:
There are only 8 (actually 3 now) tickets left for Jes and Chaneé's "You Wanna Be Polyamorous But You..." workshop on 11/2
Jes is willing to be ruined by the "Homosexual Lesbian Spirits", and also she made merch about it.
Jes is back on dating apps for the first time in almost 2 years because of a tv show, and Joe is really happy for her for it
Joe makes Jes late to her first first date in almost 2 years
Jes suddenly has the ability to go on a first date without making the person jump through her autistic d...2024-10-2947 min
Time to Leanhow can we build a village in a nuclear-family-obsessed culture?In this episode, we interview Jessica Daylover, polyamorous storyteller, educator, mother of two and so much more - including Chief Executive Officer of the Nuclear Fusion App! Jessica shares her journey through motherhood, the challenges of raising a medically complex child, and her vision for community building through the Nuclear Fusion network. The conversation explores the importance of chosen families, the struggles of modern parenting, and the need for vulnerability and emotional intelligence in building connections. It's time to rethink traditional family structures and the value of community support in raising children.Join us as we...2024-10-0958 minRemodeled LovePolyamorous Character Arcs and Emotional Support T!tties (with Chaneé Jackson Kendall) [PREVIEW]In this episode, Jessica and Chaneé (@chaneespeaks on all the socials) spin off of their last episode together where they talked about earning your "polyamory stripes" through "fuckin' up and fixin' it," as Chaneé says. In this convo they dive into specific mistakes they've each made over the last 10 years, and the character arcs that came out of that journey.
Some themes include:
-security and stability are illusions of monogamy
-impulsive, addict-like behavior during NRE
-the nuances of having a more intense sexual chemistry with a new partner
-getting ti...2024-10-0315 min
Remodeled LoveFusion Radio: The Prelude [PREVIEW]Welcome to the first episode of Fusion Radio, produced and hosted by Nuclear Fusion App's CEO, Jessica Daylover.
Fusion Radio is an enterprise of the Nuclear Fusion App. The Nuclear Fusion App is a project whose mission is to help folks across the world find, build, and sustain modern villages and chosen families.
In this short episode, Jessica introduces you to the Nuclear Fusion App project, and the context of its existence.
The alpha version of Nuclear Fusion App launches on Monday 9/23/24 across the globe. The best way to stay up-to-date is to sign up for our newsletter, and...2024-09-2007 minRemodeled Love35: Falling In Love Is Wack (with Chaneé Jackson Kendall)In this episode of our podcast (now on video!) The Daylovers sit down with their beloved friend and colleague Chaneé Jackson Kendall (online at @ChaneeSpeaks).
They talk about what's new with Chaneé's project "Intentional Polyamory", Remodeled Love, and the Nuclear Fusion App.
They get into why there's no point to anything and, as always, a reminder that love sucks.
Finally they dive into a very complex polyamory problem as part of their advice portion of the show called "Dear Daylovers".
Make sure to follow Chaneé @chaneespeaks on all socials, and signup for her newsletter by subscribing for free at...2024-09-061h 02Remodeled Love34: Burnt Out PolyamoryIn this episode Jes, Joe, and Dr. M sit down for a templated episode:
What's New with Remodeled Love?
Hot Goss (what's new in their super salacious and obviously exciting polyamorous lives?)
Existential Thoughts I've Been Having Lately (the trio share the most recent existential dread that's been plaguing their brains)
Dear Daylovers (the trio answer a listener advice question about polyamory)
You can submit a question at RemodeledLove.com/DearDaylovers !
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Remodeled Love33: It's Never Too Late To Open UpI've been waiting so freakin' long to tell y'all that, after 43 years of monogamous marriage, my in-laws (Dr. M's parents), have discovered the joys of swinging...and now they're both big ol' bisexual sluts having the time of their lives—in their 70s!
And they sat down with me and my husband in our recording studio and spilled all the tea on their adventures, how they got here, and the expansion and growth it's required.
Prepare yourself for an episode that's somehow as pumpkiny as it is DIRTY, and mo...2024-05-2354 min
Remodeled LoveRaw Doggin' Possibility [PREVIEW]Alternative episode title: Famous Last Words
In this episode, The Daylovers (Jes, Joe, and Ash) talk about:
*what Datty is learning in polyamory (fear of trying and failing at finding compatible partners),
*what Ash is learning about parenthood and co-parenting (letting go of attachment, not trying to immediately nip things in the bud or cast judgment, learning to pause...),
*what Jes is learning in polyamory, which she breaks down to what she is learning through each of her partners:
>>with Joe: are we "just" gay best friends?
>>with Dr. M...2024-02-1524 min
Remodeled Love32: It's Giving...LeviticusIn this episode: Joe finds out Ash is having an affair with Dr. M('s pores), we talk about our journey to get Ash qualified for FMLA as a polyamorous family, and we discuss, in depth, our favorite punctuation.
We also talk about what Jes and Joe are individually learning in the world of parenthood right now, and Ash shares what they are learning in the world of polyamory.
There's also some other stuff about sex parties, autistic embarrassment around being "too eager", and village growing pains.
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Remodeled LovePanties on the Bottom [TEASER]This is by far the best and most unhinged episode we've ever recorded and we're worried we may never top it. (We will.)
It's honestly all over the place and we're not sure how to summarize it, but we talk about: age gap relationships, sleeping arrangements, Jes's new orgasm discovery she calls "bass orgasms", how Ash loves to listen through the vent to Jes and Dr. M boning, why Ash's pants were at half mast in the preview photo, what it's like living with partners who have boundaries around how they help with the parenting, and what...2024-01-2015 min
Remodeled Love31: We're Alive! (barely)In this episode The Daylovers (all 4 of them!) try to catch you up on everything that happened in 2023, which was both the best and worst year of their lives. This is the first episode recorded as a nested polycule, including the notorious Dr. M!
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Check out all the new virtual courses we have for you, like Rituals fo...2024-01-1857 minRemodeled Love30: Meet Mama Ash!When we left off 6 months ago (holy shit), it was right before Jessica's birthday orgy and Joe was about to meet his long distance lover, Ash, for the first time. Well, now it's 6 months later and YOU get to meet her...cuz she lives here now. And she's the best thing to ever happen to our little family.
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Check out all...2023-11-2651 minRemodeled LoveContainers, Chaos, & Obstruction [Teaser]In this episode, Jessica and Joe talk about how hard it was to get this episode made, the chaos created when you move two partners into your small home within a year, how hard it is to purge your home, and what the fuck is a Roth IRA.
Enjoy the full episode, as well as a bunch of other exclusive content, on our Patreon (www.patreon.com/remodeledlove).2023-08-1021 min
Remodeled Love29: Multiamory, The Book!You may know Emily, Dedeker, and Jase as the hosts of the world-renown podcast, Multiamory. And now you can officially add 'authors' to their bio lines! Dropping May 23rd, 2023 (though available for pre-order today), "Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships" is a curated collection of the most popular communication tools, advice, and wisdom from the Multiamory podcast that have helped thousands of listeners improve their communication and create healthy relationships. In this book, you’ll learn how to: Get what you need out of conversations with your partner with the Triforce of Communication, create Microscripts that will interrupt old pa...2023-05-191h 01
Remodeled Love28: Conscious Breakups with ashe danger phoenixBreaking up is hard to do. In this episode of Remodeled Love, Jessica talks with one of her favorite polyam podcasters, ashe danger phoenix of the Dear Jessamyn podcast. They discuss why lesbian breakups take so long, and is there a way to make them shorter; can we discuss breakups with someone before entering into a relationship with them, the difference between low stakes breakups, ghosting, and breakups that rip your heart out--how to see them coming, how to lean into it, and how to stay conscious during the death.
Polyamory inherently forces the need to get g...2023-03-171h 00
Our Town RenoThe Daylovers, Promoting PolyamoryJessica and Joseph Daylover, a polyamorous couple, are influencers in Reno who promote and practice polyamory while raising a family. With reporter Kingkini Sengupta, they discuss their path into polyamory, their challenges, their rewards and people’s reactions, including from their own families.2022-12-2828 min
Remodeled Love27: Everything's Comin' Up DayloversIn this episode The Daylovers catch you up on all things Remodeled Love, including some yummy new support groups. changes in the structure of their personal+professional life intersections, and some exciting visions for the future. They also share some Hot Goss (the hottest goss they've ever had), aka: Jes's upcoming birthday orgy, and some delicious new elements to her relationship with her boyfriend...and quite possibly the most exciting development ever for Joe. The episode ends with Joe sharing his existential dread around the nature of higher ed, and Jes and Joe answer a lister question about seeking...2022-11-211h 01
Media StormS2E10 Polyamory: Love and the limits of the law - with Leanne Yau aka Poly PhiliaWarning: Some strong language Imagine getting fired for your relationship status. Imagine a nosy neighbour deciding they knew what was better for your children. This is the reality for polyamorous people across the UK and abroad. Should we be legislating against their discrimination, rather than their perceived ‘deviation’?This week, Media Storm speaks to polyamorous people who are trying to love within the limits of the law. We hears from top experts in the field, including Dr Sheff's 25-year-long study on polyamorous families, and the newly-formed UK Polyamory Association on changing the Equality Act. ...2022-11-1046 min
Open LateRemodeled Love, Privilege, and Polyamorous Parenting with Jessica Levity DayloverToday Jess is joined by entertainer, author, and podcast host, Jessica Levity Daylover! Jessica has much to share about her experience with polyamorous parenting, holding space for your partner while they are in NRE, and her principles such as "whole ass person." This episode is jammed packed with education, entertainment, and practices you can implement into your life and relationship right away.In this episode of Open Late• Addressing privilege• Parenting in a polyamorous relationship• "Dudes with Feelings" - Safe space for men in open relationships• Masking2022-10-2656 min
Polyamory UncensoredEpisode 97: Polyamory and Parenthood with JessicaWelcome to Episode 97 of Polyamory Uncensored, where Lyndzi and podcast husband Rob chat with Jessica Daylover from Remodeled Love about navigating parenthood of small children and pregnancy while polyamorous. We talk about our envy of our childless partners, dismantling or embracing natural hierarchies, as well as time banking to help build a polyam parenting network so all us parents can feel more free and autonomous.
Check out the Daylover's podcast Remodeled Love and go buy their new eBook about Polyamory and Parenthood!
Stay tuned as we delve into the good, the bad, the ugly, and the just plain complicated truths ab...2022-10-0255 min
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern RelationshipsWhat It’s Really Like to Be a Polyamorous Parent (with Jessica Daylover from Remodeled Love)Today we're joined by Jessica Levity Daylover, elder millennial, polyamorous parent, entertainer, author, and more. Jessica has a BA in Philosophy and Sociology, and a certificate in LGBT/Gender Studies from the University of Wisconsin–Madison. After moving to Reno in 2008, she launched Homeslice Productions, which is the umbrella production company through which she produces all the pieces of her imagination: podcasts, shows, comedy, social media, game shows, murder mysteries, guided meditations, Remodeled Love, and more. Jessica has an honest conversation with us about parenting and the book she co-wrote about parenting while polyamorous. Join our amazing co...2022-09-2056 min
Remodeled Love26: Musings on Peer Support in the Polyamorous Sphere with Sam of @ShrimpteethIn the kickoff to Season 3 of the "Remodeled Love" podcast, Jes chats with the creator of and artist over at @Shrimpteeth, Sam.
There are several arguments against the presence of the "peer support" model in the polyamorous digital sphere:the potential for the abuse of power, the fact that there's no board to report abuse to, no official training or accreditation for "coaches", the charging of money, etc.
But how does peer support actually work? Jes and Sam break down their backgrounds, how they personally show up in the peer support space, the issues they co...2022-09-161h 11
Remodeled Love25: Dudes with FeelingsIn this episode of Remodeled, Jes chats with a brilliant and diverse group of polyamorous men, some of whom you may recognize as popular content creators in the polyamorous digital sphere. Joining Mr. Daylover at the table is our good friend Wade (remember him from Season 1??), Albert of @Polymananswers & @Albah.Love (and Jes' comet partner in Sacramento), and Bear of @Bear.n.Fifi.
Jes asks the guys what they've noticed as polyamorous men, as well as polyam peer support specialists, around the struggles of polyamorous and poly-curious men to recognize, feel, process, and receive help around the...2022-09-0957 min
Remodeled Love24: We Wrote A F*cking Book!In this episode of Remodeled, The Daylovers enjoy deliciously upscale recording accommodations and talk about their new book, "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children". They offer a brief overview of their new book, and share a little of the behind-the-scenes process.
Jes also shares some show feedback--mainly that folks really enjoy the episodes between the two of them, and Jes promises to return to more of a balance between those types of episodes and the interview style episodes featuring special guests (she still has 6 fantastic interviews on the back-burner she needs to get out...2022-07-201h 02
The Ready For Polyamory PodcastSeason 5 Episode 1: Polyamory & Parenting (Part 1)"You have to take the space to take care of yourself and notice if you haven't made space for yourself outside of parenthood in a long time - because making space for your non-parent identity is important."
"Why would we stop doing the things that make us happy and make us better as humans if we're trying to raise good people, a task that means we need to show up as our best selves?"
To open season 5 of the podcast, Laura and Jessica Levity Daylover of Remodeled Love sit down to talk about being polyamorous...2022-04-0753 min
Remodeled Love23: Polyamory & Fatphobia with Coach ShorIn this episode Jes chats with @coach_shor on the intersections of compulsory monogamy, compulsory heterosexuality, compulsory cis-ness, and fatphobia. And, as always, they dive into the semiotics of it all.
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Remodeled Love22: Tales from the Daylover DiaryIn this episode, Jes and Joe catch you the fuck up on their polyamorous lives. SO MUCH HAS HAPPENED SINCE THEY GOT BACK ON THE APPS! They share some exciting new connections, some tragic lessons, and a hilarious anecdote that only polyamorous parents can truly understand.
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Remodeled Love21: Our Evolution into a Beautiful, Non-Sexual, Polyamorous MarriageIn this extremely vulnerable episode, The Daylovers "come out", and share with you the raw details of their evolution into a beautiful, asexual, polyamorous marriage.
They lay out every piece of their journey:
Jes's fearful confession of her asexual feelings toward Joe a few months ago,
how that landed in Joe's world,
Joe's processing of those emotions,
why they think of it as an "evolution", and
Jes's very detailed theory as to the factors behind this evolution-- including pieces of their past, Jes's demisexuality, life as a postpartum mother, the nature of long term relationships, and Joe's exploration of his...2021-11-2959 min
Remodeled Love20: Let Grown Folks Do What They Want (with Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers)In this interview we chat with @lavitaloca34 — she shares her backstory, the character arc of her life so far, her polyamory origin story, how she became a content creator, her critiques of the polyamorous community, and some deep wisdom that everyone needs to hear.
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Remodeled Love19: Survivorship Industrial Complex, & More, with Sydney Rae Chin[CW: Brief mentions of trauma, intimate partner violence, and sexual violence]
In this episode, Jes chats with fellow Instagram content creator, Sydney Rae Chin. Sydney (they/she) identifies as a queer, non-binary, East Asian, anti-capitalist femme. They talk Sydney's critique of the social media space: the entrepreneurial culture, the problematic nature with some of the Polyam content creators, the lack of consent found in the space, and also what Sydney calls the "Survivorship Industrial Complex".
Sydney is stepping away from IG for a while, but you should follow them anyway @SydneyRaeChin. Additionally, you can tip t...2021-10-0842 min
Remodeled LoveEpisode 18: Polyamory and ADHD, with Dr. AntoniaIn this highly anticipated episode of "Remodeled", Jes chats with clinical psychologist Dr. Antonia Jurkovic about her perceived and experienced correlations between ADHD and Polyamory.
They dive into: how much Dr. Antonia thinks Polyamory and ADHD are related to one another, how the identities are inherently intertwined, and the growing observation that so many non-monogamous folks have ADHD.
They also talk about how ADHD might impact what draws someone to polyamory (a need for excitement, spontaneity, change, novelty...), and how it could possibly explain some of the difficulties people find themselves having within polyamory (like...2021-09-271h 17
Remodeled LoveEpisode 17: Polyamorous Men, with @PolyamfamWe continue our Polyamorous Men series with this live interview with The Good Chad of @Polyamfam. In this episode we discuss Chad's polyamory origin story. Chad shares the struggles he had early on-- his insecurities and jealousies, and how polyamory actually helped him work through them to become a better version of himself. Chad talks about the role toxic masculinity played in his polyamorous journey, and he gives us his number one tip in helping other men overcome toxicity: Listen. To. Women.
You can support Chad by buying his art, attending his events, and following his page.
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Remodeled LoveEpisode 16: Purity to Polyamory~ From Purity Rings to Non-Monogamous Things ~
In this episode, The Daylovers chat with a special guest, Instagram's @PurityToPolyamory (now @puritytopercolating). In part 1, she shares what lead her to starting her Instagram account, and her reaction to its quick success. She mentions that "exvangelical" and "deconstruction" circles are on the rise right now, and delves into the parallels within her journey between the deconstruction of her faith and her realization that she is polyamorous. @PurityToPolyamory also gets into the toxic elements of purity culture, the damage it does on young individuals, and how she's having to unpack all...2021-08-031h 00
Remodeled LoveEpisode 15: Embrace Your Inner CuckIn this live and (mostly) unedited episode, The Daylovers share some exciting news regarding their recent rise to UK trash mag fame, update everyone on their dating life, and talk about some fun new merch they just launched. Plus, Jes goes off about how capitalism has ruined dating apps, does a deep dive into how her demisexuality affects her online dating life, and announces her newly discovered identity as a "Demisexual Slut".
*** You can submit questions you may have about Jes and Joe, polyamory in general, or a specific situation you're navigating by emailing remodeledlove@gmail.com, o...2021-07-2741 min
Remodeled LoveEpisode 14: UNEDITEDIn this kick off to the long-awaited Season 2, Jes pitches her mushroom-inspired idea to Joe that if she can let go of editing each episode as intensely as she did in Season 1, then they can get a lot more episodes out quicker. Joe doubts Jes is capable of that.
In Part 1, The Daylovers then catch you up on their lives: how it's been going with the new baby, navigating breakups, and just getting their reality tossed around by the general upheaval that comes with a newborn, plus also the plot twists of polyamory. Plus Joe urges all men to e...2021-07-0644 min
Practicing Polyamory PodcastE.70 - Remodeled Love's Jessica Levity DayloverI'm so excited to host one of the top polyam educators and creators on social media today, Jessica Levity Daylover of @RemodeledLove and @HomeSliceProductions fame.
Jessica isn't just hilariously creative, relatable, and smart as a whip, she's also on a mission to expand the cultural narrative on healthy relationships and normalize polyamory and ethical non-monogamy on a grand scale. In other words, she wants to change society's semiology!
We talk about her mission, her recent podcast episode where she discusses her recent discovery of her demisexuality, how she's navigating that realization in comparison to...2021-07-0136 min
Remodeled LoveEpisode 13: Venus in Scorpio (mini episode)In this special "Mini Episode", Jes shares a coming out story with you all. Just because you're 35 doesn't mean there aren't parts of your sexuality that you're still discovering. This story is dedicated to anyone with whom it resonates.
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Remodeled LoveEpisode 12: The Sacred Home Birth of Lucius Sol DayloverIn the Season 1 Finale of “Remodeled”, The Daylovers sit down with the Godfather of their children, Christopher Daniels (aka “Titi”), to share the sacred birth story of Lucius Sol Daylover. The mission of Remodeled is to Redefine Family and Redefine Love, and the reverent home birth of their sweet LSD did just that. Can you imagine a more perfect way to end our first season?
The telling of birth stories, if you’ve never read or heard one, is an extremely powerful genre of storytelling. Not only does it capture forever the details for the family, but it can ope...2021-05-031h 30
Remodeled LoveEpisode 11: Anatomy of a Polyam Man (Memoirs of a Weird Life)In this episode of Remodeled, Mr. Daylover recounts his mostly solo journey growing up on the East coast, moving to Vegas, and then finding his tribe in Reno. So far in this podcast we’ve focused on the relationships that shifted us into polyamory, but this 3-part memoir looks at the backstory, and unearths the seeds of a weird existence that would oddly match with a polyamory lifestyle later. Joe explores his middle class Catholic upbringing, his angsty teenage years, being a late bloomer, the world of Theatre, and other influences casting him as a weird person in an ev...2021-03-0823 min
Remodeled LoveEpisode 10: Ragamuffin PolyamoryIn this episode of Remodeled, The Daylovers take you inside their hearts, to the depths of their total mystical weirdness, to answer a listener's email asking them to describe the role their spirituality plays in their polyamory. The episode starts with a chronological telling of how each of them came to have the beliefs they currently have -- a unique synthesis of their mutual passion for world religions, philosophies, and mystic traditions. Jes completely nerds out on her profound love of Spinozian metaphysics, shadow work, psychedelic drugs, The 12 Step Program, witchy folklore, and even Christ. Joe recounts his journey...2021-02-2655 min
Remodeled LoveEpisode 9: Poly PhiliaIn this episode of Remodeled, The Daylovers have the honor to chat with one of their favorite polyam content creators, all the way in the UK, Poly Philia. @polyphiliablog, whose sole creator is a brilliant human called Leanne, is a 22-year-old bisexual, autistic, polyamorous Asian cis-woman, who's also a part-time swinger and meme maker. The trio discuss Leanne's identity, the role she feels her autism has played in her logical view of relationships, her journey into polyamory, and her current adventures in non-hierarchical polyamory, and stress-relieving sex parties. In the second part of the interview, Leanne discusses her venture...2021-02-1647 min
Remodeled LoveEpisode 8: Sober, Black, Polyam, PansexualIn this saucy, sexy, and absolutely hilarious episode of Remodeled, The Daylovers sit down with one of the finest humans on this entire fucking planet, Wade Gainer. Wade identifies as a Black, Pansexual, Cisgendered Male, with Narcolepsy, who's been sober now for 4.5 years. The trio explores Wade's history with polyamory, as well as his journey into pansexual exploration. They also have a vulnerable and encouraging discussion on topics such as worrying about the penis-size of your partner's other partners, and discuss how to work through ego-based insecurities while exploring polyamory. Lastly, Wade and The Daylovers get political, and Wade...2021-02-1151 min
Remodeled LoveEpisode 7: The Polyamorous Death DoulaIn this episode, The Daylovers have a zoom date with Joe's Side-Witch, Lore (aka: The Patron Saint of Compersion). Lore, a professional Death Doula, identifies as a queer, non-binary, latinx, polyamorous, demisexual, hyper-romantic, pansexual. Lore has known The Daylovers since before they got together, and the 3 recount the ways each person has been a part of each other's journey into polyamory. In the first half, Lore discusses the nuances of their identity, their journey into polyamory, their elaborate setup of their current polycule (see episode graphic & find us on Instagram for the full thing), and the ways in which...2021-02-0158 min
Remodeled LoveEpisode 6: Joe Makes An Online Dating ProfileIn this episode of Remodeled, Jes shares her glee at the fact that, after 8 years, Joe *FINALLY* let her make him an online dating profile. Joe vulnerably recounts his insecurities and fears he's had around being "proactive" in the dating world, and the both of them revel inside how much his recent opening up has brought so much wonderful new confidence and amorousness into his life. Jes also tells their love story, which is a hilarious narrative involving a psychic vision and hallucinogenic mushrooms. Finally, The Daylovers divulge the details of Joe's OKCupid profile, talk about his struggles with m...2021-01-2554 min
Remodeled LoveEpisode 5: Super Gay, Super Poly, Super NerdIn this episode of Remodeled, first recorded a year ago, The Daylovers talk to one of their oldest friends and comedic cohorts, Shane Tolomeo. Shane was one of the very first people Jes and Joe “came out" to, back in their early days of polyamorous exploration. Now, 7 years later, Shane is living as a happy, healthy, polyamorous gay man. The trio discuss Shane’s polyam origins, his relationship to jealousy, his thoughts on polyam’s connection to Burning Man, and why non-monogamy may be more common in the gay world. This interview will be the first in an on-going series...2021-01-1952 min
Remodeled LoveEpisode 4: Polyamory Q + AIn this episode, featuring guest host JD Montelongo, and alternatively titled "Pregnancy WAP" (or "Echo Chamber Ego Boost"), the trio answers several listener emails asking: How do you tell your partner you're interested in exploring polyamory? What would you do if they weren't interested? Does your partner's bond with someone else ever make you feel disconnected? The crew also discusses ideas around "compatibility", and address some fuckery found inside a few emails. Most enjoyably, Jes and JD tease Joe about being high as fuck on NRE, and Joe gives us an update on his recent journey of being more...2021-01-111h 10
Remodeled LoveEpisode 3: Polyamory & Parenthood (Defying Gravity)In this raw, vulnerable, and passionate episode, Jes and Joe answer one listener’s email with several questions around Polyamory and Parenting. They dive into the philosophy of semiology, and how your personal semiotics affects how you see the world, and how you understand what’s possible. Not only do they invite you into an expansion of your personal semiology, but they challenge you to examine which cultural narratives you may have bought into without even realizing it. Additionally, Jes, while honestly navigating the unconscious hypocrisy she finds inside these common questions, also calls herself out on her own fuck...2021-01-0445 minRemodeled LoveEpisode 2: Our Polyamory Story, Part 2 (The Cliffhanger)In this episode of Remodeled, Jessica & Joe pick up right from where they left off in Episode 1 -- answering all of the questions that guest host JD Montelongo wants to know: How do you create rules and boundaries for yourselves when exploring polyamory? What happens if one partner is more eager to experiment with polyamory than the other? What's the difference between "open relationships" and "polyamory"? Did any of your "rules" evolve over time? What rules do you have around sex itself? Are you allowed to deny your partner's choice of partner? Do you have to meet your partner's...2020-12-2847 minRemodeled LoveEpisode 1: Our Polyamory StoryIn this episode, Jessica and Joe (The Daylovers) leave no stone left unturned in this honest and raw re-telling of the question they are most often asked: "How did ya'll 'get into' polyamory?" With literally no role models to look up to, they had to navigate the world of polyamory on their own. Now, 7 years later, they share their story as a beacon of light for others, as well as to alter the cultural narrative of what's possible. You may find their journey triggering, painful, surreal, and confusing...but if you stay with them (like they did with each...2020-12-2053 min
The Reno Tahoe Tonight ShowThe Reno Tahoe Tonight Show: Utility Players Family Reunion, Salsa Reno, & Cosplay For Kindness 03/05/20Guests:
Jessica Levity Daylover, Utility Players - utilityplayerscomedy.com
BB, Salsa Reno - facebook.com/BBandKikiTeams
Brandon Boykins, Cosplay For Kindness - facebook.com/cosplayforkindness
Show Notes:
Thursday on "The Reno Tahoe Tonight Show" the "Superstarter Jenes Carter" and I welcome Jessica Levity Daylover from the Utility Players Family Reunion who will preview their upcoming event happening this Saturday, March 7 at Cargo Reno.
Then BB of Salsa Reno and the Friday Night Latin Dance Social Fridays at Edge Nightclub joins us to talk salsa...2020-03-0643 minThe Reno Tahoe Tonight ShowThe Reno Tahoe Tonight Show: Reno Arts & Culture Commission, The Utility Players, and Eric H. Andersen of The Novelists 02/03/20Guests:
Geralda Miller, Commissioner of Reno Arts & Culture Commission & Co-owner at Art Spot Reno - artspotreno.com
Jessica Levity Daylover of The Utility Players
Eric H Andersen, Guitar playing crooner & Lead-singer/pianist for The Novelists
Show Notes:
Today on "The Reno Tahoe Tonight Show" on 1180AM KCKQ, the "Superstarter Jenes Carter" and I welcome the Fanatic Friday Crew (Grady Holdridge and Shaun O'Harra) call-in to recap Superbowl LIV.
Then we welcome Reno Arts & Culture Commissioner Geralda Miller who will review...2020-02-0343 min
I Couldn't Help but PodcastSpecial Episode 2: Different Flavors of Polyamory w/ Jessica Levity and Joe DayloverHappy Podcast Anniversay, Y'all! We want to celebrate our special day with Part 2 of our special polyamory coverage. JD and Paige are joined this episode with Jessica, Joe, and Miko to answer questions sent in by our listeners and talk more about their experiences with polyamory.
Let us know what you'd like to learn more about at icouldnthelpbutpodcast@gmail.com or on Twitter at @WeSwearOnChanel.
Thank you for a fantastic year and two awesome seasons.2017-11-131h 04
I Couldn't Help but PodcastSpecial Episode 1: Choose Your Own Poly Adventure! w/ Jessica Levity and Joe DayloverJD and Paige bring you a special episode of "I Couldn't Help but Podcast"! In this episode, JD and Paige sit down with special guest stars Jessica and Joe to discuss their polyamorous relationship. "Sex and the City" doesn't cover everything so we decided to bring some education to the fans! Let us know what you'd like to learn more about at at icouldnthelpbutpodcst@gmail.com or on Twitter at @WeSwearOnChanel.
Thank you to Jessica Levity at The Dream Life Studio for this amazing episode and our kickass new intro! Sick!2017-09-1151 min
The Fresh Bakin' PodcastEpisode 03: Ryan "Motorhome" Van Duyn of The Bluebird NightclubIn this episode of The Fresh Bakin' Podcast: Richard Xavier sits down with Ryan RV VanDuyn, aka MotorHome Music.
Topics Include: Würk, 4th Street mayhem at The Underground and Bliss, early 2000’s warehouse raves, opening The BlueBird nightclub, Culture clothing store in Midtown District Reno, producing on Ableton, DJing on Serato, The Nevada State Bird, The “Barmuda Triangle,” Hip Hop Dance Class With Jenes Carter, Kombucha on Tap from FOLK Brewing Company, The Funktion-One (Official) Sound System, and Jessica Levity Daylover’s cat makes a surprise guest appearance.
Shout Outs: Kendra Cro, SubDocta, Muppet Punk, boggan, Grant Hedrick, Shane Suffriti...2017-05-181h 00