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Pathways Radio by Paul O'BrienPathways for June 29, 2025: Polysecure – Jessica Fern
Jessica Fern is the author of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy. Jessica is a psychotherapist, public speaker, and trauma & relationship expert. In her international private practice, Jessica works with individuals, couples and people in multiple-partner relationships who want to be free of their reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment styles and past traumas. She holds a master’s degree in conflict analysis and resolution.
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A Court of Fandoms and Exploration - A Podcast.206. Coming of Age: Seven Little Kisses by Samantha Ferrand.ACOFAE Podcast Presents: Coming of Age: Seven Little Kisses by Samanth Ferrand
What are your favorite "Coming of Age" stories? Are they filled with angst? Awkwardness? Was it set in middle school? Before? After? Does it make you wince to recall the most painful parts? These are some of the questions that live within the genre of Coming of Age and their answers will stay with you. Using Samantha Ferrand's Seven Little Kisses to explore the genre a bit more, Laura Marie and Jessica Marie are thrown back into youthfulness and situations that were thought to be...2025-06-0956 min
Multifamily Elevated016- Reframing Multifamily Success with Jessica Fern-KirklandWhat if the key to elevating your multifamily business wasn’t just found in data, systems, or structures—but in your people? In this insightful episode, Suzanne Hopson sits down with multifamily veteran Jessica Fern-Kirkland https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessicafernkirkland/ , whose 17 years of experience in operations and organizational behavior have shaped a powerful approach to leadership and growth. Together, they unpack the deeper layers of what really drives performance in today’s multifamily organizations.Jessica introduces her transformative Four P’s framework—People, Processes, Platforms, and Paradigms—while offering fresh perspective on how technology, mindset, and culture intersect. T...2025-06-0336 min
Wild & SublimeAre you Polywise? with author Jessica FernSend us a textWhen relationships transition from monogamous to open, or ENM agreements change, trouble may arise. As part of our Polyamory In Depth season, author and therapist Jessica Fern (Polywise; Polysecure) discusses how to navigate choppy waters.In this episode:Author and therapist Jessica Fern Sex educator, coach, and energy worker Karen Yates Polywise and Polysecure– buy them on Bookshop and support Wild & SublimeGet Say It Better in Bed, Karen’s free guide to upping your intimacy pleasure. Download here!The Afterglow, our Patreon membership group, brings you regula...2025-01-2350 min
Camille Parle Sexe#117: Poly-wise relationships with Jessica FernWatch us on youtube HERE (with subtitles)Today we are exploring more about poly relationships : with the joys and challenges of non monogamy. I have a very special guest who is a leading voice in this field. Jessica Fern is a renowned Psychotherapist, Coach, and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. She's the author of 'Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and NonMonogamy,' 'The Polysecure Workbook,' and 'Polywise: A Deeper Dive Into Navigating Open Relationships.' While I thought I knew a lot about polyrelationships, her books showed me the contrary and opened my eyes to n...2024-09-1644 min
Modern Anarchy175. The Polysecure Paradigm Shift with Jessica FernOn today’s episode, we have psychotherapist Jessica Fern (she/her) join us for a conversation about polyamory as a catalyst for liberation. Together we talk about learning to go low and slow with NRE, exploring the protectors of our hearts and the much needed updates to attachment theory. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.comLooking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarc...2024-09-041h 10
KatzenflüsternÄtherische Öle in der Sterbebegleitung bei Tieren mit Dr. Daniela WeiserIn dieser berührenden Podcast-Folge begrüße ich erneut die Tierärztin Dr. Daniela Weiser von AromaVetDoc. Der Abschied von einer geliebten Katze ist eine der schwersten Aufgaben, die uns als Katzenhalter begegnen können. Gemeinsam sprechen wir darüber, wie wir diesen Moment mit Liebe und Fürsorge gestalten können – für unsere Katzen und für uns selbst.
Den Sterbeprozess liebevoll begleitenDaniela nimmt uns behutsam durch die verschiedenen Phasen des Sterbeprozesses mit und erklärt, wie wir in jeder dieser Phasen sowohl unsere Katze als auch uns selbst mit ätherischen Ölen unterstützen kö...2024-08-2138 min
The Gently Used Human with Dr. Scott LyonsErotic Blueprints and the Map to Intimacy with Jessica FernIn a world where traditional relationship structures are being challenged and redefined, the concept of polyamory has emerged as a topic of both curiosity and controversy. In this episode, Dr Scott delves into the intricacies of this multifaceted approach to love and intimacy with Jessica Fern, a psychotherapist, coach, and author of "Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Non-Monogamy."Jessica's expertise lies in guiding individuals, couples, and those in multiple-partner relationships to transcend the limitations of reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment styles, and past traumas. Through her work, she invites us to explore new possibilities in life and...2024-08-071h 01
Creator's Cafe35. Fern Madden: Revealing RadianceMakeup artist Fern Madden encourages us to find our signature look that allows our natural beauty to shine through. Follow: https://www.fernmaddenmakeup.com/IG: @fernmaddenmakeupRepresented by Jk Artists Los Angeles Work with Jessica: On-Camera CoachingCreate on-camera confidence by learning techniques from Hollywood Acting Coach Jessica Payne. Learn more here.Creator's Challenge: Style Icons Bio & IntroFern Madden is a hair and makeup artist from who lives in LA after getting her start in London and...2024-07-181h 13
This Is Actually HappeningThe 82 Percent: Bonus Conversation with Jessica FernIn this special bonus episode, Whit Missildine interviews Jessica Fern. Jessica Fern is a renowned psychotherapist, trauma and relationship expert, and the author of two books: Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non-Monogamy, and Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships. In her international private practice, Jessica works with individuals, couples, and people in multiple-partner relationships who no longer want to be limited by their reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment styles, and past traumas, helping them to embody new possibilities in life and love. To find out more about Jessica and her work, y...2024-07-0438 min
This Is Actually HappeningThe 82 Percent: Bonus Conversation with Jessica FernIn this special bonus episode, Whit Missildine interviews Jessica Fern. Jessica Fern is a renowned psychotherapist, trauma and relationship expert, and the author of two books: Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non-Monogamy, and Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships. In her international private practice, Jessica works with individuals, couples, and people in multiple-partner relationships who no longer want to be limited by their reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment styles, and past traumas, helping them to embody new possibilities in life and love. To find out more about Jessica and her work, you visit her website jessicafern.c...2024-07-0445 min
eHealth-PodcastFolge #165 – CardLinkAn das eRezept haben sich inzwischen alle gewöhnt und nach anfänglichen Schwierigkeiten läuft das Ganze relativ unaufgeregt. Sogenannte "Digitale Identitäten", mit denen man z.B. über das Internet nachweisen kann, dass man wirklich die Person ist, für die man sich ausgibt, sind noch nicht flächendeckend verfügbar.
Was macht man nun, wenn man ein eRezept hat, das Haus aber nicht verlassen kann/will? Hier kommt CardLink ins Spiel: Das eRezept wurde ausgestellt, Ihr sucht Euch eine Apotheke auf dem Handy aus und haltet dann Eure eGK an Euer Handy und autorisiert so die Apotheke. Eine Art...2024-06-1825 min
The Other Side of ThingsThe Other Side of Things Ep 03 - "Polywise" with Jessica Fern00:00 Intro01:55 Who is Jessica Fern?04:00 What is love?06:00 I wrote this book for love.08:00 Jessica's finding the language of polyamory10:00 Paradigms, Mindsets and Social Lenses11:50 Emotional Wiring from our Conditioned Mindsets14:00 Polyamory - different ways of understanding many loves16:15 What are polyintimates? Emotional connections vs. physical18:00 How to approach difficult discussions around polyamory?21:00 Parts work - what is it and how to work with our many 'parts/sub-selves'?23:40 Does everybody have a poly part??25:30 The Mono-Poly Spectrum26:00 Ambiamory 30:00 Poly as a choice, orientation vs philosophy2024-06-161h 07
GINA'S ROOM - NICHT NUR ANGENEHMGINA'S ROOM #25 - Jessica Svartvit & Pi Stoffers | "Emotional verkeimt"
Guten Morgen! Hier kommt die wohl liveste (Ist ein Wort, ja) Episode um die Ecke, die es bisher gab (Live-Podcast bald?). Sonntagmorgen um 8 Uhr haben Jessi und Pi sich zusammengefunden, um über Pi's Europatour zu reden und wie er sich vom post-tour-blues fern hält bzw. es versucht. Außerdem geht es ums Machen vs. Denken und was ergebnisorientierter ist und NATÜRLICH reden sie das erste Mal über den Grund, warum diese Episode so live ist wie sie ist. Jessis neues Studio – das SVARTHAUS. Diese 5 Monate dorthin waren hart und von emotional verkeilten bösartigen Leuten gespickt, aber mehr daz...2024-05-0558 min
Best Line/Worst LineNot a PrincessMusician Sarah Joelle (Sarah Slaton & the Great Perhaps) joins us to talk about the animated classic Fern Gully: The Last Rainforest (1992). A powerful environmental message and an incredible voice cast meet a colorful animated adventure with fairies. Let's fly right in! Just... don't get eaten by any large rapping lizards.Connect with us on Instagram @bestlineworstline and tell us your Best and Worst lines!Sarah Joelle: on Instagram @sarahjoelleMelanie: on Instagram @melanie.r.reiffSign up for her newsletterJessica: on Instagram @jessicabenoistyoung2024-04-231h 05
The Digible DudesEP169: Transforming Multifamily Housing through Organizational Engineering | Jessica Fern-KirklandWelcome to episode #169 of the Digible Dudes Podcast, where we dive deep into the world of multifamily housing through the lens of organizational innovation and technology.
In this episode, David and Reid sit down with Jessica Fern-Kirkland, a pioneer in the multifamily industry who has coined the term "organizational engineer." We navigate through Jessica's journey in the multifamily space, from her entry into property management to her rise as an industry influencer passionate about providing quality housing.
Jessica sheds light on her philosophy of organizational engineering, emphasizing the importance...2024-03-2854 min
Playing With Fire144 Handling Polyamory Problems: Q&A with Polywise Authors Jessica Fern and David CooleyWe’re back with Jessica Fern and David Cooley, co-authors of the incredible book Polywise, and this time they’re answering your questions.
We cover so much in this episode, but it’s all through the lens of a restorative relational framework, which is an incredibly powerful way to transform how you move through conflict in your relationships. Their responses include both practical exercises that you can implement in your life today, and important, big-picture discussions about polyamory, attachment, jealousy, reassurance, parenting, and so much more.
Here are the questions that Jessica and David answer in thi...2024-03-1657 min
Magic Hour DreamcastVillains...Let us ask it in the form of a question…what is it about a good villain? Isn’t it juicy sometimes to think about what sort of villain you’d be? And what do villains represent, what do they teach us?We’re going to have a look at some stories, scope out our favourite characters and attributes. We hope you enjoy the show!Now some notes…firstly, our list* Yzma* Magneto* “Man” as portrayed in Fern Gully, Julie of the Wolves, Avatar, ...2024-02-191h 02
100 Lunches6: Ali Burgoon Nolan *Journalism to Interior Design*In this episode, Ali Burgoon Nolan of Studio Burgoon shares her journey from studying journalism to finding her passion in interior design. She discusses her childhood, early passions, and the pivotal moment that led her to switch to interior design. Ali talks about her career progression, working with renowned firms like Getty's Group, Gensler, and Bunkhouse. She also shares her experience working with Fern Santini and the decision to start her own firm. Ali highlights the importance of travel and creative outlets in her life and offers advice for finding one's passion.Ali Burgoon...2024-02-1737 min
Playing With Fire141 Being Polywise with Jessica Fern and David CooleyIndividuation, enmeshment, symbiosis, co-dependence, individualism, interdependence… how on Earth can we navigate through all these paradigms and bring balance to our relationships??
Luckily, in this episode, we’re joined by Jessica Fern and David Cooley, two all-star authors and practitioners in the non-monogamy space. We get into the nuances of individuation, and how to work towards differentiation in a way that is intentional instead of reactive.
We talk about the mono-mind (that sneaky thing is always causing trouble!!) and how it can be a barrier to individuation and healthy conflict resolution in non-monogamous relationships.
Je...2024-02-0358 min
Let's Talk Love | A Real Love Ready PodcastJessica Fern - Polysecure: Exploring CNMThis week on Let’s Talk Love, Robin sits down with Jessica Fern. Jessica is the acclaimed author of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy and Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships. With a wealth of experience in the field of couples therapy and a deep understanding of attachment theory, Jessica brings a fresh perspective to the complexities of human connections. Jessica shares her experience working with clients in non-traditional relationships and helps normalize the discussion around Consensual Nonmonogamy (CNM). Robin and Jessica explore common misconceptions, fears, and principles of CNM relationships. Jessica also discusses her...2024-02-0143 min
Mind Body Health & PoliticsJessica Fern Building Secure Attachments in Polyamorous RelationshipsIn this episode, relationship expert Jessica Fern delves into the challenges and joys of open relationships. She discusses strategies for navigating jealousy and provides insights into the future of non-monogamous relationships. Jessica highlights the significance of having a guide and support system when embarking on this social experiment. The conversation also explores the necessity for new terminology to describe various relationship dynamics, as well as the influence of societal movements on the acceptance of non-monogamy. Throughout the episode, Jessica offers practical advice on strengthening attachment, establishing rituals, and cultivating secure relationships. This is a public episode...2024-01-3159 min
Playing With Fire140 [Replay] Balancing Individuation & Secure Attachment with Polysecure Author Jessica FernJessica will be back next week with her coauthor David Cooley. Prime the pump by listening to this episode!
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It's normal to want your relationship to feel secure.
It's normal to want to individuate.
It's normal to want to explore what life can look like beyond the constraints of default monogamy.
But how do you actually deal with your specific attachment wounds and still create a love that makes space for multiple loving connections?
Joli & Jessica dove into how attachment theory can help us make a relationship t...2024-01-2054 min
The Loving ChallengerAmory 84 | Polywise Reflections with Jessica Fern & David CooleyJessica Fern's first book, PolySecure, rocked my world and started me down my path of Self-Love. Her 2nd book, Polywise, authored with David Cooley is just as revolutionary - right in the sweet spot of polyamory and personal growth. I appreciate both Jessica and David's candid honesty regarding their own personal life paths and how they have gained the knowledge they included in the book. What a conversation!
FYI - part of the episode we had to cut because we lost connection with Jessica. In my edits, I accidentally cut out the part where...2023-12-0753 min
DenizenConsensual Non Monogamy Part Two with Jessica FernIn this episode Jenny and Jessica discuss:The neurochemisty of lust, attraction, and loveConsensual non-monogamy (CNM) and social justice: punitive vs. restorative vs. transformational modelsHow CNM helps us surface and heal trauma and attachment issuesHow CNM teaches us to change dominant paradigms and stories within usWhy CNM leads to a change in consciousness and evolution of the selfHow embarking on a CNM journey is similar to climbing Mt Everest Resources:Polysecure, by Jessica FernPolywise by Jessica FernLove, Actually: The science behind lust, attraction, and companionshipOur Models of Justice are Perpetuating Injustice Jenny's Blog PostWe W...2023-11-2946 min
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern RelationshipsPolywise: A conversation with Jessica Fern and Dave CooleyToday we're excited to share a conversation with Jessica Fern and David Cooley about their new book, Polywise. Jessica Fern is a Psychotherapist, Coach, and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. Jessica is the author of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and NonMonogamy, The Polysecure Workbook: Healing Your Attachment and Creating Security in Loving Relationships, and Polywise: A Deeper Dive Into Navigating Open Relationships. Jessica works with individuals, couples, and people in multiple-partner relationships who no longer want to be limited by their reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment styles, and past traumas.David Cooley is a professional Restorative Justice...2023-11-281h 01
Normalizing Non-Monogamy - Interviews in Polyamory and SwingingEp 312 - Jessica + David
Jessica and David have been in many different iterations of relationship together for over twenty years... They were friends, they dated, they were friends again, they dated again, they got married, they had a child, they divorced, they became friends again, and now they're nesting co-parents who refer to themselves as "poly intimates" and life partners. This interview is a beautiful and vulnerable look inside what that journey was like for them together and as individuals, and how they arrived here. And, where "here" even is.
Jessica Fern is the author of the wildly popular book Polysecure. From her website: P...2023-11-011h 19
DenizenConsensual Non-Monogamy Part I with Jessica FernIn this episode Jenny and Jessica cover:The prevalence of infidelity and divorceIssues with the modern love story and codependencyWhat is love? Ideas from bell hooks and Daniel SchmachtenbergerWhat consensual non monogamy (CNM) isDifferent variations CNM can take depending on emotional and physical exclusivityWhy people practice CNMBest practices: defining your whyBest practices: defining your whatHierarchyTransparencyCNM and attachment theory: the difference between structural and statistical security ReferencesPolysecure, by Jessica FernPolywise by Jessica Fernall about love by bell hooks"What Loving You Means To Me" by Daniel Schmactenberger
To stay connected to all th...2023-10-261h 02
HYPERFOKUSSGegen Den Windmit Rettungsschwimmer Torsten auf Sylt
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In dieser Folge sprechen wir mehrmals über Unfälle und Tod. Wenn das für dich momentan schwierige Themen sind, dann schalt einfach ein anderes Mal wieder ein!
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Auf einer Insel mit weißem Sandstrand oder in den verschneiten Bergen; hier zu wohnen, das hat sich sicher jeder schon mal vorgestellt, wenn er an diesen Orten Urlaub gemacht hat.
Kann man haben – und zwar beides! Zu meiner persönlichen Feldstudie über Menschen und ihren einzigartigen Lebenswandel, füge ich heute meinen Freund Torsten hinzu. Der arbeitet da, wo andere Urlaub machen und hat dabei...2023-10-191h 31
Nope! We're Not MonogamousPolywise - A Deeper Dive Into Navigating Open Relationships with Jessica Fern and David CooleyAre you in a non-monogamous relationship and looking for ways to enhance your emotional intelligence? Look no further! Join me, Ellecia Paine, as I interview Jessica Fern and David Cooley on the importance of emotional intelligence in non-monogamous dynamics. Dive into their personal experiences, learn how they overcame challenges, and discover practical tools for emotional growth. From journaling and meditation to embracing conflict as an opportunity for intimacy, this episode offers valuable insights for individuals in non-monogamous relationships. Don't miss out on this enlightening discussion that will empower you to build stronger and more fulfilling relationships!2023-10-181h 04
Grey GardensStaunch: The Edies of Grey GardensIn today’s episode Fern welcomes to the mic, Liam Freivald, who edits and produces the podcast. They will share two exciting announcements! First is the goal of reaching 25,000 downloads. Our thanks to every listener of the podcast! The next announcement is the launch of Fern’s book titled Staunch: The Edies of Grey Gardens. After three years in the making, Staunch is finally ready to be released to eager readers! Fern also welcomes Jody Siegel to join her in Grey Garden discussions about Little Edie’s hair loss, the Edies’ mother-daughter relationship and you’ll get a sneak peek and hear t...2023-10-051h 13
Reimagining LoveNavigating Open Relationships: How to Create Agreements that Foster Security and Growth with Jessica Fern & David Cooley[CW: this episode contains mentions of suicidal ideation.] Intentional boundaries and thoughtful agreements help us ensure that our intimate partnerships are vehicles for growth, mutual support, and healing, especially for individuals and couples who are looking to create relationship agreements beyond monogamy to deepen their understanding of relationship dynamics. Today Dr. Alexandra is joined by Jessica Fern and David Cooley. They are life partners, coparents, and coauthors of the new book Polywise: A Deeper Dive Into Navigating Open Relationships. In this rich and challenging episode, you will learn about loving with greater care and awareness, whether you are someone...2023-10-0355 min
EMPOWERED POLYEp 32: Polywise with Jessica Fern & David CooleyWe were super jazzed to have psychotherapist and author of "Polysecure", Jessica Fern, return with her co-author David Cooley to chat about their new book, "Polywise" which is an amazing resource on healthy relating. We discuss restorative relationship conversations, parts work, codependency, ambiamory and how Eastern philosophy helped shaped their journey, as well as we dive into their own relationship history. Eye-opening and genuine conversation with two awesome humans! We had a blast!
NOTE: Outtakes at the end!
"Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships" by Jessica Fern and David Cooley @Thornapple Press
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Evolving LoveEp. 15 - Jessica Fern & David Cooley on "Polywise"Jessica Fern is the author of "Polysecure". She is a psychotherapist, public speaker, and trauma and relationship expert. With David Cooley, Jessica co-authored her new book "Polywise".David Cooley is a professional restorative justice facilitator, diversity and privilege awareness trainer, and bilingual cultural broker. In this episode Jessica and David share about their own experiences with opening up, their thoughts on attachment and codependency, psychedelics and polyamory and their new book, Polywise. To get in contact, reach out to us at evolvingloveproject@gmail.com @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.comGue...2023-09-1352 min
Emboldened with JessicaThe Rise of the Soft LaunchIn this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, host Jessica Jackson, a Decolonizing Somatic Therapist, and Ariele dive into the fascinating world of relationship launches—both soft and hard. Joined by the brilliant Jae Johnson, a dedicated advocate for underserved communities, they unpack the nuances of navigating relationship changes and the art of sharing those moments with friends, family, and the ever-watchful eyes of social media. Jessica, Ariele and Jae explore the many layers of deciding when, how, and if to reveal your relationship status, offering thoughtful perspectives on boundaries, privacy, and trust in today’s hyperconnected world. With...2023-09-0131 min
The Curious Wire#66: Jessica Fern-KirklandSend us a textIn this episode we talk about talent.Connect with Jessica Fern-Kirkland https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessicafernkirkland/2023-08-3127 min
Two Bi GuysPolyfluid & Polysecure with Jessica FernI finally got to interview Jessica Fern, author of one of my favorite books, "Polysecure"! I've been reading and re-reading this book for a couple years now, and it has helped me enormously in navigating polyamory and understanding how my own attachment style might affect various partnerships.In this interview, we discussed Jessica's bi identity and poly journey, why the intersection between polyamory and attachment theory is so important, the SPECTRUM of attachment styles (rather than four distinct categories, as it is often framed), why monogamy has been seen as a cultural ideal (and how that's changing...2023-08-281h 01
The Ready For Polyamory PodcastSeason 7 Episode 1: PolyWiseLaura speaks with Jessica Fern and David Cooley about their new book, PolyWise, paradigm shifts for folks making changes in non monogamous relationships, and restorative rather than punitive views of conflict.
They discuss why the authors included so many different psychological modalities and approaches in their book, the value of different tools for folks encountering big transitions in relationships, and more.
"It's about intentionality - being willing to lead with your feelings, hearing when your partner does as well, and keeping in mind that healing and relating are verbs."
"Paradigms were an important...2023-08-2446 min
Voyage 2 GoV2G-20: USA - NeuenglandCoast2Coast Roundup - 1
Mit dieser Folge beginnt eine neue Coast 2 Coast Roundup-Reise durch Nordamerika. Ich lande in Boston, Massachusetts und gewöhne mich dort ein bisschen an die Eigenheiten des amerikanischen Alltags. Die Segelregatta des Vendee Globe Ocean Race ist auf einmal für mich ganz nah und doch unerreichbar fern.
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Boss TalksBoss Talks: Episode 36 with Jessica Fern-KirklandWho is Jessica? Jessica Fern-Kirkland, or JFK, is the current President at PMG Property Management, LLC. She began her career as a leasing consultant and has been innovating and disrupting the multifamily industry for 15 years. Jessica has held leadership roles across learning, development, technology, and operations in both market rate and affordable housing environments. She finds her purpose in creating and scaling high-performing, people-first organizations that showcase diversity, embrace failure, and challenge limits through innovative thinking. She’s passionate about organizational leadership and fearless failure. Jessica is also a frequent speaker for NAA and l...2023-06-1655 min
Hello UniversePolyamory and Attachment with Jessica FernAuthor Jessica Fern joins us to discuss non-monogamy, polyamory, and the self-love journey of finding secure attachment.Jessica's Website - www.jessicafern.comEva's instagram: @iamevaliaoBook a discovery call with EvaKyley's Instagram: @kyleycaldwellKyley's free mini-courseEnroll in The Business Incubator
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Multifamily Collective PodcastJessica Fern-Kirkland | Collective ConversationIn this episode of MultifamilyCollective, we catch up with Jessica Fern-Kirkland on the tradeshow floor of the National Apartment Association's 2023 Apartmentalize!
Stay tuned to the end for a 'you heard it here first' launch of Jessica's new venture.
From Jessica's @LinkedIn page:
Beginning her career as a leasing consultant, Jessica Fern-Kirkland has been innovating and disrupting the Multifamily industry for 15 years.
Jessica has held leadership roles across learning, development, technology, and operations in both market rate and affordable housing environments.
Jessica's purpose includes creating and scaling high-performing, people-first organizations that showcase diversity, embrace failure, and ch...2023-06-1211 min
Lit AF Relationships114. Attachment styles in poly and nonmonogamous relationships with Jessica FernIn this episode, I interview Jessica Fern author of Polysecure. I really wanted to have her on the show because this book is an amazing resource about attachment for both monogamous and nonmonogamous relationships. We discuss all things attachment including external environmental factors that affect our attachment style, our attachment with mother earth, and how to heal your attachment in a relationship or multiple relationships. She shares about how different attachment types including anxious preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, secure, and fearful avoidants/disorganized show up in nonmonogamous relationships. We finish the conversation by talking about the tools she is u...2023-05-3152 min
The Magic of Storytelling, in Your Pocket With Full AudiobookMurder on the Home Front Audiobook by Jessica EllicottListen to this audiobook in full for free onhttps://hotaudiobook.com/freeID: 658937
Title: Murder on the Home Front
Author: Jessica Ellicott
Narrator: Elizabeth Sastre
Format: Unabridged
Length: 07:49:31
Language: English
Release date: 05-02-23
Publisher: Recorded Books
Genres: Fiction & Literature, Mystery, Thriller & Horror, Historical Fiction, Detective Stories
Summary:
1940. Its been a month since rectors daughter Billie Harkness left her rural village to make a fresh start in the northern city of Hull. Now she has a new home and an exciting new job as one of only two female police constables in the whole city. But Hull still feels like a...2023-05-027h 49
Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Men’s Sex and RelationshipsEp.22: Polyamory and Open Relationships with Jessica FernDownload my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetIn this episode, psychotherapist and author of Polysecure Jessica Fern and I discuss the various dimensions of Consensual non-monogamy. Jessica shares whether polyamory is a privilege or whether everyone can do it, the connection between polyamory and trauma, and how to enter open relationships without hurting our partners. Finally, Jessica shares a six-step process of creating secure attachment styles with multiple patterns. About Me I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a sm...2023-04-1442 min
Dropping KeysDropping Keys Volume Twenty-Six: Jessica FernToday, my Dropping Keys conversation partner is Jessica FernJessica Fern is a Psychotherapist, Coach, and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. Jessica is the author of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and NonMonomgamy and The Polyseucre Workbook: Healing Your Attachment and Creating Security in Loving Relationships. In her international private practice, Jessica works with individuals, couples, and people in multiple-partner relationships who no longer want to be limited by their reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment styles, and past traumas, helping them to embody new possibilities in life and love.In this volume:...2023-04-1457 min
Modern Multifamily#80: Jessica Fern-Kirkland and Lissi Daniels of PMG Property ManagementI had an absolute blast spending time with Jessica and Lissi from PMG in Napa during the Multifamily Social Media Summit.We dug in to what they are building PMG as they stand up one of the fastest growing management companies in Multifamily.In this episode we learned more about PMG, their roles, the outlook for the future, the importance of culture and core values, as well as how they're thinking about technology.Be sure to follow Jessica and Lissi on LinkedIn:Jessica: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessicafernkirkland/Lissi...2023-04-1327 min
Awakened LoveExploring Polyamory: How to find Security in Non-Monogamy - with Jessica Fern | Awakened Love S2 EP 25Psychotherapist, coach and author of "Polysecure" Jessica Fern joins us for an exploration of all the possible ways we can explore consensual non-monogamy in a ways that allow us the experience of both emotional security and personal freedom. She walks us through the difference between structural and emotional security, how polyamorous families can be incredibly supportive for the development of children, the challenges of navigating relational insecurity, and the liberating gift of compersion – the ability to find joy in watching someone you love receive pleasure from someone other than you. This episode is full of en...2023-04-1150 min
Making Polyamory WorkDon't Ask, Don't Tell with Jessica Fern (Part 2)In Part 2, Polysecure author, Jessica Fern and Libby talk about a very specific arrangement that relates to privacy/secrecy: the Don't Ask, Don't Tell (DADT) relationship. Together they discuss why you might want a DADT arrangement, when it can work, and when it might not.
Polysecure books: https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-complete-polysecure-bundle-jessica-fern/19677933
Southwest Lovefest (use code 'go slow' for 10% off): https://www.swlovefest.com/events/southwest-love-fest-2023
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Making Polyamory WorkPrivacy, Secrecy, and Transparency with Jessica Fern (Part 1)Polysecure author, Jessica Fern joins Libby to talk about a much-asked for topic, Privacy, Secrecy and Transparency. Together they share their own experiences, what they've learned, and how they advise people to handle sharing information. It can be tricky, but there are ways to make it easier!
Polysecure books: https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-complete-polysecure-bundle-jessica-fern/19677933
Southwest Lovefest (use code 'go slow' for 10% off): https://www.swlovefest.com/events/southwest-love-fest-2023
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The Open NestersPolysecure with Jessica Fern (Season 3 | Episode 108)What is a "polysecure" relationship like? Jessica Fern, Tessa and Amir discuss all ends of the poly spectrum in this highly useful episode.2023-03-0849 min
The Open NestersPolysecure with Jessica Fern (Season 3 | Episode 108)
Polysecure
with Jessica Fern
(Season 3 | Episode 108)
[TESSA] What is a “polysecure” relationship like?
Is there trauma (from childhood or adulthood) that can stand in the way of the “secure” poly relationship? What if one of the partners wants to pull back, keeping their partner at arm’s length?
How do you deal with a “flight response” from one of the partners? Jessica, Amir and I discuss all endpoints of the poly spectrum in this highly useful guide to building a secure poly relationship.
Jessica Fern
ABOUT JESSICA...2023-03-0849 min
Loving Without BoundariesEpisode 209: Jessica Fern InterviewEPISODE 209: Interview with Jessica Fern. Jessica Fern is a Psychotherapist, Coach, and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. Jessica is the author of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and NonMonomgamy and The Polysecure Workbook: Healing Your Attachment and Creating Security in Loving Relationships. In her international private practice, Jessica works with individuals, couples, and people in multiple-partner relationships who no longer want to be limited by their reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment styles, and past traumas, helping them to embody new possibilities in life and love. Learn more about Jessica online: https://www.jessicafern.com/ https://www.facebook...2023-02-2233 min
FriendlessWhat's your attachment style? Special Guest Jessica FernSummary:Jessica Fern joins your host James Avramenko for the special Season 5 launch! Jessica is phychotherapist, public speaker, trauma & relationships expert, and author of "Polysecure" and "The Polysecure Workbook". Jessica was kind enough to offer her views on friendship attachment styles, how social media is affecting our connections, and what we can do to try and be a good enough friend in the future. In This Episode:What is attachment and why is it important? Ethical non-monogamy. Intimacy with friends The importance of skin to skin contactConsensual platonic touchSocial Media effects on intimacy Ethics of sharin...2023-02-2154 min