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Love Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building250 // You Need To Read Your Bible More: Why, How, & Practical Tips For Busy Christian MomsGrab your FREE Holy Habits 45-day Bible And Prayer Challenge here!
Episode 250 // It’s a cliche in Christian circles… “I should read the Bible more.” Or maybe, “I wish I read the Bible more.” Sometimes we beat ourselves up about it: “Gosh, why can’t I seem to regularly read my Bible?!”
It’s a thing many of us wish to be more consistent with. So why aren’t we? Does it really matter anyway? How could we get things moving in a direction we’re happy with?
Let’s go there.
2025-05-2129 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building237 // My Favorite Intimacy Tip As A Christian Marriage CounselorDive into my recommended online intimacy courses for Christian marriages!
Episode 237 // Happy Valentine’s Day! I thought today that I’d share my favorite tip from 10+ years as a marriage counselor. It’s not complicated (though, simple things aren’t always easy things) and it will make a BIG difference in a happy marriage!
Communication + intimacy are closely tied together - and that’s part of what makes this tip so powerful.
If you want more support with intimacy in your Christian marriage, I recommend these online courses from S...2025-02-1411 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building231 // 10 Coping Skills Every Christian Mom Needs In Those Hard SeasonsFind biblical joy in the hard seasons of motherhood with the Joy In The Journey 40-Day Devotional.
Episode 231 // Every mom has hard days. Hard seasons. We get stressed, we struggle - and yes, we’ve all heard about “coping skills”... but that doesn’t mean they are really all that helpful in the crisis moment.
Until now.
Join me today for a look at 10 categories of coping skills that every Christian mom needs. Build coping into a healthy rhythm of your life, and those crisis moments will be far more...2025-01-2130 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building230 // Do These 3 Things Today To Build A Happier Christian MarriageBoost your marriage intimacy with these great Christian online resources from Sheila Wray Gregoire!
Find biblical help for your marriage communication with Communicating To Connect: A 4-Day Devotional For Christian Wives.
Episode 230 // Whether it’s an official new year goal or not, I know that you want a happy marriage! The marriage relationship is a HUGE part of family life. And there is a lot that you can do to make it stronger, deeper, and happier this year.
Today, we’ll focus on the big 3. The top things th...2025-01-1721 min
Counseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsHandling The Holidays For The Lord’s Glory (And Your Good)Christians are extra busy this time of year! Christmas, New Years - a wonderful time for remembering the Lord and enjoying your family… but quite likely, also a time for extra tasks, worldly distractions, and perhaps even a “bah-humbug” or two.
As you approach Christmas and prepare for a brand new year, may you find encouragement (and perhaps some Spirit-led conviction) by the simple Bible verse of Colossians 3:17 -
And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the F...2024-12-1810 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsAvoiding Stress During The HolidaysYou want to enjoy the holidays. But the holidays can bring up a lot of hard emotions.
And one of those emotions is STRESS. From planning extra events to dealing with family conflict during holiday gatherings, there is plenty about the holiday season that can be difficult.
Thankfully, there are practical things to do that will help reduce stress - so you can enjoy your holiday season more fully. Whether it’s you struggling with stress or you’re trying to minister to someone who is stressed out, these tips will help.2024-11-2511 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsRecognizing (And Stopping) Passive Aggressive CommunicationNo one likes passive aggressive communication. And it usually falls in the category of “I know it when I see it” … but we can’t always define it. We don’t always understand it.
Which makes it much harder to stop it.
So today on the podcast, join me for a counselor’s tips on building healthier communication patterns in your ministry and at home. We’ll look at some common examples of passive aggressive communication along with a few practical tips for how to handle it.
Every pastor and m...2024-10-2715 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingWelcome To The Love Your People Well Podcast! Let's Build Healthy, Happy, and Holy Family Relationships Together - Christian Motherhood, Marriage, and Family LifeDo you want healthy, happy, and holy family relationships? You are in the right place!
Family life can be busy and chaotic. It’s easy to get distracted in the busyness of life. Relationships can feel discouraging and disappointing sometimes.
But if you want to ENJOY those family relationships even through the ups and downs, this is the podcast for you.
Each episode, you’ll find biblical encouragement and practical, real-life action steps to help you be fully present, full of peace, and find purpose in your role as a Christian wife and mom...2024-10-1401 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building13 Tips For An Exhausted Christian MomEpisode 208 // Every mom has hit that stage of parenting, at some point or another. Exhaustion. Overwhelm. Stress.
Parenting is a lot of work!
And every mom who hits that stage also has the same goal. Get back to enjoying family life again! Bring back the energy and the enthusiasm for it all.
Well, my friend, these tips will help. I’m in that exhausted mom stage right now, and these 13 action steps have been so helpful! I know they will help you too.
Ready to...2024-10-0124 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian Counselors4 Clinical And Biblical Tips For Fighting Sadness, Depression, And HopelessnessWe live in a world saturated by sadness. There are epidemics of loneliness and anxiety. Depression is a growing problem.
Yet, there is hope. Opening the pages of Scripture, we find action steps and ways to support people who are struggling. And in the counseling room, these same tips are very helpful!
So today on the podcast, let’s take a look at 4 tips that will help you come alongside people who are struggling with sadness, discouragement, and depression. In fact, these are 4 tips that you can use yourself during hard and p...2024-09-2916 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian Counselors9 Tips For Keeping A Positive Attitude When People Are ComplainingIt’s not your job or calling in life to make people happy. And despite your best efforts, it would be impossible to do.
All of us in ministry can take heart from the Apostle Paul’s reminder in Galatians 1:10. “Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.”
The reality of life (and definitely of ministry work) is that people complain. It may not be...2024-09-1518 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsWhat Is Empathy? … And How To Show It, Even When You Disagree With SomeoneIt might be a buzzword, a counseling cliche, or something that feels way too touchy-feely. But if you’re in Christian ministry, you need to understand empathy.
What is it? Why does it matter for Christians? Is it something you should aim for in your ministry? What would that really look like?
These are good questions - and today, I’ll share some answers! Join me to talk through what empathy is, along with 5 practical tips for how to show empathy even in your hardest ministry conversations.
Learn mo...2024-09-0116 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsCaring For People Through The Stages Of GriefGrief is hard. No one likes it. It’s never easy.
But it is unavoidable.
And one of the realities of grief is that it is a special place for Christians to step in and offer care. It is a time when people need someone to come alongside them. People often turn to their faith community most especially during times of grief.
So, how does a pastor or other ministry leader better understand what’s going on when someone is grieving? How can you come alongside them and be a g...2024-08-1814 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsThe Nuts & Bolts Of Forgiveness: How To Apologize, Forgive, And Help Others Do It TooOne of the most common calls that Christ gives to his followers is that they should forgive one another. It’s all over the pages of Scripture!
And it is hard.
When we sin or mess up, it is hard to apologize. We wonder what to say, how to say it, and sometimes if we even need to bother. And then, when others sin against us, we struggle to forgive.
But no relationship can be healthy, intimate, or meaningful without being able to handle apologies and forgiveness.
2024-08-0417 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingA Prayer For Every Christian Mom Who Feels Weak (Praying Psalm 102)Summertime in the Psalms Series!
Psalm 102 is literally labeled "the prayer of an afflicted person." So, how can we not finish out this week without prayer??
Join me today for a sweet time of prayer together, praying through this psalm and the overwhelming emotions that sometimes accompany Christian family life, marriage, and motherhood.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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✨ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show and dive into our July 2024 focus area - a 30-Day Challenge Diving Into The Psal...2024-07-2606 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsSome Favorite Books To Help Christian Couples (From A Marriage Therapist’s Bookshelf)As a Christian counseling agency, one of the most common questions that we get from our local pastors is “How can I help this couple in my church who is struggling?”
Today, let’s offer some resources!
There are plenty of ideas for conversations, questions to ask, and things to try with couples who are struggling. But one of the best ways to find a good book that can expand your own knowledge, and which you can easily offer to couples who are looking for help.
Sure, there are...2024-07-1817 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingDo You Know Who Is Influencing Your Christian Family? (Studying Psalm 1)Episode 199 // Summertime in the Psalms Series!
Today, we’re diving into Psalm 1 together. Throughout July, we’ll look closely at a few psalms in order to gain wisdom and direction from the Lord in what our family life should look like.
Here in Psalm 1, we find clarity on how to lead our family closer to God. We are shaped every day by the people, voices, and ideas we listen to. Are your family’s influences pointing you in the right direction?
Join me for some encouragement and tips to b...2024-07-0214 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsMinistry is HARD. 7 Tips To Avoid Burnout And Stay The Course When It Feels Impossible.Is there anything more frustrating than putting a lot of time and energy into helping someone… and they just don’t appreciate it? Or, they just aren’t getting better? You can’t see how the Lord is working or how your efforts are making a difference?
Not only is this a very frustrating experience - it can lead us into burnout.
When you’re burned out, it’s hard to care as much. It’s hard to put in the same effort and energy, certainly while maintaining joy in the process.
...2024-07-0117 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingSabbath VS Self Care… Tips For The Modern Christian FamilyEpisode 198 // Do you sometimes wish there was more time for rest in your life?
Of course you do! Every busy mom longs for a bit more peace, a bit more rest in her regular life. But we get stuck in figuring out how to make it happen, and we feel guilty about the time we think it’s taking away from our family.
As Christians, the Bible tells us clearly that Sabbath is a good blessing God gives us. But do you know how that compares against the self care tips that...2024-06-2528 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian Counselors6 Daily Habits To Make You A Mentally and Emotionally Healthy LeaderMinistry is hard work. Leadership is hard work. Put them together?
Unless you are intentional about it, Christian leadership within a church or ministry will take a toll on you. It can quickly and sneakily start to impact your relationships, mental health, emotions, sleep, spiritual life, and so much more.
So today, let’s talk about some life habits that will help you be intentional to care for yourself, your ministry, and every area of life as you serve others. These daily habits are not magic wands to make everything better. But t...2024-06-2021 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingHow To Do Self Care The Right Way As A Christian WomanEpisode 197 // Self care can be quite a buzzword these days. The world probably prioritizes it too much, but I think that Christians often prioritize it too little. Especially Christian women!
Yes, you’re busy. You’re a mom, a wife, you have a million things to do - but if you never take care of yourself, how long can you keep taking care of these people you love so much?
Join me today for an exploration of what self care really means, why it matters for us, and how to do it well...2024-06-1826 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsPractical Action Steps For Helping Someone With Their Anxiety“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2, NIV)
It is not of question of IF your ministry will touch someone who is struggling with anxiety. It’s a question of when, how often, and what will you do to help.
Anxiety is a huge problem in our culture today. And when you are concerned that someone may be struggling with anxiety, you don’t need to wait for a diagnosis or shuffle them off to a professional.
As a pastor o...2024-06-1319 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building7 Biblical Prayers For Christian Moms When You’re Feeling AnxiousEpisode 195 // Anxiety can leave you feeling overwhelmed and worn down. It steals your joy from family life. And it is not God’s plan for you!
Join me today as we dive into the Bible together to not only find encouragement and guidance from God’s Word, but to find out how we can PRAY Scripture when we are dealing with anxiety.
We all have moments where worry, fear, and anxiety take over. But the Lord promises us peace. When we struggle, we can turn to him in prayer.
Le...2024-06-0623 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsCommon Symptoms Of Anxiety“Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” (1 Peter 5:7)
As you build relationships with people in your ministry, you will certainly interact with people who are struggling with anxiety.
But will you recognize them?
Anxiety is one of the most common struggles in our modern culture. In fact, it’s so common that many people don’t even realize that it is a problem! They don’t realize that there is hope. It is possible to experience life without anxiety.
Before you can h...2024-06-0616 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsDo’s And Don'ts For Helping People With Trauma And Emotional Baggage“In this world, you will have trouble,” Jesus tells his followers. “But take heart! I have overcome the world.”
One of the long-term “troubles” that many people in your ministry struggle with is the aftermath of trauma, hurt, and emotional baggage. In fact, you may struggle with this yourself.
In our broken world, trauma and emotional pain is very common. And it’s also hard to ministry to people who are struggling with this! You may not know many details, or even know that someone has a hard background, but it is safe and pract...2024-05-3019 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian Counselors10 Coping Skills Every Pastor & Ministry Leader NeedsMinistry work can take its toll on us. And in the busyness of it all, sometimes we forget to put any time or energy into caring for ourselves.
But when we live this way, we start to feel it - in our emotional wellness, mental health, physical energy, and in our relationships.
Today, we’ll look at 10 key areas of life where we ALL need coping skills! We’ll look at some specific examples and lots of ideas, so that you can easily find something that will make sense in your life.2024-05-2317 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian Counselors8 Unique Ways A Spiritual Leader Can Help Someone Fight An AddictionAddictions recovery can feel like an overwhelming issue that is best left to the “professionals.” But the Bible is clear that there is only one ultimate Healer… and his name is not Dr. Jesus. It’s Jesus Christ, Lord and Savior.
So if you are a pastor, a Bible study leader, a Christian friend, a youth mentor - or any other ministry leader - you have something unique and important to offer people who are struggling with addiction.
Join me today for a look at 8 unique ways that spiritual leaders must support thos...2024-05-1616 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsResources For Helping Someone Fight AddictionMinistry work involves helping people through many difficult and painful life circumstances. And one of the hardest is helping people who are dealing with an addiction. There are a lot of ways that pastors and other Christian leaders can help people when they are fighting addiction, but one of the most basic ways is to offer practical, Christ-centered, appropriate resources.
But what are some of those resources?
Here at The iHope Center, that is one of the most common questions we hear from local pastors. So if you’ve ever found yours...2024-05-0915 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingFeeling Overwhelmed? How To Stand Firm In The Storms Of Life As A Christian FamilyEpisode 192 // We all feel overwhelmed sometimes! And the reality of life is that storms, trials, and struggles will come. It’s just a question of when, not if - and then, what are you going to do about it?
Today, we’ll take a look at some wisdom from Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount to help us prepare for the storms of life. How can we stand firm and feel less surprised and stressed? How do we stay connected with our husband and kids when everything feels overwhelming?
Join me, friend, for some...2024-05-0927 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingHow To Stop Worrying And Start Trusting God More With Every Part Of Christian Family LifeEpisode 191 // It’s really easy as a mom to start worrying about my family. There are so many pieces to juggle. And these relationships are so important!
But Jesus is not trying to make family life difficult. He knows that we struggle, and He has the solutions to help us manage the hard things of life and enjoy our marriage and motherhood more.
Today on the podcast, we’ll look at 4 big things that Jesus tells us to do in the Sermon on the Mount. Four things that will help us to STO...2024-05-0327 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsQuick Tips For How To Make Sure Other People Feel Heard And Valued By YouHearing people and helping people FEEL heard are two different things.
In today’s busy, loud, disconnected world, feeling heard is an incredibly meaning experience. Everyone wants to know that they are seen, valued, and appreciated.
Of course, we cannot make people feel anything. We cannot guarantee that people will always react to us in the way we hope or expect.
But we can approach our interactions with people with intentionality. We can practice the skill of listening.
So join me today for a counse...2024-04-1815 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian Counselors3 Keys To Being A Good Listener (Even When You're Distracted)Many of us think we are better listeners than we really are.
But there is a reason the Bible tells us to be quick to listen and slow to speak (James 1:19). Listening is powerful and important. And the reality of human relationships is that being a GOOD listener does take some intentional effort.
It’s more than just hearing the words someone is saying. It’s more than just finishing a conversation. And if we are in ministry, trying to care for others and show them the love of Jesus, it is espe...2024-04-1115 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsHow To Use Philippians 4:8 To Replace Patterns Of Negative ThinkingOne of the most common things that Christian counselors help clients with is getting their thought life more in line with Philippians 4:8.
When someone is stuck in negative thinking, it is not honoring to God and not helpful to their relationships or emotional health. And guess what? Pastors and ministry leaders struggle with their thinking too!
In our last episode, we looking at the 5 R’s to turn your thoughts around and stop the negative thinking. Today, we’ll dive deeper into one of the hardest steps there: replacing the negative thought...2024-03-2115 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsDealing With Negative, Unhelpful Thought Patterns By Using The 5 R’sEven strong Christians sometimes struggle with negative thinking. We can get stuck overthinking things, blaming ourselves for problems, grumbling, or judging others in our thoughts.
But there are strategies that will help!
As you pray over these struggles, confess your sin, and seek the Holy Spirit’s help, these 5 strategies will give you practical action steps to start changing your thought patterns.
Join me today for the 5 R’s that will give you practical steps to stop that negative thinking.
...2024-03-1414 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian Counselors4 Key Steps To Conflict Resolution In A Ministry ContextAt some point in life, everyone will struggle with conflict. The church is not immune! Even in the best ministry, there are different personalities, priorities, and preferences. Conflict will happen.
So what’s a pastor or leader to do?
Of course, the top urgency is to start with prayer. Pray for the other person, for the situation, for your own reaction. Be quick to listen and slow to speak. Seek to understand.
But if conflict is escalating, there are action steps that can help. Let’s look together...2024-03-0716 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsBoundaries Only Matter If You Implement Them. 5 Tips To Make It Happen.Hopefully, you’ve thought through what you want (dare I say… need?) your boundaries to look like. This is critical for a healthy ministry, family, and life.
But then the question turns to: how do I do it?
How do I implement these boundaries? Stick with them when it’s tough? Adjust them if it’s appropriate?
Well, today I’ll share 5 tips from my experience as a licensed counselor, pastor’s wife, and ministry leader. Find some practical tips and encouragement for HOW to live out boundaries in you...2024-02-2914 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsTips For Setting Boundaries (And Helping Others Do It Too)One of the biggest problems in ministry leadership is burnout. The demands of ministry are high and the stress, emotions, and responsibilities weigh on us.
And one of the best things that can help prevent burnout and keep you passionate about the ministry work you are doing is setting boundaries.
We all need healthy boundaries! Jesus had them, and we need them.
Join us today for some practical tips in how to think about boundaries in your life, family, and ministry work. Next week, we’ll dive deeper...2024-02-2216 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingHope For The Struggling Christian WifeEpisode 179 // Happy marriages take work. And guess what? They aren’t ALWAYS happy. There is still conflict. There are still disappointments.
But let’s not forget - God is in it with you, friend. He cares about your marriage and He cares about you. I’ve spent over 10 years helping couples as a Christian marriage counselor, and I’ve seen God do amazing things!
Join me today for some encouragement and reality-checks to help you, when you’re feeling stuck and discouraged in your Christian marriage.
hugs & blessings,...2024-02-1617 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsHelping Marriages Succeed - Tips To Help Them Help ThemselvesEvery Christian leader will have opportunities to help people in their marriages. But how do you approach marriage counseling? Can you help a marriage even if you’re meeting 1:1 with someone? (Yes! You can.)
Today you’ll get some specific tips from a Christian marriage counselor on how to get started on the right foot when you’re trying to help couples.
Whether you’re doing full-blown marriage counseling or you’re just talking with someone about their life, you can have a big impact on people’s marriages.
...2024-02-1512 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsPractical Action Steps You Can Take If You're Worried Someone Is Depressed Or SuicidalIt can be a scary thing to wonder if someone is depressed, hopeless, or suicidal. It's overwhelming.
But if you're in a church, a ministry, or relationships with your community... it's inevitable.
Depression and suicide are a HUGE concern in today's world. It's one of the leading causes of death among kids, teens, and middle-aged adults especially.
Today, we'll go through some practical action steps that you can take if you're concerned about someone. Don't wait for them to bring it up. Reach out. Try these tips, and d...2024-02-0810 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsRecognizing Important Warning Signs: Is Someone Depressed Or Suicidal?Depression is a big problem in today’s world. And for a ministry leader or pastor, it can be scary to think about. It can feel very overwhelming.
But if you truly want to minister well to the people God has put around you… well, you need to be ready to recognize signs of concern and respond to them well.
So today, let’s tackle the first part of that. Let’s go through some common warning signs and red flags that might tell you depression, suicide, or hopelessness is a concern for...2024-02-0110 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian Counselors3 Keys To Good Interpersonal CommunicationEvery Christian is called to show love to those around us. "Love your neighbor as yourself," Jesus tells us. Love your enemies. People will know you are Christ's disciples by your love. It is all throughout the Bible!
And this is most especially true for pastors and other ministry leaders.
But without good interpersonal skills, it is unlikely that people will feel loved by you... despite your best intentions.
So join us today for a look at 3 keys to good interpersonal communication - and be working on this...2024-01-3110 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsEquipping & Encouraging Ministry Leaders - An Introduction To "Counseling Tips"The emotional struggles, mental health needs, and relationship challenges of today’s world are big. Millions of people struggle with anxiety, depression, divorce, abuse, and stress. And when people are hurting, the Church is meant to help.
… But do you really feel equipped to do that?
Find out more in today’s episode about how this new podcast can help you in your ministry.
Welcome to the “Counseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders” podcast!
- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - 2024-01-3009 minCounseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders - Practical Help From Christian CounselorsTrailer For The New Show: Counseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry LeadersDo you want to care for the people in your ministry more effectively? This podcast will equip you to do exactly that.
The reality of Christian ministry is that it can be exhausting, overwhelming, and lonely. This is certainly true for pastors, but it is also true for all Christians in ministry! And every Christian has a ministry of some kind. From youth leaders to Bible study leaders to loving your next-door neighbor, we are all in ministry to the people around us.
And those people are hurting.
The...2024-01-2506 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building12 Christmas Prayers For You and Your Christian FamilyEpisode 161 // Friday Faith Followup
Prayer is so powerful, but it’s so easy to get distracted from it. Especially during a busy holiday season! Yet, this is such a powerful time of year to be praying for our families, our hearts, and our world.
Today, I’ll share 12 simple ideas for how to be praying during the Christmas season. Are you looking for more joy, deep memories, and happy family time? Hop into today’s episode and deepen your prayer journey through the holidays.
Let’s dive in.
...2023-12-1511 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building5 Sneaky Things To Watch Out For As A Christian Mom, So That You Can Make This A Special ChristmasEpisode 160 // Christmas is such a beautiful time of year to enjoy family relationships. But do you ever find yourself feeling a little distracted? Disconnected? There are so many things that can sneak in and disrupt our holiday time!
So join me today for a look at 5 sneaky things that might be influencing you or your family. Sometimes, things that are very normal all around us are not actually helpful in our end goal: worshiping God with our family and strengthening those relationships.
Let’s dive in.
P.S. Al...2023-12-1220 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingHow A Christian Mom Can Think About Santa, Elf hunts, And Common Christmas TraditionsEpisode 159 // Do you sometimes feel confused about how a Christian family should engage with cultural traditions around Christmas?
You are not alone! From Santa to every other modern tradition, there is good and bad and everything in between. Often, the question really comes down to why you’re choosing what you do.
So let’s talk about that. A few thoughts to encourage you this Christmas season. Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
>> My Advent/Christmas Devotionals are on sale now! For mom...2023-12-0815 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingA Look At Isaiah, The Season of Advent, And How You Can Lead Your Christian Family Into The Christmas SeasonEpisode 157 // Are you ready to grow closer to the Lord during this season of Advent? As you and your family prepare for Christmas, have you considered what your time in the Bible, in prayer, and in discussion will really look like?
I have found the season of Advent to be so meaningful in my own spiritual growth. Taking time to truly focus on God and prepare myself for Christmas is so helpful!
So today, I’m sharing the first day of my Advent Devotional with you. We’ll read the Scriptures, consid...2023-12-0119 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingFun And Faith-Filled Christmas Ideas To Make The Season Meaningful For Your Christian FamilyEpisode 156 // Do you want to have fun with your family this year… in a meaningful way? You can buy the presents and decorate the tree, but Christmas can be so much more.
Today, let’s chat about how to make the most of the Christmas season with your family. How to create special memories that make everyone smile year after year. I’ll share 12 ideas, and there’s a special invitation for you at the end!
Ready, friend? Let’s dive in.
** P.S. Grab some great Advent & Chris...2023-11-2827 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingHelp For The Tired Christian Mom During The HolidaysEpisode 154 // There are a few common things that threaten to steal our joy during the holidays. Do any of these sound familiar for you? Family conflict. Grief. Stress. Anxiety and depression.
We don’t want to let conflict, grief, or stress ruin our holidays! As you head into Thanksgiving, Christmas, and beyond, let’s find some practical ways to handle these hard things so you can get right back to that quality family time during the holidays.
Today, I’ll share some practical, biblical tips for how to handle these common holiday st...2023-11-2125 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingAre Your Christian Kids Thankful... or Thoughtless?Episode 153 // It’s a hard question to think about… but a wise Christian mom pays attention to the character that is developing in her kids. And the holiday season gives us very clear opportunities to notice our kids’ hearts!
So ask yourself today: Is my child a thankful person? Or… do they struggle with thoughtlessness?
I’ll share several things that you can pay attention to in order to notice your child’s heart and character - so you can praise the good and with God’s help, work with your child on growing...2023-11-1713 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingA Prayer For Deeper Intimacy In Your Christian Family RelationshipsEpisode 149 // Is it possible to truly enjoy family life if you aren’t feeling connected with your people? Not really. Intimacy is a key part of healthy and happy family relationships.
As we’re tackling the topic of family intimacy this week, join me for a few minutes to pray together for deeper, more meaningful, more connected family relationships.
Let’s dive in.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY Christian family life. To...2023-11-0309 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingTips For A Christian Mom Wanting More Family IntimacyEpisode 148 // Ever have one of those days when you just feel a little disconnected from your people? Maybe even a stretch of time, a season when your family relationships were stuck in a rut and you weren’t really connected?
Strong family intimacy is SUCH a joy for Christian families. And even when life is busy and chaotic, it’s possible to build that intimacy!
Join me today for a look at 5 things you can do regularly to build stronger and deeper intimacy with your family. Enjoy family life more as you de...2023-10-3123 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingLet’s have more FUN in the bedroom, Christian wives!Episode 145 // Do you want to have more fun in your marriage?
Intimacy is a really important part of a healthy and happy marriage. But is it a FUN part of your marriage? Do you look forward to your time in the bedroom together… or sometimes wish that part of your marriage could get a boost?
As a Christian marriage counselor (and a wife!) I know how important it is to enjoy the intimacy in your marriage. So let’s talk about it!
Today, I’ll share a few tips...2023-10-1024 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingWhen Your Best-Laid Plans For Your Christian Family Just Aren’t HappeningEpisode 143 // It is so frustrating to have a great plan, to do all the right things, and yet watch things unravel in a different direction.
Your marriage. Your kids. Your health. Your work.
When things just aren’t on track and they’re starting to go south, what do you do? How are we supposed to think about these situations? Where is God in all of it?
He’s right there with you, friend. Let’s take a look together at Proverbs 16 and the wisdom and encouragement it gives us f...2023-09-2623 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingGospel Hope + Practical Ideas For Discouraged And Struggling Christian MomsEpisode 142 // Loneliness. Discouragement. Hopelessness. There are so many hard emotions that moms deal with!
But, my friend, you do not have to deal with them alone.
Today, we’ll dive into gospel hope for our darkest moments, along with 5 practical things we can do when these emotions threaten to overwhelm us. Managing hard emotions is a key to ENJOYING the family life that God has given us. Let’s build those skills together.
Ready? Let’s dive in.
P.S. Grab the NEW 40-day devotio...2023-09-1936 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingFinding JOY In The (Hard, Tiring, Wonderful, Important) Journey Of Christian MotherhoodEpisode 141 // Want more JOY in your journey of motherhood?
We've been looking at some of the hard emotions of motherhood recently, and this week we're tackling stress. But today's topic is actually really helpful for EVERY hard emotion we face.
Today, we're looking at JOY.
If you want to parent joyfully, you're in the right place today. If you're struggling with anger, anxiety, depression, stress, or the trials of life, you need the biblical joy of the Lord - which He wants to give you.
This is a sneak peak into my...2023-09-1517 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingFighting Mom Burnout? Try These Tips For Healthy Boundaries, So You Can get Back To Enjoying Christian Family Life More.Episode 140 // Feeling stressed? Struggling with some burnout? You are not alone.
Parenting is HARD WORK. Between the kids, the house, the bills, your marriage, your work: it’s a lot. And one of the keys to managing the stress and enjoying the hard journey is... boundaries.
Eek. I know. Boundaries. It’s a word that brings up a lot of emotions. But today, it’s a word that will bring hope to your heart.
Today, we’re tackling the topic of stress, burnout, and how to set boundaries to help with it all.
Ready...2023-09-1233 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingTwo Simple Bible Verses For Christian Anger ManagementEpisode 138 // Friday Faith Followup
Christians have to deal with anger, just like everyone else. But thanks to the Holy Spirit in our lives, we have exactly the right help for dealing with it!
When you’re struggling with anger as a Christian mom, you’re probably also going to struggle with some other mom emotions: mom guilt, mom burnout, mom stress. Anger weighs on our souls and it weakens our family relationships.
But it can be so hard to fight it!
That’s where it is...2023-09-0120 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building13 Secret Weapons To Stop Overthinking Things And Find More Peace In Your Christian Family RelationshipsEpisode 136 // Friday Faith Followup
Do you want to give your kids your full attention? Connect with your husband even on a busy day? To enjoy the small moments of family life together?
I know I do! And I know that when my brain gets stuck on overdrive, it’s really, really difficult to enjoy life.
Sometimes, it’s just hard to turn our brains off! There are so many things to think about, worry about, stress about, plan for, consider, and focus on… but this overthinking makes it imposs...2023-08-2526 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingHow To STOP Your Negative Thinking And Enjoy Christian Family Life More (My Favorite Counseling Hacks)Episode 135 // Negative thinking is so common, so tricky, and so hard to stop!
It’s also so hurtful to your goal of enjoying family life.
If you ever find yourself stuck in a pattern of negative thinking, or notice that a negative thought is making you feel depressed, anxious, angry, or stressed - this episode is for you.
Today, I’m sharing the 5-step process that I use in the counseling room to help people STOP negative thinking and START replacing that with helpful thought patterns instead.
...2023-08-2224 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingHelp! How Do I Control My Anxiety As A Christian Mom?Episode 133 // Anxiety is such a hard emotion.
So many moms struggle with worry, fear, and anxiety. We almost start to think that it’s normal, because it’s just so common.
But God has a better way. And as you learn to manage anxiety when it pops up, you’ll find more peace and joy in your daily life - and your family relationships will grow so much deeper.
Today, we’re doing a deep dive into the question of how to control anxiety. I’ll share the strategies t...2023-08-1528 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingThe Christian Mom’s 5 Best Bible Verses For DepressionEpisode 132 // Friday Faith Followup
When you’re struggling with sadness and wondering how to control depression, it can feel like God is completely absent.
My friend, He is not absent. He’s right there with you.
Today, we’ll take a look at 5 of the BEST Bible verses for depression. When you’re in the middle of busy mom life and you’re trying to do All-The-Things for your Christian family, you can’t let a season of sadness steal your joy. Open God’s Word and find the hope you’r...2023-08-1117 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building4 Things A Christian Mom Can Do When She’s Feeling Sad Or DepressedEpisode 131 // Emotions are hard.
Sadness and depression are a reality for SO MANY Christian moms. And these hard emotions can make it really difficult to enjoy family life.
So join me today to deep dive into these emotions. Ever wonder how to get past a season of sadness in your life? Find yourself questioning if God is really there for you as you try to figure out how to control depression?
Today’s conversation is for you. We’ll find out what sadness and depression really look like, why...2023-08-0826 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building10 Reasons Why You’re Struggling With Out Of Control Emotions As A Christian MomEpisode 130 // Friday Faith Followup
Did you know that there is a reason you are struggling with out of control emotions? In fact, there might be a few reasons. And the best part is - you can do something about it.
Today, we’ll take a look at 10 reasons why your emotions are out of control. What’s going on? Do these feelings even make sense?
Dive in with me to be reminded that you are not alone. And as you learn more about your out of control emotions...2023-08-0416 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingDepression And The Christian Mom… Seeking God’s Face In Psalms 42-43Episode 128 // Summertime in the Psalms Series
Maybe I’m crazy for closing out our summertime series with a look at depression… But it’s a part of the psalms, it’s a part of many moms’ lives, and it has a huge impact on Christian family life.
So let’s go there.
In today’s episode, we are walking together through Psalms 42-43, trying to find the right perspective between the joy we have in Christ and the hard emotions that are so often part of life. Let’s find encourag...2023-07-2530 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingCrying Out To God Together As A Christian Family: Prayer Tips From Psalm 86Episode 126 // Summertime in the Psalms Series
Prayer is your connection with God. It is central to the life of a Christian - and also to the life of a Christian family!
But what should that time look like? How do you call out to God together? Does it really matter to make time for prayer as a family?
Let’s go there, friend. We’re continuing our Summertime in the Psalms series today with a deep dive into Psalm 86. Let’s seek out biblical tips for how your fami...2023-07-1125 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingWhat’s your priority as a Christian mom? A wake-up call from Psalm 49.Episode 125 // Summertime in the Psalms series
What are your priorities, mama?
Okay, I know you’re going to say that your priorities are faith, family, and a few other good things. That’s awesome.
But would your daily decisions show me that these are your priorities? If I looked at your weekly screen time, your bank account, or your family calendar, what might I think your Christian family values really are?
Today, we’re jumping back into our Summertime in the Psalms series with a big...2023-07-0424 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building10 Powerful Ways A Christian Mom Can Create A Pattern Of Prayer For Her Home And FamilyEpisode 123 // Are you praying regularly for your family? For your home?
Every Christian mom wants to be praying more for her family. We know how important prayer is! But in the middle of busy days, it is easy to forget. When life gets crazy, we get off track.
And let’s be honest, sometimes prayer just feels like checking a box off our Christian things-to-do list.
Join me today as we think through 10 easy times that you can be praying for your home and family. Create a powerfu...2023-06-2033 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building6 Small Things You Can Do TODAY As A Christian Mom To Build Healthy Family RelationshipsEpisode 122.5 // Friday Faith Followup
One of the quickest places where moms get stuck in the problem-solving process is in the step of brainstorming ideas for what to do differently.
You might quickly identify what’s wrong and what you want to be different. But if you jump straight to trying a random idea, it’s unlikely to work super well. It’s much more helpful to walk through the process that we talked about in our last episode, so that your action plan is made for YOUR family and the unique situation...2023-06-1617 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingHow To Solve Common Family Problems That Pop Up In Christian Family LifeEpisode 122 // Problems come up every day. Christian families are not immune to problems! You might not be able to predict what will come up, but you can be confident that something will.
So if you want to enjoy family life and hold onto a happy home with your people, you need to find a way to solve those common problems that come up.
Yes, even when life is busy. Yes, even when you might feel overwhelmed or discouraged.
Problem-solving skills are a key part of mom life, so th...2023-06-1328 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingWant To Boost Family Intimacy In Your Christian Home? Put God First.Episode 121.5 // Friday Faith Followup
Mama, you cannot pour from an empty cup.
I know that you’ve heard that phrase before. It might feel cliche, impossible, or been-there-done-that. But the thing is, as we’re looking this week at how to give our best, focused, positive attention to our family… you can only do that if YOU are experiencing focused, positive attention too.
And that starts with Jesus.
The Lord delights to spend time with you, encourage you, fill you up, and lead you in the b...2023-06-0914 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingHow To Crush The Top 5 Distractions That Are Stealing Your Attention Away From Your Christian FamilyEpisode 121 // How often are you giving your husband and your children undivided, positive attention?
The days are so busy and our minds can get so distracted, it is easy to miss key opportunities to show our people that we love them. To show them that we are listening and that we care. But this is one thing that MUST be present in your home if you are going to enjoy Christian family life and build up great relationships!
So today, we’ll take a look at 5 common things in our normal ever...2023-06-0643 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building10 Ways To Tear Down Your Christian Family Life Using Only Your WordsEpisode 120.5 // Friday Faith Followup
You probably know that your words matter. They have a huge impact on your family. And hopefully, there are a lot of very positive, encouraging, uplifting words being spoke open in your home!
But today, let’s take a different angle.
The reality is, we all make mistakes. We all get overwhelmed, angry, or frustrated. But if we let bad habits of communication linger in our homes, there will be a big impact.
So join me today to look at the o...2023-06-0213 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingThe Key To A Happy Christian Home: Speaking Encouraging Words For Your FamilyEpisode 120 // Want a happy home life? Well, one of the first things to take a look at is your WORDS. How are you using your words with your husband, your kids, even yourself inside your own head?
In today’s episode, we’ll take a look at why your words matter so much, how they impact the people you love the most, and 6 Scriptures that show us how to best use our words inside our homes.
Friend, nothing will tear down your home faster than harsh words, angry words, thoughtless words… and even...2023-05-3040 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingHaving FUN With Your Christian Family! How To Get Quality Family Time Even When Life Is BusyEpisode 119 // Do you ever find it hard to get quality family time? To actually have FUN together in the middle of your busy lives?
Family life can mean a lot of things to us, but one of the important parts (which is so easily overlooked) is that we want to have fun together. You want to enjoy your people! Conversations, activities, and time together should be fun and meaningful.
But when life is busy or we start to feel discouraged, having fun together is usually one of the first things to sli...2023-05-2343 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building(F3) What is Christian forgiveness? The Connection Between Humility, Wisdom, And Admitting When You’re WrongEpisode 118.5 // Friday Faith Followup
One of the hardest things about faith is understanding (and then living out!) Christian forgiveness. It takes so much humility, courage, and godly strength to forgive others!
Apologizing to your husband and your kids is not easy work. It requires you to set aside your pride, admit when you’re wrong, and seek restoration.
None of us can apologize or forgive well if we are not growing in humility. And when our feelings are hurt or we are fuming about something that happened, it take...2023-05-1913 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingHow To Apologize, Forgive, And Restore Healthy Family Relationships: The Ins And Outs Of Christian Forgiveness In Your HomeEpisode 118 // Do you find it easy to apologize to your kids? What about your husband? And let’s talk about forgiveness… ever have trouble forgiving someone who has hurt you?
Apologies and forgiveness are not easy. But they are a must in a Christian home! Family relationships require us to apologize, forgive, and make things right.
Christian forgiveness is a big topic. Today, we’re looking specifically at the Christian family - mom, dad, kids - and how you can step forward and strengthen your skill and willingness to apologize, forgive, and help...2023-05-1636 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingKeeping A Positive Attitude As A (Busy, Tired, Struggling) Christian Mom: 6 Real-Life Tips To HelpEpisode 117 // Can you enjoy family life when your attitude is crummy?
Nope. Your attitude has everything to do with how your home feels, how you engage with your family, and how you handle frustrating moments of your day.
As Christian moms, we need to figure out how to hold onto a positive attitude even when things aren’t going the way we want. And we don’t want a rose-colored-glasses positive attitude, with a fake smile and bitterness in our hearts. No! We need a genuine, biblical, healthy attitude as we go abou...2023-05-0930 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building4 Daily Habits You Need As A Christian Mom To Hold Onto A Godly MindsetEpisode 116 // Your perspective on life has EVERYTHING to do with how much you enjoy life.
And when you hold onto a Christian mindset, a right and biblical perspective on life as a wife, mom, and Christian, you will enjoy family life so much more! There is so much purpose in what we do every day as Christian moms. And there can be so much joy.
But the world is hard. Family life has its frustrations and disappointments. Faith has dry seasons that raise doubts and struggles.
That, my fri...2023-05-0239 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building(F3) Bible Verses To Help You Build Great Christian Family RelationshipsEpisode 115.5 // Friday Faith Followup
How does the Bible play into your home life? Is it a centerpiece, or an afterthought?
If you want to build great Christian family relationships, you have to start with God’s Word. In today’s episode, we’ll take a look at 4 important Bible verses to help us understand godly wisdom for building great family relationships.
Grab the free journaling prompts below to help you dig into these Bible passages, and let’s take a look at how to wisely build our homes.
2023-04-2813 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building4 Key Questions Every Mom Must Answer In Order To Build Great Christian Family RelationshipsEpisode 115 // Today, I’m outlining 4 key questions that EVERY mom needs to have a good answer for. Honestly, whether you’re a Christian mom, a stay-at-home-mom, a new mom, or a tired mom (...we all are…) these questions are worth thinking through.
Consider these questions with me today, and together we’ll build great Christian family relationships. We’re continuing our deep dive into Proverbs 14:1, and these questions will begin to point you toward how to wisely build your home and family life.
Ready, friend? Let’s dive in.
hugs & bl...2023-04-2522 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingWant To Enjoy Home Life With Your Christian Family? Be The Wise Woman In Proverbs 14:1.Episode 114 // How important is it to you to enjoy family life? To feel connected with your Christian family, comfortable in your home, and at peace with those who are most important to you?
It’s almost a trick question, friend. I know it is WILDLY important to you! (Why else would you be checking out this podcast episode??)
As a Christian mom, struggling lately with finding joy and peace in my own home life, I’ve been reading through the proverbs to find wisdom and encouragement. And I’ve been blown away by P...2023-04-1829 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building(F3) Making Good Decisions Matters For Your Christian Family... But Why?Episode 113.5 // Friday Faith Follow-up
We're back, friends! After a 10-week hiatus, today we are following up on our conversation about making difficult decisions for the good of your family.
Because the thing is, it's not just about making "difficult" decisions. It's ultimately about making GOOD decisions. Healthy decisions. Biblical, godly decisions.
You're here because you want to enjoy family life. And I'm here for the same reasons!
We're here to enjoy family life. To invest in building relationships that matter. We want to use our time well, manage our emotions well, co...2023-04-1417 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building(F3) What the Bible tells us about raising kids, managing family life, and living life well as a Christian mom… A devotional thought from EphesiansEpisode 101.5 // Friday Faith Followup
Family dynamics can be overwhelming and complicated… but they don’t have to be. Join me today as we look at Ephesians 5+6 and apply God’s Word to our Christian family life.
hugs & blessings,
Jess
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Find ALL of our resources...2022-10-2122 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingCreating family rhythms that bring joy and peace to Christian family life... no matter what craziness is going onEpisode 96 // You want a peaceful home. A happy family. You want to get everything done, wear all the hats, and fit in time for family fun.
And healthy family rhythms will get you there.
Whether you like to-do lists or not, have a great morning routine or not, live by strong habits or not, family rhythms will bring peace, order, and joy to your busy life. So that’s what we’re talking about today. Why are rhythms helpful? How do you develop them? What if it all falls apart?
...2022-09-1330 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingEnjoying friendships and hospitality as a Christian family. (Foundational Pillars 101)Episode 94 // We are living in a culture filled with loneliness. Even inside the church, so many people are looking for deeper friendships, authentic community, and meaningful connection. And even though life is busy as a Christian mom, we are called to love the people around us well.
But how? What can this look like practically, in a busy schedule, without short-changing our family life or our own needs?
Today, we’ll tackle 3 practical lifestyle changes that will help you and your family love the people around you well. Ready? Let’s dive in...2022-08-3026 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building(F3) A few of my best resources for the Christian mom just trying to make it through the day AND connect with her kids along the wayEpisode 93.5 // Friday Faith Followup
I feel totally overwhelmed by motherhood sometimes. Well, really, it’s probably most of the time! These little ones are SO important, and yet also SO draining of my emotions, my energy, and my focus.
And I know that as a fellow Christian mom, you get it.
I’m also a big fan of trying new things, finding resources that work, and not trying to live life all on my own. So in today’s episode, I’m sharing a few of my best resource...2022-08-2611 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingParenting tips for the busy mom: 3 ways to love your kids well in the craziness of Christian family life (Foundational Pillars 101)Episode 93 // If you’ve ever described yourself as a “busy mom” then today’s conversation is for you! When we’re busy, it can be a lot harder to stay intentional and focused on building great relationships with our kids. The schedule and daily exhaustion can overwhelm us!
But loving our kids is one of our top priorities as moms - and as a Christian mom, there is an extra joy and responsibility to disciple our kids throughout the busyness and brokenness of this world.
So today, join me as we look at 3 way...2022-08-2321 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building3 practical ways to invest in your Christian marriage and love your husband well during busy seasons of family life (Foundational Pillars 101)Episode 92 // Did you know that, statistically, the hardest season of marriage is when you have young children in the home? The reality of life is that marriage takes work! It’s not always roses and butterflies.
Even in a healthy Christian marriage, we are easily tempted to focus on other things ahead of our husbands - we get distracted by the kids, overwhelmed by the schedule, and frustrated with chores and communication breakdowns.
So today, we’re looking at 3 practical ways you can love your husband well and invest in your Christia...2022-08-1620 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingHow can I help my Christian family enjoy spiritual growth and love God well... even when life is busy and distracting? (Foundational Pillars 101)Episode 90 // Every family has their top priorities in life. Priorities that guide their decisions, schedule, finances, and so much more.
Have you ever thought about what YOUR family priorities are and how you live them out?
When we consider the foundational pillars of a healthy Christian family life, our first priority should be to love God well. But how do we do that when life is super busy? How do we experience spiritual growth when the calendar is full and our kids are driving us crazy?
Today, let’...2022-08-0219 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingGodly wisdom for the exhaustion, struggle, and loneliness of Christian family life, from Psalm 142 (Summertime in the Psalms Series)Episode 87 // Motherhood is exhausting. We often feel isolated, lonely, and we struggle to make it through the harder seasons of family life.
You know what, friend? God gets it.
He understands.
Today, in our Summertime in the Psalms series, we are digging into Psalm 142. We want to better understand the character of God, the hard realities of our everyday lives, and walk away with some tangible action steps to help us love Christian family life.
Let’s dive in.
Get the FUL...2022-07-1234 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingYou’re not in control, mama: God is. A look at what Psalm 139 teaches us for Christian family life (Summertime in the Psalms Series)Episode 86 // Do you trust God? It can be a tricky question. We know the “correct” answer… but we also know the temptation to manage things ourselves, protect our family by our best standards, and get distracted by the things around us.
So if you want deeper trust in God’s plan for you and your family, join me for today’s Christian devotional through Psalm 139. This is Part 1 of our “Summertime in the Psalms” series. We’re looking to see what we learn about God, about ourselves, and about living the best Christian family life that we can.
...2022-07-0526 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingTry these 12 ideas for a fun & free date night... no babysitter, no cost, but a great investment in your Christian marriageEpisode 80 // Ever felt a little stuck for date night ideas? You’re too busy to plan something, hiring a sitter is a hassle, but you know that it’s important to invest in your marriage…
Well, this episode is for you. These at-home date night ideas are totally free and don’t require you to leave the house, or even get dressed up. They can be as elaborate or as simple as you want - but they will ALL help you connect with that handsome hubby of yours and be a worthwhile investment in your Christian...2022-05-2443 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingDaily sacrifice is the reality of a Christian mom … but how do we do it joyfully?Episode 69 // Do you ever feel like all you do as a mom is give… and give… and give? You probably feel that way because it’s true! Mom life is all about sacrifice. And if we don’t have the right perspective about it, we can find ourselves grumbling about it and feeling discouraged or disappointed… instead of finding the JOY that God intends in our sacrifices.
So let’s talk about it, mama. In today’s episode, we’re laying bare the true struggles of Christian motherhood and the daily sacrifices that it requires. It’s hard, but it...2022-03-0840 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingMy Top 10 Life Lessons for loving Christian family life and growing your most important relationships… PLUS, ENTER THE 10,000 DOWNLOAD GIVEAWAY!Episode 67 // It’s busy, hectic, and sometimes frustrating… but we all want to love our family life. We want to enjoy our people. We want to find peace and purpose at the end of a crazy day. We want to feel connected with our family.
Well, today I’ve got 10 tips - my Top 10 Life Lessons - to help you do all of that. To help you not only get through the busy days, but LOVE family life.
Ready to go deep with your favorite people??
Let’s dive in.2022-02-2239 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingShould you “forgive and forget” within your marriage? A realistic look at forgiveness in Christian family relationshipsEpisode 66 // “Forgive and forget” is a cliche that we’ve all heard. But is it true? Is it something that God wants us to do?
Forgiveness is incredibly hard, but it is also an absolutely necessary part of marriage. Especially within a Christian marriage! Today’s, we’re tackling the question: should we “forgive and forget” in our marriage? And as we forgive… how do we do it?
This is a tough topic, but will be such a blessing to you personally and to your marriage.
Let’s dive in.
2022-02-1531 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building9 hot tips to make sure your Christian marriage has amazing intimacy in the bedroomEpisode 64 // We’re building up our marriages this week, my friends, so get ready for some fun application that you’re sure to enjoy! Over the next 3 weeks, we’re tackling the 3 most common issues that come up in marriage therapy: sex, communication, and forgiveness.
Today, we’re diving into physical intimacy within your marriage, with some fun and spicy tips from a Christian marriage therapist… that’s me! I know you’ll enjoy putting a few of these ideas into action. Don’t worry, everything is G-rated and these are tips I’ve seen work for so many cou...2022-02-0135 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building12 tips to spice up your Christian marriage… building intimacy OUTSIDE of the bedroom.Episode 46 // Intimacy is about so much more than what happens in the bedroom. I’ve been a marriage counselor for over 10 years now, and have seen the power of emotional, mental, and spiritual intimacy… in addition to, of course, physical intimacy!
So let’s spice things up in our marriage today! We’re diving into 12 tips for building intimacy with your husband - outside of the bedroom. Tips that will fit into every day life, and get you more excited for that special time with your husband inside the bedroom.
Ready, my friend...2021-10-1229 minLove Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship BuildingWhat does it mean to be a Christian? The 3 things needed to love God well, and 3 impacts on your daily lifeEpisode 3 // Hey friend! Today we are digging into what it means to love God well and why that is meaningful in our everyday lives.
Do you feel close with God? How is your spiritual growth? For most of us, we've hit a season where the Bible was confusing, our prayer life felt awkward, and we've gotten overwhelmed by the checklist of things a Christian "must do."
If this is you, sweet sister, lay it down! Lay that baggage at the foot of the cross.
God gives us only three things that are necessary t...2021-05-1121 min