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Battlef1eldChapter 18: Father's and their DaughtersThis is a category that can hit hard, especially for the daughters who aren't that close to their dads. The hard truth is...dads tend to be closer to their sons because as girls, who turn into young women, it's hard for them to understand the wants and needs. But it's not impossible for Fathers to take the time and effort to help those girls who will become young, successful women someday by giving them the confidence and strength they need. A male lead in a young girl's life can give a great example of who she needs to marry...
2021-09-0329 minBattlef1eldChapter 17: Thoughts on Raising ChildrenOh, look, another "advice column!" But, in all seriousness, give it a try! Parents, you need to try and be consistent, patient, understanding, and put that foot down when it needs to be!
2021-09-0255 minBattlef1eldChapter 16: Kids are the Icing NOT the Cake.In order for your marriage to work, with children, you must as a couple come first and children, second. This sounds terrible, I know, but keeping a healthy marriage and not having your relationship revolving around saying, "yes" to your kids all the time can and is beneficial. Don't over exert your calendar with "just kids activities", don't make the mistake of not taking time to go out and leave your kids with a planned babysitter because that time away may be a little saving grace to keeping a marriage strong! Kids are a blessing and they are the extension...
2021-09-0136 minBattlef1eldChapter 15: Pornography vs MarriageThis is a VERY controversial category, as it can be a "feel good" but can ruin a relationship. Like drugs and alcohol, porn is/becomes addictive; aiding in the destruction of divorce. It can bring the spouse to demonstrate dangerous behavior, just because they have seen it on a porn site with the plastic fantasy couple ravishing in BDSM.
2021-08-1120 minBattlef1eldWhy Only Tuesdays!?Not much to say but MOTHERHOOD. IS. HARD. Especially when you are growing another baby inside of you and dealing with a toddler, who can't express themselves very well. This segment I wanted you mothers out there to know...YOU ARE DOING YOUR BEST AND EMPOWER EACH OTHER!
2021-08-1037 minBattlef1eldChapter 14...SEX!!!Hallelujah something GOOD to talk about, but is it really? When you marry, you make a vow to be that partner for LIFE! Therefore sex with the same person for LIFE!!! What can you do to help keep it vital, when one isn't feeling it and the other is a raging mess for it? Yes, sex is the core central network but it can mean more for marriage when understanding each other's deepest, unselfish needs are met!
2021-08-0126 minBattlef1eldChapter 13: The Healing Power of Touch!Supporting your Firefighter with great communication can lower rates of PTSD and deal with stress, but what about physical touch? It has so many benefits to combat stress and release endorphins to relax pain levels. A simple massage, cuddle, a kiss, a hug, even interwining pinkies can stimulate overall homeostasis and make a closer marriage!
2021-07-2822 minBattlef1eldChapter 12: Terror of the Sleeping Alone SpouseIt's bad enough you have bad dreams about your Firefighter Spouse dying, but you have you sleep alone, too? Many sleepless nights worrying about your partner effects the marriage and can take a toll on your loved one(s). Communication, trust, and finding what can help you better yourself out of that fear can ease your way into less worry and more rest!
2021-07-2227 minBattlef1eldChapter 11: How to Sleep with a FirefighterSleep deprivation does not only effect the firefighter, but spouse as well. Because of the many bells and whistles of the night, It becomes tiring to the marriage when not enough sleep is provided. Take as much light out of the room as you can, drink warm milk or tea, shut off electriconics, make a nap/sleep schedule ( 30 mins tops)! and maybe exercise (if applicable) and please be patient with each other!!!!
2021-07-1032 minBattlef1eldChapter 10: EXERCISE!!!!No, you don't have to be a gym monkey, counting carbs, calories, and go all out to have exercise in your schedule. But, when you and your spouse include it into your days of rest; this will become very beneficial to-not only the stamina of the firefighter but your relationship! Trust. Me.
2021-06-2527 minBattlef1eldChapter 9: The Firefighter and Time OffCrucial to the firefighter's cognitive, physical, and emotional well-being. They NEED to restore that circadian rhythm in order to function properly. Don't take certain tones personally and DON'T pile on more work for them when they come home! Communicate about these stresses and schedule activities when your hero is well rested!
2021-06-1733 minBattlef1eldChapter 8 Essential Conversation #5: First Family comes FIRST!It's a great thing to have the fire department become your family, but what happens when you put fire before your spouse and children? Learn the red flags of when your marriage is starting to get weak in the knees and how to start fixing it TOGETHER!
2021-06-1632 minBattlef1eldChapter 7 Essential Conversation #4: Dealing with Fix-It MentalityFirefighter, in the world of trauma and chaos, have to find a solution to a problem or "fix-it" RIGHT NOW. It can become bothersome when bringing home a marriage, thinking if the spouse is having a problem, they can fix it and be done when all the spouse needs is to vent. Done get defense but listen and have a conversation on leaving work at work. Don't go trying to fix each other, fix the nails and pull them out together!
2021-06-1028 minBattlef1eldChapter 6: Essential Conversation #3 Handling Tough RunsSpouses learning to give their Firefighter what they need when they come home from a tough run. Guidance to peaceful communication and not being too pushy. HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND EVERYBODY!
2021-05-2821 minBattlef1eldChapter 5: Understanding Gallows HumorEstablished in 1800s when William Palmer, a serial killer, was about to be hung he looked at the trap door of the gallows and said, "Are you sure it's safe?" Riding on a wave of dark humor alleviates the stress and trauma that a Firefighter faces but, at home or the outside world, it can become offensive to the ones who never put on bunker gear. Conversate with your spouse, communicate the differences, and empathize the feelings.
2021-05-2120 minBattlef1eldChapter 4 Conversation Part 1: Re-Entry Time for the Exhausted Firefighter.After working a 24-48 hour shift, a Firefighter needs space and time to reset. How a spouse can do that and what it means to the both of you is very important. It can be reciprocated between the two of you to keep the marriage on a scale of balance.
2021-05-1214 minBattlef1eldChapter 2: Firefighter MarriageTRAUMA: recognizing, pinpointing, how to help as a spouse, encouraging, and understanding. They deal with some pretty horrific stuff; you can let go of making it about you, when the Firefighter is being distant, and help them get out of that funk.
2021-05-1035 minBattlef1eldChapter3: Firefighter Marriage the 24-hr shiftWhere it originally came from, why it started, what is the 24 hour shift, what you need to do for your Firefighter when they need the sleep they need, and keep active with family and duty. Learn the three primary tips to help with circadian disruption: 1. light 2. sleep 3. social and physical activity.
2021-04-1432 minBattlef1eldFrom the book: "Challenges of a Firefighter Marriage" how to help the struggles in uniform.Chapter 1: PNS and SNS; learning to understand the power of the brain during exposure and trauma and giving a glimpse into the world of a Firefighter
2021-03-2415 minBattlef1eldA Firefighter's Wife: IntroductionHere's to the ones struggling to find peace and lay down the fear for their loved ones in uniform. You are not alone!
2021-02-1113 min
Battlef1eldFrustrating But BearableWe always deal with those people-no matter how hard we try and fight it-who think they are always right. They won't stop and think, because they absorbed facts, its their job to be teaching? And, not admit when they are wrong. Story example, homework, and all the love in the world to give you strength to deal with it!
2021-02-1113 minBattlef1eldHolistic Health: What is CBD? Where does it come from? How does it work?Cannabidiol (CBD) is an oil derived from the cannabis plant. Possible health benefits include reducing inflammation and pain. However, it is not legal in all states, and there may also be some risks. Poke around a bit here---> www.mydailychoice.com/jesstraudt
2021-02-0221 minBattlef1eldKnowing How to Deal With People Who Make It A CompetitionThis is the frustrating side of business because, at some point, there is a line of competing against. If you are not that kind of person, than congratulations on being 2 steps ahead of being the better person. You will build a better rapport from sticking to your consistency, your follow ups, honesty, and YOURSELF. Remember, clients/consumers cannot be detained; if they choose to leave, let them go. Its not a good feeling, but it will give you the drive and motivation to pivot your focus to make your business a priorty.
2021-01-2732 minBattlef1eldIt feels more of a Monarchy taking away Individuality.If something, or someone makes you feel uninspired, unmotivated, even undetermined...find a way to steer clear from it. That bristle feeling in your gut you feel...listen to it. Do whats best for you and your business. We learn in different ways ALL across the spectrum! Whether you are Direct Sales or MLM, we made this decision for a better life and make our own hours; not to be put back under a Dictatorship! Pick and choose yourself battles! Dont give up on yourself; if you have to step down, its okay, you did it because it was best...
2021-01-0530 minBattlef1eld"I've had enough, this is my prayer! I'm living just as free as my hair!" -Lady GagaHaving opinionated parents can be such an emotional ride. Remember, you have the power to do whats good for you! Like...dye your hair two colors, but your mother states a negative rather than a positive. "Its very vibrant, but I really like your real hair color." Gee, thanks! Coming from the women who dyes her hair every so often!
2020-12-2119 minBattlef1eldA Dream Come True!I am so proud to have finished what was started and out there to help others! "From Silver Spoon to Crack Pipe" available on eBook and Paperback! I hope you love the read, knowing it will help the ones that need it most! HAPPY HOLIDAYS!
2020-12-1610 minBattlef1eldWELCOME TO SEASON 3!!! The difference between Inauthentic vs Authentic people.Authentic people are self-aware of their actions, mistakes, are open to humility... Inauthentic people are, to simply put, FAKE! Most of it comes from fear, materialization, and losing that they matter. They adopt egos, facades/cliques to win their audience over, and if THEY make a mistake; they will turn it over to the people they victimize to look better!
2020-12-0921 minBattlef1eldDealing with over-the-top ExesEasier said than done when you say, "I want to be the bigger person" because they are throwing major shade about you. They feel its necessary to feel they can be better than everyone because they don't have that personal development, they dragged the past around so long, wanting to have a better recognition to the public eye, feeling sorry for themselves... There is a big list as to 'why,' but stand your ground, try to kill them with kindness, and hope for the best for them.
2020-12-0213 minBattlef1eldSorryNOTSorryMake sure you are in appropriate times/places to give your view, speech, validation, etc... I implore you to be aware of your surroundings. If, too, late just simply give apologies, but just don't apologize for your feelings!!!
2020-11-3015 minBattlef1eldI hear BUT, I feel you BUT, I see BUT...There is a war between you and the other half of you when you ask for HONESTY, but its not what you were looking for. Especially when you get told your feelings are valid-then they put the word-BUT after it; it brings you EVERY NEGATIVE EMOTION YOU CAN FEEL IN THAT MOMENT! Because, then, you feel its not so valid at all! DON'T YOU DARE THINK, FOR ONE FUCKING SECOND, YOUR VOICE DOESN'T MATTER BECAUSE IT DOES!!!! As the band, Lost Prophets sang, "STAYING ON THE ROOFTOPS, EVERYBODY SCREAM YOUR HEART OUT!!!!"
2020-11-3033 minBattlef1eldIts early, but listened to my heart when I say...'Early Thanks" because I don't think I'll make a Thanksgiving one. Holidays will be hard because of wanting to be close with the ones you love, during a pandemic. Please be safe but don't forget the ones you love, who probably won't make it to be with you on Thanksgiving.
2020-11-1816 minBattlef1eldJust feeling a little UNappreciatedI know its a double-edged sword because when you take your time to do something for somebody; you can get what they want (not really detailed), take time out of YOUR life to get it done, verbally or physically present it, and they shit on it like the amount of love and affection, you put in it, doesn't matter. Remember: you do a great job on everything you can do and the value it brings. If they can't see it, then they can beat it!
2020-11-0228 minBattlef1eldWhen the trail goes cold; don't stop leading your team!"EVERYONE JUMP SHIP!" No, no. If something is going on in your MLM you need to stay calm. You don't know whats going to happen yet, so why step down or let the trail of, "let's stop doing everything" stop you? If you are a leader, act like it! Don't just say, "we won't be doing this, this, and that" because that's not helping your team! If you want to be a TEAM keep working like one!
2020-10-2715 minBattlef1eldI Broke My Own Promise!I realized feeling stuck doesn't just go away but I never wanted to be put back depression medication, again. It doesn't make you a broken person, a freak, mentally unfit; you just need a little help, a boost to get you unstuck! Asking for help (with meds) isn't a bad thing, even when you said "no more!" But there are times where we need to consider: what's more important for us!
2020-10-2220 minBattlef1eldJustice with a serving of karma!Its hard to explain; word vomiting! Like it or not, its a human feeling! All you can do, now, is to see if they learned anything!
2020-10-2020 minBattlef1eldWhy Not!? If some don't care for it, they ain't for you!!This is one of those 'Bless and Release' things but I thought, if you are going through it then here ya go! I have said time and time again, HUMANS SUCK! WE JUST SUCK SOMETIMES! But...when you are trying to make new friends and connections, you got a rare breed of people who ask you, "Why are you asking?" "Why do you care?" "I don't know you."
2020-10-1323 minBattlef1eldIt may be a day for mental health, but every day is a struggle for those who deal with it!While today is, MENTAL HEALTH DAY, I feel every day is struggle for the people who wake up to a feeling of woah on their shoulders! We all know our society sucks today, but we need to stand up and voice our struggles before its too late! You matter! What your going through matters and needs the support to help you! You have a lot more to give to this world! Don't give up!
2020-10-1036 minBattlef1eldBend your ears, listen, be the best you can be for them when they feel lost and discord!Once again, ABUSE. IS. NOT. OKAY! DOMESTIC. VIOLENCE. IS. NOT. OKAY! It is crucial that you open up to supporting the people who need you, who are crying out for help, and letting them know you are there! If you don't let them know, how are they going to give you the signs, or give you any indication! Sometimes, we just need to start the conversation; I don't give a shit if it has to be in code just do it!
2020-10-0723 minBattlef1eldPersonal Development advice starter: open-minded, toxicity shouldn't have to stop you!There will always be negatives and emotions we are allowed, but when you keep letting fear and rejection stop you; life and goals will pass you by! Take the tools and put them to work; take yourself out of that fear! Everything can't be handed, or done for you all the time! If people don't want you to succeed, they ain't for you! When the Universe is tell you something, listen!
2020-10-0527 minBattlef1eld3 Ribbons of October: Domestic violence, Pregnancy and Infant loss, and Breast Cancer.See the signs, help in any way you can, realize the strength you have, no one should ever go through it, never give up, take a stand! Its easier said then done, but do it, become a greater force! Take people's feelings, into consideration,not just THIS month, EVERY SINGLE DAY!
2020-10-0345 minBattlef1eldFood and Pleasure! What can bring you pleasure other than sex!"Sex isn't the only way to have an orgasm; 25 ways to lose weight through pleasure." By: Kristin Heslop, DMA. Learning to love your body, grateful for what it has done, listening to it, and giving yourself the grace and permission to enjoy certain pleasures when it comes to food. Learning what you can do to not think about your next meal!
2020-10-0134 minBattlef1eldBeing am Entrepreneur is one of the hardest things you'll do! You do it ALL!Keep in mind, when you become your own business owner, you will be frustrated, feel like giving up, you do all the freaking work, and you financially worry! But, you stay confident, consistent, follow up, have great education, training, and a great team behind you. You can drive to your full potential! It takes time and self-care to get where you need to be!
2020-09-2930 minBattlef1eldThey are trying to help, but it starts to become irrelevant for you!I know people, who are parents, want to help but it starts to become irritating to the parents who are in the middle of it and some other parent jumps in and starts doing it to your child when you are already doing it! Its great and all, but unless we need the help then don't jump in, or tell my child "no." Try this instead: "Thank you for trying but I got this." "I'll handle him/her, thank you."
2020-09-2425 minBattlef1eldI needed to hear that!I watched a video that totally made sense and it helped me clear some discord! Your first $1,000 is always the hardest, especially with the symphony on "nos" what seems like, All. The. Time! I'm willing to take time but, after, dedicate myself back to where I want to be! THANK YOU JESSIELEE WARD!
2020-09-2220 minBattlef1eldWe have what it takes to get where we want to be! We need to push them all to the side to rise aboveYou have a passion? LOVE IT! You have a dream? MAKE IT HAPPEN! Stuck because THEY doubt you? DON'T LET THEM; ONLY YOU CAN DO IT! ITS NOT THEIR LIFE! It’s yours and you can do with it what you will!
2020-09-2121 minBattlef1eldParents, moms especially, we are doing the best we can!Parenting advice is great, but when it starts to become 'belittling' it's hard to feel good about being a great parent because your constantly getting told, "You should or should've done this!" "You need or need to do this!" You. Are. Not. A. Failure! You are making the decision on how you want to do your Parenting with your kids! Did they give birth/adopt your kid? No? Okay, then, tell them they need to back off, and thanks.
2020-09-1726 minBattlef1eldMom Guilt: the shittest thing to try and ever overcome!Us mom deal with so much crap we find it hard to know what's right and wrong for ourselves! We don't want to be looked at as selfish, but we want "our time" before we lose ourselves into something we can't seem to get out of! Every woman has different mechanisms, but we just need to adjust to get there!
2020-09-1535 minBattlef1eldLet the leash loose a little bit, but hold your firm -parenting grip on it.Is there any right way to parenting? No. Is there millions upon millions of parenting books? Yes. News flash! THEY AREN'T SOLUTIONS, THEY ARE MERE ADVICE GIVERS!! Its good to teach your kids great work ethic and how to take care a roof thats over their heads, but you need to let them be kids and have their time before adulthood takes over. You constantly (what you dont realize) giving the message of "take care everybody first, but yourself" is deeming a negative growing process. Realize they need a little freedom to enjoy childhood! So with that said...Mom, pick...
2020-09-0833 minBattlef1eld#SaveOurChildrenPEDOPHILA👏IS👏NOT👏AND👏NEVER👏WILL👏BE👏A👏SEXUAL👏ORIENTATION! They ALL have a psychological problem! It's disgusting, demeaning, blasphemy, and needs to be dealt with! Let CPS and the Justice System hear our voices! RISE UP! We can't let them get away with slaps on the wrists and misdemeanors any longer! HEAR US! HELP US HELP THE CHILDREN!
2020-09-0335 minBattlef1eldThe struggle is real, y'all! I'm right there with ya!!Let's face it, adulthood SUUUUUCKS! Number one problem seems to be because of financial reasons! This is the top percentage of an adult's life! You feel stuck and empty inside because you try, you try, and you try but it's having its way with you, not you with it! How will you pivot yourself to change it? Repeat the affirmation: "I want to know what I want!" Remember, certain feelings are temporary and you have to do the work to chnage that.
2020-09-0129 minBattlef1eldAppreciate the things around you! Live your life to the fullest; I mean to a T!Given I was diagnosed with the silent but, oh so slow, vision killer...I'm going to not live in fear or of the what-ifs of the future. You go through the grief cycle, yes, but then find a better place and realize you need to LIVE and enjoy it!
2020-08-2826 minBattlef1eldWhether I have to say it once, or a thousand times more...YOU. ARE. BEAUTIFUL! Do it for YOU!We want to change ourselves because other people get to us: "You're fat" "You should do more makeup" "You HAVE to dress this way"... I could go on. But, the matter of the fact is, YOU NEED TO DO IT FOR YOU, NOT BECAUSE THEY SAID SO! You are beautiful the way you are!!! Consider it, live with it! Love you, boo!
2020-08-2419 minBattlef1eldWriting for the Deceased: The story of finishing the work of a loved one.My step-mom had a vision but she never got to finish that vision, so it's up to me to give it life and hopes that it will help the people struggling with drug addiction.
2020-08-2217 minBattlef1eldWe, black sheep, always ask ourselves, "Why me?" Change how we and other people view us.Why? Why are always the odd ball.put? Why do we get the short end of the stick? Why is it that they get everything and we work for nothing? Why do we get this treatment? You're here for a reason; you have uniqueness. Black sheep...stand out for the white wooled crowed!
2020-08-2026 minBattlef1eldWhy? I DON'T KNOW! Don't find a temporary fix, but find support and live life!We don't know why things happen the way they do, but it's stupid isn't it!? We hate being stuck between a rock and a hard place, not knowing how to get out; WE PUT OUR HEARTS INTO IT. I have said before we can't control, or change anything but I say to you, now, TAKE SOME TIME FOR YOURSELF AND PIVOT (PLAN A, PLAN B, PLAN C...) Do it for YOU!!!
2020-08-1512 minBattlef1eldWord VomittingRanting isn't usually a thing for me, but its not really a full-blown deal. It's more...if you are going through a shifty situation remember you are not alone! Support is here!
2020-08-1511 minBattlef1eldYou let, too, many things stop you, therefore you do not succeed!Being an entrepreneur is hard! You will get ghosted, rejected, and have objections but the beauty of it all is... you can still be successful in doing what you're doing and still gain the people who will support you, help you, give your "yes." By doing that, step out of that comfort zone, overcome rejections by thinking, "not right now" instead of "no never." Giving up right away is failing! Yes, you will do ALL the work, but it pays off to do so!
2020-08-0430 minBattlef1eldTime and energy to help those that want to help themselves.You do this because you care, but remember that you CAN'T control people or situations. All you can give is the tool for them apply in life! You can't screw a a screw with a hammer; can't hammer a nail with a screw driver, so you use the RIGHT tools!! Let them apply it their way, but not half-assed. As. Long. As. They. Are. Doing. The. Work!
2020-07-2242 minBattlef1eldRedzone: is where you realize your anger, frustrations, and temper are building. Recognize it!Certain family and/or other people will NEVER CHNAGE! They grew up a certain way, they dealt with things in certain ways, and have the tendency to provoke. When you are being set up for a trap to react in the most horrid ways, remember, YOUR growth made YOU better; its hard to be the bigger person and walk away but you'll be glad you did!
2020-07-1324 minBattlef1eldDon't expect anything back, even though it's sucky especially from humans!We forget to recognize what we have received, or given to feel full in life. If.you expect something, then you are going about it the wrong way; you're just doing it to "impress" I want to say. Do it because your heart is set on it and you believe in something! Give yourself some grace, you're doing good!
2020-06-1010 minBattlef1eldDetachment is when you become aloof; taking yourself away from things.You let certain things control your life; you will not feel free. Detaching yourself means the things that have harmed you in ANY way do not require your attention any longer!
2020-05-2630 minBattlef1eldSaying, "No" is okay to say. It doesnt have to mean 'never' just Not Right Now!When your gut is telling you something else, other than your excited feeling (lasting only temporary) then just say, "no." People get made because you won't become their follower! If they take it bad, they shouldn't be in your life! Take control on what you need for yourself l. Saying no to people is not saying you'll never; not at the moment!
2020-05-2229 minBattlef1eldNo control, but making it so your monkey mind can't make you try to take and lose control!When cant control situations, people, overall recreational things. We can, however, be aware of our situations, take steps, and stay with the meditation of it all.
2020-05-1120 minBattlef1eldThe 4 As! (The Four Agreements) a book by: Don Miguel Ruiz!Learning how to speak with integrity, truth, and from the heart (not sef-abusing and spreading poison to others). Not taking EVERYTHING personally! Not making assumptions because others are dealing with shit. And, finally, ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST! Take action to these agreements, making your own awesome agreements, and turning a half into a whole!
2020-05-0123 minBattlef1eldDon't let them hold you back, which makes you hold YOURSELF BACK!Most people make excuses not to do stuff because other people said so. It's your life, you can do what you want, and tell them their opinions are noted and to have a nice day! They are not you, you are you and you get to make the decisions, NOT them! Take care of yourself, educate, and go for it!!! Don't wait for someone to tell you to go for it, only you tell yourself that!!!!
2020-03-2625 minBattlef1eldPractice What You Preach, Not Preach What You Can't Practice!I AM TO FEEL WHAT I WANT TO FEEL. AS A HUMAN, MY FEELINGS STILL MATTER. I hate being crucified for something I was coming to a close with but it's like they keep going and going. So, yes, Bless and Release but do it in a healthy way and get away for people and social media if it will not help...sometimes.
2020-03-2333 minBattlef1eld"Ba, ba Black Sheep..."The envy and jealousy needs to end; yes I am human and I can feel this way, "What about me? Where's my trophies?" Got to learn detach from it and learn, "What do I bring to the world? What make me happy?"
2020-03-2026 minBattlef1eld"I'LL HAVE A CORONA, SKIP THE VIRUS."This has turned into pandemic but over-thinkg, over-doing, overwhelming some of chaos! I mean....the toilet paper? Come on, guys! I thought we were Americans; not scared of anything!? But, it is what it is. Here's what you can do to help.
2020-03-1223 minBattlef1eldWhat is the Pure Romance business? What does it bring to women? Education, and Empowerment.Yes...I am a Pure Romance Consultant. No...I do not do "those types of parties", I'm not a porn star, not a swinger, don't conduct orgies, I dont just sell sex toys, and I'm NOT immoral! I EDUCATE women about bodies and how to satisfy themselves. EMPOWER expression and try new things. I ENTERTAIN in a safe and comfortable environment!!!
2020-03-0929 minBattlef1eldI Take Full ResponsibilityI decided, after years and finally having the tools to do it, to Bless and Release! Whatever they decide, wish the best upon and move forward.
2020-02-2619 minBattlef1eldIntegrity: the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles; moral uprightness.Walk the walk, don't just talk the talk. Show the meaning your heart and the fulfillment of things that being you joy! Don't let sour heads make you become bitter; sometimes it's best to Bless and Release. And if someone doesn't like it...then walk away from it.
2020-02-1114 minBattlef1eldWhen you take action; you see your own success!!It feels so great to have accomplished the things you have worked for! The keywords: what you have worked for. Not anybody else just YOU. You feel stuck in a rut and you will become stuck but to make way, you must take the step, YOU! BE PROUD OF YPUR SUCCESSES! Keep it going!
2020-02-1015 minBattlef1eldSick As A Dog, but still doing it!5 mins of just feeling good about goals, but sick and hurting!
2020-01-2904 minBattlef1eldLearning, growing, changing, but DOING IT is hard. Like trying to get your business out and about.We all have a comfort zone that we, sometimes, dont realize we step back into when we think we are stepping out. Its possible one foot in and the one foot out, but it's that one foot that just wont move because of fear and rejection. Even doing the simplest of things can help get you to a balance of yes and no.
2020-01-2714 minBattlef1eldTempered tots, Viscous teens, and Eighteen "college confused" year olds!There is no right or wrong parenting, we don't our own way. But dont get discouraged when things happen because there is always help; just learn to ask for it. Tou spit need to take classes that expect you and your child to become robots; insight and applying can do the job! Parenting is part of the battle!
2020-01-2724 minBattlef1eld"You are always Choosing" from "The Subtle art of not giving a F*ck" by: Mark MansonI DO NOT OWN THE BOOK OR ANY OF ITS CONTENTS! Remember you arealways making choices and being responsible for how you react, or take initiative of of those choices! Whether it was you or someone else, YOU make the ultimatums if you want to live a better life, or not.
2020-01-2432 minBattlef1eld"The Value of Suffering" the book " The Sutle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" by Mark Manson.We all have "good values" "bad values" and some in the middle. But we tend to go with bad because we lose control and we get so destructive in not being in control. It's a learning process and forever will be. Even in death of ones we care, we need to come to accepts and learns from those values we suffer with.
2020-01-2244 minBattlef1eld"YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL." CHAPTER FROM THE BOOK, "THE SUBTLE ART OF NOT GIVING A F*CK" By: Mark MansonI DO NOT OWN THE WRITING OR THE WORK. We grow up getting told that we are special, right? But the thing is we are not! Today, it has become more of feeling entitled to have people boowntp us, or feel.sorry for us so we can feel good about yourselves. Feeding our egos to feel special!
2020-01-2115 minBattlef1eld"Happiness Is A Problem" from the book: "The subtle art of not giving a F*ck" by: Mark MansonI do not own any of the writing. A reading from the book by mark manson the subtle art of not giving a f**** .chapter two: happiness is a problem. We suffer and go through pain to be happy. And learning to solve it instead of avoiding it!
2020-01-2024 minBattlef1eld"THE SUBTLE ART OF NOT GIVING A FUCK" By" Mark Manson What I think already!!!I DO NOT OWN ANY OF THE WRITING; JUST READING IT FROM THE BOOK! MARK MANSON IS A SELF-HELP AUTHOR WHO WRITES TO HELP THOSE WHO NEED TO QUIT GIVING A FUCK! Enjoy.
2020-01-1720 min2020-01-1613 minBattlef1eldBullying/BulliesEven though, we will always have bullies/bullying, there is a way to at least treat it. No, we can't stop it! But, we can try to understand and teach of how, why, and the will to help prevent it as much as we can! It's a never-ending battle, but we can shrink it little by little. Stay strong, vigilant, and knowing what we perceive to our children, especially, with our actions.
2020-01-1544 minBattlef1eldTeach, Guide, and Protect!There are too many kids being abducted, sexually assaulted, and coming up dead. I don't know about you but I'm sick of it and I will do anything, ANYTHING TO PREVENT IT!!! Teach them, guide then, and protect them!!!
2020-01-1423 minBattlef1eldComfort Blankets (metaphorically speaking).comfort blankets that makes us feel better but most blankets can be negative instead of putting on positive blankets we put on the negative blanket as to shut out from the world that we don't wanna know but we need to learn to apply tools so we can live better be happier in life. Those positive tools can become positive comfort blankets.
2020-01-1315 min2020-01-1020 minBattlef1eldChange...it doesn't happen overnight.We want to know why we aren't going the distance. Well...because you choose to stay in a cycle that is a continuum of mostly negative and you expect great things overnight. No! You have to start the change, put in work, and watch it unfold. You cant change the people who don't want to be saved, so forget it and hope for the best.
2020-01-0825 minBattlef1eldPart 2 of Narcissists/narcissism... The Abuse.This. Is. The. Hardest. To. Talk. About. Get out. Get help. Fight. Because you don't realize how much you will lose. Even your life can be taken, or you know someone's life who already has been. You got through the battle...time to go through war. It's time to say, "I'm done!"
2020-01-0730 minBattlef1eldNarcissists/narcissism how to understand and distance yourself positively.I'm giving you part 1, or to put it dealing with "mild" self-absorbed people. We are uncomfortable with these kinds of persons because we dont understand, or they are too far gone and have pushed you away negatively to have any relationship with them. And we get upset ourselves as well. They are here on this earth, we might as well educate ourselves and learn. I know I'm STILL trying to, as well.
2020-01-0620 minBattlef1eldA little here, a little there, some over there, a sprinkle of that, and a drop of this.Think of feelings as a pie chart. You have a percentage of this and that. We would just love to equalize it, but as humans and some being more sensitive (like myself) than others; it's hard! Communication and understanding. Like mechanics wanting to fix, fix, fix, and fix until the car runs perfectly.
2020-01-0419 minBattlef1eldThe Work LoadTimes have changed, even though work can has made us feel like we shouldn't do anything when we get home, well...we still need to communicate better and spread it out. Get it done! Especially, with your partner and understanding that it can get overwhelming with only 1 person doing it.
2020-01-0224 minBattlef1eldWelcome 2020!Leave that shit behind in 2019! It is a new year! Make it your best, or at least the best YOU can!! Set what you want for yourself and make it happen!
2020-01-0117 minBattlef1eldStory Time. "Here's to the damned, to the lost, and forgotten-" Kelly ClarksonTrauma is such a hard thing to get over and some of us cant, but we can cope and get stronger. You're not weak; fight them!
2019-12-3146 minBattlef1eld"No, you're wrong! This is how it's supposed to be!" Different parenting styles.As men and women, we ALL are different and we ALL do things differently. How we do it and in the manner of. Give grace for the credit, what credit is due. Love, communication, trust, and faith. Practice it.
2019-12-3018 minBattlef1eldThe Simplest of emotions/bothers NEED the attention! Communication, understanding, and love is key.Not only used for the benefit of a relationship with a spouse/partner, but a family member, or close friend. Quick fix these small things before they build up into something...irrational where there is nothing but conflict.
2019-12-2615 minBattlef1eldMerry Christmas and here we come 2020!!!!Holidays have become a rush more than a hush, hush. Please remember: materialism isn't everything your loves ones are and people you cherish! Try your best with kindness and giving as well as feeling the cheer! Happy Holidays, to all, and goodnight!
2019-12-2406 minBattlef1eldRespect what is ReailtyWe can't look what you want! We are beautiful the way we need to be for ourselves, and people who "love" us! Love shouldn't be one-sided and toxic! You have what you have! You get what you get!!!
2019-12-2319 minBattlef1eldThe Mess Of StressEvery day, little or big, stress is everywhere. We cannot out run it, but figure out how to cool it down. Human...that's what and all we are. We can't change it, but better the outcome! I'm not perfect, your not perfect, NOONE WILL EVER BE PERFECT! There. Is. No. Such. Thing. As. Perfect. Let's attack this messy stress; ANY stresses! Amour on! Ready! And....ATTACK!
2019-12-2320 minBattlef1eldDO IT! "WHAT DOESN'T KILL YOU, MAKES YOU STRONGER!"Keep pushing through; make change; TRY! Don't let others make it for you, YOU make it for you!!!! Yes, stress and life suck, but that's where YOU fight through it!
2019-12-2130 minBattlef1eldHello, intro!!!Introducing myself and information on relating to others as well as talking about could've, should've, would've, and do it in this battlefield we call LIFE!
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