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Faith InfluencerS.2 Ep,8: The 3 Most Dangerous People to Talk to When Your Marriage Is StrugglingWhen marriage gets difficult, most people don't make their biggest mistakes during the argument—they make them in the conversations that happen afterward.
In this episode, I talk about something I've seen over and over again through years of working with couples and blended families: when you're hurting, lonely, frustrated, or feeling disconnected from your spouse, who you turn to matters more than you think.
Pain has a way of making us look for comfort before wisdom. We naturally want someone who will listen, validate our feelings, and tell us we're right. But not every listening ear is helping you mo...
2026-06-1724 min
Savvy Estate PlanningBefore Selling or Merging a Law Practice in California... Watch THIS!Thinking about selling your estate planning practice or merging with another firm? In this webinar, Jim Cunningham explains what CunninghamLegal looks for when acquiring or merging with a California estate planning firm. 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for help selling your practice, to merge a law practice, or for advice on the law firm sale process.Drawing from nearly 30 successful mergers, Jim walks through key elements of a sale, including valuation basics, client transition planning, ethical duties, revenue sharing, and phased retirement options. Selling your practice is about more than price. It is abo...
2026-06-021h 34
Savvy Estate PlanningAsset Protection and the Corporate VeilUnlock the secrets of asset protection & avoid lifting the corporate veil in our must-see webinar led by attorney Jim Cunningham. 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for attorneys well-versed in corporate veil company law, to learn more about the corporate veil, and general estate planning for your business.Join seasoned attorney Jim Cunningham in this enlightening webinar to explore the complexities of how LLCs, Partnerships, and Corporations can be used to protect assets. Learn about the "corporate veil" and its crucial role in liability protection. Who is protected by the corporate veil? Understand the con...
2026-05-2652 min
Faith InfluencerS.2 Ep.7: How to Choose the Right Spouse After DivorceHow do you really know if someone is the right person to marry—especially when blending families?
In this episode, I’m tackling a question I hear often: How to Choose the Right Spouse After Divorce.
Too many people make life-changing decisions based on chemistry, attraction, emotional connection, or pressure—but those things alone aren’t enough to build a healthy marriage, especially in a blended family.
I walk through five important markers to help you discern whether someone is truly ready for marriage: character, consistency, ownership of past mistakes, alignment in faith and values, parenting, boundaries, and whether the relation...
2026-05-2022 min
The UnScripted MindTrauma Doesn't Damage People. Here's What Actually Does.Most people have heard of EMDR. Very few actually understand what it does — or why it works when years of talk therapy haven't moved the needle.In this episode, Jim Cunningham, LPC breaks it down in plain language: what trauma actually is (it's not what most people think), why you can't always see your own patterns from inside them, and what EMDR does to a traumatic memory that insight alone cannot do.You'll come away understanding why the past lives in the present — and what it actually takes to change that.Topics covered:...
2026-05-1221 min
Savvy Estate PlanningBuilding a Sellable Law Firm!Building a successful law firm is one thing. Building a sellable law firm is something entirely different. 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for help with selling a law firm, buying a law firm, or for general advice.In this video, attorney Jim Cunningham breaks down what truly separates a practice or company from one that buyers actually want. We’ll explore succession planning, branding, and the habits that attract serious offers. If you’re thinking about a future exit or simply want a stronger, more resilient enterprise, this guide shows you how to create...
2026-04-141h 26
Savvy Estate PlanningSelling or Merging a Law Practice in CaliforniaThinking about selling your estate planning practice or merging with another firm? In this webinar, Jim Cunningham explains what CunninghamLegal looks for when acquiring or merging with a California estate planning firm. 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for help selling your practice, to merge a law practice, or for advice on the law firm sale process.Drawing from nearly 30 successful mergers, Jim walks through key elements of a sale, including valuation basics, client transition planning, ethical duties, revenue sharing, and phased retirement options. Selling your practice is about more than price. It is abo...
2026-04-141h 34The UnScripted MindWhen Avoidance Becomes Your Identity: Victim Mindset, the Fear Ladder, and How to Finally Break the PatternThere's a version of avoidance so sophisticated that the people living inside it never see it for what it is — because it doesn't feel like avoidance. It feels like the truth.In Part 2 of this series, Jim unpacks the Tendency for Interpersonal Victimhood (TIV) — a 2020 personality construct from Tel Aviv University that explains why some people organize their entire identity around being wronged, and why that makes accountability feel impossible. He also delivers the full clinical picture of the Fear Ladder, including the two things most people miss when they try to use it on their own: safe...
2026-04-1425 min
Faith InfluencerS.2 Ep.5: Blended Family Boundaries | Why Your Yes & No Matter More Than You ThinkOne of the fastest ways to create chaos in your home is this…not knowing when to say yes and when to say no.
I see it all the time — especially in blended families.
Some parents say yes just to keep the peace…others say no to everything trying to keep control…and both end up creating problems they didn’t intend.
So let me ask you this:
What are you reserving your yes for?
And what are you protecting with your no?
Because every time you say yes, you’re endorsing something.
And every time you say no, you’re protecting...
2026-04-0822 minThe UnScripted MindAvoidance Makes It Worse (And How To Stop It)You know the conversation you've been putting off for three weeks. You've rehearsed it. You've run it in your head. And then you just don't do it. That's not weakness. That's avoidance — and it's costing you more than you realize. In this episode, I break down the psychology behind why we avoid the things that matter most, what it's actually doing to your brain and your life, and four research-backed tools to start breaking the pattern.━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━IN THIS EPISODE: → Why 1 in 3 people meet the clinical threshold for avoidance-driven anxiety → The Little Albert experiment — how fear is learned (and spreads)→ Seligman's learned helplessness resear...
2026-04-0218 min
Faith InfluencerS.2 Ep.4: Blended Family Struggles - Feeling Like a Guest in Your Own HomeFeeling like a guest in your own home in a blended family?
You’re not the only one — and you’re not doing anything wrong.
In this episode, we talk about why that feeling is actually normal… and what to do about it.
We’ll walk through:
- Why belonging can’t be forced
- How connection comes before influence
- The power of small, everyday moments
- And why you need to stop measuring the relationship too early
If you’ve ever felt like you don’t fully belong… this is for you.
You’re not rejected — you’re just unplaced.
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2026-03-1917 min
Faith InfluencerS.2 Ep.3: The Pressure That Breaks Blended FamiliesThe Pressure That Breaks Blended Families is often the pressure no one prepares you for.
In this episode, we’ll talk about the emotional weight that comes with being part of a blended family—especially as a stepparent. The guilt, the frustration, the unspoken thoughts, and the feeling of walking on eggshells in your own home.
We’ll talk about why many of these emotions feel wrong, even though they’re actually normal. From unrealistic expectations to the pressure to keep everyone happy, this conversation names what so many blended families experience but rarely say out loud.
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2026-02-2722 min
Faith InfluencerS.2 Ep.2: Blended Family Problems No One Prepared You ForBlended family problems no one prepared you for—they’re real, messy, and nothing like what you imagined.
In this episode, I break down the struggles that often go unspoken: why trust takes time, why step-parent authority works differently, how loyalty to a biological parent affects kids, and why rules without relationships backfire.
This is for anyone who’s been surprised by how hard blended family life can be—and wants to do it differently.
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2026-01-2918 min
Savvy Estate PlanningHow to set up a charitable trust!Thinking about charitable trusts? What about the differences between a Charitable Remainder Trust, Charitable Lead Trust, and Charitable Annuity Trust? 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for estate planning, tax planning, and advice on setting up a charitable trust.Join leading attorney and author Jim Cunningham as he unravels these complex instruments. Understand the unique benefits of setting up a charitable trust and sometimes misunderstood consequences of each type of charitable trust, and how they can best be used for philanthropic goals, tax savings, and even tax-advantaged income! With Jim's expertise, you can learn abo...
2026-01-2718 min
Faith InfluencerS2.Ep.1: Being the Father Figure God Called You to BeHave you ever wondered where you really fit as a stepdad — and how to be the father figure God called you to be?
I’ve been a stepdad for 16 years, and I know how confusing and heavy this role can feel. The tension, the guarded hearts, the moments when you’re not sure if you’re helping or making things worse.
In this episode, I share what I’ve learned — not from theory, but from living it. We talk about why stepkids often push back, why trying to compete only creates distance, and why what they need most isn’t perfection or...
2026-01-0723 min
Savvy Estate PlanningHow to Set Up a Charitable Trust!Thinking about charitable trusts? What about the differences between a Charitable Remainder Trust, Charitable Lead Trust, and Charitable Annuity Trust? 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for estate planning, tax planning, and advice on setting up a charitable trust. Join leading attorney and author Jim Cunningham as he unravels these complex instruments. Understand the unique benefits of setting up a charitable trust and sometimes misunderstood consequences of each type of charitable trust, and how they can best be used for philanthropic goals, tax savings, and even tax-advantaged income! With Jim's expertise, you can learn about charitable tru...
2025-12-2218 min
Faith InfluencerEp.77: Blended Family Boundaries - Why Love Isn’t EnoughThis week on the Faith Influencer Podcast, I’m sharing what may be some of the most important truth you’ll ever hear about blended families—and specifically about Blended Family Boundaries. If you’ve ever thought, “We love each other—so why is this still so hard?” this episode is for you. I break down a hard but freeing reality: love doesn’t blend a family—boundaries do. We’ll talk about why a strong marriage alone isn’t enough, where most blended families get stuck, and the blended family boundaries that bring peace, security, and growth to your home. If your family f...
2025-12-1720 minThe UnScripted MindWhy Kids Don't Listen Anymore: 7 Ways Parenting & Authority Have ChangedMost parents aren't imagining it — something has genuinely shifted. Authority used to be automatic. Today it has to be earned every single day, and the culture around you isn't helping.In this episode, Jim Cunningham LPC breaks down seven ways parenting and authority have changed in just one generation — and what calm, confident leadership actually looks like now.You'll hear about:- Why "because I said so" no longer lands the way it used to- How screens and dopamine are rewiring your child's brain against you- T...
2025-12-0316 min
Faith InfluencerEp.76: Blended for 16 Years (What Really Keeps a Second Marriage Strong)In this episode of the Faith Influencer Podcast, I finally sit down with my wife, Deana, to talk honestly about what really keeps a second marriage strong and what 16 years in a blended family has actually looked like for us.
We open up about how our totally different faith backgrounds shaped the early tension in our marriage, what counseling forced us to confront, and the messy, real moments of figuring out how to love each other’s kids while still dealing with insecurities from past relationships.
Deana shares about her “mama bear” instincts, we talk about what healthy co-parenting with exes a...
2025-11-2657 min
Savvy Estate PlanningHiring Caregivers for Parents in CA: BEWARE Liability, RiskIn-home caregiver jobs in CA are employees: Estate Planning Attorney Jim Cunningham + Nicole Kamm of Fisher Phillips 👉 Book a Call at https://cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for California Living Trusts and Estate Planning. A MUST SEE webinar for anyone even thinking about hiring an in-home caregiver for a loved one in the state of California. Did you know you can be personally liable for a variety of violations of the Golden State’s heavily employee-friendly laws? That includes minimum wage, mandatory breaks, as well as over time--you really need to understand how to avoid mistakes and manage your liability! Our guest...
2025-11-201h 00
Savvy Estate PlanningWill My Spouse and Kids Inherit Everything?Without a living trust or a will, your assets are subject to Probate! What is Probate, and how much does probate cost? 👉 Book a call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ to understand the consequences of not having an estate plan, learn about probate costs, and discover the benefits of living trusts. In this essential video, expert attorney Jim Cunningham tackles the critical questions surrounding estate planning. What happens if you pass away without an estate plan? Does your spouse automatically inherit everything, or are your children also entitled to a portion of your assets? Jim also provides a com...
2025-11-1328 min
Faith InfluencerEp.75: Divorce, Healing, and Finding Yourself Again - Life After DivorceIIn this episode, we’re talking about divorce, healing, and finding yourself again. I’m opening up about one of the biggest surprises I faced after my divorce — realizing I was carrying an invisible backpack full of emotions I didn’t even know were there. Grief, shame, guilt, loneliness… all those things we try to push down and move past.
But healing starts with honesty. You can’t move forward if you don’t unpack what’s weighing you down — one thing at a time. My hope is that this conversation helps you start that process. Because your story isn’t over, and God isn’...
2025-11-1125 min
Faith InfluencerEp.74: Worst Mistakes We Make (and How to Stop Them)We all make mistakes… but some can change the entire course of our families and relationships. In this episode, I get real about three of the most common traps we fall into: expecting our spouse to magically change after “I do,” trying to be our kids’ best friend instead of their parent, and believing we can navigate life’s storms alone.
Growth requires intention — and God never designed us to carry everything by ourselves. Whether you’re in a blended family or simply trying to break unhealthy cycles, this conversation will challenge, encourage, and help you aim your home toward purpose instea...
2025-10-2919 min
Faith InfluencerEp.73: How to Stop Comparing and Start Loving the Family You HaveHave you ever caught yourself comparing your marriage or family to someone else’s? It’s easy to do—but in a blended family, comparison and withholding can quietly damage connection and joy.
In this episode, I will share how to stop comparing and start loving the family you have. I will talk about what it means to let go of past expectations, open your heart fully, and build unity right where you are—because that’s where real love and strength begin.
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2025-10-1518 min
Savvy Estate PlanningCA PROP 19 LEGAL STRATEGIES: Preserve CA Prop 13 Estate Planning ANALYSIS: CA Prop 13 caps gone Feb 16, 2021, Prop 19 alters property law in California, Prop 58 interaction, living trust 👉 Book a Call at https://cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ a must-watch for anyone dealing w/Property Tax in California! URGENT PROP 19 UPDATE: The deadline of February 15, 2021 has now passed. But CunninghamLegal has A NEW PROP 19 STRATEGY to retain Prop 13 caps for your children. Read https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/prop19plan and see the webinar at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/legal_webinars/what-can-i-do-if-i-missed-the-prop-19-deadline/ for more details! ----------------------------------------- CunninghamLegal Attorney Jim Cunningham breaks down the IMPORTANT differences and changes in law for California Proposition 19, Proposition 58, and...
2025-10-021h 05
Faith InfluencerEp.72: Why Strong Families Need Strong MenWhat happens to a family when the man steps back instead of stepping up? In this episode, I dig into God’s design for men to be the strong man of the house—the one who protects, leads, and loves his family with the heart of Christ. When men refuse their role, the enemy fills the gap. But when a man embraces his calling, his leadership can transform not only his family, but generations to come. It’s time for us as men to stop standing in the background and start leading with strength and love.
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2025-09-3020 min
Savvy Estate PlanningSavvy Estate Planning: Avoid the Top 10 MISTAKESCalifornia Estate Planning Attorney reviews Top 10 Estate Planning Mistakes - consider this Estate Planning for Dummies. 👉Book a Call at https://cunninghamlegal.com/book-your... to make sure you’re not making these top Estate Planning mistakes.The first edition of Jim Cunningham’s book, “Savvy Estate Planning: What You Need to Know Before You Talk to the Right Lawyer.” was a bestseller on Amazon, and the Second Edition has just arrived—savvier than ever! It’s organized around the 10 most common mistakes people make when planning their estates, and it’s packed with frank talk and eye-opening a...
2025-09-231h 06
Savvy Estate PlanningSavvy Estate Planning: Avoid the Top 10 MISTAKESCalifornia Estate Planning Attorney reviews Top 10 Estate Planning Mistakes - consider this Estate Planning for Dummies. 👉Book a Call at https://cunninghamlegal.com/book-your... to make sure you’re not making these top Estate Planning mistakes. The first edition of Jim Cunningham’s book, “Savvy Estate Planning: What You Need to Know Before You Talk to the Right Lawyer.” was a bestseller on Amazon, and the Second Edition has just arrived—savvier than ever! It’s organized around the 10 most common mistakes people make when planning their estates, and it’s packed with frank talk and eye-opening advice. In this webinar, Jim...
2025-09-231h 06
Savvy Estate PlanningMulti-Generational Estate Planning: LONG-TERM TIPSLiving trust attorney Jim Cunningham gives tips on Estate Planning with a long-term view, especially California Estate Planning👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ to learn about living trust cost, California estate tax, and meet with an expert Estate Planning Attorney to secure your family's financial health for generations! No matter what the size of your estate, thinking in multi-generational terms can provide a tremendous benefit to the people you love. It’s not just about avoiding probate or minimizing taxes when you die. It’s also about creating a legacy that will last for generations. Buy the...
2025-09-1659 min
Savvy Estate PlanningSpecial Needs Trusts: A Lifeline for Your Loved One's FutureSpecial needs trusts can be a critical financial tool can be a lifeline, securing the future of individuals with special needs. We will help you understand how to establish and maintain a Special Needs Trust, while protecting your loved one's eligibility for government benefits. 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for estate planning, special needs trusts, and benefits planning. In an ever-changing legal landscape, are you aware of the new rules for Special Needs Trusts? If not, you likely need a savvy attorney who knows about special needs planning. Navigate this complex terrain with the guidance of...
2025-09-1642 min
Faith InfluencerEp.71: How to Deal With a Narcissistic Spouse | Signs & Biblical Advice for MarriageHow to Deal With a Narcissistic Spouse—this is a question I get asked more than you’d think. In this episode, I talk about what narcissism really is, how to recognize the traits, and what it’s like to actually live with a true narcissist. I’ll share why constantly being “nice” or giving endless validation only feeds the problem, and why what your marriage really needs is kindness with boundaries. And maybe—just maybe—the narcissist isn’t only in your marriage, but it might be you.
Whether you’re in a blended family or not, this episode will help you better...
2025-09-1620 min
Faith InfluencerEp.70: The #1 Habit That Pushes Husbands Away“The #1 Habit That Pushes Husbands Away”—nagging. In today’s episode, I dig into why nagging shows up in marriage, how it chips away at respect and intimacy, and why the more a wife nags, the less her husband responds. We’ll look at covert nagging (“we” really meaning “you”), passive-aggressive tactics like puffing or rattling dishes, and even what Proverbs says about a contentious wife.
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2025-08-2621 min
Savvy Estate PlanningHow Wealthy People Structure Estates to Reduce TaxesSecret methods using Living Trusts the wealthy use to reduce taxes revealed by expert estate planning attorney in California 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for estate planning, tax planning, and wealth management tips. How do wealthy people use tried-and-true estate planning techniques to reduce death taxes, capital gains taxes, gift taxes, and preserve Prop 13 tax caps on California real estate? Join Attorney Jim Cunningham, bestselling author of “Savvy Estate Planning,” as he walks you through three in-depth case studies. You will gain valuable insight into the sophisticated, “advanced planning techniques” that have been too long hidden from...
2025-08-141h 00
Savvy Estate PlanningHow to Avoid and Defer Capital Gains TaxWorried about capital gains tax liability? Do you have income from capital gain? What can you do about capital gain income tax? 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-... for help with income from capital gain, estate planning, or tax planning. This video is a must-watch for anyone dealing with capital gain tax on property sale, capital gain income tax, ca inter capital gain, and capital gain tax in stock market. Reduce the bite of capital gain tax! This webinar demystifies key strategies for deferring and avoiding capital gains taxes, whether you're dealing with income from capital gai...
2025-08-1449 min
Faith InfluencerEp.69: The #1 Mistake That Could Blow Up Your Blended FamilyI’ve stepped on more than a few landmines in my blended family—and I’ve watched others lose their marriages because of them. In The #1 Mistake That Could Blow Up Your Blended Family, I’m pulling back the curtain on the hidden explosives that can tear a family apart. I’m talking about the big ones—walking into marriage without preparing, ignoring those red flags you swore you’d never overlook, building invisible walls to protect “your territory,” letting your kids (or in-laws) stir up division, and projecting your ex’s faults onto your new spouse.
Blended families have landmines everywhere...
2025-08-1223 min
Faith InfluencerEp.68: How to Handle Step-Sibling Conflict with WisdomHow do you handle step-sibling conflict with wisdom?
That’s the question a listener asked me, and it’s one so many blended families wrestle with. In this episode, we dig into the real reasons behind the tension—jealousy, competition for your attention, loyalty to a biological parent, and the emotional detachment kids often feel when their place in the family shifts. This isn’t about quick fixes—it’s about raising godly kids, teaching them how to navigate real-life conflict, and building a home rooted in grace and intentional love.
Let’s talk about it. Drop your thoughts in the comments—d...
2025-07-2925 min
Savvy Estate PlanningADVANCED Estate Planning for High Net Worth Families: Tax TipsIf you have a high net worth, you and your family MUST consider these advanced Estate Planning strategies to lower your taxes! 👉 Book a Call at https://cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ to discuss the CRITICAL tax planning actions to consider! Special estate planning strategies are not just available, but often necessary for high net-worth families. Our founder Jim Cunningham, author of the best-selling “Savvy Estate Planning,” will speak in plain English about the so-called secret strategies that expert attorneys use to efficiently transfer wealth to the next generation and minimize gift, death, and income taxes. A must-see webinar for families with $5...
2025-07-291h 04
Savvy Estate PlanningAsset Protection in CA: NEW ERA in PRPs, Homestead ExemptionCRITICAL STRATEGIES and how to do asset protection in California with asset protection specialist and estate planning lawyer 👉 Book a Call at https://cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ to protect assets with Private Retirement Plans! Superstar asset protection guru Ray Olmo of TRUST-CFO® joins Jim Cunningham for a must-see webinar for anyone with significant assets in California. Most people’s wealth is 100% exposed to creditors. The Golden State offers unique legal strategies to safeguard your wealth, and new laws are reaffirming and upgrading historic protections—but you have to make proactive moves in just the right way. In this asset protection tips vid...
2025-07-2938 min
Savvy Estate PlanningDonor Advised Funds vs Private FoundationsAre you sure you're giving to charity in the best way? Watch this webinar to learn about the differences between Donor-Advised Funds (DAFs) and Private Foundations. 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for estate planning, tax planning, and charitable giving. Discover how Donor Advised Funds let you give to charities with less hassle and more privacy, while Private Foundations give you complete control but require more work and responsibility. Each option has different costs, tax benefits, and levels of administrative work. Expert attorney Jim Cunningham and professionals from Ascent Wealth Management will help you understand how to...
2025-07-2947 min
Faith InfluencerEp.67: What I’ve Learned in My Second MarriageUsually, we talk about how hard second marriages can be (and they are!), but today I’m taking a different approach. I want to show you why I believe they can actually be happier than the first. I’ll talk through lessons I’ve learned, things I’ve messed up, and what’s made my own second marriage so much stronger. I’ll even dive into a few things that might ruffle some feathers—but stick with me. If you’ve ever wondered whether a second chance at love can really work, this one’s for you.
Let’s talk about it. Drop your...
2025-07-2221 min
Savvy Estate PlanningWhen Should You Have a Comprehensive Financial Plan?Explore financial planning! Join our webinar with experts to understand the role of a Financial Advisor. 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for a financial plan, a comprehensive financial plan, and to understand the steps in a financial plan. What is financial planning? Do you have just a Financial Advisor that manages your investments separate from incorporating into your business, tax, or estate plan? Do you own a business or many real estate properties? Have you had a comprehensive analysis done or created a plan that involves your CPA, Estate Planning attorney and a Certified Financial Pla...
2025-07-221h 00
Savvy Estate PlanningTrust Administration Attorney: What is it and Do You REALLY Need an Expert?Discover Trust Administration Attorney roles! Learn Trustee duties, trust administration attorney duties, & find expert trust administration help in California. 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for estate planning, trust administration, and trust administration lawyers. Confused about what exactly a trust administration attorney does? Join us for an enlightening webinar with Attorney Jim Cunningham. He'll break down the responsibilities that Trustees owe people who inherit (the Beneficiaries) and why it’s a good idea to consider hiring a savvy, expert lawyer when administering a trust. Jim will guide you on how to answer the question: how do I go...
2025-07-1555 min
Savvy Estate PlanningWhen and How to PROBATE Real Estate Properties in California!How do you probate real estate? When is probate needed in California? How do you SELL a probated property?... 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for estate planning, probate, and trust administration. When is probate needed for real estate properties in California? How does probate work in California for real estate? How do you sell a probated property? This vital webinar covers the full probate journey for real estate, including who can sign listings and purchase agreements, an overview of fees and tax issues, and much more. Estate Planning Attorney and Certified Specialist Jim Cunningham will gui...
2025-07-1542 min
Faith InfluencerEp.66: Should Christians Sign a Prenup?In today’s episode, we’re talking about a hot topic: Should Christians sign a prenuptial agreement? I’ve got strong thoughts on this, and I’ll share how my wife and I handled it when we got remarried—both of us bringing kids and past pain into something we wanted to be whole. I believe marriage is a covenant, not a contract. But I’ll also give you one clear exception—where a prenup might make sense.
Let’s talk about it. Drop your thoughts in the comments—do you agree, disagree, or see it differently?
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2025-07-1417 min
Savvy Estate PlanningOil and Gas Investing is A Tax Mitigation StrategyEver thought about the tax benefits for investing in oil and gas wells? There's a ton of tax benefits from energy investing in the United States that benefit self employed and W2 high income earners. 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for investment tips, investment help, and financial management. Let's discuss the latest developments in the oil and gas industry, production expectations, political climate with energy and domestic dominance and independence. Some of these potential tax benefits have existed in the tax code for nearly a century and they could be a benefit to you. We’ll ta...
2025-06-2430 min
Savvy Estate PlanningProp 19 California: What is it?Unlock the mystery of CA Prop 19! Get California Prop 19 explained by an expert attorney. See the real impact on you and heirs! 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for estate planning, california prop 19 explained, and prop 19 inheritance. Join us for an eye-opening webinar: Prop 19 California… What is it? Passed in 2020 to little attention, Prop 19 significantly altered California’s Prop 13 tax caps with wide-ranging implications. With few exceptions, Prop 19 effectively eliminated the ability of a parent to leave a low property tax assessment to a child. At the same time, it created remarkable opportunities to transfer a low tax...
2025-06-2448 min
Faith InfluencerEp.65: The Mental Load and the Marriage Meltdown | “Why I Considered Divorcing My Husband”Today’s episode takes a different turn. I’m reacting to a viral video titled “Why I Considered Divorcing My Husband.” This woman’s story has racked up millions of views and comments. On paper, she had a great husband, but she was still burned out, frustrated, and ready to walk away.
She talks about the “mental load,” parenting, and how she felt unseen in her marriage. Some of it? I get. But some of it had me raising my eyebrows—and I’m not sure everyone is hearing what she thinks she’s saying.
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2025-06-1616 min
Savvy Estate PlanningDying WITHOUT a Will: Intestate Succession CaliforniaHave you wondered, do I need a will or a trust? If you only have a Will, you're going to Probate! We're going to cover dying intestate! 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for estate planning, trust administration, or help with Probate. There's no sugar-coating it: dying without a will, also known as “dying intestate,” can create a world of uncertainty for your loved ones. In this webinar, Attorney and author Jim Cunningham dives into the intestacy laws of California, the default rules that apply when a person dies without a will. Jim will explain how your as...
2025-06-1048 min
Faith InfluencerEp. 64: Why Your Kids Don’t Like Your Spouse | Kids vs. SpouseWhy Your Kids Don’t Like Your Spouse—let’s be real: your kids might not be fans of your new husband or wife, and it’s not just “a phase.” In this episode, we get into the tough stuff: why it happens, what might really be going on beneath the surface, and how to respond without losing your mind (or your family).
It’s not about blaming—it’s about understanding what your kids aren’t saying out loud.
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2025-06-0926 min
Faith InfluencerEp.63: Communication Issues – This Is How Marriages Fall Apart | Red Flags That Lead to DivorceWhat’s the one red flag that can quietly wreck a marriage before anyone says the word “divorce”? In Communication Issues – This Is How Marriages Fall Apart, I’m getting real about something I missed in my first marriage—and something I see all the time in blended families. When communication breaks down, sarcasm replaces honesty, and we stop truly connecting, the damage adds up fast.
This isn’t about shame—it’s about awareness. It’s about hope. Because while divorce court might be the path some are on, it doesn’t have to be your destination.
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2025-06-0227 min
Faith InfluencerEp.62: Co-Parenting with a Cruel Ex | How to Stay in the Fight When She’s Playing DirtySometimes your ex turns cruel, not just difficult, but cruel. She twists the truth, weaponizes the kids, and makes co-parenting a battlefield. Whether you blew it or not, no man deserves to be alienated from his kids.
This one’s for the dads in the fire — the ones fighting for their place while being dragged through the mud. Straight talk on what to do, how to hold your ground, and how to lead with strength even when it’s unfair.
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2025-05-2722 min
Savvy Estate PlanningTrust Administration Checklist CALIFORNIAAre you feeling overwhelmed by the complexities of trust administration in California? You're not alone. 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for trust administration, living trusts, and estate planning. Join us for an essential webinar with Attorney Jim Cunningham to untangle the intricacies of a trust administration checklist, one designed precisely for California law—and given the myriad of legal requirements in California, believe us, a comprehensive checklist is critical! Don't risk making costly errors. Let Jim's expert guidance give you confidence and valuable insights to illuminate your path through what can be a daunting process. If yo...
2025-05-2055 min
Faith InfluencerEp.61: Are You Done? A Question Every Marriage Faces | Podcast On Blended FamiliesThis week, I share a question I overheard that stopped me in my tracks: "Are you done?" It was asked in a raw, real moment between two women—one heartbroken, the other full of wisdom. It made me think of so many of you walking through the messiness of marriage, especially in blended families. So, I’m bringing that question to you. Are you done? I won't answer it for you, but I’ll walk with you through it. Let’s talk about when there’s still hope, what to do when only one of you wants to keep going, and how Go...
2025-05-1918 min
Savvy Estate PlanningWhy & HOW to Use an LLC for Real Estate Investing in CASecrets of real estate investing in California: Using LLC for real estate investments, expert estate planning laywer tips 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for the best california tax planning advice, and using an LLC to buy real estate. If you want to build a real estate empire, large or small, you really need a Limited Liability Company (LLC) to do it right. Beyond the liability, succession, and tax issues, did you know that without an LLC you are limited to just four mortgages? Must you be a licensed real estate agent? What about the 750 hour req...
2025-05-131h 01
Faith InfluencerEp.60: Divorce Ended My Ministry. Or So I Thought.What do you do when the dream dies? When the marriage ends, the ministry fades, and everything you built falls apart? In this episode, I share the story of losing it all—and how God met me in the rubble. If you’ve ever felt like your life no longer fits the plan you had, I hope my story reminds you that God’s not done with you yet.
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2025-05-1222 min
Savvy Estate PlanningThe True Cost of RETIRING in California: What You Need To KnowIs it really possible to retire in California? 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for retirement advice, more information on how to retire in California, and all your estate planning needs. Attorney Jim Cunningham of CunninghamLegal and Alissa Kroeger of Ascent Wealth Management address the benefits of retiring in California, along with the drawbacks—offering comprehensive insights to make the best decisions for your retirement. Get a balanced view of the cost of living, tax implications, and the amenities this state has to offer. Learn the true implications of retiring in California, and find out whether the b...
2025-05-051h 10
Savvy Estate PlanningProp 19 Loopholes: Setting Your Family Up for Prop 13 SuccessDiscover Prop 19's hidden loopholes: co-tenancy exclusion, LLC benefits, and Family Farm Reassessment with Jim Cunningham! Unlock tax advantages now! 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for Proposition 19 planning, expert legal advice, and estate planning strategies. Passed in 2020 with little attention, Prop 19 significantly reshaped California's property tax landscape. In this riveting legal webinar, we unveil often under-explored Prop 19 loopholes: the co-tenancy exclusion, the benefits of LLC real estate investing, and the Family Farm Reassessment Exclusion. These powerful strategies may help you keep your low Prop 13 tax assessment while navigating the complexities of this new law. Whether you...
2025-05-0559 min
Savvy Estate PlanningThe Top Ten Estate Planning MISTAKES: Avoid Disaster! TipsTOP TEN Estate Planning mistakes (and how to avoid them!) explained in this discussion by expert Estate Planning Attorney 👉 Book a Call at https://cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for California Living Trusts, Estate Planning, and Trust Administration. What are the ten top estate planning mistakes made by people when they create (or fail to create) their wills, trusts, retirement accounts, and more? Leading California estate attorney Jim Cunningham gives a frank overview of the disasters he sees over and over again.👉 Book a Call at https://cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for California Living Trusts, Estate Planning, and Trust Administration. Contac...
2025-05-051h 21
Savvy Estate PlanningRetiring in California: Pros and ConsThinking of retiring in California? Learn the pros & cons in our webinar. From taxes to lifestyle, get informed on all you need for a golden retirement. 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for retirement planning, estate planning, and California living trusts. Join us for a comprehensive webinar led by Attorney Jim Cunningham to explore the pros and cons of California retirement. From the allure of the golden state's beautiful climate to understanding California retirement taxes, we'll cover both the charms and challenges of retiring in California. We'll delve into the cost of living, tax implications, and lif...
2025-05-0540 min
Faith InfluencerEp. 59: What Leads To Divorce? Why Divorce Happens - Even in the ChurchDid you know second and third marriages fail even more often than first ones—and churchgoers aren’t exempt? In this 59th episode, we’re diving into the top reasons marriages fall apart: immaturity, sexual disconnection, outside interference, and clashing values. It’s not always easy to hear—but if we want stronger marriages and blended families, we’ve got to get honest.
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2025-05-0529 min
Savvy Estate PlanningCalifornia Probate: Costs, Navigation, and Probate AlternativesWhy is probate bad in California? And why is California probate so expensive? Navigating the California probate process can be dauntingly complex and more than costly. 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for help with probate, trust administration, and for expert attorney advice. This video by expert Estate Planning Attorney Jim Cunningham, breaks down the probate process and issues for you! Learn how to minimize costs, avoid common mistakes, and understand related tax issues—including the nuances of probate for real estate. Are there alternatives to probate in California? Don’t miss this comprehensive webinar, designed to equi...
2025-05-0247 min
Savvy Estate PlanningSettling a Trust After Death: Dissolving a Trust!Are you wondering how to dissolve a trust after death? Explore the complexities of trust termination and the steps of a trust administration. 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for estate planning, trust administration, or with help settling a trust. Gain insights into how to terminate a trust, including the distribution of assets and managing tax implications. Attorney Jim Cunningham will guide you through the nuances of how to dissolve a trust so you can understand this intricate process. Don't miss this opportunity to enhance your estate planning expertise. 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/bo...
2025-05-0259 min
Savvy Estate PlanningDifference between a Trust and a Will!Trust vs Will: what's the best choice for estate planning? What's the difference between a trust and a will? 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for creating a Will, creating a Trust, and estate planning. This enlightening legal webinar unravels these complex legal concepts into easily understandable terms. Learn the key differences between a will vs trust, and gain insights into the benefits and drawbacks of each. We further delve into the subtleties of a living trust vs a will, providing you with the knowledge to better secure your family's future. Presented by attorney Jim Cunningham, thi...
2025-05-0250 min
Savvy Estate Planning Why You Shouldn’t Add Your Child to Your Title on Your HouseAre you considering adding your child’s name to your house title as a means of simplifying inheritance? Before you make this significant decision, join our crucial webinar to explore the potential pitfalls and legal complications that can arise. Attorney Jim Cunningham will explain why this seemingly simple solution can lead to significant issues, including exposure to your child’s creditors, unintended tax consequences, and loss of control over your property. Learn about alternative strategies to achieve your estate planning goals without jeopardizing your financial security. This session is a must-attend for anyone looking to protect their assets and ensu...
2025-05-0250 min
Savvy Estate PlanningHow Much Does a Living Trust Cost in 2025?What does a Living trust cost? How much will a Living Trust cost in 2025? Jim Cunningham explains living trusts, including how much a living trust costs and their role in comprehensive estate planning. 👉 Book a Call at https://www.cunninghamlegal.com/book-your-appointment/ for estate planning, living trusts, and living trust cost. Discover the importance of creating a will, establishing a living trust, designating beneficiaries, and setting up powers of attorney. We simplify complex legal concepts into accessible insights, empowering you to make informed decisions. Learn strategies to protect your legacy, minimize taxes, avoid probate, and ens...
2025-05-0245 min
Faith InfluencerEp.58: How to Set Boundaries With Your Ex (How Close is Too Close?)Have you ever wondered — how close is too close when it comes to your ex? In this episode, we're tackling one of the biggest sources of turmoil in blended families: the ongoing role of an ex in your life, not just in your children's lives. This is a tough conversation because it forces you to be brutally honest with yourself. We’re talking about checking your real intentions, spotting manipulation, setting boundaries, and what happens if you don’t. It’s time to protect your new life and stop letting your ex write chapters that should’ve ended.
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2025-04-2820 min
Faith InfluencerEp.57: What Kids Need Most After Divorce (Parenting Tips)Today’s episode is a tough one—it’s personal. I’m opening up about the guilt I carried as a divorced parent and how it shaped the way I showed up for my kids. From the overwhelming guilt of disrupting their lives, to the trap of overcompensating, to the regret of not talking openly enough with them—I’m sharing it all. If you’ve been through divorce and wrestled with guilt while trying to raise strong, secure kids, this one’s for you.
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2025-04-2123 minThe UnScripted MindWhy People Snap: The Psychology of Rage and ProtestWhy do some movements change the world while others disappear without a trace? What drives someone to stand in the rain holding a sign instead of staying home?In this episode, we break down the real psychology behind protest — what actually turns frustration into action, why anger alone isn't enough, and what separates movements that win from ones that just make noise.We cover the role of hope versus fear, how emotional contagion pulls individuals into something larger than themselves, and why learned helplessness keeps millions silent despite their deepest convictions. From the laser-focused strategy of...
2025-04-1417 min
Faith InfluencerEp.55: Building a Marriage Without the In-Law Drama | Leave, Cleave, and Cut the CordIn this episode, we’re talking about something that messes with way too many marriages: when your mama (or daddy… or in-laws) has way too much say in your home. Let’s be real — some of y’all never left your parents emotionally, and now your marriage has a third wheel. Whether it’s a mama’s boy who still brings his laundry over, or a wife whose mom calls every day with “advice,” it’s time to draw the line. Let's find out what it really means to leave and cleave, how to set boundaries without being disrespectful, and how to tell if your...
2025-04-0724 min
Faith InfluencerEp.54: Supporting Your Spouse As a Stepparent - The Key to a Strong MarriageNavigating the role of a stepparent isn’t easy, but supporting your spouse as a stepparent is the key to a strong marriage. It comes with second-guessing, tricky dynamics, and the constant question of where you fit in. Today, we’re diving into the unspoken challenges of stepparenting, from understanding your role in discipline (hint: it’s not your job) to recognizing the games kids play to divide parents. Most importantly, we’ll talk about why staying united as a couple is the foundation of a healthy, faith-filled home. Whether you’re a stepparent or married to one, I pray this episo...
2025-03-3117 min
Faith InfluencerEp.53: Parenting with Purpose - Balancing Grace And Discipline As a ParentParenting with Purpose: Balancing grace and discipline as a parent isn’t easy, but are we raising our kids for their own good or just making life easier for ourselves? If we truly love them, we’ll do the hard work—setting boundaries, enforcing consequences, and teaching responsibility, even when it’s uncomfortable.
Today, we’re diving into what the Bible says about raising kids, lessons I’ve learned as a dad, and the unique challenges of blended families. Let’s get into it—if this hits home, it’s probably for you.
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2025-03-2420 minThe UnScripted MindIs your easy life making you miserable?In this episode of The Unscripted Mind, licensed professional counselor Jim Cunningham explores the impact of modern comforts on our well-being. With references to studies and literary works, Jim delves into how our pursuit of convenience and ease may be leading to increased anxiety, depression, and a lack of gratitude. He offers five actionable challenges to help viewers re-introduce a bit of discomfort into their lives, thereby rediscovering appreciation and the feeling of being truly alive. Tune in for practical insights and fun suggestions to shake up your routine and boost your mental health.The Unscripted Mind — re...
2025-03-2212 min
Faith InfluencerEp.52: The Truth About Moving in Before Marriage - What Does God Say?Many couples see living together before marriage as a smart way to test compatibility—but does it actually lead to a stronger relationship? In this episode, we dive into the truth about moving in before marriage and what God says about it. From the emotional and spiritual impact to what research reveals about long-term commitment, we’re breaking down whether cohabitation sets you up for success or heartache. Is it just a harmless step toward marriage, or does it come with hidden costs? Let’s dig into the facts and explore God’s design for lasting love.
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2025-03-1719 min
Faith InfluencerEp.51: Weak Men, Simping, & the Rise of Female ControlWhat happens when men stop leading and women take on a role they were never meant to have? In this episode, we’re diving into a topic that’s bound to stir some thoughts—weak men, bossy women, and the rise of simping. Simping isn’t just about being nice; it’s when men overcompensate for a woman’s attention, lose their confidence, and ultimately become dominated in their relationships. But here’s the thing—this isn’t just about weak men. Ladies, the temptation to take charge when a man won’t step up is real, but is it what God intended? W...
2025-03-1019 min
Faith InfluencerEp.50: Understanding Why He Doesn’t Want to Have Sex | Husband's Sex DriveHave you ever wondered, Why doesn’t my husband want to have sex? In this episode of Faith Influencer, I dive deep into this challenging yet essential topic. We will discuss the emotional disconnects, stressors, and even boredom that might be impacting intimacy in your marriage. I’ll also explore the role of communication, the importance of making time for physical connection, and how to break through barriers like pornography and physical health issues. This conversation goes beyond just sex—it's about reconnecting emotionally and finding deeper intimacy in your relationship.
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2025-03-0318 min
Faith InfluencerEp.49: Blending Finances Without Breaking Your Marriage - Tips for Merging Money and Strengthening BondsToo many blended families keep finances separate, but why? In this episode, I break down my Paychecks & Play Checks method—helping you gain financial control without a rigid budget. We’ll talk about why couples separate finances, how blending money can strengthen your marriage, how to build a shared vision, and a simple vision board exercise to transform how you handle money together.
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2025-02-2421 minThe UnScripted MindSix ways to make therapy work for youMost people start therapy hoping for a quick fix. They leave disappointed — not because therapy doesn't work, but because nobody told them how it actually works.In this episode, licensed professional counselor Jim Cunningham cuts through the noise and tells you exactly what it takes to make therapy work — the honest version, not the brochure version.If you've ever felt stuck in therapy, wondered why change feels so slow, or struggled to find the right therapist, this episode is for you.No fluff. No false promises. Just straight talk from a working therapist who...
2025-02-2014 min
Faith InfluencerEp.48: Trust Issues in Marriage - Breaking Free from the PastWhat would you do if you found a tracker under your car—planted by the person you're about to marry? It sounds like something out of a movie, but it happens more often than you’d think.
In this episode, I’m getting real about trust in blended families—how it breaks, how it affects everything, and most importantly, how to rebuild it. If you’ve ever caught yourself side-eyeing your spouse’s phone, or if you’re tired of feeling like trust is a ticking time bomb in your relationship, this episode is for you.
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2025-02-1017 min
Faith InfluencerEp. 47: Yelling in a Relationship - Is It a Red Flag or Normal ConflictIs yelling ever okay in a relationship or is it a Red Flag? 🤔 In this episode, we dive into a topic that’s been coming up a lot lately—communication through raised voices. Some say it’s just how they express themselves, while others see it as a red flag.
What do YOU think? Drop your thoughts in the comments! Is yelling ever acceptable, or is it always a sign of deeper issues? Let’s have a real conversation.
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2025-02-0317 min