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Spiritual DatingGiving Too Much: The Truth About One-Sided RelationshipsAre you someone who constantly gives more than you receive in relationships? Do you find yourself pouring love, energy, and attention into partners who offer little in return? Contrary to what you might believe, your generous heart isn't the problem!The real issue isn't that you give too much—it's that you're giving to the wrong person. In divine, healthy relationships, it's impossible to "over-give. Why? Because in these relationships there is a beautiful balance of giving and receiving that comes from the hearts of both individuals.That's the Divine Love god makes possible for yo...2025-08-1321 minSpiritual DatingSparks, Chemistry & Heartbreak— Do You Need To Rethink Your Approach To Dating?Have you ever met a man, felt those electric sparks, given him your heart... and then watched it all fall apart?If you’ve been focusing on having chemistry with a man you’re not alone. A lot of women believe that if they don't immediately feel that initial "zing," he's not the right guy.But what if that belief is quietly sabotaging your chances of finding the lasting, soul-connected love you really want?In this episode, we’re turning that narrative on its head.We’ll unpack the truth about chemistr...2025-08-0621 minSpiritual DatingBeyond the Drama: What His Words Tell You About His Emotional AvailabilityEver heard a man say "I don't do drama" and wondered what he really means? This seemingly simple phrase carries profound implications for your dating life that most women completely miss. Today, I'm pulling back the curtain on this common expression to reveal how it can either be your biggest warning sign or a positive indicator of relationship potential.The truth is, there are two completely different ways a single man will use this phrase. When coming from an emotionally unavailable man, "I don't do drama" translates to "I don't want to deal with your emotions or p...2025-07-3126 minSpiritual DatingHealing Trust Issues: The Path to True LoveWhat's really keeping you from finding love? If you've been hurt before, your hesitation to open your heart again isn't just emotional—it's biological. Your nervous system is literally programmed to protect you from future pain, creating invisible barriers between you and the relationship you desire.In this revealing episode, I uncover the three fundamental reasons why trust becomes so difficult after heartbreak. While most of us blame our exes for our inability to trust, the truth is much more complex. Your trust issues likely stem from a combination of not trusting yourself to choose wisely, not tr...2025-07-2423 minSpiritual DatingWhy Finding Love Feels Harder Than It Should…and How to Change That!Ever feel like finding love shouldn't be this hard? That beneath all the frustration, ghosting, and disappointment, there must be an easier way? You're not alone—and there's profound hope for your love life, regardless of how discouraging the modern dating scene appears.The truth is startling but liberating: about 85% of single people simply aren't positioned to be emotionally healthy relationship partners. Understanding this reality transforms dating from a personal rejection factory into a more objective search process. When someone demonstrates they're not right for you, they're actually giving you a gift—saving you time and heartache befo...2025-07-1724 minSpiritual DatingProtecting Your Heart: How To Identify When A Man Isn't Ready For CommitmentHave you ever fallen for someone who seemed perfect, only to discover months later they weren't emotionally ready for a relationship? That heartbreaking pattern stops now.In this eye-opening episode, I share the crucial signs that reveal whether a man is truly prepared for commitment or just going through the motions. We dive deep into why many men genuinely believe they're ready for relationships until their unresolved issues surface when things get serious. This isn't about blaming or shaming – it's about protecting your heart and time from investments that won't pay off.Learn why dating sh...2025-07-1030 minSpiritual DatingNever Settle Again - The Key To Having The Relationship God Wants For YouEver wonder why some relationships crumble under pressure while others emerge stronger after facing life's inevitable storms? The difference lies in what spiritual dating coach Joe Amoya calls a "holy relationship" – the kind of divine partnership that God intends for us to experience.Drawing from his own journey – including a painful engagement that ended just days before the wedding and his current 24-year marriage – Joe reveals the two essential pillars that create unshakeable relationships. These aren't built on luck or chance but on conscious choices that anyone can make. Forget the myth that relationships are 50-50 propositions; holy r...2025-07-0326 minSpiritual DatingAre Your Expectations Blocking The Love You Desire?Could your expectations be the very thing keeping you from finding lasting love? If you're a spiritually-minded woman who feels like no man measures up, this episode delivers a crucial perspective shift that might transform your entire dating experience.Most of us confuse expectations with standards, creating a subtle but powerful barrier to the love we desire. Expectations arise from our mind and ego—they're our mental checklist of how we think a partner should look, act, and behave. When these aren't met, we feel disappointment, frustration, and even anger. Standards, however, emerge from our heart, soul, an...2025-06-2626 minSpiritual DatingWhy Dating Appears To Be Harder Than It Really IsEver feel like your dating life resembles a chaotic amusement park ride? Maybe it's a merry-go-round where you're constantly in motion but never actually getting anywhere. Or perhaps it's more like a roller coaster with extreme highs quickly followed by devastating lows. Whatever your experience, there's good news: dating doesn't have to feel this challenging, regardless of your age or past experiences.This eye-opening episode breaks down the three key reasons why dating appears more difficult than it truly is. First, we explore how your current life stage naturally creates different dating circumstances than you experienced in...2025-06-1924 minSpiritual DatingLetting Go of the Past to Make Space for the Love You DeserveWhat's really keeping you from the relationship you desire? Most spiritually-minded women believe they're ready for love, yet find themselves repeating painful patterns or unconsciously pushing away potential partners. The truth? It's usually not about finding better dating apps or mastering conversation skills—it's about clearing the energetic blocks created by past heartbreaks and disappointments.This episode dives deep into the psychology behind why we struggle to let go of past relationship wounds and how these unresolved emotions create invisible barriers to the love we seek. You'll discover the crucial difference between emotions (the physical sensations in yo...2025-06-1230 minSpiritual DatingUnanswered Prayers: Why God Hasn't Sent Your Perfect Partner YetEver stood at life's crossroads, wondering why your prayers for love seem to vanish into thin air? That's exactly where we dive deep in this soul-stirring episode about the spiritual foundation of dating.The divine connection between your soul and something greater forms the bedrock of finding meaningful love. Whether you call this connection God, Universe, or Divine Source, understanding how it guides your romantic journey changes everything. You'll discover why viewing God as an arbitrary wish-granter who randomly answers some prayers while ignoring others creates unnecessary suffering in your love life.Through vulnerable storytelling...2025-06-0525 minSpiritual DatingSpiritual Dating Podcast TrailerThe Spiritual Dating Podcast Helping Smart, Successful Women Attract the Love They DeserveWelcome to The Spiritual Dating Podcast—the show for heart-centered single women who are ready to attract a conscious, emotionally available man for a loving, committed relationship.Hosted by Joe Amoia, A Spiritual Dating & Relationship Coach, this podcast is your go-to resource for navigating midlife dating with clarity, confidence, and purpose.If you’ve built a successful life, raised your kids, done the inner work, and still find yourself asking, “Where’s my person?”...2025-05-3000 minSpiritual DatingFrom Adjusting Spines to Healing Hearts: My Journey As a Spiritual Dating CoachThe path to purpose rarely follows a straight line. In my case, it meandered from treating spines as a chiropractor to healing hearts as a spiritual dating coach - a transformation that only makes sense when viewed through the lens of divine guidance.After watching my father suffer through traditional medical treatment before passing away when I was just 15, I dedicated myself to becoming a different kind of doctor - one who truly cared. For twenty years, I practiced as a Doctor of Chiropractic, helping many but noticing a troubling pattern: some patients simply weren't getting better...2025-05-3021 minSpiritual DatingWhat is Spiritual Dating?What if finding love didn't have to be so difficult? What if there was a spiritual approach that could transform your dating experience and lead you to the relationship you were truly meant to have?The Spiritual Dating Podcast introduces a revolutionary approach to finding love that combines spiritual awareness, psychological understanding, and practical dating strategies. As your host, Joe Amoia, I share how I transitioned from my own dating struggles to relationship success through what I call the three pillars of spiritual dating. The first pillar acknowledges our fundamental nature as spiritual beings connected to a...2025-05-3019 min
Getting Better With AgeNavigating Menopause: A Conversation You Need to HearWhen was the last time you had an open conversation about menopause, its mysteries, and how it ripples through every aspect of life and love? Joe and I (Nat), peel back the curtain on this transformative experience, weaving personal insights with the often unspoken challenges it presents in relationships, intimacy, and self-perception. With a dash of candidness and a dose of support, we invite you to join us in unraveling the complexities of menopause and its significant impact not only on women but on their partners as well.Striding through the fog of misinformation, I share my...2024-02-0222 minGetting Better With AgeDetaching From Toxic Relationships: The Key To A Happier YouHave you ever braved the moment to cut ties with someone draining your energy? This episode is your guide to reclaiming your happiness by purging toxicity from your life. We dive deep into the courage required to pull the trigger on toxic relationships and why it's vital to prioritize your own mental and emotional well-being. Throughout the conversation, we navigate through the murky waters of negative relationships, be they with friends or family, and share strategies for detaching with love. It's about striking that balance between caring for others and carrying their burdens—a dance of self-preservation and com...2024-01-1121 minGetting Better With AgeUnlocking the Secrets to Living Your Best Life after 50As we kick off the new year we found ourselves contemplating the challenges and experiences that the midlife stage often presents.In this episode we have an honest and unfiltered discussion of the midlife voyage.Whether you're juggling the roles of caregiver to your parents, supporting your adult children or you're pondering over personal health and life's big shifts, we've got you covered. This week, we affirm that the midlife chronicle is not a universal fit, but rather a personal quest for meaning amidst the waves of transformation.Who said growth and reinvention h...2024-01-0422 minGetting Better With AgeUnderstanding The Emotional Blueprint of MenJoin Joe and Nat on this heartfelt episode where they delve into the complexities of men's emotions and vulnerability. In a world that often generalizes, Joe and Nat break down the walls to explore why men act the way they do and how, with empathy and understanding, women can foster a space for emotional growth and a deeper connection with a man.🍷 Grab a Glass of Vino and Dive In!Amidst laughter and candid conversations, the hosts share personal stories and experiences, unraveling the layers of societal expec...2023-12-2025 minGetting Better With AgeUnveiling the Secret to True Happiness in LoveHave you been feeling the absence of a meaningful relationship while seemingly having everything else in life?Where are the quality guys? Are there really any quality single men out there and if there is where is that one special guy who will commit to sharing his life with you?In midlife it can be easy to into the misconception that men all the good guys are taken and the guys that are single only care about one thing. But we're here to debunk that myth and highlight the importance of single guys who are...2023-12-1322 minGetting Better With AgeNavigating Life's Curveballs: A Candid Discussion on Overcoming Stress and Embracing ChangeAre you feeling overwhelmed by life's unexpected challenges and curveballs? Trust us, we've been there too. We've navigated through the stormy seas of midlife, facing various obstacles and adversities. But these experiences have only made us stronger and wiser. Join us as we candidly share our personal journeys, shedding light on the survival mechanisms we've adopted, and discussing their impact on our lives and relationships.The road to overcoming stress and managing emotions isn't a straight path, it's a winding journey filled with highs and lows. We've encountered periods of emotional overwhelm and avoidance, but we've also...2023-12-0722 minGetting Better With AgeUnwrapping Joy: Your Guide to a Stress-Free Holiday SeasonEver felt the holiday stress sneak up on you, transforming the season of joy into a pressure cooker? It's time to chuck that stress out of the window! Join us as we strip down the holiday overwhelm and piece together a stress-free holiday. You'll revel in Nat's personal journey of battling health issues while keeping the Christmas cookie tradition alive. We share intimate stories, tips, and strategies to help you bring back the holiday cheer. After all, what's a holiday without a little joy, right?As we dig deeper into the cause of the holiday st...2023-11-2919 minGetting Better With AgeLiving Authentically: How to Create The Life You Really WantEver felt the weight of societal expectations bogging you down, keeping you from your true self? Trust us, we've been there too. We're Joe and Nat, and we're here to share our personal journey of leaving unsatisfying careers behind, and embracing authenticity and fulfillment in midlife. We'll guide you in navigating societal pressures, abandoning the illusion of perfectionism, and choosing joy over obligation in your careers.In this candid chat, we also draw inspiration from the incredible story of Diana Nyad, a testament to the power of resilience and self-belief, showing us that it's never too late...2023-11-2326 minGetting Better With AgeA Conversation on Aging GracefullyPicture this: You're walking by a mirror, taking a glimpse of yourself. You see wrinkles, gray hairs, and signs of fatigue - the undeniable proof that you are aging. Does that scare you, or do you see it as a badge of honor, a testament to your journey? Join us for a candid conversation on the inevitable journey we all experience as we grow older. We'll explore the choice between embracing the gray or reaching for the dye, the pitfalls of the youth-obsessed culture, and the importance of feeling good, about looking good. This isn't about vanity, i...2023-11-1525 minGetting Better With AgeDoes God's Will Really Exist?What if the unfulfilled desires in your life were not were not in fact God's Will but mere manifestations of a misaligned belief system? Join us for an insightful dialogue on the ever-mysterious notion of God's will and the role it may or may not play in what you experience in your life.We explore the how our fears and desire to stay within our comfort zones often cause us to hide behind the mask of divine will, causing us to miss out on the life we genuinely aspire to live. We also de...2023-11-0824 minGetting Better With AgeEmotional Freedom - How To Say No Without Feeling GuiltyDo you feel guilty telling someone love "NO" because doing so means you're selfish and not a loving person? Does your big heart often lead you to feel burdened and stressed feeling like it's your job to take care of those you love and care for?In this episode we’re going to take you through our journey of learning to care, without taking on the responsibility for someone else's health or happiness.We’ll take you down the memory lane to New Jersey where we learned the life-altering mantra, "Care, Don't Carry". 2023-11-0121 minGetting Better With AgeThe Journey To Finding Love After FiftyWhat if we told you love doesn't have an expiration date? What if we were to tell you that the love your heart creates is out there and there were things you could do which would take you closer to finding it?Today's episode is a breath of fresh air for those single and over 50, debunking the belief that finding love in the later years is a near impossibility. We navigate the landscape of dating for those in midlife, presenting inspiring love stories of those who found their soul mates after 50. We also t...2023-10-2520 min