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PSR PodcastFailing Forward: Turning Setbacks into Hopeful Growth StepsIn this episode, Dr. Stephen Cervantes and I dive into the emotional impact of failure. We both express how deeply we hate failing, describing how it triggers feelings of rejection, isolation, and shame. We explore the importance of reframing failure, emphasizing that God's love still remains constant despite our setbacks. His grace abounds! We suggest that solitude can be a sanctuary for self-reflection and growth, encouraging you to create a “holy space” for healing. We ultimately want to offer you a compassionate perspective on failure, encouraging gentleness toward yourself and confidence in the transformative power of God's unwav...
2025-04-0230 min
PSR PodcastReflecting on 1000 Episodes: The Power of Grace, Community, and Personal TransformationIn this special 1000th episode, we take a heartfelt trip down memory lane, reflecting on our journey since the podcast got started way back in 2005. We share personal stories, discuss the evolution of the show, and emphasize the importance of grace and kindness in this challenging work. We celebrate you, the community we’ve built together, and encourage you to reflect on your own experiences and the transformative power of God's grace. This episode is both a celebration of a huge milestone and an invitation for you to share your stories and engage deeply with the mission of...
2025-01-0831 min
PSR PodcastMen's Emotional Self-Awareness TestDOUBLE YOUR GIFT!Thanks to a generous donor, we can offer a $75,000 match for gifts given between May 1 through July 31. Every dollar you give, collectively up to $75,000, will be DOUBLED!Give Today and double your impact. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, Stephen and I dive into the journey of emotional self-awareness, especially for men – and offer a simple test to measure self-awareness. We explore the different levels of self-awareness, from complete unawareness to deep emotional understanding. Stephen shares his inspiration for creating this self-awareness test, aimi...
2024-07-0335 min
The Covenant Eyes PodcastGrace-Based Recovery: Jonathan Daugherty of Be Broken MinistriesJoin us in this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast as we delve deep into the power of grace and recovery with Jonathan Daugherty, founder and president of Be Broken Ministries. Discover how grace plays a pivotal role in recovery from sexual addiction and how it can lead to genuine transformation. Jonathan explains grace-based recovery and how it works with sex addiction issues.Jonathan shares his journey from battling a 13-year addiction to founding Be Broken Ministries and his three-day intensive workshop for men, Gateway to Freedom. He reveals the essence of a grace-based approach to recovery...
2024-05-0821 min
Finding Traction: Recovery from PornEp. 120 - Intensive Recovery with Jonathan DaughertyWhen I tell guys about what caused a tipping point in my recovery - I often forget to include an event that helped cement some of the recovery changes that were happening. In this episode I explore the value of that experience by inviting Daugherty of Be Broken Ministry to discuss what can be an invaluable recovery experience - the Intensive.If you want to connect with Vern (and he loves to hear from guys) you can contact him atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you want to find some free...
2024-02-1226 min
Husband MaterialA Grace-Based Approach To Sexual Recovery (with Jonathan Daugherty)What is grace, and how does it apply to sexual recovery? Jonathan Daugherty inspiringly explains how grace is not "soft" but the most powerful force for transformation and freedom from porn. Pride, shame, and comparison all melt away under the core truth that you are worth the life of God's son, and that can never change. Jonathan Daugherty is the founder and president of Be Broken, and founder of the Gateway to Freedom 3-day workshop for men. He also hosts the weekly radio program, Pure Sex Radio. Jonathan lives with his wife and family in San Antonio...
2024-02-1239 min
Pirate Monk Podcast396 | Jonathan Daugherty | Invitation to the Recovery LifestyleOn this episode: Nate and Aaron discuss the ups and downs of the holidays and encourage us to lean into community during these seasons.
Our Guest: Jonathan Daugherty, founder and president of Be Broken Ministries, podcaster, and recovering addict. Be Broken Ministries includes help for men, women, and families. Jonathan shares his journey and need to start the ministry. The Story of how his wife left him and their marriage was able to be reconciled. Recovery is a process and journey, not a check box or destination. Encouragement that our stories are not to be solved, but...
2023-12-071h 01
PSR PodcastBest of 2022: 3 Levels of SobrietyOriginally Aired on February 22, 2022View this episode on YoutubeIn this episode, Stephen and I unpack what we are calling the 3 Levels of Sobriety, especially focusing on the third level. These categories are broken down into 1) real people, 2) media, and 3) thoughts. If that doesn’t quite make sense to you, that’s exactly why you need to listen to this episode.If you are a man who wants to grow in integrity by digging deep into what goes on between your ears, listen closely because true sobriety goes beyond just eliminating unhealthy behaviors. You...
2023-01-0332 min
PSR PodcastConnecting Theology to SexualityWhat is the connection between theology and sexuality? And why does this matter?My guest today is Jonathan McLatchie. He is a biologist by training, but also a Christian apologist and founder of TalkAboutDoubts.com, a website that allows anyone to ask questions about the Christian faith and receive answers from Christian experts in various fields of study. In our conversation, Jonathan defines theology and then helps us unpack the gospel metaphor that is portrayed in God’s design for sex. We also talk about how a biblical understanding of sex directly impacts our specific sex...
2022-10-0435 min
Magnified GraceS1 EP12 - Book Review: Understanding Shame by Jonathan Daugherty In this week's episode I decided to try something a little different! I've decided to review a book! In this episode, I expand a bit more on the subject of shame and what better way to expand on shame than to review a book that is precisely on that very subject? This week, I talk about why I recommend this book and who I would recommend this book to in order to understand the deeper concepts behind shame. I also briefly talk about the background of the author and his personal testimony and ministry. Ways to contact me and c...
2022-07-3130 min
PSR PodcastMatt's Recovery StoryThis episode is a special bonus. Our guest is Matt Riley, the development director of our ministry. Matt will share his story of sexual brokenness and addiction and the recovery road he has traveled.Story is a core value of our ministry. It matters to know that others have experienced some of the feelings and challenges we too have faced. This is why we want you to hear Matt’s story – that you might gain some hope and insight into your own story and discover next steps that will help you keep going on your own journey.
2022-05-2741 min
PSR Podcast3 Levels of SobrietyIn this episode, Stephen and I unpack what we are calling the 3 Levels of Sobriety, especially focusing on the third level. These categories are broken down into 1) real people, 2) media, and 3) thoughts. If that doesn’t quite make sense to you, that’s exactly why you need to listen to this episode.If you are a man who wants to grow in integrity by digging deep into what goes on between your ears, listen closely because true sobriety goes beyond just eliminating unhealthy behaviors. You must work on your thoughts and this episode will help you with prac...
2022-02-2232 minThe Covenant Eyes PodcastHow to Prevent (and Respond to) Moral Failure in Church Leaders, Special Guest Jonathan Daugherty, Be Broken MinistriesEpisode SummaryToday’s guest on the Covenant Eyes Podcast is Jonathan Daugherty, founder and president of Be Broken Ministries and founder of the Gateway to Freedom workshop for men. After living a divided life of sexual sin for many years, God called Jonathan into ministry, using his brokenness as a path to help men and women find freedom in their brokenness and discover the power and grace of God in their lives.Show notes:Most churches don’t have an invitational spirit when it comes to opening up abou...
2022-01-2144 min
Pastors on PornEp. 50 - What is Grace Based Recovery? (with Jonathan Daugherty)In this episode Vern interview Jonathan Daugherty the author of the book Grace Based Recovery. They discuss the ways, good and bad, that people try to help others walk free from porn.I love to talk to Pastors - especially those who are looking to deal with their unmanageable sexual behaviors.If you need a safe place to talk - you can reach out to me atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.comYou can also see some more resources on my website https://www.bandofbrothers.care
2021-12-0832 min
PSR PodcastUnoffendable: How Your Response to Criticism Affects Your Emotional MaturityThe world seems to always be ready to criticize and complain. What happens when those criticisms and complaints are directed at you? How well do you respond? In this episode, Stephen and Jonathan unpack how our responses to verbal barbs affect (and measure) our emotional growth journey. Discover the path of grace and love that sets your heart free from being offended and offers others the hope of Jesus.Book: Unoffendable: How Just One Change Can Make All of Life BetterMore Podcasts:A Biblical Framework for EmotionsAbout Your Emotional Connecting SkillsEssential Truths to...
2021-10-2634 min
PSR PodcastGuy Thoughts on Emotional Awareness and MaturitySometimes we need an episode to just pour out thoughts and ideas to help men understand their own thoughts and engage their own emotions more successfully. This is such an episode. Listen in as Jonathan and Stephen talk about the following thoughts (and more):I need affectionI did not think I was brokenGrowth is hard workMy only consistency is inconsistencyFor more resources: Men.Bebroken.comEmotional Training for Men Webinar Series Book: Untangling Emotions by Groves and SmithToday's Sponsor: CovenantEyes -- try them out for FREE for 30 days at Co...
2021-08-1730 min
PSR PodcastWhat Does Your Language Say About Your Thinking?How does your language (how you talk; about yourself, about God, about others) reveal your inner thoughts? And why is this important? In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen explore how our language exposes whether our thinking is lined up with truth and growing us in maturity or leading us astray with lies and stalling us in immaturity and legalism. You were designed by God to live in hope and freedom and joy. Journey with us into the wonder and beauty of God's design.
2020-12-0128 min
Intimacy is a VerbGrace and Brokenness w/ Jonathan DaughertyThis episode ended up being a little longer than normal, but it's worth the listen! We've been getting a lot of great feedback through messages or in person and it really has been encouraging to hear. We sometimes wonder if what we are doing is worth it or beneficial and then we hear about a couple finding hope through an episode. Keep sharing with us your story and what you are struggling with or learning! Jonathan Daugherty is the President and Founder of BeBroken Ministries (info below). We get the opportunity in this episode to interview him a...
2020-11-221h 06
PSR PodcastDealing with Loneliness & Fear in Your Marriage (Part 2)In many marriages there is one spouse who struggles more with loneliness and the other struggles more with fear. In this last of two episodes, Stephen and Jonathan continue to explore 23 thoughts about loneliness and fear that will help couples still build deeper connection and oneness despite these challenges. There is great hope for growth and intimacy in your marriage.
2020-11-1029 min
PSR PodcastDealing with Loneliness & Fear in Your Marriage (Part 1)In many marriages there is one spouse who struggles more with loneliness and the other struggles more with fear. In this first of two episodes, Stephen and Jonathan begin to explore 23 thoughts about loneliness and fear that will help these couples still build deeper connection and oneness despite these challenges. There is great hope for growth and intimacy in your marriage.
2020-11-0330 min
PSR Podcast4 Skills to Transform Your MarriageThe old saying goes, "Insanity is doing the same thing, but expecting a different result." This is the story of many marriages; using the same old broken tools and expecting a transformed, vibrant, deepening relationship. In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen will share 4 key skills that will help you transform your marriage to a whole new level of intimacy and fulfillment:"That is sad"Match her wordsGet to the end'Talk like a girl'Discover a whole new way to interact that creates deep connection and empathy. (bonus hint: these principles, if modified slightly, can also...
2020-10-1329 min
PSR PodcastThree Purposes in LifeLife is filled with patterns that help us understand what it is truly all about. In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen unpack three fundamental purposes in life that we are all called to know and mature in: Learn myselfLearn GodLearn others. Join us on this journey of discovery so we can live out the fullness and joy that God designed life to be.
2020-09-2930 min
Pursuits of PassionDiscussing a Husband's Sexual Struggles with Jonathan DaughertyThe fight against sexual temptation is not a battle fought by only nonbelievers who are unmarried. Married men and women who love the Lord have these struggles as well. My guest today, Jonathan Daugherty, joins me and sheds light into how we open up these vulnerable conversations with our spouse. He gives ideas on how to achieve intimacy and a better understanding of your husband when fears may arise surrounding this topic. Jonathan works in a ministry that provides resources for men, women, and families, to help them move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in C...
2020-09-2250 min
PSR PodcastWhat is Sexual Discipleship?Do sex and discipleship go together? What is the difference between knowing the facts about God's design for sex and how to integrate these truths into our daily lives and struggles with sexual brokenness? In this episode, Dr. Juli Slattery invites us to explore these questions in depth and provides biblical insight and wisdom for how to engage what she calls Sexual Discipleship. To learn more about Juli and these concepts, visit SexualDiscipleship.com.
2020-09-0833 min
PSR PodcastGrowing a Stronger Marriage Even When It's DifficultEvery couple who enters counseling voices the same problem: we don't communicate. But this isn't actually true. Marriage reveals the truth about differences and difficulties -- in your spouse, but also in you. In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen will help you discover some important and helpful principles for facing differences with integrity and how to grow a stronger marriage even through difficulty. For additional resources to help you strengthen your marriage, visit https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/.
2020-09-0132 min
PSR PodcastHope and Help for Women Struggling with Unwanted Sexual BehaviorsKimberly Johnson faced heartbreaking trauma in her childhood and spent 23 years engaging in sexually addictive behaviors as a result. But she has a story of hope! In this episode, Kim shares her journey to freedom and how her story is being used to help women around the globe find their own hope and freedom from porn and other unwanted sexual behaviors. Learn more about Kim and her counseling practice at DivineID.org. Learn more about the 40 Days of Purity for Women online course at PureLifeAcademy.org.
2020-08-2833 min
PSR PodcastReplacing Escaping & Hiding with Healthy Thoughts & BehaviorsWhy does it take so long to recover from sexually addictive patterns? What does it mean to "play the long game"? In this episode, we dive into the damaging habits of escaping and hiding, and how to replace this with healthy thoughts and behaviors. Let's learn to "be real" together and take better care of ourselves through genuine recovery!
2020-08-2529 min
PSR PodcastPastors on PornDoes failure automatically and permanently disqualify Christian leaders from effective ministry? If not, how can leaders "walk with a limp" and still disciple others well? In this episode we hear from Vern Tompke, a pastor for 30 years who understands this journey personally. Gain encouragement, insights, and practical help for pastors and leaders who want to serve God and others through their brokenness. Learn more about Vern and the resources he offers at BandOfBrothers.care.
2020-08-1828 min
PSR PodcastFrom Broken Home to Broken Sexuality to Wholeness in ChristJanet Boynes never intended to live a lesbian lifestyle for 14 years, but that is where her childhood chaos and sexual brokenness took her. This episode unpacks her story and the twists and turns of the journey out of brokenness and into wholeness in Christ.To learn more about Janet and her ministry, visit JanetBoynesMinistries.com.
2020-08-1031 min
PSR PodcastFinding Rest by Speaking Out Your Deepest FearAddiction never creates restfulness. In fact, it does the exact opposite. So, how does an addicted person discover true rest for their mind and soul? In this episode, we suggest a counterintuitive way to discover the rest your heart longs for: by speaking out your deepest fear. Join us for a robust discussion on how to identify your restlessness and how to find it through courageous vulnerability.
2020-08-0429 min
PSR PodcastHow Are You Processing COVID Stress?How do you respond to difficult moments and seasons that you can't predict? Such as the COVID-19 pandemic? These are unusual and unique times for all of us worldwide. In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen share their personal thoughts on how they have been processing this difficult season, and invite you to consider how you are processing this moment in your own life. To engage our online courses from anywhere in the world, visit PureLifeAcademy.org.
2020-07-2829 min
PSR PodcastHope for Families in South Africa & Around the WorldWe have Brendan Botha from South Africa back with us again to talk more about the damaging effects of porn and how families can break free from its influence. This issue is global and ubiquitous. Listen in to gain hope for yourself and your family. Learn more about Brendan and their ministry at Break-Free.co.za.
2020-07-2429 min
PSR PodcastA Story of Hope & Freedom in South AfricaWe have a special guest on the program today. Brendan Botha was raised in a broken home in South Africa, and was introduced to porn at an early age. In this episode, Brendan shares his story of brokenness, faith, recovery, and what it looks like to pursue authentic, biblical manhood. May you be encouraged by his story to pursue greater integrity in your own life.Learn more about Brendan and his ministry at Break-Free.co.za.
2020-07-2130 min
PSR PodcastThe Intimacy You CraveLucille Williams has ministered to couples and families for over 25 years. She has a strong desire to safeguard marriages, especially when it comes to what happens in the bedroom. In this episode, Lucille shares some of her story and gives lots of insights for couples who want to improve intimacy in their marriage. To learn more about Lucille and her book, The Intimacy You Crave, visit LuSays.com.
2020-07-1428 min
PSR PodcastGood Questions for Women to Ask MenAre you a single woman who desires to be married, or maybe are already in a dating relationship that has potential for marriage? Then this episode will help you to ask strategic questions of your boyfriend to understand him better and make an informed decision about whatever the next steps might be in the relationship. These questions were developed by men for the sake of helping women know a man much, much better.The Questions:Ask him to make all the plans for one month.Does he do a lot of "lovey dovey" talk?Ask when...
2020-07-0728 min
PSR PodcastFreedom & Healing from Shame, Addiction, and AbuseMany women have faced the terrible trauma of sexual abuse and rape. How can a woman heal and recover from such deep pain? In this episode, Joy Skarka shares her personal story of sexual brokenness and how the grace of God intersected with her pain to bring lasting healing and freedom. Wherever you are in your journey, may Joy's story bring you hope and courage.For helpful resources for women, visit AuthenticIntimacy.com or Women.Bebroken.com.
2020-06-3028 min
PSR PodcastThe Third TalkOur kids view over 14 billion porn videos every year. What can parents do to protect their children from being swept away by the online porn epidemic? In this episode, John Van Arnam, the founder of The Third Talk, shares his expertise and experience in helping parents and kids to address porn in ways that doesn't shame or blame.To learn more about John and his resources, visit TheThirdTalk.com.
2020-06-2633 min
PSR PodcastWhen (& Why) Do Men Escape to Porn?When do men go looking for porn or some other kind of sexual escape? And why do they seek it out? Finally, how does a man change this unhealthy pattern? In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen explore many various reasons for when and why men look for porn, and how to refocus on healthier ways to solve emotional and circumstantial difficulties.
2020-06-2329 min
PSR PodcastOnline Care Groups for WivesFor wives facing the difficulty of sexual betrayal trauma the journey to wholeness travels along a continuum of healing, growing, and serving. And it is imperative that this journey take place in a safe environment. In this episode, we have a panel of women who serve as online care group leaders in our Wives Care ministry. They have traveled this road themselves and share their personal connection to this ministry along with encouraging words to any wives who want healing from sexual betrayal trauma. Learn more about Online Care Groups for Wives at WivesCare.Bebroken.com.
2020-06-1640 min
PSR PodcastAn Unexpected Journey to HopeWhat happens when a couple realizes that porn addiction is not merely a "problem" to be fixed? What if there is far more to it than that? How can a couple navigate the possibility of restoration when "recovery" doesn't fit their pre-conceived paradigm? In this episode, we hear the story of Garren and Lyschel Burket. Gain a new perspective for restoration that brings true hope and joy.Learn more about Lyschel's ministry to betrayed wives at HopeRedefined.com.
2020-06-1235 min
PSR PodcastSexual Betrayal and Spiritual BattleSexual betrayal trauma has a profound impact on a wife emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. The impact can shake the faith of the most deeply rooted Christian woman. How can she heal? And is there hope for restoration? In this episode, Lyschel Burket shares her story and what she has learned about healing from betrayal and the power of God in our weakness.Learn more about Lyschel and her ministry at HopeRedefined.com.
2020-06-0933 min
PSR PodcastA Biblical Framework for EmotionsDid Jesus have anything to say about understanding our emotions? Human beings are rather predictable when it comes to our emotional systems, yet we often talk as if it's impossible to understand our emotions. In this episode, Stephen shares some insights he has gained over decades of studying emotional systems and gives us a biblical framework to see how we can manage our emotions in healthier ways.
2020-06-0229 min
PSR PodcastWhy Jesus?Why do you and I need Jesus? In times of crisis and disruption (or temptation) our priorities are exposed, whether good or bad. In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen share why they love and trust Jesus. Maybe this will encourage you to examine your own relationship with Jesus and how you can pursue Him more faithfully and fully.
2020-05-2629 min
PSR PodcastHelping Teens Talk About Difficult TopicsThere is truly nowhere on earth that sexual struggles don't exist for teens. But this doesn't mean we need to be fearful or hopeless as parents or educators. In this episode, our guest Sheila Harkins shares her experience as a mom and educator in helping teens navigate the difficulty and challenges of sexuality (and other tough subjects). Gain hope and help in building stronger connections with your teens. Learn more about Sheila and her insights at SheilaHarkins.com.
2020-05-1933 min
PSR PodcastAre Sex Offenders Modern Day Lepers?Is there hope for someone labeled a sex offender? This is a heavy and hard subject to address. But in this episode, we hear from a wife who has traveled this road with her family. Her husband is serving a 12-year sentence due to viewing illegal pornography. Listen in to learn just how far the grace of God can reach -- and how you can help support and care for these families affected by criminal sex offenses.For additional help, visit TexasVoices.org. (Please reach out to your senators to ask for home confinement for...
2020-05-1532 min
PSR PodcastUnderstanding Therapeutic DisclosureHow can your marriage survive sexual betrayal (of any kind)? And how important and helpful is counseling to this process? In this episode, our guest Dan Drake will help us understand therapeutic disclosure; what it is, what its role is in the restoration process, and how to do it effectively. If you feel stuck in your marriage, this program might help you take next steps toward greater hope and healing.Learn more about resources for Therapeutic Disclosure at DisclosureHope.com.
2020-05-1233 min
PSR PodcastThe Power of CommunityThe big question a porn addict must answer in order to recover is: Do you really want to be free and sober? In this episode, our special guest Carl Thomas shares his story of addiction and recovery -- and the power of community for actually living free from porn. Listen in to find hope and resources for total transformation.Learn more about Carl and his ministry at LiveFreeCommunity.org.
2020-05-0533 min
PSR PodcastA Dangerous Mix: Alcohol and SexA listener reached out to us to address how alcohol and sex combined can be detrimental to intimacy in marriage. Our guest, Mark Denison, will help us explore the dynamics and dangers of mixing this substance and behavior, and why recovery is necessary for relational health.
2020-05-0129 min
PSR PodcastRelationship Insights from a Marriage CounselorThere is a Proverb that says, "Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise." (13:20) Stephen Cervantes has been an excellent marriage counselor for over 30 years. He is wise in understanding dynamics of healthy and thriving relationships. In this episode, Stephen shares lots of insights to help couples grow and flourish in their relationship.Learn more about Stephen at HopeCounseling.com.
2020-04-2829 min
PSR PodcastAbout Recovery and Asian Culture ShameHow much does one's culture shape their sexuality? And how does that aid or hinder recovery from sexual addictions? Sam Louie is an Asian-American who knows personally how difficult it can be to break free from sexual shame and grow in wholeness and sobriety. In this episode, Sam shares his story and some insights for dealing with deep shame surrounding sexual brokenness.Learn more about Sam and his resources at SamLouieMFT.com or SamLouieSpeaks.com.
2020-04-2134 min
PSR PodcastGoing Deeper: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Sex AddictionDo you struggle with answering the "why" question surrounding your sexually addictive behaviors? What is underneath these compulsive actions? In this episode, Eddie Capparruci helps us unpack what he describes as your "inner child" and how understanding who this is will unlock significant growth in your recovery. For more info on Eddie and his ministry, visit InnerChild-SexAddiction.com.
2020-04-1444 min
PSR PodcastThe Harms of Negative TalkingMany of us don't pay much attention to how we talk. Especially if we have a "negative talk" template. In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen unpack this template to help you recognize if you talk in this unhealthy way -- and provide insights and tips for how to reduce or eliminate this kind of talking from your life. Learn how to talk WITH people instead of AT them.
2020-04-0731 min
Uncommon People PodcastUPP 014 | Tell Your Story w/ Jonathan DaughertyIf God told you to tell your story, how would you respond? With fear? Anxiety? Hesitation? For me (Aaron,) the severity of the story would dictate my response. For Jonathan Daugherty, his response was, "yes." Of course, it may have taken some convincing, but ultimately he set out across the world to tell his story of sexual addiction, lies, betrayal, redemption, restoration, and salvation. If that seems like a massive pendulum swing, just wait until you hear the full story. Jonathan is the founder of Be Broken Ministries, author of several books (which you can purchase at the link...
2020-04-031h 00
PSR PodcastGateway Insights #16Since 2008 hundreds of men have experienced our Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive workshop. Powerful transformation has occurred in many men's lives. Over the years, men have allowed us to share their insights with our podcast listeners. This episode gives you a peek into five men's journeys and the insights they are gaining. We hope it will encourage you to keep pressing on in your own pursuit of greater integrity. Learn more about Gateway to Freedom at GTF.Bebroken.com.
2020-03-3129 min
PSR PodcastTalking to Your Kids About Sex: What Works and What Doesn'tParents, you are the most influential person in your child's life. This means there is no one who can guide and mold your child like you can. But there are wise ways to influence and foolish ways, especially when it comes to the topic of sex. In this episode, we have our Director of Training, John Fort, to help you navigate very practical conversations on this topic with your children. Discover what works and what doesn't. For even more help and practical guidance, get John's book Honest Talk at HonestTalk.Bebroken.com.
2020-03-2435 min
PSR PodcastPreparing for Your Wedding NightCo-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)One of our soon-to-be-married listeners sent us a question on how he can be "ready" for the wedding night and honeymoon with his new bride. Jonathan and Stephen offer a number of insights and practical tips from decades of personal experience and ministry to hundreds of couples. We hope this helps not only yet-to-be-married listeners, but also "seasoned" couples who need a fresh spark in their intimacy.
2020-03-1722 min
PSR PodcastHelping Husbands Learn and Practice EmpathyWhen a husband has betrayed trust in his marriage, there is a lot of healing his wife must go through. But is there anything the husband can do to help her heal (besides aggressively engaging his own recovery)? YES! In this episode, we hear from Carol the Coach, who has years of experience in helping husbands learn and practice empathy with their hurting wives. Men, listen up! This episode could change the rest of your life and marriage. Learn more about Carol the Coach and her resources at CarolTheCoach.com.
2020-03-1031 min
PSR PodcastLearning, Unlearning, and Learning AnewCo-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)How do we learn our unhealthy sexual attitudes, patterns and behaviors? And why is it important to know this? We were all "trained" in our brokenness. In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen help you understand your "training program" and how you can be retrained to a whole new life of hope, health, and purpose.
2020-03-0329 min
PSR PodcastIs There a Cure for Loneliness?Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)Everyone has faced loneliness of some kind in their lives. But now we are experiencing loneliness at unprecedented levels in developed societies. What is causing this rise in loneliness and how can we combat it? Join us as we talk about the epidemic of loneliness and the practical hope found in community and service.
2020-02-2529 min
PSR PodcastWhat Every Woman (and Man) Needs to Know About Male SexualityJonathan presented this session at the Reclaim Conference, hosted by Authentic Intimacy. Discover God's design for male sexuality, how sin (and especially porn) distort God's design, how men can reclaim God's design, and the role of wives and the church in helping men live out God's design. If you would like to access the slide presentation for this teaching, visit http://Reclaim19.Bebroken.com.
2019-10-2957 min
PSR PodcastHow Do You Say 'Thank You' to God?We live in a world that is increasingly ungrateful. Being offended has become a national pastime. But by God's grace we have much to be thankful for -- in spite of our brokenness! But how do you say 'Thank You' to God? Find out in this sermon Jonathan preached at Packsaddle Fellowship.
2019-09-1734 min
PSR PodcastFrom Hope to Helping OthersHere is a bonus episode taken from a talk Jonathan gave on 4 key elements of success he has learned over 20 years of recovery and growth. Listen in to gain insights that can help you stay in the lifelong pursuit of greater integrity and joy.
2019-06-0716 min
PSR PodcastFinding Rest for Your MarriageMarriage is stressful! A couple may love each other and want to spend their lives together, but once they enter the covenant of marriage they discover the challenges that want to work against intimacy. This episode is a talk that Jonathan gave to a group of married couples who wanted to pursue greater intimacy. Listen in to discover hope and a word that might just be what your marriage needs to experience greater intimacy.
2019-05-2134 min
Pure Sex RadioPain, Recovery, and Your BrainCo-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)
Your brain controls your body. Duh, right? But do we understand all the ways that the wiring of the brain affects and strengthens habits or behaviors? In this episode Jonathan and Stephen unpack excellent brain research from Dr. Norman Doidge to give you insight into how your brain works and how you can change unwanted patterns.
Learn more about Dr. Doidge at http://www.normandoidge.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio333/donations
2019-01-2930 min
PSR PodcastPain, Recovery, and Your BrainCo-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)
Your brain controls your body. Duh, right? But do we understand all the ways that the wiring of the brain affects and strengthens habits or behaviors? In this episode Jonathan and Stephen unpack excellent brain research from Dr. Norman Doidge to give you insight into how your brain works and how you can change unwanted patterns.
Learn more about Dr. Doidge at http://www.normandoidge.com.
2019-01-2930 min
Pure Sex RadioQ&A Session with JonathanJonathan Daugherty has over 15 years in vocational ministry to men struggling with sexual brokenness issues. This episode is a recording of a Q&A session with Jonathan for men in Atlanta. Listen in as he covers topics like masturbation, temptation, sex in marriage, parenting, and more.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio333/donations
2018-12-2956 min
PSR PodcastQ&A Session with JonathanJonathan Daugherty has over 15 years in vocational ministry to men struggling with sexual brokenness issues. This episode is a recording of a Q&A session with Jonathan for men in Atlanta. Listen in as he covers topics like masturbation, temptation, sex in marriage, parenting, and more.
2018-12-2956 min
Pure Sex RadioWhat Does Integrity Require?What are the key characteristics of a man of integrity? This episode is taken from a talk that Jonathan gave to a group of men in Atlanta earlier this year. Gain hope and insight for living every day in God's design.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio333/donations
2018-12-2525 min
PSR PodcastWhat Does Integrity Require?What are the key characteristics of a man of integrity? This episode is taken from a talk that Jonathan gave to a group of men in Atlanta earlier this year. Gain hope and insight for living every day in God's design.
2018-12-2525 min
Pure Sex RadioInsights for LifeCo-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)
This episode is a shotgun blast of ideas and insights to help you grow and mature. Stephen and Jonathan discuss the topics of love, aloneness, intimacy, personal uniqueness and value, disappointment, resentment, truth, and hope. Listen in to be challenged and encouraged in your journey toward greater integrity.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio333/donations
2018-10-3027 min
PSR PodcastInsights for LifeCo-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)
This episode is a shotgun blast of ideas and insights to help you grow and mature. Stephen and Jonathan discuss the topics of love, aloneness, intimacy, personal uniqueness and value, disappointment, resentment, truth, and hope. Listen in to be challenged and encouraged in your journey toward greater integrity.
2018-10-3027 min
Pure Sex RadioGrace-Based Recovery 2.0Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)
Jonathan has written a completely new edition of Grace-Based Recovery. This is a resource for recovery groups who want to understand and apply the grace of God to overcome any addictive pattern. This broadcast outlines the principle of grace and what the book will offer to those in recovery.
Order the book and register for the next training webinar at GraceBasedRecovery.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio333/donations
2018-08-1430 min
PSR PodcastGrace-Based Recovery 2.0Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)
Jonathan has written a completely new edition of Grace-Based Recovery. This is a resource for recovery groups who want to understand and apply the grace of God to overcome any addictive pattern. This broadcast outlines the principle of grace and what the book will offer to those in recovery.
Order the book and register for the next training webinar at GraceBasedRecovery.com.
2018-08-1430 min
PSR PodcastMinimalism and IntegrityCo-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)
How do we as Christians deal with the secular idea that things or possesions brings us happiness? And what connection does this have to do with our integrity? In this episode Jonathan and Stephen share personally about this and give insights for how to live as people of peace and contentment -- learning to attach to people, not objects.
Send us your insights on this topic at mypoint@puresexradio.com or on Twitter @PureSexRadio.
2018-07-1030 min
Pure Sex RadioMinimalism and IntegrityCo-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)
How do we as Christians deal with the secular idea that things or possesions brings us happiness? And what connection does this have to do with our integrity? In this episode Jonathan and Stephen share personally about this and give insights for how to live as people of peace and contentment -- learning to attach to people, not objects.
Send us your insights on this topic at mypoint@puresexradio.com or on Twitter @PureSexRadio. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio333/donations
2018-07-1030 min
Pure Sex RadioMe, Myself, and... iPhone?Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)
Research is beginning to emerge that is showing how people are building a type of "relationship" with their technology. What impact might this have on our ability to connect with real people and even understand what healthy human relationships look like? Jonathan and Stephen dive into this topic and offer insights into how to manage technology in healthier ways.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio333/donations
2018-04-1730 min
PSR PodcastMe, Myself, and... iPhone?Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)
Research is beginning to emerge that is showing how people are building a type of "relationship" with their technology. What impact might this have on our ability to connect with real people and even understand what healthy human relationships look like? Jonathan and Stephen dive into this topic and offer insights into how to manage technology in healthier ways.
2018-04-1730 min
PSR PodcastWhy We Won't Go Back...Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)
Stephen and I (Jonathan) have been on this journey together of pursuing greater sexual integrity for nearly 20 years. And for the past 12 years we have been sharing our stories and insights with listeners from all over the world. In this broadcast we will try to answer this question: Why won't we go back to our old ways of lustful living? We hope our answers will inspire and encourage you in your personal pursuit of purity.
For help starting (or continuing) your journey to greater purity, visit:
http://7da...
2018-04-0330 min
Pure Sex RadioWhy We Won't Go Back...Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)
Stephen and I (Jonathan) have been on this journey together of pursuing greater sexual integrity for nearly 20 years. And for the past 12 years we have been sharing our stories and insights with listeners from all over the world. In this broadcast we will try to answer this question: Why won't we go back to our old ways of lustful living? We hope our answers will inspire and encourage you in your personal pursuit of purity.
For help starting (or continuing) your journey to greater purity, visit:
http://7da...
2018-04-0330 min
PSR PodcastThe Problem of Lust -- and How to Overcome It (Part 2)Recently Jonathan Daugherty spoke at a men's conference on the problem of lust and how to overcome it. We want to share this talk with you. If you want to better understand this issue of lust and how to combat it successfully, this 2-part series will help educate and inspire you toward greater personal integrity. For help in overcoming lust, visit 40Days.Bebroken.com.
2018-02-2726 min
Pure Sex RadioThe Problem of Lust -- and How to Overcome It (Part 2)Recently Jonathan Daugherty spoke at a men's conference on the problem of lust and how to overcome it. We want to share this talk with you. If you want to better understand this issue of lust and how to combat it successfully, this 2-part series will help educate and inspire you toward greater personal integrity. For help in overcoming lust, visit 40Days.Bebroken.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio333/donations
2018-02-2726 min
PSR PodcastThe Problem of Lust -- and How to Overcome It (Part 1)Recently Jonathan Daugherty spoke at a men's conference on the problem of lust and how to overcome it. We want to share this talk with you. If you want to better understand this issue of lust and how to combat it successfully, this 2-part series will help educate and inspire you toward greater personal integrity.
For help in overcoming lust, visit 40Days.Bebroken.com.
2018-02-2022 min
Pure Sex RadioThe Problem of Lust -- and How to Overcome It (Part 1)Recently Jonathan Daugherty spoke at a men's conference on the problem of lust and how to overcome it. We want to share this talk with you. If you want to better understand this issue of lust and how to combat it successfully, this 2-part series will help educate and inspire you toward greater personal integrity.
For help in overcoming lust, visit 40Days.Bebroken.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio333/donations
2018-02-2022 min
Pure Sex RadioBest of 2017: God's Design for SexualityThis was our #5 Top Downloaded Podcast for 2017. Originally aired June 24, 2017.
What do Christian Apologetics and sexuality have in common? More than you might imagine! This episode shares a segment of a webinar Jonathan gave for the Apologetics Academy on God's design and purpose for sexuality. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio333/donations
2018-01-2627 min
PSR PodcastBest of 2017: God's Design for SexualityThis was our #5 Top Downloaded Podcast for 2017. Originally aired June 24, 2017.
What do Christian Apologetics and sexuality have in common? More than you might imagine! This episode shares a segment of a webinar Jonathan gave for the Apologetics Academy on God's design and purpose for sexuality.
2018-01-2627 min
Pure Sex RadioWhat to Tell Your Son about SexCo-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)
Understanding sexuality as a teenage boy is challenging. Life is changing fast during those years and temptations are swirling everywhere. How can a young man learn to mature into adulthood with integrity and confidence? In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen share insights to help parents help their sons.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio333/donations
2018-01-2330 min
PSR PodcastWhat to Tell Your Son about SexCo-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)
Understanding sexuality as a teenage boy is challenging. Life is changing fast during those years and temptations are swirling everywhere. How can a young man learn to mature into adulthood with integrity and confidence? In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen share insights to help parents help their sons.
2018-01-2330 min
Pure Sex RadioGod's Message to HusbandsCo-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)
Men, let's be honest. We are good at grumbling and complaining, especially in our marriages. So let's talk about this. Stephen and Jonathan get personal to help you understand how to transform from a self-centered complainer to a man who "loves your wife as Christ loves the church."Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio333/donations
2017-11-0730 min
PSR PodcastGod's Message to HusbandsCo-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com)
Men, let's be honest. We are good at grumbling and complaining, especially in our marriages. So let's talk about this. Stephen and Jonathan get personal to help you understand how to transform from a self-centered complainer to a man who "loves your wife as Christ loves the church."
2017-11-0730 min
Power of Purity | Helping Men to Honor God with their Sexual GiftPOP 73 - Jonathan Daugherty - Part 2Jonathan Daugherty is the founder and director of Be Broken Ministries... Pure Sex Radio... and Gateway To Freedom... which is a three day workshop for men who are seeking to overcome pornography or any other sexual struggle or stronghold. In addition, Jonathan is in demand nationally as a speaker on sexual purity and men's issues. He has appeared on The Oprah Show, twice of ABC's Nightline, as well as other radio and television media, both local and national. He has authored numerous books including... Grace-Based Recovery... The 4 Pillars of Purity... Secrets... and Untangled...among other works. When Jonathan w...
2017-06-2742 min
Power of Purity | Helping Men to Honor God with their Sexual GiftPOP 71 - Jonathan Daugherty - Part 1Jonathan Daugherty is the founder and director of Be Broken Ministries... Pure Sex Radio... and Gateway To Freedom... which is a three day workshop for men who are seeking to overcome pornography or any other sexual struggle or stronghold. In addition, Jonathan is in demand nationally as a speaker on sexual purity and men's issues. He has appeared on The Oprah Show, twice on ABC's Nightline, as well as other radio and television media, both local and national. He has authored numerous books including... Grace-Based Recovery... The 4 Pillars of Purity... Secrets... and Untangled...among other works. When Jona...
2017-06-2030 min
Pure Sex RadioGod's Design for Sexuality
What do Christian Apologetics and sexuality have in common? More than you might imagine! This episode shares a segment of a webinar Jonathan gave for the Apologetics Academy on God's design and purpose for sexuality.
Download the PDF HandoutSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio333/donations
2017-06-1327 min
PSR PodcastGod's Design for Sexuality
What do Christian Apologetics and sexuality have in common? More than you might imagine! This episode shares a segment of a webinar Jonathan gave for the Apologetics Academy on God's design and purpose for sexuality.
Download the PDF Handout
2017-06-1327 min
Pure Sex RadioHope for the AddictedAir Date: May 14, 2016
Practically everyone knows someone who is addicted to something. But few know how to really help their loved ones engage recovery in an effective way. This broadcast is a talk Jonathan gave to a group of men on how to best help those who are addicted to find freedom.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio333/donations
2016-05-1030 min
PSR PodcastHope for the AddictedAir Date: May 14, 2016
Practically everyone knows someone who is addicted to something. But few know how to really help their loved ones engage recovery in an effective way. This broadcast is a talk Jonathan gave to a group of men on how to best help those who are addicted to find freedom.
2016-05-1030 min
Pure Sex RadioSex in the 21st CenturyAir Date: April 16, 2016
This was a talk that Jonathan gave at the Equip Conference in San Antonio on what sexuality is and how we can best manage it in the world in which we live. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio333/donations
2016-04-1230 min
PSR PodcastSex in the 21st CenturyAir Date: April 16, 2016
This was a talk that Jonathan gave at the Equip Conference in San Antonio on what sexuality is and how we can best manage it in the world in which we live.
2016-04-1230 min