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What Would Love Do?THIS BIG Question Is A Sign You Should Keep Trying With Him
THIS BIG Question Is A Sign You Should Keep Trying With Him
A common challenge in dating today is the need for accelerated learning. In midlife, the dating process seems sped up because we’ve heard so many times not to waste time with guys who aren’t aligned with our values, lifestyle, and dreams.
While that IS true, we will always encounter what I call the “ick factor”…something that your partner does that makes you question whether you should stay with him or not.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation...2025-07-1500 minWhat Would Love Do?What's SECRETLY On A Man's Mind When He Likes You
What’s SECRETLY On A Man’s Mind When He Likes You
So many people are in the dating marketplace because they want superficial needs met. You will find those who are looking for a committed relationship but with the easy hookup culture, it’s easier to focus on superficial instead of deep seeded desires.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about identifying for yourself the purpose of a relationship and why you’re dating in the first place.
Let’s talk about…What’s SECRETLY On A Man’s Mind When He Likes You2025-07-1000 minWhat Would Love Do?3 Strong Signs He Wants A Commitment With You
3 Strong Signs He Wants A Commitment With You
In today’s dating world there are a LOT of signs that a guy isn’t ready for a relationship. But I dislike focusing on the negative all the time, so let’s turn the tables and talk about the signs that shows he IS ready for a relationship.
By the time we reach our midlife years, who has the time to waste on dating people who are incapable of having a relationship?
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to know if a guy...2025-07-0500 minWhat Would Love Do?The Longer a Man Is Single, The More He's THIS
The Longer a Man Is Single, The More He’s THIS
So many people are in “situation-ships” because they value the freedom and independence. Without a firm commitment, they can continue living their lives while having a friend with benefits to suit their needs.
Those who are co-dependent also jump from one relationship to the next because they don’t like being alone. Or maybe they bought into the mentality that there must be something wrong with them if they’re single.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how being single for a...2025-07-0100 minWhat Would Love Do?When A Man Loses Love for You, He'll First Do THESE Two Things
When A Man Loses Love for You, He’ll First Do THESE Two Things
Many of us have difficulty expressing our feelings, so it makes sense that we’ll notice changes in a partner’s behavior before we hear the words, “I don’t love you anymore.”
Being present in your relationship and making time to connect on a daily basis will help you notice when/if there are signs of discontent.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about avoiding the pitfalls of a bad relationship and building trust with our person.
2025-06-2800 minWhat Would Love Do?Men Love Women Who Surprisingly Do THIS
Men Love Women Who Surprisingly Do THIS
Should midlife men be expected to pay for everything? It’s one thing to talk about courting a woman and paying for the dates but once that period is over and you decide to commit to one another, is this still expected of men?
We’re talking finances in this episode and the expectations that midlife men and women have about money. Once upon a time the traditional gender roles were the man works full time while the woman stayed home with the kids or worked a pa...2025-06-2400 minWhat Would Love Do?THIS Is Why Men Make Weak Leaders In A Relationship
THIS Is Why Men Make Weak Leaders In A Relationship
Men (and women) of a certain age are very set in their ways. Seldom do they want to veer from what’s comfortable and they fall into the trap of “my way is the only way.”
Staying in that comfort zone, however, prohibits growth and will limit their chances of having a meaningful relationship. I don’t know too many women who want to be with a guy who won’t budge on expanding their interests or making changes to their lifestyle.
This isn...2025-06-2100 minWhat Would Love Do?He Just Went Silent, How Should I React?
He Just Went Silent, How Should I React?
Men go silent for numerous reasons – fear, uncertainty, doubt – and when they go silent, they’re either avoiding or processing their feelings.
You have every right to react when you receive the silent treatment but it’s the HOW you react that can make or break a relationship.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about being true to your feelings and understanding what you want in a relationship.
Let’s talk about…He Just Went Silent, How Should I React?
FREE Discove...2025-06-1400 minWhat Would Love Do?What Men Consider AMAZING Sex | The Truth
What Men Consider AMAZING Sex | The Truth
We’re going to have a spicier conversation today about sex and the emotional connection we have with our body.
A lot of men who approach sex from an ego perspective think they want hot and kinky sex but the reality is, many men simply don’t know what they want – or how to communicate that.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about approaching sex from our hearts instead of just receiving pleasure .
Let’s talk about…What Men Consider AMAZING Sex | The Truth2025-06-1000 minWhat Would Love Do?Strong Signs He's Serious About You And Is Committed To You
Strong Signs He’s Serious About You And Is Committed To You
Commitment looks different when you’re in your midlife years and it’s very different from your 2os and 30s when most people are looking for a spouse and to raise a family.
By the time you reach your 40s, 50s and beyond, you have a fully curated life and you’re looking for someone with equal values whose life can naturally blend with yours.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to recognize commitment from a midlife guy.
2025-06-0700 minWhat Would Love Do?Does He Want You in His Life? Signs a Man Wants to CommitDoes He Want You in His Life? Signs a Man Wants to Commit In this episode I address a comment from one of my YouTube videos in which the viewer thought I was accepting of the men who don’t do any personal development work and they just ‘wing it’. While some men certainly chuckle at […]
The post Does He Want You in His Life? Signs a Man Wants to Commit appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2023-03-011h 06What Would Love Do?Men Who Do THIS Show They Respect YouMen Who Do THIS Show They Respect You Over the years the message of ‘you can’t change a man’ has become more prominent; that’s after YEARS of women thinking their man just needed some kind loving and he’d change into the Prince Charming she always dreamed of. But this thinking goes against everything that a […]
The post Men Who Do THIS Show They Respect You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2023-02-2521 minWhat Would Love Do?Never Pursue a Man, Do this Instead (Get Him to Pursue YOU!)Never Pursue a Man, Do this Instead (Get Him to Pursue YOU!) Pursuing a man comes across as tacky and desperate; there’s no other way to say it. And by pursuing we mean always texting or calling, needing an answer to every text; basically, trying to get a guy’s attention at all costs. This has […]
The post Never Pursue a Man, Do this Instead (Get Him to Pursue YOU!) appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2023-02-211h 07What Would Love Do?3 Weird Ways a Man Shows He Cares About You3 Weird Ways a Man Shows He Cares About You Wouldn’t you agree that men and women ultimately want the same thing? They want companionship and sex. We can argue that the difference begins at how much companionship men want versus women in terms of a relationship but we’re actually after the same goals. But […]
The post 3 Weird Ways a Man Shows He Cares About You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2023-02-1821 minWhat Would Love Do?7 Ways Women Give Their Power Away To A Man (#6 Is The Worst)7 Ways Women Give Their Power Away To A Man Have you ever noticed that in every romance/comedy movie the guy sweeps in to rescue the girl and they fall madly in love? That might be romantic in a fairy tale but in modern times, most women don’t want to fall into that ‘victim’ trap, […]
The post 7 Ways Women Give Their Power Away To A Man (#6 Is The Worst) appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2023-02-141h 19What Would Love Do?Make a Man Miss You Without Playing GamesMake a Man Miss You Without Playing Games Don’t you agree that playing dating games is exhausting? It’s like a massive game of real life “if you do this, then that will happen.” I’ve also heard it compared to playing a game of chess: one person makes a move, then the other, all while trying […]
The post Make a Man Miss You Without Playing Games appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2023-02-1121 minWhat Would Love Do?Top 3 “Reasons” Men Give for Breaking Up (#3 Stings The Most)Top 3 “Reasons” Men Give for Breaking Up (#3 Stings The Most) If you’ve been through a break up, you can probably guess what these 3 reasons are before we even start. But it’s not enough to just hear the phrases men use to break up…we need to dive much deeper into the feelings and […]
The post Top 3 “Reasons” Men Give for Breaking Up appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2023-02-071h 35What Would Love Do?Men Need THIS Before They're Ready To CommitMen Need THIS Before They’re Ready To Commit What’s your definition of ‘commitment’? It will be different for everyone and there’s no wrong or right answer. Some women want a monogamous relationship that offers companionship and connection while others want to get remarried. There are lots of different levels in between these two as well […]
The post Men Need THIS Before They’re Ready To Commit appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2023-02-0416 minWhat Would Love Do?Why Do Men Go Passive After Coming On Strong?Why Do Men Go Passive After Coming On Strong? If you’ve been dating for any amount of time, I’m guessing that you’ve experienced this situation, where a guy comes on strong to woo you and then all but disappears off the face of the earth. You’d think that by the time we reach the midlife […]
The post Why Do Men Go Passive After Coming On Strong? appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2023-01-311h 02What Would Love Do?Make Your Relationship With Him A Success in 2023Make Your Relationship With Him A Success in 2023 It’s a new year and with that comes new possibilities for love and success. My favorite memes for the new year are the photos of a brand new book opened to the first blank page. You alone are the author of your story and I encourage […]
The post Make Your Relationship With Him A Success in 2023 appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2023-01-2829 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Things High-Quality Women NEVER Do With Men5 Things High-Quality Women NEVER Do With Men When you’re in a disagreement with your partner, do you place more importance on getting the issue resolved or on being right? In a new relationship, you might want to be right as you’re testing the waters with a new guy but as a relationship deepens, high-quality […]
The post 5 Things High-Quality Women NEVER Do With Men appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2023-01-2450 minWhat Would Love Do?Why Guys Ignore You When They Like YouWhy Guys Ignore You When They Like You Midlife dating comes with a myriad of emotions, mostly brought on by being unsure of how to navigate this new world. You want to find a partner but also don’t want to get hurt again. You start to question who would make a good partner. Maybe you […]
The post Why Guys Ignore You When They Like You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2023-01-2121 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Things ALL Happy Couples Do Before Falling In Love (#4 Is A Touchy Subject)5 Things ALL Happy Couples Do Before Falling In Love (#4 Is A Touchy Subject) Hollywood has really fooled us into thinking that falling in love happens quickly, almost like a spell is placed on us and we fall for that perfect person and we live happily ever after. Even though we all know it […]
The post 5 Things ALL Happy Couples Do Before Falling In Love (#4 Is A Touchy Subject) appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2023-01-171h 01What Would Love Do?Why Did He DISCARD or USE Me (After He Said I Love You)?Why Did He DISCARD or USE Me (After He Said I Love You)? In today’s society, with so many people wanting instant gratification, relationships are often tossed aside if one person doesn’t get what they want right away. While we don’t want to force a relationship on someone who doesn’t want to be with us, […]
The post Why Did He DISCARD or USE Me (After He Said I Love You)? appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2023-01-1421 minWhat Would Love Do?3 Things Men Rarely Share with Women (Hidden Fears)3 Things Men Rarely Share with Women (Hidden Fears) We all have hidden fears because we’re human but that doesn’t make it any easier to admit to our partners what they are. So, not only do we have these fears but now we’re fearful of sharing with the people who are supposed to care and […]
The post 3 Things Men Rarely Share with Women (Hidden Fears) appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2023-01-1059 minWhat Would Love Do?Men (Over 40) Need THESE 4 Things To CommitMen (Over 40) Need THESE 4 Things To Commit Commitment to a relationship or marriage at any age should not be taken lightly. This next level in a relationship has great meaning and importance but those things differ as you get older. While men in their 20s or 30s might seem to commit earlier in […]
The post Men (Over 40) Need THESE 4 Things To Commit appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2023-01-0721 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Things A Man Will Do When He's Emotionally Attracted (#5 is The Most Important One)5 Things A Man Will Do When He’s Emotionally Attracted (#5 is The Most Important One) When we’re talking about attraction, it’s important to differentiate between PHYSICAL attraction and EMOTIONAL attraction. As you can guess, physical attraction relates to the chemistry we feel with another person. It’s the reaction we feel based on the visual […]
The post 5 Things A Man Will Do When He’s Emotionally Attracted (#5 is The Most Important One) appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2023-01-031h 02What Would Love Do?Is He Right For You? Ask These 4 Questions To KnowIs He Right For You? Ask These 4 Questions To Know We put a lot of pressure on ourselves in these mid-life years, especially when it comes to finding the right partner. Men and women alike figure it must be easier to sort out those potential partners from the riff raff because we have life […]
The post Is He Right For You? Ask These 4 Questions To Know appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-12-3121 minWhat Would Love Do?4 Things Men Wished You Knew (GET INSIDE A GUY'S HEAD)4 Things Men Wished You Knew (GET INSIDE A GUY’S HEAD) I’ve come to the realization that I tend to throw men under the bus when it comes to explaining why relationships don’t work out. So, I just want to clear the air that there ARE great men out there who don’t play games, who […]
The post 4 Things Men Wished You Knew (GET INSIDE A GUY’S HEAD) appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-12-2759 minWhat Would Love Do?How To Tell If He's An Avoidant or Secure ManHow To Tell If He’s An Avoidant or Secure Man We’ve all got biological programming about gender roles in our society. Men grow up thinking that we have to be the protector and provider of our family and women grow up with the idea of being the nurturer and caretaker. While those are still important […]
The post How To Tell If He’s An Avoidant or Secure Man appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-12-2423 minWhat Would Love Do?#1 Reason Why Men Pull Away ~ HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU#1 Reason Why Men Pull Away ~ HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU Many women take things very personally and let their emotions lead their decisions. If they make a mistake at work, they can feel solely responsible, even if it’s a team project. If they don’t get the right item or brand that their […]
The post #1 Reason Why Men Pull Away ~ HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-12-2058 minWhat Would Love Do?Why He's Scared To Commit (Even When He Likes You)Why He’s Scared To Commit (Even When He Likes You) Chemistry is a tricky thing. When you meet someone new, you might feel a pull toward that person; a strong liking that makes you think about them all the time and daydreaming about all the ‘what could be’ scenarios. But over time, those happy chemicals […]
The post Why He’s Scared To Commit (Even When He Likes You) appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-12-1721 minWhat Would Love Do?3 Reasons Why Men Lose Interest (It's Not You)3 Reasons Why Men Lose Interest (It’s Not You) Think about the men you’ve dated or married. Were they all good relationship material? Or were you attached to them for some other reason? Some women even describe being ‘addicted’ to certain men – or a certain type – and today I invite you to dive […]
The post 3 Reasons Why Men Lose Interest (It’s Not You) appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-12-131h 09What Would Love Do?99% of Guys Respect Women Who Know THIS!99% of Guys Respect Women Who Know THIS! Since the beginning of time men have had the ‘hunter’ identity. Men have evolved from literal hunters of food for their families or tribes to now hunting for sex. But does sex alone make a foundation of a relationship? No. So much other dating advice online comes […]
The post 99% of Guys Respect Women Who Know THIS! appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-12-1021 minWhat Would Love Do?6 Ways A Man Shows You He Loves You and He's Serious About Your Relationship6 Ways A Man Shows You He Loves You and He’s Serious About Your Relationship Even if your man is not the best verbal communicator, there are other signs that he’s very serious about your relationship. Those are the actions he takes. Remember that old adage, “Actions speak louder than words”? Actions should not replace […]
The post 6 Ways A Man Shows You He Loves You and He’s Serious About Your Relationship appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-12-061h 00What Would Love Do?How Absence Plays With a Man's EmotionsHow Absence Plays With a Man’s Emotions You’ve heard the phrase, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” There’s actually a lot of truth in that, especially when a relationship is new. Life is exciting when there’s a new person in your life and often you’ll find yourself distracted with thoughts about your next date, when […]
The post How Absence Plays With a Man’s Emotions appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-12-0321 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Secret Thoughts A High-Value Man Has When He's Totally Into You5 Secret Thoughts A High-Value Man Has When He’s Totally Into You High value men are those who are looking for relationships. They don’t want to play the field and bring home a different woman every night. They are looking for the same loving companionship that you are. And they know how to treat a […]
The post 5 Secret Thoughts A High-Value Man Has When He’s Totally Into You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-11-2959 minWhat Would Love Do?Subtle Ways to Make Him Want More With You | DO THIS!Subtle Ways to Make Him Want More With You In today’s dating world of instant gratification, it’s not enough for women to sit back and take a passive role in finding the man of their dreams. In the olden days, it wasn’t proper for women to pursue men but those days are long gone. Even […]
The post Subtle Ways to Make Him Want More With You | DO THIS! appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-11-2621 minWhat Would Love Do?3 Reasons Why Men (Over 40) Are Less Likely To Commit (It's Not You)3 Reasons Why Men (Over 40) Are Less Likely To Commit (It’s Not You) Are you different today from when you were in your 20s? Of course you are! Young people are concerned with settling down and starting a family. Whether marriage is involved in that scenario or not, raising children requires some sort of […]
The post 3 Reasons Why Men (Over 40) Are Less Likely To Commit (It’s Not You) appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-11-2241 minWhat Would Love Do?Men Want THIS Even More Than Sleeping With YouMen Want THIS Even More Than Sleeping With You Even though men and women are different, we both seem to use sex as a way to find love. But is sex really a strong basis for love or developing a relationship? Not usually. Even though I’m not here to preach about when to have sex, […]
The post Men Want THIS Even More Than Sleeping With You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-11-1920 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Things High-Value Women NEVER Do With Men (These Kill His Attraction For You)5 Things High-Value Women NEVER Do With Men (These Kill His Attraction For You) Like it or not, attraction is a huge part of relationships. Yes, we are all so much more than just looks alone, but attraction is what will bring new men into your life. Once the attraction is initiated, then you can […]
The post 5 Things High-Value Women NEVER Do With Men appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-11-1558 minWhat Would Love Do?7 Myths About Men Women Don't Know7 Myths About Men Women Don’t Know Humans are a mysterious species. Just when you think you have that man figured out (or dating, in general) something throws a wrench into what you believed to be true and you’re left questioning why men do the things they do. Hate to tell you but that’s how […]
The post 7 Myths About Men Women Don’t Know appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-11-1222 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Signs He's Emotionally Mature And Ready For Commitment5 Signs He’s Emotionally Mature And Ready For Commitment When we say someone is mature, we’re generally talking about a person’s overall persona. How they present themselves, how they speak, and how they act in social situations. Think of how a young child matures as they get older. They learn life lessons from their parents […]
The post 5 Signs He’s Emotionally Mature and Ready for Commitment appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-11-0858 minWhat Would Love Do?3 Feminine Traits A High-Value Man Finds Irresistible3 Feminine Traits A High-Value Man Finds Irresistible I use the term “high value men” a lot and it simply refers to those men who truly care about women and finding their partner in life. They are the complete opposite of a ‘player’ who just wants to have fun with the first woman he sees. […]
The post 3 Feminine Traits A High-Value Man Finds Irresistible appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-11-0521 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Hidden Insecurities Most Men Feel (But Don't Talk About) That Cause Them To Shut Down5 Hidden Insecurities Most Men Feel (But Don’t Talk About) That Cause Them To Shut Down We all know by now that most men don’t like to talk about their feelings. But we also know that the more women try to convince them to talk, the more they want to shut down and just ignore […]
The post 5 Hidden Insecurities Most Men Feel (But Don’t Talk About) That Cause Them To Shut Down appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-11-011h 05What Would Love Do?How To Get The Guy / A New Strategy for Dating Men Over 40A New Strategy for Dating Men Over 40 Dating is challenging no matter what your age but midlife dating means we have to sort out all the stories that we’ve been telling ourselves over the years (many of which are untrue). And some people don’t believe in personal development, so their stories are sometimes harder […]
The post How To Get The Guy / A New Strategy for Dating Men Over 40 appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-10-2910 minWhat Would Love Do?7 Traits Of Trustworthy Men (What Every Woman MUST KNOW!)7 Traits Of Trustworthy Men (What Every Woman MUST KNOW!) Think of all the relationships in your life. From your family, friends and coworkers. Which relationships work for you and which ones don’t? Can you narrow down one or two reasons why a relationship does NOT work? Did you say trust? Trust in ANY relationship […]
The post 7 Traits Of Trustworthy Men (What Every Woman MUST KNOW!) appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-10-251h 00What Would Love Do?THIS Gets Him to Flirt with You and He’ll Think It Was All His IdeaTHIS Gets Him to Flirt with You and He’ll Think It Was All His Idea As we get older, we tend to get boring. Not everyone of course, but many people fall into a comfort zone with their partner and take them for granted. The early phase of a relationship is always exciting: somebody knew […]
The post THIS Gets Him to Flirt with You and He’ll Think It Was All His Idea appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-10-2210 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Steps To Get A Man To Open Up To You5 Steps To Get A Man To Open Up To You How many of you grew up with brothers, cousins, or friends who were taught that boys don’t cry? For many generations, parents believed that boys (men) were the stronger sex and had to emit a powerful image. If boys of any age dared to […]
The post 5 Steps To Get A Man To Open Up To You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-10-181h 00What Would Love Do?Critical Skill That Makes Him Feel Intensely BondedCritical Skill That Makes Him Feel Intensely Bonded ~ YOU NEED THIS! Both men and women tend to repeat old patterns they learned from their childhoods, especially when it comes to dating and developing relationships. After all, what more do we have than our observations from when we grew up? As adults we can dive […]
The post Critical Skill That Makes Him Feel Intensely Bonded appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-10-1508 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Things High-Quality Men Secretly Crave5 Things High-Quality Men Secretly Crave When I say “high-quality men” I’m describing those men who are looking for more than a one-night stand. These are the men who think like you do, that they’d like to find a nice woman with similar values and enter into a long-term relationship. These are the men who […]
The post 5 Things High-Quality Men Secretly Crave appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-10-111h 02What Would Love Do?8 Things Couples Do Regularly To Ensure GREAT SEX!8 Things Couples Do Regularly To Ensure GREAT SEX! We’ve all heard the stories – or have seen it play out with people we know – who are in long term relationships but they feel like sex is routine. Or maybe you’ve seen parents, aunts/uncles, etc. who are still married but seem like they don’t […]
The post 8 Things Couples Do Regularly To Ensure GREAT SEX! appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-10-0810 minWhat Would Love Do?6 Ways To Understand A Man's Love Commitment Style6 Ways To Understand A Man’s Love Commitment Style Isn’t it fascinating to pull back the layers of human behavior and dissect the reasons for why people behave in a certain way? I know it can get frustrating, especially when you’re ready for a long term relationship TODAY. But understanding how men think about commitment […]
The post 6 Ways To Understand A Man’s Love Commitment Style appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-10-0455 minWhat Would Love Do?4 Days To Meet The Love of Your Life ~ THIS REALLY WORKS!4 Days To Meet The Love of Your Life ~ THIS REALLY WORKS! Many women I’ve coached over the years have a firm definition or description about who the love of their life is. They all want the romantic comedy movie partner who says all the right things to make you swoon with weak knees. […]
The post 4 Days to Meet the Love of Your Life appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-10-0112 minWhat Would Love Do?What To Know About Dating Men Over 40What To Know About Dating Men Over 40 Q&A Oh boy, where to start, right? All joking aside, dating during the midlife years – after baby-making but before retirement – can be challenging. Like it or not, you’ll both have baggage of some sort and usually misconceptions about what makes a strong relationship. Some men […]
The post What To Know About Dating Men Over 40 appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-09-2758 minWhat Would Love Do?Break THIS Behavior to Stop the #1 SILENT Relationship KillerBreak THIS Behavior to Stop the #1 SILENT Relationship Killer If you’re a member of the boomer or GenX generations, then you might be familiar with the idea of “I need you to make me feel good about myself.” That’s how I was raised – whether intentional or not – and it’s a common theme […]
The post Break THIS Behavior to Stop the #1 SILENT Relationship Killer appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-09-2410 minWhat Would Love Do?Why Calling All Men Narcissist Is Backing Firing... HERE'S WHY!Why Calling All Men Narcissist Is Backing Firing… HERE’S WHY! I recently read an article from a medical professional that argued the word “narcissist” is being used so frequently that the true meaning is starting to get blurred. I have also experienced this in my own coaching experience. Of course, there are toxic men walking […]
The post Why Calling All Men Narcissist Is Backing Firing… HERE’S WHY! appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-09-2146 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Warning Signs He's Not Looking For Commitment ~ RED FLAGS EXPOSED5 Warning Signs He’s Not Looking For Commitment ~ RED FLAGS EXPOSED What does it mean to commit? In the dating world, we think about commitment as monogamy and exclusivity which may or may not lead to marriage. But those are really the baseline definitions of ‘commitment’. What does commitment look like to you? There’s […]
The post 5 Warning Signs He’s Not Looking For Commitment ~ RED FLAGS EXPOSED appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-09-1713 minWhat Would Love Do?4 Feminine Habits Men Find WILDLY Attractive4 Feminine Habits Men Find WILDLY Attractive Why is it that when we think about what makes someone more or less attractive, we come up with answers that are based solely on LOOKS? Yes, the physical attraction is likely what you’ll notice first but there’s SO much more to a guy than whether he’s in […]
The post 4 Feminine Habits Men Find WILDLY Attractive appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-09-1348 minWhat Would Love Do?Men Need THIS Before They Can Love YouMen Need THIS Before They Can Love You Have you ever given any thought into what experiences shaped you into the person you are today? Our personalities are formed primarily through our childhood experiences. Up to age 7 or 8, we are little sponges, soaking in every word, nuance, wound, and trauma. As adults, we […]
The post Men Need THIS Before They Can Love You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-09-1020 minWhat Would Love Do?If A Man Is USING YOU, He Will Say or Do These 6 ThingsIf A Man Is USING YOU, He Will Say or Do These 6 Things No one on the planet likes the idea of being used by someone but unfortunately the dating world does have its unscrupulous men who think it’s acceptable to play with women’s emotions. Not ALL men do this, of course, but […]
The post If A Man Is USING YOU, He Will Say or Do These 6 Things appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-09-0654 minWhat Would Love Do?Men (Over 40) Don't Want a Feminine WomanMen (Over 40) Don’t Want a Feminine Woman… Once upon a time it was expected that the woman of the house would stay home with the children and her job was caring for the house and providing meals for her husband. That’s a classic example of ‘feminine energy,’ where the woman is dependent upon the […]
The post Men (Over 40) Don’t Want a Feminine Woman… appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-09-0320 minWhat Would Love Do?4 Ways A Man Shows He Wants A Deep Connection With A Woman4 Ways A Man Shows He Wants A Deep Connection With A Woman In the modern dating world, the atmosphere is much more casual than in the “olden days” when dating had the sole purpose of finding a wife to start a family. Today, it’s perfectly acceptable to date multiple people at the same time […]
The post 4 Ways A Man Shows He Wants A Deep Connection With A Woman appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-08-301h 13What Would Love Do?5 Signs He's Falling Head Over Heels for You5 Signs He’s Falling Head Over Heels for You We all love the idea of falling in love but how many of us really know how to act and show the other person that we love them? The dating market place is rather unstable and many in this marketplace are dysfunctional when it comes to […]
The post 5 Signs He’s Falling Head Over Heels for You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-08-2723 minWhat Would Love Do?Guys Who'll Commit & The Ones Who Won'tGuys Who’ll Commit & The Ones Who Won’t Recently I saw divorce statistics that said the majority of women initiate divorces. If that’s true, then that means more men are committed to staying married, right? If men weren’t committed, they would find a way out and those divorce stats would be different. I know that’s […]
The post Guys Who’ll Commit & The Ones Who Won’t appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-08-2322 minWhat Would Love Do?8 Signs Men Give Before They Cheat (& Most Women Miss)8 Signs Men Give Before They Cheat (& Most Women Miss) Cheating is not something couples want to think about but it’s worth exploring from a how-can-we-prevent-this-from-happening point of view. When you’re in a committed relationship with your partner, you are committed to building a future together. Fidelity is an important component of any relationship […]
The post 8 Signs Men Give Before They Cheat (& Most Women Miss) appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-08-2035 minWhat Would Love Do?Most Important Question To Ask Him Before Sleeping TogetherMost Important Question To Ask Him Before Sleeping Together After my years as a dating coach and human behavior observer, I honestly believe that hookups have replaced the intentional desire for a relationship. So many people are stuck in the immediate gratification that good sex can give them and they move from partner to partner […]
The post Most Important Question To Ask Him Before Sleeping Together appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-08-1622 minWhat Would Love Do?Men Respect Women When THIS HappensMen Respect Women When THIS Happens Many women (not all) have fallen into the common pattern of blaming men for whatever is not going right in their lives. Everything from ‘there are no good men to date’ to ‘my boss has it out for me’. While it may feel good to have a scapegoat to […]
The post Men Respect Women When THIS Happens appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-08-1320 minWhat Would Love Do?Red Flag Phrases Emotionally Unavailable Men Tell WomenRed Flag Phrases Emotionally Unavailable Men Tell Women If you have followed me for any length of time, you know that I talk about emotional availability quite often. What seems like a simple concept is actually quite complex and it can make or break a relationship. When a man is emotionally available or emotionally mature, […]
The post Red Flag Phrases Emotionally Unavailable Men Tell Women appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-08-0951 min
Relationships Are UnderratedAre You Talking Too Little Or Too Much With Your Partner?I got a DM from a listener whose girlfriend wants to text him all day and he wants to know how much is too much and what the best amount is. So we'll go over how often to keep in touch with your SO to keep the desire alive based on your living situation and type of communication.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a v...2022-08-0743 minWhat Would Love Do?When He Misses You, It Means These 3 ThingsWhen He Misses You, It Means These 3 Things I’m not gonna lie…men only hunt for their next sexual partner. Men are NOT hunting for a relationship. If they learn from others in their life how to have a monogamous relationship, then that’s the best of both worlds – finding a sexual partner who satisfies […]
The post When He Misses You, It Means These 3 Things appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-08-0622 minWhat Would Love Do?When He Pulls Away Then Comes Back, Keep This in MindWhen He Pulls Away Then Comes Back, Keep This in Mind Which group do you fall into: Group 1, where you lean back and enjoy your dating journey and see where things go. Or Group 2, where you worry about every little nuance of the dating process. There’s no right or wrong answer; it’s more of […]
The post When He Pulls Away Then Comes Back, Keep This in Mind appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-08-0219 minWhat Would Love Do?He’ll Never Step Up or Choose You if You Keep Doing ThisHe’ll Never Step Up or Choose You if You Keep Doing This Do you ever get tired of making decisions? Between your work, friends, and children, I’ll bet by the end of the day you don’t want anybody calling your name or asking you to make one more decision. The same is true of guys, […]
The post He’ll Never Step Up or Choose You if You Keep Doing This appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-07-301h 02What Would Love Do?3 Feminine Traits a High Value Man Finds Irresistible3 Feminine Traits a High Value Man Finds Irresistible Let’s talk about masculine and feminine energy for a moment. If you’re a longtime follower of mine, you know I don’t like the typical rhetoric surrounding these words when it comes to ‘energy.’ That’s because these different energies are often portrayed as being negative. However, let’s […]
The post 3 Feminine Traits a High Value Man Finds Irresistible appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-07-2621 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Secret Thoughts a High Value Man Has When He’s Totally Into You5 Secret Thoughts a High Value Man Has When He’s Totally Into You I tend to give men a hard time when it comes to dating because many men (not all!) are just bad dates. This tends to come from the way they were raised, often with the understanding that “boys don’t cry” or “men […]
The post 5 Secret Thoughts a High Value Man Has When He’s Totally Into You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-07-231h 15What Would Love Do?Make Him Miss You (You’ve Never Heard this Before)Make Him Miss You (You’ve Never Heard this Before) Get ready…you might not like what I have to say on this topic. If two people genuinely like each other and have respect for each other’s values, there’s no need to play the game of “making” him miss you. This strikes me as very manipulative, whether […]
The post Make Him Miss You (You’ve Never Heard this Before) appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-07-1922 minWhat Would Love Do?4 Obvious Signs He’ll Never Commit…Even if He Loves YouObvious Signs He’ll Never Commit…Even if He Loves You I’m going to make a generalization here that I find to be true based on my own dating experiences and with coaching clients: Women tend to view love from the fantasy or soap opera perspective. They think the man will ride in on a white horse, […]
The post Obvious Signs He’ll Never Commit…Even if He Loves You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-07-1650 minWhat Would Love Do?When is the Right Time to Sleep with a Guy?When is the Right Time to Sleep with a Guy? This seems to be an age-old question that never has a good or right answer. And it really depends on which perspective you have. If you enjoy the hook up or one-night stand culture, then you’ll argue it’s perfectly fine to have sex on the […]
The post When is the Right Time to Sleep with a Guy? appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-07-1219 min
Relationships Are UnderratedHow To Navigate Intense Emotions In "The Honeymoon Phase"The Honeymoon Phase of a relationship is an exciting, emotional and also risky place to be. When your mind is overwhelmed with emotions and lust, logic and self-awareness tend to go by the wayside so it's important to reign yourself in and avoid making serious decisions too soon.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-0025“What The Heck Is Self-Love Any...2022-07-1045 minWhat Would Love Do?This Type of Pain Gets a Guy Addicted to YouThis Type of Pain Gets a Guy Addicted to You Are you tired of playing dating games? So many people – dating coaches included – think playing games will give you some insight into how a person feels about you. One of my contemporaries even suggested that you create conflict before your first date to […]
The post This Type of Pain Gets a Guy Addicted to You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.2022-07-0956 min
Relationships Are UnderratedIs Your Relationship Marriage Worthy?Whether or not to marry your girlfriend is one of the most important decisions you will make in your life. So let's discuss how to know if she is wife material, if you are husband material and if getting married is a good idea or not so you don't become another divorce statistic.MORE RESOURCES “8 Dates” - https://amzn.to/3IRT7u3Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLea...2022-06-0649 min
Relationships Are UnderratedIntroducing Your Relationship To Family & FriendsYour community and family both help to keep your relationship strong and give it the best chance of lasting. But these days, personal connections are at their lowest. So we'll go over the roles people play, how to impress new family, and how long to wait to introduce to children.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-00252022-05-3042 min
Relationships Are UnderratedTalking About Having Kids With Your PartnerWhether or not you want to have kids, how many you want to have, when to have them, and how to raise them, are important talks to have with your partner before things happen. We'll discuss these and more so you enter parenthood prepared and committed, not naive and dysfunctional.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-00252022-05-2350 min
Relationships Are UnderratedIs It A Relationship Or Are We Just Hanging Out? Part 2One of the most painful experiences you can have is being in a situationship that you hope will become long-term but your partner does not. So let's discuss how to ask where you're going, what to do if they're not into you and the best way to find someone on the same page as you.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-00252022-05-1949 min
Relationships Are UnderratedIs It A Relationship Or Are We Just Hanging Out? Part 1It can be confusing and even heartbreaking when you and the person you're dating are on different pages with your relationship and what you want. So we'll go over how to be clear on your relationship, how to say what you want and don't want and how long to wait before having sex.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/“8 Dates” - https://amzn.to/3IRT7u3Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLea...2022-05-1657 min
Relationships Are UnderratedHow Vulnerable Should You Be In A Relationship?Women say they want men to be more vulnerable, but do they really? Will sharing your real feelings cause her to lose attraction or will it deepen your connection? We go over the pros & cons of being vulnerable with women so you can be your true self while being the man she wants.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-00252022-05-1259 min
Relationships Are Underrated"We Need To Talk" Bringing Up Hard Conversations In A RelationshipMost people try to avoid difficult conversations at all costs. But to have the type of relationship most people envy, then it is critical that you learn how to bring up and resolve touchy subjects with your partner. You'll also learn a much better way of saying "we need to talk".MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-0025“Nonviolent Communication” - htt...2022-05-0951 min
Relationships Are UnderratedHow To Keep A Relationship Interesting (Keep the SPARK Alive)Most people settle for mediocrity in their relationships, sitting on opposite ends of the couch, and staring at their phones in silence. This is for those who want a relationship that is jovial and stimulating. You'll learn how to eliminate apathy and have a "friendship on fire".MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/“The 7 Principles For Making Marriage Work” - https://amzn.to/38NH84uSend us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave...2022-05-0548 min
Relationships Are UnderratedThe Need For Couples To Have “Play Time”A relationship that makes you feel happy to be alive and creates joyous moments from "the little things" is one where you have a true friendship with your partner. You'll learn how to create this by playing, being authentic, and bringing out your inner kid that laughs and smiles.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-00252022-05-0221 min
Relationships Are UnderratedIs There Such A Thing As Healthy Jealousy?Jealousy can ruin your experience of an otherwise happy relationship and if expressed immaturely it can even end it. So we'll cover the root causes of jealousy, the source of abandonment issues, and how to prevent the green eyed monster from roaming free and ruining a good thing.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-00252022-04-2848 min
Relationships Are UnderratedWhat Causes Breakups & Divorces?We discuss some of the most common reasons people give for their breakup or divorce, how to communicate more effectively with your partner when they occur, how to avoid most of these problems in the first place, and how to identify patterns in yourself that can lead to a breakup.MORE RESOURCES Link to article - https://bit.ly/3K7DrEs“7 Principles Making Marriage Work” - https://amzn.to/3j0hJ9m“Nonviolent Communication” - https://amzn.to/36GikL9Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn m...2022-04-2556 min
Relationships Are UnderratedPros & Cons Of Interfaith RelationshipsHaving different views around religion, spirituality, and routines can obviously cause problems in a relationship. But even if you and your partner have different faiths, you can still have the type of relationship where you're growing together and not living in different worlds.MORE RESOURCES “Return To Love” - https://amzn.to/3iXTAR6“The Daily Stoic” - https://amzn.to/3J5cmQS“8 Dates” - https://amzn.to/3IRT7u3Link to article - https://bit.ly/3LyVAvcLearn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more...2022-04-2150 min
Relationships Are UnderratedThe Money Talk That Every Couple Needs To HaveWhen you talk about money with your partner, what it symbolizes to you, and the different ways value is created in your relationship, you can let go of your past script around money and write a new one together so you can meet your financial goals and live the lifestyle you want.MORE RESOURCES “8 Dates” - https://amzn.to/3IRT7u3Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave...2022-04-1856 min
Relationships Are UnderratedSex In The RelationshipSexless relationships are depressing, lack of sex causes arguments, and the best reliever of stress is good sex. Which is why talking about it, sharing your preferences, and even scheduling it are crucial if you want to have a relationship that is healthy, intimate, and exciting.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-00252022-04-1451 min
Relationships Are UnderratedDoes Your Relationship Have TRUST?Unshakeable trust between you and your partner is the foundation of a sustaining and fulfilling relationship. But rarely do couples discuss this issue before there's a problem. We'll talk about how to be trustworthy, share your expectations, and repair trust that has been broken.MORE RESOURCES “8 Dates” - https://amzn.to/3IRT7u3Link to article - https://qbq.com/18-ways-to-destroy-trust/Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.com...2022-04-1149 min
Relationships Are UnderratedLong-Distance Relationships: Are They Worth It?Long distance relationships have few upsides and many downsides. We'll discuss what qualifies as a LDR, the inherent challenges they come with, and 2 things you must have in place if you want your LDR to survive the distance and one day become a happy and fulfilling relationship.MORE RESOURCES Link to Article: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Long-distance_relationshipLearn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a...2022-04-0141 min
Relationships Are UnderratedWhen Should Couples Move In Together?Moving in together is one of the biggest and riskiest steps you can take in a relationship. And if taken lightly, things can quickly lead to conflict and fighting. So let's go over reasons not to move in, topics you should discuss beforehand and how long is the best time to wait.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-00252022-04-0144 min
Relationships Are UnderratedWhat The Heck Is A Relationship?When you get clear about the purpose of your relationship, the roles that each person will play, and the direction you want to go, that is when your relationship will help you and your partner get closer to self-actualization, heal childhood wounds, and be happy in the long term.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/“Nonviolent Communication” - https://amzn.to/36GikL9“The Untethered Soul” - https://amzn.to/3tVAl0t“8 Dates” - https://amz...2022-04-0156 min
Relationships Are UnderratedHow Technology Affects CouplesThe way you use technology can make your relationship stronger by bringing you and your partner closer. It can also be distracting and cause problems in your relationship. We'll go over positive and negative effects of tech, and how to use it to help the two of you grow together.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-00252022-03-3150 min
Relationships Are UnderratedAre Relationships Underrated?Welcome to the first episode of the Relationships Are Underrated Podcast! Your hosts are dating coach for men, Tripp Kramer, and dating coach for women, Jonathon Aslay. You'll learn the tools you need to create a fundamentally happy, emotionally safe, and drama free relationship.MORE RESOURCES “8 Dates” - https://amzn.to/3IRT7u3“Getting The Love You Want” - https://amzn.to/3qRy2tH“Attached” - https://amzn.to/3qP6m8HLearn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.j...2022-03-3144 min