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What Would Love Do?If A Man Has THIS He's More Likely To Fall In Love
If A Man Has THIS He’s More Likely To Fall In Love
What types of men are you finding out in the dating world? Are they looking for a long-term commitment? Or are they just looking to fill a temporary void in their lives?
There are 3 general categories that people fall into when it comes to relationships and YOU get to decide which one you want in your life.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why chemistry does NOT equal relationship success and what it means to be a “grower...
2025-11-1800 minWhat Would Love Do?Dating Is Hard, But Love Is Easy
Dating Is Hard, But Love Is Easy
The whole dating process has changed considerably over the years and you’d think with the advent of dating apps, that dating would be easier, right?
Dating is hard, I’m not going to sugar coat it. But so is losing weight or quitting smoking and I think we can agree that those are worthwhile goals.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about being consistent in the dating process and how to find fun in dating instead of letting it wear you down.
Let’...
2025-11-1100 minWhat Would Love Do?Do THIS to Manifest an Amazing Man to Love
Do THIS to Manifest an Amazing Man to Love
I’m pleased to have my friend, author and life coach Marni Battista, on this episode today and we’re here to share a secret…
There are good men to date all around you.
There’s no secret island where they’re all kept. They are not in fear of extinction.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how dating is so much more than strategies and which dating apps are the best.
Let’s talk about…Do THIS to Manifest...
2025-11-0800 minWhat Would Love Do?Why Healthy Love Can Feel So Boring
Why Healthy Love Can Feel So Boring
Insecure love often feels like a roller coaster, with plenty of highs and lows. Healthy love is steady and safe, like floating on a still pond.
Without drama and emotional turmoil, healthy love might feel boring, especially if you have bought into the idea that intense chemistry equals a strong relationship.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how healthy love allows you to find peace and grow emotionally while feeling safe and secure.
Let’s talk about…Why Healthy Love Can Feel S...
2025-11-0100 minWhat Would Love Do?9 Keys To An Intentional Approach To Love
9 Keys to an Intentional Approach to Love
How many times in the past have you experienced taking your partner for granted? Or maybe it was reversed, where you thought your partner was just along for a ride instead of really deepening your relationship.
Being intentional is how you will find the partner and relationship that you desire.
It’s not about going through the motions of dating; it’s about knowing in your soul what you want in life and learning how to express that to the men you meet in the...
2025-10-2800 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Feminine Skills That Instantly Turns A Man On
5 Feminine Skills That Instantly Turns a Man On
Think back to your childhood. I bet you were raised with the traditional gender roles of the men are hunters and the women are nurturers. Also included in that narrative was the idea that men shouldn’t show emotions or they would be labeled a ‘sissy’.
When you throw in socialization, cultural and religious differences, it’s no wonder so many of us grew up not knowing what a healthy relationship looked like!
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how our old scripts fr...
2025-10-2300 minWhat Would Love Do?If He Does THESE Things He's Serious About Commitment
If He Does THESE Things He’s Serious About Commitment
Dating is about possibility and exploring a relationship is about potential.
So many people focus on the level of attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical attraction while dating instead of thinking about the possibility of having a relationship with this person.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to change your focus about dating if you really want a long term relationship.
Let’s talk about…If He Does THESE Things He’s Serious About Commitment
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2025-10-1800 minWhat Would Love Do?What a Man Does When He’s Truly Into You
What a Man Does When He’s Truly Into You
Today I’m joined by my dear friend, Bob Grant, and we’re chatting about men’s behavior and how they act in different stages of a relationship.
For example, some men come across as very intense at the beginning of a relationship, which can lead to love bombing but will eventually fizzle out.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to understand behaviors based on intense chemistry versus real feelings of trust and love.
Let’s talk about…What a...
2025-10-1400 minWhat Would Love Do?Women Criticize Men For THIS | Here's Why
Women Criticize Men For THIS | Here’s Why
How can you create a long lasting relationship when you don’t necessarily trust yourself?
Your chances are much better if you do the work to heal old wounds, practice self-love, and learn how to be present in your own life.
My friend Barry Selby is here to explore this concept of emotional intelligence and why some men run away.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why women don’t trust men who run away emotionally and how to stop that run...
2025-10-0700 minWhat Would Love Do?How To Communicate With A Man | 7 Must-Have Tips
How To Communicate With A Man | 7 Must-Have Tips
Communication is a key factor in having a successful and meaningful relationship yet in some ways it seems like the older we get, the less we want to share.
It’s almost like we’ve barely evolved past the grunting stages of the cavemen era!
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why people are afraid to speak their truth or fear that their communication style is dysfunctional.
Let’s talk about…How To Communicate With A Man | 7 Must-Have Tips
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2025-09-3000 minWhat Would Love Do?How To Tell A Man WHAT YOU WANT From HimHow To Tell A Man WHAT YOU WANT From Him Even though you might think most men are poor communicators, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try to open up those lines so you feel heard. Too many times a situation or disagreement may arise (and not always serious) where the communication drops off or an […]
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2023-05-301h 03What Would Love Do?Why Guys Go Silent and What To Do About It...Why Guys Go Silent and What To Do About It… You’d think that with the advent of smartphones that communication would get easier but in many ways, today’s technology makes it easier to AVOID real communication. People easily claim that they missed a text or they can decline a phone call. Before we can resolve […]
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2023-05-2720 minWhat Would Love Do?Does Your Masculine Energy Scare Men Off?Don’t Chase…Do THIS Instead! What are your definitions of masculine and feminine energy? Many people (Marie included!) relate the types of energy to traditional gender roles. For instance, they think masculine energy is related to being the hunter/gatherer/provider whereas feminine energy is related to being the nurturer and caregiver. I can understand why you might […]
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2023-05-231h 05What Would Love Do?7 Things Men Do When They’re Extremely Attracted to You7 Things Men Do When They’re Extremely Attracted to You Believe it or not, when men are attracted to a woman, they don’t necessarily make obvious moves. Of course, there ARE the guys who will fawn all over a woman, feeling the need to invade their personal space or give unwanted touches. But there are […]
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2023-05-2020 minWhat Would Love Do?Men are Very Attracted to Women Who Don’t TryMen are Very Attracted to Women Who Don’t Try I’d like you to think about this title and idea in two different ways. First, think about a woman who doesn’t go overboard with trying to impress a man. She’s confident in who she is and doesn’t feel the need to play games or ‘hard to […]
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2023-05-1755 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Feminine Ways to Keep a Man's Interest **Game Changer**5 Feminine Ways to Keep a Man’s Interest **Game Changer** So many people in the midlife dating world think women have to embrace their feminine energy and men have all the masculine energy. While there’s truth to the idea that EVERYONE has an energetic makeup, it really takes two PEOPLE to connect and to determine […]
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2023-05-1320 minWhat Would Love Do?If You Want More From A Man, Do THESE 6 ThingsIf You Want More From A Man, Do THESE 6 Things Divorce has really made men gun shy when it comes to meeting women and creating relationships. Not every divorce is contentious and not every ex-wife is a nightmare but depending on the severity of the experience, it can take men awhile to feel comfortable […]
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2023-05-091h 19What Would Love Do?Why Men (Over 40) CHOOSE One Woman Over ANOTHERWhy Men (Over 40) CHOOSE One Woman Over ANOTHER In today’s dating world, it’s quite common for men and women to date multiple people at the same time. While you might question how do you get to know someone if there’s always another person hanging in the background, many midlife people are tired of wasting […]
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2023-05-0622 minWhat Would Love Do?Truth Behind WHY He Won’t Commit to You | Common ExcusesTruth Behind WHY He Won’t Commit to You | Common Excuses As humans we can ALL come up with excuses for not doing something. I don’t have time to exercise. I don’t know how to cook so I eat out every night. No one is hiring so I’m stuck in this dead end job. Sound […]
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2023-05-021h 07What Would Love Do?Get More From A Man | Don't Chase, DO THIS InsteadGet More From A Man | Don’t Chase, DO THIS Instead So many women come to me with deep frustration over the dating world, mostly complaining about how inept men seem to be. Piled on top of ineptitude is the conflicting advice of other experts who ALL have different takes on dating. So, between the […]
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2023-04-2924 minWhat Would Love Do?Want More Than A Situationship? DON'T CHASE HIM; Do THIS InsteadWant More Than A Situationship? DON’T CHASE HIM; Do THIS Instead Are you in a real relationship or a situationship? If you haven’t heard this word before, it refers to ambiguous relationships. For example, if you’re unsure of where your relationship is going or if you think you’re being monogamous but aren’t sure, that’s a […]
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2023-04-251h 06What Would Love Do?6 Feminine Habits Men Find WILDLY Attractive6 Feminine Habits Men Find WILDLY Attractive I’m still amazed that there are some factions of the male world who believe women are most attractive when they are subservient to the man in their life. GARBAGE! What rock do these guys live under? If you’ve followed me for any length of time, you’ll know that […]
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2023-04-2219 minWhat Would Love Do?The No. 1 Reason a Man SUDDENLY COMMITS To YouThe No. 1 Reason a Man SUDDENLY COMMITS To You Midlife men are often non-committal, usually because they’ve been burned in the past from a harsh break up or a divorce. And at times you might have felt that way as well based on your own past experiences. However, you can build the solid foundation […]
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2023-04-181h 13What Would Love Do?6 Ways A Man (Over 40) SHOWS His Love To You6 Ways A Man (Over 40) SHOWS His Love To You You know that old saying, “Actions speak louder than words”? With a lot of midlife men, especially those who are not the best conversationalists, they often find that it’s easier to show you how they feel than to talk about it. This could be […]
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2023-04-1518 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Signs the Man You’re With is a Keeper5 Signs the Man You’re With is a Keeper Sometimes it’s hard to tell if a guy you like is just going through the motions of dating in the hopes of getting sex or if he’s really a candidate for a long term relationship. This is especially true if you’ve been doing a lot of […]
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2023-04-1156 minWhat Would Love Do?What Causes Guys to Breadcrumb a WomanWhat Causes Guys to Breadcrumb a Woman There are 3 types of men in the dating world: Intentional Men go into the dating process knowing they want a companion and a relationship. Unintentional Men are often known as ‘players’ who have NO intention of getting into a relationship; they just want the fun and the […]
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2023-04-0819 minWhat Would Love Do?Meeting the Right Man Gets Easier When You Do These 4 ThingsMeeting the Right Man Gets Easier When You Do These 4 Things I never want to imply that dating is easy or that finding your perfect mate is easy. You’ve been in this dating pool long enough to know it’s not easy and it can be downright frustrating at times. BUT when you understand male […]
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2023-04-041h 06What Would Love Do?Guys Over 40 Need THESE 5 Things To Commit (Without THEM Your Relationship Will Fail)Guys Over 40 Need THESE 5 Things To Commit (Without THEM Your Relationship Will Fail) One would think that after a certain age, we would all know what makes a strong relationship last throughout the years. Unfortunately, we humans get so stuck in our ways – or we think that relationships should be common sense […]
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2023-04-0121 minWhat Would Love Do?When a Guy Falls in Love to Fast & Other Things to Look ForWhen a Guy Falls in Love to Fast & Other Things to Look For Men’s and women’s feelings rarely develop at the same speed and that can cause some confusion between the couple, especially if the guy declares his love before his partner. Once those words are spoken, the relationship naturally jumps to another level […]
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2023-03-281h 08What Would Love Do?How A Guy Knows You're The OneHow A Guy Knows You’re The One Is there really such a thing as ‘love at first sight’? Sometimes people will feel that way when it’s really LUST at first sight. But then there are others who know within weeks or months of meeting that they want to be exclusive or married – that THIS […]
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2023-03-2521 minWhat Would Love Do?7 Undeniable Signs He's in Love with You7 Undeniable Signs He’s in Love with You How do you reconnect with your guy after a long week? Do you take time each month to spend the day doing things that are important to you while talking about life’s joys and problems? Reconnecting is so important because it’s very easy to get distracted with […]
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2023-03-2154 minWhat Would Love Do?Never Wait For A Guy, Even If He's Very Busy...Do THIS InsteadNever Wait For A Guy, Even If He’s Very Busy…Do THIS Instead An important part of being in a long term relationship is having the same goals…or at least being on the same page with what you both want in life and in a relationship. When one person claims they’re “too busy” or gives off […]
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2023-03-1820 minWhat Would Love Do?How to Tell if He's in Love...If a Man Deeply Loves You, He will Do these 3 Things!If a Man Deeply Loves You, He will Do these 3 Things! Ladies…do you agree that everyday should be Valentine’s Day? Is showing your love for your partner really limited to this one day? Certainly not. If you love and respect someone, I encourage you to let them know in some way, every single day. […]
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2023-03-1453 minWhat Would Love Do?Confusing Things Men Say | What They Really MeanConfusing Things Men Say | What They Really Mean In this age of technology, you’d think that we humans would be much better at communication. Dare I say, we’ve gotten worse! Communication prior to smartphones would require actually SPEAKING to another person and problem solving with them in the room or over the phone but […]
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2023-03-1125 minWhat Would Love Do?Love is About Timing...Men are Ready to Commit at This TimeMen are Ready to Commit at THIS Time When you really sit and think about the dating process, it’s a miracle people get together at all because the timing literally has to be right for both people. Not only do two people need to WANT a relationship but there needs to be no significant life […]
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2023-03-071h 12What Would Love Do?Guys Will Adore You When THIS HappensGuys Will Adore You When THIS Happens I don’t have to tell you that the dating marketplace has changed significantly over the last several years. My clients tell me all the time that they feel frustrated, disposable, and sad that they can’t find an emotionally healthy man who wants a long term relationship. One thing […]
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2023-03-0420 minWhat Would Love Do?Does He Want You in His Life? Signs a Man Wants to CommitDoes He Want You in His Life? Signs a Man Wants to Commit In this episode I address a comment from one of my YouTube videos in which the viewer thought I was accepting of the men who don’t do any personal development work and they just ‘wing it’. While some men certainly chuckle at […]
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2023-03-011h 06What Would Love Do?Men Who Do THIS Show They Respect YouMen Who Do THIS Show They Respect You Over the years the message of ‘you can’t change a man’ has become more prominent; that’s after YEARS of women thinking their man just needed some kind loving and he’d change into the Prince Charming she always dreamed of. But this thinking goes against everything that a […]
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2023-02-2521 minWhat Would Love Do?Never Pursue a Man, Do this Instead (Get Him to Pursue YOU!)Never Pursue a Man, Do this Instead (Get Him to Pursue YOU!) Pursuing a man comes across as tacky and desperate; there’s no other way to say it. And by pursuing we mean always texting or calling, needing an answer to every text; basically, trying to get a guy’s attention at all costs. This has […]
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2023-02-211h 07What Would Love Do?3 Weird Ways a Man Shows He Cares About You3 Weird Ways a Man Shows He Cares About You Wouldn’t you agree that men and women ultimately want the same thing? They want companionship and sex. We can argue that the difference begins at how much companionship men want versus women in terms of a relationship but we’re actually after the same goals. But […]
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2023-02-1821 minWhat Would Love Do?7 Ways Women Give Their Power Away To A Man (#6 Is The Worst)7 Ways Women Give Their Power Away To A Man Have you ever noticed that in every romance/comedy movie the guy sweeps in to rescue the girl and they fall madly in love? That might be romantic in a fairy tale but in modern times, most women don’t want to fall into that ‘victim’ trap, […]
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2023-02-141h 19What Would Love Do?Make a Man Miss You Without Playing GamesMake a Man Miss You Without Playing Games Don’t you agree that playing dating games is exhausting? It’s like a massive game of real life “if you do this, then that will happen.” I’ve also heard it compared to playing a game of chess: one person makes a move, then the other, all while trying […]
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2023-02-1121 minWhat Would Love Do?Top 3 “Reasons” Men Give for Breaking Up (#3 Stings The Most)Top 3 “Reasons” Men Give for Breaking Up (#3 Stings The Most) If you’ve been through a break up, you can probably guess what these 3 reasons are before we even start. But it’s not enough to just hear the phrases men use to break up…we need to dive much deeper into the feelings and […]
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2023-02-071h 35What Would Love Do?Men Need THIS Before They're Ready To CommitMen Need THIS Before They’re Ready To Commit What’s your definition of ‘commitment’? It will be different for everyone and there’s no wrong or right answer. Some women want a monogamous relationship that offers companionship and connection while others want to get remarried. There are lots of different levels in between these two as well […]
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2023-02-0416 minWhat Would Love Do?Why Do Men Go Passive After Coming On Strong?Why Do Men Go Passive After Coming On Strong? If you’ve been dating for any amount of time, I’m guessing that you’ve experienced this situation, where a guy comes on strong to woo you and then all but disappears off the face of the earth. You’d think that by the time we reach the midlife […]
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2023-01-311h 02What Would Love Do?Make Your Relationship With Him A Success in 2023Make Your Relationship With Him A Success in 2023 It’s a new year and with that comes new possibilities for love and success. My favorite memes for the new year are the photos of a brand new book opened to the first blank page. You alone are the author of your story and I encourage […]
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2023-01-2829 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Things High-Quality Women NEVER Do With Men5 Things High-Quality Women NEVER Do With Men When you’re in a disagreement with your partner, do you place more importance on getting the issue resolved or on being right? In a new relationship, you might want to be right as you’re testing the waters with a new guy but as a relationship deepens, high-quality […]
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2023-01-2450 minWhat Would Love Do?Why Guys Ignore You When They Like YouWhy Guys Ignore You When They Like You Midlife dating comes with a myriad of emotions, mostly brought on by being unsure of how to navigate this new world. You want to find a partner but also don’t want to get hurt again. You start to question who would make a good partner. Maybe you […]
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2023-01-2121 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Things ALL Happy Couples Do Before Falling In Love (#4 Is A Touchy Subject)5 Things ALL Happy Couples Do Before Falling In Love (#4 Is A Touchy Subject) Hollywood has really fooled us into thinking that falling in love happens quickly, almost like a spell is placed on us and we fall for that perfect person and we live happily ever after. Even though we all know it […]
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2023-01-171h 01What Would Love Do?Why Did He DISCARD or USE Me (After He Said I Love You)?Why Did He DISCARD or USE Me (After He Said I Love You)? In today’s society, with so many people wanting instant gratification, relationships are often tossed aside if one person doesn’t get what they want right away. While we don’t want to force a relationship on someone who doesn’t want to be with us, […]
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2023-01-1421 minWhat Would Love Do?3 Things Men Rarely Share with Women (Hidden Fears)3 Things Men Rarely Share with Women (Hidden Fears) We all have hidden fears because we’re human but that doesn’t make it any easier to admit to our partners what they are. So, not only do we have these fears but now we’re fearful of sharing with the people who are supposed to care and […]
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2023-01-1059 minWhat Would Love Do?Men (Over 40) Need THESE 4 Things To CommitMen (Over 40) Need THESE 4 Things To Commit Commitment to a relationship or marriage at any age should not be taken lightly. This next level in a relationship has great meaning and importance but those things differ as you get older. While men in their 20s or 30s might seem to commit earlier in […]
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2023-01-0721 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Things A Man Will Do When He's Emotionally Attracted (#5 is The Most Important One)5 Things A Man Will Do When He’s Emotionally Attracted (#5 is The Most Important One) When we’re talking about attraction, it’s important to differentiate between PHYSICAL attraction and EMOTIONAL attraction. As you can guess, physical attraction relates to the chemistry we feel with another person. It’s the reaction we feel based on the visual […]
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2023-01-031h 02What Would Love Do?Is He Right For You? Ask These 4 Questions To KnowIs He Right For You? Ask These 4 Questions To Know We put a lot of pressure on ourselves in these mid-life years, especially when it comes to finding the right partner. Men and women alike figure it must be easier to sort out those potential partners from the riff raff because we have life […]
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2022-12-3121 minWhat Would Love Do?4 Things Men Wished You Knew (GET INSIDE A GUY'S HEAD)4 Things Men Wished You Knew (GET INSIDE A GUY’S HEAD) I’ve come to the realization that I tend to throw men under the bus when it comes to explaining why relationships don’t work out. So, I just want to clear the air that there ARE great men out there who don’t play games, who […]
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2022-12-2759 minWhat Would Love Do?How To Tell If He's An Avoidant or Secure ManHow To Tell If He’s An Avoidant or Secure Man We’ve all got biological programming about gender roles in our society. Men grow up thinking that we have to be the protector and provider of our family and women grow up with the idea of being the nurturer and caretaker. While those are still important […]
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2022-12-2423 minWhat Would Love Do?#1 Reason Why Men Pull Away ~ HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU#1 Reason Why Men Pull Away ~ HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU Many women take things very personally and let their emotions lead their decisions. If they make a mistake at work, they can feel solely responsible, even if it’s a team project. If they don’t get the right item or brand that their […]
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2022-12-2058 minWhat Would Love Do?Why He's Scared To Commit (Even When He Likes You)Why He’s Scared To Commit (Even When He Likes You) Chemistry is a tricky thing. When you meet someone new, you might feel a pull toward that person; a strong liking that makes you think about them all the time and daydreaming about all the ‘what could be’ scenarios. But over time, those happy chemicals […]
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2022-12-1721 minWhat Would Love Do?3 Reasons Why Men Lose Interest (It's Not You)3 Reasons Why Men Lose Interest (It’s Not You) Think about the men you’ve dated or married. Were they all good relationship material? Or were you attached to them for some other reason? Some women even describe being ‘addicted’ to certain men – or a certain type – and today I invite you to dive […]
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2022-12-131h 09What Would Love Do?99% of Guys Respect Women Who Know THIS!99% of Guys Respect Women Who Know THIS! Since the beginning of time men have had the ‘hunter’ identity. Men have evolved from literal hunters of food for their families or tribes to now hunting for sex. But does sex alone make a foundation of a relationship? No. So much other dating advice online comes […]
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2022-12-1021 minWhat Would Love Do?6 Ways A Man Shows You He Loves You and He's Serious About Your Relationship6 Ways A Man Shows You He Loves You and He’s Serious About Your Relationship Even if your man is not the best verbal communicator, there are other signs that he’s very serious about your relationship. Those are the actions he takes. Remember that old adage, “Actions speak louder than words”? Actions should not replace […]
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2022-12-061h 00What Would Love Do?How Absence Plays With a Man's EmotionsHow Absence Plays With a Man’s Emotions You’ve heard the phrase, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” There’s actually a lot of truth in that, especially when a relationship is new. Life is exciting when there’s a new person in your life and often you’ll find yourself distracted with thoughts about your next date, when […]
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2022-12-0321 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Secret Thoughts A High-Value Man Has When He's Totally Into You5 Secret Thoughts A High-Value Man Has When He’s Totally Into You High value men are those who are looking for relationships. They don’t want to play the field and bring home a different woman every night. They are looking for the same loving companionship that you are. And they know how to treat a […]
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2022-11-2959 minWhat Would Love Do?Subtle Ways to Make Him Want More With You | DO THIS!Subtle Ways to Make Him Want More With You In today’s dating world of instant gratification, it’s not enough for women to sit back and take a passive role in finding the man of their dreams. In the olden days, it wasn’t proper for women to pursue men but those days are long gone. Even […]
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2022-11-2621 minWhat Would Love Do?3 Reasons Why Men (Over 40) Are Less Likely To Commit (It's Not You)3 Reasons Why Men (Over 40) Are Less Likely To Commit (It’s Not You) Are you different today from when you were in your 20s? Of course you are! Young people are concerned with settling down and starting a family. Whether marriage is involved in that scenario or not, raising children requires some sort of […]
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2022-11-2241 minWhat Would Love Do?Men Want THIS Even More Than Sleeping With YouMen Want THIS Even More Than Sleeping With You Even though men and women are different, we both seem to use sex as a way to find love. But is sex really a strong basis for love or developing a relationship? Not usually. Even though I’m not here to preach about when to have sex, […]
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2022-11-1920 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Things High-Value Women NEVER Do With Men (These Kill His Attraction For You)5 Things High-Value Women NEVER Do With Men (These Kill His Attraction For You) Like it or not, attraction is a huge part of relationships. Yes, we are all so much more than just looks alone, but attraction is what will bring new men into your life. Once the attraction is initiated, then you can […]
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2022-11-1558 minWhat Would Love Do?7 Myths About Men Women Don't Know7 Myths About Men Women Don’t Know Humans are a mysterious species. Just when you think you have that man figured out (or dating, in general) something throws a wrench into what you believed to be true and you’re left questioning why men do the things they do. Hate to tell you but that’s how […]
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2022-11-1222 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Signs He's Emotionally Mature And Ready For Commitment5 Signs He’s Emotionally Mature And Ready For Commitment When we say someone is mature, we’re generally talking about a person’s overall persona. How they present themselves, how they speak, and how they act in social situations. Think of how a young child matures as they get older. They learn life lessons from their parents […]
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2022-11-0858 minWhat Would Love Do?3 Feminine Traits A High-Value Man Finds Irresistible3 Feminine Traits A High-Value Man Finds Irresistible I use the term “high value men” a lot and it simply refers to those men who truly care about women and finding their partner in life. They are the complete opposite of a ‘player’ who just wants to have fun with the first woman he sees. […]
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2022-11-0521 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Hidden Insecurities Most Men Feel (But Don't Talk About) That Cause Them To Shut Down5 Hidden Insecurities Most Men Feel (But Don’t Talk About) That Cause Them To Shut Down We all know by now that most men don’t like to talk about their feelings. But we also know that the more women try to convince them to talk, the more they want to shut down and just ignore […]
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2022-11-011h 05What Would Love Do?How To Get The Guy / A New Strategy for Dating Men Over 40A New Strategy for Dating Men Over 40 Dating is challenging no matter what your age but midlife dating means we have to sort out all the stories that we’ve been telling ourselves over the years (many of which are untrue). And some people don’t believe in personal development, so their stories are sometimes harder […]
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2022-10-2910 minWhat Would Love Do?7 Traits Of Trustworthy Men (What Every Woman MUST KNOW!)7 Traits Of Trustworthy Men (What Every Woman MUST KNOW!) Think of all the relationships in your life. From your family, friends and coworkers. Which relationships work for you and which ones don’t? Can you narrow down one or two reasons why a relationship does NOT work? Did you say trust? Trust in ANY relationship […]
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2022-10-251h 00What Would Love Do?THIS Gets Him to Flirt with You and He’ll Think It Was All His IdeaTHIS Gets Him to Flirt with You and He’ll Think It Was All His Idea As we get older, we tend to get boring. Not everyone of course, but many people fall into a comfort zone with their partner and take them for granted. The early phase of a relationship is always exciting: somebody knew […]
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2022-10-2210 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Steps To Get A Man To Open Up To You5 Steps To Get A Man To Open Up To You How many of you grew up with brothers, cousins, or friends who were taught that boys don’t cry? For many generations, parents believed that boys (men) were the stronger sex and had to emit a powerful image. If boys of any age dared to […]
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2022-10-181h 00What Would Love Do?Critical Skill That Makes Him Feel Intensely BondedCritical Skill That Makes Him Feel Intensely Bonded ~ YOU NEED THIS! Both men and women tend to repeat old patterns they learned from their childhoods, especially when it comes to dating and developing relationships. After all, what more do we have than our observations from when we grew up? As adults we can dive […]
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2022-10-1508 minWhat Would Love Do?5 Things High-Quality Men Secretly Crave5 Things High-Quality Men Secretly Crave When I say “high-quality men” I’m describing those men who are looking for more than a one-night stand. These are the men who think like you do, that they’d like to find a nice woman with similar values and enter into a long-term relationship. These are the men who […]
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2022-10-111h 02
Relationships Are UnderratedAre You Talking Too Little Or Too Much With Your Partner?I got a DM from a listener whose girlfriend wants to text him all day and he wants to know how much is too much and what the best amount is. So we'll go over how often to keep in touch with your SO to keep the desire alive based on your living situation and type of communication.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a v...
2022-08-0743 min
Relationships Are UnderratedHow To Navigate Intense Emotions In "The Honeymoon Phase"The Honeymoon Phase of a relationship is an exciting, emotional and also risky place to be. When your mind is overwhelmed with emotions and lust, logic and self-awareness tend to go by the wayside so it's important to reign yourself in and avoid making serious decisions too soon.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-0025“What The Heck Is Self-Love Any...
2022-07-1045 min
Relationships Are UnderratedIs Your Relationship Marriage Worthy?Whether or not to marry your girlfriend is one of the most important decisions you will make in your life. So let's discuss how to know if she is wife material, if you are husband material and if getting married is a good idea or not so you don't become another divorce statistic.MORE RESOURCES “8 Dates” - https://amzn.to/3IRT7u3Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLea...
2022-06-0649 min
Relationships Are UnderratedIntroducing Your Relationship To Family & FriendsYour community and family both help to keep your relationship strong and give it the best chance of lasting. But these days, personal connections are at their lowest. So we'll go over the roles people play, how to impress new family, and how long to wait to introduce to children.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-0025
2022-05-3042 min
Relationships Are UnderratedTalking About Having Kids With Your PartnerWhether or not you want to have kids, how many you want to have, when to have them, and how to raise them, are important talks to have with your partner before things happen. We'll discuss these and more so you enter parenthood prepared and committed, not naive and dysfunctional.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-0025
2022-05-2350 min
Relationships Are UnderratedIs It A Relationship Or Are We Just Hanging Out? Part 2One of the most painful experiences you can have is being in a situationship that you hope will become long-term but your partner does not. So let's discuss how to ask where you're going, what to do if they're not into you and the best way to find someone on the same page as you.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-0025
2022-05-1949 min
Relationships Are UnderratedIs It A Relationship Or Are We Just Hanging Out? Part 1It can be confusing and even heartbreaking when you and the person you're dating are on different pages with your relationship and what you want. So we'll go over how to be clear on your relationship, how to say what you want and don't want and how long to wait before having sex.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/“8 Dates” - https://amzn.to/3IRT7u3Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLea...
2022-05-1657 min
Relationships Are UnderratedHow Vulnerable Should You Be In A Relationship?Women say they want men to be more vulnerable, but do they really? Will sharing your real feelings cause her to lose attraction or will it deepen your connection? We go over the pros & cons of being vulnerable with women so you can be your true self while being the man she wants.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-0025
2022-05-1259 min
Relationships Are Underrated"We Need To Talk" Bringing Up Hard Conversations In A RelationshipMost people try to avoid difficult conversations at all costs. But to have the type of relationship most people envy, then it is critical that you learn how to bring up and resolve touchy subjects with your partner. You'll also learn a much better way of saying "we need to talk".MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-0025“Nonviolent Communication” - htt...
2022-05-0951 min
Relationships Are UnderratedHow To Keep A Relationship Interesting (Keep the SPARK Alive)Most people settle for mediocrity in their relationships, sitting on opposite ends of the couch, and staring at their phones in silence. This is for those who want a relationship that is jovial and stimulating. You'll learn how to eliminate apathy and have a "friendship on fire".MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/“The 7 Principles For Making Marriage Work” - https://amzn.to/38NH84uSend us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave...
2022-05-0548 min
Relationships Are UnderratedThe Need For Couples To Have “Play Time”A relationship that makes you feel happy to be alive and creates joyous moments from "the little things" is one where you have a true friendship with your partner. You'll learn how to create this by playing, being authentic, and bringing out your inner kid that laughs and smiles.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-0025
2022-05-0221 min
Relationships Are UnderratedIs There Such A Thing As Healthy Jealousy?Jealousy can ruin your experience of an otherwise happy relationship and if expressed immaturely it can even end it. So we'll cover the root causes of jealousy, the source of abandonment issues, and how to prevent the green eyed monster from roaming free and ruining a good thing.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-0025
2022-04-2848 min
Relationships Are UnderratedWhat Causes Breakups & Divorces?We discuss some of the most common reasons people give for their breakup or divorce, how to communicate more effectively with your partner when they occur, how to avoid most of these problems in the first place, and how to identify patterns in yourself that can lead to a breakup.MORE RESOURCES Link to article - https://bit.ly/3K7DrEs“7 Principles Making Marriage Work” - https://amzn.to/3j0hJ9m“Nonviolent Communication” - https://amzn.to/36GikL9Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn m...
2022-04-2556 min
Relationships Are UnderratedPros & Cons Of Interfaith RelationshipsHaving different views around religion, spirituality, and routines can obviously cause problems in a relationship. But even if you and your partner have different faiths, you can still have the type of relationship where you're growing together and not living in different worlds.MORE RESOURCES “Return To Love” - https://amzn.to/3iXTAR6“The Daily Stoic” - https://amzn.to/3J5cmQS“8 Dates” - https://amzn.to/3IRT7u3Link to article - https://bit.ly/3LyVAvcLearn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more...
2022-04-2150 min
Relationships Are UnderratedThe Money Talk That Every Couple Needs To HaveWhen you talk about money with your partner, what it symbolizes to you, and the different ways value is created in your relationship, you can let go of your past script around money and write a new one together so you can meet your financial goals and live the lifestyle you want.MORE RESOURCES “8 Dates” - https://amzn.to/3IRT7u3Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave...
2022-04-1856 min
Relationships Are UnderratedSex In The RelationshipSexless relationships are depressing, lack of sex causes arguments, and the best reliever of stress is good sex. Which is why talking about it, sharing your preferences, and even scheduling it are crucial if you want to have a relationship that is healthy, intimate, and exciting.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-0025
2022-04-1451 min
Relationships Are UnderratedDoes Your Relationship Have TRUST?Unshakeable trust between you and your partner is the foundation of a sustaining and fulfilling relationship. But rarely do couples discuss this issue before there's a problem. We'll talk about how to be trustworthy, share your expectations, and repair trust that has been broken.MORE RESOURCES “8 Dates” - https://amzn.to/3IRT7u3Link to article - https://qbq.com/18-ways-to-destroy-trust/Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.com...
2022-04-1149 min
Relationships Are UnderratedLong-Distance Relationships: Are They Worth It?Long distance relationships have few upsides and many downsides. We'll discuss what qualifies as a LDR, the inherent challenges they come with, and 2 things you must have in place if you want your LDR to survive the distance and one day become a happy and fulfilling relationship.MORE RESOURCES Link to Article: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Long-distance_relationshipLearn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a...
2022-04-0141 min
Relationships Are UnderratedWhen Should Couples Move In Together?Moving in together is one of the biggest and riskiest steps you can take in a relationship. And if taken lightly, things can quickly lead to conflict and fighting. So let's go over reasons not to move in, topics you should discuss beforehand and how long is the best time to wait.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-0025
2022-04-0144 min
Relationships Are UnderratedWhat The Heck Is A Relationship?When you get clear about the purpose of your relationship, the roles that each person will play, and the direction you want to go, that is when your relationship will help you and your partner get closer to self-actualization, heal childhood wounds, and be happy in the long term.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/“Nonviolent Communication” - https://amzn.to/36GikL9“The Untethered Soul” - https://amzn.to/3tVAl0t“8 Dates” - https://amz...
2022-04-0156 min
Relationships Are UnderratedHow Technology Affects CouplesThe way you use technology can make your relationship stronger by bringing you and your partner closer. It can also be distracting and cause problems in your relationship. We'll go over positive and negative effects of tech, and how to use it to help the two of you grow together.MORE RESOURCES Learn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/Send us an email: relationshipsareunderrated@gmail.comLeave us a voicemail: 323-432-0025
2022-03-3150 min
Relationships Are UnderratedAre Relationships Underrated?Welcome to the first episode of the Relationships Are Underrated Podcast! Your hosts are dating coach for men, Tripp Kramer, and dating coach for women, Jonathon Aslay. You'll learn the tools you need to create a fundamentally happy, emotionally safe, and drama free relationship.MORE RESOURCES “8 Dates” - https://amzn.to/3IRT7u3“Getting The Love You Want” - https://amzn.to/3qRy2tH“Attached” - https://amzn.to/3qP6m8HLearn more about Tripp Kramer - https://trippadvice.com/Learn more about Jonathon Aslay - https://www.j...
2022-03-3144 min