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Super SexSexplained: Why Some People Want to Get HIV: The Psychology of Bug ChasingSend us a textWhat could possibly drive someone to eroticize contracting HIV? This question landed in my DMs and sparked one of our most challenging explorations yet into the hidden corners of human sexuality.Bug chasing—the fetishization of becoming HIV positive—exists at the complicated intersection of risk, power, identity, and desire. Though rare and certainly not mainstream, this phenomenon has been documented among small communities where the psychological thrill centers around intentionality rather than the physical act itself. For some, it represents surrender; for others, control; and for many, a complex reclaiming of s...2025-07-2405 min
Super SexQuickie: Is Sexting Helping You—or Hurting You?Send us a textEver wondered if that cheeky text you're about to send will strengthen your connection or backfire spectacularly? Our latest dive into the pixelated world of sexting reveals something fascinating: it's not what you send that matters most—it's why you're sending it.Fresh research using self-determination theory shows that sexting can lead to dramatically different outcomes depending on your motivation. When you sext because you genuinely want to (autonomous motivation), it can boost intimacy, trust, and yes, even lead to more orgasms. But when you hit send because you feel pressured or...2025-07-2210 min
Super SexEpisode 53: Kink Isn’t What You Think: Naya Arian on Psychology, Presence & Permission to FeelSend us a textForget everything you thought you knew about kink and BDSM. Professional mistress Naya Aryan pulls back the leather curtain to reveal a world where power exchange becomes a profound tool for healing, connection, and even therapy."People come to see me to explore their innermost desires that they might not in their day-to-day lives," Naya explains, quickly dismantling stereotypes as she reveals how sessions often transform into therapeutic experiences. Her clients span all walks of life – from high-powered executives to students – united by their search for embodied experiences in an increasingly disc...2025-07-201h 12
Super SexSexplained: Why Do I Fantasise About My Wholesome Wife Being a Total Slut?Send us a textEver wondered why you fantasise about your loving partner in ways that make you feel guilty? You're not alone, and you're not broken.This eye-opening episode explores a listener's confession about desiring to see his wholesome, loving wife as sexually uninhibited—a psychological phenomenon more common than most realise. We break down the Madonna-whore complex, explaining how our culture artificially separates women into categories of either purity or sexuality, creating unnecessary guilt when these worlds collide in our fantasies.What's fascinating is how these fantasies often aren't about degradation at...2025-07-1708 min
Super SexQuickie: Does Porn Help or Hurt Your Sex Life?Send us a textDoes watching porn help or hurt your sex life? It's a question that's plagued bedrooms, relationships, and internet browsers for decades. According to groundbreaking research involving 100,000 participants, the answer shifts dramatically depending on your gender.Drawing from a landmark 2023 study published in Psychological Medicine, we take you on a fascinating journey through the surprising science of pornography's effects on sexual performance. For men, the findings are sobering – increased porn consumption correlates with decreased sexual confidence, poorer functioning, and lower partner satisfaction. The culprit? "Threatening upward comparisons" where men measure themselves against th...2025-07-1510 min
Super SexEpisode 52: Kink vs Swingers: Why Are We So Divided?Send us a textEver wondered why two communities that share so much common ground often eye each other with suspicion? This episode dives deep into the fascinating divide between the kink and swinging worlds, revealing surprising truths about how we organize our pleasure.Joined by the brilliant Mischief and Mayhem from the Ministry of Mystery podcast, we unpack the unwritten rules, cultural differences, and tribal politics that keep these communities sometimes at arm's length despite their shared values of open-mindedness and sexual freedom. Our guests share their journey from curious newcomers to experienced scene-hoppers...2025-07-131h 16
Super SexSexplained: Sex Addiction: Myth vs. Medicine – What You Need to KnowSend us a textSex addiction has become a cultural catchphrase, frequently appearing in celebrity gossip, TV dramas, and casual conversation. But beneath this popular label lies a surprising truth: most major medical authorities don't recognize it as a legitimate diagnosis. This eye-opening episode of Sexplained tackles the complex reality behind this misunderstood concept.We explore how the DSM-5—psychiatry's definitive guide—doesn't include sex addiction at all, while the World Health Organization's "compulsive sexual behavior disorder" isn't classified alongside gambling or substance addiction. This distinction matters enormously. When we frame intense sexual desire or beha...2025-07-1006 min
Super SexQuickie: OnlyFans Isn’t What You Think: Real Talk with Amber RiiversSend us a textEver wondered what really happens behind an OnlyFans paywall? Meet Amber Rivers - not just an adult content creator, but a wife, mother, and entrepreneur who's pulling back the curtain on one of the internet's most misunderstood platforms.What begins as a candid conversation about her unexpected entry into OnlyFans quickly evolves into a fascinating exploration of modern sexuality, digital relationships, and self-discovery. Amber reveals how her husband actually encouraged her to try the platform, initially as "just for fun," before it transformed into a full-time career offering greater flexibility and...2025-07-0824 min
Super SexEpisode 51: Size Matters: Inside the Wild World of Size Play with Mischief & MayhemSend us a textEver wondered about the world of size play but never knew who to ask? Our milestone 100th episode pulls back the curtain on this often-misunderstood practice with candid experts who live it every day.When Mischief and Mayhem from the Ministry of Mischief podcast join us, the conversation flows from hilarious to profound as they share their journey into stretching. What began with curiosity at a kink club demonstration has evolved into a passion they're now helping others explore safely. Their fresh perspective challenges common misconceptions – most importantly that bodies don't "ge...2025-07-061h 18
Super SexSexplained: Why We Fall Hard for People Who Make Us AnxiousSend us a textWhy do we find ourselves magnetically drawn to people who make us feel terrible? That question launches us into the fascinating intersection of neuroscience, psychology, and those 2 AM text anxieties we've all experienced.Your attraction to emotionally unavailable people isn't a character flaw—it's biology at work. If your earliest experiences with love were unpredictable or came with strings attached, your nervous system learned to interpret emotional tension as connection. This attachment imprinting means that when someone treats you inconsistently, your body doesn't register danger; instead, it feels the familiar rhythm of...2025-07-0305 min
Super SexQuickie: So You Fantasise About An Open Relationship. Now What?Send us a textEver thought about what it might be like to open up your relationship? You're not alone. This eye-opening episode dives into the surprisingly common world of consensual non-monogamy fantasies that exist within committed monogamous relationships.The research reveals something fascinating: while countless people fantasize about open relationships, swinging, or threesomes, only about 10% ever act on these desires. What holds the other 90% back? Mostly fear—fear of judgment, fear of rocking the boat, fear of the unknown. Yet the couples who do share these fantasies often report stronger, more trusting relationships as a...2025-07-0109 min
Super SexEpisode 50: Inside Mormon Sex with Nikki KellySend us a textNikki Kelly stands at a fascinating crossroads – a devout Latter-day Saint who works as a sex educator and sex toy expert. Her very existence challenges assumptions about religious people and sexuality, making for a conversation that will have you rethinking everything you thought you knew about faith, desire, and how they intersect.Stepping into the world of Mormon sexuality reveals surprising complexities. From the ubiquitous Utah soda shops (a creative workaround for the coffee ban) to the hushed struggles of religious newlyweds attempting to navigate intimacy without education, Nikki shares insights wi...2025-06-291h 06
Super SexSexplained: Why You Stopped Wanting Sex—And How to Get It BackSend us a textRemember when you couldn't keep your hands off each other? That magical time when desire flowed effortlessly between you both? If those days feel distant and you're wondering if that spark is gone forever, this episode delivers hope and practical strategies backed by cutting-edge relationship science.Passion naturally ebbs when life gets busy. Between work deadlines, household responsibilities, and the mental load of adulting, desire often takes a backseat. But relationship psychologists like Dr. Emily Nagoski and Esther Perel have discovered that rekindling intimacy doesn't require grand gestures or awkward scheduled...2025-06-2605 min
Super SexEpisode 49: She Grabbed WHAT?! Axel Addams on Untold Truth About Male StrippingSend us a textEver wondered what really happens when the spotlights hit the stage and the music starts pounding? This eye-opening conversation with male entertainer and OnlyFans creator Axl Adams peels back the curtain on the glamorized yet often misunderstood world of professional stripping—and it's nothing like the movies would have you believe.From heart-pounding first-time performances to learning the art of maintaining boundaries with handsy clients, Axl shares his journey from curious outsider to confident performer. We explore the surprising reality that female audiences can sometimes cross far more lines than men, th...2025-06-221h 03
Super SexSexplained: Rebuilding After Cheating: The Brutal Truth No One Tells YouSend us a textBetrayal cuts deep. Whether you're the one who strayed or the one left reeling from a partner's infidelity, that moment fractures everything you thought you knew about your relationship. But here's the truth many don't want to acknowledge: recovery isn't just possible—it happens more often than you might think.This episode dives straight into the messy, painful process of rebuilding trust after infidelity. We explore why it's typically not the cheating itself that destroys relationships, but the dishonesty that follows. Research consistently shows that post-betrayal healing hinges on radical transparency fr...2025-06-1907 min
Super SexQuickie: The Art of Vaginal StretchingSend us a textForget everything you think you know about vaginal stretching. This practice isn't about shock value or pornographic stunts – it's a profound journey into bodily autonomy, psychological surrender, and reclaiming sexual power on your own terms.We dive deep into the misunderstood world of stretching, revealing how this practice connects to something primal yet deeply personal. For many practitioners, stretching represents an embodied rebellion against shame, allowing them to literally and figuratively expand beyond societal constraints. There's a special kind of empowerment in saying "I can open and stay open because I wa...2025-06-1716 min
Super SexEpisode 48: Polyamory Explained: Can You Really Love More Than One Person?Send us a textHave you ever questioned why we limit romantic love to just one person when we don't apply the same restrictions to friendships, family relationships, or parental love? This thought-provoking episode with sexologist Kate Campbell challenges everything you thought you knew about relationship structures.We dive deep into what polyamory actually means—and what it doesn't. Forget the stereotypes of commitment-phobic people or hypersexual escapades. Polyamory (poly = many, amory = love) is about creating multiple committed, loving relationships with consent and communication at the core. Kate shares her journey from skepticism to embracing po...2025-06-151h 00
Super SexSexplained: Why So Many People Secretly Crave Submission in BedSend us a textFeeling curious about surrendering control in the bedroom? You're far from alone. That quiet desire to be sexually submissive isn't just common—it's backed by science as one of our most natural human urges.The research speaks volumes: over 60% of women and 50% of men fantasize about being dominated, making submission more popular than roleplay, group encounters, or even exhibitionism. But why does giving up control feel so appealing? When we submit consensually, something remarkable happens in our brains—cortisol levels drop, endorphins surge, and many experience a flow state similar to what...2025-06-1208 min
Super SexQuickie: Adventures in FistingSend us a textDive into the profound world of fisting – a practice that goes far beyond what many consider "extreme" or "fringe." This episode challenges us to rethink our assumptions about intimacy, pleasure, and connection through the lens of a practice that demands extraordinary trust and communication.Drawing from Chris Barcelos' groundbreaking 2023 academic paper, we explore how fisting represents not just a sexual act but an entire epistemology – a way of knowing and being with others that defies conventional sexual scripts. When we look deeper, fisting emerges as a radical form of pedagogy, where know...2025-06-1008 min
Super SexEpisode 47: Sex Store Secrets with Nikki KellySend us a textImagine walking into a sex store and finding not just toys, but a whole education on pleasure waiting for you. That's the world Nikki Kelly invites us into in this eye-opening conversation about what really happens behind the counter at adult stores.Nikki isn't your typical sex educator—she's a spreadsheet-wielding analyst who approaches pleasure with both passion and precision. Her detailed breakdowns of product categories, from bullet vibrators to air pulse technology, transform how we understand these tools. We learn why some toys work better than others, how marketing language of...2025-06-081h 10
Super SexSexplained: Why New Parents Stop Having Sex (and How to Fix It)Send us a textThe journey of reconnecting intimately after welcoming a child is a struggle so many couples face in silence. When desire fades and bodies feel unfamiliar, both partners can find themselves adrift in frustration and confusion, unsure how to rebuild what once came naturally.Through one listener's painfully honest question, we explore the science behind postpartum desire and why intimacy often takes a backseat after baby. The reality? Your diminished sex life isn't personal rejection—it's biology at work. With 83% of new mothers reporting little to no desire months after birth, these ch...2025-06-0511 min
Super SexQuickie: Exploring Extreme Size Play: Safety, Pleasure, and Breaking TaboosSend us a textCurious about going big? This candid exploration of extreme size play delivers everything you need to know about venturing beyond typical bedroom toys. Whether you're intrigued by supersized dildos, fisting, or just something a bit more substantial than average, we break down the facts without judgment or unnecessary alarm.Let's address what everyone worries about first: yes, there are legitimate risks to consider. The delicate tissues of both vagina and anus can experience microtears, muscle strain, or even infection when play becomes too intense or hygiene practices lapse. We candidly discuss...2025-06-0313 min
Super SexMajor Podcast AnnouncementSend us a textHey lovers—big news from the Supersex universe. Our beloved co-host Sherman is stepping away from the mic indefinitely (we love you, Sherm 💔). But don’t panic—we’re not slowing down. We’re doubling the fun.In this special update, Jordan introduces two new voices joining the Supersex crew: psychologist and sexologist Kate Campbell, and female health nurse and sexologist Tarsh Wilson. Kate brings sharp insight and heart-opening perspectives. Tarsh brings fearless realness (and vulva shoes). Together, they’ll help take Supersex to new, wild, wonderful places.Same sexy spirit. Ne...2025-06-0201 min
Super SexEpisode 46: Your Guide to Sex Parties with Dream KittySend us a textStep behind the velvet curtain of Perth's exclusive sensuous world with Dream Kitty, the female powerhouse revolutionising the city's swingers party scene. In what might be the most eye-opening conversation we've had on Super Sex, Dream Kitty shatters stereotypes about lifestyle parties while revealing how her coaching background creates uniquely safe spaces for sexual exploration."Most people going to these parties for the first time have never been seen naked by more than one person," she explains, detailing how she personally guides nervous newcomers through their fears. Unlike the seedy male-dominated...2025-06-011h 15
Super SexSexplained: How to Explore Hotwifing Without Wrecking Your RelationshipSend us a textEver had a fantasy that feels both thrilling and terrifying to share? The desire to watch your partner with someone else is far more common than you might think. This deeply honest exploration of cuckolding, hot-wifing, and consensual non-monogamy breaks down the psychology behind why so many of us (58% of men and 33% of women, according to research) harbor these desires.We unpack the science behind the arousal—from the joy of witnessing your partner's pleasure (erotic compersion) to the dopamine rush of breaking cultural taboos. But beyond understanding why these fantasies em...2025-05-2914 min
Super SexQuickie: Sex Ed Isn't Making Kids Queer, Here's What It's Actually DoingSend us a textReady for a refreshingly honest take on sex education myths? Strap in as we take a sledgehammer to the biggest, most bizarre misconceptions swirling around teaching gender and sexuality in schools.The myth that teaching LGBTQ+ topics somehow "turns kids gay" falls apart under scrutiny. Research consistently shows that queer identities remain stable across cultures and time periods regardless of visibility or acceptance. What inclusive education actually does? It creates safer environments where bullying decreases, empathy flourishes, and suicide rates among LGBTQ+ youth dramatically drop. The science is clear: we're not...2025-05-2712 min