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Family Sobriety NowWhen The House Finally Feels Calm AgainLiving with addiction can change the way a family experiences peace. After months or years of stress and uncertainty, calm can feel unfamiliar. Even when things start improving, many people still find themselves waiting for the next problem to appear.In this episode, Joseph discusses why it's so hard to relax after a long season of chaos, how addiction affects the entire family, and practical ways to help your mind and body feel safe, grounded, and at peace again.If you've ever struggled to enjoy a quiet moment because you're waiting for the other shoe...
2026-06-1817 min
Family Sobriety NowThe Night You Finally Stop Explaining EverythingLiving with a loved one’s addiction can leave families emotionally exhausted, constantly managing tension, making excuses, and trying to keep everything together. In this episode, Joseph explores the moment many family members reach a turning point: the realization that peace, stability, and emotional health matter too. Through powerful stories and practical strategies, you'll learn how to stop carrying responsibilities that were never yours, set healthier boundaries, and begin rebuilding calm, clarity, and hope in your life. If you've been walking on eggshells or feeling responsible for anyone else's emotions, this episode offers encouragement and practical steps toward healing an...
2026-06-0418 min
Family Sobriety NowWhen The Whole Family Begins To HealIn this episode, Joseph Devlin shares the powerful story of a family learning how to move from chaos, tension, and emotional exhaustion toward honesty, stability, and connection. What began as two overwhelmed parents struggling to help their son slowly became a deeper journey of healing for the entire family. Through difficult conversations, repaired trust, and small moments of honesty, they began rebuilding a healthier foundation together.This episode explores the importance of alignment between parents, the danger of protecting unhealthy patterns, and why repair matters more than perfection in recovery. If your family feels exhausted, divided, or...
2026-05-2115 min
Family Sobriety NowLetting Go Without Giving UpThis episode explores the difficult but freeing process of letting go of trying to control a loved one’s addiction. Joseph shares powerful stories and practical insights for families who feel exhausted from constantly monitoring moods, behaviors, and outcomes. You’ll learn why control often comes from anxiety, how to stop overfunctioning in unhealthy dynamics, and three simple ways to begin creating healthier emotional space while still caring deeply for your loved one.
2026-05-0713 min
Family Sobriety NowWhat To Do After You Said The Hard ThingIn this episode of Family Sobriety Now, Joseph Devlin explores what happens after you say something hard. You may have spoken honestly or set a boundary, and then found yourself wondering if you made things worse. Through real stories and practical insight, Joseph explains why that discomfort is normal and why staying steady matters. You will learn how consistency builds trust, why you do not need an immediate response, and how small repeated actions can begin to shift your family dynamic over time.
2026-04-2317 min
Family Sobriety NowThe Moment You Stop Walking On EggshellsIn this episode of Family Sobriety Now, Joseph Devlin explores the moment many families quietly long for, the moment you stop walking on eggshells. When addiction has been part of the home, tension can become the norm, leading you to carefully choose your words, avoid conflict, and try to keep the peace at any cost. Over time, that way of living becomes exhausting. Joseph shares what it looks like to begin stepping out of that pattern, offering real-life examples of how families can move from fear-based responses to grounded, honest, and steady ways of showing up. This isn’t ab...
2026-04-0912 min
Family Sobriety NowWhen You Are Tired Of Being StrongIn this episode, Joseph Devlin speaks directly to the parent, spouse, or loved one who has been holding everything together through addiction and is quietly reaching a point of emotional exhaustion.Through two powerful stories, Joseph explores what it feels like to keep showing up, supporting recovery, and still feel depleted inside. One story highlights a mother who gave everything she had to support her loved one’s recovery, only to realize she had nothing left for herself. Another story reveals what begins to shift when someone finally stops carrying it alone.This episode is a...
2026-03-2613 min
Family Sobriety NowWhen Progress Feels InvisibleIn this episode of Family Sobriety Now, host Joseph Devlin explores the subtle signs that healing may already be happening, even when it doesn’t feel obvious.Through real-life stories and practical insight, Joseph discusses how small moments like a simple text message, fewer arguments at home, or consistent effort can signal meaningful progress in recovery.Families often overlook these changes because they are waiting for something bigger. But recognizing these small shifts can restore hope and help families stay grounded during the long process of rebuilding trust.In this episode, you’ll lear...
2026-03-1209 min
Family Sobriety NowCelebrationsJoseph Devlin explores why celebrating recovery can feel complicated for families when trust is still fragile and past wounds are still tender. He shares the story of a family choosing to intentionally mark their son’s homecoming from treatment, demonstrating how thoughtful celebration can restore belonging and reinforce identity change. Another story highlights a man publicly acknowledging a sobriety milestone, a moment that strengthened his commitment, inspired others in recovery, and allowed his wife to feel pride instead of anxiety. Joseph encourages families to celebrate effort rather than perfection and to shape moments of recognition around their own culture an...
2026-02-2710 min
Family Sobriety NowStaying Hopeful When Trust Is Still FragileIn this episode of Family Sobriety Now, Joseph Devlin explores what it means to stay hopeful when trust is still fragile after addiction. Through heartfelt stories and real-life examples, he shares how families can rebuild connection without rushing healing or ignoring past pain. This conversation offers practical insight into balancing hope with healthy caution, reminding listeners that fragile trust doesn’t mean broken trust. If you’re learning how to believe again while still protecting your heart, this episode is for you.
2026-02-1209 min
Family Sobriety NowWhen Reconnection Feels SlowThis episode focuses on the challenges of family reconnection during recovery, particularly when progress feels slow. Joseph discusses how reconnection often moves more slowly than recovery behaviors, emphasizing that emotional healing requires time, especially when families have been trained to stay alert and braced for potential issues. He shared two case examples: Tom, a father who maintained gentle contact with his sober daughter, and Eric, who learned to be consistently present without demanding closeness, which eventually led his family to notice a difference in his behavior. Joseph concluded by offering three gentle practices for families navigating slow reconnection.
2026-01-2909 min
Family Sobriety NowLaying The GroundworkIn this episode of Family Sobriety Now, Joseph Devlin talks about how families can begin again after addiction has created distance and broken trust. Rather than focusing on quick fixes, this conversation centers on building a strong foundation through consistency and connection. Through heartfelt stories, including a mother who slowly rebuilt her relationship with her children, Joseph offers hope to families and individuals in recovery who feel like reconnection may be out of reach. This episode reminds listeners that healing happens one small, faithful step at a time and that sobriety is truly a family affair.
2026-01-0115 min
Family Sobriety NowGratitude In The MiddleJoseph explored the concept of gratitude in family recovery, discussing how it helps individuals find light amidst darkness and survive challenging situations. Through personal stories and practical examples, he demonstrated how gratitude can transform relationships and rebuild connections in families dealing with addiction. Joseph shared actionable ways to cultivate gratitude, emphasizing its role in healing and growth, and encouraged listeners to implement these practices in their own families.
2025-12-1813 min
Family Sobriety NowAfter The Substance StopsIn this episode, Joseph explores what comes after your loved one puts down the drink, the pills, or the drug and real recovery begins. Because when the substance stops, the healing work truly starts. Addiction was once the “solution” to pain, fear, and disconnection. Now that it’s gone, families often ask, What does support look like now? Joseph shares heartfelt stories of families learning to rebuild purpose, trust and hope together and how simple acts of service, volunteering, or helping others can become powerful tools for lasting sobriety. In this episode, you’ll learn how to reconnect as a family...
2025-11-1312 min
Family Sobriety NowThe Family Healing Blueprint: Feel, Laugh, and Live AgainWhen addiction enters a home, emotions often go underground- laughter fades, tension rises, and family members lose sight of themselves. In this episode of Family Sobriety Now, Joseph Devlin guides families through three powerful steps to reclaim peace and connection: expressing emotions safely, finding daily satisfaction, and rediscovering laughter as medicine for the soul. With real-life stories, faith-based insight, and practical strategies, this conversation offers hope and a path forward for families who are ready to heal — together.
2025-10-1615 min
Investigators Guide to the Bible Podcast35 Ladies and Gentlemen of the JuryHey there. Welcome to the Investigators Guide to the Bible for the final episode on the case of Joseph’s Ordeal. Take a deep breath, grab a cookie to go with your coffee, and settle in for the Summation to the Jury. If you have not figured it out yet, I’m Tony. I did the writing and the reading. If something is wrong, I’m the guy who gets the blame. Share, stack, restack and all that stuff. Let’s get started.Investigative Summary: Ladies and Gentlemen of the JuryEXSUM: Nazareth was a cultural...
2025-10-1035 min
Investigators Guide to the Bible Podcast32 O Little Cave of BethlehemHey, there. Welcome to the Investigators Guide to the Bible. When we left our intrepid couple, Mary and Joseph, they were deciding if they should move to Bethlehem. Let’s look at some more concrete reasons why a move to Bethlehem, rather than just a trip, makes more sense. One more time, let’s see if I can turn what you know about the Infancy Narrative on its head. Let’s talk about the logistics of the Nativity; what makes sense and what does not. As always, no question is off limits. Like and subscribe for new episodes. Share the ep...
2025-09-1933 min
Investigators Guide to the Bible Podcast31 A Counting They Will ComeHey, there. Welcome to the Investigators Guide to the Bible. It’s hard to believe we are getting to the end, but we’re not done yet! Today, we are going to talk about all of the things Luke left out of his Gospel. I know he had to jam everything into a small space but, my goodness, months passed between two verses in his testimony! Let’s fill in some of the details, shall we? Like and subscribe for new episodes. Share the episode, restack it, and send it to your friends. Feel free to ask some questions at the...
2025-09-1229 min
Investigators Guide to the Bible Podcast30 Shazam, It's Go Time!Hey, there. Welcome to the Investigators Guide to the Bible. Today, we’ll talk about two events that set the stage for everything else that happens in the New Testament. It kind of feels like we should understand what really happened, right? Let’s do that. I'm Tony. I'm the author and I promise not to sing while I narrate the episode for you. Like and subscribe for new episodes. Share the episode, restack it, and send it to your friends. If you charge them to listen, though, I get a cut, okay? Shazam, It’s Go Time!Reso...
2025-09-0145 min
Investigators Guide to the Bible Podcast29 Introducing Joseph of NazarethWelcome to the Investigators Guide to the Bible. The prosecution is about to rest and the defense is starting to take the stage! It really is time we get to know Joseph of Nazareth. This guy has been getting a bad rap for two thousand years. If you are one of the ones who thought Joseph was going to divorce Mary, you owe the guy an apology! Not even I’m that heartless and I’m an intelligence agent! A lot of this will sound familiar as we pull together the threads we’ve discussed and add more to the st...
2025-08-2238 min
Family Sobriety NowIs It Enabling or Helping?In this episode, Joseph Devlin unpacks one of the toughest questions families face when a loved one is struggling with addiction or substance abuse: Am I helping, or am I enabling? With heartfelt stories and relatable examples, Joseph explores how good intentions can sometimes backfire, fueling the very behavior you want to stop. He also shares how true support looks different, as it means setting healthy communication, staying consistent, and choosing love with wisdom. Along the way, you’ll discover four practical steps you can take today to strengthen your emotional resilience, create more peace at home, and keep co...
2025-08-2114 min
Family Sobriety NowYou Are Not Crazy: Understanding The Chaos Of AddictionIn this episode, Joseph validates the emotional rollercoaster families face when loving someone who has struggled with substance abuse. Through powerful real-life stories, he shows how patterns of broken trust, curfew slips, and past traumas trigger real, protective responses in our brains, proving you’re not overreacting or “paranoid.” You’ll learn why these feelings are normal, how to ground yourself during moments of chaos, and three practical tools to help you stay steady in the storm. Whether you’ve been up at 2 a.m. worrying or second-guessing your instincts, this episode offers compassion, clarity, and hope for anyone walking th...
2025-08-0714 min
Investigators Guide to the Bible Podcast26 The Essenes: The Hills Are Alive!Welcome to the Investigators Guide to the Bible. We will stay on the topic of the Essenes one more time to explain what was going on with these guys around the rest of first century Israel. It could get a little weird! We’ll challenge a long-held belief or two and I’ll do my level best to eviscerate a renowned source on the Essenes. Sounds like fun, right? Like and subscribe for new episodes. Share the episode with everyone you know. Pass it around the campfire, if you want. Why keep all this fun to yourself?
2025-08-0125 min
Family Sobriety NowThe Power Of Family SupportIn this episode, Joseph shares Angela’s story, a devoted mother whose son Kyle began struggling with heroin addiction at just 18. Angela was emotionally drained, filled with guilt, and unsure of how to truly help. Through support, journaling, and a deeper shift in prayer, Angela and her sister created a new plan, a way to love Kyle without enabling his behavior. When he returned home high, Angela responded with calm strength, setting firm yet compassionate boundaries. Over time, her steady love became a reference point Kyle could rely on.Joseph reminds listeners that they are not alone, an...
2025-07-2412 min
Family Sobriety NowLoving Them Without Losing YourselfIn this episode, Joseph shares the powerful story of Melissa, a devoted wife and mother navigating the emotional toll of loving someone in active addiction. Through Melissa’s experience with her husband, we explore the subtle but profound ways families can begin to reclaim their emotional, spiritual, and mental well-being—without abandoning the person they love. You’ll hear how Melissa moved from exhaustion and heartbreak to clarity and quiet strength by making gentle shifts in how she showed up for herself and for her family. From a birthday party betrayal to morning rituals of self-care, this episod...
2025-07-1012 min
Family Sobriety NowPeace Over Panic: Supporting Without SinkingJoseph shares the story of Diane, whose husband, Marcus, struggles with heavy drinking. Though Marcus maintained his responsibilities, his drinking created emotional chaos at home. Diane reached a turning point when she realized she was more focused on his sobriety than her own sanity. Joseph outlines three key shifts that helped Diane reclaim peace: from over-responsibility to shared ownership, from emotional reaction to grounded response, and from fixing to witnessing. These shifts allowed her to loveMarcus without losing herself. Diane’s calm, steady presence eventually helpedMarcus face his own choices. This episode offers hope and guidance for families walking wi...
2025-06-2609 min
Family Sobriety NowWhen They Don’t Want Help, What You Can Still DoJoseph discusses strategies for supporting a family member struggling with substance abuse and who is resistant to help. He shares stories and outlines three key strategies: holding a mirror to reality without minimizing, building a life that isn't compromised by the addiction, and making sobriety attractive rather than shameful. Joseph emphasizes the importance of consistency, dignity, and steadiness in the face of addiction.
2025-06-1209 min
Family Sobriety NowHow Families Can Support a Heavy Drinker Without Losing ThemselvesJoseph discusses supporting heavy drinkers using three key principles. He shares stories of families who learned to support, protect and reconnect with their loved ones. Joseph emphasizes that support means walking beside loved ones without fixing them and that hope can be maintained through connection rather than perfection.
2025-05-2909 min
Holy Spirit At WorkFamily Sobriety and Kingdom Principles in the Marketplace with J. Devlin | Holy Spirit at Work Ep. 5In this powerful episode, titled "Family Sobriety and Kingdom Principles in the Marketplace," hosts Dr. Jeff Burnett and Katherine Burnett are joined by Joseph Devlin, who shares his inspiring journey of overcoming challenges related to family sobriety and how Kingdom principles can be applied to both personal and professional life.Joseph dives into the intersection of faith, family, and business, exploring how staying rooted in biblical values can transform not only individual lives but also entire workplaces. This episode will equip you with practical wisdom for integrating God's Kingdom principles in every area of life, from home...
2025-05-2028 min
Holy Spirit At WorkFamily Sobriety and Kingdom Principles in the Marketplace with J. Devlin | Holy Spirit at Work Ep. 5In this powerful episode, titled "Family Sobriety and Kingdom Principles in the Marketplace," hosts Dr. Jeff Burnett and Katherine Burnett are joined by Joseph Devlin, who shares his inspiring journey of overcoming challenges related to family sobriety and how Kingdom principles can be applied to both personal and professional life.Joseph dives into the intersection of faith, family, and business, exploring how staying rooted in biblical values can transform not only individual lives but also entire workplaces. This episode will equip you with practical wisdom for integrating God's Kingdom principles in every area of life, from home to the...
2025-05-2028 min
Family Sobriety NowTalking To Heavy DrinkersJoseph focuses on providing guidance for supporting loved ones with excessive drinking habits, emphasizing their importance of compassion and clear communication over control or enabling. He shares personal stories illustrating how expressing love and setting boundaries can lead to breakthroughs in relationships affected by alcohol abuse. The discussion concludes with encouragement for maintaining hope while taking care of oneself, highlighting that sobriety is a family affair and support is available.
2025-05-1517 min
Family Sobriety NowHomeostasis Resistance In Addiction RecoveryJoseph Devlin explores a powerful and often overlooked concept in addiction recovery: homeostasis—the brain’s natural resistance to change. Discover why your loved one may feel intense emotional and physical discomfort in early sobriety, even after making the courageous decision to stop using substances. Joseph shares a compelling story about how a sister played a vital role in helping their loved one shift toward a new normal. You’ll also learn practical, sometimes unconventional ways families can become an anchor of support for their loved one through small daily actions.
2025-05-0119 min
Family Sobriety NowHow You Can Support Someone Who Wants ChangeJoseph discussed supporting a loved one who wants to take a break from drinking. He emphasizes maintaining excitement and understanding their reasons, such as improved relationships or health. He suggests setting clear goals, like a 60-day pause, and breaking the goal into smaller, manageable steps. Joseph advises planning activities and celebrating small successes. He highlights the importance of allowing the loved one to take the lead and together reflecting on the positive changes. Joseph also encourages listeners to apply these principles to their own life improvements, restating that even small change has multiple benefits.
2025-04-1719 min
Family Sobriety NowNewcomer SuggestionsJoseph discussed suggestions for newcomers in 12-step programs, emphasizing their applicability across various recovery communities. Key points include attending 90 meetings in 90 days, obtaining phone numbers for support, listening for similarities in others' stories, and buying the Big Book. He advises finding a home group, seeking a temporary sponsor, avoiding triggers, managing HALT (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired) states, and sticking with sober individuals. Joseph also highlights the importance of prayer and active participation in recovery. He encourages family members to support loved ones by applying these principles and avoiding lecturing and moralizing.
2025-04-0318 min
Investigators Guide to the Bible Podcast13 Ordeal: What Went Wrong?Hey, there. Welcome to the Investigators Guide to the Bible. In today’s episode, we finally get to start tearing into Joseph’s Ordeal. Mary and Joseph had the perfect life planned until.....something changed. What went wrong, up in sunny, scenic Nazareth? Join us to find out. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit investigatorsguidetothebible.substack.com
2025-03-2128 min
Family Sobriety NowOpen DoorsJoseph discusses the concept of "open doors" in relationships, particularly when a loved one seeks forgiveness or help after a mistake or relapse. He emphasizes the importance of responding with gratitude and offering specific, non-condemning actions that foster positive change. By doing so, he explains, these supportive actions can plant seeds of transformation and be more readily accepted. Joseph encourages listeners to prepare for these moments and to persist in offering support, as repeated encouragement can lead to lasting impact. At the same time, he stresses the need to maintain personal peace and emotional safety during these interactions. To...
2025-03-2016 min
Family Sobriety NowTiny Changes Connected HomeJoseph discussed the importance of small shifts in the home for fostering happiness and connectedness. He shared a family's successful strategy to address communication challenges through subtle changes in their living room. He emphasized the need to create a unique environment for each family, focusing on communication and connection, and suggested making small changes to the existing environment could lead to significant results. Joseph also encouraged the audience to make one small change now and stay with the change, easy does it.
2025-03-0612 min
Investigators Guide to the Bible Podcast10 Knock, Knock, Knockin' On Temple's DoorHey, there. Welcome to the Investigators Guide to the Bible, the blogpod for people who read the Bible and say...What?...what does THAT mean? I am super excited to get started and share something with you today. As I was prepping for this week’s blogpod, I reread the first chapters of Matthew and Luke. But this time, I saw something different. We’ll talk about that and so much more. I even managed to find an appropriate Princess Bride reference. Stick around! Like and subscribe for new episodes.Notes and References to make it look like...
2025-02-2829 min
Investigators Guide to the Bible Podcast9 Conspiracies and StuffWelcome to the Investigators Guide to the Bible. Today’s episode is called “Conspiracies and Stuff.” Okay, now we’re getting somewhere! Like we did in the last couple episodes, we will cover some of the good and some of the bad you will find out there in Biblical Research Land. This will be the last one on the topic of evidence for a bit and I can hear the collective sigh from both of my adoring fans. Again, I hope you pick up a few tools and tips to use as you listen to lectures and read ana...
2025-02-2128 min
Family Sobriety NowSane and Happy UsefulnessJoseph emphasized the importance of spiritual principles, active listening, empathy, and effective communication in leading a fulfilling life. He shared personal anecdotes and strategies for building trust and rapport with others, as well as helping individuals navigate challenging situations. Joseph also encouraged others to develop their active listening skills and seek new ways to positively influence others.
2025-02-2022 min
Family Sobriety NowCommon Ground For FamiliesJoseph discussed the importance of spiritual principles and common ground in family life, particularly in the context of addiction and recovery. He emphasized the significance of tolerance, understanding, and love as key values for fostering unity and positive relationships within families. Joseph encouraged families to establish shared values and accountability measures, which can be designed as a family or by the individual.
2025-02-0614 min
Investigators Guide to the Bible Podcast5 Vetting Your SourcesNotes and References1 Charlesworth, James H., and Mordekhai Aviʿam. "Reconstructing First-Century Galilee: Reflections on Ten Major Problems." Jesus Research: New Methodologies and Perceptions: 103-137. United Kingdom: Eerdmans Publishing Company, 20142 “The Protoevangelium of James the Lesser.” Translated by Alexander Walker. From Ante-Nicene Fathers, Vol. 8. Edited by Alexander Roberts, James Donaldson, and A. Cleveland Coxe. (Buffalo, NY: Christian Literature Publishing Co., 1886.) Revised and edited for New Advent by Kevin Knight.3 “The History of Joseph the Carpenter.” Translated by Alexander Walker. From Ante-Nicene Fathers, Vol. 8. Edited by Alexander Roberts, James Donaldson, and A. Cleveland Coxe. (Buffalo, NY: Christian Lite...
2025-01-2429 min
Family Sobriety NowAddiction and Family DynamicsJoseph discussed excerpts from the book Alcoholics Anonymous, focusing on the chapter "To Wives". He highlighted two key points: abstaining from worrying about what others think and staying away from taking sides in arguments involving family members who are drinking or using. Joseph emphasized the importance of introspection and self-reflection in addressing addiction, and how participating in a twelve-step community can help individuals overcome their pride, self-pity, and vanity. He also mentioned the book's suggestion that putting spiritual principles into practice in every aspect of life can help solve problems related to family and addiction.
2025-01-2317 min
Family Sobriety NowGoal SettingJoseph discussed an effective goal setting strategy, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's 'why' and setting specific, measurable goals. He emphasized that goal setting doesn't have to be limited to once a year and can be done quarterly or whenever a new goal is recognized. Joseph also highlighted the role of visualization, dopamine release, and positive thinking in achieving goals, and encouraged participants to reach out for further exploration.
2025-01-0919 min
Family Sobriety NowNavigating Holiday ConversationsJoseph discussed the challenges of celebrating the holidays in families with complicated dynamics, particularly when someone is in active addiction, and emphasized the importance of focusing on small wins and maintaining positive conversations during these gatherings. He also shared strategies for navigating potentially challenging family gatherings, creating positive and memorable experiences, and managing tensions while maintaining positive conversations. Lastly, he stressed the importance of creating a safe environment for open conversation, using conversation starters, and following up with a text after the event to express gratitude and increase the likelihood of future gatherings.
2024-12-2518 min
Family Sobriety NowSpiritually Committed To Recovery Or Being Preoccupied By RecoveryJoseph discussed the idea of being spiritually committed to recovery versus being preoccupied by recovery. He emphasized the importance of finding a rhythm and not just following black and white rules, as there are many shades of gray in life and recovery. Joseph suggested that spiritual fitness can be maintained through introspection, interpersonal relationships, and involvement in a supportive community. He emphasized the need for an awareness between being active and taking time to spiritually feed oneself. Joseph encouraged individuals in recovery to be asked about their experiences and the benefits they derive from their involvement, as this can...
2024-12-1228 min
reeducatedRedefining 'Smart': A Deeper Dive into Intelligence and Learning | Joseph Devlin | Professor of Cognitive Neuroscience, Public Speaker, Consultant | Season 6 Ep. 19 | #105In this episode, I spoke with Dr. Joseph Devlin, a professor of cognitive neuroscience. We dive into a wide-ranging discussion about the nature of intelligence, how the brain works, and the role of personal experience in shaping learning. We explore the nuanced relationship between the brain and the body, particularly how our physical reactions influence our emotions and thoughts. Together, we tackle the often-misused term "smart" in education, emphasizing the need to shift focus from labels to individual effort and growth. We also take a look at how emotional regulation and cognitive development shape the learning process and why...
2024-12-0159 min
Family Sobriety NowCultivating GratitudeJoseph discussed the importance of cultivating gratitude in overcoming addiction and improving overall well-being. He shared his personal experience of transitioning from a life of shame and guilt to one of gratitude. Joseph emphasized the benefits of daily gratitude lists, which he found helped him appreciate the small things in life and connect with his emotions on a deeper level. He discussed strategies for cultivating gratitude within families and friend groups. He emphasized the importance of mindful moments and focusing on the positive aspects of life, even in challenging situations. Joseph concluded by highlighting the significance of gratitude in...
2024-11-2822 min
Family Sobriety NowA Peek Into SponsorshipJoseph emphasized the importance of sponsorship in the 12-step recovery program. He noted key points that are valuable when choosing a sponsor. Joseph shared personal experiences, highlighting how sponsorship transformed his life, providing guidance, and fostering personal growth. He stressed the value of trust, open communication, and the role of guidance in recovery. Joseph also noted that sponsorship helped him set goals, improve relationships, and maintain sobriety by offering ongoing support and accountability, ultimately benefiting both him and his community.
2024-11-1418 min
Family Sobriety NowTwelve-Step ProgramJoseph discussed the effectiveness of the 12-step program for long-term sobriety, emphasizing its holistic approach to addressing the mind, body, and spirit. He highlighted the importance of setting boundaries with loved ones who attend meetings however are not participating in the program. Joseph also drew parallels between the 12-step program and other self-improvement efforts, such as weight loss and exercise, emphasizing the need for continuous nurturing and engagement to maintain progress. Lastly, Joseph encouraged listeners to engage with a twelve-step program or reach out to him for guidance on personal change and growth.
2024-10-3118 min
Family Sobriety NowGood Orderly DirectionJoseph discussed the 12-step recovery program and its emphasis on the concept of a higher power. He addresses objections to the program and highlights the importance of community and personal relationships with a higher power. Joseph shared personal stories of recovery and how it was influenced by a community and seeking guidance from a higher power.
2024-10-1715 min
The Human PodcastLife & Ideas of Leading Consumer Neuroscientist, Joe DevlinWATCH ON YOUTUBE: In this episode, I speak to Joe Devlin, a professor of cognitive neuroscience at UCL. Joe is a leading consumer neuroscience researcher and co-founder of the Applied Consumer Neuroscience (ACN) Labs. He also holds a PhD in Artificial Intelligence.The Human Podcast is a filmed show that explores unique life stories & careers. Subscribe for new interviews every week.🕒 TIMESTAMPS:0:00 - IntroCONSUMER NEUROSCIENCE:1:22 - Ways businesses nudge us to buy3:13 - How much we're influenced daily5:17 - How bra...
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Family Sobriety NowImitation Is The Sincerest Form Of FlatteryJoseph discussed some ofthe basic themes of the 12-step program of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) in recovery, emphasizing the importance of following the program thoroughly and its widespread adoption by other support groups. He also highlighted the need to address addiction as a whole, including social circles, mind, body, and spirit, and stressed the importance of taking ownership of one's strengths and weaknesses. Lastly, he addressed the role of shame and guilt in addiction recovery, emphasizing that addiction is not a reflection of one's worth and the importance of seeking help and making small changes to improve one's life.
2024-10-0316 min
Family Sobriety NowThe One Thing That MattersJoseph discussed the importance of peace of mind, emphasizing that it is the most valuable thing one can possess. He shared an essay titled "The One ThingThat Matters" by Emmett Fox, which highlights the significance of peace of mind in overcoming life's challenges. Joseph also shared his approach to helping his children when they are upset, which involves breathing calmly and actively listening to their concerns. He highlighted the value of this approach in bringing peace to a situation and facilitating communication and problem-solving.
2024-09-1914 min
Family Sobriety NowRecovery and Personality CharacteristicsJoseph highlighted the importance of a lifelong recovery process for individuals dealing with addiction. He stressed that recovery is not just about abstaining from substances but also about addressing the underlying personality traits that lead to addiction. Joseph suggested the practice of writing a daily gratitude list as a powerful tool for maintaining a positive mindset and perspective. He shared his own experience of how this simple practice helped change his life. He also discussed the concept of addiction as a solution to life's problems and the risks associated with slipping back into old behaviors and mindsets once the...
2024-09-0516 min
Family Sobriety NowAfter Treatment and ForgivenessJoseph discussed the importance of celebrating milestones in addiction recovery, maintaining a routine, and seeking support through groups like 12-step programs. He emphasized the importance of forgiveness in the recovery process, not only for the sake of the person being forgiven but for one's own well-being. Joseph also highlighted the significance of forgiveness and personal growth in the recovery process.
2024-08-2224 min
Family Sobriety NowCelebrating Successes In RecoveryJoseph highlighted the significance of celebrating successes, no matter how small, and the role of community and support in the recovery process. He emphasized the importance of perseverance, personal growth, and family involvement in effective long-term recovery from addiction. Lastly, he encouraged everyone to create individual lists of successes and corresponding celebrations because sobriety is a family affair.
2024-08-0815 min
Family Sobriety NowRebuilding Trust In RecoveryJoseph Devlin emphasized the need for rebuilding trust between individuals in recovery and their loved ones and encouraged consistent actions to strengthen this trust. He highlighted the importance of random drug testing and community support in maintaining accountability and building trust during the recovery process. He also suggested that loved ones should agree on consistent check-ins and boundaries to deter substance abuse.
2024-07-2511 min
Family Sobriety NowParticipating in Treatment Goals and Building RelationshipsJoseph Devlin emphasized the importance of family sessions, written communication, and setting achievable goals in supporting individuals with addiction. He also highlighted the value of community support networks and addressing the spiritual aspect of mental and physical health issues. Lastly, he encouraged the identification and engagement with a spiritual mentor or sponsor as a means of guidance and support in the journey towards recovery.
2024-07-1120 min
Family Sobriety NowGoal Setting In Addiction TreatmentJoseph Devlin discussed the importance of goal-setting and building a supportive community in the treatment process or addiction, emphasizing the need for realistic, attainable goals and the involvement of loved ones. He underscored the significance of balance, enjoyment, and reflection in the process of recovery. Joseph highlighted that realistic, attainable goals, set in collaboration with a counselor, are key to successful achievement and rapid change. He noted that setting too many goals or attempting to do too much too fast could lead to feeling overwhelmed and ultimately failing. Joseph stressed the importance of building goals from the previous level...
2024-06-2714 min
Family Sobriety NowFamily Sessions Help With AgreementsJoseph discussed the significance of family support in addiction treatment, emphasizing the need for open communication, active involvement, and respect for confidentiality laws. He also highlighted the importance of support groups and proactive boundary setting in enhancing the chances of success in achieving sobriety. Lastly, he shared his experiences in helping families create agreements and commitments to support their loved ones' recovery, stressing the importance of accountability and consequences.
2024-06-1317 min
Family Sobriety NowTaking Care of YourselfJoseph discussed that in a holistic recovery process, prioritizing personal well-being is crucial to supporting a loved one. Engaging in support groups, such as 12-step-based groups, spiritual support groups, and community groups, provides shared experiences and insights into the recovery process. Building a support system, including community support groups, will help maintain a healthy state of mind, body, and spirit. Joseph also challenged listeners to an exercise to stay in good mental, physical, and spiritual health. By prioritizing their own well-being, caregivers can better support their loved ones in recovery. About our Host:Joseph B. Devlin...
2024-05-3011 min
Family Sobriety NowPeace in the Storm, Accountability, Amends and Family GrowthJen shared her journey supporting a loved one through addiction, emphasizing the importance of community support and setting boundaries. She reflected on her past controlling behavior, expressing gratitude to her children for guiding her towards personal growth and strengthening her family. Jen and Joseph discussed the importance of accountability and making amends, highlighting the positive impact on family dynamics. Last, Jen discussed seeking family counseling with her husband highlighting it as a crucial part of their journey towards building a strong and lasting marriage.About our Host:Joseph B. Devlin, MA, CAADC, is a respected...
2024-05-1654 min
Family Sobriety NowSelf-Advocacy and Assessment ProcessJoseph discussed the importance of self-advocacy, particularly when dealing with healthcare providers and insurance companies. He emphasized the need to be informed and persistent in understanding what treatments are covered. He also discussed the current crisis of addiction and the importance of advocating for loved ones seeking treatment. Joseph then outlined the intake process for addiction treatment, emphasizing the need to schedule the first appointment in the morning and recommended having a close family member present. He also discussed the importance of the assessment process, emphasizing its efficiency and the role of interventionists in providing crucial information. Joseph emphasized...
2024-05-0915 min
Leadership Perspectives in Financial ServicesDecoding the Brain's Influence on Consumer Behaviour with Joseph DevlinHave you ever wondered what ignites that spark in your brain when you make a choice, be it picking a brand or deciding to trust someone?This episode explores the mind's undercurrents with cognitive neuroscience professor Joseph Devlin. Together, we break down the walls of the subconscious, revealing the secrets of consumer neuroscience that drive our decisions, often without us even realising it.Joseph shares some of the sophisticated tools used to measure audience engagement, pushing past the limitations of traditional market research.OxTalks is produced and managed by Urban Podcasts.
2024-05-0859 min
Family Sobriety NowStep-Down Approach to Addiction TreatmentJoseph Devlin discussed chapter four treatment options for addiction from his book a Step Out of Darkness. He emphasized that inpatient treatment is not a quick fix but a preparation for life after intensive counseling. He proposed a step-down approach to treatment, starting with detox, followed by inpatient rehab, partial hospitalization program, intensive outpatient program, and general outpatient. However, he acknowledged the financial and time constraints as major concerns, he clarified that although there's no long-term commitment required, individuals may be 'mortgaging their future'.About our Host:Joseph B. Devlin, MA, CAADC, is a respected...
2024-05-0218 min
Family Sobriety NowA Family's Struggle with Substance AbusePaul and Maureen shared their experiences dealing with their son's addiction issues. They highlighted the importance of recognizing warning signs such as poor sleep patterns, lack of loyal friends, and erratic behavior. They also shared how their family dynamics changed due to their struggle with their son's addiction, including the challenges of balancing tough love with support. They recounted instances where their son’s actions lead to a loss of trust and changes in household rules. They also discussed their ongoing concerns for their son, the positive steps he is making, and the benefits of setting boundaries.Ab...
2024-04-2547 min
Family Sobriety NowIntervention and Connection in Healing RelationshipsJoseph Devlin discussed the importance of connections in our lives, drawing from his book "A Step Out of Darkness." In the episode, he emphasized the role of intervention in rebuilding relationships, especially those affected by addiction. Joseph highlighted the need for a professional interventionist to handle frustration and anger, allowing loved ones to approach the conversation from a place of healing and love. He emphasized that an intervention is not an act of turning one's back on a loved one, but rather a demonstration of persistence and love. Joseph underscored the importance of choosing words that land well with t...
2024-04-1811 min
Family Sobriety NowAddressing the Impact of Addiction on Mind, Body and SpiritJoseph discusses the biological and behavioral aspects of addiction. He describes the complex nature of addiction, including its activation of certain genes, the creation of new neural pathways, the role of community and family, and the evolution of treatment and recovery programs. He emphasizes that addiction is a powerful force that requires understanding and effective engagement. Joseph encourages participants to seek out resources and programs that address all aspects of well-being and stressed the importance of ongoing support from family and community.About our Host:Joseph B. Devlin, MA, CAADC, is a respected behavioral health...
2024-04-1119 min
Family Sobriety NowThe Addiction Impact on SocietyJoseph discusses the severity of addiction, highlighting that it affects all races, nationalities, and socio-economic groups. He emphasizes that addiction destroys relationships, financial stability, and personal wellbeing, and is a major issue in society. Joseph shares statistics about the prevalence of addiction and its economic impact and stresses the need to tackle the issue proactively, especially for those close to us who are struggling. He also highlights the crucial role of family values and time spent together in promoting sobriety and healing.About our Host:Joseph B. Devlin, MA, CAADC, is a respected behavioral health...
2024-04-0417 min
Family Sobriety NowAddiction Epidemic: Shedding Light, Supporting IndividualsIn his premiere episode, Joseph discusses the importance of openly addressing the addiction epidemic and supporting individuals without compromising accountability. He emphasizes that addiction often breeds shame and isolation, but these issues can be confronted through community conversations. He also discussed his journey in the treatment industry and his goal to guide others through addiction recovery. Joseph reiterates the goal of shedding light on the epidemic and stressed the importance of asking for and accepting help, as well as the need for a shift in mindset towards the perceived complexity of the recovery process.About our Host:
2024-03-2809 min
Powering ProgressPowering Progress E05: Bobby Smith, Head of Energy Storage Ireland and Joseph Devlin, Senior Analyst at Energia Group In this installment of Powering Progress, Edward Hayden speaks with Bobby Smith, who is the Head of Energy Storage Ireland, and Joseph Devlin, who's a senior analyst at Energia Group. Bobby tells us that Energy Storage Ireland has over 50 member companies from across the energy storage industry and works to promote the benefits of energy storage to decarbonising Ireland’s energy system. He tells Edward what exactly energy storage is and why it is important. He tells us about battery storage and the advantages energy storage can bring. Meanwhile, Joseph chats about green hydrogen. He tells...
2024-03-2613 min
Family Sobriety NowWelcome to Family Sobriety Now!Learn what the Family Sobriety Now podcast is about and about it's host, Joseph Devlin.
2024-03-2203 min
The Scattered Seeds PodcastEpisode 108 - Joseph LoconteSend us a textThere are stories that whose enduring messages of hope, renewal, and redemption transcend time and space. Stories like Tolkien’s Lord of the Rings and Lewis’s the Chronicles of Narnia. And today’s guest is an expert on both men and the times and battles that shaped them into the culture creators we know and love. Joseph Loconte is the author of the book A Hobbit, a Wardrobe, and a Great War: How J.R.R. Tolkien and C.S. Lewis Rediscovered Faith, Friendship, and Heroism in the Cataclys...
2023-06-2059 min
Laughing Without Liquor166 The Gratitude Shift with Joseph Devlin
Joseph Devlin is a respected behavioral health expert with more than 20 years of experience in the specialty of Drug and Alcohol Recovery and Treatment. His passion lies in guiding families on how to walk alongside a loved one in recovery, assist in the process of repairing the harm caused by addiction, and restoring peace, calm, and stability to the home. Some of his professional experience includes clinical director, professor, addiction counselor, treatment facilities auditor, and family group decision-making facilitator. He is an accomplished author and Joseph has extensive training and experience in trauma-informed care and restorative practices. He not...
2021-12-2749 min
You're Sober! Now What?166 The Gratitude Shift with Joseph DevlinJoseph Devlin is a respected behavioral health expert with more than 20 years of experience in the specialty of Drug and Alcohol Recovery and Treatment. His passion lies in guiding families on how to walk alongside a loved one in recovery, assist in the process of repairing the harm caused by addiction, and restoring peace, calm, and stability to the home. Some of his professional experience includes clinical director, professor, addiction counselor, treatment facilities auditor, and family group decision-making facilitator. He is an accomplished author and Joseph has extensive training and experience in trauma-informed care and restorative practices. He not...
2021-12-2749 min
Colour outside the linesSeason 2: A ReflectionIn this 30-Minute episode, Lisa and Joseph reflect on what has been shared by our wonderful guests over the 4 interviews. As usual, we tell some stories, have some laughs and share what landed in for us out of all the wisdom which has been shared throughout our conversations. We invite you our listening guests to reflect on what was an aha moment for you? And as usual to share your thoughts and feedback with us. And as a little hint we are seeking out and lining up our adventure into season 3, and we look forward to seeing what we...
2021-04-2224 minColour outside the linesA talk with Marcela Widrig the founder of Fierce EmbodimentThis is the last in our current set of interviews on surviving and thriving the in the pandemic and in this episode we chat to Marcela Widrig the founder of Fierce Embodiment. Marcela works with the body to release old beliefs, hurts and fears and Lisa attended a number of her workshops when she was here in Ireland, so this is a joyful reunion and a new meeting of kindred spirits for Joseph as you will hear for yourself. An amazing conversation with deep wisdom, insight and shared joy. We end the series on a high for sure!
www.fier...
2021-04-1555 min
Erotic Stories from Wylde in BedWerewolf BDSM Erotic chapter reading - Chapter 24Diane returns to her office, in the hope of discovering something new. The forensics report from Joseph's murder isn't what she expects and only creates more doubt, more worries about Dominic. But is there a glimmer of hope in all of this?So you can enjoy even more intense sensual pleasure, just follow this link to the VIP club, https://wyldeinbed.com/vip-clubs/
2021-04-0910 minColour outside the linesA conversation with Dr. Tara Logan BuckleyThis week on Colour Outside the Lines we talk with the wonderful Dr. Tara Logan Buckley who is a clinical psychologist who is a rose from the Kingdom County of Kerry. Tara has her undergraduate and masters from UCC and her PhD from Trinity, so we have moved from ancient wisdom to modern science and perhaps surprisingly Tara's insight reveal lots of overlap in the recommendations to keep us grounded and nourished through our uncertain times. An amazing conversation with and amazing clinician full of practical useful tips to keep us thriving not just surviving - we loved it an...
2021-04-061h 12Erotic Stories from Wylde in BedDark Werewolf BDSM Erotic romance - Chapter 22Having left Dominic behind, Dianne is hell bent on getting justice for Joseph and brining the full weight of the law onto his murderer. But faced with her first line of enquiry. Her ex.A man she had used to grow her career.How will she handle herself now she is investigating a murder? How will she question the man not days before she was having sex with?So you can enjoy even more intense sensual pleasure, just follow this link to the VIP club, https://wyldeinbed.com/vip-clubs/
2021-03-2617 minColour outside the linesAn Interview with Alex ReyContinuing with the theme of being well through lockdown. This week we welcome Alex Rey, hailing from a lineage of Colombian medicine people. During our chat we explore the world of shamanism and how the simple easy to embody practices can bring us back to joy and through life’s challenges. We cover drum making, dance and getting your feet back in touch with the earth.
We hope you enjoy this chat and if you have any questions please feel free to ask us, we would love to hear from you!
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2021-03-2542 minErotic Stories from Wylde in BedDark Werewolf BDSM Erotic romance - Chapter 21With Joseph gone, Diane is focused on finding his murderers, and she really isn't sure how much involvement Dominic has had in his brutal end. Each of them have a path to follow, alone, so they might uncover the secrets that have remained hidden for so long. So you can enjoy even more intense sensual pleasure, just follow this link to the VIP club, https://wyldeinbed.com/vip-clubs/
2021-03-1917 minColour outside the linesCeltic Wisdom for Modern Times with Mari Kennedy In episode 3 of the second season Lisa and Joseph interview Mari Kennedy, sharer of wisdom, keeper of The Celtic Wheel about how we can access and connect with ancient wisdom to sustain and nourish us in times of chaos and uncertainty.
www.marikennedy.com www.thecelticwheel.com
2021-03-1854 minColour outside the linesQuality Conversations In episode 2 of the second season Joseph and Lisa explore how we can have different and deeper conversations when all anyone talks about is COVID19, by changing the questions we ask each other we can connect while socially distanced and feel closer while apart
https://www.psychologytoday.com/ie/blog/open-gently/201310/36-questions-bring-you-closer-together
*Unfortunately there are some issues with the sound quality, bear with us, it gets better during the episode.
2021-03-1158 minColour outside the linesLove Vs FearAnd they’re back. Lisa and Joseph return and in the first episode of the second season of Colour Outside the Lines they discuss love vs fear and what sustains us in uncertain times. Also, on the menu The Heroes Journey, New Year's resolutions and the sea we are swimming in.
2021-03-0458 minErotic Stories from Wylde in BedWerewolf Erotic BDSM Story - Chapter 18Joseph is ready to confront his past. To put right everything he has done wrong in the past. But to do so means facing a man who detests him. Armed with nothing more than a strong moral sense and a lucky peso, Joseph feels the time is now to face his demons. The latest chapter from the dark paranormal erotic romance Lamb to the Slaughter. You can test ride your own sensual fantasies by visiting me at wyldedesires.com
2021-02-2612 min
The Healers CaféHow To Help Someone Enter Addiction Treatment with Joseph Devlin on The Healers Café with Dr. Manon Bolliger, NDIn this episode of The Healers Café, Dr. Manon Bolliger, ND, chats with Joseph Devlin a respected behavioral health expert and Family Addictions Specialist. For the transcript and to listen to the full story today! https://www.drmanonbolliger.com/joseph-devlin Highlights from today's episode include: Joseph Devlin 09:40 I have and I still do attend Alcoholics Anonymous. I'd say it saved my life. It's just going through the the 12 step process, which is a continual process, and it allowed me to take that snapshot of saying, o...
2021-02-0339 minColour outside the linesColour outside the lines, Episode 5 James CluskeyOn the final episode this season, Lisa and Joseph have a great conversation with James Cluskey.
James is a retired ATP and Irish Davis Cup tennis player with 15 professional titles including ITF futures and ATP challengers. Also, a Guinness World Record holder holding the record for playing the longest doubles match of 60 hour continuous tennis. Private tennis coach to Sir Richard Branson and the founder of HC Collective where he works with individuals and teams on the topic of High Performance.
2020-12-201h 10Colour outside the linesColour outside the lines, Episode 4 Lisa HughesIn this episode the roles are reversed. Joseph gets to interview Lisa. They discuss being curious about life, yoga and her experiences during this covid year and so much more.
2020-12-2052 minColour outside the linesColour outside the lines, Episode 3 Joseph DevlinOn this episode of Colour outside the lines it's Joseph's turn to be interviewed. Lisa and Joseph discuss mens work, the shadow side, tea and chats and much more.
2020-12-201h 12Colour outside the linesColour outside the lines, Episode 2 Grace TempanyOn this episode, Lisa and Joseph have a great conversation with Grace Tempany. Grace is a yin yoga teacher trainer, yoga teacher and secondary-school educator based in Dublin, and more recently online. Passionate about empowering the students and teachers with whom she works, her main work within the yoga sphere currently is in training yin yoga teachers, and bringing critical thinking, teacher self-reflection, and personal growth into the journey of transformation.
2020-12-201h 06Colour outside the linesColour outside the lines, Episode 1 Sarah SprouleIn this episode Lisa and Joseph talk to Sarah Sproule. Sarah helps parents talk to their kids about sex and sexuality in a healthy way.
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