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2025-08-2315 minThe Derelict PodcastDivorced Once. Married 46 Years Since. EP 75A VERY special episode where we interrupt our regularly scheduled programming to interview, yes, that's right, MY PARENTS!They failed their first marriages. Then made it 40+ years together. My parents open up about gender roles, God, cheating, and what makes love actually last. Raw, real, unfiltered. Share this with someone younger—before they screw it up.
2025-08-181h 08
The Derelict PodcastRedefining Masculinity: Why Vulnerability Makes You Stronger, EP 74Get your well-crafted story blueprint to create a compellingpresentation: www.freestoryguide.comCheck out Danny's books here: https://amzn.to/4kIcgl2Recommended reading: "Team of Rivals: The Political Genius of Abraham Lincoln" by Doris Kearns Goodwin: https://amzn.to/3IBITDz In this episode of The Derelict Podcast, Josh Tomeoni sits down with Dr. Danny Brassell to challenge what modern culture teaches men about masculinity. They explore why vulnerability is actually strength, how to find purpose after failure, and why respect must be earned. From faith and adversity to powerful storytelling, this conv...
2025-08-0756 min
The Derelict PodcastThe Duality of Masculinity and Femininity, EP 73Connect with Jessica on Instagram: @jessicalaurenvine!In this engaging conversation, Jessica Lauren Vine and Josh Tomeoni explore the complexities of relationships, focusing on themes of masculinity, femininity, and personal growth. They discuss the impact of divorce, the concept of toxic masculinity, and the importance of communication in fostering healthy relationships. Through personal anecdotes and insights, they emphasize the journey of self-discovery and the influence of external opinions on our perceptions of love and connection.
2025-07-311h 02
The Feminine Codes PodcastFrom Conflict to Connection: Healing the Feminine and Masculine Dynamic with Josh TomeoniWhat happens when a man loses everything - career, marriage, identity - and chooses to rise not through his performance, but through being totally present?In this raw and powerful conversation, I’m joined by Josh Tomeoni, a former financial advisor turned men’s coach who helps men redefine masculinity after divorce, collapse, and identity loss.Josh shares how true masculine healing is inseparable from honoring the feminine—and how, when done consciously, it becomes a bridge to deeper love, trust, and wholeness.We explore:• The masculine wound and men’...
2025-07-261h 10The Derelict PodcastAbuse: Been There Got Out, EP 72In this episode, Josh and Chris (www.beentheregotout.com) delve into the complexities of narcissism, abusive relationships, and the journey of healing and resilience. Chris shares his personal experiences with high conflict divorce, the impact of childhood on adult relationships, and the importance of self-validation. They discuss the differences between covert and overt narcissism, how to identify narcissistic behaviors, and the significance of introspection and accountability in personal growth. The conversation also highlights the challenges of navigating toxic relationships and offers resources for those seeking support.Buy Chris' book here: https://amzn.to/4ld1cxrChapters00:00 Introduction to Narcissism and...
2025-07-2459 min
The Derelict PodcastHow to Be a Legendary Dad: Masculinity, Forgiveness & Growth, EP 71In this powerful episode of The Derelict Podcast, Josh Tomeoni sits down with Larry Hagner—founder of The Dad Edge (thedadedge.com)—to explore what it takes to become a legendary father and husband. From overcoming childhood struggles to building emotional safety and self-awareness, Larry shares raw insights on parenting, masculinity, and the pursuit of personal growth. Whether you’re balancing work and family or learning to forgive yourself, this conversation will inspire you to show up as your best self.🎧 Listen to learn how validation, forgiveness, and community can transform your relationships—and your life.And watch for Larry's boo...
2025-07-1751 min
Journey Beyond Divorce PodcastNavigating the Male Identity Crisis in Divorce with Josh Tomeoni, Divorce Coach, CFP, ChFC, CLU, RICPIn this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, host Karen McMahon sits down with Josh Tomeoni, a men’s coach, financial expert, and host of The Derelict Podcast. Josh shares his personal journey through divorce and how it led him to help other men navigate life’s toughest transitions. With 18 years of experience building financial planning businesses—and learning from failures in marriage and life—Josh offers honest insight into what men face during divorce. Together, they explore the pressure to “man up,” common post-divorce pitfalls, and how men can stay connected to their kids while healing....
2025-07-1642 minThe Derelict PodcastHe Lost His Wife, Career & Son — Then Everything Changed, EP 70💔 What happens when a man loses everything—his marriage, his career, and even his child?In this brutally honest episode, Josh sits down with Jonathon Aslay, dating and relationship coach, to talk about addiction, heartbreak, online dating as a coping mechanism, and the long, messy road to self-love.From numbing with drugs and validation to doing the real work of healing, Jonathon shares the truth about how men suffer in silence and how they can finally break free.Whether you're a divorced dad, a man stuck in the cycle of "overthinking and under feeling", or just someone looking for hope...
2025-07-101h 13The Derelict PodcastShe Changed Her Life With One Thought – Here's How You Can Too, EP 69🔥 Tired of feeling stuck, unmotivated, or like you’re never enough?In this fire-packed episode, Josh sits down with Samantha ultra-marathoner, mindset coach, and all-around badass, to talk about what it really takes to feel hot AF — in your body, mind, and entire life.This episode isn’t just about fitness — it’s about rewiring your thoughts, breaking free from self-sabotage, and learning how to show up when you feel like doing anything but.If you’ve ever struggled with confidence, stress weight, or feeling like you’ve lost your spark... this one's for you.💬 DM “JOSH” to Samantha on Instagram @samanthani...
2025-07-0359 minThe Derelict PodcastWhy So Many Men Stay in Broken Marriages (Without Realizing It), EP 68Most men don’t realize they’re in high-conflict marriages… until they’re drowning in a brutal divorce. In this powerful and raw episode, top divorce coach Karen McMahon breaks down the emotional chaos men face, the myths around masculinity and vulnerability, and why most men don’t seek help until it’s almost too late.We talk about:- The truth behind “high-conflict” divorces- Why therapy alone won’t save you- How most men abandon themselves to keep the peace- The difference between being vulnerable and being weak- Why self-love is the most courageous thing a man can doThis one’s not j...
2025-06-261h 08
Power of Man PodcastPower of Man #240 - Author/Podcaster/Coach, Josh Tomeoni!!!Send us a textJosh Tomeoni is a men’s coach, father, financial advisor, and host of The Derelict Podcast. After walking through a deeply painful divorce and identity collapse in his mid-30s, Josh rebuilt his life—emotionally, spiritually, and financially. He now helps men do the same. His coaching, podcast, and books (The Derelict: Fight. Fail. Find Manhood and The 5 Traps Men Face in Divorce) serve a growing tribe of entrepreneurial men navigating divorce, midlife, and the search for authentic masculinity. Josh speaks powerfully to men who feel stuck, lost, or isolated—and shows them how to r...
2025-06-2455 minThe Derelict PodcastBeing a Man Feels Like a Crime Now – Here’s Why, EP 67Men today are more confused than ever—about love, identity, masculinity, and purpose. In this raw and eye-opening episode, therapist and men’s coach Chuck Chapman joins us to dissect the crisis modern men face: the collapse of masculinity, the trap of being “too nice,” and the emptiness of chasing success without self-love.We talk about:- The myth of toxic masculinity- What an “integrated man” looks like- Why most men are either numb, climbing, or broken- The hidden costs of not loving yourself- Echoism: the dangerous opposite of narcissismIf you’re a man feeling stuck, alone, or unseen—this episode mig...
2025-06-1957 minThe Derelict PodcastManhood, Fatherhood & Faith: The Talk Every Man Needs 🔥, EP 66What happens when a bestselling author and military veteran sits down with a father navigating pain, purpose, and personal growth?In this honest, no-BS episode, Geoff Michael Hopf joins Josh for a deep dive into the topics too many men avoid:Masculinity in today’s worldHealing without losing your edgeFatherhood without a modelWhy faith matters when everything else failsWhether you’re a man searching for meaning, a father doing his best, or just someone tired of surface-level conversations—this one hits deep.👇 Geoff brings the wisdom. Josh brings the fire. Together, they bring the truth.⭐ 5 Key Takeaways:1. You can’t heal what y...
2025-06-121h 09
🎂 No Half Cakes - The Recipe For Real SuccessWhy Most Men Stay Stuck (And How to Break Free) with Josh Tomeoni | No Half Cakes PodcastMost men are carrying pain behind a performance.They’re told to be strong, to lead, to push through… but inside, they’re exhausted, disconnected, and ashamed of not measuring up.In this episode, I sit down with Josh Tomeoni, filmmaker, creator of The Derelict, and a man who’s been through the fire, to talk about what it really means to be a man today.We dive into the cost of faking strength, the silent weight men carry in marriage and life, and how to stop performing and start living with tru...
2025-06-091h 00The Derelict PodcastFrom Broken Boy to Respected Man—The Conversation You Need to Hear, EP 65This isn’t a celebrity spotlight or a highlight reel—this is a story about a man who hit the edge... and climbed back stronger.In this raw, no-filter conversation, we dive deep into how pain becomes purpose, how discipline rebuilds identity, and how fatherhood becomes the fight worth staying in.🧠 If you’ve ever felt lost, angry, or like you weren’t enough—this episode will speak straight to you. It’s not about hype. It’s about honesty.👇 The transformation is real. The message is strong. The man? You’ll find out.▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬🔗 Join the conversation and uncover real growth and healing.👇 SUBSCRIBE HERE:https://www.youtube.com/@JoshTheDereli...
2025-06-051h 14
THE Podcaster NationTHE Podcaster Nation #80 - "The Derelict" podcast with Josh Tomeoni!!!Helping Men Reclaim Purpose, Power, and Brotherhood After Divorce. Host of "the Derelict" Podcast, Author of multiple books and Men's Divorce advocate, Josh Tomeoni brings his message of hope to our podcast today. He has been there. He has lived it, gone through the pain, and has come out the other side as a rebuilt and better man. In his words: "I’m a derelict. Not in the pity sense—but in the real sense. A man once left in poor condition from years of disuse, neglect, addiction, and codependency. After a brutal divorce shattered my life, I went on...
2025-06-041h 05
The Dr. Moe Show: Freedom to SHIFTChoose Your Hard: The Truth About Failure, Masculinity & Midlife ShiftsWhat do divorce, identity loss, and getting shredded in the Instagram comments have in common?They're all part of Josh Tomeoni’s radical transformation into what he now calls “Josh the Derelict”—an outcast turned coach who helps men reclaim purpose in a world that rarely gives them permission to shift.In this raw and wildly insightful episode, Dr. Moe and Josh dive deep into:Why every life path—whether it’s playing video games or building a business—is hard… and how to choose the right kind of hardHow failure isn’t personal—it’s just missing th...
2025-06-0146 minThe Derelict PodcastFrom Partying to Prayer: Why I Gave My Life to God at 30, EP 64🧠 What if everything you thought you knew about God, religion, and purpose… was incomplete?In this soul-searching episode, Josh sits down with Nathan Hoffman (a.k.a. the Jewish Tony Robbins) to discuss what it really means to go through a spiritual awakening—especially as a man in transition.Raised secular, Nathan became observant later in life, while Josh shares his story of deconstructing faith and rebuilding a relationship with God on his own terms. Together, they explore why so many men struggle with spirituality, how ego and shame get in the way, and what true connection with a higher...
2025-05-2953 min
Make Your Day Richer TVHelping Men Reclaim PurposeJosh Tomeoni describes himself as a 'derelict'—a man rebuilt after years of disuse, neglect, and addiction. After a brutal divorce, Josh embarked on a messy, painful, yet ultimately powerful transformation, and now he's a men's coach, podcast host, financial advisor, and author.Thank you PodMatch for the connection! #podmatch
2025-05-2226 minThe Derelict PodcastBurnout & Bingeing: The Food Lies We're Told, EP 63🍎 Tired of diet culture, food guilt, and feeling like you're constantly failing at health?In this raw and real episode, Josh sits down with Shar—a former burnt-out IT project manager turned perimenopause & fat-loss coach—to break down the real reasons why so many of us struggle with food, body image, and mindset.Shar shares her journey from restrictive dieting and burnout to discovering macronutrition, balance, and food freedom. Together, they explore why most diets fail, how to rewire your relationship with food, and why shame around eating is more harmful than food itself.This isn’t just about fat loss—...
2025-05-2244 minThe Derelict PodcastDivorced & Drowning: Why Men Hide Their Pain, EP 62Connect with Mike for free resources here: michaelvhuber.com!In this raw and revealing episode, two divorced dads—Josh and guest Mike Huber—have a no-BS conversation about what it's like to navigate fatherhood, vulnerability, and identity after divorce. From toxic silence to emotional recovery, they expose the invisible weight many men carry, and why so many suffer alone. Mike also opens up about his past struggles with addiction, building a new life, and becoming the kind of support he never had as a kid. This isn’t just a talk about divorc...
2025-05-151h 01
Catholic Life Coach For Men245 - Authentic Masculinity with Josh TomeoniHave you ever noticed that sometimes what your wife says she wants isn't what she actually wants? While this is true for everyone, modern women are in a particular pinch about expressing what they want from a man. The truth is they simultaneously want a deep and powerful masculine presence from their man but are also scared of that masculinity. This can be a very confusing message to men - especially men who are not confident in their own masculinity. The solution is for you, the man, to both lean into authentic masculinity, but to...
2025-05-121h 07Catholic Life coach for Men245 - Authentic Masculinity with Josh TomeoniHave you ever noticed that sometimes what your wife says she wants isn't what she actually wants? While this is true for everyone, modern women are in a particular pinch about expressing what they want from a man. The truth is they simultaneously want a deep and powerful masculine presence from their man but are also scared of that masculinity. This can be a very confusing message to men - especially men who are not confident in their own masculinity. The solution is for you, the man, to both lean into authentic masculinity, but to...
2025-05-121h 07The Derelict PodcastNo Girl Should Go Through This: Jessica’s Story of Survival, Strength, and Starting Over, EP 61In this deeply personal episode, Jessica opens up about a chapter of her life no girl should ever have to endure — from emotional wounds to moments of complete uncertainty. Together with Josh, she shares how she found the strength to rebuild her life, trust again, and co-create a business from scratch. This is more than just a story of entrepreneurship — it’s about survival, healing, love, and the resilience to turn pain into power. If you’ve ever felt broken or stuck, this conversation will remind you that you’re not alone — and that starting over is possible.👉 Drop a comment if yo...
2025-05-091h 17The Derelict PodcastHow Vulnerability and Purpose Can Change a Man’s Life, EP 60In this deep and real conversation, Josh, Jonathan, and Josh P. break down why vulnerability is not weakness—it's the path to power.They dive into how masculine culture affects men, how to escape victim mentality, the role of gratitude, and why purpose is critical for resilience.If you want stronger relationships, better leadership, and a life you're proud of, this episode will hit you hard in the best way.👉 Drop a comment if you’ve been through a divorce. Let’s talk about it.🔥 LIKE & SUBSCRIBE for more real talk about growth, healing, and rebuilding your life!▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬Connect with Jonathan on instagram👇: https://www.instagram.com/jamiemlimaC...
2025-05-0855 min
Polarity UnscriptedDivorce, Masculinity & Gender TypologyDivorce coach Josh Tomeoni shares thoughts on divorce as a man, the masculinity/femininity polarity, having a life mission (yes!), and dying on the hill in opposition of the term "toxic masculinity."I opine.Listen now. To learn more about Josh, his services or book, checkout:@joshthederelict on Instagramwww.thederelict.bizIf you'd like your (optionally anonymous) story of gender and relationships featured on this podcast, email me:Email: jack@polarityunscripted.comWebsite: polarityunscripted.comInstagram: @polarityunscriptedMedium: @j...
2025-04-2556 minThe Derelict PodcastWhy Divorce Destroys Finances (And How To Survive It) EP 59Divorce can wreck your finances if you don’t know what you’re doing. In this episode, Josh sits down with Jamie, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, to uncover the brutal truth about how divorce impacts your money. From tax implications to splitting assets, we’re covering everything you need to know to avoid financial disaster.🔥 What You’ll Learn In This Episode:✔️ Why dividing assets 50/50 is NEVER that simple.✔️ The biggest financial mistakes people make during divorce.✔️ Why attorneys often get the numbers wrong.✔️ How to properly value assets and avoid financial traps.✔️ Why most divorced men go broke—and how to stop it.🚨 If y...
2025-04-2450 min
Living Fearless TodayHow to Stop Being Codependent and Live Authentically as a Man with Josh TomeoniDo you find yourself constantly adjusting your behavior to please those around you? Josh Tomeoni unpacks the challenges of codependency, its impact on men's lives and how to break free from its grip. He shares his personal journey of overcoming codependent tendencies and finding his authentic self. We discussed the societal pressures that often push men towards unhealthy expressions of masculinity and how to replace it with a more authentic approach to manhood.Josh reveals how his divorce and subsequent relationship challenges led him to confront his codependent patterns. He emphasizes the value of self-reflection and personal...
2025-04-2448 minThe Derelict PodcastThe Real Reason Marriages Fall Apart, EP 58In this eye-opening episode, Josh sits down with UK-based certified Jungian life coach Annabel Lane to explore why so many marriages end in heartbreak. They dive deep into societal expectations, the clash of masculine and feminine energy, and the unconscious triggers that cause relationships to crumble.🔥 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why most marriages fail and the role of unbalanced energy.✔️ The overwhelming pressure of societal expectations.✔️ How masculine and feminine energy affect relationships.✔️ What it truly takes to rebuild yourself after divorce.✔️ The importance of confronting your shadow self.👉 Leave a comment if you’ve been through a divorce or relations...
2025-04-1753 minThe Derelict PodcastDid "The Failure Podcast" Fail? EP 57Letting go of something you poured your soul into is HARD. In this episode, Austin, creator of The Failure Podcast, talks about why he shut down his show despite its success. 💀 He reveals the emotional and mental toll of running a podcast while managing three coffee shops, fatherhood, and personal growth.🔥 What You'll Learn in This Episode:✔️ The hidden cost of chasing success at all costs.✔️ Why shutting down The Failure Podcast was the most freeing decision of his life.✔️ How to balance ambition with mental health and family.✔️ The importance of embracing discomfort to grow.✔️ Why quitting something doesn’t always mean failur...
2025-04-101h 42
The Adaptive MindsetStrength in Vulnerability: Redefining Manhood with Josh TomeoniIn episode 15 of The Adaptive Mindset, Brett Gallant interviews Josh Tomeoni, the owner of The Derelict, as he emphasizes that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness, and highlights the unique challenges men face in society when it comes to discussing emotions and seeking support. Tune in for insightful discussions on leading boldly in a digital world and overcoming life's obstacles.TIMESTAMPS[00:02:36] Identity after divorce.[00:06:20] Coaching men through divorce.[00:09:28] Men's emotional communication c...
2025-04-0851 min
The Iron & Infrastructure PodcastEp 147 | Rock Bottom, Judgment, and Rebuilding | Owning Your Story With Josh TomeoniThis week on The Iron & infrastructure Podcast, Josh Tomeoni, sat down with me for a raw conversation on what it really feels like to hit rock bottom —and what it takes to rebuild. From divorce and isolation to judgment and identity loss, Josh walks through how the darkest moments of his life forced him to confront who he really was. This episode is about becoming. About facing failure head-on and using it as fuel instead of shame. About redefining what strength and masculinity really look like. If you’ve ever felt like you're pretending to hold...
2025-04-0759 minThe Derelict PodcastDivorce is a SH*T Sandwich?! How to Survive & Thrive After Breakup 💔🔥, EP 56Divorce is a beast—or as guest Andra Davidson calls it, a “sh*t sandwich.” 💀 Whether you're going through it or just trying to navigate life after separation, this episode is packed with real talk, raw emotions, and expert advice to help you move forward.🔥 What You'll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why divorce is so emotionally draining and how to handle it✔️ The BIGGEST mistakes people make during divorce✔️ The difference between a lawyer, therapist, and divorce coach✔️ How to rebuild your identity after a breakup✔️ Why men struggle more to seek emotional support🚨 Don't go through this alone. Watch, learn, and start your healin...
2025-04-0356 min
Broke Up, Not Broke(n)™Reinventing Life and Finances After Divorce with Josh TomeoniJamie M. Lima and Josh Tomioni discuss the importance of understanding gender differences in seeking divorce help and emphasize the need to build a strong divorce support team. They explore strategies to avoid financial mistakes by collaborating with planners and highlight the significance of self-care and mental health during the process. The conversation delves into using vision boards for financial reinvention and offers insights on reinventing life post-divorce.
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2025-04-0232 min
The Revolutionary Man PodcastUncovering the Hidden Struggles of Modern Masculinity with Josh TomeoniLet me know your thoughts on the show and what topic you would like me to discuss next.What does it mean to be a man in today's world? Between societal pressures, conflicting expectations, and the constant messaging about "toxic masculinity," many men find themselves walking an impossible tightrope – trying to be strong yet sensitive, confident yet humble, successful yet balanced.Josh Tomeoni joins us to tackle these contradictions head-on with refreshing honesty and depth. As a coach, entrepreneur, and host of the Derelict Podcast, Josh creates spaces where men can be real about their st...
2025-04-0253 min
Life At Full Blast - Innovative and Aligned Strategies for Online CoachesFailing Forward with Josh the DerelictJosh Tomeoni is the ultimate derelict! He’s a middle-aged guy trying to live his most authentic life and help other men do the same. He owns a world-class coaching company for men going through difficult life changes like a divorce, business exit, or other transitions. He hosts The Derelict Podcast, which gives men the freedom and space to be real and authentic about their struggles in real-time. He opens up his soul every single week to others who relate to being successful, but are not sure how to deal with “fail...
2025-03-3124 minThe Derelict Podcast🎉 1 Year of Raw Truth: Success, Failure & The Journey of a Man, EP 55One year. 55 episodes. Countless failures, lessons, and breakthroughs.In this special anniversary episode, I reflect on the highs, the lows, and the raw reality of building this podcast from the ground up. We’re talking about:✅ Intentions vs. Actions – Why most people fail before they even start✅ Redefining Success & Failure – What actually matters in the long run✅ The Battle of Being a Man – Facing the hard truths head-on✅ The Power of Vulnerability – Why men struggle to open up & how we change that✅ Addiction, Divorce & Recovery – The real-life lessons I’ve learned
2025-03-271h 02The Derelict PodcastBONUS: Most Podcasts Fail. WHY We Made it To Top 5% After 1 Year.One year. 55 episodes. Most podcasts don’t make it past 10 episodes—this one did.When I started The Derelict Podcast, I had no idea where it would go. I just knew one thing: Men need a space to be real. To talk about failure, struggles, and success—without the bullshit.💥 What if failure isn’t what you think it is?💡 What if it’s the ONLY way to win?Edison failed 10,000 times before inventing the light bulb. Mr. Beast spent 9 years creating content before seeing success. I made every mistake possible this year—but I’m still here.👉 If you’ve ever felt like g
2025-03-2604 minThe Derelict PodcastFrom NBA to Prison: How Seth Sundberg Rebuilt His Life, EP 54What happens when an NBA player loses everything and ends up in prison? Seth Sundberg shares his raw, unfiltered journey from professional basketball to incarceration and how he turned his lowest moment into his greatest transformation. This conversation dives deep into personal growth, overcoming victim mentality, and how to rebuild your life after failure.Seth opens up about the moment he realized he was living inauthentically, the harsh realities of solitary confinement, and how he found purpose through adversity. Whether you're struggling with setbacks, mindset shifts, or finding meaning, this episode will challenge and inspire you.5 Key Takeaways from...
2025-03-2057 minThe Derelict PodcastHow to Unlock Your Inner Power & Build a Life of Purpose, EP 53What does it take to become the strongest version of yourself? In this powerful conversation, Josh Tomeoni and Jonathan Kurien dive into personal growth, masculinity, leadership, and breaking through limiting beliefs. They discuss why every man needs a coach, how to step into your true identity, and why the right people in your life determine your success.If you're ready to take control, cut out distractions, and live with purpose, this episode will challenge and inspire you. Watch until the end for game-changing insights!5 Key Takeaways from the Episode1. Growth Requires Changing Your Beliefs – If your opinions have never ch...
2025-03-131h 04
The Intuitive Revolution Podcast with Alicia FarricielliEmbracing Authentic Masculinity: Growth, Failure & Emotional Support with Josh TomeoniIn this powerful episode of The Intuitive Revolution, Alicia Farricielli sits down with Josh Tomeoni, men's coach and host of The Derelict Podcast, to unpack the complex layers of masculinity, failure, and emotional healing. Josh opens up about his personal journey through business, marriage, and identity, sharing how embracing failure led him to redefine his purpose and support other men on their own paths.Together, Alicia and Josh explore the concept of toxic masculinity—not as an attack on manhood, but as a recognition of unhealthy behaviors conditioned by society. Josh makes a compelling case for authentic ma...
2025-03-1144 minThe Derelict PodcastBreaking Free from Limiting Beliefs – A Mindset Shift That Will Change Your Life, Ep 52What if everything holding you back is just a story you’ve been telling yourself? In this powerful podcast, mindset expert Ian Inguanez joins us to discuss limiting beliefs, personal transformation, and how to break free from the patterns that keep you stuck. We dive deep into the psychology of self-sabotage, the power of forgiveness, and how to create the future you truly want.If you’re struggling with anger, resentment, or feeling lost in your journey, this episode will give you the mindset shifts and practical tools to take control of your life. Watch until the end for life...
2025-03-0651 minThe Derelict PodcastThe Brutal Truth About Breakups: Why Men Struggle to Move On, EP 51Going through a breakup, divorce, or major life transition? Most men suffer in silence, refusing to ask for help. In this episode of The Derelict Podcast, Josh sits down with Neil Murphy to break down why men struggle with breakups, how unprocessed emotions destroy our future, and the simple mindset shifts that lead to transformation.We’re talking about the raw, unfiltered truth of heartbreak, self-reflection, and what it really takes to come out stronger. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the cycle of failed relationships, this conversation is for you.🔹 Why do men avoid seeking help after a break...
2025-02-2756 minThe Derelict PodcastIs ADHD Wrecking Your Focus & Relationships? 🔥 Here’s the Fix! Ep 50Did you know ADHD is often misdiagnosed as anxiety or depression? Or that your ADHD might be sabotaging your relationships without you even realizing it? In this powerful episode of The Derelict Podcast, Josh Tomeoni sits down with Dr. LeGrand, a leading expert on ADHD, mental health, and performance. They uncover the hidden ways ADHD affects entrepreneurs, relationships, and personal growth.🚀 Struggling with focus, emotions, or connection in your relationships? Learn how to optimize your ADHD brain, reset your dopamine levels, and turn your diagnosis into a superpower.🔔 Hit play now to transform the way you see ADHD and take c...
2025-02-2058 minThe Derelict PodcastCan You Have It All? Business Growth vs. Relationship Survival Ep 49Building a business is hard. Keeping a relationship while doing it? Even harder.In this powerful episode of The Derelict Podcast, Josh Tomeoni sits down with entrepreneur Brandon Smith to discuss the harsh realities of balancing personal relationships and career growth. Why do so many business owners struggle with relationships? Can you grow a company without losing your partner? And what happens when one person is evolving while the other is left behind?🚀 If you’ve ever felt torn between success and love, this episode is for you. Learn how to prioritize what truly matters, avoid common pitfalls, and creat...
2025-02-1350 min
Beyond The Story with Sebastian RuskHow To Become Your Authentic Self As A Man - Josh TomeoniSend us a textIn episode 247 of Beyond The Story, Sebastian Rusk interviews Josh Tomeoni, a passionate advocate for men's mental health and authenticity. Josh shares his journey from childhood to adulthood, highlighting the importance of embracing failure as a stepping stone to success.Tune in as we go beyond the surface to uncover the deeper stories that shape who we are.TIMESTAMPS[00:01:05] Embracing failure as a lesson.[00:03:56] Definition of...
2025-02-1025 minThe Derelict PodcastMusic, Hustle & Redemption – The Untold Story of Robbie G, EP 48Entrepreneur, musician, and coach Robbie G joins us for a powerful conversation about overcoming struggles, dealing with divorce, and staying focused on personal growth. From sharing stages with Snoop Dogg & Wu-Tang Clan to battling legal issues and heartbreak, Robbie’s story is one of resilience and transformation. Tune in for motivation, self-improvement, and raw honesty!
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Key Takeaways:
1. Resilience Through Hardships – Robbie G’s journey shows that setbacks, including legal struggles and divorce, don’t define you. It’s how you respond to them that shapes your future.
2. Healing Takes Time & Effort – Processing a breakup or divorce isn’t easy...
2025-02-061h 01The Derelict PodcastStruggling with Marriage & Fatherhood? This Conversation Will Change Your Perspective!, EP 47In this deep and transformative episode of The Derelict Podcast, Josh Tomeoni sits down with Adam Tasker to unpack the challenges men face in healing, leadership, and relationships. Why do so many men struggle with emotional growth? How can they break free from limiting beliefs and step into their full potential as fathers, partners, and leaders? Adam shares raw insights on personal transformation, fatherhood, breaking old cycles, and how to truly level up in life. If you're a man—or someone who loves one—this episode is packed with powerful takeaways to change your perspective and your life.
🚀 Ready to step...
2025-01-3059 minThe Derelict PodcastDivorce Survival Secrets: Avoid These Costly Mistakes and Reclaim Your Life! EP 46In this episode of the Derelict Podcast, host Josh Tomeoni engages with divorce coach Ravit Rose to explore the complexities of navigating divorce. They discuss the importance of understanding the emotional and financial implications of divorce, the necessity of choosing the right support team, and the distinction between coaching and therapy. Ravit shares her personal journey through a contentious divorce and how it fueled her passion for helping others. The conversation emphasizes the significance of maintaining a positive legacy for children, overcoming victim mentality, and creating a vision for life after divorce.
Key Takeaways:
1. Divorce can be a litigious...
2025-01-2340 min
Transform U: Real-Life Coaching with Dr. Dean and HollyKem SunseriBreaking Free from the Past -Transform U: Coaching Josh TomeoniIn this episode, Coaches Dean and HollyKem Sunseri guide Josh through a powerful process to confront and heal wounds from past relationships, helping him move beyond cynicism. Through compassionate coaching and insights from their book A Roadmap to the Soul, they provide Josh with tools to restore hope and embrace the possibility of new love. Listeners will gain valuable lessons on overcoming emotional barriers and building healthy, fulfilling relationships.Many Free Videos by Dr. Dean Sunseri & HollyKem Sunseri: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IHaveAVoice1212Book - A Roadmap to the Soul: https://amzn.to/3XeFCiE
2025-01-1745 minThe Derelict PodcastStop Chasing Validation: Finding Your True Self, EP 45What a blessing to do a joint podcast with Austin Slagle of @Thefailurepodcast!
In this raw and unfiltered episode we dive deep into life's pivotal moments and the transitions that define us. From navigating breakups, finding purpose at 40, to embracing authenticity and understanding the waves of emotions, this conversation offers profound insights and relatable struggles. Whether you're dealing with personal growth, relationship changes, or seeking clarity in your life's purpose, this episode is packed with reflections, humor, and actionable takeaways.
Don't miss this heartfelt discussion on becoming the best version of yourself while embracing life's...
2025-01-161h 01The Derelict PodcastMen: Welcome to The Derelict Tribe!Follow us on Instagram and send us the word "tribe" to be added: www.instagram.com/thederelictpodcast
Men: welcome to The Derelict Tribe! The Tribe for you beaten down outcasts that are tired of the status quo and what society has told you about masculinity!
2025-01-0900 minThe Derelict PodcastUnlocking Inner Peace: Inner Child Healing and Emotional Growth, EP 44Join Josh Tomeoni in this transformative episode of the Derelict Podcast as he sits down with Alicia Farricielli, an expert in inner child healing and emotional well-being. Together, they dive into powerful topics like how childhood conditioning shapes adult behavior, overcoming societal pressures, and embracing self-love and resilience. Josh shares his personal breakthroughs, offering a raw and relatable perspective on the healing journey. If you're ready to explore inner healing, tackle emotional barriers, and create a life of authenticity and joy, this is the episode for you! 👉 Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it.
Key Takeaways:
1. The Imp...
2025-01-091h 01The Derelict PodcastAfter 20 Years Behind Bars, What Did You Learn? A Journey of Redemption, EP 43In this eye-opening episode of the Derelict Podcast, host Josh Abandonato Tomioni sits down with Jason Smith, who spent 23 years in prison from the age of 21 to 44. Jason shares his raw and inspiring story of facing fear, taking accountability, and transforming his life.
Discover:
How prison forced Jason to confront his failures and rebuild his identity.The powerful lessons he learned about respect, redemption, and resilience.Why he believes, “Without struggle, there can be no progress,” and how this mindset changed everything.This conversation is a must-watch for anyone seeking to overcome their mistakes and reclaim their future. Whether you’re str...
2025-01-0356 minThe Derelict PodcastWhy Men Struggle to Ask for Help – Let's Break the Cycle, EP 42Josh kicks off his first-ever YouTube live on his birthday with an honest and powerful discussion on healing, personal growth, and self-discovery. Joined by his longtime mentor and friend Lawrence, they dive into the vital roles that therapy, mentorship, and coaching play in overcoming struggles and building a path to success. Together, they explore the differences between these forms of guidance, the importance of surrounding yourself with the right influences, and how embracing vulnerabilitycan unlock true transformation. Whether you’re seeking clarity on your journey or looking for inspiration to take the next step, this milestone episode is packed with in...
2024-12-271h 08The Derelict PodcastThe Truth About Sobriety: Authentic Living and Emotional Freedom, EP 41In this thought-provoking episode of the Derelict Podcast, host Josh Abbandonato welcomes Ken Cox for a raw and authentic conversation about sobriety, self-discovery, and breaking down societal norms surrounding alcohol use. They explore the highs and lows of learning to live authentically without substances, the role of cannabis in emotional healing, and how to embrace your true self—even the “weird and goofy” parts.
Ken shares insights from his personal journey, revealing how he transformed his life by choosing sobriety and using mindfulness tools to connect with his emotions. Whether you’re considering a sober lifestyle or simply want to understa...
2024-12-191h 02The Derelict PodcastBreaking the Chains of Hidden Addictions, EP 40Addiction, Shame, and Redemption:
A Conversation with Logan Hufford In this episode of The Derelict Podcast, I connect with Logan Hufford—an Alaskan adventurer, husband, father, and someone who has fought a life-long battle with addiction. Logan’s story is raw, honest, and incredibly powerful. We dive deep into what addiction truly looks like beyond the clichés and stereotypes.
Logan opens up about his struggle with sex addiction and how it pushed him to the brink—threatening his family, his happiness, and his self-worth. We explore not just the outward challenges but the inner battles of shame and the path to...
2024-12-121h 25The Derelict PodcastDating Secrets Revealed, EP 39In this engaging episode of the Derelict Podcast, host Josh Tomeoni welcomes dating expert Coach Kavita for a deep dive into the art of navigating relationships and personal growth. From lessons learned in financial coaching to the intricacies of speed dating, this conversation sheds light on the importance of strong opinions, civil discourse, and leaning into discomfort for growth. Kavita shares invaluable insights from her years of experience coaching and matchmaking, touching on the delicate balance of knowing when to step back and when to re-enter the dating scene. This episode is packed with relatable stories, practical dating tips, and...
2024-12-051h 04
Men Becoming Better MenThe 5 Traps Men Fall Into After Divorce and How to Overcome Them wsg Josh TomeoniFeeling like you were abandoned or cast aside after divorce? You’re not alone—and there’s a way forward.
In this powerful episode, Bob welcomes Josh Tomioni, coach, podcast host, and father of three, to discuss the hard truths about navigating life’s toughest transitions. From overcoming contentious divorces to rebuilding purpose and identity, Josh shares his journey of failure, healing, and rediscovery. Together, they break down the five biggest traps men face during and after divorce, from self-care neglect to unhealthy relationships, and offer actionable insights to reclaim masculinity and authenticity.
Josh also reveals...
2024-12-0238 minThe Derelict PodcastWhy Men MUST Stop Suppressing Emotions | Masculinity, Mental Health & Emotional Release, EP 38Are men really expected to suppress emotions like anger and grief? In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the untold struggles of masculinity, emotional suppression, and mental health. Jason Lange, a men’s embodiment coach, and Josh “Abbandonato” Tomeoni explore why bottled-up emotions can lead to rage, collapse, or breakdown—and how men can reclaim emotional freedom.
Connect with Jason here: https://evolutionary.men/
You’ll learn:
• Why society teaches men to hide emotions and the consequences of it.
• How suppressed emotions turn into emotional kindling, ready to explode.
• The key to emotional fluidity and why creating a safe space for emotio...
2024-11-281h 09The Derelict PodcastFrom Tragedy to Triumph: Belinda’s Journey of Comedy, Vulnerability, and Global Adventures, EP 37Join Josh “Abbandonato” Tomeoni on The Derelict Podcast as he welcomes Belinda Filippelli—a stand-up comedian, business owner, and cultural storyteller. Belinda shares her journey from her Italian-American roots to living in cities like New York, Prague, and Barcelona. She opens up about the challenges of navigating comedy as a woman, the tragedy of losing her brother and finding resilience through vulnerability and storytelling.
Discover insights on embracing failure, trusting your intuition, and the power of choice. This episode offers laughter, introspection, and an inspiring message about redefining your narrative despite life’s challenges.
Key Takeaways:
• Living abroad teaches empowerment...
2024-11-211h 06The Derelict PodcastRaising Strong Men: Balancing Physical, Mental, & Spiritual Health, EP 36In this powerful episode of The Derelict Podcast, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and special guest Mark Paisant (www.marcpaisant.com) dive deep into the journey of raising boys to become strong men. Mark shares personal stories of overcoming body image issues, developing motivation, and the ongoing struggle for discipline. Together, they unpack the societal pressures men face, the importance of vulnerability, and the role of accountability in personal growth. This conversation is a must-watch for anyone wanting to reshape the way we approach masculinity, mental health, and raising the next generation of men.
Get in touch with Marc at www.marcpaisant.c...
2024-11-141h 10The Derelict PodcastMen, Emotions, & Terrorism: Breaking Gender Norms, EP 35In this powerful episode of The Derelict Podcast, host Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni interviews James Stamatelos, a certified coach and counterterrorism expert, on the complex issues surrounding masculinity, emotional maturity, and societal pressures. James shares his personal breakdown story and how a friend's support changed his life. Together, Josh and James explore why men often feel like they’re not enough and how societal expectations suppress emotional expression. From the surprising links between terrorism and emotional maturity to breaking down gendered notions of feelings, this discussion uncovers how shame impacts men’s mental health and emotional growth.
Discover how curiosity, presence, and a...
2024-11-071h 09The Derelict PodcastMaster Your Mindset: Grief, Growth, and Self-Talk Transformation, EP 34In this inspiring conversation, Hashondra Jernigan Smith shares her powerful journey of personal growth and empowerment, offering deep insights on how to transform your mindset and take responsibility for your emotions. She opens up about grieving the loss of her son and the process of forgiving herself and others, revealing how self-evaluation, solitude, and self-talk have played a critical role in her healing.
Hashondra and Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni dive into the significance of self-talk and affirmations in building self-esteem, overcoming negative thoughts, and developing self-awareness. Hashondra’s wisdom around embracing solitude and using affirmations to shift negative internal dialogue will re...
2024-10-311h 01The Derelict PodcastHow Trauma, Community, and Vulnerability Shape Men Today, EP 33In this eye-opening episode, Dr. Richard Oelberger, aka Dr. Zero, takes us deep into the psychology of men, revealing the critical role of resilience, community, and vulnerability in overcoming trauma. Drawing from his powerful experiences working on Skid Row in Los Angeles, Dr. Zero discusses the shared struggles between those in poverty and affluent areas, debunking myths around money, success, and happiness. He also emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and healing, urging men to embrace vulnerability and build authentic connections. Joined by host Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni, this conversation explores how societal expectations impact men, how social media skews self-perception, and...
2024-10-2458 min
The Failure PodcastJosh Tomeoni #75 | Breaking Free from the Comfort Zone: How Transitions and Setbacks Lead to GrowthIn this episode, I sit down with my good buddy Josh from The Derelict Podcast for a no-holds-barred conversation about the crazy transitions we’re both going through right now. We dive into some deep topics—like how we handle negativity, navigate big life changes, and figure out what really makes us happy. We also get real about the pressures society puts on us to chase money and success, and how we're shifting our focus to what actually matters. If you're in the middle of a big transition, this episode is for you. Sit back, grab a coffee (or a be...
2024-10-211h 31The Derelict PodcastBreaking the Silence: Why Men Struggle to Open Up and How to Overcome It, EP 32In this powerful episode of The Derelict Podcast, we dive deep into the emotional struggles men face and the societal barriers that often prevent them from seeking help. We discuss the fear of vulnerability, the stigma around expressing emotions, and the toll it takes on mental health. Discover why it's essential for men to find their purpose, embrace vulnerability, and engage in activities that align with their values. Learn how creating safe spaces and asking for help can transform lives. Join us as we explore the importance of breaking the cycle of anger and emotional suppression and encourage open dialogue...
2024-10-171h 12The Derelict Podcast5 Stages of Breakup Recovery: How Rejection Can Be Your Best Friend, EP 31Josh failed at dating, part 2! In this powerful episode of The Derelict Podcast, Josh Abbandonato dives deep into relationship transitions, offering a fresh perspective on navigating the emotional turmoil of breakups. Josh explores the 5 R’s of a relationship transition: Responsibility, Reaction, Rejection, Response, and Reflection & Recovery. He shares invaluable insights on taking responsibility for your actions, trusting your intuition, and seeing rejection as a favor that can save you from wasting precious time. Josh delves into how the crossroads of recovery or relapse define the next chapter of your life and why setting boundaries is essential to nurture your au...
2024-10-101h 05The Derelict PodcastFrom Breakup to Breakthrough: Josh's Powerful Lessons on Healing & Growth, EP 30Josh failed at dating, part 1! In this raw and emotional episode of The Derelict Podcast, host Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni opens up about his recent breakup, sharing the profound lessons he’s learned along the way. Joined by his friend Veronica, they dive into the power of vulnerability, the importance of setting boundaries, and how embracing failures can lead to incredible personal growth. Josh reflects on past relationships and offers actionable advice on healing after a breakup, overcoming shame, and learning to seek feedback from trusted sources.
This episode uncovers key insights into the journey of emotional recovery for men, highlighting th...
2024-10-031h 30The Derelict PodcastAuthentic Masculinity: Overcoming Addiction, Toxicity, and the Power of Mentorship, EP 29In this powerful episode, host Josh Abbandonato sits down with Mark Azoulay, founder of Men's Therapy Online, to dive deep into the journey of authentic masculinity. Mark opens up about his recovery from addiction and how therapy and men's groups played a pivotal role in discovering his true self. They confront the challenges men face when seeking help and discuss the impact of toxic masculinity on mental health. Together, they explore how mentorship and community are essential for men to overcome 'boy psychology' and develop healthy masculinity. The conversation emphasizes the importance of discipline, strength, and gravitas in preparing for...
2024-09-261h 00The Derelict PodcastThe Importance of Intentional Challenges for Men, EP 28In this episode, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and marriage and family therapist Kristal DeSantis delve into the unique challenges men face in seeking help and support. They discuss the importance of community, intentional challenges, and the societal expectations that often prevent men from reaching out for assistance. Kristal shares insights from her book, “Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man,” exploring the scarcity of resources for men in relationships and mental health. Josh and Kristal emphasize the need for men to step up to challenges, highlighting the balance between risk, safety, and growth in relationships. They discuss the six aspe...
2024-09-1958 minThe Derelict PodcastMen: Let’s Embrace Fallibility and Redefine Masculinity, EP 27Discover a powerful conversation on masculinity in this episode as Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni sits down with Brent Dowlen to redefine what it truly means to be a man in today’s world. They delve into the crisis of masculinity, exploring how humility, gentleness, presence, and calmness are essential qualities for modern men. Learn why true strength isn’t about physical dominance but lies in discipline, responsibility, and emotional integrity. Brent and Josh tackle the pressure men face to conform to outdated stereotypes, urging listeners to embrace their authentic selves and grow through learning and self-awareness. This episode also covers the inst...
2024-09-121h 05The Derelict PodcastI Failed At Religion Post Divorce: EP 26Third time’s the charm for religion, right?!?! Well, we’ll see.
In this episode, host Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni discusses his journey of self-discovery with religion post a traumatic event- his divorce! Have you experienced a traumatic event that has shaken your religious beliefs? If so, welcome! Come listen to his failures and how he felt abandoned and failed by religion! He explores the process of deconstructing and reconstructing his beliefs, seeking a religion that is supportive, authentic, and true.
Listen in and let us know what you think! Email us: podcast@thederelict.biz
Resources:
A Grief Observed, C.S. Lewis...
2024-09-0542 minThe Derelict PodcastI Failed At Religion As a Young Man: EP 25Religion, take 2! In this episode, host Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni delves into his experience with religion as a young man. The time where our childhood religious beliefs are challenged can be difficult- even into adulthood! Tune in for more failures and lessons and we continue to dive deep into being authentic, vulnerable, and awesome derelicts! Listen in and let us know what you think!
Email us: podcast@thederelict.biz
Resources:
Blue Like Jazz, Donald Miller: https://amzn.to/3QuDCPw
Jesus in the Margins, Rick McKinley: https://amzn.to/3QsFYhT
“The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill” Podcast: https://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/pod...
2024-08-2955 minThe Derelict PodcastI Failed at Religion as a Kid: EP 24Were you raised in a religious household? What's your spiritual journey look like now?
In this episode, host Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni opens up about his journey with religion as a kid and the many failures along the way! Do you relate?
Listen in and let us know what you think!
Email us: podcast@thederelict.biz
Resources:
South Park, Purity Ring: https://youtu.be/0pSTQBAKnsg?feature=shared
Chapters:
00:00 Welcome!
06:45 How have I failed lately?
12:06 Religion as a kid!
17:05 Evangelism is key?
22:14 Experience is key?
28:00 Rules and Image are key?
41:15 No Regrets!
2024-08-2247 minThe Derelict PodcastWhat’s more important: self-confidence or self-worth? EP 23Kevin Palmieri from @NextLevelUniversity chats with Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni about his journey of self-belief and self-worth, and how external success can sometimes trigger internal turmoil. He shares personal experiences of facing fear and self-doubt, and the importance of pushing through and taking action. Kevin emphasizes the significance of surrounding oneself with supportive and like-minded individuals, and the impact of the reference group on personal growth. He also highlights the importance of humility and staying grounded in the face of success. Kevin's ultimate goal is to be the person he needed when he was at his lowest point, and to make...
2024-08-151h 00The Derelict PodcastBeing True to Yourself (or “How Men Fail at Being Our True Selves”): EP 22In this episode of the Derelict Podcast, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and guest Cory Desimone discuss the topic of being true to oneself. They explore the challenges men face in being authentic and the limiting beliefs that hold them back. They also discuss the importance of solitude and self-reflection in discovering one's true self. The conversation highlights the need to let go of external validation and find peace within oneself. The hosts encourage listeners to take small steps towards solitude and self-discovery. The conversation explores the importance of spending time in solitude and being comfortable with oneself. It emphasizes the need...
2024-08-0859 minThe Derelict PodcastLiving Out True Masculinity, EP 21In this conversation, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni reflects on the concept of getting away from it all and the struggle of escaping oneself. He discusses his recent travels and the experiences that have led him to question the display of manhood in the world. Josh explores the opening ceremony of the Paris Olympics and raises questions about the true masculinity exhibited by the men involved. He emphasizes the importance of living out one's true authentic masculinity and calls for men to stand up and be courageous, compassionate, and loving. Josh also shares strategies for breaking the cycle of unhealthy behaviors and...
2024-08-0131 minThe Derelict PodcastThe Crisis of True Masculinity in Society Today: A Call to Men, EP 20WILL THE REAL MEN PLEASE STAND UP!?!? This is a call to the derelict men out there that want and need to rediscover their true masculinity! There is a CRISIS in true masculinity today! We are told that masculinity is “toxic”, “chauvinistic”, “aggressive”, and “evil”. In this episode, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni reflects on the importance of healthy masculinity and the need for men to rediscover it. He discusses the crisis of true masculinity in society today and emphasizes healthy masculinity. Josh encourages men to be courageous, compassionate, confident, calm, curious, clear, creative, and connected. He calls for men to have mentors and coac...
2024-07-2547 minThe Derelict PodcastWill the Real Men Please Stand Up!?! EP 19Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni interviews Nicky Billou, genius behind www.sovereignman.ca! The conversation explores the topics of masculinity, the challenges faced by men in society, and the influence of external forces on shaping masculinity. It delves into the concept of toxic masculinity, healthy masculinity, and the impact of societal attitudes on men and women. The conversation also touches on the history of gender fluidity and the role of power in shaping societal norms. It discusses the infiltration of institutions by communist ideologies and the destabilization of countries. The importance of strong men in society and the potential consequences of weakening...
2024-07-1858 minThe Derelict PodcastAre you a victor?!? Join the club: building a tribe of victors! EP 18So, after last week, do you choose to be a victim or a victor? In this episode, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni discusses the benefits of being a victim and whether it’s worth it or not! He discusses how to transition from “victim” to “victor”. He emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for our own lives and not blaming others or institutions for our problems. Josh encourages listeners to focus on one thing they can do each day to remove hate, fear, and victim mentality from their lives and choose to be a victor instead. He also highlights the power of love and f...
2024-07-1138 minThe Derelict PodcastAre you going to live your life as a victim or a victor? Your Choice! EP 17In this episode, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni explores the concept of victimhood versus victor mentality. He questions whether being a victim means avoiding failure and discusses the balance between victimhood in our heads versus reality. Josh encourages listeners to change their mindset from victim to victor and asks if they are willing to put in the work. He also emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for our actions and learning from our experiences. The episode concludes with a discussion on breaking free from victimhood and the benefits of being a victor. Let us know what you think!
Email us: podcast@thederelict...
2024-07-0445 minThe Derelict PodcastMental Illness & Living A Double Life: Never Give Up! EP 16Ruth Poniarski (https://ruthponiarski.com) shares her journey of mental illness. She discusses her experiences of living a double life, feeling isolated, and the impact of her husband's family history during World War II. Ruth talks about her multiple breakdowns and the patterns of psychosis that developed. She also shares how she found the right medication and therapy to manage her mental health, and how she now preemptively addresses anxiety and stress. In this conversation, Ruth shares her personal journey with mental illness and the challenges she faced in finding the right treatment and support. She discusses the importance of...
2024-06-271h 14The Derelict PodcastThe Power of Intuition: Trusting Your Gut/God EP 15We have the special privilege to welcome Mike Oppenheim to the show today! Sign up for his newsletter at www.mikeyopp.com! We covered a range of topics today including inner peace, metaphysics, failure, and the challenges of being a dad in the 21st century. But, most importantly, how to listen to your intuition, your gut, your god. Mike emphasizes the significance of listening to one's intuitive voice and the impact of cultural stereotypes on relationships. The conversation covers the themes of self-improvement, service, intuition, resilience, and hope. It delves into the challenges of personal growth, the importance of serving...
2024-06-201h 27The Derelict PodcastRacism, Anti-Semitism, & The Failure of a Moral Compass: EP 14Talia Carner, a successful author and activist, joins Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and the Derelict Podcast to discuss redefining success and failure. Check her out at https://taliacarner.com. Talia shares her personal definition of success, which is not necessarily tied to money but to satisfaction. She talks about her career transition from marketing and advertising to writing, and how she found fulfillment in telling stories and making a positive impact on people's lives. Talia emphasizes the importance of research and learning from failures and shares her experiences of self-publishing and getting laws passed based on her books. She challenges the c...
2024-06-131h 06The Derelict PodcastAre You Ready for You 2.0?: EP 13Since we killed Version 1.0 of ourselves last week, it’s time to try on Version 2.0! Let’s focus on what we can do right now! As always, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni discusses failures and being vulnerable, especially as a guy! Who knew the Serenity Prayer was the perfect tool for moving on to 2.0?!? Curious how that works? Listen in and let us know what you think! Email us: podcast@thederelict.biz
Resources
The Power of Now, Eckhart Tolle
Origin of The Serenity Prayer
Staying Present, Eckhart Tolle
Chapters:
00:00 Goodbye 1.0, Welcome 2.0!
14:09 Serenity Prayer- Accelerant for Version 2.0!
15:43 God…
18:40 …grant me the serenity to accept the...
2024-06-061h 10The Derelict PodcastReady for a Shift? Kill Version 1.0!: EP 12Are you ready for a shift? Is “Version 1.0” holding you back? If so, this episode is for you! In this episode, I, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni, discuss my own failures transitioning from “Version 1.0” to “Version 2.0”. I share personal experiences of failure and the challenges I faced- even in launching this podcast! I explore limiting beliefs and insecurities that hold us back from reaching our full potential. Listen in and let us know what you think!
Email us: podcast@thederelict.biz
Resources
The Gap and The Gain
How To Overcome Your Limiting Beliefs
Chapters:
00:00 Turning 40- Goodbye Version 1.0!
05:47 How Have I Failed Lately?
12:07...
2024-05-3046 minThe Derelict PodcastStaying Emotionally Present- Navigating Difficult Emotions: EP 11How hard is it for you to stay emotionally present? What would your special person say? Well, come listen to host Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni talk to his girlfriend Sarah Jade as she tells the world how he's doing- eeks! Come listen as we talk about our failures real-time!
In this episode, we discuss staying emotionally present when dealing with difficult emotions. We explore unhealthy ways of dealing with hard emotions, including abuse, avoidance, and addiction. We also touch on the importance of taking responsibility for one's own feelings and the challenges of expressing needs and vulnerabilities. Listen in and let...
2024-05-231h 15The Derelict PodcastFailure to Launch- Fear: EP 10Last week host Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni discussed his failure to launch this podcast through the lens of grief- this week he tackles fear! So scary! (Get it?) Ever been afraid of failure? Or afraid of success? Josh tackles both and shares some failures along the way! Listen in for a few ideas of how to deal with fear- we’re in this together, you derelict!
Shoot us a note and let us know what you think: Email us: podcast@thederelict.biz
Resources- Books/Articles:
“Daring Greatly” Brené Brown
12 Step Fear Inventory
Mental Illness of Dory from Finding Nemo
Resources- Videos:
“Brené Brown...
2024-05-1657 minThe Derelict PodcastFailure to Launch- Grief: EP 9In this episode, Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni opens up about his experience of failure and the stages of grief he went through after his podcast partner decided to quit. He gets raw and vulnerable about the stages of grief and the importance of accepting and embracing new opportunities that arise from failure. Looking forward to hearing your stories as well!
Listen in and let us know what you think: Email us: podcast@thederelict.biz
Resources:
7 Stages of Grief
“A Grief Observed” C.S. Lewis
How To Blame Effectively
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction
01:27 Stages of Grief
06:18 Shock and Denial
08:39 Bargaining
11:22 Depression
16:16 Anger
26:28 Acceptance
30:52 Opportunity
37:15 Where D...
2024-05-0939 minThe Derelict PodcastParenting- Let's Talk About Sex: EP 8Holy sh**- she’s back! Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and Tyler Combs are so happy Veronica Darling is joining us again for more parenting fails! Let’s talk about sex baby, let’s talk about…how we talk about sex with our kids?!?! Eeks! We all have such different experiences of this growing up, how do we even begin?
Listen in and let us know what you think!
Email us: podcast@thederelict.biz
Resources- Books
“How to Talk Confidently with Your Child about Sex” Lenore Buth
“Learning About Sex” Series for Kids, Bill Ameiss
The Care and Keeping of You 1: The Body Book for...
2024-05-0259 minThe Derelict PodcastParenting- Moms, Dads, Masculine, and Feminine: EP 7I guess not just men fail at parenting- women do too?!? Who knew?!?!
Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and Tyler Combs are honored and privileged to have Veronica Darling join us in the "studio" today- what a blessing! She has more parenting experience than the two of us combined! Listen in for parenting fails and the core job description of us as parents. We share recent failures and reflect on being moms and dads and the importance of masculine and feminine energies in parenting our kids.
Listen in and let us know what you think: Email us: podcast@thederelict.biz
Resources:
“Strong Fat...
2024-04-2549 minThe Derelict PodcastParenting- The Never-Ending Learning Curve: EP 6Ever feel like a failure as a parent? Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and Tyler Combs sure do, we might just lead the charge! Unintentionally, of course. But, as they say, we’re all just doing “the best we can”. Nope. That’s bull. Let’s get real instead. Let’s learn how to set realistic expectations and not be too hard on ourselves. Come listen to many parenting failures and the lessons we've learned- and we keep learning!
Let us know what you think!
Email us: podcast@thederelict.biz
Resources:
“Thinking in Bets” Annie Duke
“Dahmer” on Netflix
Chapters
00:00 Introduction
08:03 Recognizing and Apologizing for Mis...
2024-04-1853 minThe Derelict PodcastImposter Syndrome: EP 5Ever feel like an imposter? Hosts Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and Tyler Combs sure do! Maybe it’s at work or school- or maybe it’s as a friend or a lover or a parent? Did you know that imposter syndrome can’t really happen unless you’re doing something right? In this episode we explore how we’ve both failed at imposter syndrome and how failure always can be used as a learning opportunity! We talk about courageous conversations, vulnerability, and, of course, failure!
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Resources:
“The Gap and The Gain” Dan Sul...
2024-04-1150 minThe Derelict PodcastFailure in Dating, part 2: EP 4And….we’re back with MORE DATING FAILS!
Josh "Abbandonato" Tomeoni and Tyler Combs just couldn’t get enough of the conversation last week- we’re gluttons for punishment, we suppose! We aren’t needy, but you might be feeling claustrophobic…well, guess what- so are we! Listen in as we talk about relationships, self-deprecating humor, actions vs. intentions, the challenges of breakups, the awkwardness of goodbyes, and setting boundaries in post-breakup relationships.
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Resources:
“Boundaries” Henry Cloud, John Townsend
“Codependent No More” Melody Beattie
Codependent Anonymous
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