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The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers - Members PodcastREPLAY: Tactical Group Briefing - January 24, 2026The meeting focused on supporting men navigating divorce and custody issues, with Doran sharing his recently published book "High Conflict Playbook" and offering to gift copies to the group. Andy provided an update on his advocacy work in California, where he is leading efforts to pass three key bills related to parenting rights, including equal shared parenting and time taken/time back provisions. The group discussed various divorce scenarios, with Brian sharing his recent experience of being served divorce papers and seeking guidance on how to approach the process. Mike and Peter shared their experiences with mediation and collaborative...
2026-02-161h 38
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers293 - How A Dad Beat Legal Gaslighting And Built A Better LifeThe gut-punch of high-conflict divorce isn’t just the paperwork or the silence after a slammed door—it’s realizing the system you’ve entered runs on efficiency, not fairness. We sit down with strategist and author Alex R. Dane, whose High Conflict Playbook was forged in the fire of restricted access, weaponized narratives, and court calendars that move slower than a parent’s panic. Together, we unpack how he went from shock to strategy and earned 50-50 by becoming the calmest, most consistent person in the room.Buy Alex's book: https://shorturl.at/RSiZ0Join our S...
2026-02-021h 13The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers - Members PodcastREPLAY: Navigating Narcissism Q&A - January 20, 2026Jude and John, the co-hosts, discussed their experience with high-conflict divorces and the importance of recognizing personality disorders like narcissistic personality disorder. John, who has experience running a narcissistic abuse recovery group, was introduced as the resident expert on the topic. The meeting was set to cover the playbook on how narcissists operate in relationships and the divorce process.Navigating High-Conflict Divorce RelationshipsJohn shared his experience with a high-conflict divorce, where his ex-wife was diagnosed with histrionic personality disorder, which falls under Cluster B personality disorders. He discussed the challenges of dealing...
2026-01-2456 minThe Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers - Members PodcastREPLAY: Ask A Dating Coach - January 22, 2026Website Updates and Podcast PlanningJude and Dallas discussed their ongoing work on website updates, email campaigns, and a podcast landing page, with Jude noting that the designer would be available next week to work on the landing page. They also mentioned their weekly podcast "Dads Dating After Divorce" and the possibility of offering a free year of dating coaching to someone who finds Dallas at his mobile location. The meeting began with technical difficulties as some participants experienced Zoom issues, but Jude provided a grace period for attendees to join.Status...
2026-01-2458 min
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers288 - What If The Pain Is Your Path To Becoming The Dad Your Kids NeedDivorce can feel like a blender: everything loud, spinning, and out of your control. Yet beneath the chaos is a path that can lead to a stronger you and a better relationship with your kids. That path starts with vision. When dads picture life after divorce—how they parent, how they co-parent, how they live—clarity replaces panic. A vision is not a fantasy; it’s a compass. From that picture, you can map steps, build skills, and design an environment that supports your goals. It’s the shift from reacting to leading. And leadership is the role your kids nee...
2025-12-291h 06
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers287 - When The Truth Hurts Your Child More Than A LieThe hardest part of alienation isn’t the shouting match—it’s the silence before it. In this special replay from our members’ call, parental alienation coach Charlie McCready unpacks the quiet mechanics of pre‑alienation and shows how small shifts—subtle digs, shrinking one‑on‑one time, “false choices” that adultify kids—set the stage for a later cutoff. We dig into what actually helps: airtight parenting plans that leave no wiggle room, steady documentation, and fast but measured enforcement when orders are breached.Listeners save 25% on 1-on-1 divorce coaching! Book any coaching between now and the end of the year to...
2025-12-221h 07The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers - Members PodcastREPLAY: Navigating Narcissism Q&A - December 16, 2025Quick recapThe meeting focused on discussing patterns of behavior in ex-partners during divorce, particularly cluster B personality disorders, and strategies for managing such situations. Jude Sandvall shared his experience of enduring physical abuse and navigating the challenges of divorce, including limited parenting time with his children and dealing with his ex-wife's tactics. The group provided advice on securing supervised parenting time, documenting interactions, and finding assertive legal representation, emphasizing the importance of consistent effort and preparation for court proceedings.SummaryUnderstanding Cluster B Divorce PatternsJude Sandvall and John discussed...
2025-12-171h 12The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers - Members PodcastDivorce Support For Dads Group Meeting Replay - December 13, 2025Quick recapThe meeting focused on parental alienation, featuring an expert discussion between Charlie McCready, a parental alienation coach from the UK, and the group participants. Charlie shared his personal experience with pre-alienation and provided insights on how to recognize and address alienation behaviors. He emphasized the importance of creating "airtight" parenting plans and advised against engaging in loyalty conflicts with children. The group discussed legislative efforts led by Robert Garza to combat parental alienation, with Andy reporting progress in California. Participants shared their own experiences of high-conflict divorces and the challenges of co-parenting with alienating ex-partners...
2025-12-172h 18
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers286 - Life 2.0 After DivorceThe script you were handed—study hard, get the job, marry, raise kids—doesn’t teach you what to do when everything shatters. Today, we talk with Steven Jaye, a meteorologist-turned-creator and coach, about how to transform divorce from a dead end into a launchpad. We dig into the mindset that stops the endless postmortem and starts Life 2.0, the role of community in healing, and why the smallest honest action beats another night of numbing out.Stephen's website: ReclaimYourTime.coListeners save 25% on 1-on-1 divorce coaching! Book any coaching between now and the end of the ye...
2025-12-1553 min
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers285 - Half Your Decisions Are Trash Right Now, Here’s The FixDivorce can make even the strongest dads feel stuck in survival mode. We sit down with Anthony Thompson, founder of Divorced Dads of America and creator of the Ascent Brotherhood, to unpack how stress hijacks your brain, why motivation seems to vanish, and what actually helps you lead with calm when everything feels loud and urgent.Listeners save 25% on 1-on-1 divorce coaching! Book any coaching between now and the end of the year to claim your discount. Don't just survive this—get a strategic plan.Sign up now: https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/coaching-3/.
2025-12-0850 min
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers284 - Your Ex Pressed Send; Your Brain Pressed Panic—Now What?A hostile email lands. Your heart jumps. Your mind races. Before you can think, your nervous system has already decided: fight, flee, or freeze. We sit down with Joey Klein, author of Relationship Alchemy and founder of Inner Matrix Systems, to unpack how dads in high-conflict divorce can reset their bodies, reclaim their minds, and lead with calm—right in the moment it matters most.Listeners save 25% on 1-on-1 divorce coaching! Book any coaching between now and the end of the year to claim your discount. Don't just survive this—get a strategic plan.Sign up n...
2025-12-0157 min
Dads Dating After Divorce22 - Let's Talk About Sex: Leading Her to Intimacy, One Touch at a TimeMost men try to plan their way to great sex and end up killing the spark. We take a different route: build trust with clear statements, create a protected space for intimacy, and then let go of the plan so real desire can surprise you both.We start by resetting the premise. Sex after divorce isn’t a sprint; it’s a craft. Jude Sandvall and Dallas Bluth unpack why safety and mutual benefit are the foundation—especially when kids, schedules, and past relationships are in the picture. You’ll hear how to turn “the talk” into foreplay by...
2025-11-181h 07
Dads Dating After Divorce21 - Let's Get Physical: The Art Of EscalationIf touch has felt confusing after divorce—too fast, too formal, or just plain awkward—this conversation gives you a clear path from grounded presence to real chemistry. Jude and Dallas unpack the missing link many men never learned: how to make physical contact a normal, human bridge to connection long before it turns romantic. You’ll hear why American men often oversexualize touch, how to rebuild it as a confident, everyday skill, and how that foundation makes dates feel safer, smoother, and far more attractive.We dive into the two pillars that change everything: physical certainty and em...
2025-11-111h 07
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers279 - What If The Bravest Thing Is To Keep Showing Up?Some stories punch through the fog. Palmer’s does. He grew up inside a decade of high-conflict divorce, became the “targeted child” of severe alienation, and reached the edge of despair—then found a way back. Today he sits across from tweens and teens as a therapist, turning hard-won insight into practical tools that help kids feel safe, seen, and strong even when the adults around them are at war.We dig into the subtle ways alienation teaches kids it’s unsafe to love both parents and the everyday moves that reverse it. Palmer shows how to respond wh...
2025-10-271h 04
Dads Dating After Divorce15 - Dating Younger: Fantasy or Fulfillment?The dating world doesn't come with a rulebook, especially for those navigating it after divorce. In this candid conversation, Jude and Dallas tackle the recent controversy surrounding the Golden Bachelor's age preferences and what it reveals about the complex world of dating in midlife.When 66-year-old Mel Owens stated he preferred to date women between 45-60, the backlash was immediate. But does having age preferences make someone shallow, or is it simply an honest acknowledgment of compatibility factors? The hosts explore how our dating preferences develop, why they matter, and when they might need examination....
2025-09-301h 04
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers275 - What 43 False Allegations Taught One Father About Changing the SystemIn this powerful conversation, Robert Garza reveals how his 16-year custody battle educated him about the dangerous loopholes in our family court system—and more importantly, how to fix them. He walks us through his revolutionary "Time Taken, Time Back" bill, which ensures parents automatically receive makeup time when false allegations are disproven. This simple yet powerful concept has already passed unanimously in Texas and North Dakota, protecting millions of families from one of the most common forms of custody manipulation.Join our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTbJoin The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community...
2025-09-2952 min
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers274 - A Dad's Guide to Post-Divorce RomanceNavigating the dating world after divorce presents unique challenges for dads. The landscape has shifted dramatically in recent years, making it essential to approach dating with intentionality and authentic confidence. In a revealing conversation between Jude and dating coach Dallas Bluth, several crucial insights emerged that can help divorced dads find meaningful connections.Join our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTbJoin The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out...
2025-09-2259 min
Dads Dating After Divorce10 - The Man You Choose to Be Shapes Your Dating FutureJude Sandvall and Dallas Bluth delve into the fundamental importance of identifying personal values and beliefs before re-entering the dating world after divorce. They explore how unexamined expectations can derail relationships and provide practical tools for building self-awareness.
2025-08-2259 min
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers269 - Don't Leave Money on the Table When Your Marriage EndsFinancial expert Tammy Guns delivers a masterclass in divorce finances, revealing why proper planning can save you tens or even hundreds of thousands of dollars during one of life's most challenging transitions.Tammy's website: https://divorceresourcecentre.com/Join our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTbJoin The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html*FREE Dads...
2025-08-1852 min
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers268 - What Happens When Child Support Stops Coming?Ever wondered what happens when child support or alimony payments suddenly stop because of circumstances beyond anyone's control? Ron Platt has created the solution that divorce attorneys, judges, and families have needed for decades.Ron's website: NASDF.org and Support InsuredJoin our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTbJoin The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html...
2025-08-1142 min
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers267 - Saving Your Home: Mortgage Assumptions After DivorceMortgage assumptions after divorce could save you hundreds of thousands of dollars, yet most attorneys and divorcing homeowners don't understand how to make them work. In this eye-opening conversation, Certified Divorce Lending Professional Karla Kyte reveals the hidden mortgage opportunities many divorces miss.Karla's Website - https://mydivorcemortgageplanning.com/#homeJoin our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTbJoin The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in t...
2025-08-0453 min
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers266 - Breaking the Cycle of Alienation: A Father's Guide to ReconnectionThe silent epidemic of parental alienation devastates countless families each year, yet remains poorly understood even by many family court professionals. In this powerful episode, we're joined by Charlie McCready, a coach who helps parents navigate the painful journey of having their children turned against them—a journey he knows intimately from losing and eventually rebuilding relationships with his own children.Charlie's Website - charliemccready.comJoin our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTbJoin The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - http...
2025-07-281h 04
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers265 - Funding Fathers: A New Foundation for Divorced DadsWe're launching the Foundation for Fathers, and it's going to transform how we support dads navigating divorce. This nonprofit will provide free and low-cost resources, support groups, workshops, and legal education to fathers facing custody challenges—especially those without access to professional services.What makes this announcement truly revolutionary is our partnership with Will Black, founder of Sharing The Credit. Will has pioneered a method that turns credit card processing fees into sustainable funding for charities like ours. Rather than these fees going to banks, they can be redirected to support divorced fathers without costing businesses a pe...
2025-07-2133 min
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers264 - Lawyers Optional: The Untold Truth About Self-RepresentationBen Schooley, founder of The Pro Se Coach, pulls back the curtain on self-representation in divorce court, revealing insights from his journey through both an amicable split and a brutal four-year legal battle. His candid discussion transforms our understanding of what's possible when facing the family court system without an attorney.Ben's website: https://prosecoachtx.com/Join our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTbJoin The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/How Are You Adju...
2025-07-1447 min
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers263 - How Smart Surveillance Is Impacting Divorce and Custody CasesThe technological landscape of divorce has changed dramatically with the rise of smart home devices and surveillance technology. What happens when your Ring doorbell captures crucial evidence for your custody case? Or when your ex uses recordings against you in court? Family law attorney Sondra Douglas joins us to navigate this complex terrain.Sondra's website: https://steinsperling.com/attorneys/douglas-sondra/Join our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTbJoin The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/...
2025-07-0756 min
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers261 - Mediation Mastery: The Art of Peaceful DivorceImagine ending your marriage without destroying your family. That's the promise of divorce mediation when done right, and few know this process better than Joe Dillon.Having watched his parents' bitter litigation end with the last time he ever saw his father at age 15, Dillon transformed personal pain into professional purpose. Now, with a remarkable 98% success rate (far above the industry average of 70%), he shares exactly how couples can navigate divorce with dignity, financial clarity, and preserved relationships.Joe's Website: https://www.equitablemediation.com/Join our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTb
2025-06-231h 02
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers260 - The State of Dads: 5th Anniversary EpisodeWhat's the true state of fatherhood in America today? In this milestone 260th episode, Jude assembles a powerful panel of experts to discuss the realities facing modern dads—especially those navigating divorce and family court challenges.Ken Curry (therapist), Kirk Samuels (The Intimacy Incubator), Gordon (divorced dad), and David Pisarra (family law attorney) bring decades of personal and professional experience to this raw, honest conversation about what's really happening with fathers today.Join our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTbJoin The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Work...
2025-06-161h 13
Dads Dating After Divorce9 - 5 Things To Look For In A RelationshipWhether you are contemplating dating or assessing the end of your marriage it is critical to know and understand that these 5 elements must be present in your relationship.
2023-05-2231 min
Dads Dating After Divorce8 - 24 Dating Tips For Life After DivorceYou’re getting back out there and dating again after divorce! Listen in to learn 24 important tips for dating after your divorce including being patient with chemistry, identifying liars, and letting go of anger.
2023-02-0644 min