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Kate & Eric MacDougall
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The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Growth & Conflict Quickfires
In this episode, Kate and Eric talk all about Unlearning, Healing, and Growing Through Conflict. Topics: ➡️ What Kate and Eric had to unlearn to grow together ➡️ How they handle resentment and repair after conflict ➡️ Why independence and authenticity are essential in long-term marriage For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2025-05-05
39 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Intimacy and Connection Quickfire
In this episode, Kate & Eric answer questions about Intimacy and connection, quickfire style! Topics: ➡️ How to stay connected when you're tired or stressed ➡️ The small gestures that make you feel loved and seen ➡️ How to initiate sex and create playful energy in your relationship SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/intimacy-and-connection-quickfire For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2025-04-28
38 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Partnership Quickfires
One question leads to another as Kate and Eric take on a quickfire Q&A about the quirks, habits, and healing conversations that shaped their marriage. Here’s what they covered: ➡️ What we used to argue about that now seems silly ➡️ Habits we still find annoying in each other ➡️ What a real apology looks like ➡️ How we decide when to speak up or let it go ➡️ The one conversation that changed our marriage ➡️ What we wish we did more of ➡️ What helps us stay strong SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/partnership-quickfires For Men: Join The Evolved Men...
2025-04-21
35 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
What To Do When You’re Growing and Your Partner Isn’t?
In this episode, Kate & Eric delve into managing personal growth differences within a relationship. Topics: ➡️ Navigating growth disparities between partners. ➡️ Inviting your partner into your growth journey without judgment. ➡️ Empathy's importance in understanding each partner’s struggles. ➡️ Modeling personal growth to inspire your partner. ➡️ Embracing acceptance and love while fostering mutual growth. SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/what-to-do-when-you-re-growing-and-your-partner-isnt For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Bluep...
2025-03-03
30 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Moving beyond Roommates to Deeper EMOTIONAL Connection
In this week's episode, Kate & Eric discuss key strategies to deepen your connection with your spouse and move past the "roommate phase" Topics: ➡️ Managing conflicts in marriage through vulnerability and openness ➡️ Techniques for giving and receiving feedback in relationships without conflict. ➡️ Ideas to break daily routines and rekindle romance and emotional intimacy in your marriage. SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/moving-beyond-roommates-to-deeper-emotional-connection For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING...
2025-02-24
27 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
How to Handle Conflict When You Have Completely Different Communication Styles
In this episode, Kate and Eric tackle a listener's question about managing conflict styles in a marriage. "I tend to shut down during conflict—I need time to think things through before I can respond. But my wife wants to talk things out right away and gets frustrated when I withdraw. We both end up feeling unheard and frustrated. How do we find a way to resolve conflict that works for both of us?" Topics: ➡️ Different communication styles: Internal processors vs. immediate responders. ➡️ Resolution strategies: Writing thoughts post-conflict and scheduling discussion times. ➡️ Personal responsibility: Acknowledging one's impact o...
2025-02-17
35 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
What to Do When your Partner is Unwilling to Change
In this week's episode, Kate & Eric explore strategies for engaging with a partner resistant to change. Topics: ➡️ Identifying traits of resistance like inflexibility, criticism, lack of empathy, and defensiveness. ➡️ Reflecting on personal contributions to relationship dynamics and initiating change from within. ➡️ Effective communication and setting clear boundaries to foster a healthier relationship. SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/what-to-do-when-your-partner-is-unwilling-to-change For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communica...
2025-02-10
32 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Balancing Unmet Needs & Unrealistic Expectations
In this episode, Kate & Eric explore how unrealistic expectations and unmet needs impact relationships. Topics: ➡️ Why unspoken needs often lead to unrealistic expectations ➡️ The difference between wants and true needs in relationships ➡️ How open communication can prevent resentment and disconnection SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/balancing-unmet-needs-unrealistic-expectations For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2025-02-03
31 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Are You Taking Your Partner For Granted?
In this episode, Kate & Eric dive deep into the subtle ways we might take our relationships for granted and how we can actively work against this tendency. Topics: ➡️ Identifying and tackling complacency in our connections. ➡️ Reflecting on how our early relationships shape our current attitudes. ➡️ Practical strategies to inject vitality and appreciation back into our partnerships. For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarr...
2025-01-27
32 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
How to Reconnect After a Fight
Join Kate & Eric as they dive deep into Vulnerability and how to navigate and repair relationships post-conflict. Topics: ➡️ Exploring the emotional landscape of coming back together after a fight, focusing on vulnerability when feeling defensive. ➡️ The challenge of reconnection post-conflict, examining the roles of the instigator and the receiver in arguments. ➡️ Attachment styles and their influence on conflict resolution and relationship dynamics. SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/how-to-reconnect-after-a-fight For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www...
2025-01-20
31 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
The Missing Piece to Getting your Needs Met in your Marriage
In this episode, Kate & Eric explore how understanding, asking for, and receiving help in relationships can lead to deeper connection and growth. Topics: ➡️ Breaking free from the "fairness" myth in relationships to foster true connection. ➡️ The vulnerability required to ask for, receive, and offer help in a partnership. ➡️ Practical strategies to shift from self-reliance to collaborative support in marriage. SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/the-missing-piece-to-getting-your-needs-met-in-your-marriage For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage...
2025-01-13
31 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
How your Actions are Leading to Burnout and Disconnection
In this episode, Kate & Eric discuss the hidden impacts of staying busy and avoiding emotions. Topics: ➡️ The dangers of using busyness as a coping mechanism to avoid feeling emotions. ➡️ The breakdown and emotional release that occurs when suppressing feelings for too long. ➡️ Strategies for recognizing emotional signals and the importance of taking time to address them. SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/how-your-actions-are-leading-to-burnout-and-disconnection For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAI...
2025-01-06
25 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Making 2025 Your Year of Connection
In this episode, Kate & Eric discuss ways on how to make 2025 the year of connection with your partner through intentional planning and shared vision. Topics: ➡️ Dreaming together to create a shared vision for the year. ➡️ Using practical tools like calendars to prioritize connection and goals. ➡️ Strengthening intimacy with consistent small actions like weekly check-ins. SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/making-2025-your-year-of-connection For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING...
2024-12-30
28 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
4 Challenges Couples Face During the Holidays 🎅 (and how to overcome them)
In this episode, Kate & Eric talk about navigating holiday stressors as a couple to create a meaningful and connected season. Topics: ➡️ Financial stress during the holidays and how to manage it with budgets and intentional gift-giving. ➡️ Maintaining intimacy and connection amidst the hustle and bustle of holiday planning. ➡️ Coping with grief and loss during the holidays and supporting your partner through tough emotions. ➡️ Managing unrealistic expectations and aligning holiday plans with shared values. SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/4-challenges-couples-face-during-the-holidays-and-how-to-overcome-them For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com...
2024-12-23
31 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
5 Ways to Bring More Joy to your Relationship (and your Life)
In this episode, Kate & Eric discuss transformative ways to cultivate more joy and connection in your life and relationships. Topics: ➡️ Reconnecting with your inner child to rediscover wonder and curiosity. ➡️ Prioritizing self-care and well-being to create space for joy. ➡️ Surrounding yourself with positivity to uplift your energy and mindset. ➡️ Embracing spontaneity to break routines and invite more excitement. ➡️ Practicing gratitude and celebrating small wins to nurture appreciation and presence. SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/5-ways-to-bring-more-joy-to-your-relationship-and-your-life For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite
2024-12-16
29 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Why a Comfortable Life is Preventing You having the Relationship You Want
In this episode, Kate & Eric explore how comfort and avoidance can hinder growth and connection in relationships, sharing their personal experiences of navigating discomfort to create deeper connections. Topics: ➡️ Aligning personal visions with shared goals in relationships. ➡️ Overcoming fear of judgment and embracing authenticity. ➡️ Using discomfort as a catalyst for growth and connection. SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/why-a-comfortable-life-is-preventing-you-having-the-relationship-you-want For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The...
2024-12-09
30 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
The 9 Core Relationship Needs (Part 2)
In this episode, Kate & Eric explore how taking responsibility for your needs and collaborating with your partner creates a thriving relationship. Topics: ➡️ Understanding that meeting your relational needs starts with personal responsibility. ➡️ Balancing autonomy and togetherness to foster individuality within the relationship. ➡️ Applying Maslow's hierarchy of needs as a roadmap for relational growth and self-actualization. SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/the-9-core-relationship-needs-part-2 For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING...
2024-11-25
33 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
The 9 Core Relationship Needs (Part 1)
In this episode, Kate and Eric dive deep into the foundational and relational needs that create thriving, connected relationships. Topics: ➡️ Emotional safety and trust as the unshakable foundation of intimacy. ➡️ The power of connection, physical affection, and playfulness in relationships. ➡️ Challenging misconceptions about relational needs and their impact on lasting love. EPISODE SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/the-9-core-relationship-needs-part-1 For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communicati...
2024-11-18
31 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Why You Might Enjoy your Partner’s Suffering
In this episode, Kate & Eric reveal powerful insights on handling marital frustrations before they turn toxic. Topics: ➡️ Accepting minor annoyances as part of married life ➡️ Addressing irritations openly to prevent hidden resentment ➡️ Choosing empathy and collaboration to strengthen connection SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/why-you-might-enjoy-your-partners-suffering For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-11-11
30 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Why You Don’t Feel Like a Priority to Your Spouse
In this episode, Kate and Eric explore how self-perception influences relationships and the deep impact of feeling like you're always second best. Topics: ➡️ Unpacking Internal Narratives: How our self-stories shape our sense of priority in relationships. ➡️ Self-Sabotage Dynamics: Examining behaviors that reinforce feelings of being secondary. ➡️ Empowering Self-Prioritization: Practical strategies for self-affirmation and changing relationship dynamics. SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/why-you-don-t-feel-like-a-priority-to-your-spouse For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING...
2024-11-04
28 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Are You Avoiding Intimacy?
In this episode, Kate & Eric explore how we avoid true intimacy and the impact of pseudo-connection on our lives. Topics: ➡️ The illusion of intimacy in today’s world: why it’s easy to settle for shallow connections. ➡️ The power of vulnerability: why real conversations fuel life energy and connection. ➡️ Practical steps to deepen relationships: going beyond transactional interactions. EPISODE SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/are-you-avoiding-intimacy For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Com...
2024-10-28
29 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Is your Spouse Steamrolling You?
In this episode, Kate & Eric discuss the unhealthy communication pattern of steamrolling and its impact on relationships. Topics: ➡️ Definition and examples of steamrolling in conversations ➡️ How insecurity and conflict avoidance lead to steamrolling ➡️ Importance of clear, direct communication to prevent steamrolling EPISODE SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/is-your-spouse-steamrolling-you For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-10-21
31 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Could Celibacy improve your Love Life?
In this episode, Kate and Eric delve into the often overlooked aspect of celibacy within marriage—not as a permanent lifestyle but as a strategic choice to enhance relationship dynamics. Topics: ➡️ Discussing temporary celibacy as a tool to enhance relationships. ➡️ Exploring how abstaining from can improve communication and closeness. ➡️ Addressing the difficulties and growth opportunities in periods of celibacy. EPISODE SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/could-celebacy-improve-your-love-life For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING...
2024-10-14
33 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
The Best Catalyst for Change
In this episode, Eric and Kate dive deep into the complexities of anger and how it can be both destructive and transformative in relationships. Topics: ➡️ Understanding the spectrum of anger in men and women. ➡️ How childhood experiences shape our relationship with anger. ➡️ The importance of using anger as a catalyst for healthy change. EPISODE SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/the-best-catalyst-for-change For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.ev...
2024-10-07
30 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Small Choices that have a HUGE Impact
In this episode, Eric and Kate MacDougall explore how small, consistent actions can lead to big transformations in relationships. Topics: ➡️ The impact of small, daily actions on connection and trust. ➡️ Kate highlights how simple gestures strengthen intimacy. ➡️ Eric stresses the importance of keeping personal promises. ➡️ They explore how to adjust to unmet expectations and changing needs. ➡️ Balancing self-care and relationship care for lasting change. EPISODE SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/small-choices-that-have-a-huge-impact For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/co...
2024-09-30
27 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
The Best Thing You can Do to Build Trust in your Marriage
In this episode, Eric and Kate MacDougall explore the transformative power of saying "no" in relationships to build trust and establish boundaries. Topics: ➡️ Importance of saying "no" for trust and integrity. ➡️ Risks of always saying "yes" in relationships. ➡️ Strategies for clear and compassionate boundary communication. FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/build-trust-in-your-marriage For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-09-16
25 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
This Simple Shift will Upgrade your Relationship
In this episode, Kate and Eric explore how shifting from victim to growth mindset can transform relationships. Topics: ➡️ Shifting from life happening to you, to life happening for you ➡️ Using discomfort as a tool for growth ➡️ Understanding emotions and criticism instead of judging them SHOWNOTES: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/this-simple-shift-will-upgrade-your-relationship For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-09-09
25 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
How Disappointment Can Bring You Closer Together
In this episode, Kate & Eric take a deep dive into understanding and managing disappointment in relationships. Topics: ➡️ Understanding the nature of disappointment and how it affects us. ➡️ The impact of unmet expectations and fantasies on our relationships. ➡️ Strategies to manage disappointment and foster healthier relationships. Shownotes: https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/blog/how-disappointment-can-bring-you-closer-together For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-09-02
22 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Is your Partner having Out of Obligation?
In this episode, Kate & Eric explore the complexities of sexual desire and connection in long-term relationships. Topics: ➡️ The complexity and individuality of women's sexual desire ➡️ Distinguishing between openness and initiation in sexual relationships ➡️ The importance of trust and communication CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-06-24
38 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
How to Help your Spouse be a Better Parent
In this episode, Kate & Eric discuss how to navigate tough conversations in relationships, focusing on parenting disagreements. Topics: ➡️ Addressing disagreements on parenting styles without shaming your partner. ➡️ Utilizing a framework for challenging conversations that emphasizes understanding. ➡️ Supporting each other in moments of frustration and establishing trust. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-06-17
40 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Why you’re a People Pleaser & how it might not be your fault
In this episode, Kate & Eric dive into understanding and managing people-pleasing tendencies in relationships. Topics: ➡️ The origins and emotional roots of people-pleasing, including societal influences. ➡️ Understanding and managing the fight, flight, freeze, fawn, and fix responses. ➡️ The importance of setting boundaries and holding space for genuine connection. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-06-10
31 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Understanding What Creates Disconnection in your Marriage
In this episode, Kate & Eric dive deep into understanding the Window of Tolerance and how it affects our relationships. Topics: ➡️Different tolerance levels in various situations ➡️Communicating tolerance levels to support each other better and grow together. ➡️ Emphasizing empathy and mutual support in relationships. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-06-03
29 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Overcoming Resentment in your Relationship
In this episode, Eric and Kate MacDougall explore the nature of resentment in relationships and how to tackle it head-on. Topics: ➡️ Understanding resentment as a result of unmet expectations. ➡️ The importance of grieving and forgiving past mistakes. ➡️ Expressing needs and expectations through courageous communication. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-05-27
31 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
How to Support your Partner with Tough Decisions
Eric and Kate discuss the best ways to support your partner when they're faced with difficult decisions. Topics: ➡️ Understanding the natural "fix it" mentality in men and its impact on relationship dynamics. ➡️ The importance of collaborative decision-making and aligning choices with personal values. ➡️ Building empowerment and self-trust through secure attachment and unconditional support. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint http...
2024-05-20
24 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
The ONLY Way to Get Unstuck in your Marriage
In this episode, Eric and Kate MacDougall explore the concept of the "two choice dilemma" and its impact on personal and marital decision-making. Topics: ➡️ Understanding the "two choice dilemma" and its role in forcing difficult choices. ➡️ Real-life analogies illustrating common dilemmas in work and relationships. ➡️ Strategies for overcoming fear and making proactive, transformative decisions. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.ev...
2024-05-13
28 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
How to Get More of What You Want and Need in your Marriage
Kate & Eric explore effective ways to advocate for personal needs and improve communication in relationships. Topics: ➡️ Expressing Personal Needs: Learn the importance of clearly communicating your desires in relationships. ➡️ Deeper Desires Behind Wants: Discover the underlying emotional needs behind your expressed wants. ➡️ Strategies for Fulfillment: Get practical advice on advocating for your needs without blame and fostering deeper connections. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The...
2024-05-06
31 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
How to Strengthen Emotional Intimacy with your Partner
In this episode, Kate and Eric MacDougall explore the profound impact of emotional granularity on relationships. Topics: ➡️ The importance of a broad emotional vocabulary. ➡️ How mindfulness and embodiment deepen emotional understanding. ➡️ The benefits of expressing diverse emotions in relationships. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-04-29
31 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Questions to Improve your Life (Part 2)
Eric and Kate MacDougall explore the dynamics of sexual desire and intimacy in this insightful episode. Topics: ➡️ 'Brakes and Accelerators' Explained: Discussing the factors that influence sexual desire. ➡️ Impact of Personal History: How background and daily stresses shape sexual dynamics. ➡️ Enhancing Communication: Strategies for improving intimacy and understanding in relationships. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-04-22
38 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Questions to Improve your Life (Part 1)
In this week's episode, Kate & Eric explore the depths of sexual desires and communication. Topics: ➡️ Normalizing Talk: Reducing stigma around discussing sexual desires openly. ➡️ Self-Reflection on : Understanding what motivates personal sexual desires. ➡️ Communication Barriers: Overcoming societal pressures and personal fears in discussing . CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-04-15
32 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Connecting to your Sexual Energy
In this episode, Kate & Eric talk about the realm of sexual energy, creative expression, and the power of connecting with life force. Topics: ➡️ How creativity and nature help balance our energy. ➡️ Fun ways to express ourselves and feel free. ➡️ Healthy tips for feeling good and energized. CLICK HERE FOR THE EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-04-08
33 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
What Does Your Wife Mean When She Needs Space
In this episode, Kate & Eric discuss the importance of personal space in relationships, how to support each other during these times, and effective communication to maintain a strong connection. Topics: ➡️ Understanding why someone might need space and how it feels. ➡️ Tips for supporting your partner without overwhelming them. ➡️ Ideas for staying connected and showing care, even when apart. CLICK HERE FOR THE EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communicat...
2024-04-01
27 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Why your Partner isn’t Initiating Sex
In this episode, Kate & Eric dive deep in to the contrast between spontaneous and responsive sexual desire and its impact on relationships. Topics: ➡️ Spontaneous vs. responsive desire ➡️ The effect of initiation on intimacy ➡️ Adapting to your partner's desire type CLICK HERE FOR THE EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-03-18
25 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
How to be Vulnerable with your Partner
In this episode, Kate & Eric explore vulnerability in relationships and its crucial role following conflicts. Topics: ➡️ Understanding self-validated vs. other-validated intimacy. ➡️ The role of attunement in healing post-conflict. ➡️ Approaches to being vulnerably honest after disagreements. ➡️ Personal growth through navigating conflict and vulnerability. CLICK HERE FOR THE EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-03-11
26 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
A Guide to Better Financial Conversations Between Partner
In this episode, Kate & Eric discuss how to have better financial conversations between partners. Topics: ➡️ How to talk openly about money. ➡️ The difference between budgeting and tracking expenses. ➡️ Managing financial stress through communication. CLICK HERE FOR THE EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-03-04
28 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Why Are Men So Angry?
Kate & Eric take a deep dive into improving communication and empathy in relationships. Topics: ➡️ Understanding your partner's deeper needs beyond everyday complaints. ➡️ Looking beneath the surface to find the real issues affecting your relationship. ➡️ How societal expectations shape our roles and interactions in relationships. ➡️ Practical advice for better communication and stronger connection with your partner. CLICK HERE FOR THE EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blue...
2024-02-26
30 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Nurturing Intimacy Without Pressuring your Partner
In this episode of the Evolved Marriage Podcast, Kate and Eric discuss strategies in maintaining a strong and intimate connection. Topics: ➡️ The Importance of Boundaries in Relationships ➡️ Starting Conversations about Intimacy and Pleasure ➡️ Building Emotional Safety and Trust CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2024-02-05
29 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Five Hacks to Evolve Your Marriage
This week on the Evolved Marriage Podcast, Kate and Eric MacDougall delve into effective strategies for nurturing a strong and connected relationship. Topics: ➡️ The significance of gratitude in appreciating your partner ➡️ Physical touch as a key element of daily connection ➡️ The power of daily check-ins and consistent communication ➡️ Working together towards common goals CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriag
2024-01-29
30 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Attachment Styles and Rocking the Boat
Join Kate and Eric MacDougall as they explore key strategies for deepening connection and understanding in relationships, especially for men aiming to strengthen their marriages. We chat about: ➡️ Self-Reflection in Relationships: Insights into personal roles and behaviors. ➡️ Emotional Balance: Strategies for individual and mutual emotional regulation. ➡️ Navigating Dynamics: Tips for managing anxious and avoidant partner traits. ➡️ Deepening Connections: Emphasizing the value of genuine communication. ➡️ Resolving Conflicts: Overcoming emotional gridlocks in partnerships. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Asse...
2024-01-22
32 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
How to Help your Partner Communicate More Effectively
In this throwback episode, Kate and Eric argue about the difference between effecting and efficient, Kate talks about how she initiates , and we share our common communication patterns (you can probably all relate to) Topics: ➡️ Why being effective doesn't always mean easier ➡️ Playing to your strengths ➡️ Why being understood is more valuable than getting your message across ➡️ How say "yes dear" might do more harm than good CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment htt...
2023-12-18
34 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
How to Repair After Conflict
This week on the Evolved Marriage Podcast, Kate and Eric MacDougall share valuable insights on maintaining a strong, connected relationship. Topics: ➡️ Approaching and Resolving Conflicts: They discuss the importance of understanding and acknowledging the impact of one's actions on their partner, fostering open communication. ➡️ Supporting Each Other Emotionally: The conversation highlights the significance of being supportive and understanding towards a partner's emotional state, creating a safe space for expression. ➡️ Building Trust Through Consistency: Emphasizing the need for clear, specific commitments and actions to strengthen trust in the relationship. ➡️ Validating Partner's Experiences: They stress the...
2023-12-11
40 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
The Weight of the Past- Unpacking Emotional Baggage for a Healthier Marriage
This week on the Evolved Marriage Podcast, join Kate and Eric as they delve into the profound journey of healing past traumas and building a stronger, more intimate connection in marriage. Topics: ➡️ Embracing Past Traumas: Learn the transformative power of acknowledging and discussing past hurts to improve your marriage. ➡️ Vulnerability in Healing: Discover how opening up about deep-seated pains can lead to significant healing and deeper intimacy. ➡️ Facilitating Healing Conversations: Understand the importance of creating a safe space for your partner to express their trauma and pain. ➡️ Dealing with the Weight of the Past: Insights into how past experiences like infidelity...
2023-12-04
23 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Has Initiating Become Awkward? How to Get Out of a Slump in a Way
This week on the Evolved Marriage Podcast, Kate and Eric discuss Sexual Connection and Communication. Topics: ➡️Exploring how personal beliefs and attitudes impact sexual dynamics in relationships. ➡️ The importance of open communication in expressing sexual needs and desires. ➡️ Insights into the complexities of initiating sexual experiences in a partnership. ➡️Emphasizing as an intimate, connecting experience, not an obligation. ➡️ Strategies for managing periods of low sexual activity and stress. ➡️ Tips for fostering consistent sexual energy and connection. Kate and Eric combine practical advice with personal experiences, guiding listeners through essential aspects of a healthy sexual relationship. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT
2023-11-27
28 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
What Part of You or Your Relationship is it Time to Grieve
This week, Kate and Eric delve into the concept of Grieving as a Growth Strategy. Topics: ➡️ The significance of grieving in personal growth and relationship evolution. ➡️ Why it's essential to let go of the past in order to embrace the present and future. ➡️ Embracing change and transformation in your relationship journey. ➡️ Recognizing the beauty in experiencing new firsts as a couple. ➡️ Shifting the perspective on grieving from a negative to a positive and transformative process. Tune in to gain insights on how grieving can be a powerful tool for personal and relational development, and how it can help you evol...
2023-11-20
21 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Is your partner using you as a Punching Bag/Security Blanket?
This week on the Evolved Marriage Podcast, Eric and Kate explore emotional labor in marriage. Topics: ➡️ Managing Emotional Workload: Strategies for a balanced emotional ecosystem. ➡️ Healthy Dynamics: Avoiding the roles of emotional crutch or outlet. ➡️ Breaking Patterns: Changing generational cycles and fostering mutual support. ➡️ Communication and Validation: Key techniques for understanding and supporting each other. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https...
2023-11-13
30 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Prioritizing Your Spouse - Where Do They Rank On Your To-Do List
This week on the Evolved Marriage Podcast, Kate and Eric discuss the "Cheat Code" for daily connection: Topics: ➡️ Calendarize Your Connection: Make time for family in your schedule. ➡️ Lead with Love: Initiate and plan for meaningful interactions. ➡️ Small Steps, Big Rewards: Simple routines can deepen bonds. Tune in for strategies to strengthen your connection. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.ev...
2023-11-06
22 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Building Relationships to help you THRIVE!
This week Eric and Kate share their thoughts on relationships beyond their own. Topics: ➡️ The importance of being in a healthy relational environment ➡️ Focus on doesn't mean Cutting out. ➡️ Why being a lone wolf puts unhealthy pressure on your marriage. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2023-10-30
21 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Mastering Marriage Communication
On this episode of the Evolved Marriage Podcast, Kate and Eric share a simple formula to Master communication around challenging topics. Topics: ➡️ The two roles you take during challenging conversations. ➡️ Take responsibility for your message in 3 steps. ➡️ Opening yourself up to understanding your partner. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2023-10-23
26 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Staying Connected to your Spouse in 4 Simple Steps
This week on the Evolved Marriage Podcast, Kate and Eric share a "Cheat Code" that keeps their connection strong daily. Topics: ➡️ Why physical touch is an important part of your connection ritual. ➡️ How to share specifically the impact your partner has on your life. ➡️ Creating security and building trust with consistency. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmar...
2023-10-16
23 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Why Do You Keep Having the Same Fight Over and Over Again
On this week's podcast, Eric and Kate share about a topic near and dear to their heart: Conflict. We explain the disconnection cycle and why it's so important to understand. Topics: ➡️ How does your family of origin impact your conflict today? ➡️ What starts the cycle of disconnection, and how to manage it? ➡️ How you and your spouse can work TOGETHER to overcome conflict. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriag...
2023-10-09
24 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Levelling Up Dating in your Marriage
This week, Eric and Kate revisited the evolution of dating in their relationship. Where it started, what was so exciting about it, and how they do it now! Topics: ➡️ Why Dating can be hard in long-term marriages ➡️ Why dates are exciting at the beginning of your marriage ➡️ A three-step system to have kick- dates NOW! CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communicat...
2023-10-02
22 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
The Three Beliefs that are Guiding Your Life
This week, Eric embarrasses Kate. They Celebrate Eric's biz success and Dive into some shadow beliefs we ALL have. Topics: ➡️ The Three central beliefs that are guiding your life ➡️ How our unconscious beliefs show up in our lives ➡️ Why accepting your darkness allows you to experience the BEST parts of life CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2023-09-25
37 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Rebuilding trust in 4 simple steps!
This week, Kate shares her love for the Backstreet Boys, Eric debates outsourcing parenting, and we dive into a powerful topic: Building Trust. Topics: ➡️ The difference between getting someone to trust you and being trustworthy ➡️ Why focusing on trust is a choice (and not for everyone) ➡️ The best way to be consistent with your behaviour, NO MATTER WHAT. CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communic...
2023-09-18
37 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Deepening Emotional Connection w/ your partner
Eric is flying solo this week, while Kate is a little under the weather. As he often does, he wanted to share HUGE value, so he uploaded a training directly from one of the Mastermind Calls he runs each and every week. Topics: ➡️ Big Mistakes you are making when your spouse opens up ➡️ How to help your spouse feel seen and heard by actually saying LESS! ➡️ What to do in order to help your partner open up emotionally For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relations...
2023-09-11
24 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Approaching a Defensive Partner with Tough Conversations
This week, Kate and Eric answer listener questions about communication! Topics ➡️ Figuring out your conflict style ➡️ What are Marshmallow gloves? ➡️ How to own your own side of the street CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2023-09-04
27 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Injecting Positivity into your Relationship
This week, Eric and Kate chatted about focusing on the good things in your marriage (and life), and keeping them front and centre! Topics ➡️Focusing on Strengths instead of shortcomings ➡️Creating more Milestones ➡️Making it up as you go along FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2023-08-28
24 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Hitting the Snooze Button on your Relationship
In this week's episode, Kate and Eric share how they have been disconnected from each other, and how easy it is to keep that cycle going (even though it can get unhealthy). Topics: ➡️ How avoiding your challenges only makes it feel worse ➡️ Why it's so easy to put your connection on hold ➡️ The easiest way to get the ball rolling again on your connection FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://ww...
2023-08-21
25 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Opening Yourself Up Sexually
This week, Eric and Kate open up about what it's like to be kid free for a couple of days, What means for us in the season we're in, and how to have our mind, body, and heart impact our lives Topics: ➡️ How your thoughts impact your desires ➡️ Helping your body experience great ➡️ Opening your heart to your partner CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coachi...
2023-08-14
32 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Never Feel Lonely Again!
This week, Eric & Kate tackle a state of being that Eric LOVES, and that Kate has only connected to recently: Being Alone. Topics: ➡️ The thoughts we have about being alone ➡️ The difference between being alone, and loneliness ➡️ How knowing yourself benefits your relationships ➡️ Reconnecting to your sense of Autonomy CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Com...
2023-07-31
30 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
How To Love Even When It Hurts (Love, Romance, & Polarity part 1)
This week, Kate and Eric talk about feeling anxious about feeling anxious, allowing yourself to FEEL the feels, and what exactly Love means to us. Topics: ➡️ The common beliefs we are taught about love in committed relationships ➡️ Other validated intimacy ➡️ Contractual love and the death of intimacy ➡️ What practicing love actually means, and how you can do it today! CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING...
2023-06-26
35 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Love, Romance, and Polarity
This week on the Podcast, Kate and Eric introduce a 3 part series that helps you understand Love, Romance, And Polarity, and how you can Evolve your relationship through this understanding. Topics: ➡️ An introduction to Love, Romance, and Polarity ➡️ A simple way to understand Love ➡️ How the idea of romance can harm your connection ➡️ Why polarity is healthy, as long as you understand it CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolve...
2023-06-19
24 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
The Death of the 50/50 Relationship
On this week's episode, Kate and Eric have an open conversation about the evolution of relationships, and what's next when it comes to their own evolution. Topics: ➡️ Why Gender Roles kinda suck ➡️ How a "fair" marriage can be limiting for both of you ➡️ Why playing to your strengths is best for everyone ➡️ Raising the Bar for your relationship CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - Th...
2023-06-12
39 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Improve your Performance as a Partner
This week, Kate and Eric discuss why people are obsessed with "getting there", and how when you stop to think about it, you're right where you gotta be. Topics: ➡️Why we LOVE setting goals ➡️How we prevent ourselves from taking action ➡️How focusing on our partner keeps us stuck ➡️Why 1% is better than all or nothing thinking CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Com...
2023-06-05
32 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Is it Love...or Insecurity?
This week, we revisit a conversation about Kate wanting Eric to come to bed, how Kate learned to "grin and bear" it, and why sharing your insecurities might be the healthier thing for your marriage. Topics for this Episode: ➡️ The difference between wanting your partner, and avoiding loneliness ➡️ Why speaking up is important for the health of your relationship. ➡️ Why we typically remain quiet when we struggle. ➡️ How "book-ending" your days keeps you ROCK-SOLID in marriage. CLICK HERE FOR THE EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Com...
2023-05-15
27 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Getting into your Spouse’s Mind
In this episode, Kate and Eric discuss one of Eric's obsessions: Mind Mapping! We chat about: ➡️ What exactly is mind-mapping ➡️ How you are doing it (whether you are aware of it or not) ➡️ How to use it to your advantage! ➡️ How is shows up commonly in our own relationship CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPT For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriag...
2023-04-10
35 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Working together to Heal Jealousy
This week Kate and Eric tackle a topic that impacts EVERY human being: Jealousy. We chat about: ➡️The difference between Jealousy and Envy ➡️How Jealousy is not a feeling, but something we think ➡️How to understand what's actually happening when you get jealous ➡️How to get communicate it with your partner so they can help you out. For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.co
2023-03-20
43 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Stop Solving, Start Living!
This week, Kate and Eric dive into over serving your partner, and how it can create dysfunction in your relationship. We chat about: ➡️The problem with making things "fair" in your marriage ➡️Why feeling guilty is normal ➡️How you are preventing your partner from growing ➡️How you can RAISE the bar for your relationship For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2023-03-06
31 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Getting Out of Your Head and having Better !
Kate and Eric jump into a topic they LOVE to chat about: ! We have a candid conversation about what prevents us from getting out of our heads, and how to get into out bodies so we can be more open to experiencing a great sexual relationship! You will hear: ➡️ The biggest killer of your sexual libido ➡️ How you can help yourself be more open to ➡️ How you can help your partner connect to their pleasure centre ➡️ How it's totally normal to not always desire your partner We hope you love it! ...
2023-02-27
31 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Two Ways to Use your Body to Level-up your Communication!
Kate and Eric are together this week to chat about getting out of your head, and into your BODY! We specifically talk about two ways you can use your body to improve your communication. You will hear about: ➡️ Why you can't get out of useless arguments with your spouse. ➡️ How to support your partner when they are opening up to you. ➡️ How to express your love without saying a single word ➡️ What to do when you really don't know what to say to a struggling partner. We hope you love it! For Men: Join Th...
2023-02-20
29 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Four Principles of Relationship Mastery
In this week's episode, join Kate and Eric as they dive deeper into the 4 principles of relationship mastery. We chat about: ➡️ What Mastery means in our relationship. ➡️ The difference between finite and infinite games. ➡️ Why being stuck in a principle can be unhealthy. ➡️ Why focusing on others will always keep you STUCK! For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2023-01-09
31 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
How to Get MORE of What You WANT!
To kickstart the year 2023, Kate and Eric are back to talk about how to get more of what you want in life. We chat about: ➡️ Four steps to getting more of what you WANT. ➡️ Why some people suck at asking for what we really want. ➡️ How refusing help can lead to a disconnected marriage. ➡️ Why allowing others to help you out is a gift for BOTH of you. For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching
2023-01-02
30 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Four Ways to Take Charge of Communication in your Relationship!
In this latest episode, join Kate and Eric as they talk about simple ways you can LEAD when it comes to communication in your marriage. We chat about: ➡️ The four best ways to have ACTIVE communication ➡️ The difference between an invitation and a request ➡️ Why your demands might be causing more harm than good ➡️ How to create intimacy, without your partner needing to say ANYTHING! For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING...
2022-12-26
38 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Four Ways to Get Yourself (and your Marriage) Unstuck!
This week, Kate and Eric are back to chat about how to change YOURSELF and your MARRIAGE quickly! We chat about: ➡️ The four levels of transformational change ➡️ The fastest way to get out of "limbo" in your marriage ➡️ Why taking more action might not be the answer. ➡️ How to change who you are at the HIGHEST level! For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2022-12-05
36 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Are You Emotionally Numb?
This week, Kate is back with Eric to talk about feelings! We chat about: ➡️ Why feelings aren't good OR bad ➡️ How to create emotional space for you AND your partner ➡️ How to expand your knowledge around your own emotions ➡️ Why Kate does her best emotional work on the toilet (not even joking) For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2022-11-07
34 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Debunking four common myths about marriage
In this week's episode, join Kate and Eric as they debunk four common marriage myths to help you see your relationship in a new light! We chat about: ➡️ The four myths, and why they might be a problem for you ➡️ Why married is the BEST ➡️ Kate's dreams about Eric breaking up with her ➡️ Why only unhealthy marriages don't have conflict! For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication B...
2022-10-24
29 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
How to Create a Healthier Marriage by Being ROCK SOLID!
Kate and Eric get serious about The Solid and Reflected Selves in relationships. If you are constantly worried about what your partner is thinking, this episode is for you! We chat about: ➡️ Why the reflected self can be damaging to your connection. ➡️ How you AND your partner are both adding to the system. ➡️ How being in your Solid Self is so very ! For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage...
2022-10-10
31 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Evolved Marriage Q&A & Communication
Kate and Eric are BACK after a month off, and answer some listener questions! We chat about: ➡️ How to lead your spouse, without being pushy! ➡️ How to make sure you understand what your partner actually wants! ➡️ How we organize our marriage and our life (Kate and Eric's secret sauce!) ➡️ When did Kate realize Eric was no longer a sh*tty husband? For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage...
2022-09-12
37 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
3 ways to grow yourself within your marriage.
Kate and Eric are BACK! We chat about how to use your marriage to grow who you are as a spouse in order to better serve your marriage, without needing your partner to be "on board". We chat about: ➡️ What it means to "Sit in the fire!" ➡️ The best way to get what you want in your relationship. ➡️ Why your identities get in the way of your connection. ➡️ What leads to women choosing Divorce to "get some space". For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship...
2022-07-25
29 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
The 3 things Men want in a relationship (It’s not what you think!)
In this week's episode, Kate and Eric are BACK AT IT! They talk about 3 things men REALLY want in a relationship, and how their wives can help create it! For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2022-06-20
20 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
The Three things women want MOST in a relationship!
In this week's episode, Kate joins Eric again to talk about what women want! Eric takes a stab at it based on his work with men and couples, Kate spends her time educating him, and they talk ALOT about ! For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2022-06-13
31 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Should you tell your partner when they frustrate you? Or let it slide? We share the answer!
In this week's episode, Kate joins Eric to talk about the two-choice dilemma. When your spouse does something that bothers you, should you bring it up, or let it slide? We chat about: ➡️ Why you aren't opening up to your spouse ➡️ The healthiest way to share your thoughts in 3 simple steps. ➡️ What to do in order to prevent future frustration on your end. ➡️ The problem with contemplating the "right" choice. For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching
2022-05-23
22 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Evolved Marriage Q&A. Helping an anxious spouse, dealing with criticism, and adventures in .
In this week's episode, Kate and Eric answer listener questions! We answer questions around: ➡️ How to help an anxious spouse when things get uncomfortable. ➡️ How to have a healthy conversation about being criticized by your spouse. ➡️ How to create more adventure in your life when your spouse is resistant. For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2022-05-02
26 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Kate and Eric are back to talk about what’s Next (and challenges in our marriage)
This week, Kate is Back with Eric to discuss the future of Evolved Marriage. How our biz life has been impacting our intimacy, and what we have learned about ourselves in the last year. We also make WAY too many jokes for our own good! Thank you for being with us at our 1-year mark! For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2022-03-21
15 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
How to Remove Barriers so You Can BOTH Enjoy !
This week, Kate and Eric are opening about Sexifying their lives! How do you create a space in your lives to connect sexually with your partner and live an erotic life you BOTH enjoy! For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2022-01-10
17 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Using your spouse to ”fix” the way you feel when you are uncomfortable
This week, Eric and Kate chat about how Kate leans on the marriage when she has trouble with her experience of life. For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2021-07-26
20 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Using to feel better and why it’s dysfunctional!
This week, Eric and Kate pull an audible and open about how Eric has been feeling lately, and how he uses his marriage, and specifically to feel better about himself. For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2021-07-19
20 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
How to Parent as a TEAM!
This week, Kate and Eric explain their strength-based approach to parenting. They share how you can get on the same page as your spouse, and bring the best out of each other to benefit your kids AND your marriage. You can use these questions to kick start the parenting vision with your spouse: https://drive.google.com/file/d/123XtNwzm6xdZ6GWPNMDhMx0hkTKqT7hD/view?usp=sharing For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FR...
2021-07-05
20 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Are you too busy to get Bee-zay?
This week, Kate and Eric talk about the "busy excuse" that is preventing intimacy from THRIVING in your marriage. How do you get out of the always being busy to create amazing, connected intimacy in your marriage? Listen in to find out more! For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2021-06-28
20 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
We’re recovering codependents....Are you?
This week, join Kate and Eric as they share the difference between codependency and interdependency. How to know if you have codependent behaviour and why it's dysfunctional to your marriage. For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2021-06-14
19 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
Repairing vs. resolving conflict. Do both!!
This week, Kate and Eric explaining the difference between repair and resolve in a marriage. We explain why they are both important, and healthy steps on how to do it. For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2021-06-07
21 min
The Evolved Marriage Podcast
You can’t change your spouse, here’s what do to instead!
Kate and Eric explain why changing your spouse is a horrible idea, and what to do instead. We will give you skills you can practice to create lasting, healthy change in your marriage. For Men: Join The Evolved Men’s Collective https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/emcmastermindsite For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/couples-coaching FREE TRAINING - The Communication Blueprint https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/start
2021-05-31
20 min